Bev what challenges us makes us stronger! I hope that person who made that negative comment watches this vlog? You are a true entrepreneur & self made, hard work has rewards! Knowing the value of the almighty $ is important also appreciating earning it! I respect that you were SO open about your life! 🤗🇦🇺🌻

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Yes ma’am… I have learned to respect money and the choices it gives me.

@joannhughes7437

2 жыл бұрын

Bell thank you for your openness when I first saw your site I kind of felt like that you did have money and it was easier for you thank you for being so open I am a 66 year-old black woman who had it hard my mother passed away when I was 17 but I still learn to open small businesses even with a learning disability so thank you for sharing your father's disability because I had it as well but I raised 7 kids for of my own three of my sister who died and left me hers so thank God for your openness and I will now study the financial books and make myself read One Financial book a month thank you you have encouraged me a lot

Bev, *thank you*. Your childhood belief of “There’s barely enough” hit home HARD, and I hadn’t really thought about how much that belief affects me so many decades later when really, I’m in a position where there IS enough. I’m going to have to put some real thought into how to fix that belief myself.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Vi. i believe the first step and 50% of solving a problem is realizing that you do it. So congrats… your half way there.

It's always jarring when someone is visibly offended by how I'm living. Thankfully it doesn't happen often. I love engaging them so they get the full story and their perspective usually shifts pretty quickly. I'd say in most of those cases their animosity is rooted in their own sense of life bondage and discontent. They feel so trapped, (and may actually be), by the consequences of their decisions. Seeing someone so free and vital really shines a light on their unhappiness. So, my heart really goes out to them. Educating people on the difference between being a live aboard/nomad by choice vs being forced into it, is always an important conversation to have with people who see anyone who lives like this as homeless. I can certainly relate to lots of your story. It's an inspirational and valuable share. Thank you Bev 🙏

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

You’re right… a conversation and a little understanding can go a long way to shift someone’s perspective. My favorite live from your comment is that your heart goes out to them. Mine does too.

Great video! You have earned your “soft” life. Your dad sounds like a mirror image of my older brother. He was always rescuing family and friends and sometimes strangers with broken down vehicles… rarely charging them. He never left home without a small crescent wrench and a pair of pliers in his back pocket in case someone needed help. When he passed my sister-in-law asked me what I wanted of his, you guessed it, that crescent wrench and pliers sit on a table in my home office. I don’t carry them with me because I don’t have the skill set he did.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I LOVED reading your comment. Thank you for sharing your story with me.

@rebekahfrye7934

2 жыл бұрын

I have my grampa's little tools he always had in his pockets, in my tiny van! They are precious! - and also, helpful!

I get you. I was raised in a poor family of 12 kids. We learn from an very early age how to work hard and save our money. Most of us kids had 2 job (paper route & babysitting). Once we turned 16 we started working in restaurants or jobs at the mall. All of us kids went to college, which we payed for our self. After college, we all worked hard and saved our money. Luxuries weren’t something we were accustomed to so living smart & saving money was important to all of us. Today, all 12 of us kids have a very soft life. Family First!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing a little part of your story with me…. Your story brought me the biggest smile.

Thank you for posting this! So many people only see our current life, yet have no clue the road we’ve traveled to get where we are today. I trust this post will encourage many. You ROCK!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I find peoples stories so fascinating. You’re so right.

I want to commend you on answering this question with grace, patience, and a total lack of defensiveness! You're taking the time to outline your background and life were the perfect answer. This video made me admire you even more than I already did. I swear, like I keep saying to you, someday we need to meet up on the road! :-)

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Joy thank you for noticing that. I didn’t feel the least bit offended by his comment. i actually really appreciated it because it sent me on a reflective journey as to how I got this “Soft” life. Lol. I’d love to meet you.

Bev … what a life you have lived! One to be so proud of & all you’ve accomplished. Thank you for sharing❣️I decided to start ‘van life’ in my Kia Sportage which allowed me to take early retirement. My parents died at ages 62 & 64 & I’ve lost more than a few good friends & relatives from illnesses over the past few years. This made me realize that none of us know how much time we have in this life. Why work until 70 and THEN retire??? You might not even make it to that age. I worked very hard but was fortunate during my career to be able to travel in Europe & other lovely places but there are so many places I haven’t seen in the US! So I’m living & traveling now in a very low cost way to see everything this amazing country has to offer. I’d like to get a van one day, but so far I’m doing just fine with my mid-sized SUV! Your story is so inspiring! Be well Bev & safe travels. I hope to see you at Fredrock in early September with Jonnie❣️

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Darcy… i have been loving following your grand adventures. You be well and be safe Darcy. Sending you so much love and I can’t wait to see you again.

