Values and morals are always classy

@Hazem_al-Attar

5 жыл бұрын

That's right

@singingbananas9393

5 жыл бұрын

Everyone has those. Unfortunately we don't all agree on the good ones.

@Dablkwid0w2008

5 жыл бұрын

Every time

@countryboi6089

4 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. Let's just say the RIGHT values and morals are always classy because EVERYONE has values and morals.

@virgominerva2665

3 жыл бұрын

You are so right, Ms. Elizondo. I think you would love the scene from the show "Designing Women" where and when "Julia Sugarbaker" explains having morals and principles. It in season 1.

Love the term “it’s not my favorite” rather than I hate it! Great advice

@littlemisstwiggy2302

5 жыл бұрын

Hate really is an ugly word. No matter how it's used imo.

@KL-bg8fi

5 жыл бұрын

@@littlemisstwiggy2302 True

@KL-bg8fi

5 жыл бұрын

👍

@dawncross7644

5 жыл бұрын

Joann Wright my granddaughter says that. We’ve picked it up and use it often. Her comment is “that’s not my favorite” and she will use it.

@Aurora9990

5 жыл бұрын

I like that.

Class and morals are so rare these days. We need this! I LOVE THIS! She is spot on!

@debrahouston2884

2 жыл бұрын

I cannot agree more, and in many cases, these are intertwined.

"You are a magnet What you put out is what you are gonna get back in return" Omg, I'm gonna carry these words with me.

@mariasimion7443

5 жыл бұрын

That doesn't actually make sense because a magnet attracts the opposite...

@danarzechula3769

4 жыл бұрын

@@mariasimion7443 haha I was just waiting for someone to point that out...

@katie.kovtun

4 жыл бұрын

what do we do now??

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

when does she say that?

@Hannah2265

4 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn go to 13:50 she says it there

My "be classy" rule - turn off your cell phone when you are socializing with others. Don't take calls during social lunches or visits. Be there for the person you are with.

@mommabear5059

6 жыл бұрын

sarnrse I wish I could give your comment a million likes. The cell phone has become a pariah to good social graces.

@lovespurpleflowers

6 жыл бұрын

I totally area with the cell phone discussion, I rarely engage anyone when they always glued to their phone!

@KasiaZ

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Good point!

@jostephens6080

5 жыл бұрын

I am a school principal and this is something we are focusing on in 2019! Great point that you make.

@SoAnesu

5 жыл бұрын

sarnrse be present in the moment!

I was raised to be exactly the type of woman that you describe. The only thing that I would like to add to this is to be sure to not judge others harshly by these rules we never know what a person is going through. I am sure you already understand this but sometimes there can be beauty in imperfection. At the end of the day a good heart is the classiest thing of all. Thank you so much.

@ta3970

6 жыл бұрын

Just from reading your comment be assured you are radiating class in its purest form. There's not a doubt in my mind you are a Masterpiece Madame.

@MissBeeeBeee

6 жыл бұрын

A Latitude Adjustment Thank you for saying this. I was starting to resent her "one size fits all" suggestions, which sound more like preferences anyway. Thank you very much for sharing your story. I hope a lot of people read your comment.

@maryjaneferguson30

6 жыл бұрын

A Latitude Adjustment I very much understand and can related with you...I too, have a chronic illness...and alittle friend who goes everywhere with me... (not a service dog)....just me!! You are beautiful...

@kimonaNo1

6 жыл бұрын

This is exactly the kind of thing I meant in my comment. :) I wish you lots of luck :)

@dellahicks7231

6 жыл бұрын

A Latitude Adjustment ~ I have lived with Chronic Pain for approx. 20 years now, my purple crutches have been my legs for 6+ years, so I think I understand a little of what you are going through. I heard what Dominique said, I also read your comments, and while I hear Dominique saying our looks make an impression, I think you have to take all of her points as a whole. While your clothing would not be your first choice, I am betting it is clean, pressed and without wrinkles. You mentioned that while it is difficult, you have your nails painted. You said you put a smile on your face daily (And isn't that a struggle some days?) you are the epitome of class. I would hope that Dominique and others allow for the fact that class is also tailored to the individual, and that we cannot all come at it from the same vantage point. You continue to do the best you can, I wish you pain free days.

"If you're not liking the friends that you're hanging around with, if you feel like the wrong guy is showing up all the time, if you feel like the doors are closing when it comes to career opportunities, might I ask you to look within? Instead of blaming what's out? Look to yourself and ask, "What am I doing to draw this?"...Is there something i can project...You are a magnet... Thank you for those words.

@eefmorel3985

2 жыл бұрын

I love You and your video's so very much! You are beautiful inside and outside I m learning so much from You!

@angelinazru82

2 жыл бұрын

That was ‘gold’.

@TravelingMissD

2 жыл бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

This is a absolutely a much needed video in this day and age. It’s sad that we’ve lost the romance and classiness of previous generations. Thank you for this

@llcoolg52001

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe it’s lost only because the older generation failed to pass it on! So in a way maybe we should refrain from blaming the younger generation for not acting right and blame ourselves (parents) instead🤔🤷🏽‍♀️

@MsLadyLilian

2 жыл бұрын

yes and people from another countries can see absence of romance from man from here

@maureenlangerfeld8489

Жыл бұрын

Maybe there has been as much resistance to learn has there has been failure to teach

You have addressed one of my concerns. A woman can have a perfect posture, be beautifully dressed and coiffed, but if her language is vulgar none of the rest matters.

@karensetchfield3495

6 жыл бұрын

Katie Harris I totally agree. Certain, beautiful on the outside, actresses are a prime example.

May I add a ninth? Be a good listener. It has been my experience that people have lost the ability to really listen to each other. Close your mouth, and open your ears. To me, being classy also means being able to listen with compassion and empathy, which ties into your point about knowledge. When you employ a robust listening aptitude, there is no end to what you can learn.

