This video made me realize how much suppressed anger built up inside in me because I feel like I was never allowed to express myself without out being criticized or judged. And in a result, my anger turned into really bad anxiety and avoidance behavior.

@fabpinay11

2 жыл бұрын

Fvkn same

@jchase5158

2 жыл бұрын

Same here my friend

@sagradoish

2 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@hayden51773

2 жыл бұрын

I felt so called out! I've literally thought...I dont get angry...😆

@sxyteesa0890

2 жыл бұрын

I feel heard for once honestly

While the health system is failing people worldwide, dr. Marks is out to save us all! Thanks for another great video!!

@patrickhanson712

4 жыл бұрын

I would agree!

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome. That's a huge compliment 🙁

@rickguch8350

4 жыл бұрын

@@DrTraceyMarks compliment well deserved

@xfesto5734

4 жыл бұрын

Jaqueline Gusmão Madsen for real!

@LoVe-po7xc

4 жыл бұрын

Yep she’s dedicated and there are so few professionals like her

Wow, a psychiatrist that actually knows how humans work. 😍😍😍

I have started doing this with anxiety. I start to feel the rise in fear, heart palpitations and I just breathe and accept it and console myself with phrases like it’s just emotion. The acceptance is the best part.

@19111959

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Also saying to yourself the phrase O came across... " This is anxiety, not reality"... I think can help as well...

@Stormkwiet

8 ай бұрын

👏🏾🙌🏾

@TonyaA7

2 ай бұрын

I'm gonna have to try this ,cause last few time emotions got the best of me and I was freaking out and wanted to run out the store.. I'm praying and believing for healing and deliverance from all this an it's root causes too. I pray each of you overcome too.😊

Unprocessed anger being shown through anxiety and depression because they're viewed as more acceptable Damn, that hurt my heart a little bit being called out like that 😅

@peekaboo21284

3 жыл бұрын

Wasn't expecting getting accosted! Lol

@vondunspeakable

3 жыл бұрын

Well...I guess I need to have a little talk with myself...😬

@sneakerbabeful

2 жыл бұрын

Suck it up.& grow up. Nobody cares about your feelings.

@Metqa

Жыл бұрын

When people would rather you be depressed than appear rude by expressing legitimate emotion.

@Permissi0nSlip

8 ай бұрын

⁠@@Metqafacts

Trauma deprives us of the ability to control emotions and at the same time it is emotions that protect us from trauma. A vicious circle with constant struggle.

@fifiearthwanderer

10 ай бұрын

Same here!!! Feeling stuck unable to feel emotions and trying to free myself. Stuck in pain and anxiety

@DaJoAni1

10 ай бұрын

For me, work helps. I always put myself on a path of big goals.

@abdullaalteneiji6533

8 ай бұрын

Narrative therapy and exposure

I honestly didn't know that we AREN'T our emotions, I thought our emotions make us who we are.... thank you so much ❤❤

@flaviogarza2376

2 жыл бұрын

No

@lucetteriellabritton20yearsago

2 жыл бұрын

@@flaviogarza2376 ?

@eman-nf4kl

2 жыл бұрын

I took a DBT class a few years ago but I didn't really practice the techniques. I have not been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. A therapist just thought so would benefit from DBT. I don't know if I would benefit from repeating the class or not. Maybe CBT instead?

@pamelapowell4463

Жыл бұрын

Iam getting it understanding satan an my own anger ! It slow progress! I got to exhausted carrying it now!

@atriyakoller136

Жыл бұрын

Same. My emotions and reactions have always been my identity and it's actually scary to think otherwise... I don't know what to identify myself as without them

1. Recognise and allow the emotion 5:10 2. Watch 6:10 3. Be present 7:04

We should not try to get rid of our emotions but rather we need to process them. It's hard though because sometimes they are so strong.

@guntsmith

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, but each time you confront your emotion the intensity should lessen where it is not so strong. Tolerate the emotion and take comfort knowing it will not be so bad the next time around. Eventually you will not feel that emotion since you dealt with it and resolved it... that's pretty much the process.