You go girl! Enjoy living your soft life. You’ve earned every bit of it 😊👍

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… thank you.

"Parents can't teach you what they don't know." True words I've never thought of before. We all need to learn how to help ourselves formulate lives we wish to lead, at every turn and every step of the way. Thank you for this soul bearing message. You seem to be a wonderful mother with a loving heart for all. I enjoy your channel very much. 🙂

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… Thank you for the comment. It’s my honor to share. Thanks for taking the time to watch.

It's sad that people resent what others have, especially when they don't know the work that goes into that life. I hope you don't feel that you had to justify yourself, but wanted to share because you have worked hard and SHOULD BE PROUD of what you have accomplished and continue to accomplish. Thank you for sharing.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t take the comment as being resentful… I appreciate it. It sent me on an inquiry about how I got here… to my soft life. It also made me evaluate when I judge others without being fully informed of their situation…. I think we all do that sometimes.

I love how you took the criticism and used it as the motivation to basically explain that choices have consequences - If you work hard and think things out as you go you can make anything happen - Most of the people who take the time to write a critical comment (oh by do I get them) are unhappy people who never seem to reflect on life's challenges to see the opportunities presented to them. It's always "woe is me", like they enjoy wallowing in misery. Life is 10% "crap" happens and 90% how you deal with it. A positive mindset and attitude can carry you through anything. Every challenge is an opportunity to make a change for the better if you chose to see it that way. When you take the time to listen to some of these people (my family is like this) it becomes very clear that they are usually just making excuses and never taking personal responsibility for the decisions that put them into the circumstances they find themselves in.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t necessarily take it as a criticism. More like an observation or assumption without knowing all of the information. I loved doing the self reflective journey and I love my soft life.

Some days in my vanlife I think "I can't believe this is my life!" :D & Some days I think "I can't believe this is my life" :( I admire you & the life you've set up for yourself. That's why I watch your channel. I'm 58 years old & separated from my husband of 36 years almost 5 years ago with nothing but my van, I've been struggling ever since. But I haven't let it stop me or get me down. I show up everyday & am committed to learning how to create a life I can be proud of. Maybe one day you can share some of your business knowledge with us. You keep posting & I'll keep watching. With love, Sindy

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I get you! And wish you all the best. Thanks for sharing some of your journey with me. I think your best asset is your beautiful attitude. Thankfulness attracts more things to be thankful for.

That was sooo good Bev!!!! I love your honesty. Your journey still impacts so many. Your channel is valuable, it inspires us to make small adjustments in areas we do have control over. You still inspire me!!!! I love your content. I love your heart. Thankyou for sharing.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

awe… Thank you Reyne. You have such a beautiful, open minded heart. I love you. And Yes, sometimes it’s those small adjustments that end up pointing us in an entirely different direction.

Bev. You don’t owe anyone an explanation about you life. You worked hard. I am living in my car in Houston so I can have a soft life I being on my low paying job 28 years getting ready for retirement by September. I doing this to be debt free and rent free. I purchased everything cash because I am not paying rent I been saving cash. I am looking forward to a soft life

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in Houston now… girl It’s hot here, even at night. I woke up at 2am in my van a few nights ago, all hot and sweaty. Lol. Now i am appreciating the AC. I wish you all the very best in life and I honor the choices you are now making. I’m proud of you and with you a beautiful soft life.

@simplymejourney998

2 жыл бұрын

@@BecomingBev thank you Bev. I have an opolar fan running top speed and I crack windows about four inches both size to keep cool at night. So far it’s durable. I am in Louisiana this weekend in my tiny e..

Hi Bev. Great video. My life has been much similar to urs. I am a modern minded 65 yo. I feel great. I’ve always lived my life with goals of improving my life. Someone once said to me “ u think ur better”, I replied “ I don’t I just try harder than most”. With no higher education or guidance I have made myself a soft life.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Like you I desire to love my life and ask myself the question… How can i make it even better. I’m so happy that you found your way to your soft life.