@jdb123ize

6 жыл бұрын

Lyn Gartin Yes!

@emilyennulat-lustine5645

6 жыл бұрын

SOOO very true!

@pa2fl1996

6 жыл бұрын

Very true! It seems now days people aren't listening to what you are saying, they're already thinking of a reply before you even finish, you can see it on their face.

@LouLou-bu2th

6 жыл бұрын

Great point, so true!

@juliewarburton9411

6 жыл бұрын

Lyn Gartin I

My goodness! This video should be mandatory viewing for women of all ages. Thank you for telling us what we all need to hear!

@queentinadoire6931

5 жыл бұрын

You are 100% accurate.

@Boddissatva

4 жыл бұрын

Yes and why isn’t this all over social media. Bring back the class!

@jenc775

2 жыл бұрын

And we need to teach manners to our girls and boys again. Manners are just a public display of respect after all.

@rosecirigliano5706

2 жыл бұрын

Forget just women!! Everyone. Please!

@sujathademel8698

2 жыл бұрын

@@queentinadoire6931 qqq

In my opinion, one of the main signs of class is how you treat others, especially those of lower status than yourself. A woman who is rude to the wait staff shows a lack of class. So does a woman who treats people above her on the organizational chart well & those below her on the org chart as if they are beneath her notice. I strive to treat everyone with equal kindness & respect. It also shows class & respect to learn people’s names & use them.

@celeshite6433

5 жыл бұрын

"Lower status" 🙄

@deepadcruz6483

5 жыл бұрын

Nice concept

@twinklestar333

5 жыл бұрын

Lower status??

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

VERY IMPORTANT

@cameliap1146

4 жыл бұрын

@@twinklestar333 : yes . Lower status. Is the appropriate word. We are not equals. Like it or not. And you know it.

My husband of 42 years said something profoundly beautiful about me, to me, earlier today. This video piggybacks on it and actually made me weep. As a child, I admired class, wanted it, and made it my goal. I continue to work on being all the beautiful things humans are capable of; however, I sometimes feel alone, one of the last surviving dinosaurs walking towards extinction. He reminded me that it is noticed, appreciated, and loved. You have made me realize I am not alone, but in good company. Thank you...

@Th3lite

5 жыл бұрын

ScrapofKindness If you feel like being classy is rare, take someone under your wing, coach and help them to develop the same behavior.

@kimdiedrich9712

5 жыл бұрын

There are so many good women on this page.

@nurtured-channel2953

5 жыл бұрын

Keep it Classy... you are not Alone🌱👊😚

@constanceyoussef8535

2 жыл бұрын

Had been having the same thoughts for some years now , now we can be of like minds , nice .

@patriciasmith4627

2 жыл бұрын

Dominique is a very classy beautiful lady. She demonstrates elegance in all she does. I enjoy all her videos.

As the saying goes, money can't buy you class, but elegance can be learned.”

@blancaruiz561

5 жыл бұрын

Agree with you.

I’m watching this two years after the fact. And this is still current, accurate & relevant. I feel you said this on point and with lot of heart. Thanks

@debrahouston2884

2 жыл бұрын

It is a timeless message.

Be punctual and prompt. I value my time and other peoples time.

@sunshine-bs2jx

4 жыл бұрын

So agree x

@terryannmartinez3368

3 жыл бұрын

I feel someone who is always late, Dosnt respect you. Kinda selfish.

@crystalsaylor1532

3 жыл бұрын

I just found your page on KZread and I’ve enjoyed your comments.

@lisaryherd4685

3 жыл бұрын

Pamela Wolf Yes, I’m getting better at this!!

@downeyjr4423

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, so so important

I wish the entertainment industry would celebrate more class and less trash.

@chunkychica1376

5 жыл бұрын

Tell it!!! Tell it!!! 👍X Billion

@117giraffe-doc

5 жыл бұрын

JandT Furman I FULLY agree.

@BeccaisjustAwesome

5 жыл бұрын

AKA Cardi B -.- it has to stop

@PattymacMakes

5 жыл бұрын

So true. Thank you for saying it. 😘

@minervaf3097

5 жыл бұрын

The problem there is that you are even watching the entertainment industry. And even worse than that - that actually expect anything positive or good to come out of it!!!!

I agree with all that you said-I would add to not think so highly of ourselves that we make others feel inferior. If someone makes you feel better about yourself you probably just encountered a classy person.

@xxxmindblockxxx

6 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@litghost5427

6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

Thank you Dominique! I accidentally discovered you on KZread and absolutely love your videos and tutorials! I have one thing to add to your list on being classy: don't interrupt people and let them finish their sentence. That is so annoying to me when I'm constantly interrupted and never allowed to finish my sentence or thought. God have us two ears to listen more and only one mouth to speak! :)

@jerimiller3017

4 жыл бұрын

So true! My twenty-year-old granddaughter confided in me recently that she had so few friends; I wanted to tell her that friendship is not just talking AT somebody, but also stopping to LISTEN to what they have to say! Constantly interrupting people indicates to them that YOU are all that is important, and that you have no interest in the person with whom you are supposedly conversing!

@JEtt4108

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! She is great!!

@happytraveller2122

3 жыл бұрын

Wish my husband would stop interrupting. So annoying

@sampuatisamuel9785

2 жыл бұрын

@@happytraveller2122 Hmm maybe you talk too much and he can't get a word in

@lindamcmahon9841

2 жыл бұрын

Being interrupted ticks me off so much. I hate when I catch myself doing it. I apologize right away.

Dominique what a lovely video. Thanks for sharing this. It's definitely a topic that completely breaks my heart. My favorite memories of my grandfather are of him tipping his hat to women and of him standing whenever a woman entered the room. I raised three sons who thankfully learned well to seek out women who behave with class. I'm trying to instill class into my nine beautiful grandchildren. When they sleep over, we eat on china! I want them to know what it is to appreciate and care for expensive things. And to know that they're worth being respected enough that others value them, etc. Cheers for this wonderful message!

