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Don’t procrastinate is something to keep in our heads always. As long as you’re not hurting someone else or yourself, go for the goals you want

@user-fe6le6hr5i

2 жыл бұрын

Sigh, I guess I’ll keep procrastinating on becoming a serial killer then

@autismismysuperpower3133

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-fe6le6hr5i i support you

@UndercoverPuertoRican

2 жыл бұрын

Having options is what causes procrastination from what I’ve observed. I had the choice to go climbing or to hit the gym, or to play games, or go to work. Shit took me 30min to figure out what I should do. Once I realized I had to many options and just said fuck it the choice came naturally

@Douglas_Gillette

3 ай бұрын

Procrastinate is a term used as an assessment of behavior. Almost all people are mistaken on how human behavior works. Because of this, the term procrastinate, at best, is not very useful and at worst damaging.

I live a super interesting life. But, I can't talk about it. It's all classified.

@kamdynb.5940

3 жыл бұрын

On God.

@moe-vx3en

3 жыл бұрын

4 sure

@ColbyBumington

2 жыл бұрын

Serial killer?

@Froy_YTYt

2 жыл бұрын

i feel like i live a disgusting life. to embarrassed to talk about

@fixitfelix7176

2 жыл бұрын

@@Froy_YTYt felt

“People watching” is an actual thing some people do to pass time though

1) Talk about your interests = be yourself Being yourself gives you confidence. Confidence = success 2) Live an interesting life = Pursue a lifestyle filled with your passions and the shared interests of those who are close to you 3)Break out of your comfort zone so as to not become complacent 4)Be in the moment so you when you share an interesting story while being in the moment, you are fully capturing peak interest. Just a couple thoughts!

@joshmuirhead1154

7 ай бұрын

5) be ADD in conversation willing to change subject and abandon subject for the sake of chasing thoughts more then subjects.

Reminds me of of Guy sensei “if I lose this game of Rock Paper Scissors, I’ll walk around the village 500 times on my hands”. He coaches himself by putting a lot on the line for every challenge, no matter how small, so he’s forced to do his best.

@whateverilike1233

2 ай бұрын

Typical J type behaviour Ik 🙄🤷‍♀️

I watched a lot of videos about improving my inner self but this one is different, you are hilarious, your jokes brightened my day and what i realised the more time you spend with people like you (high sense of humour) the more you going to be funny as well... Thanks for this vid

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

AMAZING to hear! You're very welcome! 🙏

I notice everything. I'm suppose to be going in for adult adhd and autism tests as my ex thinks thus is why I'm allover the place. When it's not fucking me over mentally actually it's really handy and useful. There's an endless stream of cool shit to notice and quite often it's easily flipped into humour. It fucks me up when someone is talking to me and they have a scar on there face and instead of listening all I want to do is ask if they are a pirate.

@warlord-cw8ff

2 жыл бұрын

Yo bro not going to lie. Ive been thinking about taking some therapy to see if i have ADHD but i realized that you are not as wrong as you think you are cause other people are just lame to even have a glimpse of your perception. Dont waste your time on them. See how you can use it to better yourself cause whatever you got has been destined to be your sword in the fight. Learn to wield it and you’ll master the art you desire. People would make you feel likeyou are the crazy one. Dont listen to these basic life stocks. Fine tune what you think is your weakest point about you and with dedication you will master your game.

@aktv5507

2 жыл бұрын

@@warlord-cw8ff cheers bro. I'm 10 years into this self growth, self development stuff. I fell into it through books, power of now, Steven covey. Then speakers Tony Robins, les brown and I was hooked. I got nick named shelf help Andy as I would be spouting stuff I was learning to anyone that had ears. I binned off most of my old friends as they didn't get my trajectory. From the freak metal head dreamer to rocking out around the world on big stages. It was awesome. I now live by the beach and life is ace. One gift of hyper focus is the ability to dismantle problems, people situations extremely fast. Like you said to a standard Human it looks like magic but sometimes it can get hijacked by the self sabotage monkey mind and cause issues. Even if I go get help if it doesn't pass me ripping it apart in discussion I will thank them and decline there options and opinions.

