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@sweetberries683

3 жыл бұрын

thanks for link and I love it cheers...

@vaporz109

3 жыл бұрын

Are you Chinese? Just wondering because I hear a Chinese accent. No offense if I’m wrong!

@Shmitty2023

Жыл бұрын

Gratitude!

Whenever I talk a lot I hate myself at the end. I found out that being silent give me more value, save me a lot of power and also ends my days peacefully without feeling bad about myself.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@blessme7853

2 жыл бұрын

same

@meow-meme7986

Жыл бұрын

same

@peaches4043

Жыл бұрын

I agree, totally.

@sanchareechattopadhyay8768

Жыл бұрын

Same here... exact words

Silence is powerful. It gives you a chance to reflect on life, purpose and gives you sense of peace.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Yep!

@kitajkulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Says a fellow with an Anime profile picture.

@utteryongam3302

4 жыл бұрын

Hmm... That's true!

@stevegaming6920

4 жыл бұрын

Silence makes me think about all of my failures and serious mistakes that can be easily avoided, all i have is guilt.

@someguyontheinternet6441

4 жыл бұрын

Ryuzaki Simms before I was like Kevin in the first part Next year someone told me a funny joke but I did not laugh Started being quiet its nice happy peaceful and started not Talking I Felt no emotions

That quote is so perfect: "A wise man speaks, because he has something to say. A fool speaks, because he has to say something."

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

:)

@milkncookies4632

4 жыл бұрын

Damn. I’m a fool...

@nvmber10

4 жыл бұрын

@@milkncookies4632 me too bro 🙄🙄

@cal5401

3 жыл бұрын

Cmon its the social anxiety..

@windysun9895

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a fool

I hate being talkative, I'm even annoyed at myself, I tried to change it but my siblings told me it was just fine, that I don't have to change it, I know I still have to Change it, because when I get older, people will be annoyed at me

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

You can change

@sissi9100

2 жыл бұрын

Same, I will start journaling and try to think before I say anything. Also the problem is I stutter, so I talk a lot + stuttering which makes me feel like my friends are getting annoyed from me

@cxpea

2 жыл бұрын

same g

@freelybeing6182

Жыл бұрын

Or maybe you’re meant to have a career where you are meant to speak. 🤷🏾‍♂️

@cowboy5587

Жыл бұрын

Yes change it because I suffered a lot ...don't do this to yourself

My friend said I was an emberrasment for my loud talking... I used to be too quiet and everyone thought I was serious and boring, but I got out of my shell and it appears it burst not gracefully but instead shattered into pieces. I can still be really quiet but I don't really control it, I'm passionate about almost everything, and I come off as impulsive. Thoughts? I want to be silent again. Even if people thought I was boring, it was better than whatever I am now. Edit: For those who resonate with this - consider autism.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

I think you need to learn self control. Try thinking about what you are going to say before saying something so you don't come off as impulsive

@burrito5673

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa I'll work on it ᕙ( • ‿ • )ᕗ

@movingon2081

4 жыл бұрын

You just have to know how to express yourself be who you are and not people want you to be to please. Express yourself

@burrito5673

4 жыл бұрын

@@movingon2081 thank you for the advice :)

@idkanymore2183

4 жыл бұрын

SAMMEE! I used to be very quiet but now I can't shut up and I come of as loud and anxious

Damn , I just realized I am Kevin

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

You can change that :)

@yungdemon8839

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@oh_look_a_nerd384

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah

@caitlyn4195

4 жыл бұрын

gokul singh lol same

@magnificentlego2866

4 жыл бұрын

gokul singh same

Silence is golden.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Yep! :)

@jeremypitt714

4 жыл бұрын

. . . . . .

@saizo.9460

4 жыл бұрын

Teach my how be silent P/s im so fcking annoying at school

@Imperfect5252

4 жыл бұрын

@Elizabeth Taylor i have seen duct tapes with many colors

@ChrisPBacon-un7rf

4 жыл бұрын

"Nope silence is dope" 😙😙😙😙

-Stop isolating +Start engaging -Stop telling lies +Start getting honest -Stop procrastinating +Start making daily progress -Stop excusing your lack of effort +Start taking action and work hard -Stop talking to yourself negatively +Start praising your good qualities

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Good actions to take

@justablackguy4701

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

@allyonightmare

4 жыл бұрын

Stop begging for attention

@pika6836

4 жыл бұрын

-stop with this trash +start commenting useful things

@chadikhr7258

4 жыл бұрын

BRIGHT MINDS but what if i had no qualities at all?