I'm glad you shared your journey in life. You are a very intelligent woman. You can never have too much knowledge. We have lived in some of the same places. I worked in Dallas and eventually moved to Houston. I don't have children but I've always had a single income. I liked nice things but always tried to live below my means. Life changed as my Mom had cancer and then Dad needed help. Huge cut in pay but I kept on working. Mom passed but I took care of Dad 16 1/2 years. Then I had health issues where I couldn't work - plowed through savings fast. I wanted so much to be able to travel and get a van. Unfortunately, it's not feasible now. I have a roof over my head and I'm grateful. We never know what life will hand us but we need to choose to be happy

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I am constantly learning. God bless you for taking care of your dad all of those years. Whew! You’re so right… we never know what life will hand us and happiness is a choice in every situation. Sending you so much love

I started living in a gmc canyon 4 years ago for financial reasons. I got used to it and while researching ways to make it more livable discovered van life on youtube. The rest is history. I have the 1999 version of your van, we connected briefly about it in the comments of one of your past videos. I continue to make upgrades to the vehicle itself while I work local and have actually begun to "convert". So far: Webasto gas heater, Maxx fan deluxe, Jackery 500 with solar panel and a roll away AC exhausted out one of my slider windows (I have shore power where I park) I love your honesty and realness. People always want to judge a book by its cover but you need to read the story.... ✌️❤️ and Vanlife !!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I think you’re smart for figuring out how to live in expensively. Thanks for connecting with me.

I grew up in Jamaica dirt poor and can completely understand your mindset. I love your spirit and hope you never change that part of you. Your hussle is real. I worked full time and went to school full time and I'm now 46 and need a breather. So can identify with this van life. Keep up your amazing posts. Your soft life is well deserved

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the sweet note. I hope you get that well deserved breather.

Yes there are lots of people with not so soft lives... it's all in the attitude. I'm one myself. Make your home wherever and whatever you have... your in charge of your own creation. MAKE it happy... create your happiness

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Angelina you are 100% spot on. Happiness occurs between your ears.

You are delightful. For the person that wrote the letter Im sure they can shut their mouth..if you are living a soft life you deserve it. I love my soft life because I now live in my mini van and 3/4 of my income is mine to enjoy as I want instead of less than 1/4 is mine to spend. Its a reward for the struggles living to pay bills

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I think a soft life is a perception. Congrats on yours. I’m Proud of mine.

Most men can only dream to have a woman like you, hard work, dedication, sacrifice and of course your beauty and personality. You deserve to have a soft life and I only wish you the best

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kindness and well wishes.

A very interesting life story Bev ! The people who leave negative comments are just jealous of your life, ‘ it’s easier to kick over other people sandcastles than to build their own’ You are now reaping the rewards of your very hard work and entrepreneurial skills. I work-as a seasonal campsite host in the UK living full time in my van, this is a lifestyle choice for me, I wouldn’t want to go back to living in a house again 💙👍🏻

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think he was jealous at all. I think he just made an assumption. We all do it. Thanks for sharing a bit of your story with me.

Ms. Bev live your best life to the fullest You deserve it Thanks for sharing your past life 👍👍👍

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

The past is part of what makes us… us. Thank you Mary.

Love the sink cabinet upgrade. Your van is amazing. Your life is amazing. You created your beautiful life. Glad you are not apologetic.

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Here’s to an amazing life.

What a fabulous lady you are…fascinating to listen about your journey through life so far…you deserve your freedom and the happiness / calmness you show chatting away to camera…stay safe, stay well…Brian in the U.K.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… Thank you Brian. Someone once told me “Stories need to be told”. So here I am. Lol

Wow It's refreshing to actually have someone tell you about their back story life..I love that you are so honest and transparent.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

If I can do it anybody can. Lol. Thank you tax. I appreciate your comment.

Doing my build right now. I have the advantage of tools, carpentry and funds. I’m going to get out on short trips and decide if I want to do it on a permanent basis. I’ve worked hard all of my life for everything I have, so when I sell, and get a bigger van, I’ll make it really nice. I will deserve my “soft “ life. Enjoy yours girl!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Cheers to those hard earned soft lives. I think doing short trips is the perfect test for making a change like this. Wishing you many lovely adventures.

