Speak to yourself with love and kindness... so true Dominique, I’m 62 years old and I’m just learning to speak and treat my self with love and kindness.

@downeyjr4423

3 жыл бұрын

It's never to late 👍

@catcaa9027

3 жыл бұрын

@@downeyjr4423 I was just about to write that exact line😍

@downeyjr4423

3 жыл бұрын

@@catcaa9027 I got there before you lol 💞

@lupechacon-florez7520

3 жыл бұрын

I am 63 and I am now also beginning to be kinder to myself. I was told all my life and I still am told by my mother that she never loved me. D’s suggestions are exactly on point.

@lindasmith5334

3 жыл бұрын

Me too - I’m 62 and just learning as well. I hope we both succeed and flourish ❤️

You're such a warm, welcoming and kind presence in this loud and aggressive world. Thank you for being you and always making such an effort, to help your fellow human beings.

@livingdoll3445

3 жыл бұрын

Hi it's Annie Stuart thank you for this video it is very helpful to have watched on this on topic of confidence. it is something most of us lack and really need to work on constantly. Thou you have a way of making it all so easy. Possibly as it comes to you more naturally.

@cherylharding8106

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your heart. You're a true blessing in this crazy world.

Your voice is soothing..I was raised around so much anxiety and noise..your words resonated that I want this calmness and peace

@jancharron5947

3 жыл бұрын

There is nothing in the world like living a calm and peaceful life. ❤️

@odapty

2 жыл бұрын

😔

I’ve found that negative thoughts like “I can’t do this, or it won’t work” become self fulfilling prophecies! Instead think that you CAN do something and watch what happens, that becomes the self fulfilling prophecy!!!!

It took me 35 years to realize that my family's lack of belief in me had nothing to do with my abilities and everything to do with their own self-imposed limitations. They couldn't envision more for themselves so how could they ever envision it for me. They would call me a dreamer and roll their eyes. I was a 6 and that message stuck for a long time, but I eventually followed my dreams and lived according to my own script. Now instead of being angry with them, I can be empathetic.

@carollute7256

3 жыл бұрын

I was about the same age when I too took the bull by the horns and started exploring ways to better achieve what I wanted and wanted to do.

@Magpieme98

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could love your comment a thousand times! I grew up like this and was always told not to do something either because it was dangerous or I could fail. It took me years to overcome self doubt and believe in myself and my abilities! Cheers 💕🌺

@janad996

2 жыл бұрын

Couldn’t agree more!

This is coming to me at the perfect time. Too bad everyone couldn’t see this. I am keeping this one and watching it again. I will make notes and keep it close to me. I am 50 and still need this. Thank you so much for making this video and being so kind with your words and guidance.

@debrakirkley4590

3 жыл бұрын

Sherri, you're so right. I will be doing the same thing. Take care, have a great weekend.

@janelifrak426

3 жыл бұрын

Love this video…thanks so much.

@brendastarcher6294

3 жыл бұрын

@@debrakirkley4590 I need them too. I'm 66 and struggle sometimes. We can do this!

@scrapgirl34

3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly, I’m watching this at bed time and clicked save to my favorites so that I can take notes tomorrow. I’ve been struggling in this more than usual lately and is causing stress and anxiety in my life.

Your timing, this week, was perfect for me! Boy, did I NEED to hear this!...I was a stay at home mom of 4 children...As I have gotten older, and am at home, most of the time alone, I sometimes let the negative thoughts and feelings about getting older cloud my view. I am married to a wonderful man, who I love dearly, he is also 7 years younger than me and as I have "aged", I found that I was beginning to focus on that age difference more! The other night I had a "meltdown" about it all. My husband is the head of a large Human Resource Mental health Organization and has many employees under him...some of whom are female and younger than me. I am writing all of this just to say, that you are so right, that we NEED to spend time in self, positive talk! I am blessed, because my husband realized my struggle and said the most precious, beautiful words back to me...I think, for women, it is so IMPORTANT to have a safe community of other women, that we can depend on and share with! I just have to reiterate that your Channel, your Forum, is just that!.... A safe place to land!!! Thank You....

@juliewarwick303

3 жыл бұрын

Yes choose your safe community carefully. Be aware of toxic friendships.