If the conversation is not meaningful, positive, & vivid, then silence is the better option.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

:)

I'm a silent person, especially when everyone's blasting their opinion or perspective. I'm silent, but I listen and observe, which is probably the cause of my silence. People can be quite shady...gossiping about you, intentionally misinterpreting your words, etc. So, I stay silent unless I truly have something meaningful to say.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@T.Alexis926

3 жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head! So true. I am the same.

@marcimarc5155

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I can be like you :( people have called me annoying and said they didnt care even my own family

@112stace

3 жыл бұрын

What you said bro that hit me I'm going through something so thanks for sharing such great words of encouragement

@MaryJane-tp3qd

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t seem to tell what’s meaningful to the person I’m saying it to which is normal, but I haven’t been able to get the concept of that. But only if Im in a group of 3 (myself and two others ) because 2 other people is hard enough finding when I should say what I was saving up before the topic changes. 🤦🏽‍♀️ no speaking in big groups for me ! 😂

How the hell did KZread knew that I am talkative

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

KZread is crazy!

@epicbloxergang7327

3 жыл бұрын

Me toi

@daughterofthelord8280

3 жыл бұрын

Relate I'm talkative much

@yetsuuu

3 жыл бұрын

They just know

@theronald_uwu6123

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe ur search history? Idk lol

That bad thing is that when your talkative, people will listen and take the words you said, twist them, and turn them into something completely opposite of what you said and tell everyone their version just to try to make you look bad. People a lot times dont want to hear what you have to say, they want to take what you say and use it to talk badly about you to others. People feed off one another's pain. This doesn't happen always but sadly it's more common than you'd imagine. Sit back and watch, and those people that make you feel bad about yourself will slowly begin to turn on each other. Never stop being you for anyone or anything

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

It's the worst when people interpret what you say in the wrong way

@djkleb7645

2 жыл бұрын

Even when you're silent people misunderstand it, we have a problem here and is that judging just what we perceive is bad, people need to start thinking that what we perceive is not the reality per se is just a perception, to known reality people need to listen carefully, watch, observe, ask the right questions and make it without judging

@njiejoinville4838

2 жыл бұрын

This resonated so much with me that I am ready to change !!

@hairlesswizard8818

Жыл бұрын

I've known toxic people like this. I've learned to avoid them lol.

I used to be quite and shy. I then became a security guard and started interacting with customers . I can't stop talking. I need to change this.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Interacting with customers is fine. Why do you think its a problem?

@jroc3060

3 жыл бұрын

I have the same job and the same problem. I gotta learn to be quiet

People keep calling me annoying and after five years I’m just gonna start to stay silent, even people I just meet after like 3 minutes they say I’m annoying

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

If everyone is calling you annoying maybe you are doing something wrong

@yusuke_anime1101

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa I just ask a lot because I get worried when it’s silent so I try to start conversation and talk about random crap

@selinakuhberger8975

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Know, that you are still precious, even if people can't handle your energy. I will have to learn to "not be a burden" too. This feeling is disgusting, to know, that one is "too much".

@Dedsirius

3 жыл бұрын

I know

@princesslilchief8282

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤫🤫🤫🤫

Talk when you need too, not when you have too. Being a listener you get much appreciation since most just want to be heard and understood. Stay positive. Stay cool. Remain confident.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

In my country they say (in my translation so not that accurate): "if talking is made from silver, then silence is made from gold"

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@marlene5722

3 жыл бұрын

haha yes we habe That in germany too! We say „Reden ist Silber, Schweigen ist Gold“

Be the last to talk, everyone will listen. You are welcome.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

:)

Kevin accepted feedback and grew from it, that’s powerful.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Yep!