@violetlove1893

3 жыл бұрын

Strong but you ARE stronger

@elsagrace3893

3 жыл бұрын

Drink, go get a cuisinart and process the heck out of them. How about acceptance? Emotions are not processed. One needs to learn how to use logic, reasoning and sense of self, knowledge of needs WITH emotions.

@SAMEntalhealth

2 жыл бұрын

Yup.. then we get comfortable numbing them, hence addiction, letting go is very important.

@SAMEntalhealth

2 жыл бұрын

They can get so strong yes they drive your physical body to do things

'Oh that's a shame, but I'm happy to be alive'. You're too funny Dr Marks.

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

Lol. It’s very unnatural but people say it... 😊

@senaitabraham4337

4 жыл бұрын

Hello dr

@laticeg1088

3 жыл бұрын

I'm LMAO and she keeps a straight face. It is particularly funny because I have recently lost a job and that is how I tried to respond. Until days later when it hit me like a ton of bricks.

@flaviacotton5029

2 жыл бұрын

People have told me that,be happy you're alive.

@belief7994

2 жыл бұрын

Feel like society says this al the time

Finally letting go of a toxic relationship and this couldn’t have come at a more perfect time😩😩😩

@victoriamayo5774

2 жыл бұрын

Good to hear ❤️

@SummerLuvinAlai

2 жыл бұрын

And how are you doing now?

I like that she's straight-and-to-the-point! No intro, no music and no begging for subscribers! I love it. ☺

@second5952

4 ай бұрын

genuinely a good therapist

The first step in dealing with negative emotions is understanding that there is no such thing as "negative" emotions. There are uncomfortable emotions. There are painful emotions. But our emotions serve a purpose and when you associate emotions with being positive or negative, you immediately create a need for avoidance.

@Mushroom321-

11 ай бұрын

Right!!!, exactly!!!!🎉🎉😮

This is SPOT ON! I've said for the past few years that being raised in the church ruined me emotionally because EVERY SINGLE unhealthy coping mechanism I developed was due to consistently being told that expressing these emotions was something I needed to consistently fast & pray to be delivered from. Needless to say it never worked & it pissed me off when I eventually realized how much damage this kind of conditioning had done to my nervous system that has plagued my my entire adulthood. It stunts your growth and prevents you from developing mature ways to process the emotions & move on. My problem early in life was being too nice, letting people walk over me because what I was taught. Now I have anger issues I struggle to get under control from years of suppression.

@mph1ish

26 күн бұрын

Hi just wanted to share that although that was your experience, fasting and praying does help me. A lot of psych issues are exacerbated by demons and they flee from those weapons. God bless.

@TheNisiu

26 күн бұрын

@@mph1ish I appreciate your input. However, fasting & prayer never worked for me personally. I have a mom who's an evangelist. I've spent MANY many years trying this and it didn't help. Not even a little. But I'm glad it worked for you.

@mph1ish

26 күн бұрын

@@TheNisiu No, I understand that it didn't work for you. Sometimes our sufferings are meant to help someone else.

I suffer from anxiety. I always thought it was mainly due to the fact I was sexually abused as a child, however, after listening to how my unprocessed/repressed anger can manifest as anxiety or depression this makes much more sense!

@patriciamharris5664

Жыл бұрын

Yup!! Same! 💯🙏💕

@pamelapowell4463

Жыл бұрын

Me to went thought the same thing

@kid-ava

Жыл бұрын

going through the same thing right now too

@margaretdoliet1630

Жыл бұрын

Sorry that happens to you guys.

This was extremely validating. I've journaling my stressors and triggers, noting how I cope and the methods that work best for me, but something was missing. The issue was I was assigning my emotions as "fear-based", when in actuality I was just angry, very angry, but felt bad about being angry. Now I have a new approach to better manage my anger and anxiety.

@breannaflores316

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!!!!!

@magdelineadler4284

Жыл бұрын

Same!

'But if a bear comes in and bares its teeth at me, I WILL wet my pants and run' - hahaha literally laughed out loud at this bit. Thank you so much for putting the effort in and providing these videos! They're so helpful!

