How Sex & Intimacy Changes in Long Term Relationships

Ойын-сауық

Hey ya'll!
Dropped something for you this public holiday. This is one of those conversations that evolve over time. It would be interesting to know your thoughts based on your personal experiences on this topic so please leave a comment sharing the same. Like, share and subscribe to our channel.
Thank you for watching!
Always,
Ivy, Shikie, Lorna & Jules.

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  • @alliah3548
    @alliah3548 Жыл бұрын

    I love how each one of you represent every woman. From a woman who has been married for a long time with kids, a single mom, a single lady with no kids and a newly married woman who is expecting. There so much to learn from each one of you, not only ont this video but on the others too. Keep them coming!

  • @twentytwo3840
    @twentytwo3840 Жыл бұрын

    Ivy is very knowledgeable,Lonzie is super rational/logical,Shikie is so intelligent and jul's is fiercely fearless. Much appreciate you over25. Keep on with the good work.

  • @sharon.towett4781

    @sharon.towett4781

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh, lovely ladies,all of them, Jules is bae though😅😍😍😘

  • @mikendere
    @mikendere Жыл бұрын

    Male take on "Act of service", believe me, I am overwhelmed sometimes that I had to check with a close friend if I have problems, I think it happens when the woman is young hot blood and may be due to some stress you feel it's just an act of service. Men are not always ready! And men love Over 25😊love you guys > 5 years

  • @misswanjiru1987
    @misswanjiru1987 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like my next relationship will be top notch because of over 25 and TMI ......the knowledge these ladies spitt.......wisdom tupu❤❤

  • @clarissecladia6234
    @clarissecladia6234 Жыл бұрын

    1:59 "Lorna's Correct.😍 3:56 "Lorna's Over 25 Member.😍 6:02 "Julz- I Am For The Streets And The Streets Are For Me. That Is On PERIODT!😅 6:10 "Julz- I Can Be Snatched. Somebody Can Snatch Me.-By Mistake (putting this on a tee😂) 7:23 "Ivy...Next Question, See Yah.😂(she couldn't be bothered) Take Aways From Yall's... 💯 1. Communicate your sex styles. For the love of God let us stop assuming. 2. Go on an orgasm hunt. 3. If I am not in the mood, si I just have to communicate. 4. Inject some spice. 5. It is okay to schedule sex. 6. It is okay not to have sex for weeks, months and years after bringing life into this world. 7. Consent in long term relationships is vital!(thumbs up for the topic on consent) 8. Pull our your Kiswahili for beginners books. Well Done Ladies.💛💛

  • @dorinkatuu

    @dorinkatuu

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice💯

  • @suzziekagucia5243
    @suzziekagucia5243 Жыл бұрын

    I love Jules for real...' I can be snatched, somebody can snatch me by mistake' 😂😂😂😂

  • @makreesfamily.5769
    @makreesfamily.5769 Жыл бұрын

    Jules looks soo pretty the way they zoomed her in ,her laugh and dental structure.yes we ended it on a high note.

  • @bakaribakari_
    @bakaribakari_ Жыл бұрын

    You people should consider transforming this into a Podcast. #OverTwentyFivePodcast Think about it.

  • @SamanthaNyakoe
    @SamanthaNyakoe Жыл бұрын

    You know what I like about the over25, the fact that you admitted this was hard to do and that yall still did it ! The way you give time and listen to each other's perspective on things. May God bless your friendship honestly.🙏 I just turned 25 and I'm so happy to have watched this channel for over 3 years now :) My internet big sisters fr.❤❤

  • @marthawellington8554

    @marthawellington8554

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @nancyuhuru5627
    @nancyuhuru5627 Жыл бұрын

    Two things have gotten me so excited in this episode. First, I was thinking about this literally yesterday and you talked about so I reaaaalllly am your TA! I'm getting to hear from people whose opinion I trust. My heart. Y'all are fantastic ❤️ The second thing is THE KIJANI RING that Jules has on from Jada Marshleys...I have one too and I am so hyyyyypppppeee.. Omg 🤗