Never let the enemy know your thoughts, wishes, dreams or desires because it can be used against you when you least expect it. Carefully choose whom to speak with🌝

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

:)

@blessme7853

2 жыл бұрын

SUPER AGREE

@Noochi-ow2jw

Жыл бұрын

Who tf is the enemy 💀

im actually like the class clown in my school. i was pretty sad when i realized that most of my friends consider me super dumb. i dont really feel like talking to someone and only to focus. thanks for the story tho :)

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Hope this video helps

@therealKINDLE

2 жыл бұрын

Keep in mind that our language, social system, & economy is very old. You & I are victims of our surroundings. You're doing fine. And have a good ability to learn, given the correct environment ;)

I really wanted to share that I wanted to be silent because i know that the feeling of being silent is more comfortable than being talkative to people who cannot take you seriously at school and at public and I also wanted to be silent when im with my parents because I know they dont like the way I act in front of them and I also know that I just embarrass them in front of their friends and relatives. Theres a lot of reason why i want to be silent but those examples shows it all.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@backpackninja6377

Жыл бұрын

@@idkwhattomakemyname2091 not saying it’s easy but I’m kinda of a quiet guy I just be quiet in most lessons but in some I go a bit talkative

Watching this because I feel that I've been a burden to my colleagues. I don't know if I'm overthinking but whenever I talk to them I feel like I'm suffocating them. Sometimes I just put my earphones on, and have my own world while working but it feels suck as I feel that they are all against me.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Look at their facial expressions to see if you are suffocating them

@CatherineLynnielReyes

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa this is noted. But we all know that not everyone will be open to welcome you. I'm quite new in my work and it seems that they don't want to welcome me at all. I tried to communicate and be close to them (I'm normally outgoing person) but the thing is I'm feeling that they were backstabbing me that's why I feel that I'm suffocating them. That's the reason why I want to be quiet person.

@S.G..E555

4 жыл бұрын

How are things now? X

@muhammadhassaan9953

4 жыл бұрын

Face the same things just don't know when to stop sometimes u just forget how to .

@Madara-Uchiha

3 жыл бұрын

@@CatherineLynnielReyes Think about what you say and when you say. If that what you are saying is alright, you are not the one who needs to change. Never change yourself for others if you are not doing anything wrong.

This is such great advice. I always feel like people who talk a lot but never say anything meaningful have nothing worth while to say. But that may not always be true

@TheLifeFormulaa

5 жыл бұрын

It usually depends on the context but yea some people just talk for the sake of talking

I used to be Kevin. The whole "quiet until you know me" type of situation. I realized I spoke with no meaning so I went silent and started to listen. My coworkers are still scared. They think I've "snapped", no matter how much I tried to reassure them that it's just me not annoying them anymore. Their problem, not mine.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@re11o

2 жыл бұрын

I often feel i bug and annoy my friends too much so i might just go full silent atp😶

@EL6166

Жыл бұрын

Facts stop talking an they will think u acting different o well to bad

I've been the quiet kid at school and let me tell you I regret nothing. I was the listener. Loved every bit of being mysterious. Then only payment was that you might end up being alone but for those who don't mind, I really recommend this.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@someonesomewhereinthisworld

2 жыл бұрын

i know this is a year late but.. how do u entartain urself when u need entertainment, and u dont have friends?

@someonesomewhereinthisworld

2 жыл бұрын

or you know, when u want to talk about something personal to other, expressing ur feeling, do you just hide ur feeling?

@IIEchoII

2 жыл бұрын

@@someonesomewhereinthisworld I used to read a lot and yes I did have a bunch of closest friends I had fun with. But I was a good listener, not much of a talker. However now that I'm working I have changed a lot. Usually talk too much but only with certain people...introvert for life, huh 😄

@IIEchoII

2 жыл бұрын

@@someonesomewhereinthisworld and yes, I do express my feelings. I'm an honest person, don't like sugar-coating

I've spent my whole life being quiet and trying to be louder and now I realise being loud isnt everything

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

:)

I realized that I have fake friends who only put up a facade And I went through a hard time with depression thinking no one loves me Now I decided I won't be fake in order to get "friends" I'll just be the silent one

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Being yourself is good

@hasbrogrl74

4 жыл бұрын

I always learn the hard way, lots of friends leave you if you have a mental illness but God forbid they would be supportive if you have a physical illness (broken bone or cancer) and they think mental illness isn't real

@JugalSingh

4 жыл бұрын

@@hasbrogrl74 I'm lucky that my family has lot of experience healing their depression and anxiety. So they always know the right things to say to me

@neelineeliraises5546

3 жыл бұрын

OMG!So relatable

I use to hate being a quiet introvert (Infp) but now I see the power behind it.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Nice

I can't be silent when am angry otherwise it will finish me on the inside i have to let it out.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Bottling feelings is never the answer

@AJ-cv9zf

4 жыл бұрын

Good idea to bottle up your feeling's. To me that implie's your aware of the people around you.