I've led a similar life to yours in that I've had opportunities to work in different fields in mostly great jobs (2 exceptions), always making more so I could pay debt or have a better lifestyle. I've lived in the same cities and was also a single mother working 2 and 3 jobs to make it. When my boys were grown I had work that took me all around the globe into luxury I could never afford on my own. HOWEVER, unlike you, it takes me more than once to learn a hard lesson. I'm a senior retired lady now and am recovering once again from some poor financial decisions. But somehow it always worked out and I now believe I can create my happy endings. I'm working now to smooth out the bumps in my life and have found new inspiration from you and a couple of other youtubers. Thank you for sharing your life with us viewers. You are a blessing, Bev.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Michelle. Thanks for your comment. We all have those regrets and things we wish we would have done differently. Something I tell myself when those feelings come up is that I was operating with what I knew back then. I know more now and can choose differently. I firmly believe in self forgiveness and compassion. Wishing you all the best.

Dear Bev, I’ve been watching you for sometime now. Your authenticity and warmth have grown on me. I relate to much of your story. Today I can say I have a ‘cush’ job. I am stashing cash and living beneath my means. It’s been a journey to get to this point. I want the van-life. Or, more what I want is the joyful, adventurous, content life that you emanate. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself. 🌺💕

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Carmen it’s my pleasure to share. I hope you get the life you dream of. Thank you for you encouraging kind words.

Thanks for sharing your life and life lessons. Transparency should silence the naysayers but many of them won't concede. It's better if you use your rewards to enjoy the places you have visited in the past year or so than to let uncle Sam take it, I always say. I've been in a hospital here in Florida since last week and am looking for probably another week unfortunately. You keep posting content and I will keep watching. Peace and love to you, Beverly.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to hear that you’re in the hospital. Sending you lots of love. I didn’t take the commenter as being a naysayer… I found the comment very thought provoking.

Hi 🤣I remember you talking about this comment (soft life) at your September meetup Congratulations all your hard work,dedication and living below your means has paid off 🙏 We had a similar childhood I’m one of 8 children growing up very poor I became a dad at 22 and worked a full time and part time job for almost 25 years trying to provide now I have 4 daughters and 10 grandkids and I’m still a paycheck baby however this full time nomad life that I’m living now has drastically reduced my monthly expenses I’m retired now and content with living my best life still on very little money I’m done chasing the dollar I’m chasing my rich freedom and what matters most in life family and friends that’s priceless it’s amazing how struggling in traditional life to make ends meet now I’m currently living on half of my past income living a very soft life🤣🙏🥰🍾 Thanks for starting this channel I never would have been blessed to meet you and Misty’s big loving hearts without it I’ll see y’all soon my friends big hugs 🙏🥰🤗❤️👍🎉 PS Success is not a measure of money or materials it’s about how deeply you can touch people’s hearts and them giving you love back therefore I’ve been extremely successful my entire life 🙏❤️

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

It was such a pleasure to meet you. Your big heart and sweetness are so apparent.

@markwolf6092

Жыл бұрын

@@BecomingBev Boomerang 🙏🥰

I am an aspiring vanlifer. I am a broke single mom. I struggle constantly. I have managed to buy a house and it’s paid off. I am buying a second house now. I am working hard to pay it off as fast as I can. I want to be a vanlifer to be able to enjoy the traveling I want to do on the tiny budget I have. Once I have the new property livable I will move there and repair the home Im in, which needs much more than I can do while living in it. Eventually I will be able to rent it out. Once both properties are paid off I should be able to move into my van and rent them both out. I love watching your videos and I appreciate you sharing your story. I hope to get to where you are eventually.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

It sounds like you are headed in the right direction. Thank you for your kind words and I sincerely wish you all the best. Sounds like you deserve it.

Thanks for this inspiring video, Bev. My wife has a similar story of her life in the UK. I come from Holland, where we were more fortunate because of first-class social services after the war. I greatly respect people with the drive to improve their lives. Have a great day.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the note. I sometimes thing when you’ve had it hard, you appreciate the soft even more.

This is one smart video for anybody questioning their own path to "success." Bev is as humble as it gets and describes how to live well in that very manner.

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

There’s so many ways to get to where you’re going. You hanks for the sweet comment.

Hi Bev, I’m sure many of our stories MAY be similar (Parts of your story are similar to mine). As children/young adults we don’t realize the consequences of our choices until we’re older. A “soft life” oftentimes comes after a HARD LIFE. Thank you for sharing.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

It was my pleasure to share. Esther.. we may be kindred spirits.

