This was probably the best 13 minutes I have ever spent watching KZread. Not only are you gorgeous physically, you are a wise woman who is an incredibly eloquent speaker. Thank you for passing some love around a female community that, as a group, can quite often be a really tough crowd!!! Much love❤️💕❣❤️💕

@deannarohrer9226

5 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@sherribateman4893

5 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%! So happy to be following her. :)

@jcmore7851

5 жыл бұрын

So happy to be following this lovely lady too, Sherri!!! Thank you for your kind words, Deanna! She makes 50+ seem more appealing than our 20's lol .....love it🙋🏼🙋🏼🙋🏼💗

@shirleylewis3490

5 жыл бұрын

JC More totally agree with you. She’s so amazing. Everything she says is true, especially about listening to people. Glad I came across her channel.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi @JC More! I really appreciate your lovely comment...You are so sweet and you too are passing the love around...Thank you...we are all in this together... Have an amazing week 💕

As Maya Angelou said, "people will forget what you said and people will forget what you did, but people will always remember how you made them feel".

@empressouful

5 жыл бұрын

One of my life's mantras!

@tammi67able

5 жыл бұрын

Natasha Arvanitis that’s the truth

@anitacarter8060

5 жыл бұрын

Natasha Arvanitis .... I totally agree one kind word to a total stranger could make someone's day… I wish everyone would be a little more compassionate sometimes… Kindness does not cost anything🤷🏻‍♀️💜😁

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

@Natasha Arvanitis 🙂 So True ❤

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Kimberly Dickson ❤️

What a beautiful soul you are. Thank you for caring about people xx

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

You're amazing @Anita Rickey! Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️

My Nana has a saying ... what Suzie says about Sally says more about Suzie than Sally ... l always remember that !!! 😊

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi biggyziggy 577! Sounds like a smart Nana. Have a fabulous day 🌸

@coffeebreak247

5 жыл бұрын

I value this statement greatly. It’s hard not to want to criticize a coworker out loud especially if they have gone out of their way to make you look bad so they can make themselves top dog at work. Thank you for sharing 💗

@tammyrivas6653

4 жыл бұрын

Nana has a lot of wisdom!!!!

@teresestewart6154

4 жыл бұрын

@@coffeebreak247 Yes it's hard yet when we don't react & join their chain of pain their behavior will expose their true motives & people eyes will be opened

@liliabenavides4052

3 жыл бұрын

I live by that rule!!

Thank you for this video. I clicked on it thinking it was going to be about makeup or clothes but I was pleasantly surprised. I love that you focused on inner beauty and how to treat others. I’ve just discovered your channel in the last few months and really enjoy the content. I’m 54 and I enjoy watching someone close in age because they can relate more to my life and experiences. Keep up the great work! 💕

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Candy Mitchell and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing weekend 💕

@leigh-annh2544

5 жыл бұрын

Candy- I wrote my public comment before reading any others. After reading yours, it seems we have had the same experience.

@candybashore9202

5 жыл бұрын

Leigh-Ann H I love these videos. I do watch some younger youtubers but having someone closer in age knows what I’m experiencing.

If only we knew in our 20s what we know now...great video 💞💞

@dorothyj2151

5 жыл бұрын

I sent this video to my 23 yo daughter!

@lisacostigan1337

5 жыл бұрын

Dorothy Jenrette that’s awesome 🥰🥰

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Lisa Costigan! Can you even imagine? It would be so healing if we all got the chance to go back and reset our belief systems...Have a fabulous day 🌸

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Dorothy Jenrette ❤️

@suzannegreene5461

5 жыл бұрын

Lisa Costigan Great idea! I’m sending it to my 30 year old daughter.

Brought tears to my eyes. I moved out of my hometown because of gossip and bullying. Isn't being beautiful all about building character anyway? I recently read something which said: I don't want friends who talk about me behind my back, I want friends who pray for me. I am like you and can feel energy. I simply do not spend time with anyone anymore that drains me. Would rather be alone. Thank you for this incredible video. You must be a wonderful friend to those around you.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Kasey! Thanks so much for your lovely comment... Im sorry you had to experience that, it must have been traumatic...I think it is very healing to spend time alone and regroup before going out into the world again...Have a self care weekend 💕

@susanfudge1737

3 жыл бұрын

Omg. Me too. I was happy in high school with the whole town not just my school. After college and a year in Atlanta, I moved home to teach high school. I was single and very rejected by people who had once been my friend's, CHURCH PEOPLE. My social life was in Atlanta, Tallahassee, Jacksonville. I moved to a larger city in my early 30s. Everyone here likes me. I love the people here and would never go home.

