Glad to see you guys are loving the video! If you'd like to learn more of the mentalities of WINNING at game and at life, check out the FREE course here: toddwinnergame.com

@HiDibakar

10 ай бұрын

Almost Eerie how everything about your past matched mine perfectly 😮 Todd is basically my future version

@bbking006

10 ай бұрын

One of your all-time best videos, Todd. Did you meet that girl at Prado?

@PremiumUserUltra

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for this bro, here's to more success

@ian9toes

5 ай бұрын

What was your ELO Todd?

Todd is truly proof that obsession beats raw talent every time

@jfkst1

10 ай бұрын

Todd has talent. His interests and success are indicative of a high IQ individual. If he weren't well above average IQ, he wouldn't have been able to develop a systematic approach for relationships.

@jc3productions362

10 ай бұрын

Only if the talent is lazy

@LOGOASSASSIN

10 ай бұрын

Dave Trott once said when starting out; I was surrounded by more talented people, I just worked harder. Dave Trott Adland legend net worth at least $30M en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Trott_(advertising_executive)

@Kanjiro0

10 ай бұрын

@@southeastmissourihypnosisf8418 when he was in rsd he said that he read the game and mystery method and tried them

Imagine you had backed out of the situation in that museum. Maybe this channel wouldn't exist. Interesting how these split second decisions change our lives.

@piemasta93

3 ай бұрын

Damn. That’s deep

What Todd did:- Stopped being shy and caring about results, trained his "machine learning model" with more and more and more girls, tested them again and again, and kept getting better results while learning something new.

@Breacher1302

10 ай бұрын

But what if you are realy ugly?? Alot of women say it to me... '' Your just to ugly ''

@nobody2022

10 ай бұрын

​​@@Breacher1302just make yourself handsome and rich that's a solution.

@marsius7909

5 ай бұрын

@@Breacher1302 Depends on what exactly makes you ugly. As a general kind of advice - find a style which will make the best of what you have. In worst case just use some make-up, girls use it to make themselves look better, don't see why a guy can't do the same if he really needs it

@robwithrbk

2 ай бұрын

@@Breacher1302 I have found with women, that if their body is in good shape, suddenly their face is more attractive. Have you done an honest assessment of your physique? Getting lean and with some muscle will enhance your facial features. Do you maintain your hair properly? Here's a tip on hair. If people notice you got a haircut "hey bob, you got a hair cut yesterday" that means you're waiting too long. Nobody should notice that a man got a haircut. If they do, you're not maintaining properly and you probably have a neck full of hair etc. So my friend, get in shape and fix your hair. If you have a good looking friend with style, ask him for style points.

@Breacher1302

2 ай бұрын

@@robwithrbk Thanks for advice but I already did that. 130kg to 92kg weight, every two weeks to barber (friend of me), Dentist, skin care and stuff. I got everything , own house/car/motorbike, I clean and do my own laundry (I'm fully indepedence). I run two jobs and only got a loan on my house. all the rest is paid. I don't play videogames or drink/smoke/drugs, slighty addicted to energy drinks because of workout.... I really don't know what is still wrong....

lots of approaches over many years having very high social intelligence and being well groomed and earning a decent living can overcome the other things. The reality is no one on earth has a 100 percent close rate not even Chad. Todd had to do all this on his own and I salute him for it.

"What one man can do another can do" has been my favorite quote of my lifetime. Originally heard it from the movie The Edge. Loved hearing you say that Todd, you're a legend!

I noticed true results only start when you kill your EGO. In this story you told how your parents raised you to be result driven and through chess and soccer you had the mindset of practice makes perfect, it means you accepted early on that not knowing something is the beginning and not the end. All my friends who suck with girls have the same problem (I myself had it as a 22 year old virgin just over 3 years ago) they all want to convince themselves that if they wanted to they'd have girls but they just don't have the time for it. I chose at one point to say I wanna get girls not just daydream about getting them and once I managed to shed the ego I discovered just how natural I was at flirting and chatting up strangers and escalating. And I am by no mean at the peak of my skills but I have seen so much progression in the past 3 years it was as you put it "mind blowing". A good chunk of the credit goes to you and other pickup oriented youtube channels as you helped guide my hand so to speak and save me from a lot of pitfalls with girls. I do hope this video reaches the next 22 year old virgin before he gives up completely and resigns to hating women as so many young men seem to do these days