@P.Subaeruginosa

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I'd say you have aspergers my man, we take in all stimuli constantly, its the main difference between a neurotypical brain and and autistic one.

@landypantsmoodrey9595

2 жыл бұрын

I have adhd and I kid you not it is the EXACT same stinking thing for me

@Gg00213

2 жыл бұрын

I know someone with ADHD who is a marketer and networker as per job. And he freaking lives his job, he is really enthusiastic and it is just amazing. If you got this little bit of craziness, it makes people like you, so just embrace it, you already do like I can read from your 2nd comment but still.

when I really get confortable with someone I can literally talk about anything, but getting there is Soo hard. Edit, yoooo I'm famous!!!!! also for everyone that watched this video, you deserve a big hug for trying to improve yourself, so yeah❤️

@sinister1485

2 жыл бұрын

SAME

@rayquastillo333

2 жыл бұрын

yaa

@soulchi3871

2 жыл бұрын

Same but I want change. I'll do it for myself.

@dylan1160

2 жыл бұрын

I was like this and then I stopped talking to people and people stopped talking to me. And now I feel like I can't anymore. Like there's some mental block

@denzoenzo159

2 жыл бұрын

@@dylan1160 damn bro that sucks. I saw in another video that if you close your eyes and imagine a conversation with someone it helped to be more expressive and outgoing. I hope this helps my guy❤️

Only reason I clicked on this video is to say, you are not boring. Be yourself, doesn’t matter what others think of you. People could think your boring, but you have to do what makes you happy and you have to make yourself happy before anything else. Let people think what they want let them be wrong. As long as you are honest with yourself you will attract people who will love you for who you are, even if you’ve spent your whole life lonely, I promise you you will meet people one day that you are going to love and they will love you back just the same, it’ll be beautiful. Never give up on yourself because you are important no matter what anybody thinks of you. Now click off this video and know that you are not boring.

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

If only a simple text like this would fix things… What you wrote sounds good on paper, but doesn’t produce anything more than a temporary “feel good” sadly.

@crazzybl4ck929

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 stop lying to the poor boring ppl

@faspanish24

Жыл бұрын

@@JulienHimself aren’t you all about being authentic and doing what you want??? Well now I’m confused

@talithahope4779

11 ай бұрын

While what you said is true, Julian does try to teach authenticity while also teaching about confidence, getting out of your comfort zone, and just general socialization. A shy and insecure person is certainly lovable and deserving of love. That still doesn't mean that the person necessarily has proper social skills or will attract healthy relationships. Everyone is lovable and no one is boring. It's simply about, if you really want open social skills outside of your shell, you have to try new things and break the barriers to new experiences and connections and conversations.

"No one ever sits down and zones in on details about strangers" I've always done this. I've always been observant of everything as much as I can. this is literally a thing classic 2d animators do. they'll sit in a public location and just study the people who pass as part of thier studies. I doubt many other than me practices this technique though, so your practically correct. This does mean though that 90% when people are actively paying attention like that when most wouldn't, it problibly means they are an artist.

@gimmeurcoin7448

2 жыл бұрын

Guess I’m an artist

@allaboutedm8050

2 жыл бұрын

i do it all the time not sure why though it’s quite a bad habit because people will catch me staring at them but i don’t realise i do it i just like to imagine their life by looking at them i think

@thatonecommenter7169

2 жыл бұрын

Guess this just validates the saying of "Never say ever"

@joelstephenson8017

2 жыл бұрын

I'm an artistic type, and I anilyse everyone I meet. Not in a negative way tho..

@pedroalgo3990

2 жыл бұрын

Quit thinking youre that special, most personality disorders do this to people.

People look at me at work all the time and notice when I’m tired, new haircut, or the shirts I wear. I can’t speak for the rest of the world but I can speak for my coworkers and they notice everything. The problem is I get noticed by people I don’t really care to be noticed by. It’s the ones you want to notice that don’t….

@popcentralgaming

2 жыл бұрын

That’s a good opportunity. Ask them about it. I think that’ll be a great way to find new topics to talk about. “Dave, you have new sketchers?” Hell yeah I do, and they light up!

