How To Completely Change Your Dating Life in 30 Days (My Gameplan)

Most people think it takes a long time to make significant life changes. But what if I told you that you could be in a completely different place in your dating life in just 30 days? If done right, that's true for almost everyone...
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  • @DRFNL
    @DRFNL6 ай бұрын

    The photo shutter effect is hella annoying because it's overdone in these video's. Content is second to none as usual though, great stuff Todd.

  • @Fred-zt5ky

    @Fred-zt5ky

    6 ай бұрын

    I didn’t realize until you mentioned it, now I can’t unsee 😢

  • @mhussain5669

    @mhussain5669

    6 ай бұрын

    For real though

  • @shiManchu303

    @shiManchu303

    5 ай бұрын

    Makes Todd V less boring - Uncle Jeffy

  • @Mechaneer

    @Mechaneer

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah it would be better if the editor just played the sound effect far less often. The effect is fine without the accompanying sound, but the shutter sound makes it jarring, distracting and gives a photoshoot feel which doesn't really match the talking head informative video format.

  • @___rare___
    @___rare___6 ай бұрын

    New year goal!! The 30 day challenge!!

  • @Squibb.Phibble500
    @Squibb.Phibble5006 ай бұрын

    It's a shame how many people out there don't listen to Todd.. I'm 26, but Todd's game is just classy and really fits any situation, he never does something over the top to grab a girl's attention. In fact, Todd looks like a super Boring dude. Which is why I rather listen to him than other dating coaches. He really proves how it's a verbal/emotional game. Change her mood, not her mind 🙌

  • @LeelosAdventure

    @LeelosAdventure

    5 ай бұрын

    Bro I’m 26 too. Just found Todd. Just did my first day of the 30 day challenge. Cool to see someone else same age as me learning from Todd

  • @Firecelebi

    @Firecelebi

    5 ай бұрын

    @@LeelosAdventure Nice, I'm 24, just found Todd. Everything he says makes me feel so excited to go out and talk to girls.

  • @TheSongofSaya

    @TheSongofSaya

    24 күн бұрын

    by the time you buy so much into the "women just want looks and money", you're already digging your own grave in the dating world. how red and black pill believes in how female attraction works is literally bro science, lacking in actual psychological knowledge.

  • @TioMagic
    @TioMagic6 ай бұрын

    conditions for the challenge: 1 put it in the calendar: start and end time and day for 30 days 2 compromise urself to do it no matther what 3 set up a minimum per day. 1 is not bad but at least 3 is recommended 4 pick different places where ur going to approach 5 find a wingman or an accountability partner that ll give u shit if u dont act. 6 dont be too hard on urself, try to have fun so you have fun and dont get discouraged mentally he didnt specified much but i guess its about approaching only girls but i guess it works too if you talk to everyone.

  • @AlexKosSaheli
    @AlexKosSaheli6 ай бұрын

    I did a 30 day challenge last summer. 118 aproaches. Slept with 2 girls. Half the girls sadly didn't speak the language. Still proud of that to this day.

  • @alejandrop.s.3942

    @alejandrop.s.3942

    5 ай бұрын

    Excuse me for the dumb question, but what do you mean with not speaking the language?

  • @alvinblacksmith9100

    @alvinblacksmith9100

    5 ай бұрын

    and from those 2 girls you slept with... are there one of em at least... also don't speak the language?

  • @TheSongofSaya

    @TheSongofSaya

    24 күн бұрын

    They don't speak English that well.

  • @divineonyeaghana7188
    @divineonyeaghana71886 ай бұрын

    I have to agree with Todd on the subconscious game part. I have had days where I would be half asleep and I’m having a smooth game and yes constant practice reduces anxiety both in cold approach and text game

  • @alfuu7537
    @alfuu75376 ай бұрын

    I needed this one ❤️

  • @nali514
    @nali5146 ай бұрын

    God bless you Todd!!! ❤❤❤

  • @ceccodangiolieri
    @ceccodangiolieri6 ай бұрын

    "have fun, this is why it's called the game, not the work!" f×ck yeah! love it.

  • @willhartman300
    @willhartman3006 ай бұрын

    Best Todd V video ever

  • @gitgotta7171
    @gitgotta71716 ай бұрын

    Thank you Todd

  • @OHHnoYOUdidntMAN
    @OHHnoYOUdidntMAN6 ай бұрын

    Thank you Xaneus

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin6 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @pahyzhahyz9634
    @pahyzhahyz96346 ай бұрын

    Please make a video on compliance tests and pattern interrupts

  • @GCOUNDOU
    @GCOUNDOU6 ай бұрын

    where do you suggest you do the 30 day challenge? venues?