I live in Houston, my background is similar to yours. I’m 72 now retired and comfortable thanks for your videos ❤️❤️

@BecomingBev

9 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

Another Great Video beautiful Bev........Please ignore the trolls......You have done well in your life with what you have been given, I am sure the people who mean the most to you know that and are proud of you......You are looking good as always........Hope you are well 😊👍 Take Care 🙏

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I didnt take it as a troll comment… I took it as someone who made an assumption that some people have it easy and others have it hard. I agree I have done well with what I have been given. You take care too!

Your story is So Awesome! What an accomplishment! There will always be negative Nancys! You don't ever have to explain yourself! It's your life & no one has walked in your shoes! Thank you so much for sharing your story! What a testimony & I Love what you're doing for yourself! Keep being you & I appreciate you sharing your gems of life with us💙 Blessings to you Always 😇

Bev you deserve the soft life you have because you created it for yourself and your daughter from all the hard work enjoy it.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Joe. Sincerely appreciated

You worked hard for what you have and what you accomplished. I have too and also have a "soft life". ( whatever that means) I've taught my kids to save, pay debts off quickly . Anyone can do it...if they really want it. One son spends as soon as he gets it..the other listened to my wisdom.... he's young and has a nest egg already, never pays interest on credit cards, doesn't need the latest and greatest things. People who claim they can't do it or criticize you for having a "soft life" need to look in the mirror and say I Can Do It if I really want it. ❤👍

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I think a soft life is the opposite of a hard life? Yes… life is the result of a series of our choices.

Thank you for sharing the testimony of your life. You’re so encouraging to me. I was a single Mom of two boys. They are grown and moved to Louisiana to be close to their Dad. I live in Jacksonville Florida. I have always worked more than one job. I still at 62 work two jobs. I am remarried ten years now. He became disabled due to Cancer in his face. Thank God for Mayo Clinic. I just found you today. I feel so blessed by you, I subscribed. Thanks again, Goldie

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Goldie, Thank you for your sweet comment and for sharing some of your story with me. Sorry to hear about your husbands cancer. I can’t imagine. Once in a while I read a comment and have to pause for a moment to take it in. You blessed me today.

This is a lesson of Turning a Bad comment into very usefull information. Those miracle signs happen in my life also. Great job. Thank you 🙏

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t find it to be a bad comment. in fact it sent me on a very reflective journey that I am thankful for and I got to share it. Don’t you just love those miracles? What beautiful little messages that you’re on the right track.

That is so nice to be blessed or some say lucky. I think all those acts of kindness You and your Dad did are returning. Karma, circle of life, sowing and reaping, seed time and harvest, blessed, lucky. You have a nack for finding goodness at every turn in the road🦋🌺🦋🌺🦋🍄

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

That is the sweetest compliment ever. Thank you.

I must say Bev, You dear are a very well rounded person with a great outlook on life. You are business savvy, a woman whom has worked hard to get where she is at, at this point in her life. You mentioned that along the way you had the good fortune of catching a few lucky breaks which in turn helped to form a mentality to "just go for it" things will always work out. I believe these not to be lucky breaks, but more because of the fact that you made them happen because you are driven, and with this mentality you put yourself into the right place at the right time, this is how people get ahead. Anyways, you have every right to enjoy your "soft life" not only because you have put in the effort, and hard work to get there, but more important you're a smart lady whom is bestowed with good values learned from your parents, you paid your dues, and you enjoy life to the fullest. Anyone else whom says different is jealous, and just full of sour grapes!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Ricky, Thank you for your thoughtful observations and for taking the time to watch my videos.

You did have riches growing up. Awesome parents, aunts, uncles and cousins. A close-knit community. Those are priceless. Money is useful, but it's a cheap substitute for family. The van life isn't necessarily an either/or decision. It can be both financially driven, but happily embraced. I just watch a TedTalk that said people are indoors 93 % of their day. Vanlife is sunshine, fresh air, nature and getting out and meeting others. It's lots of exercise, by necessity in a tiny space, LOL. I think your pretty decor choices can strike some as lavish. But it could easily be achieved on a budget. Law of attraction will bring you more lovers than haters, cause you radiate positivity. Feel their pain, but know it's not on you to fix them. You encourage many of us. Keep on being you. Everything you do is good. We learn from our mistakes. It just takes some of us a looong time. 🥰

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right, I did grow up with riches. I love your analysis about Van life. I appreciate your wise words

Thank you for being so open about how you live. I bought a van a couple of years ago and have taken several trips. I still have a house payment but no other debt. I have been considering renting my home a month at a time. Where I live the rent would be 3 times my house payment. The extra could help pay off my house sooner. I can not tell you how much you have encouraged me to follow my dreams even if I am 71. My health is excellent so I best enjoy my life! Thank you again Bev.