Listening to his talk I thought.. "what kind of people are those who don't even try to take a look to their surroundings?" I am very aware to so many things around me and it is a pleasure to be able to notice every little new details. I am the opposite to the kind of person who he is talking about, and I am proud of it

@TheLastOfTheSurvivors

2 жыл бұрын

The kind of person he is talking about doesn’t exist. It is horrible advice to tell someone that “normal people” don’t judge those around them. Everyone is looking at those around them to some extent, we notice weirdos just as much as we notice 10/10s. Looking average and being average means you’ll probably be forgotten first after someone notices you. This is what the speaker experiences and claims as the normal when he’s never experienced a lot of the things he speaks about.

@sarah37452

Жыл бұрын

I'm not an observant person and mostly focus on myself, but I don't do that intentionally. People like us exist too, you know, everyone's unique. You can't expect others to be your replica.

Late to this vid, but there's a big difference between actually not noticing someone or a change about them, versus CHOOSING not to comment despite noticing the change or person in general. Case in point, ton of attractive people get noticed in passing but many choose not to say anything for one reason or another, and plenty of those reasons aren't due to lack of confidence.

I’m Glad Y’all Still Working Out Here Despite The Virus. Be Safe Brother. Peace & Blessings

@PulakMehta

4 жыл бұрын

He shot this in 2019-2019. He tells that Avengers end game would be similar to Avengers infinite war!

Kinda reminds me of when Julien talked about when he first moved to LA Lived with a bodybuilder on a blow up matress or some shit. And would pull girls to the bathroom. Its just stimulating to the girl. Even if your room is messy or something, some guys use that as an excuse but in reality it just makes the story more fun Positive or Negative. Its still more drama and entertainment. Think about a movie, if its too predictable and positive its boring I like the idea of giving the girl a full range of emotions. Just something different than the next guy that makes you stand out. Anyways good vid

Watched you back then in my cringy pickup phase just when i was about to hit 18. Watching your stuff now helps me much better at improving myself mentally, thank you.

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome! And welcome back! 🙏

One of the best videos! It offers so much value! I loooooooove it Julien! Thank you! I'm gonna apply it from right-fucking-now!

@danielniess130

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

Hell yeah Julian, great video!!

I struggled for years with this. I have aspergers and I literally take in all stimuli around me at all times, I never realized other people don't do that too so it was very hard to shake.

@interstellar.7297

2 жыл бұрын

Same, as someone with Asperger’s it was very hard for me to build self awareness, as the only thing that ever ran through my head was “what are they thinking”. It was like a paranoia born from the anxiety that comes with the disorder. It took me a while to realize that people only care about themselves. I’ve learned to see that and avoid people like that, and only make friends with people as equally fucked as I. I watched this video because I’m forcing myself out of my comfort zone by learning to be the center of attention, cause the only way I learn is if I’m uncomfortable and the only way I’m uncomfortable is when I force myself to be and that takes work and planning, one of which I’m incredible at and the other I never did growing up because I was too anxious that they would change slightly and I would have a mental breakdown. I’m very high and forgot why I started typing this so ig you enjoyed reading it? 😅🤷🏼

This should be called "How to not care about whether you are boring or not". the whole idea is to eliminate anxiety because we all know essentially that it is the fear of the uncertain and such. you must let go of mental attachments and micro adjustments in order to find your center. this is why meditation works. focusing on the breath dissociates your conscious awareness from micro adjusting and beings your focus to the motion of the body in congruence with the cosmic energy that brings us life and that which makes up the environment you acclimate to. you must understand your emotions and limitations before creating the life you desire to live.

walk out the the door, turn right and just walk straight. Genius! :-)

Middle of last year I was at the peak of overcoming my anxiety. I felt like I could literally do anything. I practiced not caring what others thought, doing things without thinking and looking to the bright side of things. After a few months of constant practice, I honestly felt like no one could stop me from doing anything. It was honestly the best few months of my life. It lasted only for a few months though. I caved in and fell into bad habits again. I'm going to do it again! First step is to just stop thinking and get up and go do the thing you're thinking about right now. Start with that micro step!