@cUser691

2 жыл бұрын

@Dina Preuss Excellent message you’re imparting to your grandchildren. These messages impact their lives for the better. Also, it was golden reading about your own gradfather’s manners.

@debrahouston2884

2 жыл бұрын

Cheers to you, Dina Preuss, and to holding your standards HIGH! Your grandchildren are so fortunate to have you in their lives, as you were to have your precious grandfather! We learn by our experiences, and those childhood years are sooo important, so foundational -- yet fleeting! Carpe diem!

Proverbs 31 that's a classic woman!! God bless you all!😘

@lounic0216

4 жыл бұрын

Olga Smith Amen!

@djshockafrica4330

4 жыл бұрын

Yes and Amen!

@consiouslyignorant2989

4 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@stephrose7540

4 жыл бұрын

Olga Smith Omgosh yes

@biancahotca3244

4 жыл бұрын

The best!

One of the best videos on KZread. Please don’t change your style of instruction for the disagreeable naysayers. Unfortunately, we now live in a day where everyone hates to be corrected or instructed on anything. They are offended, which is in itself unattractive. As a young woman looking to improve my style, I appreciate your tips. Thanks for your dignified presentation

@jostephens6080

5 жыл бұрын

totally agree - nice work Dominique :)

@makeupdarling6171

4 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more, Natalia.

@lindasorensen8497

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely keep these kinds of videos coming!!

@sunny_dhende6289

4 жыл бұрын

I concur, she's one of the classiest ladies on you tube! I❤Dominique 💯 I consider her my sister!✌

@margovlahinich5979

4 жыл бұрын

More class and sophistication are absolutely needed in today’s society. I am a real estate broker and I am running a team of agents. The one thing I strongly teach is personal appearance and conversation to new recruits. Since I am in the New York metropolitan area, leggings and jeans are not allowed on my team. Personal grooming is vital!

Thank you. I'm on a self improvement journey. I was injured at work a year ago December. My self esteem, among other things have deminished. I'm unable to work in the medical field I'm so used to taking care of others. I have felt lost, very lost. I'm happy to say I've started this New Year with a new me. I value and appreciate you and your knowledge. I'm enjoying waking up and have started an exercise routine within my physical limits. Eating better again. I'm taking care of me... Inside and out. You inspire me. Thank you again. You have made a positive difference in my life. I've needed you. Glad I found you on here.

@debrahouston2884

2 жыл бұрын

Sending you prayers for healing...and the knowledge that God is in the midst...You have begun to "realign and reorient" yourself...I have no doubt that as you seek Him along your journey, He will light the way to new facets of your life, areas where you and your gifts are needed! Blessings in the midst! 💞🎆💞

I am not your regular demographic because I am a teen, but I found this video so helpful!

@candysmith8724

4 жыл бұрын

It's for everyone...good to learn these things as a young lady. People notice!

@classyladyangie31

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, do not loose yourself in this over sensual generation. Being classy is the real beauty of a woman, from teen to the 90’s. This beauty will take you places you want to go. 💖😉

@saraimonet8588

4 жыл бұрын

Same😭

@TravelingMissD

2 жыл бұрын

MissGlam, you are ahead of your time Sweetie! I am a young 64 and this advice is timeless. Now go out and make your life a great one and please remember to be true to YOURSELF! 🤗🤗🙄

@enoughnonymity

2 жыл бұрын

@@TravelingMissD Woohoo! Thank you! You too, you rockstar!

I am 73 and have always felt that I was a gracious, happy and classy woman then, my husband died, I let things go, had some medical issues and am in a state of transition. I am so grateful for this video as it has hit home and made me aware that I need to make some major changes to become all of the woman that I have been and need to be again. Thank you Dominique, this was special.

@lovesdogs8616

6 жыл бұрын

Sarah, I don't think we can ever lose class if we have it, sometimes life can contribute to our misplacing things. Finding yourself again can be a joyous event.

@Mexicobeanpole

6 жыл бұрын

Hello Sarah. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. You’ve been through the hardest time of a person’s life. You are still in there. It’s time to look after yourself, because you deserve it!!

@asknise

6 жыл бұрын

Bless you Sarah Keith. You have been through one of the hardest things this life has to offer but you still know who you are. Sometimes we get off track and lose sight of ourselves. Please take care of yourself, keep the wonderful memories you have and work on the things that are in your power to mend.

@rebeccalott7675

6 жыл бұрын

That was a very classy comment. We hit hard spots in life that take us back a little - and it’s ok to give ourselves the grace to go through these times - whatever it takes. Get back up, it will be a new adventure.

@theresachatty

6 жыл бұрын

sarah keith I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best as you navigate through this transition. My thoughts are with you. Take good care of yourself.

This should be in school/college curriculum! Love this!

@rmainero1014

3 жыл бұрын

Or perhaps taught by your parent?

@terryhenson3350

3 жыл бұрын

, excellent point. That is where it should begin!@@rmainero1014

@i-said-that8539

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! What ever happened to home economic & sewing classes?

@juliemcknight7150

2 жыл бұрын

I came across your videos today, and I love how confident and elegant you are. Thank you for your tips! I completely agree that class is evaporating from our communities. One example is people wearing pajamas in public. It’s so odd to me.

My be classy rule is : never chew food with the mouth open. Always look at the people when they talk to you. Never interrupt someone speaking.

@PPNanaHime

3 жыл бұрын

In some culture, chewing food with noise and kinda open mouth is the way to appreciate the food.

@jenc775

2 жыл бұрын

@@PPNanaHime When in Rome do as the Romans do. In some cultures you're correct, but here in the USA it's just gross.

@LunaPaloma77

2 жыл бұрын

@@jenc775 It's not cute here in the Caribbean and South America either.

@vgpurple6887

2 жыл бұрын

@@jenc775 😅🤣

@joybeum7177

2 жыл бұрын

Fine, as long as you are within THAT culture! Most of us are not.