@perhaps5095

4 жыл бұрын

@@AJ-cv9zf It also implies a sense of distrust towards people in general. That is good and bad depending on how you see it. I prefer to silently suffer.

@sydneyanne1241

3 жыл бұрын

The Life Formula i don’t understand how come everyone tells you to be silent but when you mention your emotions then you’re “bottling them up” so what the fuck does anyone ever want from us

@WhereisYunoGasai

3 жыл бұрын

Sydney Anne fr

Being silent is golden especially if you are a person with good morals and character. Just sit back and watch people they tell on themselves and show their true character and morals. Majority of humans don't have morals or character. Shady, gossiping, lying, backstabbing you name it, I am a naturally quiet person and I don't fool with people period! Too many shady snakes for me!!!!!! Especially females!!!!! I be by myself and love every bit of it.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

The most underrated channel. I wish people could get to know about you. As your videos can be relatable

@TheLifeFormulaa

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind words

Dude thanks for this. I talked a lot but didn't really enjoy talking cause I made people feel uncomfortable and decided to start using a journal myself and self reflect before I discovered this video. And this really provided me with confidence on how I should improve myself

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad this video helped!

" Big minds discuss about ideas, fool ones discuss about others" BIG WORDS

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

:)

I'm currently workin on strengthening my silence, mainly due to a lot of fake and negative ppl I encountered my whole life and currently. So I'm resuming daily dose of meditation. It not only helps me learn from my mistakes and reflect on good memories, but it mainly helps me tackle negative situations and be prepared for the worst. Not to mention it teaches me being quiet is a great thing. I guarantee you, the more u do it, the more you'll learn, grow, and develop as Life goes on. U necessarily don't have to keep your eyes closed the whole time, and other factors too like writing in a daily journal, drawing, workin on a song, etc, all of these assist with finding who you are. So everyone start askin yourself "Who are you?" and I guarantee you'll be rewarded. Patience is key here and it's worth it. Good luck everyone!! 😇👍🏿

@TheLifeFormulaa

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

I learned how silence is important. I’m going to learn how to remain silent around people. I’m an introvert while talkative. It is an oxymoron. I will practice these skills in my future human interactions. Initially, it will be extremely difficult. However, everything is a major adjustment. I learned that most people talk about things that I don’t even like, so I will be in less conversations. Maybe, I can get more stuff done including being around more knowledgeable people.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

You can change personalities!

@beshanahgarcon7068

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

Ughh I talk too much, I need to keep my Business to myself!

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

You can change!

@darktrolls9047

3 жыл бұрын

Don't reveal your plan to anyone even your parents surprise them with your success

@kourtneywiththekurls814

3 жыл бұрын

I know how you feel. After you blab you find yourself saying “Why did I SAY that?!?”

@PrettyJasmime

3 жыл бұрын

@kryshayla same

@PrettyJasmime

3 жыл бұрын

I need help I talk to much I’m a gossiper and a two faced liar I need help please

Got tired of society , was extroverted and giddy early on in my infantile years By the time I had reached 16 , I had been backstabbed , betrayed , lied to and harmed so many times that I had lost count The real sucker is most of the sabotage came from close family My home turned into literal battleground with different groups fighting for property rights I'm 19 now , been silent , observing and cautious for 3 years now .. Have to say ..un predictability caused by this silence is a powerful and lethal weapon

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

This has really made me think why I don’t fit in with groups, feel to left out or to self centered... feeling like I speak just to speak.... this really hurts my ego but I appreciate this a lot.... I want to say less then needed

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

You can change

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa I’ll try to, I just need be more conscious what I say 😭

Silence helps with protecting your energy.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

A wise man once said “Talk less, smile more”

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

:)

@paiz775

2 жыл бұрын

AARON BURR?