@Hugo-xj2mj

10 ай бұрын

“Not knowing something is the beginning, not the end” I like this

No BS Todd's situation is the same as master yoda. "Judge Me by my size do you? My Ally is the force of game, and a powerful Ally it is"

thanks so much uncle Todd ! I really needed to hear this message today. I appreciate you making this video

One thing that really helped me was therapy and understanding my value. As a physically fit man who makes over $200K a year, I have WAY more to offer women than they have to offer me. Once I truly believed that it was a game changer.

@Cheesecake99YearsAgo

10 ай бұрын

How did you make over 200k ?

@EdisonDudoit

10 ай бұрын

Self worth is huge, congrats man! And, there's a boss bitch out there that will feel lucky to be with you, and you with her.

@BaronStVon

10 ай бұрын

Same. I came from a low self-esteem background. It's a crazy shift to realize you offer legitimate value, a woman rejecting you isn't always due to something "being wrong with you", etc. I strongly feel that instructors don't emphasize this enough

@kaushalaggarwal8618

10 ай бұрын

Yess That's the secret (Realising self worth)

@andrewbruskin6923

10 ай бұрын

@@Cheesecake99YearsAgo as someone who makes over this salary, you can typically earn over 200k by: A) being senior level management at either a fortune 500 firm or in the STEM (science/tech/engineering/math) fields; B) Being a doctor, a lawyer (this depends on the area of practice if you work for someone else) or in finance/select other white-collar professions, or C) Starting your own business. As to how I make this money, I own a law firm. I also agree with the OP of this comment.

I can really relate to that. Thanks for sharing!

Todd, you are the best, big fan forever! Ps I lived in Denver on and off for many years.

Great message, mindset is fundamental, learning is a process. Be positive, take action, have courage and hopefully a little luck. Thank you

love the backstory and great advice

Nice story todd..it gives us courage to continue

Thanks man. Inspiring!

Best video ever made. This is going to be so helpful to everyone doing everything.

This guys attraction comfort & commitment model has 10xd my online dating results - thanks Tods

I don’t know if you’ve been working out man but this new look works for you . Keep it up

Love the video! Some gems of inner game here which is great to see from Todd

Thank you Todd 🙏for sharing your story: I will act inspired by it. Grazie 🙏 from Italy

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

Prego

Thanks Todd, you seriously are inspiration and encourages me to keep on improving my interaction with women!

I really like how well this advice abstracts into improvement at just about any skill. thanks Todd

Needed to hear this.

Positive mindset sounds like the key

That is some extreme luck. In all my time going to school I never encountered anyone that was THAT friendly. Let alone an attractive woman that was friendly enough to invite me to her place. They would hardly ever even acknowledge me. Either that was an awesome school or mine was one of the worst.

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

I don't think they were being friendly because they were attracted to me, particularly... they were just being nice and hospitable to a prospective student of the school -- they were being good hostesses and taking me under their wing.

Thank you for sharing your story and insights Todd. I can see this rings true. I've had pretty much the opposite experience in college. I only had like 1 girlfriend and never got invited to parties. I went out a lot and went to some due to being drunk but was never able to pick up girls and felt hopeless. I'm naturally a pretty negative person with low self esteem. I have to really battle my learned helplessness and growth mindset. Due to this negative mentality I have failed and struggled a lot in life. I am now in a really dark place and feel extremely fake when trying to be fun or happy. I always feel the rejection as a confirmation of my bias that I suck. I don't know how to get out of this because it feels so true to me. Whenever I try to grow I persist further but it's like internally something is resisting. Like I'm just going through the motions and I can't actually get lasting success. Your story shows it's possible. Maybe you could do some more videos on inner game and how to develop a positive mindset even when you feel like it isn't true or you're worthless. I don't know maybe my mentality is genetic because I've really struggled with it most my life and I'm 37 now.