  • @sukumawiki
    @sukumawiki Жыл бұрын

    36:29 - Ivy, you said the answer to this question 30 seconds before you asked it - 36:00 . "If they can't get it up, they can't get it up." That's basically it. You had the answer all along. A man MUST be "in the mood", and there are no ifs and buts about it. Even if you can somehow 'jumpstart' an erection like you suggested, it doesn't mean that the erection will last. There are men who want to have sex of their own accord, let alone to perform an "act of service" for their partners, but still can't because of erectile dysfunction. I think we sometimes forget or overlook our physical differences to our own detriment. It is imperative to always consider the biological underpinnings of who we are when answering these questions. We might not like them but we cannot ignore them. A man who has subscribed.

  • @cysheewaish

    @cysheewaish

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree to this as a woman who has been in a long-term relationship. At times he really wants to because I'm in need but he always tells me to give him some time.

  • @elvismugo
    @elvismugo Жыл бұрын

    JULES KNOWING KELLY CLARKSON IS ONE OF THE BEST VOCALISTS OF OUR TIME❣

  • @LizzyElly
    @LizzyElly Жыл бұрын

    17yrs in a relationship and everything you’ve said is so true 😅

  • @nicolewangari
    @nicolewangari Жыл бұрын

    Can't wait for the concent conversation, there's so much we need to know about it that's not addressed ❤️✨️

  • @robayohannes5331
    @robayohannes5331 Жыл бұрын

    Great to hear that ladies can openly talk about this topic. I left Africa when I was young and sex was a taboo that no one talked about. Keep on keeping on ladies.

  • @harrietbanda9009
    @harrietbanda9009 Жыл бұрын

    All looking Beautiful ❤️☺️Good to have you back. shikie and ivy I see those matching leg tattoos ☺️

  • @mercywanyonyi7307
    @mercywanyonyi7307 Жыл бұрын

    Informative topic, guys please talk about the changes that a woman experiences before pregnancy, after they conceive and after childbirth birth not just immediately but also during parenthood and in different stages of a baby as they grow and even start going to school. I think it will be great topic because your group also represents these stages.

  • @almasieva7092
    @almasieva7092 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate you girls and the conversation that you had. To me, you are the elder sisters I ever had. I keep learning and getting informed on new perceptives. ❤️❤️❤️Thanks for having this conversation

  • @lizlilly3246
    @lizlilly3246 Жыл бұрын

    I am for the streets and the streets are for me 😂😂don't I just love jules aha😂😂😭

  • @owenkariuki4438
    @owenkariuki4438 Жыл бұрын

    Another Monday morning with Over25 conversations 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @jacquemoriah
    @jacquemoriah Жыл бұрын

    Jules you are just the one for me. I honestly just loveeee you. So real, so fierce.

  • @savannahondego566
    @savannahondego566 Жыл бұрын

    Hey! This was a really good conversation, thank you! Please bring Kaz to the show to talk about consent.

  • @wanjah.374
    @wanjah.374 Жыл бұрын

    The pioneers of Bold Conversations in Kenya❣️ receive your Flowers 💐💐💐💐🏆🏆🏆🏆🥇❤️

  • @nancykitunga89
    @nancykitunga89 Жыл бұрын

    Am with Lorna sex can be challenging when you are trying for a baby..I think I reached a point where I hated sex..Great episode as usual ladies...💖💖

  • @geekette254
    @geekette254 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with Jules on not being with someone who has walls up . Hugs are gold especially the long ones . Communication is also so important to sustaining sex long term. If there is breakdown especially in understanding your partner it looses touch.

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Жыл бұрын

    What is Monday without warembos💕 making my day brighter🌞😍. Leo mumeamua topic moto moto coz issa holiday😅. From the comfort of my bed😍.

  • @winnienm
    @winnienm Жыл бұрын

    From my first first days in a relationship i want the scheduling 😊 it spices things

  • @dorcask7244
    @dorcask7244 Жыл бұрын

    👍I think you guys should delve further into the topic of consent sometime in the future. I have also noted that Ivy has been a little more withdrawn and talks less in the last few episodes but when she talks she asks very important questions and gives really good insights.