@dcryptospace1284

Жыл бұрын

Same here!! LOL

😆 My REAL thoughts are... I HATE my boss and I wanna beat 👏🏾him 👏🏾down 👏🏾to 👏🏾the 👏🏾ground! That is so relatable!!!🤣 All kidding aside, excellent video! Thank you, Dr. Marks! 🙂

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome Rhea. 😄

@preciousjarrett9322

3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Tracey Marks I took the news that I was fired and said that’s sad but I’m happy to be alive especially with living with Covid symptoms

@victoriamayo5774

2 жыл бұрын

Dr marks help us stay out of prison 😂❤️

@DJ-wi9yk

2 жыл бұрын

I was so not expecting that.. haha

@MJ-ji6mv

2 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard!!

I was never allowed to have emotions as a child. Now I’m showing my emotions and people are having a problem with it. I tell my son that I want him to tell me how he feels. When he has a temper tantrum I tell him I want to know what your feeling. And I tell him I understand. And I know why he’s feeling that way and it’s ok.

We've all been told to feel our feelings, not repress them. Finally someone explains HOW to do that safely! Thank you!

"But it's just an emotion, nothing more, nothing less" - Powerful! Once I identify the emotion, watch the emotion and locate it in my body, I then journal out what the subconscious rage is saying in my mind, especially to the other person who I think caused me the anger or upset. I write exactly what I would like to have said to this person that I feel is unjust to me (or fault-worthy or blameworthy). I may not get an opportunity to verbally express my real anger to this person so I write out an "I" statement ending with a statement of what I really needed instead (love, understanding, compassion). Then I release this emotion out of body to my Higher Power and shred my journal write-up as I don't have a reason to hang onto the emotion of that situation or event. Now I can accept that I cannot change the outcome, and begin to problem solve so I can move forward. It's amazing what ideas can present themselves when you have the clarity and confidence to not allow self-defeating behaviour and self-loathing to take over. 💖

I was like, highly doubt this will apply, but I’ll watch out of curiosity. only to hear you say the “I’m happy to be alive” line, that I use on the daily. 😐 solid video. Guess I’ve got some emotional homework to do.

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you SD. You can still be happy to be alive though Lol 😃

Tracey: I can control myself Tracey: 😏 You’re the best♥️

Love this explanation! Negative emotions are so rarely talked about. Love how you say unprocessed anger can show up as depression

@starrseed2687

2 жыл бұрын

So instead I bury my emotions in a pan of brownies and I pick out my eyebrows 🤭it’s like she lives inside my head 😃

Dr Marks I've been to three psychiatrists. You are head ( lovely hair btw) and shoulders above all 3. I feel so bad sometimes, and you are always there on my smartphone. God bless you.

@chinookvalley

2 жыл бұрын

@@NEbluefire The best face-to-face help I ever got was NOT from a psychiatrist, or psychologist, but from a plain ol' family counselor. Some people know how to listen and interpret, some, no matter the amount of training or note taking ~ might ought to be in a different profession.

People always say they haven't seen me angry but that's because I suppress I'm glad to know that its not healthy. I'm not going to fight my anger because I know I can control it.

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

That’s great Norman

Hey, just wanted to say I watched this video just under two months ago while I was going through a VERY difficult time and it helped me and continues to help me so much. Just thought I'd let you know that your videos are impacting lives. Thank you for doing what you do!

I spent years in an unhealthy relationship, repeatedly telling myself my feeling didn't matter. Eventually my body was like..nope. Self talk is natural, and we do it because we are responsible for out bodies health. Please listen to it, and talk it out. It makes a world of difference, and you do matter.💌

The feeling of falling in emptiness and never knowing when it's going to end it's like being in prison in your own body.

@kt6852

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate. Keep working on good mental health. Let's try some of her activities.

@echase416

4 жыл бұрын

Have you looked into DBT Skills? There are some peer facilitate Groups on Facebook for learning the core Skills. Come on over!

Once again, thank you for your extremely concise language, examples, and relateability. Just yesterday my therapist and I went over a lot of this. A huge boost to my tasks at hand in treatment! So cool, Dr. Marks.