I've never been interesting, or am rarely interesting to another person. At some point I had to just accept it about myself. I am introverted, quiet, and I like it. I can barely handle what Ive got! Live a more interesting life just sounds exhausting. Work, kids and a home is my life. And that is ok. And what has helped? Completely quit social media. If theres no possibility I can become interesting by sharing into the social media void, theres no reason to feel bad about living a slower, less interesting life. Im also terrible at telling stories. I had to accept that as well. I dont have the brain for it. So even if I had an interesting life, I wouldn't be able to share it in an interesting way lol. I also no longer need to impress anyone. Letting go of it all was sooooo freeing.

Feel like I saw this video before, but love it!

Talk about shit that excites me. Why am not I living an interesting life? Break my routine (what can I do). Coach myself. Know my excuses and comebacks. How can I do that I don't have a choice? (Money) Who cares more about this conversation, who has more value? Switch a lot of topics and leave them open.

Video starts @ 4:50

@chelsii2068

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@bluemammal

2 жыл бұрын

Yo thanks

hes right, i spent 2 hours listening to this guy who hitchhiked his way across the US with nothing but a big backpack, and a guitar. This dudes stories were crazy.

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Nice!

very nice man, your talks got better

The thing about this advice that i hear constantly is, i dont do that. When i walk past people i see them. Its like I see people through to their souls and yes i do judge harshly unintentionally. How can I accept that other people dont do that when i do that?

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qWegusmTj5W2fag.html

@juandavidgarza4438

2 жыл бұрын

Some of this advice I cant follow and stay genuine to myself. Which is fine, means I can take it with a grain of salt. Recognizing your judgmental (or any) thoughts can help you understand who you are as a person. Once you figure that out you can work with whatever thoughts come and choose to honor and let go

@damobeck1

2 жыл бұрын

I also sometimes do that. My advice, change how you think they think about you, OR change how harshly you judge them. Either way takes a while to really get in the habit, but it’ll help out a lot.

@boodang8161

2 жыл бұрын

@@damobeck1 thank you. Im working on that

@mikecraw5381

2 жыл бұрын

Guys like this are able to exist because a lot of us don’t know who we truly are.

Yes, a lot of people don't notice a lot of things. I am not arguing that our society is becoming increasingly self-absorbed either. However, the combination of those two statements brings up a certain percentage of people who are observant but just don't care. So either way, people aren't nit-picking every small detail about you. On one hand, you may have people look at you and guarantee, they made a judgment or observation but that's all they did. A very insignificant thought in the entirety of all thoughts ever.

I need to coach myself more. I have been stuck in a routine for too long and need to grow!

@MultiStar84

4 жыл бұрын

But you won’t

@nathann6482

4 жыл бұрын

Desmond Scott you wont

@Nisowyd

2 жыл бұрын

@@MultiStar84 weirdo

@davidtolle9533

2 жыл бұрын

Have you grown?

@desmondscott2882

2 жыл бұрын

@@davidtolle9533 Lmao forgot about this comment. Yessir! Had a couple decent jobs since then. A little over a year ago I started a roadtrip and have been traveling around the country while bringing in the most consistent money I ever have. Nothing crazy but better than before. Made great connections literally everywhere I've been. Dropped RSD, found mentors/coaches better suited to me and still working on leveling up even more.

Good topic. Plus high status is important

"Do you ever zone in on strangers? No!" My ADHD-Ass: Actually, yes. I do. 😂

I'm someone that tends to talk fast since I can't get a word in otherwise with most people. It works so I guess it depends on the situation

@jessebradford7130

2 жыл бұрын

Funny you say that because I always have plenty to say, so I talk fast to make sure I get it all out.