I might add to watch the alcohol intake to your list. An occasional cocktail is fine but it is hard to be classy after over drinking. Just a thought. Just was in Houston and new to your channel.

@skyloveup

4 жыл бұрын

I would say spread 2 apart then stop.

@mskatefish

4 жыл бұрын

So true... I’ve been guilty of this ... just out of nerves and low tolerance to booze unfortunately and it’s so off putting to potential partners

@deniseadorno4544

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

Usually, I’m quick to respond to comments and chime in, but my husband and I are on vacation, so I’m making a conscious effort to back off of work a bit. I had a feeling this video would resonate and possibly stir it up, and I’m happy it has sparked dialogue, thought and reflection. It is a subject that has been on my mind lately, and I’m grateful we have this opportunity to discuss, agree or “agree to disagree.” More than anything, I just want us all to be the best version of ourselves, happy with it and proud of our efforts. Like I’ve always said, you’re an amazing community!

@monicarodriguez2425

6 жыл бұрын

Dominique Sachse Thank you for this video. ... is really touching

@Tanja-yn9qs

6 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@quetaybarbo5709

6 жыл бұрын

Love this video, I agree 100 percent. Enjoy your Vacation but I do miss you on the news :)

@sabrinaagostini7248

6 жыл бұрын

Hi Dominique my name is Sabrina my parents are Italian and i was born and raised in france i came in the united state when i was 18 i have to say its so nice to hear that u inbrasse the European culture i love this video and all your wonderful advice you are a breath of fresh air i hope you are enjoying your vacation😊

@saromaliga5937

6 жыл бұрын

Dominique Sachse thanks 💗

Well said! I think I have also learned over the years that another classy move is to not over speak, over state something just to be heard. A lot of times it serves us well to listen more, nod in acknowledgment, keep eye contact of course and speak carefully, wait a beat or two, don’t be too excited to contribute. Blurting out and bluntness are definitely not classy moves.

Thank you for the very poignant suggestions. Two years ago I decided to give up swearing, as I realized it had begun to creep into my dialogue way more than I cared for. It really changed my life and made me much more aware of the content of my conversation. I sometimes think people go to the four-letter words too quickly because they really don’t have anything of value to say. NOT classy! Try it, gals. You’ll likeit!

@mcperez529

5 жыл бұрын

Jean Warner hey what do you dowhen you feel like doing so? Do you use any alternative word or something?

@nihilisticbarbie

5 жыл бұрын

I'm going to try that as well! Wish me luck, because I'm a very verbal person and just say what's on my mind 😀

@Aurora9990

5 жыл бұрын

@She’s so Lucky Ha ha.

@Aurora9990

5 жыл бұрын

I have never been comfortable with that. I think because I knew a few adults who did that when I was young, and it made a bad impression on me. I think the swearing thing starts young. I don't think someone starts doing that as an adult. Also, if you hang around other people who do, you can unconsciously, pick it up. Then it can become a bad habit. I think if you go to college, enter the workforce, you realize, that it is not the professional thing to do. You want to be seen as intelligent and taken seriously-- bad language doesn't help that. Also, when you have children, people reconsider their language. They will parrot you! And, in the most inopportune times. Lol

@annaarrington

4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree! I don't swear & the women I work with, not the men, but the women will say some curse word & then apologize to me by name! I have never said anything to them about swearing, but I just don't and people notice & respect you for it.

Im horrible with cursing and being vulgar. I really strive to change this. Im starting today.

@globalmuffin2

5 жыл бұрын

express yourself and don't change a thing for others' sake.

@nihilisticbarbie

5 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna start as well. I like how there's people that get offended that you're making the choice to stop 😂 no one says you have to stop too! People are very silly

@janegordon-chauvet1816

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaah!!! Me too! I'm terrible!

@kattodoggo3868

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. You're not alone Sis. It's not about changing for other people. I would never do it but i cursing is just a bad habit.

I think showing interest in another person and what they have to say shows class.

@kslaw9636

5 жыл бұрын

Ding ding ding!

@thinkforyourselfjohn3163

5 жыл бұрын

No doubt and a tender caring ❤.

@YenzChan

5 жыл бұрын

I do that everyday!❤️

You are so right about us fixing ourselves on the inside instead of blaming others for our shortcomings. Be aware of yourself and be willing to step back and take a good hard look at the people around us and we may need to make some adjustments. I personally put God first and he helps me in all situations.

I find all the tips important to know and act to them, but the most important part was the last message! Self-reflection is key to improving ourselfs and our lifes. I loved this video, Dominique!

Thank you for bringing back the class and the sophistication. I love it

My Italian grandmother told me one thing when I was a teenager that has stuck with me my entire life and I still hold to what she taught me. "When you walk out your door, how you dress and conduct yourself in public is a direct reflection of the level of respect you have for those around you"

@LDM805

6 жыл бұрын

I am going to use that. Love that!

@foreverXcinderella

6 жыл бұрын

My grandma's advice was "A lady never leaves the house without lipstick and earrings." Maybe old fashioned but it was the thing that stuck with me. Lol.

@mov1ngforward

6 жыл бұрын

The Disconnected Wife It's how we appear to the world...simply put. Your grandmother got it.

@matthewgallien77

6 жыл бұрын

Disconnected Wife, I would like to add to your grandmother's statement and it is one that I share with others who've asked why should I put for the effort in presenting myself to the world. "How you present yourself to the world, is an indicator of how you feel about yourself and the level of respect that you have for yourself and that will set the precedence of the treatment and respect that you will expect to receive. If you present yourself looking polished and put together, you will exude confidence, which is an energy that other's will notice. If you put zero to minimal effort into your appearance and how you present yourself to the world, that too will be perceived as the level of effort you will put into all areas of your life, and you may out on opportunities that you are passionate about or are qualified to apply for, but are overlooked soley based on your self-presentation.. You only get one shot to make a good impression; make it the right one, the first time. Life is not a dress rehearsal! You are the lead in the movie of "You", for which there is no understudy!" I can appreciate the videos that Dominique has created as a pathway for those who need and are searching for makeup tips, hair-style ideas, or clothing styles. It's something that Dominique enjoys doing, it appears that many others have enjoyed following her video logs (given her 576 thousand followers) and to always keep in mind that one's style is subjective and not applicable to everyone.

