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Honestly this used to be a fear of mine “ Fear of being creepy” , but when you think about it this comes from an beta male mentality. You hide what you want , what you feel, and what you really want to say out of fear of disapproval and the person usually a chick can pick up on it ! It kind of makes them uncomfortable so to beat this, literally all you have to do is Just unapologetically BE YOURSELF ! When you do that , you could care less about what others think, because you get your self worth and approval from within !

@alexrodriguez9520

6 жыл бұрын

malik gilmore yassssss

@SuperLotus

6 жыл бұрын

It also comes from a gynocentric mindset where women are the prize and men are worthless if they don't meet certain standards.

@djdiablo93

5 жыл бұрын

Malik bro you're on point. LIke I grew up in a female dominated household, and image was everything so if I didnt comply with the image my mom wanted me to have she'd literally shun me in front of the family. That kind of parenting really represses authenticity, especially when you can't even say the truth for fear of ostracization. It really is a beta/submissive mentality, and no way for a man to live. Thanks for your insight man.

@centanhotbox84

4 жыл бұрын

yeah i got that fear right now. fact is u are creepy. approaching though? nah thats manly. hard to be congruent with approaching though when ure literally the only one doing it in the city

This is REAL social dynamics. More of this pls

Damnnnnn this is literally game-changing. He is not just a pickup artist but an expertise about pratical social dynamics. I haven't heard of anything like this before. His analysis about social dynamics is above everything on earth. I just felt that learning English is one of the greater things I've ever done

@djtanikgotbeatz

Жыл бұрын

You sound well rounded your self lol

@debless9572

11 ай бұрын

He's not a pick up artist. He coaches people with social anxiety and there are women in the audience too. This topic specifically is probably more geared to men.

Oh man, about time. So many guys are taking this whole "just be yourself" either completely wrong OR they take it way too far and come across as incredibly weird lol GG father Jay

@Koryogden

6 жыл бұрын

stfu I am a level 90 paladin you wanna fite me? I will smite thee. /sarcasm /former-5-year-WoW-veteran

@denmarknb2

6 жыл бұрын

Fuck yeH

@gk_knight

5 жыл бұрын

James Orman yeah noticed that also

@humblewonder3260

5 жыл бұрын

Shut the fuck up you dumb shit stain

I just realised all that : I am mostly low on energy, asking questions, putting pressure into myslef and others, get frustrated when most people ignore my mesages.

So I shouldn't care what others think, but at the same time I should, because otherwise they'll think I'm creepy or selfish. Makes perfect sense! I love social intelligence!

This is pure gold for an socially awkward person, we need more social intelligence video from you Julien. Your simple still analytical way of explaining makes it convenient.

@vinit33pratap

6 жыл бұрын

Still good even if it's a paid product on the topic.

Thanks man, really amazing video, made realize im too stuck in my world, letting my anxiety take control of everything. Trying to improve myself, going on dates, is helping me alot. I believe the more I interact with people the more i find more about myself. Thank you once again for the advices. Will be looking forward to applying them in the real world:)

never compromise who you are in order to please someone else.

Ahahahahah great you did this one -Tyler

@Koryogden

6 жыл бұрын

Hey everyone - Julien shared his secret to befriending Tyler, EVERYONE STALK HIM AND REVERSE LEECH HIS ASS!! Then after we befriend you, its gonna be time to order coffee in front of you and be like "oh fuck no wallet, my homeboy got the bill tho" then GHOST - never seen again. #GOTTEM.

@jermaine2712

6 жыл бұрын

Kory Ogden what the fuck are you on about

@Koryogden

6 жыл бұрын

Jack Skellington just fucking around , is it not obvious?

I find when I’m out approaching I don’t analyse at all. I’m totally present in the moment in a state of flow. I avoid going up into my head and intellectualising at all. But the day after I do massive analysis on the evening before. Squeeze all the learnings from every interaction. Like Batman retreating to his bat cave. Works for me.

I can vouch for this. What RSD teaches about social intelligence changed my life. I've gone from looking at throwing my life down a toilet to having oppertunities all over the fucking place. Using everything from Meetup, to Instagram and PlayStation. He is 100% ON POINT with this.

Pure value as always Julien, thanks man. You've changed my life.

Thank you for your homeless wisdom, mighty bum Oracle.