“Who zones in on people” me most of the time 😅 I love looking at people while walking

14:00 that was an amazing little bit😂 you should try standup comedy you would murder as an opening act right away

This is like self help n stand up comedy rolled into one I love it. Not laughed like this in a good while

Talk about shit that excites me, talk to others in a more ADD type of way n live a more interesting life, keep the stories open ended n switch between them, figure out whos more invested and whos reacting. Ask questions w a good vibe and add on them without explanation

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Nice takeaways! 👊

Actually some of us notice a lot with others, how they look, their eyes, their mood etc.

being someone who is always very aware of my surroundings and i always look much further than my hands, i literally thought everyone did this, so i had a hard time believing people wont notice you, coz i notice all people around me. giving me a hard time walking straight and proud, but after this video i asked around and you know what.? you're absolutely right. no one fcking notices 🤣 tho not noticing ur wife got a haircut is sad imo 🤣 maybe thats just me being very aware and stuff i dont know

@Olamide.creates

2 жыл бұрын

Best real life description yet

@millymilly3494

2 жыл бұрын

Yea man same. Like I’m on my own and listen to my surroundings. I hear things from different conversations and if I look around I notice different things. I thought everyone does the same but I’m just overthinking too much shit. This was eye opening and funny too.

I do everything you said at the beginning of the video. I actually assumed everyone did this too.

First class is better regardless of stories. And some of the people you'd meet in first class I'm sure you'll get great stories from. Although I don't live my life for a story to tell someone else. I live it for me & mine.

The first part, where he says "No one does that". And I'm like, Dude... EVERYONE does that.

@sheygo1847

2 жыл бұрын

BRUH🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Simp4Addison

2 жыл бұрын

They don’t tho

@jvd3339

2 жыл бұрын

@@Simp4Addison - If they didn't, bullies wouldn't exist. The military wouldnt care if your uniform was wrinkled. Schools and Clubs wouldnt have a dress code. And that's not reality. - Not sure what world you live in where people aren't criticized for their appearance, but it's not this one.

@Simp4Addison

2 жыл бұрын

@@jvd3339 well if they hate u n going out their way to do that then yeah but I’m talking about in general

@jvd3339

2 жыл бұрын

@@Simp4Addison - Bullies, Military, School, Work... Those are pretty Generic areas where that lvl of scrutiny exists...

17:48 that guy is really cool tho haha, also i love that girl smiling, great video!

The part about giving the money to a friend as a motivator for you taking action is huge - I was thinking about that today and a lot recently. What are the consequences of not doing what I know I need to do?

@keeganburr1057

2 жыл бұрын

your friend isn't going to keep it from you forever the point is that you can't have the money back until you achieve the goal you set forward for yourself. So they hold on to it until you're driven enough to get your money back

@attilathehun9654

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, the fun part comes when you don't care about money, so even if 1K is a lot for you, you're still not gonna do it :(

Tommorows Anzac day. Going to ceremony at 5 in the morning, that my excuse. I’m out for the whole day but I’ll definitely try the next day!

This found me perfectly!

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Great! 🙌

thank you julien

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome! 🙏

The breard thing resonates with me

2:38 MANY do that actually ... Ppl sitting in parks, ppl at a red light, even passerbys... It's a known fact that old people or young kids do it more often than not...

so true

goddamn that endgame predicition was on point

this fucking HELPED a lot thanks father J

People feel inadequate and choose to watch videos like these to change who they are. If you're not the kinda person like in the video, you don't have to be. Good people won't criticize you for who you are and you shouldn't want to change to impress bad people.

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Watch this video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZYCLvKuficbAetI.html 😉

6:00 -> Talk about what you like? To be nice to someone other, for me it’s nicer to ask an interesting question to the other one and show real interest instead of talking about myself…..

i actually watch people and i notice details about them even if their farther than my arms length, and i sometimes wonder if they notice me or the things i notice, but what julien says in the beginning explains some weird behaviour i've been seeing!

@marshmallow167

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah same

@jonmcmann6811

4 жыл бұрын

i was trained in the Marines to pay attention to detail so i look at every thing. I even see threads on peoples clothes (Irish Penants)

I zone in on all the details so yes

i think i do many of those things "naturally". Maybe I am blessed. Nice watch!

This is helpful.

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it! What was your top takeaway?