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Patrick. How cool is that that this is falling in line with your treatment? I hope your treatment goes well for you.

I was literally my own psychiatrist when I experimented with a psychedelic.This mindfulness strategy is exactly what I experienced, I remember feeling each emotion so intensely, that when I realized I could switch my emotions with different thoughts and ideas, I drastically went through 5 emotions (intense anger, intense sadness, intense compassion, intense happiness, intense laughter)in less than a minute, literally. From that moment on I believe in the Power of Thoughts and so I do my best to fill and surround myself with what I do want to feel and Focus on.

This is so helpful, denying and not recognizing my emotions is definitely a lifelong battle. Will definitely be using these strategies, thank you!

this was so weird, i been feeling insecure and afraid about some things that i have to accomplish in this moment of my life, and to be honest after watch this video and say outloud the template i couldnt helped but cry a little bit. It was liberating cause i been feeling (on the inside) really ashamed and anxious, but this really kinda works, gives some weird form of energy thanks for the video, greets from Chile

I have been using this for dependency and anxiety (seemingly linked for me). When the physical symptoms appear (numbing, shaking, lack of breathing, upbeat heart rate, nausea) I tell myself that this is a response that I've learned, that there is no real danger, and that this will pass soon. This has helped me keep my anxiety down from full blown panic attacks, and I feel like this is a step in the right direction.

Just started to explore psych videos as I begin therapy myself, and I have to say Dr. Marks is the best thing so far. She is clear, concise, and an excellent speaker.

This is refreshing -- most just want you to move on and to act like your emotions are invalid, like you can turn them on or off as a lightswitch, so whatever you fee and do (or don't do) is a "choice" or an attitude. If you pipe up and point out that you want to accept your feelings and not run away with them, people will encounter that you're asking to be enabled in some unproductive way. That's been my experience, at least. It really complicates my efforts to recover from addiction, as well, which is a form of unhealthy escape. People do not need permission to have feelings, period. They don't need to distract, cover up, lie about them, label them as something different, or placate others -- that simply breeds isolation and unhealthy coping mechanisms. The more you push emotions aside and deny them, the bigger the tsunami will be at some point when a moment of reckoning comes.

"I hate my boss and I wanna beat him down to the ground" me about my professors everyday

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

😊

@annmarieknapp

2 жыл бұрын

Don't let a few bad apples ruin education for you. Many of us adore our students.

@queenbee7074

2 жыл бұрын

Wait till u r in the working world n different levels of managements😂

Just a few minutes ago I was having an anger/disappointment attack to the point it was hard to breath and I couldn’t get myself together. I decided to go back to this video. I couldn’t remember any of it, but just that you are very clear and concise. After watching it, I am now better, and with the clarity that I can feel anger about a situation without the guilt of it. Though it may seem obvious to some people, for me it was mind blowing to understand that I can have these emotions, and yet, not be a bad person. Thank you for your videos Dr. Marks. I, like many others, finding them helpful and entertaining at the same time.

My therapist uses IFS and EMDR to help understand and process emotions but sometimes listening to your psychological explanations & definitions just anchor me into the analytical side of my brain that wants to keep my stability going no matter what episode I'm in! 😄 thank you for this exercise!

Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.

@carsonelias4594

Жыл бұрын

Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety levels, I would love to try shrooms

@jorgparker2463

Жыл бұрын

Yes, bergwilly11

@zarkos2313

Жыл бұрын

Where can I find him ?

@patriaciasmith3499

Жыл бұрын

Shrooms was the best trip I had. It was an amazing experience.

@jorgparker2463

Жыл бұрын

@@zarkos2313 He’s on I N S TA

This was a great video. I get so caught up in my emotions at the time and drown in them with racing thoughts. But learning to dismantle parts and understand them are really helping. God bless you! Thanks

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome

It's probably a bad sign that I'm picturing myself trying to do these exercises, but I have the screaming voice of my mother telling me to just stop feeling bad/angry/panicked.