I couldn’t agree more with all of your tips! When I hear women talking about another woman, I always say “Really? I really like them” it takes the sting out of the tail of the conversation many times ❤️🇬🇧

@meepmeepfishergirl

5 жыл бұрын

YES! It often stops them in their tracks and they stopped talking about that person too!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

I love your tip Maria In Her 50s! Thanks for sharing with us 🙏

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Youre a good influence Meeps! Have a fabulous day 🌸

@dianehobson6071

5 жыл бұрын

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@dianehobson6071

5 жыл бұрын

fabulous50s o

I grew up with a sister a year younger than me and she is absolutely beautiful. I was always compared to her and adults were not kind . Now I am 51 and she is 50 and I still am the plain Jane and she is gorgeous. I have struggled all my life with low self esteem. But I do compliment other woman and girls because I know how important it is to be kind. You are so beautiful it seems strange to hear you had low self esteem. Your smile is genuinely that of a beautiful soul.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

@Jacqui McArthur Im sending you a big hug 🤗❤️ Start seeing yourself as gorgeous too...You have a kind heart and that is so attractive...Lets imagine that you have 40 years left to live...and your whole belief system changed from thinking physical beauty is the be all and end all....to believing that kindness, caring, compassion, creativity and vitality equals beauty....do you think you could experience the next 40 years in a different way? Do you think you would see yourself as beautiful? Do you think this would be do able? 🙌

@LucyLane07

5 жыл бұрын

@@fabulous50s I am so blown away that you replied. LOL. I have 2 beautiful sons. They think I'm gorgeous so I suppose that is all that matters. Thank you for your kindness!

@gigics1612

5 жыл бұрын

Jacqui McArthur Oh Jacque, the fact that your sons KNOW you to be beautiful should settle it for you! I so encourage you to begin... from this moment forward to DO... think, speak, act just as Schellea said in her personal response to you. Just do THAT! If you do so, instead of the way you have felt and believed about yourself in the past... you will begin to unfold and bloom, because it IS YOUR TIME to shine! To begin with, you probably will feel ridiculous... and that it is not authentic... but just continue following this plan of action, regardless how you feel about it. Focus more on building others up in a genuine manner, but build yourself up at the same time, inwardly. IF you will do this, consistently, your next 40 years WILL convince you that this truly works! Best wishes in seeing the truth and living it! Practice makes better, so practice only what you want more of! -Hugs!

@i.coleman7765

5 жыл бұрын

Gigi CS o

@brookesmith1550

5 жыл бұрын

My sister is just like you! She still to this day at 46 is jealous and people still tell her how gorgeous I am and ask if I am a model in front of her. Mind you she is attractive but just not nearly as good looking as me and as confident as me.

I'm so glad I found you. Have you written a book on this and related advice? I have just turned 70 y.o., retired and divorced two years ago. Now I don't know what to do, what to wear, how to carry myself/ present myself. But you are teaching me everything, from makeup, importance of exercise, consider others first. A week ago I met a man while at the exercise club, I haven't been back since, he seemed "interested and interesting".......I panicked. Now I can go back feeling confident; your advice has empowered me and given me a place to start and enjoy my retirement. Thank You! You are special.

@QueenofArgyle2525

3 жыл бұрын

Sending positive vibes. You are going to do 👍

My childhood was exactly like that and you’re right, I too developed empathy and a sixth sense. I finally overcame the negative! Thank you, great video! 💓

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Melissa Bledsoe Im sending you a big hug 🤗❤️

@OurHumbleLife

5 жыл бұрын

Funny how this turns around, completely.....The same people/types that I USED to allow me to feel inferior to, I now have a sense of pity for, in a loving way.

Thank you Schellea for this beautiful message. You made me cry and feel better about myself. I never feel confident when walking in a room, yet I know I'm a good person. I never feel like I'm as good as everyone around me. You just taught me some techniques that I can use today. You are truly beautiful on the inside and out - thank you!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words @Tracy Price 🙏 I appreciate you taking the time to comment🌸 Start making a mental note of all the good things you have achieved over your lifetime and focus on that...

@tracyprice3314

5 жыл бұрын

@@fabulous50s Thank you for your nice reply Schellea ... The day after I watched your video I went to work with a different mind set. I was friendly with a coworker that I would normally avoid & she responded positively to me. It made me feel like a better person. Days later her daughter passed away suddenly & I feel so bad for her. I'm just glad I watched your video. Thank you again!

@gitgirl24

5 жыл бұрын

@@tracyprice3314 I'm so sorry to hear that, Tracy.... it's very beautiful that you were able to send some kindness and love to that coworker... we are all passing more love around because of this beautiful video message!