  • @jojoey8499
    @jojoey849917 күн бұрын

    Well her we go... I don't have an accountability partner so I guess I'll use this comment section. I'm 22 years old and I must have started watching Todd 5 maybe even 6 years ago now. However I must have done 3 daytime/sober approaches in my life time and am still a virgin. Which is honestly just embarrassing at this point. I'll start on the first of July 2024 and document my progress here. For the first week I'll give updates everyday to make sure I stick to it and after that I'll give weekly updates t'ill the end. Which me luck boys!

  • @dylanruskin666
    @dylanruskin6665 ай бұрын

    I mean this with the utmost repect, how is someone supposed to do this when they work 40+ hours a week and have over 2hrs a day of commute time leaving only the weekends to be able to talk to any women at all?

  • @AlekNik1994
    @AlekNik19946 ай бұрын

    Where can i find about this challenge ? Never heard before

  • @kdog7830
    @kdog78306 ай бұрын

    I enjoy all of your videos Todd! However, I think you need some sleep man.

  • @evgenystarinsky8582
    @evgenystarinsky85826 ай бұрын

    Pure Gold!

  • @karmaschen4035
    @karmaschen40356 ай бұрын

    Please everyone, do yourself a favour and additionaly use positive affirmations if you do the challenge. You can find good ones in John Alexander‘s book „How to become an alphamale“ or learn how to make some positive ones for yourself and use them daily (with no pressure and a good feeling. They must be believable…) . A positive attitude makes all the difference … But it‘s true: I will never forget these 30 days. It‘s crazy, but definitely worth it… 😂❤

  • @TioMagic

    @TioMagic

    6 ай бұрын

    can u give us some of the affirmations please pal? thank you!

  • @karmaschen4035

    @karmaschen4035

    6 ай бұрын

    @@TioMagic I have them in german but i translate some … „I have a high selfworth. I really like to chat with women. I go through life with elegance, dignity and style. I love myself (cheesy but a big one!!!). I feel relaxed, calm and in control. I feel very sexy with women. I relax my body and open up. I feel very good speaking with others. I take space, whereever i am, because i send out selfconfidence. I am a challenge for women, because i have high standards (my favourite!!!). I am a natural leader. I am unpredictable. I enjoy being a good looking alphamale. I am a wild guy when it comes to sex. I am the lover of womens dreams. I am entertaining and interesting. „ Here you go and make sure only to use affirmation that FEEL GOOD and you can believe. If you are used to them, you can also just repeat them in your mind if you are outside, in a bus, train or so.Don’t make it to systematic using them. Speaking them daily for like 3-5 times is enough every once in a while and make sure to WRITE them down on a piece of paper.Be easy with that. Have fun !!!! ✌️

  • @furiousfellow1583
    @furiousfellow15836 ай бұрын

    What a time to drop this video! January is gonna be craaaazy!!

  • @masamangtao6417
    @masamangtao64176 ай бұрын

    I want to do this

  • @jialian93
    @jialian936 ай бұрын

    I was approaching girls for much more than 30 days everyday but it didnt work much. Got compliments, got a few dates, but it was waaaaaay too much effort for very little successs and so many instant rejections.

  • @akinkuotuclinton6591

    @akinkuotuclinton6591

    6 ай бұрын

    Because you are focusing on the wrong thing It will never work for you 1) all you want is either sex or a girlfriend 2) you want your ego rubbed by a lot of acceptance 3) you are outcome focused instead of process Switch your mentality to this and it will start working 1) you are approaching to improve your social skills, to destroy anxiety and to practice the art of smooth talking 2) you are approaching not because you want quick sex but because you are genuinely looking for great connections... so if. A pretty girl disqualifies you, you are not bothered, because someone that connects genuinely won't disqualify you 3) focus on process You have a goal of approaching 500 people And after each approach you go home to think about what you could have done better and what you did well and you are determined to do this the next day 4) be happier that you are doing what you are doing don't be in a state. Of expectation be in a state of oh I'm happy I get to do this, finally some thrill in my life 5) in fact when you do all the above you will be hoping you don't meet someone genuine soon because that might stop you from continuing Good luck in 2024

  • @fasileyayu

    @fasileyayu

    6 ай бұрын

    @@akinkuotuclinton6591bro this’s so helpful.

