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@misscritique8863

Ай бұрын

My cat runs away from me. I guess I’m giving off retriever energy.

@jeanfilan

5 сағат бұрын

@@misscritique8863❤❤❤❤q❤❤❤❤qq

My cat has taught me EVERYTHING about detachment ! His freedom is so wonderful to watch and life together is so simple... 💕

@Christinesobsevations

Ай бұрын

Same here …I watch the cat & golden retriever …they love each other , they get each other . Cat walks off when the dog gets over zealous

@winniewinkles

Ай бұрын

Cats are punks!

The more you focus on yourself, and take care of yourself- the more life takes care of you ❤❤❤

@ainahaga

Ай бұрын

This is sooo true! Im letting go of it all. Letting it be up to the universe😃

Be open to everything and attached to nothing- Wayne Dyer

@YanaWanderlust.

Ай бұрын

Cool I need it as my life-slogan

@normanheurtematte

27 күн бұрын

the first mentor i have in my life

@theresabarnes4940

19 күн бұрын

Yes I liked that one I wrote down and I tell people that.

@coolsa4720

18 күн бұрын

@@YanaWanderlust. go find a book hack your mind on borlest, enjoy life after bro...

@Clevelandsteamer324

8 күн бұрын

@@theresabarnes4940 I encourage you to read Wayne Dyer’s material and his free to watch lectures on you tube. Life changing stuff. He was an amazing man. Good luck on your journey to self love and happiness

It is soooooo true!! 💥Attaching to people will cause repelling them away from you! It has been my experience. And now, when I have got enough love inside myself, I don't need to prove my value by being accepted by others. ✨✨ Of course I still expect my loved ones to love me and treasure me. But if one day they don't treasure me, I will also know how to let go of the unease and the relationship. Because attaching to someone who is not meant to be in my life isn't attractive😂Thank you for making this video🙏🏻 Blessings to you all💖

When I am having the loneliest day and holding on to something that I can’t have, you bring me peace with these messages. Thank you

@nidalahmed28

Ай бұрын

Slowly but surely you’ll unlock everything you need to feel & it’s all within your divine being that’s the beauty about it. You’re never really lonely if you choose to explore how fascinating you are. Don’t forget to smile today!😊

@abbz23

26 күн бұрын

Ikr

@Moonlove55

26 күн бұрын

@@nidalahmed28 thank you 🙏

Take care of yourself and the rest will follow I was doing drugs (an expensive one) every day, drinking every day, living with my girlfriend. I left our home, moved cities 2 months ago today. I'm 60 days off drugs, drank once or twice a week mostly since then and have now committed (3 days) to cutting that out entirely, I haven't missed a day of work (where I'd missed about 20 in Jan/Feb from having cheap rent and an enabling partner) - and I just signed a lease for my own one bedroom apartment for July. It was a miracle to find and get the place, and I attribute it very much to having been putting the work in. Nothing comes free. We have to decide what costs we allow ourselves to pay, and when to remove unnecessary costs entirely.

@MerariBonova

Ай бұрын

I’m very proud of you 🙏🏻 I’ve been in a very similar journey and I know God loves us and has always had mercy for us. I’m also walking the sober path and it has been a blessing to me and others around me. Keep going and don’t give up

@Navitor88

29 күн бұрын

I’m just starting this journey and it has been hard….for about seven years. The best thing I find that if it’s not in the house I don’t miss it and don’t need it but when it’s there it haunts me. I think this is the year to make big shifts and take care of our health because it’s the most important thing we have. 😇🙏🏼💖moving up in vibration and letting go and of attachments and negative connections has helped big time - and for the first time in a very long time, I feel happy again and can feel my heart. No more escaping / it’s time to feel and heal

I've been reading a lot of Buddhist based books lately and this resonates with the Buddhist way of life very much. Non attachment is key. Compassion is another. I think it's hard for some to wrap their heads around. How can you be compassionate but at the same time, remain unattached? The answer relies on removing expectations. To act without expectations. You live a compassionate, non attached way of life by acting without any expectations of something in return. Always try your best, regardless of what the outcome might be. Whether it's at your job, a hobby, or a relationship with your significant other. Act with compassion. Expect nothing in return. Stay mindful. And you will be living peacefully.

@Moonlove55

Ай бұрын

This makes a lot of sense, how do you get to this point? How do you remain happy and at peace?

@hortymyty6089

Ай бұрын

Please can you recommend me 2 or 3 books?

@KasperrC

Ай бұрын

@@hortymyty6089 Read Michael Singer's books. He has it all put up nicely together.

@angelamooremusic

Ай бұрын

@@hortymyty6089 read The Four Agreements

@kristin2129

Ай бұрын

@@hortymyty6089 Just look up Buddhist books and read the descriptions and the right one will pop out to you. 💖💖

I always feel bad when I hear about non attachment, because my heart literally picks people. Then I feel attached.

For me, what I’ve come to develop is this sense of reparenting my self. My healing came from detaching from who I am. Becoming the observer of my life and has shifted to becoming this relationship between two parts of my self. The inner child that wasn’t allow to be see and the parental figure that I need as a child. I shift between the two personalities where I picture my self as the parent and then as the child. This relationship allow me to be free. I’ve found that meditation allows me to appreciate and notice the different voices in my head and put them in to perspective. In addition to not allowing my self to be totally absorbed by the thoughts since now im able to observe and detach from them. Finally taking back leadership of my life. Thank you Aaron for your perspective and send so much love and support to all those here!