@vickicarringer7038

Жыл бұрын

I don't know why I care so much about the way I look. I just feel like something died when I lost my eggs. I am no longer reproductive..I feel like I don't have a place in this world. It's very confusing. I know that it is stupid. I really want to feel better. I want someone to see me as a valuable person.

What a beautiful message!!!! I am a highly sensitive person and an empath. This has made my life quite difficult in many ways, but I also understand a lot more about people because of it. You are so right about everything you said here, and especially about cruel things from childhood that stick in a person’s mind . Thank you for this wonderful message, it’s so needed in today’s world ❤️🌈🌷😊

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to comment @Linda Bilsbury! I can guess you are a very kind person 🌸

@sharmilachitnis7455

4 жыл бұрын

Ppp

Back in the day my sweet Mom would say , it's not how you look but how you act. :-) Great video

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Deborah Allen! Same with my Mum...Have a fabulous day 🌸

I totally agree with you! In Italy they would call it: sei luce que entra - you are the light coming in! Ciao belissima💕

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful Anja H! Thank you and have an amazing day ❤️

@thekingsdaughter4233

5 жыл бұрын

In Egypt, I have heard, "Here comes the honey"- as you bring in the sweetness. 😊

@KM-bu8ec

3 жыл бұрын

That is so beautiful, Anja! And so is your name ❤️

I am saving this to my favorites...the 8th grade mean girl’s words took decades to overcome. You have good advice for how to engage people in a new social setting. Well done.

@misskit866

5 жыл бұрын

I feel your pain! Boys in 9th grade homeroom, "Yeah, she's really nice, too bad she's so ugly."

@KM-bu8ec

3 жыл бұрын

@@misskit866 And then she grows up into a drop-dead gorgeous girl. If we only had the confidence we have now and if we only knew back then what we know now, how extraordinary would that have been to have the wisdom and insight to know our worth even if we are not accepted into the world of popularity and acceptance. 🍒🌼🍒

@KM-bu8ec

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Teresa, I am so sorry your feelings were hurt and that you carried it with you for a very long time. I truly hope your heart and mind are filled with every beautiful thing that brings true happiness. I know exactly what you are talking about, though. The girl who also said a very mean thing to me in front of a mix of 7th and 8th graders was also an 8th grader. I was only in 7th grade. She was tall and thin with long gorgeous silky hair and very beautiful. She was going into modeling. She had the world in her hands but felt the need to elevate herself even higher by hurting my feelings. Those things can stay with us for a long time. I never fit in anywhere. I was always on the outside looking in. When I turned 17, I blossomed and everything changed for me, and I have never looked back. I am confident and happy and love being in my own company and love being me and don't need anyone to validate my existence. However, as Schaella has said, I think my experience has made me empathetic to girls who are going through the same thing I did, and I want to build them up and help give them the confidence to see their beauty and worth so they don't go through the heartache of not being accepted but to be confident enough to be her own person at such a vulnerable and awkward age 💓

#Truth! Thank you! AND... ( Matthew 7:12 says to treat other people the way you want them to treat you.)

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Shelley Oswald! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

I didn't consciously realize this, but the most attractive and admirable women in my life do many of these things. Thanks for distilling all this wonderful info into doable tips!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for watching Meredith Jackson! Have a great weekend ❤️

This video was so meaningful to me and it will definitely be one that I will watch over and over! I am 65 and still dealing with feelings of not being good enough. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences and knowledge. You are a great motivational speaker! ❤️

Hi Schellea, I think growing up, you were bullied because others saw your beauty inside and out. It was a beauty that you were not aware of, but clear to others. I developed that 6th sense too, because of the very things you have described here. I can tell immediately who people really are opposed to the people they pretend to be. Great uplifting video.! Thank you.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Sallie C! Kind comments come from kind people ❤️

I completely relate to the first part of this video about being a child and carrying burdens into adulthood. Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful tips. You are a special empathetic person, beautiful inside and out ❤️

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Connie Hewitt 🙏 I appreciate you taking the time to say hi 🌸

Every day, I go out of my way to make someone feel good. It can be anything - the color of nail polish, an article of clothing, pair of shoes, hair color or style... I've also noticed that if its someone who isn't nice, it will soften her heart. After that, we have an instant connection everytime we see one another.

@fabulous50s

4 жыл бұрын

I loved reading your comment Melinda! ❤️

This is great! I do Tip #4 frequently at parties: If I find someone standing alone, I go up and start a conversation with that person. Then someone walks by, and I introduce the two of them, trying for a three-way conversation. Eventually, I can continue mingling, but I've just made a connection between two people. It also helps ME not feel awkward at parties. I love your approach to life. Thank you for doing this channel. I also have a question: I like your jewelry in several of your videos. Where do you shop for accessories? Thank you!