  • @shadiahfaisal6315

    @shadiahfaisal6315

    Жыл бұрын

    Same thoughts 💭

  • @irenegalgalo

    @irenegalgalo

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree and she also speaks even lower now and it's a struggle to hear what she's saying.

  • @carolinekatana9897

    @carolinekatana9897

    Жыл бұрын

    I know her mic 🎤 is set right, but she doesn't want to speak lately. Body language in this clip is withdrawn. She is leaning further from the gals.. my observation ✌️

  • @missmaloba

    @missmaloba

    Жыл бұрын

    J

  • @suwambs8541

    @suwambs8541

    Жыл бұрын

    you just solved your own puzzle.

  • @njerikinyua1835
    @njerikinyua1835 Жыл бұрын

    Just liking and it changing from 999 to 1k..felt good

  • @waitheramuthoni7318

    @waitheramuthoni7318

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha ...little joys😅

  • @ndirituchristinewangeci2885
    @ndirituchristinewangeci2885 Жыл бұрын

    Always waiting for these videos 😊

  • @justteresiah
    @justteresiah Жыл бұрын

    I really loved and enjoyed this conversation particularly about physical touch. I learnt something 😊

  • @myopinion4794
    @myopinion4794 Жыл бұрын

    Waited for this long to listen to Jules....daamn!!Your ideas ....

  • @brianochieng5904
    @brianochieng5904 Жыл бұрын

    I sat the whole 57:51 minutes of this video and it has made me remember one Esther Perel who said that the female sexuality is massively narcissistic. What turns women on is for them to BE the turn on. This was stamped when Shiki said she felt sexy and yearning sex 3 years after giving birth. I am not saying it from a negative standpoint, I am now piecing the information I have been acquiring and it now makes sense. Because, having sex while you are not in the mood is like a chore; this is if both of you have always been intimate. Intimacy in this case goes beyond the act. Partners are always in sync with one another. If someone is really committed in a relationship and the situation is not a one night stand, both parties know if their partners are with them during the act. Thank you for this episode.

  • @zaramawi1256
    @zaramawi1256 Жыл бұрын

    I was literally shouting at my screen trying to correct Jules that it's "mwashi"😂😂. That part was hilarious and so on point.

  • @cynthianaya
    @cynthianaya Жыл бұрын

    I love shikie's hair😍

  • @marywaigwa4448
    @marywaigwa4448 Жыл бұрын

    We need part 2 of this episodes. Gals loved ❤❤❤

  • @Namarome.
    @Namarome. Жыл бұрын

    Jules: I could be snatched by mistake. Me: Exaaactly !😂😂😂😂

  • @kevinlemayian
    @kevinlemayian Жыл бұрын

    tbh Ivy's personality screams 'dominatrix'

  • @virginiawanjiku8999
    @virginiawanjiku8999 Жыл бұрын

    Lornzie had me at teesho ya sen'gen'ge😂😂😂😂

  • @donnajoe4442
    @donnajoe4442 Жыл бұрын

    Ivy you're right about people's expectations. The entitlement that people have on others can be annoying. Anyway, you ladies are looking pretty. I wish we could see your outfits properly.

  • @terrybouko8961
    @terrybouko8961 Жыл бұрын

    Yeeeeees !!!!! Another episode

  • @empress2545
    @empress2545 Жыл бұрын

    Ivy's outfit today is on 🔥🔥🔥

  • @doreennekesaofficial
    @doreennekesaofficial Жыл бұрын

    Why didn't I discover this channel long ago. Amazing ladies. Over 25 is the real deal. Raw facts🤫🤫

  • @LynnPinski
    @LynnPinski Жыл бұрын

    Sasa am here getting ready and how I support the girls is let the adverts run cos I know my location increases the cash 💸

  • @ndirituchristinewangeci2885
    @ndirituchristinewangeci2885 Жыл бұрын

    Okey Jules had me at Moshi... Like whaaaat😂😂.. Anyway this was very informative....

  • @kinyaesther60
    @kinyaesther60 Жыл бұрын

    Notification gang kama Kawa💃💃💃💃💃

  • @FranEJ
    @FranEJ Жыл бұрын

    Yes, part 2 required on consent in relationships. Some relationships have consent contracts and safe words. Consent in relationships needs to be normalized and not taken for granted that there is consent in all things and at all times just because you are in a sexual relationship.

  • @nemohwaweru9416
    @nemohwaweru9416 Жыл бұрын

    The level at which I relate with Jules💯❤ Love you all...

  • @Ladyfaithke
    @Ladyfaithke Жыл бұрын

    I come for information but I live for the money that’s always dashed before the talk 😂

  • @paulinewathirawanjiku8692
    @paulinewathirawanjiku8692 Жыл бұрын

    i love this. i missed you guys

  • @GabbyMadoka
    @GabbyMadoka Жыл бұрын

    A video on consent would be amazing! It would be fantastic if you did it with Kaz Lucas! I think the conversation would be very informative

  • @winfredchege8611
    @winfredchege8611 Жыл бұрын

    You speak wisdom you guys am always having those aha moments 😍

  • @faithmoraa4443
    @faithmoraa4443 Жыл бұрын

    Hey loves...I'm really enjoying this content although I want to address the point on communication coming with age...I'm 22 and I'm at a point where if it doesn't feel comfortable I'm telling the man to get off😂😂,I communicate what I want,how I want it and all that...I feel like the communication comes with being empowered sexually and tapping into your sexuality...this is just me😂,thank you for this,lots of love ❤️

  • @lizlilly3246

    @lizlilly3246

    Жыл бұрын

    I am just happy for you tbh

  • @tashaalice6868

    @tashaalice6868

    Жыл бұрын

    I completely agree...the sexual education we also get from social platforms like tiktok and twitter have really helped to explore and understand our sexual needs ESPECIALLY as a girl

  • @carolkasyoka9862
    @carolkasyoka9862 Жыл бұрын

    Since I stumbled upon you ladies in 2020 each episode has been uplifting and eductional. Keep up the great work ladies.

  • @stephanieachoki2645
    @stephanieachoki2645 Жыл бұрын

    Lovely as always ladies

  • @clvyaswirryachieng5616
    @clvyaswirryachieng5616 Жыл бұрын

    Jewels are back with consistency 🤝 good job ☺️

  • @tracykimani3021
    @tracykimani3021 Жыл бұрын

    I admire Jules liberation😍 I want to get there😍

  • @dianamusyoki6076
    @dianamusyoki6076 Жыл бұрын

    I love your content nowadays,good job guys 👏👏👏

  • @moshiriandrew5929
    @moshiriandrew5929 Жыл бұрын

    I like this gal Jules sana ❤

  • @claranorris1611
    @claranorris1611 Жыл бұрын

    Yes it would be great to talk about it

  • @annyn8937
    @annyn8937 Жыл бұрын

    I love shikie's hair

  • @stellajillan
    @stellajillan Жыл бұрын

    Everyone of you teach me different things in relationships💕💕💕☺️Always thankful for youuu🥰Hugs,💖🥂

  • @sharonanyango3070
    @sharonanyango3070 Жыл бұрын

    Jules should always link or share the name of the podcasts.

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 Жыл бұрын

    Great conversation of revealing realities.

  • @makreesfamily.5769
    @makreesfamily.5769 Жыл бұрын

    Now I look forward to Monday next week.great week ahead that episode was soo educational.

  • @nyaugenyaful
    @nyaugenyaful Жыл бұрын

    On sex after child birth..... 6 weeks is just a guideline. There are women are stay longer and those who 2 weeks after CS are ready to keep it moving. lesson....... listen to your body

  • @esthermutahi2811
    @esthermutahi2811 Жыл бұрын

    Noticed that Just Ivy avoids personal conversations and responses to group conversations. I like that. Good show I enjoyed

  • @user-br1mq1ue9b

    @user-br1mq1ue9b

    Жыл бұрын

    @@judywanjiru975 Gai you have chosen Vayolence 😂😂

  • @KJ-zt9yy

    @KJ-zt9yy

    Жыл бұрын

    @UCcW_kYdUzk15GnoinHfIbBg This was a very shameless comment from a fellow woman. Do better !