  • @fasileyayu

    @fasileyayu

    6 ай бұрын

    You got great advice so take it all. What i want to add is you got balls and i respect that.

  • @jeffycrew5084

    @jeffycrew5084

    6 ай бұрын

    Sometimes some people to need to invest some money to get coaching In person to kick start that learning curve man. Nothing wrong with that, I have spent about 20k USD in my life on game content and coaching. Totally worth it if you are unhappy with this aspect of your life. Just like if your finances were not in order, you would hire a financial planner/advisor. Invest some money to improve if you're not sure what you need to fix bro. All the best!

  • @jeffycrew5084

    @jeffycrew5084

    6 ай бұрын

    It could be a technical error, or it could be an inner game error which usually shows as a technical error. I highly recommend spending some money to get it sorted bro. Best program i have ever found with that 20k was Gabriel Greys online program and that is including having downloaded majority of RSD content and even todds, Gabreils program is just insane man.

  • @Neon_toaster
    @Neon_toaster6 ай бұрын

    Okay but who has 30 days free and the money to be going out every single day?... or am i missing something

  • @danielhall271

    @danielhall271

    6 ай бұрын

    3 opens a day, if you are in a location with a lot chicks you could probably get through that in less than 20 minutes, 30 if you had to hunt around. Including commute time I don't see this as requiring more than an hour a day.

  • @rewok11
    @rewok116 ай бұрын

    Your signup form doesn't work, I signed up but didn't receive an e-mail.

  • @michaelpicone-cy1dy
    @michaelpicone-cy1dy6 ай бұрын

    Todd post some rejection infield

  • @Anonymityfan
    @Anonymityfan6 ай бұрын

    Never been a part of the 'game' world but how does one practically do this? Do you walk around the streets for hours or coffee shops or what?

  • @egor.okhterov

    @egor.okhterov

    6 ай бұрын

    Probably

  • @jialian93

    @jialian93

    6 ай бұрын

    Pretty much.

  • @imaginingtech9639
    @imaginingtech96396 ай бұрын

    How much does the boot camp cost?

  • @allmines1092
    @allmines10926 ай бұрын

    Where can i find this 30 day challenge?

  • @adamsearle8160

    @adamsearle8160

    6 ай бұрын

    You just go out and do it... 3 approaches everyday. But if you need some guidelines and don't know about "Rules of the Game: The Stylelife Challenge, Master the Game in 30 Days" that's where to go. (Follow up to "The Game" by Niel Strauss). Alternativley, search for something from Todd he must have something out there!

  • @yadavabhinav507

    @yadavabhinav507

    5 ай бұрын

    Neil Strauss

  • @Jaa_morant
    @Jaa_morant6 ай бұрын

    What’s makes game next to impossible to me is genetic eye bags under the eyes. I’m just 20 but they add up so much tiredness to my look. How am I supposed to keep a solid eye contact? It’s basically excess fat that have to be removed via plastic surgery, however I’m at best will be able to do in in 6-8 months. In the meantime I’m in uni and have so many opportunities to meet new people but can’t beat this insecurity. And yeah, it looks really bad. Only good in low light setting/evenings. I’m slim, having a clean af diet for years, but this issue is with me since I was a kid, just the way my ( otherwise a pretty good looking) face is stractured

  • @ninjakiwi1324

    @ninjakiwi1324

    6 ай бұрын

    that sounds like an inflammation issue i had the same issue with always looking stoned or hungover. doing the lion diet for 2 months fixed my eye bags and I feel great. If you do the diet make sure you are eating enough fat.

  • @Anonymityfan

    @Anonymityfan

    6 ай бұрын

    If you have a genuine issue might be worth seeing a doctor but I have heard rubbing tea bags under your eyes or using some skin care products can help.

  • @adamsearle8160

    @adamsearle8160

    6 ай бұрын

    Sounds tough man. But there are so many success stories around from people who do game and start out with some insecurity about their looks. We all have something that we need to overcome in order to succeed, knowing what that is means you are already half way there.

  • @egor.okhterov

    @egor.okhterov

    6 ай бұрын

    If you put ice cube 🧊 on that place, does it make any difference?

  • @Trump-A-Bad-MF

    @Trump-A-Bad-MF

    6 ай бұрын

    To be fair it doesn't matter Unless you are actually tired and slept they help you be better looking

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS6 ай бұрын

    Repetition is the mother of skill....