I am guilty of giving my own experiences when someone is sharing theirs. I need to stop that.

@fabulous50s

4 жыл бұрын

It's really great that you are aware of that! Sending you big hugs from Australia xx

@janicepauley429

3 жыл бұрын

I am too. Sadly. I get caught up with gossip and want to give my input as if this is gonna make me popular!! No it won’t!!

Omg Schellea. I do this, I can feel a vibe from people.its a gut feeling. I totally agree with all these things . Schellea you’re such a beautiful person. We definitely need more of this. Kindness and humility. Treating people from all walks of life equally. Thank you for such an uplifting, fresh and honest vid. You’re wonderful. Sending you sunshine from Qld. Off to Tazzie tomorrow to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary so I’ll be sending you snow tomorrow xxx🌞🙏🌺♥️❄️☃️🌬

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

You're awesome Tracey Higgins 👍 Thanks for your comment and have an amazing anniversary trip to Tazzie...Its the only part in Australia that I haven't visited...Congratulations ❤👏

I love everything about this video! So much truth to what you said.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hey Monique MoMo! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗

Thank you for this beautiful message Schellea, you are so eloquent and so wise. I hope you’re having a wonderful April, much love 🌸☀️

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks beautiful Jules McKay! Have an amazing Sunday ❤️

Hi, Shellie, yes that is so true, everything you said, I was that shy person, mostly because I grew up with a super critical mother, my faith has helped to focus me from myself to others and it really does work, thanks so much, such an important message for the younger ladies as well as we more mature ladies xxx

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi chrissie hopkins! Thanks so much for sharing your comment...Stay fabulous 💕

You may have been bullied because you were very attractive and smart and they were jealous. I bet anything! XO

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Cathy McVeigh Im sending you a big hug 🤗❤️

@DanishThe1

5 жыл бұрын

Cathy McVeigh yes! I agree with you on that! 👍😉

@kimberlystaley1337

4 жыл бұрын

It's true, people will do that. I know a man who has 3 daughters. One is very naturally attractive, I nearly gasped the first time I saw her. One I've never seen, he tells me she was so physically beautiful, she was bullied by other females all the time out of jealousy. She ended her life as a teenager. I worked with a woman who was evil toward me. We were both in early 30's. Finally one day, I had the courage to ask why? Because she was envious that I was so thin and had discipline with my diet (healthy) and that she couldn't do it. Another time and job, I worked with a woman who displayed absolute disgust with me. Finally found it was because I got the secretary job she applied for and didn't get it. It's so sad what women do to each other. Women should be supporting each other in sisterhood. We need that more than anything right now.

@sampuatisamuel9785

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with that comment

@lorihanson273

3 жыл бұрын

My mother always said they were just jealous

Just your voice and the way you speak makes me feel so relaxed. You are such a genuine and kind person. Love all your videos.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Colleen S 🙏 I appreciate you taking the time to say hi 🌸

Very good advice! I especially like the mirroring technique you shared. Have never thought of doing that. Thank you for sharing wise tips that are simple yet powerful!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Sherry M! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

I could cried looking at this beautiful lady everything you went through is exactly the way I grew up.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Lily G Im sending you a big hug 🤗❤️ Thank you

@danam8742

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. I never felt pretty, smart, or that I fit in. To make matters worse... we moved a lot with my fathers promotions. So I was always the "new kid." I learned to fake being self assured.... I should win an Oscar. Lol. I'm 56 now.... a bit more confident (a lot more "I dont care what others think.")

You are sooo beautiful in every way 💖 This was sooo uplifting !! And I was thinking how when I am at a party it is not the best looking man or woman that I find beautiful but the person with sparkling eyes, a genuine radiant smile and a warmth about them - that is soooo BEAUTIFUL and attractive 💖 The people that are only judging by looks are not worth the time - especially at this age. Thank you for a beautiful uplifting vid 💖💖💖💖💖

Such a good video I felt like that as a teen and most of my adult life, my Mother was not kind and criticized my looks .If get a compliment now I say thank you instead of trying to put myself down like I had most of my life. Thanks for this video it is the best pep talk

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks beautiful free meow! If a mother is comfortable making her child feel bad about herself...the problem is not the child! Please remember this...You are not what someone else thinks of you ❤

@freemeow

5 жыл бұрын

fabulous50s you are such a sweet lady

Hi Schellea what a beautiful message. You are so right on all points. Yes lose the ego and focus on others. I was painfully shy as a young girl which is really a lack of confidence. It took a long time to come through that but even still struggle with it at times. The one tip about mirroring I learned a long time ago and it truly does work. I am an introvert and learned in order to communicate with extroverts or a dominate personality I had to do just that and it works wonderfully. Thanks so much for sharing this to the world xxoo Jackie