@jasoniverson4715

Жыл бұрын

A wise man once said " don't argue with fools!! Cuz ppl from a distance can tell who is who" jay z

Hold your tongue is my motto☺ I am most definitely a quiet person.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

Thank you for the nudging me to introspect. As an only child I always wanted to talk to people since I believed talking can help me to come off as a friendly & interesting person and help me to "belong ".

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Talking usually will make you come off as friendly but when done wrong it appears tryhard

i am always told i talk to much. my teachers over the years , i’ve noticed , don’t like me. they say i’m bubbly but what they really mean is i talk to much. it’s always me that’s not liked and this is why. i remember picking up my teachers clipboard and i saw my name in a big red circle and in red it said “talks to loud and to much”. that was years ago. i feel like what i say is important. i don’t ramble on most the time , i usually talk about important matters or feelings. to anyone who is told that they are to loud or talk to much , never let that stop you from saying what you feel.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@cloudysubliminals1720

4 жыл бұрын

The Life Formula no problem! :)

Thank you for changing my life. I was Kevin 100% MAX! I have talked my way out relationships (work/love), jobs, & help. Your videos have saved my relationships! Thank you man!

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad my videos helped

It’s always better to listen more and talk less, since taking knowledge is better than giving away knowledge, and you’ll also know what to say and what not to say. It also makes your words more impactful to others also shows others that you’re willing to listen, which they will also mirror when you speak. The only disadvantage is people will also try to find fault in your words.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

Today I realized how much I hurt people because of how much I talk, my own best friend told me "we cant be friends anymore" it broke me inside, my other best friend avoided me, because of something I did (it has something to do with talking) so now I just wanna try change myself..

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

You can change

@thesupergreenjudy

3 жыл бұрын

Then they were not true friends to begin with. You don't just call off a friendship for something as superficial as that.

This video has helped me greatly. I've realized I'm the same bc of extreme anxiety and low self esteem. I've been wanting to start journaling for a long time and now I've decided I definitely will. TY.👍😊

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad this video helped!

i literally hate my talkative person. i hate being an extrovert i literally enjoy being alonee

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Spend some more alone time :)

I used to be very quite and now I want to go back. Everyone thought I was serious but inside my head I was having hella fun observing everything. I was always quiet in every situation in life. No matter how fun the environment I was in, I was still really quite. Now that I am getting older I felt the need to get out of my shell and be more outgoing and talkative but turns out that I just notice everybody doesn't want to do anything with me anymore. Nobody asks questions about my life like they used to. Nobody would invite me to place like they used to. Nobody calls or texts me first like they used to. All because I felt the need to be "extroverted." I think what's best in life is just be who you are and just vibe.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Being true to yourself is so important

I used to be quiet, shy, underconfident girl in my school time. I barely have friends, my classmates used to make fun of me, they used to bully me and comment on me for my looks and it was hard for me to start a conversation with someone. But I decided that i will change myself in college. I start talking to everyone. Now everyone thinks that i am stupid because I talk too much. I really want to talk only little bit.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

It's great you changed. It's all about finding the right balance

@sapnanegi1699

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I will work on it and will balance my life

I keep to myself. I learned at an early age that most ppl don't care for you and betray you quickly so I learned to stay away from ppl because they're mean.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@avabates8318

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa you welcome

Thanks I will be showing this video to my son tonight. I'm so glad I found this for him. Hopefully this will help him and be able to make more friends as well.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Hope it helps!

I can't help it I just get excited and talk too much, how can I control this?

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Depends on the situation. If you are talking a lot because its a topic you are passionate about and everyone is into the conversation, there is nothing wrong with it and you shouldn't change. If you are talking a lot because you just want to and no one wants to participate, find out the reason why you talk and go from there

@AJ-cv9zf

4 жыл бұрын

People forget that they are in control when they are talking.

@hasbrogrl74

4 жыл бұрын

I hate when I get really excited about stuff that is important to me and they slam you down, degrade you and tell me to shut the fuck up. I wish I didn't have a voice

I just don't like my personality man, people call me annoying for expressing myself. I wish I could change

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

You can always change your personality

@intp9944

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa u see i question that

@LovepreetSingh-iu6jd

3 жыл бұрын

I was a talkative guy until i fall in love lol

Silence is good .listening to people talk lets you find out the type of person they are ..Empty vessels make the most noise .true

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

:)

I want to be silent because i love love talking and joking around and socializing, but lately, I've realized that sometimes i come off as rude and straightforward without considering someone's feelings. That's why. I mean, i can learn from it and move on, but if im always talkative, im afraid I'll repeat the same mistake

~STORY TIME~~ Once me and my bffs were playing 'Whose most likely to' and i ask this question 'Whose most likely to talk without stopping ?'' then all my friends pointed at me i was shook and asked why then one of them said '' You can talk endlessly and shamelessly and you won't even stop even if some one told you to ... so yea its you'' i was shocked and i lowered my head and since that day i was really quiet as what she said hurt me,but thanks for this video i know why i was this talkative !! thanks for helping me!!