@BecomingBev

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for the sweet note. I sometimes ask myself, If not now, when? Sounds like smart move to rent the house out, if you’re comfortable with that. I wish you so many beautiful adventures.

RESPECT!! - and thank you, Bev: this is such an important video. Vanlife is so much more than the # pictures on social media. Who are we, how and why did we grow into the humans/persons we are today, what is important for us, and how do we want to live our precious lives on this earth ❤??! You just added so much meaning and importance to VanLife. 🏆🏆🏆

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Camilla. I love your comment so much. Thank you.

Bev, I loved this and shared it! You're a beautiful person! I wish you many blessings and I hope this is a lesson to the nay sayers about never judging a book by it's cover! ❤ I've been watching for a little bit, I don't think I've commented before? Maybe I forgot? LOL Anyway, very happy for you and maybe see you someday down the road. What a wonderful story. Thank you for being so transparent about what may have been hard to share..

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… thank you for being here and for sharing. I’m guilty of judging others too. This was a lesson for me. See you down the road

You said it all gracefully and with compassion. Like the Classy lady that you are. Love you woman. Stay safe and God bless.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Luz… The world needs more grace and compassion.

You have every right to be proud. Thanks for sharing your story.

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

It’s a pleasure. Thank you for taking the time to watch.

Good for you and all you have over come.....Never Stop Smiling....✌

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Kevin I appreciate you

Way to go for working hard your entire life and now enjoying yourself while you’re still young and healthy.💖

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Gina… I love my current life.

Bev don't let people pull you down. I worked in the Air Force for 29 years to get a retirement pay. So, I guess traveling around the world waging war on people was soft. Live your life Bev.I think that it is Wonderful. Stay Beautiful and safe.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Louis. The comment didn’t pull me down at all… just some food for thought about the assumptions we make without really knowing peoples story. We all do it.

@patd4u2

2 жыл бұрын

That doesn't sound too good on the USA does it, traveling around the world for 29 years waging war on people.

Sounds to me that you have earned your soft life. More of us could take tips from you. I'm on disability taking care of my elderly mother and my husband has started having health issues where he has been off of work. We have racked up credit card debt. Once you are in that situation it's very hard to get out. I pray that one day my husband and I will be able to get out of debt sell everything and buy something small that we can travel in. I've had a wondering bug all my life.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I understand and wish you the best in making those small changes wherever possible to get out of debt. I want you to get to feed that wanderlust of yours. Prayers to you and your family.

It has to be said Bev you are one very attractive woman, live your best life and be the best version of yourself. Don't apologise for the comforts you now have in life. Stay blessed 🙌

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Keith… and youre right no apology necessary.

Wow! What an interesting life!. This is the first video I've watched of yours so I am not familiar with your van but it looks so cozy and beautiful in the background. Thanks for sharing your story and not rambling and going off track. I never lost interest. You deserve all of your success and "soft" life. You paid your dues. A lot of people don't understand that you either pay now or later. So many people don't want to work hard when they are young and want to just go off and live in a van but if they haven't worked for years, they will pay for it when they are 70 years old. I just retired and I get some smart remarks about having money but I worked all my life for it. I too only know how to work hard but oh well. Better safe than sorry. Since you have worked so hard, I know you want your daughter to have more but please teach her the same values and don't just hand things to her or she will struggle later in life. Enjoy your van life!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Hi JD and welcome. Thank you for your kind words. My daughter is the hardest working woman I know right now. I could not ask for a more responsible, conscientious business partner. Enjoy your retirement. It’s beautiful when you get to the point in life where you can ask yourself the question… What do I want to do?

listening to someone like you is kind of mesmerizing............your life has not been a"soft" life ,as in this comment(which by the way I find "rude"...to the least)but you still have the kindness as to kindly teach that person a little lesson about humility.keep on Bev,you've got yourself a new follower.Enjoy your "soft" life,you've worked hard enough for it!!!!!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t find the comment rude… I found it quite thought provoking… Yes I currently have a soft life… I loved exploring the journey of how I got here. Thank you for being a new follower. I sincerely appreciate it.