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Timeless Beauties Studio by Jacqueline! Thanks so much for your lovely comment... So much respect for introverted personalities doing KZread...Not easy...Ladies, may I suggest you check out Jacqueline's channel and give her some love xxx

Hello beautiful Schellea! 😀 I love love love this video !!!😍😍😍 I felt really sad though when you talked about your own experience in the intro. You are such a gorgeous lady inside and out! I too suffered from bullying when I was a young teenager. It was at school and I started suffering from depression at that time. Women (or young girls) can be quite cruel indeed. But I developed confidence and self-esteem over time and I have excellent inter-personal skills now. I was quite unpopular at school but now I have tons of friends at work 😀. Thanks a lot for all the hard work you put into making these videos, they are amazing and they really brighten up my days 🌞. Much love, Sophie

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your comment Sophie Acapella! It seems like we don't have a leg to stand on when we are young and vulnerable...Im happy that you have found your true self and lots of friends as an adult... and I'm sure you have true compassion too...Have a fabulous day 🌸

Great life lessons to live by. Needed to hear these sentiments right now. X

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Karen Brady! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

Without doubt this is your best video so far! I agree & can relate 100% to everything you shared. I love that you took your earlier negative experiences & turned them into a positive powerful way of living!!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hey April T! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗

Wow, Thank you Shelley, I'm loving all your tips and starting to feel great about myself. X

Hi Schellea, you are beautiful lady inside and out! I grew up very shy and insecure never feeling comfortable in my own skin. Growing up in a dysfunctional family didn’t help ! Growing up with two sisters that were jealous of me was sad. People outside of my family would always complement me on how pretty I was, but never felt pretty. Never was bullied by strangers, but found I was bullied by my sisters. I now work on complementing others and being kind ! It really dose make you feel better about yourself! And people want to be around you. Thank you! For this video😃❤️

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Beautiful Lola Kathol! Stay fabulous...Have an amazing week ahead ❤️

Thank you for your pearls of wisdom!😊💕

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Linda Field! Have a fabulous day 🌸

Thank You Schellea, beautiful video many of us have had the same things, thank you for being caring enough to open up about the pain you endured, and have triumphed over and giving us what works so we can have Victory. You are a beautiful soul...thank you ... Thank You

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you taking the time to comment Shelly Reese! Have a beautiful day 🌸

I've just turned 47, but I love to be part of your community even if I am 3 years early. Thank you for your smile and for the gentleness you spread 😊

Wow....so many people need to hear this! Fantastic video! My story sounds just like yours❤️

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hey Angelika Kopek! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗

Taking a daily effort for ones self and changing the inner message of self love is sooo important! ❤️

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

So important Melissa Bledsoe! Have a fabulous day 🌸

Great tips Schellea! Thanks for sharing all these wonderful lessons you have learnt along the way. I also learn't to hold my head up when I walk in the room, smile and look people in the eye, even offer to shake hands. This is a very charismatic way to introduce yourself and certainly gets peoples attention!! Great to use when going for a job interview!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

I love your tip Susan S! Thanks for sharing with us 🙏

This is better than any TED talk I've ever seen! I've heard and read about a lot of this advice. Some of it new to me. You present it in a slightly different way with great examples I haven't seen before. The part you spoke of in the beginning, I absolutely relate to 110%. At 59, I'm still struggling with self-worth and appearance. You reminded me about the part I've heard before about taking the focus off ourself and instead focusing on how we can serve someone. Finally, I do notice those who seem to be with low self-worth/shy (shyness is sign of low self-worth), and I will engage with them and try and help them feel good. I always thought I was just attracted to those more like me, when it would be better to hang with those with high self-esteem who are more positive (and tend to be naturally physically beautiful). The saying to "surround yourself with positive people." They can be intimidating for me, though, to where I feel even worse about myself! Maybe being attracted to shy, quiet people is also a case of having empathy, like you said. Thank you so much for this video!

Thank you for your video. I was bullied in elementary school and told I was ugly. That stayed with me my whole life and I'm now 56 yo and still battle with those feelings. You're beautiful. I enjoy your videos. This one in particular ministered to my heart.

The first person I tried this on said "Have you been drinking?" 😂😂😂😂😂

@coffeebreak247

5 жыл бұрын

Keryn Gasparini what happened was they sensed a little intimidation because you were becoming more confident.

@juniorjohnson2

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@flamingofan5411

3 жыл бұрын

Lol!!!