5:45 I wasn’t expecting the 😏 ... that was hilarious in the middle of an otherwise serious video 😂👍

@lylawilson9537

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed! 🤣 I love her little subtle and dry funnies she sneaks into her videos 😍

@ianthejillian433

2 жыл бұрын

I was just gonna post about that face. it was so on point with "now you know you shouldn't beat up bob" haa love it

I use cognitive behavioral therapy to manage anxiety and depression. It works wonders. I’m going to use these techniques when I feel anxiety, and know it’s ok, and do my best to process it, and hope it doesn’t escalate. If it does, it’s ok. Ride the wave 🌊

Omg! The world NEEDS people like you!! Definitely do not hear this incredibly helpful guidance in the “biblical counseling” at church. All you hear is “take your thoughts captive” and “probably need to confess something.” This is what people actually need. Thank you.

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

Your so welcome. 😊

Dr. Marks, you are an angel sent from heaven. You are saving so many lives, myself included. I can't thank you enough. I use your advice every day, especially this video. You just have a way of smoothing life out mentally for me.

I just discovered your channel as I’m working through my highway driving agoraphobia. I wish I was taught about emotions when I was younger. I think I internalized so many emotions that have resulted in some of my anxieties. I’m thankful that I’m seeking knowledge so that I can better understand myself. Thanks so much for sharing this information.

@patriciamharris5664

Жыл бұрын

🙏💕

I know this is older I just wanna say thank you. I've made myself a playlist specifically for when I'm feeling overwhelmed, and your videos are the majority so far. These coping skills DO work for me. It's such a great feeling to be able to care for myself this way. To finally treat myself with compassion and love. Thank you so much, Dr. Tracey!

I laughed so hard at “I’m going to bury myself in a pan of brownies and pick out my eyebrows” because that sounds like exactly something I would do 🤣 Thanks for this video, and all the other great videos Dr. Marks! They are helpful to me and my loved ones

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

So great to hear Eric. Thanks for sharing with your loved ones

@judyscheiber3661

4 жыл бұрын

She's very funny and more to the point, she's genuine. She relates and we can to her.

@Lu.J16

4 жыл бұрын

Lol. 🤣🤣🤣

@priestesspersephone9266

4 жыл бұрын

Eric yes I agree - hilarious !!!

@aebricker

4 жыл бұрын

Eric 💯 meee too! I used to be bulimic and I still pick my eyelashes and eyebrows 😭

I’m working through this with my therapist now. It’s helpful to hear it in different words (and in portable form!). I just wanted to say thank you. Much love ❤️

Eres potente, generosa y nutricia. Me ha enriquecido mucho este video! Un abrazo con el mismo cariño.

Thank you thank you thank you! I've spent so much of my life suppressing any negative emotion and just generally not being allowed to express my emotions to other people, having to be "okay" all the time, knowing that getting angry only leads to bad consequences, etc. I needed to hear this so bad.

Thank you so much Dr. Tracey. I agree with you, women are taught not to express their anger and very often we do not accept that we feel it. I wonder if you have made a video about how to deal with suicidal thoughts? Thanks again ❤️

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

hi Claudia I’m actually working on a suicidal thoughts video right now. It’s been a long time in coming. I haven’t recorded it yet though so it's several weeks away.

@AmazingAmaiya

4 жыл бұрын

@@DrTraceyMarks I am going through this now. I cannot wait for this video! This darkness is tough.

@user-fi9wx2vb9e

4 жыл бұрын

@@AmazingAmaiya You have to seek a doctor or therapist, it's not enough to watch Dr. Tracey, even though she gives very good advice and she is very knowledgeable, she cannot prescribe you medication nor work on your personal issues, stay well my friend!

@AmazingAmaiya

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-fi9wx2vb9e I am seeing someone. I just love watching Dr. Tracey Marks. I am actually having fewer depressed episode's. She is just very informative. Thanks for reaching out though. That was kind of you.

@user-fi9wx2vb9e

4 жыл бұрын

@@AmazingAmaiya I'm so glad to hear it! I also love watching her videos, both for my own ADHD and for my work as a social worker. She is amazing! Anytime! I wish you the best!

Thank you! This was a great video and helped me discover the root of my depression. I have a lot of anger that I do not know how to express and it has caused me a lifetime of depression. I hope that this will give me success in learning how to manage that emotion in a way that is healthy

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Laura. I'll have more on this topic.