I really appreciated this video. I could hear you more clearer. You use to sound real low. As the saying goes "work smarter, not harder" have always been my motto. Always keep a nest egg. Like you I have a soft life. Does that mean tons of money? No. Do I need to beg or scrape? No. So yes, I must have a soft life too. This video has put a different light on you. We have come to understand the game of life, so to speak. We are around the same age. In life if you ever stop learning, something is wrong. Enjoyed your chat. Keep your videos coming. Loved this one.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I have had some sound issues in the past. Hoping that’s all worked out now. Thanks for your patience and for coming back and thank you for your insights and kind words.

Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for reminding me to expect miracles. You always make me smile.

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Awe… what a sweet comment. Miracles are everywhere.

Your constant hunger for self improvement all these years have allowed you to live this "soft life" . You are enjoying the fruits of your labour & I am so happy for you 💛

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you… I am enjoying life. Thanks too for being happy for me. I love the idea of celebrating people.

As many of your videos...this one is a blessing... sometimes people are jealous of others...they don't see the years of sacrifice people take to attain their dreams...you were very sweet and gracious...to that person's answer ...as so you needed to explain yourself and you really don't it's really actually nobody's business... We all get the opportunity to make choices in our lives and the person that type that message to you probably hasn't made or understand how to make or research how you did or even work hard enough to understand that their choices could make a soft life as well..... I was homeless once I understand how rough life can be and I also was married to a dentist .....I also had a good life can be... I was married for 15 years and gave him three kids and we worked very hard to have a good life.... I have no regrets I have three amazing kids and I currently am working towards a better life so that I can travel just like you 😃

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Nancy…Thank you for the kind words in your comment. I wish you all the best in each and every decision that you make and I hope to see you out there adventuring when the time is right.

I am not yet on the road. I am retired. Live on a fixed income from working all my life paying my SS and into a second retirement program. My last year or so of working I bought a small teardrop trailer. Dragged that thing from Fla to Texas/Mexico border, up to Arkansas, to Upstate NY and down the Blue Ridge/Shanendoha back to Fl. I was hooked! Been building a bus conversion off and on for a long time but hope to get on the road and sell my condo in the next 6 month. Maybe our paths will cross some day. 8)

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Your bus project sounds awesome. A true tiny house on wheels. I think I am hooked tool lol

Thanks for sharing your story. It’s inspiring ✨

Great story. You have certainly earned my respect. Hard work is foundation for success.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… thank you Roxanne

There is nothing wrong having a soft life. Live life in the moment and move with destinity.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Amen… I’m proud of my soft life.

You lady are a. Survivor Enjoyed your video, Free-spirited fun person, that's how I describe you, don't ever change but keep growing and learning, we have a lot in common

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Here’s to free spirited fun love it people.

Great Video Thank You!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe. You’re very welcome. Thank you for watching.

"I Totally Dig what your doing and how you are doing it"... And the Softer your Life, Completely says you worked hard for what you have, "so you can live a softer life"... "You are an Inspiration Bev". Don't ever stop Smiling, 😁👍🏻 "Your Super Great At It".... Much 💛💜 Always Respect 🙏🏻

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… Thank you. I think that know how hard life can be makes me appreciate the soft life even more.

@1_dirty_rotten_imbecile695

2 жыл бұрын

@@BecomingBev Amen 🙏🏻

Kudos to you pretty Bev👏👏👏👍🏻❤️ You are a generous soul to take this uninformed comment on your life and turn it around to be this wonderful, sharing, vulnerable, informative video❣️ You should be very proud of all of your accomplishments!!! (I know you are🥰) you are a great motivator/teacher. You have inspired this 76yr old. Soft life? You have earned every bit of it. You do the work and are blessed 10 fold. Thank you for this ‘gifted ‘ video😘. 🙏 …..found you through Lady Bugout 😘

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being here and thank you to Dee for mentioning my channel. Thanks to for the acknowledgment and your sweet comments

Bev, you sound like a very smart lady. Some folks never learn how to manage their finances, you have. En joy every moment and be safe. Oh money is definitely not everything but sure is nice that you have enough to meet your needs.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

It sure is. You’re right money isn’t everything. I’ve had it and I’ve been broke. It’s definitely less stressful to have it and it gives me more options in life.