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you got value out of this video!

@lexie02jones25

4 жыл бұрын

So true!

@DiamondCrushIvory

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂It is you😂😂😂😂and me too, shamelessly 😨

@idkanymore2183

4 жыл бұрын

Did they even talk to you about it? That's cold

@hueman1743

4 жыл бұрын

I know that feeling bro I have been there before

Its amazing how people think of you when you suddenly just go quiet, In one of my classes I used to be a bit of a class clown, now I was silent, people just sort of got curious why I didn't talk as much. I simply had nothing to say.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

I’m a talker trying to be more self aware. Always good to come back to this video to remind me that silence is a good thing.

@TheLifeFormulaa

Жыл бұрын

Glad this video helps!

This video has helped me a lot I used to get in trouble because of my mouth I used to take it to far and say dumb comments or opinions that I should have just kept to my self and now I keep them to my self and I learned about my self and now I love myself more than ever

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad this video helped

Best Video EVER💞💞💞 Thank you, this is very needed in my life!!!

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

I am the most talkative but my friend's are 😇

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Interesting..

Thanks for this golden video. I finally understood that i talk too much because i want attention and validation from others.

@TheLifeFormulaa

Жыл бұрын

Glad this video helped

the best clip in the universe....thank you very much for this....its exactly what av been looking for in years .....i have kept repeating this clip over and over again for hours

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

I was searching this out because I was already making my friends uncomfortable so they end up leaving me. I am living with two of my cousins(girls) and my sister. They always end up not listening to me and i was getting tired on embarrassing my self. Today i wanted to be less open so i wouldn't be able to hurt,and make people uncomfortable. They don't want me because of this attitude of me so i wanted to end it. I don't know if i will really be silent tho cause i have no self control :))

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Try applying the lessons in this video and see what happens

The thing is, I used to be an extrovert, and very humorous, but now I want to come more towards the ambiverted side. It's mainly because of my friends, and luckily I've realized that they weren't taking me seriously and not understanding that sometimes I'm sad too, and took me for granted. Now, If I want to be quiet, they think I'm mad. Even if I'm quiet, they still talk rubbish and expect me to respond. 1. How to explain to them that I'm not mad, just want to be silent. 2. How to try to distance myself from them, since they're those "popular" girls.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

It's not that hard to be more ambiverted. Good luck!

@airplanevibes9475

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa Alright, thanks!

My thing is, I don’t want to change for people but instead I want to change for myself. I analyze myself all the time and want to change because of it but it seems that I can’t. Today/tonight I’m turning over a new leaf in hopes of changing my ways into becoming the person I want to become.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck!

While I’m talking I’m just begging myself to stop…I only go out when absolutely necessary now. I’m 26, I have to get this under control.

being silent is better than being annoying

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Yep

As someone who talks too much when it's best to be silent, I thank you for this.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

:)

Very good and eye-opening video! Thanks I really needed this!

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Its been almost a year now, I have isloated my self totally, and speak whats needed I have very few frnds in my life now but genuine ones

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

Better to remain Silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

:)

My brothers wife hasn’t said “you’re quiet today” to me for 2 days so I’m here to get back into my quiet habit.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

:)

I really needed this Thank you so much !