I definitely appreciate coming across this video. It’s taught me that it’s ok to feel things with no judgement and the need to keep myself in control.

I appreciate your scripts and your templates sooooo much! Thank you 🤎✨

I've never heard of this before. Thank you for being such a great dr and person.

OMG this excercise was amazing. I finally got back to baseline! I haven't been able to get here for years!

Dr Marks...thank you for posting videos such as these. You have changed my life in more ways than I will ever be able to thank you for on my own. Thank you!

I just wanted to say how helpful this was for me. I have some BPD symptoms but can’t be sure, haven’t received any diagnoses. When you broke down the steps to mindfulness, I practiced it along with you and immediately felt relief. It really puts the emotions into perspective - honoring them without acting on them. I’m going to print out your template and practice regularly. Thank you!

Talk about detaching from negative emotions 🙌🏼 This is the kind of therapy I really need. Real actual sessions like this. Thank you for this videos.

I got tears in my eyes when I watch your video, you say things that I really needed to ear. Thank you.

I am so grateful for your channel- thank you for what you do

Thanks for being there when these feelings arise.

Thanks so much, doc. I’m binge-watching during the quarantine👍🏽 I had so many demons this morning and your name came across my mind.

This is valuable advice. My therapist coached me on doing these things over 30 years ago, and they work!!!

Thank you so much for this video exactly what I need. Appreciate you putting this out there for us💙

Thank you for this. Not a lot of therapists and doctors bring up self-harm as a coping mechanism, and even if they do they don't really tell you how to deal with it. I have heard of the "allow yourself to feel your emotions" but it is so hard to do! You gave me a good template to use the next time I'm overwhelmed.

"I hate my boss and I want to beat him down to the ground!" I have been watching a lot of your videos. Thank you for your help.

Thank you so much. I've been trying to find ways to do this with little support. Everyone keeps telling me I should think the negative thoughts and this was so much better for me. Thank you!

Thank you for making this video Dr. Marks! This greatly helped me confront my emotions. 🙏🏼❤️

I love the wave analogy, as a surfer we go.from riding the best wave ever to wiping out and literally end up fighting for our lives , nearly drownjng . Dealing with that emotional shock is part of surfing larger waves , you MUST let it all go to survive. EMDR has helped a couple friends that have had bad near drowning experiences.

I just found your page. Thank you so much for your content. After this dumpster fire of a year and so many other life changes, I realized I have been just in survival mode and since a few big life events have passed (and the election!) all of these painful emotions are surfacing and I am trying to figure them out. "I'm going to make space for it and I am not going to be afraid of it." I'm going to need to spend some quality time with your videos and my journal!

I discovered these videos because of my research on PMDD. Thank you for the clear and relatable answers to questions that plague so many.

This is so helpful! I truly get enraged and caught up & tangled in it. And, I have terrible OCD especially when I'm frustrated/sad/angry/emotionally uncomfortable. Thanks to my therapist and you Dr. Marks I'm realizing my OCD is most likely my attempts at trying to avoid those negative feelings. Thank you for your explanations.

Wow!!! I have a huge problem with anger (that I've been recently thinking I need to start addressing head-on), and this is probably the most helpful thing I've ever heard! Thank you sooooo much for this video 💜💜💜💜💜💜 Your videos are clear, concise, practical, and most importantly, down-to-earth 💜💜💜

I found this video exactly when I needed it. I was raised to believe anger was not acceptable in a woman but anxiety and sadness were. I went on KZread to escape the anxiety I’m feeling (avoidance). But as I was watching I realized I’m not nervous, I’m angry. It’s easier to process the emotion now that I can name it. I’m gunna work on the coping skills you mentioned to ride this wave. Thanks!

You're a big help when a person needs it most. Many thanks, Dr. Marks and Bless you.

I’ve received more actionable steps to help mitigate my anxiety and depression in your videos than all therapy I’ve received. Thank you.