Love this!💖 So needed to hear it! Thank you for sharing!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi AK Bold! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

Thank you for your videos, I have learned so many things in the short time since I subscribed not long ago, from how to apply makeup with little tips, to dressing tips, to exercise(I finally ordered a rebounder after your video on it!) I have been wanting one for 2 yrs and just got overwhelmed when looking to order one and I just bit the bullet and bought one on amazon! Now I have to set it up. Thank you again for all you share with all of us!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to comment MySharon! Im so happy you bit the dust with the re-bounder...Im sure you chose the perfect one...mine is nothing special but I still love it...Have a great day 🌸

I love your message about focusing on serving! Women supporting women! We need more videos like this! Thank you for sharing your positivity and confidence. GREAT video!💕

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hey Trisha Palmieri! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗

Great advice as usual, especially about the gossiping... women are very quick, sadly, to drag others down.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Bernita Jenkins! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

@greenjewel509

5 жыл бұрын

Whenever another woman starts to gleefully gossip about someone we both know, I interrupt her by saying " You are telling me this because...?" It kills the conversion stone dead!

Thankyou for this common sense advice that we know but dont think about when we are in these situations!!! You are a beautiful genuine woman...it just shows right thru the screen!!! Much Love!!will try these tips!!❤🌹

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Rhea Rhea! Thanks so much for your lovely comment... Have an amazing week 💕

Oh my, I’m so sorry you had to experience those bad feelings about yourself growing up. No one should be made to feel that way about themselves. That being said. You certainly have done a wonderful job of healing yourself. I’m sure it took a lot of work and self help to over come that. You are so sweet and caring and inspirational. You are beautiful INSIDE AND OUT. You are a huge inspiration to me. Your videos have become my go to when ever I need tips or information on anything from makeup to self help. Thank you Schellea for sharing. 💕

I just discovered you on KZread and wanted to congratulate you on being so authentic and talented, and for showing the way! 💫 Thank you!🌼

I loved this video. It was so motivational! I actually do a lot of the things you suggested. I call it "My Shine". Getting my shine on. And it means I'm going to be me and make everyone happy and full of life.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

I love this Melinda Smith! Have a fabulous day 🌸

Thank you for such inspirational advice - good for everyone!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Jasmine Haymond! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

The most important thing I’ve learned so far when relating to others is to be the example of what you want to see in a person. It’s the best way to bring out good examples in others that will truly make a difference in the world.

Fantastic Schellea! You really really really give advice to make the world a better place. Love you! 💕

Great video. Just finished listening to whole video! Thanks! Your the best!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Cathy McVeigh! Have a fabulous day 🌸

Love your positive messages, Shellea!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Kimberly Dickson! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

I believe this has been the most inspirational KZread video I have ever seen. I would have thought your youth was entirely charmed and protected as you project such self confidence and radiate inner beauty and kindness. To now know that we all seem to face the same obstacles is enlightening for me. I admit that I see myself as one who can’t wait to share my own experiences that are similar to stories being told and I need to work on that - I think I feel that I need to be entertaining to be liked. What a lot we women have to work through just to feel like we are enough. With tears in my eyes and gratitude in my heart Thank you Shellea!!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Terry Ensslen!I acknowledge the kindness in your heart ❤️ Charmed and protected was what I would dream of as a child..But as I can see now, that wouldn't have served the me I have become...Thanks so much for taking the time to comment ❤️

Yes perception can heal or hurt ! Don’t ever take what others think , you are your own person !

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Elizabeth Ann ferrario! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

Thank you so much for sharing with us. Life can be difficult, but we can each help make life more enjoyable with a little thought and compassion for others. You are wise, appreciated and lovely!! Hugs & Smiles to you!!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi D. H.! Thanks so much for your lovely comment... Have an amazing weekend 💕

This is the best video ever. In a me me me world, we all need these tips to be a decent human beings, to care and respect others. We always feel better when we don’t just focus on ourselves and make others feel important

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Liya Smiles! Thanks so much for your lovely comment... Have an amazing week 💕

Having a bad few months...I just can’t seem to get a break. Needed to hear your wonderful tips. Still wish I could get my makeup right. My son is getting married soon and I just want to look nice and make him proud. He is my heart.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Gabby Street! Your son will already be so proud of you...Our kids see our hearts first and our makeup and outfit second....If you practice with your makeup every day, you will get so good at it you will amaze yourself...Thanks so much for watching...Have a great weekend 💕

@gabbystreet103

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks❤️

One of the best video I've seen on KZread to make somebody feel good! Thank you!!😊

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to comment Marie Josee Pitre! Have a great day 🌸

Schealla, you are so precious ! thank you for being who you are, it's so rare to meet people like you, even if it is through the screen of a computer ! Love from a French fan !