@arete7884

6 жыл бұрын

Thats only because your mother has been slackin' on the streets. 100%

@levelitupp

5 жыл бұрын

I dont wanna like ur comment cuz 69 ayy lmao

@aaronthomas2598

5 жыл бұрын

Nice push pull

@Plutomaniaa

Жыл бұрын

pressure on pressure off

OMG he is wearing the clothes from instagram

@obrah30

6 жыл бұрын

RED so what he's being himself dumbass

I remember watching 26 year old julien vids and it’s pretty cool to see how he’s evolved👍🏼

I love how Julien got fucked over by the feminists and immediately pivoted to being a spiritual / self-improvement guru. Great show of overcoming adversity.

@rakshithm1257

2 жыл бұрын

When?

@sarahdouglas8350

2 жыл бұрын

@@rakshithm1257 ask google

Wonderful seminar, thank you so much Julien for visiting us in Berlin!!

RSD is so underrated. You guys are absolutely brilliant.

This is the power of Branding these days... DOPE INTRO JULIEN BLANC!!!!

One of the best videos I’ve seen in awhile, great job Julien!

miss rsd man taught me everything i know today about getting girls , always liked julien and max , favoursite rsd members pureley because i resonate with yous 2 most and i feel like before you started all this what your life was like was pretty much my life so appreciate all the help brother #riprsd

i love julien talk about social skills

One of the best videos you've made recently, I'm only 30 seconds in.

If you put it on mute in the beginning he's in a 90s rap video lmao

great content julien!

Super awsome speach!

One of the best RSD videos out there.

Thank you again father J!! May I also add what kind of jean jacket you have?

Jackpot video. Thank you.

Love the videos when will you come to San Antonio Tx.

thank you very much for the subtitles it helps the foreigners a lot :)

didn't know you are in my hometown right now. Welcome, enjoy your stay!

This Video is gold 🔥

Thats a great help, thank you

Thank you 21 enjoying my day

my pressure depends rather on how i hit the nerves of people. i don't really care. i just go with the "flow" what i want to say, no matter how much pressure they feel. or terror (maybe untrue but i feel like this is true right now)

Thanks Jules

Bro you've been flexing só hard with the Gucci and Shit

Wooooooow Ótimo vídeo!! haha

Yeah the moodboosting intro niice

I love how Julien went from a PUA to a Level 80 Mage!... (kidding, good stuff man)

Julien is the king of laymen’s terms and that’s kind of why he’s the man

Great stuff !! How does this relate to the workplace ? Namely waiter/ server at a restaurant

The problem is that the 'relatability circle' and my 'congruent circle' are miles apart from each other....😅 Anyway, thank you so much for this video.🙏This knowledge is really vital to me and it finaly made me realise why socializing have drained me so much: being too much in the head and not engaged enough in the social interactions themselves and how other people interpret what I say. Time to practice!!😀

@petriano1

2 жыл бұрын

That's how I feel like too .... All the time. And this puts so much pressure on myself

That intro was sick!

Obrigado Julien por esse conhecimento fantástico que muda varias vidas dos terráqueos. GRATIDÃO!

@iagopadua2914

6 жыл бұрын

Mano, uma pergunta, seu apelido é caveira ?

The best thumbnail Ive ever seen

@davecirlclux

5 жыл бұрын

Why? Because he is black?

Best thumbnail ever!😂😂😂

Isn’t this contradictory to what you always preach “stop trying to be cool”, let shit go. Over analyzing yourself and how people react to you creates anxiety, and makes you a robot for validation I feel.

Definitely my weakest point, Sounds like a fun way to do it as well. I also grew up in the age of the phones with the snake game

17:44 the KEY IS FINDING THE balance between being yourself __and__ being relatable

I thought the guy in the thumbnail was madison

@davecirlclux

5 жыл бұрын

Looks like Eddie Murphy

@sheldon6307

5 жыл бұрын

LMAO

SICK intro, J

Love it

okay julien so documenting the reaction is dope but how do i know that my intrepretation about that reaction is true , cause some people will smile if u do the uncalbriated thing and others would show siigns

👏👏👏 Thank you

Hearing you speaking german is the best thing i've ever seen in my life xD

Ha Julien! Have you seen the anonymous cubes on Alexanderplatz this weekend? 😀

0:52 Tyler!?! I KNEW IT! THEY ARE THE SAME ENTITY!

Awesome concepts, very useful 🔥

What is the music of the intro, its so cool ? Thank you !