What does ADD mean? This video is so sick. Thanks, Father J😎👌

@Gigusx

4 жыл бұрын

ADHD.

@UkraineYamaha

4 жыл бұрын

@@Gigusx yes sorry. What does that mean?

@victorenock

4 жыл бұрын

Infinity-Productions google it

@andersmidtgard6584

4 жыл бұрын

Infinity-Productions it’s a sickness were the person has too much energy. People with ADHD will find it hard to only focus on one topic at a time because of attention problems. They are overly active, etc. Have a friend who have it.

@UkraineYamaha

4 жыл бұрын

@@andersmidtgard6584 got it. In Germany it is called ADHS. I was confused and thought he was talking about something different. Thanks!

honestly i do notice the way people even strangers look- they arent just "blurry"... And then create an image in my head of who that person is and form an opinion of them, even if I dont remember later. Im always judging people around me too(i know its not healthy, but almost everyone does) based on how they act or look. And if you're a friend, then I'll absolutely notice any changes in your appearance, like new earrings or lip tint or not wearing a jacket for once. My friends notice stuff about me too, like my "perfect" eyeliner or my nails. This goes for the classroom too, i noticed when my history teacher got a new hairstyle or some guy got a haircut(which was horrible) or when my maths teacher shaved off his beard.

I live a boring life but it's unique because I have a little progress in my dream that I want to receive as a musician and youtuber

whoooaa, please, thank you!!!!

Pre marriage Julien as new videos he has different hairstyle and darker suit. Both are 🔥

I once convinced myself that it defies the laws of physics to use another set of dishes before I clean the last ones I used. "Dammit! Can't build up a stack of dirty dishes".

Dr. K has explained how its impossible for a human to be boring. Its an oxymoron but the more non-interesting someone is, it makes them more interesting

@lalfada9637

2 жыл бұрын

Hey thats interesting! In what video was it ?

@reservationatdorsias3215

2 жыл бұрын

Last sentence makes no sense tho. If someone doesnt reveal anything about themselves, and/or arent super energetic around new people, that doesnt entice curiosity, that person just ends up as the outsider.

@StockHonda

2 жыл бұрын

@@reservationatdorsias3215 this scenario i’m using is when you’re only focusing on one person, not when you’re looking at a grand amount of people. My point is that we are all unique and interesting

@StockHonda

2 жыл бұрын

@@lalfada9637 ill get back to this comment once i find it. Ive seen a to of his videos so it might take a bit lmao

@wydkianovio

2 жыл бұрын

@@reservationatdorsias3215 it makes perfect sense bruh😂

damm that was something

I liked all of the advice except for the last one where you ask random questions and then pretend like you were never interested, it just doesn't feel right and very probably only serves to make the other person feel bad

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

That must be done from a WIN WIN place of self amusement... Playful teasing. NOT to make someone feel bad.

I like you hats

It's funny because I have this one coworker who always comments on my face. She notices my makeup and normally it's a positive thing but sometimes it's like bro why are you so invested on the small differences in my eye liner or mascara

you and Jaison Capital are so similar hope you collab soon!"!!

@mariaa__yaa

4 жыл бұрын

TWNerd yea jc and julien should collab

Hi blanc how much i take transformation mastery

@graydawg6949

4 жыл бұрын

You need a basic english program first bro 😂

2:39 I do that actually LOOOL

Im just glad you said right, otherwise on left i might end up robbed or beaten up xd

I always wanted an interesting life and meet people from different countries and travel but as a Syrian guy I'm f*ckin doomed everywhere . I have tried a lot and I really like people but my life is actually doomed. Nationality is not a choice it's a privilege either you have it or not.

@Lu7cky23

2 жыл бұрын

change your way ,how you look to your self.Do 100 pushups a day ,10every hour,then do 200a day ,build yourself!dont care about ohers !care about yourself.