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Sending you a big hug from Australia franyfa 🤗 Thank you for your comment ❤

From the first video of yours that I watched, I felt your energy and the calmness inside of you and that pulled me in to subscribe and want to listen to you. I have always tried to make other women feel comfortable around me, though many times, if they do not wish to receive because they have a preconceived conception of me or just don't feel the good energy I have, they walk away, It used to bother me, but now I just think it's sad that someone lost out on some good energy!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Anastasia Anastasia ❤️

Thank you for sharing such positive advice and encouragement. Your inner beauty shines as much as your outer beauty

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Willa Bundy I really appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful weekend ❤️

"other peoples opinions of us does not matter" we were created by the universe and we were all made perfect just the way we are!! 🙋🏻🙌🏻luv yourself 💜 we don't have to conform to societies ideas of what s beautiful and what's NOT ..… BE YOURSELF!! 🤷🏻‍♀️💯

@jennpipp26

5 жыл бұрын

Anita Carter the problem with this mentality is being “yourself” should not excuse your responsibility of taking care of your bodies and be healthy.

@BusinessBox750

5 жыл бұрын

Anita Carter totally agree!

@anitacarter8060

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree, and I'm not talking about not taking care of yourself or your health … I'm talking about self love and acceptance and not always trying to fit in with what everyone else looks like and will be excepted by everyone else… Be the best version of yourself for sure!! 🤷🏻‍♀️💜 don't live for validation from other people… Please yourself, be happy with yourself!!! 🙋🏻🙌🏻⚡️😉 this is not a competition… When you compare yourself to others you insult yourself!!! 😘🤗

@hikerhobby1204

5 жыл бұрын

Anita: Perfectly stated! I believe God made me, however, you are spot on! People that try and force their opinions of “responsibility to take care of yourself” do not pay for healthcare or suffer any possible consequences of other people’s choices!” I’ll bet they’re the ones sitting around gossiping about how other people SHOULD be taking care of themselves!

As we say here in Texas, “Preach, Sister!” Watching your video was like having an honest counseling session with a very wise woman! You definitely reminded us what “real beauty” looks like. We all need “real wisdom” to combat the lies the world seems to tell women “over a certain age.” My aunt used to say, “Pretty is as Pretty does.” You certainly display that by taking time to share such an important message! Focusing on others truly brings real validation that we have worth and something left to give! Those people who were mean to you probably have no idea how much they helped you grow into the beautiful person-inside & out-you’ve become!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Lulu I really appreciate your comment...Thanks for taking the time to say hi ❤️

Beautiful message from a beautiful person inside and out ❤️ I really needed this I also have been bullied in the past without always realising it but one great thing about getting older is we also get so much wiser I can’t thank you enough for such helpful advice you’re amazing 😉

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Therese W I really appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful weekend ❤️

Love this. Subscribed immediately! Thank you! P.S. I used to teach that mirroring technique to my customer service employees. It's a great one for CSRs!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Leslie Ryalls and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing week 💕

I’ve recently found your channel and I’m loving it! So full of awesome tips! love your tip about treating others with kindness giving off the most beauty 💕 well done 👏👏👏

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Girl UPcycled Studio I really appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful week ❤️

Thank you this helped a lot . I had same experiences . You have such amazing advice ! Thank you 😊 I will try to feel better about myself .

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for taking the time to comment lisaflute! Have a besutiful day 🌸

Great advice, not only women but men's can learn from this. TFS

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks beautiful Eloise Green! Have an amazing day ❤️

Thank you Schellea, sooo eloquently put and so true. Every young person should hear this xx

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi antla19! Thanks so much for watching and have a beautiful week 💕

The absolute best video I have seen!!! I have self confidence issues and fear of rejection. I have improved over the past few years and this video will help immensely!!! I also think we are all of the age where we should be supporting each other in a positive manner, not judging or tearing down!

Thanks! Beginning my day here in South Carolina w this info was refreshing!! I plan to share !

@MamaShea

5 жыл бұрын

Fellow Carolinian here 🙋I live in the upstate. Hope you have a wonderful weekend

@novanorman1091

5 жыл бұрын

Shannon Chapman thanks. You too! I just love these KZread videos!

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Nova Norman! Thanks so much for watching and sharing with your friends...I appreciate it...Have a great weekend 💕

These tips are like precious gems and they eminate from your kind heart to touch each of us in a profound way. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom ...focusing on others is so important and can be life changing. Blessings and Hugs..... Sherry

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for taking the time to comment Sherry Reis! Have a fabulous day 🌸

Love Love Love this advice!! Thank you for passing on a positive message video, I’m sure it will help so many. Xoxo

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Penni Light! Have a fabulous day 🌸

I absolutely agreed with everything you had to say in this video... It was wonderful because I could identify with everything you said. You expressed your thoughts very eloquently and with such genuine sincerity.