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

I LOVE THIS SO MUCH, I HOPE IT'S WISDOM REVERBERATES THROUGHOUT MY EXISTENSE

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

This video has inspired me a lot. I hope that I change my life forever 💯

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

:)

You’d be surprised on how much you learn about those around you by staying silent.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

:)

I didn’t even used to be so talkative but now I find myself speaking to people and regretting all of my words. It’s gonna take practice because I find when I’m anxious it gets worse 😢

@Kakalanch

6 ай бұрын

Same, everyday I say something and when I come back home I regret it badly. My words sometimes come off as rudeness or mocking which is slowly turning my only two friends away which I have at school

I used to be a quite person due to my unpleasant past. So My family try their best to make me talk, interact and more social. Now I talk to much and such. Because they made me think that silence is bad and loud is good. But now I realize that's not entirely true. I might be offend someone because i often tell my opinion even when nobody ask that. That's the worst. This video really helps me as the first step to be better.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Glad this video helps

Thanks for the information and 100% reflection of myself and I believe it’s time to apply the information in my life. It will be very helpful if a video through which ways to become silence is mentioned

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed the video

i always keep engaging questions and convos so that the other person never feels left our or not heard but i guess people don't really understand the motive and label me as curious and talkative. I've been told to start talking less alot by my family too, guess it's time i stop doing something people take as opposite. it'll hurt though, to not respond even when i feel like someone is saying something, but everytime I've tried it, good results have come out nonetheless

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@waeng2586

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLifeFormulaa ✨️

i'm watching this becuase I found myself presenting myself to my clients with alot of flowery words and turns out not everyone wants it Trying to learn using less words but are meaningful and direct.

@TheLifeFormulaa

Жыл бұрын

You got this

Most of us think that quiet people were "shy, rude or arrogant" but that is not right. But in reality, people who talk more are tend to be egoistic 😌. I understood this when the quietness within me begins slowly since from my 20's. Nowdays i also love to be alone.

I keep to myself at times so people don't have to hear me. Peaceful for them and less awkward for me.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

:)

The same exact thing happened to me except I’m a kid and a girl

@TheLifeFormulaa

5 жыл бұрын

Wow that's crazy

Thank you for the content.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like the content

as a sociopath i find myself often predicting conversations and making responses or guessing what somebody is going to say in response to me before they say it, sometimes even saying things to illicit a certain response. recently i noticed that all of my conversations are just vessels for something else i all of the sudden dont feel like i have had an actual conversation for conversation’s sake maybe ever, or at least in a long time. i think im gonna give some silence a try and hopefully it will make my social interactions more meaningful in a way. i didnt know there was something missing till now but i hope i can find it.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

Woah you never missed a point. Well explained😁

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it

Thank you. I needed to see this video..

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it!

Great video ! Powerful and short approach to getting the point across. Very insightful and Helpful. Thank you for sharing

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

As a talkative person myself; someone who has been the 'Kevin' in the situation too many times, it's something im not proud of but I enjoy discourse. I want to find a way that I can remain talkative when appropriate, and silent when appropriate.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Get better at reading the mood and situation

I am always calm and mostly silent.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

:)

I got silence when I got depressed

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

Depression will go away after some time

@ianlucasmiguel339

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks... You earned a sub because of that😂

@muggur1688

4 жыл бұрын

Hang in there buddy.This too shall pass.

@sushi-kesh7503

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

I talk a lot, but im VERY confident and have a good attitude and i get in trouble because of my projecting and loud voice, i cant help it but its almost like a handicap

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

You can change that

I NEED THIS!!! 😂 I'm always talking a lot while playing basketball with people I just met Lol! I already know about self awareness/control but starting for now I will mainly focus into it. But I don't know, people already know my personality being like that and most of the time my words hurts them where I found guilty like the dude on the animation, it is hard to change your personality in front of the people you already met but I guess I'll give it a try and idc if they'll be confuse asf bc of a quiet version of me. Btw thanks for making this video! 👌

@TheLifeFormulaa

Жыл бұрын

Glad this video helped

I heard when one doesn't talk others will wonder what one is thinking.

@TheLifeFormulaa

4 жыл бұрын

:)

I don't feel as though I talk a lot. Sometimes I get really frustrated by others that I feel overly talk. Because they do tend to just run their mouth just to be saying something, and don't have anything meaningful to add to the conversation. I rarely talk on the phone or text anyone. Idk. I don't think I'm a Kevin at all.

@TheLifeFormulaa

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing

It's always everytime, i talk, everyone just go silent, and if someone is talking they respond at least a small words but for me, they're just empty and silent so I'll do now is to keep being silent. If someone asked me questions, i just answer it like a normal person and done talking.

@TheLifeFormulaa

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing