How Should a Couple Considering Marriage Deal With Sexual Sins From Previous Relationships?

Ask Pastor John
Teacher: John Piper
Transcript: www.desiringgod.org/interview...

Пікірлер: 19

  • @khaya77mpe77
    @khaya77mpe779 ай бұрын

    I love how Pastor John is so open 😅

  • @angelajackson3258
    @angelajackson32589 ай бұрын

    Great message

  • @Chewii1611
    @Chewii16119 ай бұрын

    Amen Good Video

  • @TheCreepypro
    @TheCreepypro4 ай бұрын

    help us Lord to be honest and open!

  • @LarryHendricks77
    @LarryHendricks77Ай бұрын

    Best advice I've heard about this! I just disagree a little with telling each other everything. I have such a hard time especially because I know two people from her past. You get Images in your head you don't want and it can hurt your sexual relationship together.

  • @ead630
    @ead6309 ай бұрын

    Good points and advice. But if my wife received a letter saying someone she knew died, I wouldn't care if I knew about the person or not

  • @dovonovich

    @dovonovich

    9 ай бұрын

    Well, this wasn’t just *someone* -he was a prior romantic partner. Bit of a difference, whether it would still not matter to you or not. I’d imagine many people would probably have a similar thought to Pastor John.

  • @HearGodsWord

    @HearGodsWord

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@dovonovichI agree

  • @PaulLee-rs8uw
    @PaulLee-rs8uw9 ай бұрын

    Amen that No sex before marriage in Christ. Wait for my wife for 5 years before married her in Godly way. Had a vow to God since I was little in Christ to save myself for my wife in Christ. 😊❤ 1 John 4:18❤😊-19😊❤

  • @PaulLee-rs8uw

    @PaulLee-rs8uw

    9 ай бұрын

    John 4:18❤😊-19😊❤Revelation 8:6-9:21(The Trumpets) Revelation 8:6-9 "6 Then the seven angels who had the seven trumpets prepared to sound them. 7 The first angel sounded his trumpet, and there came haill and fire mixed with blood, and it was hurled down upon the earth. A third of the earth was burned up, a third of the trees were burned up, and all the green grass was burned up. 8 The second angel sounded his trumpet, and something like a huge mountain, all ablaze, was thrown into the sea. A third of the living creatures into the sea died, and a third of the ship were destroyed."( Revelation 8:6-9 Zondervan NIV Study Bible)

  • @PaulLee-rs8uw

    @PaulLee-rs8uw

    9 ай бұрын

    Truth( Jesus( John 14:6)) love can wait. Wait for 5 years (no sex) but keep myself holy before God and also then marriage more than a decade and more in Christ. Not 2 decade yet but also there in Christ. 😊❤. Have you ever made a vow not just for your godly spouce in Christ but also a vow to God i remember. That i wrote my name on the paper in Sunday school class to set myself before God for the right girl that is my wife in Christ. Who knows what the future hold but i trust God hold my future by faith in Jesus😊1st❤ in Christ still. Imagine as one of the followers of Christ or Christians or follower of Christ. You keep yourself pure and holy for let say 28 years by His grace to keep us to be holy more like Jesus😊1st❤. Blessings come in many forms. God knows us. All relationships we meet is not by chance, God will prepare one way to the other. Marriage is not for everyone like Paul but sex should be confined in the context between a man and a woman in marriage in Christ. Truth love waits. I wait for 28 years before I met my wife and relationship has tested itself by time and it contain different flavors and life journey stage. Anyways, God enabled Paul to be single and still follow God's will and serve Jesus😊1st❤ in Christ. If you are marriage, please stay marry in Christ. If you are not marrige, pray to God first and listen to Him to wait for your Mr. Right. Other days it's funny, drove a sister and another co- worker to where they hope to drop them. I also agree same faith in Christ is also very important in the content or context of Marriage between male and female in Christ to me too in Christ.

  • @PaulLee-rs8uw

    @PaulLee-rs8uw

    9 ай бұрын

    May God help our generation today and next generation in Christ to continue to live holy😊❤ and pleasing😊❤ to God(😊100%❤) or Jesus'😊1st❤ sight. In Jesus'name, i pray( i remember my sunday school teacher taught us and wrote a vow and asked us to signed it and i have kept my vow to God to wait for God's timing in Christ. Wait for God. wait for your Mr. Right for all sisters out there in Christ. wait for your Ms. Right for brothers out there. I believe in Truth loves wait. If a person love you, that persoj will wait for you beyoned GWAT&T in Christ. In Jesus'name, i pray( May God be with us all in Christ to do what is right in God's eyes in Christ). Amen.

  • @PaulLee-rs8uw

    @PaulLee-rs8uw

    9 ай бұрын

    1. Pray to God together in Christ. 2. Pray for each other in Christ. 3. Pray and listen to God's will and trust God for the rest.

  • @PaulLee-rs8uw

    @PaulLee-rs8uw

    9 ай бұрын

    Put God and Jesus😊1st❤ first at the top of your relationship and common goal to serve others as serving Jesus😊1st❤ in Christ. Are you up to serve Jesus together for the rest of our lives? Ask that godly person before dating in Christ. Life time commitment to serve Jesus😊1st❤ and God in Christ together. Yes, continue. No, end the relationship. Amen put God first in Christ or put Jesus 😊1st❤first in Christ.

  • @thirentpx
    @thirentpx21 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry Pastor. I do respect what you say whole heartedly, but a woman who crys over the death of an old boyfriend, statistically indicates she was sexual with him. She just decided to take that info with her to the grave. I have found women fabricate and believe the fabricated story so long as it pleases the husband.

  • @user-xq2bm3nq8y
    @user-xq2bm3nq8y9 ай бұрын

    Piper, why can’t you apologize? You said horrible things about prolifers three years ago and despite being called to repent you ignore our pleas. You called us naive. Presumptuous. Liars. Everyday the wound you inflicted festers more and more.

  • @ead630

    @ead630

    9 ай бұрын

    That's a horribly inaccurate characterization of what happened. John Piper is one of the most fervent pro-lifers around.

  • @HearGodsWord

    @HearGodsWord

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@ead630 Hank has been posting his fallacies for nearly 3 years. All because he blames John Piper for Trump losing the election