@gianpaolo19

10 ай бұрын

The only way I know to overcome what you describe is to stop thinking and start doing...YOU HAVE TO GO OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE and start massive action. I can understand your feelings because I was in that dark place you described. I am a male of 38 and for me everything started to change 7 months ago when I decided to DO instead of THINK. It is scary and You have to be committed but it works....greetings from Italy

@ChicagoJ351

10 ай бұрын

You may want to consider that your no different than anyone else and you simply have all these negative anchors you’ve built up in your thinking. Action combined with the right mindsets may be the best therapy.

@r34ct4

10 ай бұрын

I think his story shows the opposite. He was part of the cool douchy gang in highschool, on the soccer team AND chess team, and ran circles around everyone socially (just not women(yet)). Then in college it effortlessly transferred into being a well known well liked leader of men being invited to all the parties. The only thing this video correctly identifies is that he's short and had acne. That being said, I was someone closer to what you went through and I can tell you that self pity is addictive. You are addicted to the narrative you've created for yourself and if you don't snap out of it NOW you're fucked forever. Snap out of it.

@tmstani23

10 ай бұрын

@@ChicagoJ351 Thank you I appreciate the response. I'm working on my growth mindset again and taking action. I know there are times where it has worked in the past.

@tmstani23

10 ай бұрын

@@r34ct4 Thank you I know you're right as I've seen it play out for decades and I doubt I'd want to make it more decades with this mindset and reality. I will snap the F out of it.

Yes Todd, love this! You got this kings. Keep up the grind and focus on yourself and results will come 💪💪

Thank you!

thanks for sharing

I can literally feel the positive emotions of adrenaline you’re describing at each approach! Thanks Todd for sharing!

He is presently the world's best PUA. Love him , Todd is a god.

I have realized in my own life as well that working harder and/or smarter beats talent every day. In a way, being a little behind can be a blessing in disguise. Apply it to business, game, the gym, anything. If you put in the hours you will get good.

Luck is the residue of design

All these years I've been listening to Todd and this is the first time I see him talking about his parents

I dont "game" anymore, but I wish I knew that (among a few other things) back in the Mystery days. And not only then. That "perform, perform, perform" mentality went on for a lot of years until it reached this new level of just being a f'ing human and understand learning, healing traumas and start living your true life.

Much the same here, Todd... It's been a mighty long road to get here...

Todd seems like a nice guy, glad to find this channel

I went to a boys school in the late 90's, absolute no girls around. When I was 15, me and a couple of friends went around town and handed out flyers to random groups of girls inviting them to a party we were having. Just me and 5 other guys. We expected maybe a couple of girls to show up, but like 30 girls ended up showing up and I pulled 10 girls that night. All it took was being seen pulling 1 girl and then I had them coming up to me for the pull with no words exchanged. I have yet to top that night numbers wise, it definitely setup life expectations going forward though.

@Mew2Win

9 ай бұрын

Different female egos back then

ok you are 5,7 and king!! i love you man

I took action when I was 16 and it resulted in 6 years of fighting with PTSD😂 I literaly got panic attacks when I was at the parties or was thinking about aproaching or writing anything to the girls I actually had a chance with. At the age of 23 I finally defeated PTSD, got my job together, polished my body(gained like 30 kg of mucle, I was 65 kg when my hight was 190 cm), and then I ran into this chanel, learned everything that I could imlement in my game(which is hard when you have inborn stutter) and I got really good results for zero expirience virgin who lives in a litle atomic town in the midle of great russian nowhere with a very limeted amount of girls. So If you got really unlucky growing up, you still got a chance, but it would take a great amount of work. Even now I have to work really hard keep my body in shape and ability to speak without making my listener ears to bleed, keep positive mindset, and also gain experience to get a well paid job in a major city.

Your approach to GAME reminds me a little Dan Bacon's style of coaching.

You're a legend Todd.

great video true

Thanks Todd been following you for years you still inspire me to approach girls and enjoy life. Thank you for all the value you provide us.