@mojekonto9287

2 жыл бұрын

So, how are you doing now? Have you already realized by now that your nationality really does not matter to people as long as you can communicate ? :)

@FaridFakhouri

2 жыл бұрын

@@mojekonto9287 Nationality still actually matter but I’m having a very different life now in a good way. Thanks to the internet I built a business and made money investing in crypto and NFT’s I made it cause everyone is equal on the internet 👈🏻

@mojekonto9287

2 жыл бұрын

@@FaridFakhouri wow, that is awesome man! :) Good luck with your business! And yes, if persistent enough, one can do wonders within internet world :)

@FaridFakhouri

2 жыл бұрын

@@mojekonto9287 Thanks! Good luck to you too ☘️

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8:04 Good point

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! 👊

I didn't understand the part about tonality and adding value. How exactly to do that that is.

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

This video here goes deeper on this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/p2yNu81xZ8aTgbw.html

He is calling "introverts" boring when the introverts built most of the world but extroverts are living in it..

@lifeafterkings6315

2 жыл бұрын

@Uriel Sigtuna That's a whole point of been an introvert, we introvert we take a lot of time to process information and it may take us a long time to finally decide what we want to do in life. All my cousins and family members are extroverts they are living the average life living on the average dreams. I have bIG dreams and I don't want to be average (nothing wrong with it) but u can choose to step yourself out of "society norms and expectations" its not a race and you shouldn't care of what others think of you and your long term Goals.

@anonymousalias.5059

2 жыл бұрын

Autistics built the world we live in. Many use "introvert" as a cope for not being able to express emotions

@King-tp6ui

2 жыл бұрын

Based on a study most of the Engineers are introvert so the lifestyle more or less take effect positively.

2:02 Yeah I'm fucking weird man I zone into literally everyone I see. I can't help it, and it's really hard to stop

2:22 Not gonna lie I have a few friends that do this 😂

2 + 2 = 4...hell yeah!

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, YES! 🙌

Like honestly I really actually do zone in on people

Just tossing this question out into the ether. What if your "uninteresting" life is what you enjoy doing? Do you just force yourself to do hobbies/ activities you're not feeling just to be more interesting to other people?

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

No! Own what you're doing! What makes something "interesting" is you being INTERESTED in it! 😉

@olekkolodziejski6068

2 жыл бұрын

@@JulienHimself Thank you for the response! It's fascinating to see someone replying to as many comments as you do given your audience size. I hope you continue to fan that flame and passion because your work is incredibly valuable!

Julien a gangsta 😎

I would say 90% is true but there's always a variant .. people are all different you cant put them all in the same box so dont take this theories for granted.. but they definitly help you feeling better about yourself

I’d end up in the Sea! Story over .

2.10 - i have to disagree, i analyse a lot of people when i walk through the street and i imagine lots of other people do too - checking out girls, people watching etc. its called being aware of your surroundings

@dreamon8274

5 ай бұрын

real, i even notice people's nails lol, and judge them based on that

Fax

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

You know it! 👊

Jesus I’m ADD 😂😂.. I flit topic wise so much but that’s what I do 🤷‍♀️😂😂.. beginning middle and end.. what even is that? 😂xx

I notice the smallest things. And I remember the smallest things. So I just assume everyone else has the same ability. And it's hard to tell what the average person does and doesn't notice.

I actually analyze a lot even people because I’m constantly feeling a need to do so because I want to be aware of my surroundings but it’s not a good thing. I notice shit all the time and ask people like “hey did you notice that person done this?” And they’re like no lol

You know that voyce? My friend tought me how to control it

Remember this, a lot of people are shit at communicating, it takes 2 to tango!

For some reason, I don't like you! But keep doing what you're doing, it seems that you help a lot of people with your work

10:48 Find ways to make yourself to not have a choice for not doing something

I do analyze others though And I'm not wierd

@choosefreedom4725

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a especially sensitive to this, and yeah I notice people like you lmao. The worst is when the person overanalyzes and in order to mask their insecurity, they try to act superior. Through dumb shit like standing in front of you with their chest puffed out and being inconsiderate of others around them.

9:02 Leave ur phone home while walking no negative thats a bad idea bc u could get robbed killed or kidnapped

@TibiHIPHOP

2 жыл бұрын

That stuff can happen with a phone too or has the new iphone got a pepperspray app?