This, my friend, is the best video to date. 👍👍👍💝💖💗You described my childhood perfectly. I relate. This advice is sound, kind and wise. ...... Hence, I found you and love this channel and your message. Sending love and respect from the great white north

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Martha Duncan 🙏 I appreciate you taking the time to comment ❤🙏

Great information. You have gorgeous hair, eyes and accent. I think those bullies were just jealous of you.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Sherry Edwards! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great day 💕

@RommanysWorld

3 жыл бұрын

fabulous50s I am in my 30s. I like your channel and I think you’re very attractive! 💕

If you haven't written a book yet you absolutely NEED to. I just found you on YT about a week ago and I'm watching every video I can find. You are such an insightful, graceful woman. Thank you for that 💗

I’m crying at just the mere suggestion of what I can be. I was that girl who felt unworthy for many years too. Your channel has added to my recovery. Thank you, Schellae.

@fabulous50s

4 жыл бұрын

Sending you a big hug PoetrySkep 🤗 Stay fabulous ❤🌸

I love your words of wisdom. You are a beautiful person. Thanks for sharing

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Kelly Stanley! Have an amazing week 🌸

This is hands down the best video on KZread about beauty. Your tips will help women with their own anxiety, fears and insecurities, while helping people around them, as well. Very wise words, thank you.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Im so happy you enjoyed the video Katja Sonkamuotka Thanks for taking the time to share your comment ❤️ Stay fabulous 🌺

This is wonderful advice for all of us and a great lift to get over social anxiety. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment Kat BeWitched! Have a fabulous day 🌸

Ive loved all your videos but this video has helped me so much because im 60 and i have grown up with that conditioned voice in my head my entire life. Thank you so much xo

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

@Lori Edwards Im sending you a big hug 🤗❤️

@LoriEdwards10

5 жыл бұрын

@@fabulous50s Thank you xo

I think this video “fabulous” Thank you so much for putting it together. I am very sorry you went through what you did when you were younger. You are absolutely gorgeous! 💕

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brenda Longfellow I really appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful week ❤️

This is a fabulous message and you are so right! Beauty is as beauty does. Early on in my channel I was unfairly attacked by some of the mean types of girls you referenced. I didn’t fight back. I just wished them well and walked away. Don’t associate with the mean girls as you become like those you associate with. I love your approach of focusing on helping others, not ourselves. That is the way to true happiness. Love your videos! You are on God’s path for you helping others in mass. Blessings to you in all you do. You are truly the most beautiful woman in the room, and you help us become more beautiful too. 💝

@Distressedwoman

5 жыл бұрын

FiftyPlusBeauty I can’t imagine why someone would treat you that way as you are a woman who is so beautiful, so genuine, fun and wise. You have a lot to share and you’re my sunshine. I love every time I log in to youtube and see you have posted a new video. I learn something new every time I watch you. 😘

@FiftyPlusBeauty

5 жыл бұрын

Snuppeline. Bless you!! What a kind thing to say. I truly appreciate that!! I hope you are having a wonderful weekend!! 💝😌💝

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this lovely commnet FiftyPlusBeauty! Beth I acknowledge the kindness in your heart ❤️ Im so sorry you experienced the mean girls! I can say that I was in shock when I realized what was going on behind the scenes here in this space too...Definitely not what I expected...Im happy for you that you walked away with grace...sending you a big hug ❤

I thoroughly enjoyed this! I am absolutely going to implement these wonderful tips! Thank you!

Wow!! This video is just what I needed. I'm always watching your videos. Dont stop making them. I think you're wonderful 🥰

Thank you for this beautiful video. I like the tip of mirroring the other person and can't wait to try it. I love people and this tip sounds great I also loved a tip you gave in a previous video about smiling with my eyes, then with my mouth and then with my heart. It really works for me. It takes away all stress or worries and instantly helps me feel relaxed and happier, whether I am alone or with company. Thank you so much for helping us make this age the best time of our lives. God bless you more 😍

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Juanita Ramirez! I'm happy you enjoyed the video and thanks for letting me know you love the smile technique...It really does make everything better in the moment...Have an amazing day 🤗

Thanks so much- great tips.

@fabulous50s

5 жыл бұрын

Lynda Rooney ❤️

Fantadtic tips ! Really wise :-) I could add the last tiny one: a smile. When sb does look at you in a judging way or doesn’t look very open, just smile, feel relax and start the conversation.

I’ve watched this a couple of times, wise words and articulated beautifully x