I have always been told that I am great at motivating people. I have to admit that I fall short motivating myself. This video I will watch over & over again. Thanks for the pep talk, I feel like you were speaking directly to me!

As I watched this video I thought to myself, " Dominique is such a beautiful person both inside and out!" I love your inspiring messages to us. It's not often that you get the sense that others really care but you always exude how much you care about others. Love the positivity messages. Keep inspiring and thank you so much for all you do!

I had one friend who would sometimes say "I'm so stupid" or other such self put downs. I'd respond to her by saying "don't talk about my friend like that".

@ksilk20

3 жыл бұрын

That's so beautiful 😍

@chiaratasso4069

3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful ❤️

Best thing in self care is really to talk to God and leave your concerns with him !! Prayers really work 😊

@jacque883

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! So true! I just did that this afternoon because I was feeling awful, and down on my life, and it really helps! Thank you 🙏🏼 😊💕

@ann6030

3 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏🏻

@ecoknitty

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely🙏

@carmensalome

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@dianedavaloz8360

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

One confidence booster I have found, is to keep my word to myself. If I write down To Dos/Goals, etc., I make it my purpose to get those things accomplished. This has fostered a greater sense of trust in myself and my determination. Professionally, I find it very empowering to speak out loud the many ways I am great at my job. It's especially helpful when I am in the car, alone, travelling to work when I am anticipating a meeting, attempting a new task, etc. Having spent countless hours in the preparation phase you mentioned, this practice of speaking out loud has been like icing on the cake. Thanks for opening this very important topic!

Dominique, what a well-thought out, well-spoken & valuable video. I needed this so much that I teared up watching. You’re points make such sense. Thank you for being so mindful and self-aware in presenting this content. Melissa 🌼

Dominique thank you so much, you came to the right time, and God put you here today with powerful words of courage and love. I really need this right now. I being feeling down in this week and all your words got to my heart. God bless you always for caring for others.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏

@stephaniem5188

3 жыл бұрын

Love this video. I’m 29 and found this really helpful. You’re very uplifting and informative

What really resonated was that self confidence is self trust. Wonderful and helpful coaching. Thank you, Dominique. xo

As always, so profound, encouraging and uplifting. My "feel good switch" goes off every Thursday when I watch your videos. Thank you isn't enough but it is heartfelt. Hugs and love from Toronto.

My gosh so great to hear that from such a genuinely elegant and self confident woman! Thank u!!!

Thanks for this Dominique! we at times forget about our repertoire

I love the idea of speaking to yourself with kindness, I’ve just turned 51 and was useless at school and was told age 11 by the Headmaster that due to my grade in Geography I wouldn’t amount to much in fact once he read my appalling grade out to the class, he proclaimed I wouldn’t truly get lost! This affected my confidence in the most awful way, I’ve been a cleaner in people’s homes for 37 years, so that I don’t have to face people that much. I’m not sure I can make a change overnight but this little chat, has acknowledged a topic that is long overdue, thank you for bringing it to the fore.

@mybeautifuljourney7540

3 жыл бұрын

🤗❤️

@karinaviana1012

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Sabina, you have already given your first step towards change!!! Go ahead, everything is possible...you are not alone...

@sabinabirnie3761

3 жыл бұрын

@@karinaviana1012 thank you for sending these sweet and encouraging words.

@rebeccaalicebyrne1516

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry that you had to go through that, hopefully you can now realise that you are much more than what somebody says about you, good luck with your journey, its never too late :) x

@nowandthennn

2 жыл бұрын

I know the grades you make in school does not reflect your intelligence . Some of the smartest people I know made bad grades in school . That just wasn’t their thing or that way to learn and I’ve known people that made straight A’s are good at memorization, but can’t use it in real life and appear to be not so smart . So put all that school trauma behind you if you can and be the new you .