Thank you Dr. Marks! I downloaded the emotion cards and it is so helpful because I realize that I have suppressed or not acknowledged the emotions that are not in the Happy card. I am a people-pleaser and always wanted to keep all the love ones around me happy. I thought it meant that if my emotions are not positive, I should avoid it, have mental strength to control it, suppress it, not let it propagate to someone else. And if I can't avoid it, I beat myself up over it. I have been dealing with the consequences of that habit. Thank you for showing me that feeling what I feel is just fine.

@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, that sounds like my childhood. That really gets me thinking, thank you.

I wanted to tell you that I had a breast cancer scare in April. Your videos helped me calm down and go through the process with less fear. I had a biopsy and found out all was okay and the wait was much better because of the information you share.

You're literally a hero! Thank you so much for your hard work and dedication :)

Dr. Tracy Please don't ever stop doing this, you've helped me so much & I know many others!

I can see this combined w EFT as being super effective. Thank you.

Thank you I needed this. I have PTSD, dealt with about 25 years of abuse. Anger is an emotion I have struggled with. How do you feel it, can I even get angry? etc. When I get angry I ended up crying instead, like you mentioned I have severe anxiety and depression. I'm on the healing process, but recognize this is going to be a long process.

@luck484

3 ай бұрын

I am sorry that you experienced the abuse. I am encouraged by how you express yourself. I am guessing that describing yourself with the words "I'm on the healing process" could be reframed to acknowledge how much work you have done.

@reginyra8401

3 ай бұрын

@@luck484 Thank you. and you are right, I do need to acknowledge how far I've come more.

Thank you, it’s very important that I heard this from someone who knows how to explain mental health, but also without judgement. I thank you kindly ❤️

“I am Not my Emotions”. Thank you for sharing this important message.

You have helped me so much and I so appreciate your videos!!!

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome Sandra 😊

This is so timely for me. Thank you so much for doing these videos. I've only recently discovered your channel, but you're already a lifeline for me. ❤

@AmazingAmaiya

4 жыл бұрын

Dr. Marks is so amazing! Total game changer watching her every week.

@patrickhanson712

4 жыл бұрын

Agree. She's just so relatable, combined with being an expert in mental health is what makes her so good.

Thanks Dr Tracey, I love your videos they are so accessible and to the point, you've taught me so much. Thank you!

I’m really glad I found your channel! This video is so helpful and explained clearly, with action steps to improve. Thank you for making this channel and coming forward to assist in humanity’s struggle.

Thank you so much for this video. I learned this technique over a decade ago, but a recent concussion robbed me of it. I have been loosing myself alot. This video saved me, i now remember. And the more i think about it , the memories and abilities get clear and more clarity is regained. Thank you , you saved me from my private prison. Truth be told, i wasnt to far from the " fine' "

@Catlily5

2 жыл бұрын

I have learned this also. It is a good reminder.

seems like my depression hitting me up again, because something bad happen in my life. i'm start to oversleeping my self,cry then laughing why do i cry. and as always you come in the right time, mindfulness is what i need. thankyou 🧡

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome yoa yoa 😊

@melodyrogers9473

4 жыл бұрын

Hi depression sucks. Hang in there. Hopefully, it'll be better tomorrow.

Dr. Marks, you’re amazing ❤️ your channel should have more support. The way you talk and explain things is relaxing and makes me feel like there is support other that really gets what we’re struggling with.

This is incredibly helpful. I've been to so many counselors (free mind you) and most of them haven't been nearly as enlightening as this video. Everytime I am irritated by my family bc they overstep my boundaries or disregard my feelings, I sort of freeze, get a headache and feel stressed, and eventually the stress turns to a depressive feeling. But now I know the stress might actually be anger

Wow this was so useful and practical. I would love more videos like this!

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks KC. I plan to make more.

Brilliant video. Thank you so much Dr. Marks!

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome. Thank you 😊

There need to be more therapists like you. You are so good. I’ve never met a therapist as knowledgeable as you seem to be from your videos.

This is literally life changing advice…. Thank you so much I love you 😭

Really good advice. Also, I would like to compliment you on your always amazing, amusing, and creative thumbnails. :)

@DrTraceyMarks

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot Trexpaddock! 😊