  • @esthermutahi2811

    @esthermutahi2811

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KJ-zt9yy She has removed the comment.

  • @annakamau2183

    @annakamau2183

    Жыл бұрын

    I was saying that to myself too 🙂🙂 she's a very smart lady, however she was too bored on this episode.

  • @barbraojwang8931

    @barbraojwang8931

    Жыл бұрын

    She is all about the money💰

  • @lizm7977
    @lizm7977 Жыл бұрын

    This is really informative and i love how open yall are and comfortable

  • @fondadrusie1100
    @fondadrusie1100 Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣 am I a miner!!! Jules you are my spirit animal

  • @clintonkala7432
    @clintonkala7432 Жыл бұрын

    Definitely enjoyed watching this podcast

  • @annlitah
    @annlitah Жыл бұрын

    Always here 🥰🥰nawapenda

  • @nyawirakirori2116
    @nyawirakirori2116 Жыл бұрын

    Jules...... You are alot like me. Ivy......weeelll....let's just say you give a whole new meaning to the term 'girl crush'

  • @wincatenzau5769
    @wincatenzau5769 Жыл бұрын

    Am yet to find a channel that I really really relate to like this one, for your info am older than you guys but I feel that you speak to me every time! Keep doing what you do best ps. do not go on those loooong pauses without posting here!

  • @FranEJ
    @FranEJ Жыл бұрын

    You ladies are bussing (I only know this word because of my young nieces). Great convo!

  • @periswerimo8

    @periswerimo8

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @janevelmaolela6655
    @janevelmaolela6655 Жыл бұрын

    What a great conversation. It would be great to have opinions from male perspective on sex and intimacy and also consent in a relationship (INVITE shiv, bright , george ndiragu, mantalk and many other . Thank you ( OVER 25) for your content .❤💯💯💯

  • @Nickienysa
    @Nickienysa Жыл бұрын

    When Jules insisted on moshi 😂😂😂 I'd love a consent episode🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @WinnieBiwott

    @WinnieBiwott

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @ItsHawawa.
    @ItsHawawa. Жыл бұрын

    7.26 ivy is so cuuuuute

  • @sanjayworld6622
    @sanjayworld6622 Жыл бұрын

    Wow... Guys you looking gooooood😘💋👌😘😘😘

  • @khaled2736
    @khaled2736 Жыл бұрын

    When Jules sings along to SZA's Garden (21:38) and the rest can't relate, am like DAMN!!!!!!😉🥰

  • @kelvinanjiiri
    @kelvinanjiiri Жыл бұрын

    Notification gang 💓💓

  • @lucymwangi8982
    @lucymwangi8982 Жыл бұрын

    Please do a part 2 with the men 👏👏👏..... I love this

  • @chizimwango6407
    @chizimwango6407 Жыл бұрын

    Jules🙌🙌...nnakupenda bure🥰🥰

  • @abigaelmwangi1307
    @abigaelmwangi1307 Жыл бұрын

    Loved the episode😊 as usual. There is a bit of echo or something going on with the sound. Apart from that. Lovely episode😊

  • @elizabethnyabuta6130
    @elizabethnyabuta6130 Жыл бұрын

    I really feel like this is an important conversation

  • @kevikutwa
    @kevikutwa Жыл бұрын

    First time and I like the vibes already… Ivy hello

  • @dedpixlroy1521
    @dedpixlroy1521 Жыл бұрын

    NOTI Gang!

  • @michellewaweru5449
    @michellewaweru5449 Жыл бұрын

    Love love loved the episode♥️. You guys talked about what is always avoided. Wish Ivy talked a bit more cause I believe she's been in a long termish relationship and has given birth.