This is the refresher course I didn't know I needed, from my wise sister I never had!💕..Thank You Dominique!..This was a priceless gift (for my 60th bday!!!)💖

Oh my this brings back so much to me.. for years I spent living a life that I was put down, abused, I did not have any self confidence. I left that life moved away and started baby steps on where I wanted to be.. how I can achieve the goals I set... that was ten years ago! I went to college in my late fifties, little by little started gaining self confidence in all aspects of my life! I worked on me! I graduated top of my class! Each step I take I strive to look forward and succeed! It may not happen right away but if you want it you can do it! I left all drama! I live a life of grace with those around me that give me peace. I love helping others and try to do so in some way everyday! After all these years I have found the peace I so needed and I am still working on me but I am truly happy. Thank you for reaching out to those of us that truly needed to hear this! Love you lady and all you represent. Keep up the amazing work you do! ♥️ Kat from New York

@dominiquesachsetv

3 жыл бұрын

Bravo!

@lisaswords1582

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, Kathy, I so pray I can get there some day. I am 54 and still struggling and just want peace and confidence and not live for what anyone else thinks or says. I have an audience of ONE, this is GOD only.

@downeyjr4423

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful words.....your life now is what we all strive and yearn for. Peace of mind and body is the biggest achievement and we can all do it by taking little steps every day towards it x

@jancharron5947

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!

One more thing. : ) I tell my coaching clients, "Whether you think you can or you think you can't --- you're right!"

@dominiquesachsetv

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@anjac5086

3 жыл бұрын

Thoughts becomes things. What you think as a person makes a blueprint in your brain. So choose for positive words. It really helps to grow (anja from belgium)

@siriornchayanonda1400

3 жыл бұрын

@@dominiquesachsetv _%___

@jeanneritchie7863

3 жыл бұрын

That is a Henry Ford quote, and it’s so true.

@brooklily7150

3 жыл бұрын

@@jeanneritchie7863 exactly.

and how beautiful is the space Dominique is talking from, the colours, textures and styling are just gorgeous - just like her.

@debrakintzing8914

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the exact same thing! I think that surrounding yourself with beautiful things and things you love also boosts self-confidence.

Your every words are influential, and your presence is warm and comforting.

I love listening to you. It feels so good knowing all the traits you’ve mentioned being confident and setting your goals. Life is too short and we have to enjoy and keep discovering new things that’s good for us as women. ❤️❤️❤️

I have not even watched this yet, but know I am going to just love it. I am one of those people who lacks self confidence. Thank you Dominique!

Thank you for such beautiful, uplifting and sound advice! At my age, 71, your words have served me as a reminder of values learned during my childhood and youth but because of personal circumstances have lately felt inadequate and terribly vulnerable. Your spiritual insight has been especially inspiring to me. God bless you and yours always! You are a lovely woman but more importantly you are a proof of the power of interior beauty. Please continue to inspire us.

Sent this to my daughter who has taken a job from Washington to San Antonio she is excited and a little afraid. Perfect advice❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thank you, this content is so valuable. When I was in my psych rotation in my nurses training (in the 70's) I was moved by what I learned about depression. The prescribed treatment was to "do for others", yes your 5th recommendation. I remember being so taken with that, to get out of your own problems, help someone else. ❤

@kristymarie6065

3 жыл бұрын

Makes so much sense

Dear Dominique, Your video is just what I needed! I am having a hard time at the moment but your words have done me good and I will take some things to heart and want to put them into practice! From the bottom of my heart, thank you!

I have a lot of respect for you and I agree on many things you speak of. I often wonder if we would be more confident without the push for monetary wealth and physically altering our bodies? If you look at the narrative out there we do not seem like a society that is confident at all. Love your content and have a blessed day!! xoxo

@renephillips6739

3 жыл бұрын

Agree. I finally learned to focus on financial security and physical fitness (although I do love a good visit to the dermatologist's office).

@cavelleardiel

3 жыл бұрын

@@renephillips6739 You got the right idea. Financial security builds trust in yourself and the physical fitness also gives you the confidence!! And a little botox here and there and I think you have found the key!!

@conniemurphyover70stillgla47

3 жыл бұрын

well the way the political scean is we may" all end up with nothing and be happy:) only GOD knows :) hug connie

Every word you said hits me right on the nail; I was holding back tears as you spoke. Lacking self confidence is the one thing my husband and I talk about and express how it has hindered our lives and wish we could get a do over for the past 45 years. As much as we have worked to overcome these type of obstacles, it is still a daily challenge because of those negative voices we hear and our childhood. You are so correct in changing the people around you in order to grow and overcome familiar negative thoughts. I taught my daughter from an early age to make friends with people who are more intelligent and had a higher socioeconomic level than herself so she could grow and have more positive and far reaching life experiences, and she did., but all the while being friendly to everyone. Her childhood was the very opposite of mine and my husband's. Our friends and co-workers are such a blessing to us, as they lift us up and we lift them up. Thank you so much for this, there is such kindness and sincerity in your voice.

Dominique, I just sent this video to my 19 year old granddaughter. Your advice is timeless. Thank you.

Great advice! I try to be confident 90% of the time, but we all have "those days"! Thank you always for your channel!

Wasn’t expecting to cry with this video 🥺 Thank you! I suffer from depression, specially after hitting menopause and weight gain.😭 In 2020 I also lost both my mom & dad.. Cancer & Heart attack😭 It’s just been a cruel year for me.

@PeachesSkinCare

3 жыл бұрын

Anastasia 🧡 Menopause is tough but watch what you eat and get up and go for a walk. We are all here to hold you up! Your amazing and you have got this!! Life is waiting for you 🙌🏻🍑Lisa

@dominiquesachsetv

3 жыл бұрын

Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way 💞

@PeachesSkinCare

3 жыл бұрын

@@dominiquesachsetv 🧡🧡🧡

@PeachesSkinCare

3 жыл бұрын

I to felt depressed with menopause and gained weigh. I just wanted to add that so you know I understand how your feeling. These things have helped me tremendously🍑

@AllyKit

3 жыл бұрын

You are not alone 😔 ❤️

I love this content Dominique . I find a lot is mind over matter . I had a job where I stood up and talked to large groups of people every week and it didnt mean I was super confident but I remember if I woke up lacking in confidence and not wanting to mix or put myself out there, I used to change my mind set saying to myself today I am going to be fantastic at work and love mixing with everyone and have a great day and it worked !! Also my tip to speak to a large group was to chat as though your having a conversation with a friend and your delivery will be relaxed and chilled , if your uptight it does not flow and people feel uncomfortable xxx

This brought tears to my eyes... You trully are amazing, Dominique! Thank you so much❤️

Every word you said is so important and cut right to the chase! I took notes and will be working your steps. You're a wise and wonderful woman to support us the way you do. I'm only beginning to discover my worth and capabilities and they ARE important. Thank you for pointing that out to all of us. Blessings back to you Dominique : )

I’ve followed you since day one, and I can and have watched you and your channel grow to almost 1.5 million subscribers in only a couple years, well earned Dominique!

I think this has been the best video that I've watched on your channel. (and so timely) I have been a stay at home mom for nearly 30 years. Just this last year, I took a temporary job to get my feet wet. A lot of people that I interacted with at my job somehow felt threatened by me or that I was somehow competition. I didn't in the least feel flattered by this as I'm so new going back into the work force and just trying to feel confident in my own skin and in what I'm doing. I'm not really sure why we do this to each other. It would have been so helpful for people to say, "wow you are really brave trying to do this at this point in your life." I really appreciate your kind words and encouragement that there are a few things I can do to boost how I'm feeling inside. I've always struggled with self confidence. I'm glad there are some nice teachers like you out there.

I LOVE you! You’re like the sister I never had. You’re the absolute best KZreadr I’ve found who’s also a creative like myself and a Christian. You’re really well-balanced with both the natural and the spiritual and I really appreciate that. I’m so happy I found you. Thank you for sharing from your heart 😘

Thank you for this special video, Dominique. Your voice is so calm and so nice that you could also work as a therapist!!! 🥰🥰🙌🏻🙌🏻😍😍

Love this! Working on more positive self talk…the battle field is in the mind. Thank you for this.