I hope by you telling your truths that some might not be so quick to judge. You keep posting, I’ll keep watching.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I think we all do it. ❤️

Hi Bev, I am about to retire, and will be travelling around Australia, doing sections at a time. I am keeping my property in the country as my home base, because, for me, I think this is important, in case of illness, etc. I also want to be able to rest and plan my next trip, then go and enjoy it. I need to plan ahead, because I do travel with my dogs. I am choosing to travel in my van for lifestyle, rather than necessity. I have worked hard all my adult life, and have saved hard, now I get to enjoy. To that person having a go at you, I say this …… if we do not knock you, don’t knock us!!! We all live at different levels, and we live accordingly …… no-one is better than anyone else ……. Stay positive, and good luck to everyone!!😌

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I think getting to travel and having a one base is the best of both worlds. Thanks for your wise words

You should be proud. You earned it, and keep enjoying your travels and soft life. People get so weird when someone works hard and gets ahead.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

I love the idea of celebrating each other’s successes. Thank you, I am proud and full of gratitude for my soft life.

Thank you. So inspiring ✨️

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… You’re very welcome. Inspiration is a beautiful thing.

Great Video Bev…

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… thank you.

Great story! Thanks for sharing!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

It’s my pleasure to share. Glad you enjoyed it

Great video. Love your story.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Laura

Great video. Keep up the great work.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ronco.

Another great video Ms Bev 👍🏼♥️

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

You always say the nicest things.

Thank you for sharing...lots to ponder :)

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

It’s my pleasure to share. Thanks for taking the time to watch … and ponder.

You are amazing.....great video!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Janet. I appreciate that you took the time to watch.

I absolutely loved this video! Thanks for sharing!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. ❤️ It’s my pleasure to share. I’m glad you enjoyed it.

@justleslieslots

2 жыл бұрын

@@BecomingBev ❤️

Thanks for sharing your story, Bev ❤️

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

It’s my pleasure to share. Thank you for taking the time to watch

As a 57 year old person, who had a child at 17, and was devastated also at getting food stamps and assistance (only 6 months and vowed to never do that again) and went to school and has worked very hard to get were I am today, your story resonated with me. My parents were not wealthy either and we were taught to work hard. Good for you! I love your channel and would love to van life myself, maybe one day. Keep up the great work (and attitude, don't let the "trolls" get you down)

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Kathy… I can totally see how my story resonated with you. Thanks for sharing. Wishing you all the best. I didn’t look at the comment as being a troll at all. I found it to be quite thought provoking.

Bev, what an incredibly inspiring message. Full of so many pearls of wisdom. Thank you for being open, raw, and real. Most of all thank you for being you.

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Hi Kelly, thank you❤️ Loved getting to spend time with you and your crew.

Very very well done my lady!!!!🙏🏽♥️

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… Thank you Roxanna

Love your honesty , i,ll keep watching :)

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you John. I appreciate you.

Thank you for sharing this. I enjoyed watching. 😉

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Darren… Your are very welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it.

Bev, You are brilliant.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

So are you!❤️

Truly radiant you are 🌻 🤠

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Thank you what a nice thing to say.

Terrific and inspiring story ! Thanks so much for sharing !

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe. Thank you Bruce. It’s my pleasure to share

Bev you are simply amazing :) thank u for the advice :)

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Jared. You’re so welcome.

You Rock. I really enjoy your videos.

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Cindi, I’m so glad

Excellent talk. A life story well told. Thanks.

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

Im proud of you always 💜🙏💙

@BecomingBev

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Aaron. I feel the same about you.

And I’m proud of you!! 🏆🙏

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… Thank you Beverly

Thank you for being you😍💪💜✌

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… You’re very welcome.

Hi Bev nice to see your video ! Be safe .!

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Terry. You too.

Of all the episodes you’ve done-This is my favorite!! I’ve known you for over 20 years but somehow never knew many of the parts of your story that truly describe how you “Became Bev!” I feel so blessed to know you and to have known you for all these years. You’ve helped change my life for the better so many times through your wize counsel, humor, honesty and by example of how to live abundantly. (No matter the circumstances that show up in life) . I don’t have the words to really say how much I appreciate our friendship (especially since I’m so much older than you)! You are just an incredible human being. Thank you for being my friend and for all the joy you’ve brought into my life! ❤️🤗🙏🌈

@BecomingBev

2 жыл бұрын

Awe… Thank you Barbie. I just love you… I have since we first met. Thank you for being my friend.

@jaygold4467

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. This is the best video she's ever done. Very inspiring. I'm just shocked that I was the one who instigated it. You're lucky to have her as a close friend. She's got soul.