Thank you Steven Stamkos

10:26 that’s the thing. I’ve cold approached, tried OLD, tried warm environment stuff in HS AND FAILED. All following your tips. Just face it, fems from my generation are different

@Mew2Win

9 ай бұрын

& I’ve been following you for YEARSSSS. Unlucky + negative reinforcement 12:35 if that were true, I’d be a high echelon american living a glorious life

Appreciate you 🫡

Please write a damn book !!you are the Best

Todd is the goat

What to do when you get ghosted?

@dandangalodangalus9082

10 ай бұрын

Nothing. On to the next girl.

I’m more interested of what Tod majored in college. I was hoping he’d mentioned it.

@Samuel-vw2wy

10 ай бұрын

I think he said it was engineering

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

Mechanical Engineering

@EnbL0187

10 ай бұрын

@@ToddVDating that is impressive!!

well...that´s the main difference in confidence and motivation.if you are expecting failure because of whatever and you haven´t that positive foundation which motivates you then you end up like me...even if you can see someone who obviously finds you attractive you will do nothing/ or you will flee in face of all that bs you taken so far. it´s true...you have sucess, then next, next and you wil be sucessfull, you will have that drive. you have failure, then next, next and you will become hopeless, you will have that shadow in your head.

5'7" ? Go to the Philippines , East Timor or Indonesia , still a giant there ! lol Stay away from Holland or Belgium though...

Yo Todd we want to see a debate with Michael Sartain.

It is better to start from bottom and work your way up than start from top and go down. When you start from bottom you need to work hard to provw something to yourself and in that process you learn something usefull.

feel gulty for ur sina nd believe in jessu chirst youll e saved.

You got extremely lucky when approaching college girls when you were a virgin. I was a virgin and when I talked to women I never got opportunities like that. I've approached over 1000 girls and get a ton of Instagrams/numbers but not enough success to even make it worth it. Better off on dating apps.

@Samuel-vw2wy

10 ай бұрын

If you are doing better on dating apps by definition your game must suck

@jialian93

10 ай бұрын

@@Samuel-vw2wy I just talk to girls like normal people. Ive hooked up through approaching, got instant dates but the results are few and far in between. I feel like my height and race kinda hurts me a bit. I've had girls tell me I made their day quite a bit.

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

Commented this elsewhere, but I think they were just being friendly. I wasn't exactly doing "man to woman" approaches or hitting on them. I was just asking them for advice and guidance.

@Samuel-vw2wy

10 ай бұрын

@@jialian93 yes but that should be even more true on dating apps, in real life you should do better because you can use voice, charisma, game and aren’t competing with a hundred other guys who also matched her. If you do worse irl it means your game is actively hurting you.

@jialian93

10 ай бұрын

@@Samuel-vw2wy I feel that but most times I say "I thought you looked cute so I wanted to say hey" and get an instant rejection. I make sure to calibrate but it's just so many instant rejections or numbers with nothing after

Hey Todd, Thanks for sharing this this video. Got a 2 part question - Would love to know how would you manage your time with your other responsibilities with game being such a big part of your life? The dates, the sex, the addictive feeling of hot women... this takes up so much time and energy that I've often wondered how would you focus on other things in life? Can imagine going on dates after dates, probably constant sex would leave you feeling drained and tired to do other things. How would you go about dealing with that? Ever took breaks? Part 2 If you did take breaks, how would you convince yourself that it is perfectly okay to take breaks and that taking a break and not approaching hot women, even if you have the chance, doesn't make you any less of a man? Letting go of the desire to have sex with hot women can be a tough thing to put a pause on and something I've struggled with a lot as this voice in my head tells me i am insignificant for not approaching her. I wanna take a break but that desire to game is so strong out of fear of feeling less. What would you tell yourself and how would you go about taking breaks from game without feeling less of a man for not approaching hot women? Would love it if you could share some light on this. Thanks in advance, cheers.

@bbking006

10 ай бұрын

I am not Todd, obviously, but I can address your question. When you have less spare time, you find yourself using it more wisely. Basically, the more constrained and crushed your schedule is, the more you get done. If anything, having attractive women in your life gives you the strength, drive, and motivation to attain success in every other aspect. Therefore, the solution is not to search for an excuse to take a break, but to embrace that impulse that tells you that you should not miss out on opportunities. It is kind of like if you are a sculptor who has made a commitment to himself to sculpt every day. Some days he is going to feel sick, or tired, or will just have a busy day, but if he comes back to chisel every damn day, he will attain success.

there somethin common with people who want to train others how to be successfull with girls. They don't have happy, longterm relationships and/or family, yet still they want to teach you how to achieve it.