Thank you for another inspiring video! You always seem to know what we need to hear in the most gracious way. I also thank the ladies that requested this topic. It seems that we all need this. You are such a lovely lady and I’m thankful that I found your videos!🥰

Dominique, this was one of the best videos about building self confidence I've ever seen 👏 I feel much better just by listening to you. As you said: " hearing those words" makes you think and do some changes. Especially when you hear that from someone whom you adore! Thank you very much for this very informative video! God bless you Dominique ❤

Thank you for the boost 💖 I am usually still working when you start but as soon as I get into my rig after work I plug my phone in and turn on your video. My drive home is 45 minutes and I feel so inspired when I get home. Thank you ❣️

Dominique, this is my favorite of all. Spoken from the heart, genuine and, your eyes speak the truth. Wow! You are one good soul and sharing these tips, that I can draw and put in a frame, reminded me of what I do for myself, my family and others. All of what I do has given me the chance to live a happy life and to continue my purpose. I am happy and everyone around me is happy even through tough times, not all is dark and looking at things positively even if it is hard has made life so easier (we all have our problems). Thank you for this video and thank God I found you just a couple of months ago. You are a special human being. Bless you xx

Dominique- This is fantastic! You are so inspiring. Thank you for doing this video!!!!

Looking amazing as always!!

I could listen to you speak for hours. Such a soothing voice and you are also very intelligent and seem very compassionate

The right words are spoken today from a kind, intelligent and loving woman. Thank you for all you share with all of us.

One of your best videos yet! It’s good to be reminded that positive affirmations have powerful impact on our self esteem. Thank you.

This video is so clever and thorough that I can’t thank you enough for it!🌹

You’re kind, humble and by sharing your generosity of knowledge really helps. Boosting self confidence is one of my weaknesses and just by listening to you motivated me…. Especially the self talk, you said “speak it until you believe it “ thank you, thank you so much. 👍🏻❤️💪🏻😊

This was a breath of fresh air!! I needed to hear this. Thank you, Dominique! As always you look beautiful. You are such a lovely lady. You inspire us all! Blessings to you and yours. 💖

Thank you! I did not realize how much I needed to hear this. ❤️

That was so warm and beautiful, Dominique. Just what I needed. Thank you for curating such amazing content.

What a great video! I feel like your suggestions will go viral!

Thank You so much for this video, I have been struggling with what to put in my self-care journal/planner. After this video, I am no longer struggling. I stopped your video numerous times to write your suggestions down, then my brain took over and I added more details to your list. Thank you once again for this video, my self-care journal/planner will no longer be bare!

I have practiced self love and confidence for a long time. I grew up with a controlling mother and it was always about her. When I went on my own I knew I had to work on a lot to let go of her and how I was treated. I am a strong and confident woman because I believe in myself. It made a big difference in my life in so many ways. Thank you for this video and all that you do.

So glad I watched this video. I actually searched the words and saw familiar face I trust..after what can only be described as a pivotal lifte changing moment in December just gone , I decided I need to focus on my family not my job. 18 years in a job where I wasn’t appreciated and I took a leap of faith, with no self confidence. Got myself a new job , on a path where I want to be, helping people. I will have weekends off and most of all I have done myself proud and took on the advice my mother gave me a thousand times. Wish I had the courage to have done it before she suddenly passed. 2 months ago, but I can’t change that. Just look forward . Thanks again Dominique xx

Self confidence'trust in ourselves. Yes, it certainly is but I had never thought of it in those terms before. That really resonates with me. Thank you for sharing.

Thanks, Dominique! 😍Filling our cup through scripture reading and spending time at His feet.

Love this, thank you. This has come just when I need to hear it most. I agree with everything you said. I’m 53 and at a complete crossroad in my life. I’m not quite sure where to start or where I’m headed, but I’ve got to get going. Overall, my life if “fine”, but I can’t say it’s where I thought or want to be. I’ve got some soul searching to do and some courage to find, to step outside the box. Thanks for the encouragement.

Dear Dominique, this is exactly what I should do next. Your video reached me just in the right time. I'm 46 and feel something outstanding is about to happen after this prophetic video. One of my thoughts/dreams to get in touch with you despite of millions people have the same in their minds. But somehow I could feel that it will happen because I literally feel this with my body and soul. That's how I can describe this. I got many talents and a special child raising alone. Let God multiply His Glory by using us 🙏

Truly inspiring video, thank you 🙏🏻. I just turned 40 and I’m loving myself more than I ever have and you inspire me to be a better person on the inside as well as the outside..so grateful for you and your channel 🙂🤍

Really needed to hear this today Ms Sachse. Eternally grateful 💜

I love the idea of self confidence thank you for posting this video

So true! This hairstyle suits your face shape so stunningly!