Make a video on the DARK SIDE OF LETTING GO BRO. It can be a unique way of promoting your TM program. Haha. Ive been letting go alot through David Hawkin’s teachings and alot of people go through pain or hurt for many months man. Haha thanks for spreading TRUTH man. I LOVE YOU

@patrickguynn8900

6 жыл бұрын

wakeel himself why not do it yourself? It would be a good way to develop yourself in what you love.

@pevi722

6 жыл бұрын

WHats the dark side of letting go?

@adr58

6 жыл бұрын

Maybe you're not letting go properly, you should see big improvement in less than a month, re-read the book very slowly to get all the info right and try again. My first attempt didn't work but when I re-read the book very carefully it helped me adjust

@wakeelhimself4503

6 жыл бұрын

I have seen alot of improvements in myself. How I think, behave and view people has changed. My empathy has also increased. Alot has changed. Been letting go for almost 6 months

did you play alot of warcraft?

YEET!

Truth :)

You are fucking intelligent

Im hooked on this dude. RIP Kevin Samuels this is my new guy

It was fucking amazing!

Julien the social star✔

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

Calibration 101

G O L D

Julien looks more and more like milo yiannopoulos.

Julien looks like custom made GTA character in this video, lol. But seriously, great info

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, thanks!

Amazing video, that is what the world needs. Thanks, Father! :) Just in context to that, a question: Concerning interacting with women: How do I know when to stop talking to her (as you said: the 2 circles never cross, not meant to be ...)? Because what about proceeding to talk in order to pass shittests? That is what makes me curious :) GG

@wolverineg89

6 жыл бұрын

You start to feel like whatever you say is not impacting the person, you make a joke they dont laugh or theyre just polite but they really want you to go away. Mostly you'll feel it in your body , that there is something off and no matter what youre not going to connect. This is when you say have a good night and leave- Julien talked about this when he spoke about personal boundaries in tengame. Love you Julien.

Someone knows the song at the beggining of video?

@GoogleAccount-po1gl

6 жыл бұрын

Banovich Ognjen Darude-Sandstorm

I couldn’t NOT click on that

Most of the time i get nothing common between that congruence and relatability

Like Tai always says, be a mad scientist.

Damn the guidance counsellor didn’t teach me any of this shit

Julien! Julien! Can you describe your perfect sunday?

Working in a bar a as a bartender is a easy way to be forced fastly to learn all this imo;). And you get paid too. It’s a harsh world though, be prepared.

You have to clean the camera sensor....just sayng...!! ;)

What do you guys say to someone who questions why you have your shades on indoors?

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

"Cause I can"

@juiceonthebeat

2 жыл бұрын

@@JulienHimself Thank you! 🙏🏼😭

Oh lol je ne savais pas que tu étais Suisse. Well, congruence is 100% for me. However, relatiblity is totally impossible unless I play a role simply because I am a high potential and I think way too inconventionally so yeah.. I'd rather stay isolated than pretending. Because I'm radically honest and too authentic for "the standards" girls tned to perceive me and interprete than I'm creepy.

@Nalojuntu

6 жыл бұрын

John Mind - if so, why not looking at it differently. Why not thinking about letting yourself have fun. And about sharing these positive emotions with the girls. Giving up on going deep, I think that's what we could start to do. And thriving on sincerity, autoderision, social daring. I like how Max and Tyler put it about warming up before talking to THE girls. About interacting with any person on the way you go to the animated streets. Talking to grandmas, to barmens, to bouncers, even just about the weather or how the evening's going.

@john_dren

6 жыл бұрын

Commentaires thanks for your reply. That’s the thing, I always go deep with everyone I talk to lol or I just get bored and don’t talk 😂 it’s not about fear really but difference of values. I guess about the fact that if I had more practice I would probably take it less seriously.

Fucking Rockstar. Like the bold headline.

Crazy how he went from a dark triad person to how he is now

is that gary yorofsky in the first row?

10:00

Sick fucking pants dude! Where did you get them from?

notice the social intelligence of his glasses

Park am Gleisdreieck?

Bookmark 7:14

Fuck yes

18:16

I be creepy lol 😂

I wonder what type of reactions Father J gets infield compared to Juuuuulien Blanc. Juuuuuuulien Blanc was gangsta, Father J dresses weird

to reach out personally to someone you liked but ghosted you is already creepy and criminal for milenials

Where is the chat box ? 😅