I can’t seem to overcome my self image regarding my age. Becoming single again at 38, I find it hard to approach beautiful woman who I can’t clearly tell if they’re yearly 20s or late 20s, and thus getting the “ew creep” reaction. Any advice? Just go for it anyway? 🤷🏻‍♂️

@RandomBros88

10 ай бұрын

Take advice from this channel and just practice. I'm 35 and have an 18 yo FWB, the advice I've heard here works, but trial and error.

@michaeljjt1976

10 ай бұрын

I'm in my 40s and have dated a number of girls in their early to mid 20s. It's all about you, your energy.

@saughs

10 ай бұрын

Yep. I remember thinking in my late 20’s that I’d be “creepy” to girls in their early 20’s. I’m 34 now and am dating a 24 year old… spending time with her and her friends made me realize that being 30+ is often an advantage. They almost view guys their own age as kids compared to guys in their 30’s and 40’s.

@michaeljjt1976

10 ай бұрын

@@saughs yeah, many of them have experienced such bs with boys their own age that they're tired of it, so an older man is appealing

@JBrtn85

10 ай бұрын

Thanks you all, glad to hear this! Out of a long relationship, and this is all new to me again.

Can someone explain why the museum line was bad? I don’t get it

4:56 Oh, please, Todd. Don't be one of the people who confuse *ASOCIAL* with antisocial.

5:14 The fact that you got good at soccer in highschool, were also great academically and also part of the douchebag cool kid club says a lot more than you let on, about your place in the cutthroat highschool social hierarchy. You were socially savvy as well. Only lucky thing was you being told to go open that girl, but i think something is missing from that story too (theres a reason the douchebags asked you specifically to talk to her. They didn't bully you into it which means you were the leader of that group). Not trying to be mean but based on my experience and of knowing people like you in highschool, you were by no means socially inadept. 5:14

@Kanjiro0

10 ай бұрын

he said that they pressured him because he was the best one to speak spanish

@r34ct4

10 ай бұрын

@@Kanjiro0 sure, that's what he says. But he was probably the best one at other things in that group. The simple fact that he was hanging out with that crowd of douchebags on a highschool trip to a museum already sets the stage. Just imagine yourself if you were an introvert or social outcast in highschool who you'd be hanging out with on a trip like that. I'm just trying to poke holes in this specifically crafted and curated narrative he's painting. Lots of variables at play here, and this is one scenario out of hundreds that he's using here. Scrolling through the comments it's just a little off-putting how easily people are eating this up. I'm not saying he had a tougher start than most, but we have to look at the socializing situation holistically

@Kanjiro0

10 ай бұрын

@@r34ct4 yeah it makes sense, he’s also lying about "I had to learn this all on my own because the advice back then was bad" yet when he was in rsd he said multiple times that he read the mystery method and tried it and some of it works, even to this day his game includes a lot of the old school techniques like comfort and demonstration of higher value

@marimoerostraw

10 ай бұрын

the man has said he had been hit on by a hot girl (potentially more than once?) back in his school days -literally unprovoked, with him having said nothing to her before the school experience for the average teenaged boy is being completely INVISIBLE to 98% of the girls, usually treated with a mix of indifference and/or contempt by them Todd is trying to paint a "Look at me I've had a rough time at school" "underdog" story, and how he sets an example by overcoming his "struggles" but in reality, he had a WAY above average life experience and really favorable circumstances, to give him the much needed positive reinforcement so he can get a leg-up socially in the following years of his life

@Mew2Win

9 ай бұрын

@@marimoerostraw📠

10:06. I can see how this can develop. It's the thrill of the hunt. If it weren't for rejection and the risk of embarrassment, the victories wouldn't feel meaningful.

All these lucky incidents had one thing in common: A *reason* to approach - Once you have a reason you can do anything you want - AKA “entitlement”..