@annebooyse1112

4 жыл бұрын

and for yourself.☺

Spot on. Like it or not, this is social reality. How we look, starting with good posture; our manners, most noticeably table manners; and our command of the English language are how we are reviewed and whether or not we get a second chance, have a door of opportunity open, and catch the eye of that certain someone.

Class on the outside starts with a good supportive bra. Having the girls lifted and contained makes a woman look younger, leaner and more professional.

This video never goes out of date. I love watching this video and I especially like what you say about looking within. I have been fortunate in drawing few classy friends who really project goodness. Never gossips and always open to feedback and I think that speaks volumes when it comes to class.

From a mother and educator of high school students, I want to thank you for your insight. I found myself shaking my head in agreement as you spoke. I don't know how many times I have given this same speech to so many students, especially during prom season and upon graduations. Many young ladies do not understand the importance of being classy and how it will make a positive impact in their lives. Sadly, they have never been exposed to positive behavior, thus their behavior emulates what they have seen and been taught. As a mother of a son, we also need to teach our young men how to be gentlemen (another video)! Again, thank you for being a positive role model to young women, and reminding us ALL what classy really is!

@kristincurfman4231

6 жыл бұрын

Karen Burke I too raised sons to be gentleman. But it seems that the girls nowadays do not appreciate guys with good manners who show them respect. It seems they would rather be with the vulgar boys that end up treating them badly. Sad.

@janemcgrath4907

6 жыл бұрын

Karen Burke A positive roll model is not ageist.

Preach Dom! We do need to keep it classy. If I were to add one it would be "put the phone down and talk to people around you". Thank you for the videos! Love them!

This is so refreshing! I'm loving that these amazing ladies are stepping up and speaking up! Class rules!!

Thank you so very much for your videos and all you do to help educate us and help us to improve. I married young and have fallen below my own high standards, losing myself and forgetting how to speak and eat in public. I'm 61 and on my own self-improvement mission.

Doing the very best you can with the resources available to you while also being the very best person you can be, regardless of your size, your personal situation or the balance in your bank account, is what classy is to me. Very little else really matters.

I think there is beauty in simplicity! I think it’s classy to also keep your life simple and devoid of clutter!

Her look itself is just pure Class

When I think of class or being classy I think of one word “respect” for oneself and others, it’s that simple! Everything else can be attained. Great video Dominique. I agree with many here who have noted that you are a classy lady!

@debrahouston2884

2 жыл бұрын

True.

Sitting here in my truck wearing my joggers and baggy sweatshirt, not having washed my face in two days, not having brushed my hair at all, with coffee spilled down the front of me, no socks, Ugg boots, having just dropped my daughter and her friend off at school and watching this video. Pretty sure I can do better than this and I appreciate the push.

@auntiecc

6 жыл бұрын

Melissa Key Class and being a lady has nothing to do with how you look. I met a homeless lady the other day and she exuded class and grace. You are a mother, probably a tired and overworked one. Be who God designed you to be....doing for your daughter is selfless...and that is a great attribute. God bless.

@EtreTocsin

6 жыл бұрын

I totally get that! But use the moments you have to yourself for yourself! I started making my bed everyday, doing a skin care routine and light ( very light ) excersise and I feel so much better! I also pamper my hair with henna and indigo once a month. Find what you like and don't feel guilty for treating yourself...And when you feel well, your daughter and everyone around you will feel better also. Trust me, kids love it when Mommy is happy! Best regards.

@maryjaneferguson30

6 жыл бұрын

Melissa Key your daughter will always love you....thats the very most important thing.....i bet you look cute, we all have those days...if we will admit it...

@celestegodsey5689

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, a push. There are always people who will tell you that you are fine how you are, but few who will push you to improve, even excell. People like Dominique push us. Thank you.

@marynichols8504

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, for me here too. : )

I loved every single point you made. As a millennial myself I completely agree about what you said. A society cannot function at its highest ideals unless we communicate and show respect to each other in ways that bring out the highest in ourselves and others.

It is so refreshing to see Dominique sharing her ideas on grace and class. Thank you, Dominique.

I watch this from time to time as reference--- it's like having a treasured 1/2 hour with a "big sister' sharing her wisdom. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate you breaking form and putting your own opinion out there---I really value your viewpoint. You've made a lot out of your life with the choices you've made.

Take care of yourselves ladies. Taking pride in your appearance is such an esteem booster.

@blancaruiz561

5 жыл бұрын

Yes is very truth. Thank you.

I am a 36 year old mom of 4 kids ages 10 and under. 2 of my sons are autistic so sometimes I'm just tired. Your videos always serve as an encouragement for me to not get too tired to stay on top of looking and being my best. I appreciate that. Thank you. 😊

@eileenkillen6475

6 жыл бұрын

Joni Rondeau I am sending you blessings Joni, I also have a beautiful son who has a diagnosis of Aspergers syndrome, he is 18 now and living on his own. I get very tired and overwhelmed with his anxiety and demands, that being said I make a conscious effort to be thoughtful of others, I see positives when I practice this and it sustains me spiritually. God bless you on your reading your little ones.😇🌼🤗

@eileenkillen6475

6 жыл бұрын

Rearing your little ones!!!!