  • @lornamaina7945
    @lornamaina7945 Жыл бұрын

    But I think money definitely makes the difference it facilities plastic surgery, tummy tucks etc so you can actually get the body you wanted even better than when you looked before kids

  • @mollenkageha5747
    @mollenkageha5747 Жыл бұрын

    Ivy has been looking withdrawn in the recent episodes & her voice quite low when she speaks. I hope you ladies can get back into the energy & psyche y'all had last year and before. It was so captivating. I'm a real OG fan of the fearlessly bold over 25.

  • @mimohomb3547

    @mimohomb3547

    Жыл бұрын

    Her voice was low,but we hope that she will be back on.

  • @wanjiku.ngotho

    @wanjiku.ngotho

    Жыл бұрын

    Rest pls!!!!! 🙄

  • @hylandahdavid6987

    @hylandahdavid6987

    Жыл бұрын

    I had to go to her IG & see if there's something wrong. It seemed awkward to me that Lornzie is more considered to be in a long term relationship than Ivy who has twins who are older than the 4yr relationship Lornzie has had. It felt to me that maybe there's trouble at home,, in which case I still applaud her for being strong & showing up for over 25.

  • @sheyskitchen9960

    @sheyskitchen9960

    Жыл бұрын

    Kids and a relationship with a significant other are very different things.

  • @hylandahdavid6987

    @hylandahdavid6987

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sheyskitchen9960 True. I didn't mention her relationship because it was a moot point. Everyone knows she had her children with Lee & they seemingly had a great partnership 🤷

  • @wambuikihanya7169
    @wambuikihanya7169 Жыл бұрын

    Hi, I'm a huge fan of Over 25. Your conversations, deliberations are out of this world. So quick one, there's phasing in your audio where the Left and Right are not perfectly aligned. That is what cause that 'echo' or 'reverby' effect to the audio. If you need help with it, please reach out to me.

  • @estherkarugah9687
    @estherkarugah9687 Жыл бұрын

    Very interesting convo❤❤

  • @monicaoliveira7608
    @monicaoliveira7608 Жыл бұрын

    Consent around sex would be a great convo 🎊❤️ and also for differents ages.

  • @Jojo-pv3uf
    @Jojo-pv3uf Жыл бұрын

    I’m excited about this topic!

  • @denniskinuthia3261
    @denniskinuthia3261 Жыл бұрын

    Kaz Lucas is the queen of the consent topic.Get her on the show

  • @Ichbinthee_dali

    @Ichbinthee_dali

    Жыл бұрын

    I concur!

  • @qhayiyanongogo56
    @qhayiyanongogo56 Жыл бұрын

    Awwww, that ending 🥺🤣 I love you girls ❤️

  • @elvismugo
    @elvismugo Жыл бұрын

    ME SINGING GARDEN BY SZA WITH JULES ❤

  • @siaht1760
    @siaht1760 Жыл бұрын

    Short and sweet or non existent 😂🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @aunty.social
    @aunty.social Жыл бұрын

    Beyoncé couldn’t have had surgery before Coachella, she started practicing for the performance 8 months before. How could she have gone through surgery and healed in time to practice? We also see her weight in the beginning of documentary. But I think she had a bbl after because this Renaissance body 👀👀👀

  • @wambuithairu4678
    @wambuithairu4678 Жыл бұрын

    Yaaay 😁

  • @learnlivelove7606
    @learnlivelove7606 Жыл бұрын

    Dont come at me am just making my observations and I come in peace.....All of you ladies your energies are notably low? Are you okay ladies ?Ahuh also Ivy esp is abit low in spirits she isnt comfy and worse of th beginning she was dodgy....i mean in a circle of gals you always wanna be at per wth each other interms of life strides bt it doesnt wrk like tht...so basically when shiky and lonzie are courageously talking abt long term rship...ivy and jules aren comfy esp Ivy my gal ily so much I just hope you heal and bounce back...I love your energy so much...and whatwver it is all of you aredealing with now..may you bounce bank...hugs from me to you😚

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