Luck is when preparations meets opportunity and the more brave tou are the more opportunity you gets to expierience something new and then you could prepare for next time

Please make a video on how to use social proof and preselection and get someone to introduce you to the girl

That wasn't luck. That was you using your brain and taking action. Great video btw.

Todd how much money do I need to get your coaching.

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

Depends how much or little you want of it... www.toddvdating.com/coaching to get details.

Can you do a video on pattern breaks

did you ever get the reputation that “oh he talks to every girl”

It is Story, Teach, Tool

5’7 and played soccer? You must’ve been pretty good

genius

Damn, are life is similar. I just never had the lucky success or any success yet. Stinks cause I don’t have access to any attractive women. Hindsight is really shitty 20/20. I guess you gotta be out there to get lucky.

what's your chess rating ?😅

I never only watched Todd for game. I watched him to learn how to socialize, be better in the work place, learning to become more grown and more of a man. You helped me become the good man I am today & I'll always be grateful for that 🙏🏽

Cause you made a science out of something that should be simple.

One thing a lot of guys don’t understand is that much like how men’s preferences for women differ, women’s preferences for men also differ. I’ve seen short, fat, conventionally “unattractive” dudes with cute girls many times. Everyone has a different taste.

@chimera5542

10 ай бұрын

But then at the same time, a guy who is unconventionally unattractive should also understand that for him it's more of a numbers game, so he shouldn't be too selective about who he approaches and should cast a wide net so he finds that person with a unique taste.

I am the other way around. Tall, muscular, good looking (even worked as a model) and naturally funny, but autistic and with zero self esteem. I always coasted through girls from my teens into early 30s purely on the looks and popularity, zero effort, girls chased me and I could monkey branch and keep improving GF's until I found "the one" and got married. Now I divorced her and have no idea what to do, because I never dated, never approached, and it sucks

@bolt9110

10 ай бұрын

Walk down the high street and ask girls if they know of "a good non-brand coffee shop" so they have to stop and think rather than quickly name a Starbucks.

@dennisfabian2570

10 ай бұрын

Enjoy the ride 🤙🏽

@charlespaul6725

9 ай бұрын

Why’d you divorce?

@supremelordoftheuniverse5449

9 ай бұрын

@@charlespaul6725 fell into the blue pill trap of thinking “well I got her despite being a bad boy, time to do my best to be a good husband”. Pedestalized her, let bad behavior go by unchecked, showed way too much vulnerability, became comfortable (no ambition no projects), let her set the frame, in summary I didn’t keep my masculine frame and let her wear the pants. It dries them up like the Sahara. After a couple sexless years (with me at least) and a lot of cheating from her side, I finally called it quits (way too late).

The never ending cycle of attempting to meet ever demanding expectations. I will always be 5-6. It is all American Girls care about. Really: Money, Position, Power, Success, Fitness - none of it mattered - I will always be 5-6. So F*CK it all - I moved overseas - retired from the military moved abroad, learned a foreign language, dropped English - abandoned the Yankee country / society / continent / hemisphere. meh.

5"7 too bro😂

The best coaches in this space all teach this principle. Todd, rsd tyler, etc… it’s so true. If you want to last, then make it fun and addictive. Ironically, Mary Poppins also teaches it 😊. Go watch the spoon full of sugar scene and see what she says in the lead up.

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todd was good looking in his prime

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

What am I now?! *SMH*

I want to ask a question todd, there was this girl which I had a difficult relation with, long story short she was into me so much she cheated on her bf with me and even proposed me which i at that time declined, then i became long distance she told her bf about the cheating he left her then she left me bcoz of something i did in the past(she read my chat of how i would fuck her, i was talking to my buddy) now whenever she feels like it she comes to me talks to me to get her mind straight then she snaps and start abusing me for what i did, when i go to talk to her she talks to me like i am doucebag how can i get things right again?

Relatively short?! Dude, you say you are 5ft 7. i'm 5ft 4, if you are short, i'm a bleedin dwarf! How can I deal with that?! Tbh I am mega insecure about my height with women but i'm trying not to make it an excuse. I'm trying simply to buff up the other qualities that I'm good at: I can be a pretty funny engaging guy e.g. Are there any other short 5ft 5 or under guys here? What has your experience been? Have you been able to deal with it and how? Thanks for reading if you have :)

@pahyzhahyz9634

10 ай бұрын

Justin Marc is 5’4

@Mew2Win

9 ай бұрын

What age r u (& ethnicity) & are you still a berjen?