  • @kingslavd661
    @kingslavd6616 ай бұрын

    I'm struggling with freezing. I want to approach but something is stopping me from doing it and or saying anything. It's so frustrating that I can't figure out a way to break this.

  • @ceccodangiolieri

    @ceccodangiolieri

    6 ай бұрын

    it's the toughest part of game. just do it and trust your brain is a technique I like the most. there is also the 3 second rule rhat you can look up. I actually searched the topic and before you freeze, the brain has made a decision (not to go) 10 milliseconds prior to the tipping point (and then it will rationalize and try to come up with an excuse). knowing this helps a lot because you become aware that your brain is tricking you into preservation mode. so every time you go for it and ignore it altogether, you're kinda reprograming your brain to realize that it is ok m and approach anxiety is reduced but never completely dissappears.

  • @KendoOCE

    @KendoOCE

    6 ай бұрын

    Honestly what helped me was getting some really great interactions from cold approaches. It’s hard to believe in the beginning but sometimes it can go really really well. Once that happens a few times you get more confident each time.

  • @philmomslim526
    @philmomslim5265 ай бұрын

    This is hard when u work a lot

  • @user-kx4ti9db8g
    @user-kx4ti9db8g5 ай бұрын

    I don't like the part of the 30-day challenge when he Todd says that you might get laid a couple of times. Doesn't anybody fear getting a veneral disease?

  • @50tigres79
    @50tigres796 ай бұрын

    how do you do it when you are fkin exhauste after i finished my software developer job at 5PM

  • @reginaldlucky1056

    @reginaldlucky1056

    5 ай бұрын

    Bro you finish at 5 pm there’s a lot more time left in the night and you can do some in the morning or during lunch.

  • @eray2323
    @eray23236 ай бұрын

    yes but what is 30 day challenge?

  • @masamangtao6417

    @masamangtao6417

    6 ай бұрын

    Cold approach girls in public every day for 30 days

  • @egor.okhterov
    @egor.okhterov6 ай бұрын

    I cannot do it. Only Smith & Wesson can help me now 😂

  • @differentone_p
    @differentone_p6 ай бұрын

    nice

  • @markvenediktov6930
    @markvenediktov69306 ай бұрын

    wait one a day ? lol i barely do one a month !!

  • @cxa011500
    @cxa0115004 ай бұрын

    3 approaches a day? I don’t even know 3 places to go. 😅

  • @brendanpalmer8502
    @brendanpalmer85026 ай бұрын

    This sounds awesome and I’ve tried this recently but the women in my small town are all too young or too old… NEED to fuckin move

  • @sonicnendez

    @sonicnendez

    6 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately. Small towns suck for dating after school is over

  • @jakeh2049

    @jakeh2049

    6 ай бұрын

    I have the same problem, compounded by the fact that my job is “too good to quit” (aka golden handcuffs).. mid 6 figures, low stress, DB pension @50, sweet benefits and perks.. Been struggling with it for a while and I do feel the time ticking, haven’t come up with a solution yet..

  • @AlexKosSaheli
    @AlexKosSaheli6 ай бұрын

    😇

  • @RichDatingDragon
    @RichDatingDragon6 ай бұрын

    😎

  • @ronxt4843
    @ronxt48436 ай бұрын

    who is gonna call Todd out for being a total nerd

  • @hughjyip
    @hughjyip6 ай бұрын

    Basically Alex’s 4wN 😂

  • @jakeh2049

    @jakeh2049

    6 ай бұрын

    Alex does multiple seminars, lets you study a bunch of uncensored infield, does photoshoots, fixes up your date app profiles, is there to push you and give you instant feedback and 1-on-1 deep dive sessions… you get to meet wings who are doing the same thing with you, there is an open invite to partake in future programs, probably more I’m forgetting but yeah, I’d call it a 30 day challenge on steroids and well worth it for the relatively cheap price tbh.

  • @dr.strange6458
    @dr.strange64585 ай бұрын

    once i get my finances in place ill get some gf

  • @Marekkk307
    @Marekkk3076 ай бұрын

    The same clown xd

  • @fasileyayu

    @fasileyayu

    6 ай бұрын

    Have you tried approaching a woman?

  • @claudioR9671

    @claudioR9671

    6 ай бұрын

    @@fasileyayuprobably he has an idea in his mind on how it is to approach a female, catastrophic results guilting people who shares real advise