@jonirondeau9399

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Eileen! I appreciate your kind words. The Lord bless you and give you strength as you minister to your son. 😊

Thank you, thank you Dominique! You have reiterated my own personal beliefs and what my mother taught me on what is class (though I may have resented her control at the time). I especially agree that they way we carry ourselves, enter a room, say please and thank you and use other manners and etiquette are the keys to being a successful woman who leads in our homes, careers and lives. Like you, doors have opened by this awareness. Exude that inner joy and see how contagious it is!

I’m so inspired and I really believe in your voice. I’m very critical. I love what you have to say and I feel that you are real and blessed. I’m taking all your videos in and also applying them to my life and children. Your mom should start a page. She has the gift! We need this type of community and leadership. KZread is an amazing platform to share! You have truly inspired me! Thanks for being you!

Very Well Said!!! I am an older woman who has seen such change in our society. And it's not in a positive way. So sad. Thank you for this posting.

AMEN, and again I say AMEN!!! You are so on point with this video. In addition to all, you said I also think being someone that lives a life filled with love, and compassion towards others is key! It's just so sad that the society we live in is as selfish as it is!

You are definitely an epitome of class n grace. 👌

You my dear, are a rare joy! Thank you for loving others and giving your love to all of us. I am 65 years young and I so appreciate your sage advice!

I'm so glad to watch a video like this. I'm Asian and we are taught self control, honour and respect for one's self, which projects forth good upbringing. We automatically treat others the way we treat ourselves. Good manners and etiquette is everything! Please make a series of videos like this one for the young who have not been privileged to have parents to impart proper social behaviour. Thank you ❤️

I've watched this twice and had to comment again. This should be required information starting in elementary school!! Thanks again Dominique.

@suetomfordlaw6673

6 жыл бұрын

1960genius Totally agree!

@mommabear5059

6 жыл бұрын

1960genius this should be taught be parents, both in conversation and example.

@1960genius

6 жыл бұрын

totally agree and reiterated in school!!

@dreamsdocometrue4447

6 жыл бұрын

I agree with you completely! I've been trying to figure out a way to get the education system in this country to add a couple of well needed subjects to school, mainly KINDNESS 101. Now that you mentioned how this should be required information in school, that would be part of curriculum...WOW!

@auntiecc

6 жыл бұрын

School should be for learning math, science English, etc. Parents should be teaching class, manners and grace at home.

I just came across this video and loved it. This is exactly the way my father raised me and it has served me well in my life. Thank you for bringing the subject into peoples awareness. We need more class in this society.

Thank you! You are sooo right. Exterior class is a luxury that I can’t live without. It’s almost reassuring! As for the inside part, I always « breathe » and focus on the person I really am, before going out into the world. Staying connected to my true self - that I learn to love more everyday- is my key to being classy « inside » and people notice it « outside ».

So true, everything you said shows class. I have been living in Spain for a few years, and it didn't take me long to notice how the Spanish ladies dress, very neutral colours, matching bag and shoes, and if a splash of colour, then a red bag or red shoes. Italians, French, and Spanish just have such a simplistic style. Also being proud of yourself and feeling good about who you are, and believing in yourself, just speaks volumes and gets you noticed. Alot of women do not thing well of themselves enough. And as well as all you've mentioned, being kind to others, being selfless and having a caring nature is also very classy in a lady, a quality that is not seen as much these days in our busy lives. Thank you for a great video 😄

@laurariddle4023

6 жыл бұрын

How does color have anything to do with class?

@drdancerlisa

6 жыл бұрын

Beverly connected them well, I thought. If you are feeling good and confident, you don't need to scream with your clothes. It's not just the color, but the over-all look and how you put colors together is part of that.

@pamelabanas1429

6 жыл бұрын

There is also an epidemic of laziness when it comes to work and personal debt...many cultures prioritize lifestyle and social status over work and family. I know too many people who are all about their appearance and luxurious vacations, yet don’t spend much time with their families, lack a strong work ethic, and are in debt. It’s not all about the exterior...although this does not mean hard working women can’t have it all and take a few hair and makeup tips

I’m not sure how people took this video so wrong. It’s about a total package and appearance is actually very important. It shows that you value yourself. People initially are drawn to someone from the presentation and are then more willing or not to get to know the individual. She discusses the inside part very well.

@thetonibrelandagency3477

5 жыл бұрын

Indeed. I agree with you.

@melvina628

5 жыл бұрын

I heard the same thing.

@kp-tq1fw

5 жыл бұрын

Because of their own frustrations and feeling not good about themselfes ,they project it like this video as a judgment not as am advice. Possitive people will hear the advice ,negative people will feel it as a judgment...

@Hilushenka

4 жыл бұрын

In some societies appearances are everything. Pitiful!

I just love everything about you and this video is one of my favorite. Everything you say is true and these days it's hard to find class. I just love it when I come across a classy lady. There is a special aura around it. Thank you for being here for us...greetings from Slovenia. Love, Natasha

Like your suggestions about keeping it classy. These are simple step to follow. For me, I need to work on my posture so I will definitely keep this in mind. With regards to behavior, I think it is also so important to be kind to people. My mother would say, “Kindness is free” It is true and I think when we make others feel good, we feel good too. Thank you Dominique.

I believe a classy woman is one who gives herself grace. So often we are our own worst critic. We should explore our inner passions and pursuits.. things that make us feel confident and embolden us to try new things and take risks while staying true to our inner character and core values. Just wanted to share my take in the dialogue.

@jaynekarinova256

6 жыл бұрын

Very well said. I’m almost 29 and I’m constantly struggling with releasing that inner critic and allowing myself to be open to new opportunities while letting go of my past. Sometimes I’m afraid to pursue things I really want out of fear that some sort of past “demon” will come back to haunt and just take it all away. It’s interesting, I think I have a lot of these “classy” characteristics but a part of me feels undeserving of certain things or opportunities... like I’ll think “Oh, that’s amazing, but that’s for that person..not me.” If that makes sense. I definitely need to put in the work to gradually overcome this.