Todd is that dad that everybody wants. You are too humble by saying that you were lucky, if you took action you were not lucky, you put in the effort, everytime you take action things in life happen, things do not happen when you do not literally do anything, and if things do happen by staying home and sitting on the couch doing nothing then you got lucky

not all girls like muscled guys

This statement is a proof against guys saying excuses like 'you gave to be tall' 'you have to be model' you have to be rich' to have girls!And from my experience nothing of those needed to be successful with woman!Coach you are top!Thank you!🙏

Where’s the proof dude?

wiat, the content that was out 20 years ago was crap? there was mystery method, I thought all of today's content is based on mystery method?

@ToddVDating

10 ай бұрын

I didn't discover Mystery Method (and it basically wasn't yet taught) until I'd already been doing game on my own for three years.

Why do women love serial killers?

@TheUltimateMarioFan

3 ай бұрын

Because they're dying to get into relationships with them.

Well, telling sobb stories might come off as whining in a lot of situations. However in the context of teaching/coaching/mentoring (like in this case) sharing sobb stories can actually serve a very valuable purpose and that is: showing students that they are not the only ones to come from difficult backgrounds and even more so showing that somebody else before you actually sucked a** too at one point, they overcame the difficulties though (often times not even that much different from your own) and became competent! So thank you for sharing, Todd :)!

5 foot 7 is short??

@kuge5694

10 ай бұрын

it is below average by American standards and by the standards of many countries

@petermayer5903

10 ай бұрын

5 feet 11ish is average … making most men taller than 5'7", so … yeah

@ZootedInc

10 ай бұрын

Yes

@yoyojuana2054

10 ай бұрын

@@kuge5694 Average female height is around 5'4, so as long as you're taller than 5'6-5'7, you're good.

@gerarduspoppel2831

10 ай бұрын

@@kuge5694 and here i am in the Netherlands with 170 centimeters while most men here are like 188.

Todd, what you don’t realize is that you have certain intellectual and communicational skills, that most guys don‘t. Since girls weight that part a lot in the whole package, you are in demand. I have Asperger’s and cannot game beautiful girls, although I‘m good looking, teach several musical instruments, dance Bachata 7 times a week and have profound knowledge in manosphere content. To be clear: I can‘t even game ugly girls who dig me. As soon as I make a move, it‘s over.

The thing about black pill is, If you are insecure or low self esteem that looks can be everything, you'll constantly find external evidences that reinforces THAT original belief that you're correct, that means you're inherently narcissistic just like everybody does, and you'll subconsciously unseen the possibilities that you can get good at other areas

@Mew2Win

9 ай бұрын

I don’t meed that when I have past experiences that confirm it. I tried game and fashion. No attention from fems can compare to when I entered 9th grade with clear smooth skin & great hair product. Back when when I thought looks meant 0.

@Mew2Win

9 ай бұрын

Also there are *studies* that highlight the importance of looks. It’s not about being insecure or low self esteem: Stated Preferences In Opposite Sex Partner Vs Revealed Importance: Sex Differences in Mate Preferences Revisited: Do People Know What They Initially Desire in a Romantic Partner? ~~Paul W. Eastwick and Eli J. Finkel Northwestern University~~ "On The Pre-Event Questionnaire, Men (More Than Women) Reported That The Characteristic Physically Attractive Was Important In An Ideal Romantic Partner And Would Matter In Their Decision To Say Yes To A Speed-Date. In Addition, Women (More Than Men) Estimated On The Pre-Event Questionnaire That The Characteristic Earning Prospects Was Important In An Ideal Romantic Partner And Would Matter In Their Decision To Say Yes To A Speed-Date. One Month Later, This Sex Difference Was *Marginally* Significant For Participants' Reports Of An Ideal Partner *But Did Not Reach Significance For The Speed-Date Stated Preferences."*