The world and the unreal expectations in the media can bring us down, but we’re all smart on this channel and want to be our best! You’re GOOD media! Listening to you is always a confidence booster. I’m not compelled to compare myself with you but go on the journey with you!

@maggie2234

3 жыл бұрын

This is s very interesting comment! Thank you for sharing. ♡♡♡

I will watch this over and over and share it with my clients. So well done and said. Thank you!

Thanks so much for this…thinking I left a message already, but watched again. You are an inspiration!!!❤️

This is phenomenal! Such great advice, laid out in a clear, concise plan. Thank you!

Thanks. I needed to hear this today. Sending love xxx

I am so glad I discovered your channel. This video really resonated with me. One year ago last April , I was done. The pain and hurt overcame me. I almost lost my family my job myself. I was diagnosed with borderline personally disorder. Divine intervention happened somehow I enrolled in intensive outpatient therapy and went hard core DBT or dialectical behavioral therapy. My life outlook relationships have been transformed I thought myself how to love myself from the inside out. Just as I love others from the inside out. It's been a tough lonely and scary journey but I won't quit. Thank you for your words of wisdom and great ideas to help me stay my course. God Bless

thank you for this video, i really needed to hear all of this. I know these things but somehow hearing it makes me pay attention and improve myself. You're such a warm, welcoming and kind woman, i love your channel!. .

Such a great reminder!! And I love your hair!! Beautiful inside and out!!

Dominique Thank you I really needed to hear this today. God bless 💕

This was so amazing to me. At one point I got teary eyed, I don't know why. Maybe something hit home. Thank you.

Dominique, thank you so much for this! It is exactly the boost I needed today & I appreciate it so very much! Thank you for being a shining light in the world

Love every word you said about building your self confidence. Thank you for sharing.

Thank you so much Dominique! I need to watch this daily ❤️❤️ Perfect and just what I needed.

Another great topic, thank you Dominique🥰

This was excellent. Concise but powerful. I’m going to use these steps!

Hey,dominique thank for this video,im so grateful that i find your youtube channal.sometimes we need to hear that you are special and that you need to do something for your self ,i dont think you realize how much you mean to so much woman out there. You touches my hard😭be blessed🤗🌷

Perfect timing as I just got an interview for the next level management position! Didn’t think I was going to qualify, so now to prepare 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Loved this, perfectly said, as usual 🥰 I am going to share this with every woman I know. ☺️ thank you ❤️

Knowing your triggers with tools are important , more importantly for me is my meditation time and time spent prayer. It’s having that moment with God that empowers me daily. Putting on the armor I need for each day. I’m enjoying your channel more and more. Thanks so much

Thank you very much for this video, Dominique. I always admire how your style, your class goes along with your warmth, kindness and wisdom.

Thank you so much for this video! I have my list going ☺️ You are so inspiring to women! This will help me also in guiding my 2 daughters who are busy moms to toddlers right now. Blessings and hugs to you,! ❤️

Wonderful. This is a wonderful, feel good chat. Thank you, Dominique 😊🙏🥰

She deserves to be blessed! What a champion of love, giving, wisdom, positivity and beauty! Thank you!💕

I understand that some people in your life do bring you down. But hard to let them go. Thank you for your words of wisdom xx

Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou I love this channel not only nurturing on the outside but also on the inside!! Something that we forget to do so Thankyou for teaching me how to do that!!! 💕

Happy birthday Dominique. Many many more happy and blessed.

You are a blessing to me Dominique. Thank you for sharing 😍.

I needed this so much

Thank you Dominique. This couldn't have come at the most perfect time. I've struggled the past few months with self confidence. It's a long story and I just felt I didn't know where to pick myself up again and this video came across. 😥 it made me cry when you gave the 5 points. A good cry. Thank you for being so sweet in explaining things, it helped a broken person today. Thank you Dominique. 💕

Thank you and love you, Dominique! You're the big sister and aunt and mom that we all needed when we were 7.

Wonderful advice as always. I needed those reminders . ❤️