@yaseminkher

6 жыл бұрын

Perfectly You Beauty uyn

@synolve

6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! There are so many versions of beautiful and true style. I’d hate to have to live my whole life trying to always fit into someone else’s definition of beautiful 💖✨💖💖

@butterpecanrican_

6 жыл бұрын

I love this!

@micheleainsworth1709

6 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said!

I am so glad you didn't keep this video to the "superficial" stuff (as in "on the surface"), but added that knowledge, reasoning and logic Are classy! I would add that knowledge isn't only classy and useful in a conversation, but it makes us true and fulfilled human beings!

@kschult4861

6 жыл бұрын

Anne-Sophie Alain

I'm 19 and really want to be a classy lady rather than "vulgar" like I see in the people around me... I just wish that there was a video that showed what it looks like and not just talked about it. Or like a school near me that could pin-point what I'm doing wrong.

@annaarrington

4 жыл бұрын

You may be just 19, but you are wise beyond your years. Young people need mentors to emulate how to do things in life correctly. ONE thing you can do is be mindful of what you watch. As you watch, you become changed into what you see. Garbage in, garbage out is a simple way to say that. Watch this woman's videos, you will see how she carries herself, and you will begin to see how "it's done". Choose the people you spend time with wisely. Humans were designed to model. There is a lot to the old saying, "monkey see, monkey do" we do that without thinking about it. But you are smart enough to ask the right questions. I wish you well young lady!!

@rhondaanthony12

4 жыл бұрын

You are already classy just by wanting to know “HOW”....

@FashionByPaige

4 жыл бұрын

I’m 19 as well! I think these videos will really help.

@fmcw43

4 жыл бұрын

Subscribe to ‘school of affluence’ on KZread as well as the lovely Dominique here. - it is great for classy tips. It’s kind of geared to mixing in affluent society but Anna Bey gives fab tips on dressing and acting in a classy way x

@christiannail1749

4 жыл бұрын

The things you see people do that you do not like, just continue not doing them. Also, don't be mean to others... All will pay off.

I so appreciate this video, Dominique. I grew up in a home where nothing less than ladies and gentleman would be tolerated. “You only get to make a first impression once” is my mother’s favorite tidbit. It is so true. You do only get to make that first impression once. So, why not let it be a great one and build from there instead of starting at less than you can be. My mother went to finishing school, good behavior and knowledge of acceptable social decorum have always been important to her. She had my siblings and I take etiquette lessons. I thought it was ridiculous as a kid, but there is so much confidence that comes with knowing how to behave. I’m now so thankful that she instilled in us those invaluable traits. Now having three children of my own, we watch etiquette videos on KZread all the time. It’s so important to show strong character by having even just basic class and tact. Love your videos!

Leaving a legacy of grace has always been important to me and I have encouraged my daughter to strive for grace and dignity also. The question, "How will I be remembered" keeps me centered. Thanks for addressing this topic!

I just adore you and I think that is why I subscribe to your channel. I agree 100% with everything you said. My grandmother was classy, my mom was classy and I was raised to be classy. I really believe that because I was raised to be classy it has opened so many doors for me. I am so grateful to my parents for showing me the way and I also love to be around classy people. You emulate class and I always look forward to what you have to share. It is so very refreshing. Be blessed!

I just revisited this video! Yes yes yes! Not only the part about dressing minimalistic , well pressed clothing that fit but also hand written notes of thank you , gratitude , thinking about you or even sympathy notes! It truly is a dying art. I too appreciate a handwritten note ..it makes me feel I was important enough that person w/me in mind sat down took their time to write to me! And the “potty mouth” I cringe at the language the younger generation uses! And as far as table manners...where have they gone?? You are so amazing and touch on SO MANY topics that seem to have been forgotten! Thank you for always being a sophisticated and beautiful woman! You are an amazing example and are truly inspiring ❣️

Thank you Dominique for another wonderful video. Thank you for the really helpful tips. I agree with all👍. I am a Chinese and my dad brought me up with so many rules, such as slow eating, no noise when eating, do not cross you leg in front of older generations,good posture, work hard, study hard and be humble . Unfortunately he passed away when I was 12. He was always proud of me being the top student in my class and in a school. His tips really helped me in my whole life. Even now as 53, I still use his rules to help our son to grow up. When I was 32, I was living in China, I decided to learn English--self taught. The word got me to know that there is tense difference in English was left😃. At the time, I knew left as left side, left hand but did not know left is past tense of leave. I took my opportunity to be promoted so many times through my career in China and in UK and I am pleased to say as age 53, I will get my MSc degree in 2 months time if I pass my dissertation. So many ways to be classy. We are living in a vast, variety world, be yourself and be a useful person to this society, be responsible, and do not leave any regret of your life. I total agree with you Dominique , do not complain about missing opportunities or because of your colour, look yourself what you can give, what you can offer to others and the society as a whole. As a foreigner in uk, I have heard so many other nationalities saying job promotion was not fair but I, myself proved it is fair because I have been promoted a couple of times within 17 years working in UK as a foreigner. It dose not matter where You come from and I have yellow skin but not white😀. It is your behaviour and you contribution to the job to the society to the country matters.

A few years ago I met you in the shoe department at Neiman Marcus I still remember how nice and classy you presented yourself 😊

@cw8682

5 жыл бұрын

Claudia Monchez love that

Would Love you to have 8 tips to keeping it classy for men too

Thanks for your videos Dominique. I'm turning 50 this year and have noticed that I've let myself go over the last few years. This is a great video for reminding me how to be classy again. Thanks for sharing!

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Thank you for this video! I showed it to my 11 year old daughter as I have talked to her about some of these ways, like writing ‘Thank you’ notes to her teachers, having good posture, eating slowly, learning a new language, being assertive in a mindful and respectful way etc...

You are a genuine Lady , I'm sure it runs in the family ! One can't " buy" class in a store ...

@db2623

6 жыл бұрын

aleksandra bah but it can always be learned:)

@aleksandrabah5472

6 жыл бұрын

:) I agree .

@db2623

6 жыл бұрын

aleksandra bah :):)

I wish I could post a photo of me from a few years ago and a photo of me now. 3 years ago I had no knowledge of anything, I was a drug attict, and even though I held down a job and kept composure I did not take care of myself. I stopped doing my drug of choice and become obsessed with skin care and makeup. I have been studying and researching it for 3 years. I haven't gone to school for it yet but I plan on it next year. My outer appearance has improved immensely! I'm still working on my inner, thank you for this video. I am going to take your advice and make some BIG changes!

@dvhanson1962

6 жыл бұрын

A.J. Watkins Good for you! That is a great achievement. Another channel you may want to check out is The Daily Connoisseur. The is very big on manners and deportment. Keep up the good work. :-)

@madelinescrogin8808

4 жыл бұрын

How terrific for you! Congratulations on giving your self-awareness a kick start.

Sound advice Dominique, I have been following your stream for about 3months and appreciate your class, elegance and beauty tips as well as the much needed and neglected self care suggestions. Keep doing what you're doing because you do it well, thank you, Tucson. AZ fan

It's October 2019 and I'm watching this video again, just to relax! I love it.

You were able to speak about class without seeming snooty. Thank you!

Well said. Since I retired, I have become lazy about how I dress and am frankly just sloppy and only looking for quick comfort. I more often then not forget about makeup and my hair is just in a ponytail. This video reminded me how important it is to take better care of myself and the way I project myself. Thank you for the reminder.

You’re definitely right, bring back classy!

I am very happy to come across this video. Although I was born in 80s, there is an “old” soul living inside of me. I have always admired 30-50s women’s glamour and class. The way they carried themselves; Proper English they spoke; Classy outfits they wore. The list can go on. This video serves as a reminder that being classy is timeless. It might be a rarity nowadays but it never goes out of style.

What a fabulous lesson. So many younger ladies were never taught the basic “social graces” . I LOVED THIS. THANK YOU, THANK YOU THANK YOU!

Adore you! I am a Grandma now but when I was a young girl my mom would have us write a thank you note immediately after receiving a gift, she would say do not eat it, use it or spend it before you write a thank you note! My daughter is now 30 and I have passed on this to her! My friends have often have complimented me "about her raising"..... after receiving notes from her! Merry Christmas !!

@connie5768

5 жыл бұрын

My mom was the same--we were always sending notes. I tried to instill this in my stepsons when they lived with my husband and me, but they and their wives aren't very good about this. Too sad, and I'm especially disappointed in the girls for not doing this.

@avawilliams5827

5 жыл бұрын

My Grandma always made me do that and as a child I used to hate it. I thought it was so tedious lol but now I understand it’s significant

Dominique you are so right about what we have lost in manners and class. Respect for others, respect for self. You exude all good things. Thank you for speaking about this. ❤️

Absolutely! Luv, luv this video. This exactly what I always teach my girls, I have 2 teenage girls. Classy... to me is how You carry Yourself. It's Not just the expensive things you wear! Classy...is how You treat yourself & others.

Timeless advice from the woman who embodies class ❤️ bless you this holiday season!

@terrybarbee9494

6 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite videos

There's a lack of etiquette in America today. I'm a big fan of Emily Post. My mother always told me first impressions are the one you will remember. I would love to see an etiquette video.

Being confident yet having humility is something that I think is a great plus point for being classy and likeable. Having genuine care and concern for others is also a very very attractive trait. We need more people like this in our society.

@mrsdewdrop9678

2 жыл бұрын

Dear Education First, you hit the nail on the head!! People are not genuinely interested in others these days. Its all about "self". Thus- no genuine interest in anyone else. I see it often. People don't make eye contact when speaking. They are looking around, turning their head elsewhere. Or the most annoying and says "go away" is their head down scrolling their cell phones. Definitely no class. No genuine interest or caring. So sad.

@clairejohnson6522

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrsdewdrop9678 Mrs DewDrop, You are so correct.Also it seems if anyone shows interest it is usually because they want to gain something from you.I don't understand why people are more comfortable with bad manners/walking around like they've just got out of bed/walking around with their mobile glued to their ear/No self respect or respect for others.Surely, now more than ever,we need to be kinder to each other and have genuine concern and interest in our fellow man.Perhaps we need a time machine to go back in time before the rot set in!

@mrsdewdrop9678

2 жыл бұрын

@@clairejohnson6522 I sometimes feel it is to late, rotting seems to be here....so very tragic

You are absolutely on point here and I agree that being classy also encompasses what we say out loud and how we say it. As an idea for a topic, being more feminine and feminity. You touch on this in every one of your videos, but to take it to new level. Thanks Dominique! Dawn, Vancouver Canada

When I think of a woman with class, I automatically think of my grandmother. She was the epitome of elegance and class in every way. She was someone I always looked up to and admired for so many reasons.....And on top of all that, she was the sweetest, most loving grandmother in the whole world (to me, anyway!). I was very blessed to have her in my life as long as I did. She died four years ago, on Dec. 11th, at the age of 96. I miss her so much. ♥

@latinaalma1947

6 жыл бұрын

Many of us had grandmothers like that..they live on in us.

@MustardSeedish

6 жыл бұрын

I had a grandmother like that too. She passed away at 94. What a blessing and legacy they leave.

As a woman, nearly 50, I am choosing to embrace my place as an older woman and taking the role of encourager. I think classy women build others up. In conversation, they take interest in others and then find something positive to complement, especially in younger women.

You are speaking the truth in everything you have just said. My Mother always told her children “Be careful what you put out into the universe because it will come back too you. Make sure you don’t mind seeing it again”. And “Your first impression might be the only one you. Get to show yourself so make it your best”

Agree wholeheartedly with your recommendations! This presentation also made me realize how much I value two of my truly classy friends and I immediately told them just that. Thank you!