Never allow others to project onto you. Their problems and baggage are not your problems or baggage.

During all my life (I am 37 now) I was attached to validation & approval from other people and men especially. I was that Golden Retriever, who is constantly chasing people. It's so strange! Everything I wanted is their love and attention. But everything I was getting is them pulling away!

I'm 68 years old now and have been going through a lot in the last 10 years. I've ALWAYS loved Aaron's videos, but this is another that is on the top of the list to help me better understand my entire life - especially at this point of my life. Thank you Aaron! You're an incredible man and a good man to the core. Just wish we were neighbors.... Not for the endless lectures, but just to share the presence and energy. Calms me now just to think of it.

@martinat.budisic4935

23 күн бұрын

calms me too 😀

Not to stroke your ego but you keep getting more funny. I love this humility and confidence, and your ability to laugh about your humanness. Gives a permission slip to the rest of us to be human and own it. Thx for what you do. It’s helped me a lot ❤

but the thing is, avoidants may have once been clingy like those with anxious attachment, maybe even MORE needy, and had to learn to shut off emotional needs to survive hyper-independently because we learned the hard way we were both too much and not enough... that in the real world no one actually cares, so we'd better learn to fight alone and put the pedal to the metal...

@traceykeary5332

Ай бұрын

I have so much empathy for avoidants ... Not that they want it 😂

@DJRenee

28 күн бұрын

Great summation. Brings

I am very sensitive to energy shifts, much like you say with regards to the baby knowing within seconds of the emotional withdrawal of the mother. This is something I became hyper-vigilant towards as a child growing up. I realised in my last major relationship (which was very toxic) that I was essentially "stuck" in an infantile stage within my nervous system. I had a child with my ex, and she was always pulling away emotionally (and denying it was happening). There was one day she got really angry and left the house in a huff, but it was in this moment that I realised the child and I were exhibiting similar distressed behaviours. It was then that I understood my nervous system was stuck in this position of fear, and instead of repeating the same behaviours, I took up the mantle (because the child could not) to help co-regulate and soothe him. It was a revelation to me (among many other things that I experienced in that relationship timeframe). You're on the money with what you are saying.

Love to drink my morning coffee and listening to Aaron. Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪

This was beautiful. I think mastering the art of detachment also invites healthy relationships into ones life. OC I realized this after a series of toxic partners. Now being a lone wolf (and im an extrovert), staying off social media, and becoming twain with the Divine within, truly is the middle path towards freedom.

Dude, I’m going to have listen to this subconsciously again. You nailed it!

“attachment to shame” wow!! that changed my perspective. I have always adopted the idea that there was something wrong with me, I didn’t realize that is an attachment I can break! Thank you so much, I love your videos 🫶🏼

Detaching now from all false help and people that are masked. Reminded today of myself aka my intuition! My intuition is a guide to my unique path ✨🙌🏼🥰

i needed this so badly, this opened my eyes to how i really do blame everything that’s happened to me as to why i do what i do. i gave my power away and blamed everyone and everything for my own actions. THANK YOU I LOVE YOU this is such a special insightful video im so thankful i came across this and your channel

Everything we need to complete us, is within us. It can't be found anywhere else. Thank you for all that you do. You have come a mighty long way and have taught a lot❤

I was watching a video earlier and it was of a really rich person showing off their house, you could tell just by looking at him he was not happy with himself, sad, lonely, negative. Then I was watching vids of people living very simple lives and they were the most fillfulled, positivity flowing out of them. Theres nothing wrong with setting goals and trying to make money but when you dont share your blessings they become a curse. Great video Aaron 100% agree with this.

I lost it at ‘you know what?! 200,00!’ I know that voice so well 😂 spot on message, funny to think the key to ‘getting more’ is to let go.

As an only-child that's always been introverted (technically ambivert) and with a strong sense of freedom, detachment is definitely the key. You can care deeply but choose who you give that too and sometimes do it at a distance only.

The way you so seriously say “They electrically shock the baby with tasers!!” Jesus. Was not expecting that💀😂

Aaron the joke about using tasers on the babies was just so unexpected and it made my day 😂😂

Exactly! I love this. We must be aware of our egos never ending search and find that unchanging value that’s always here inside of us. Why is it like this though? That things come when you don’t care if they do or not?

Damn, I found this video on my home page. I felt very drawn to it, it couldn't have come at a better timing. I am grateful that I got to see this video, thank you❤

Growing up I was let down and abandoned by my parents in various ways, wasn’t until I started watching your videos that I learned to detach and really see the bigger picture as to why I act and feel how I do. Thank you for your videos, this one definitely hit home, consciousness and acceptance heals

Love is who I am. Now, at 40s I feel, I understand, I love this... ❤️ ❤ ❤ thank you for all this content.

Absolutely! you makes a profound point about the power of being unattached. Letting go of expectations and finding wholeness within ourselves not only attracts love but also fosters genuine connections. 💫

Omg! "Electrically shock the baby using tazers"! You are hilarious. 😂 And awesome! Great video. ❤

THANK YOU AARON!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Dude!! Thank you!! ❤❤❤ Needed this and didn't even know.

This is real talk here. I was feeling for a while like people in general didn't like me. No one would make eye contact with me, despite me looking to, or even smile back if I smiled passing them by. One day I just said 'F*ck it, I'm done trying to make contact with people. The. Next. Day. People started smiling at me, saying hello. Strangers, or people I see often but don't know. Blew my mind.

Thank you for this video Aaron. I needed to hear this right now🤎

I really needed to hear this message! thank you !❤

I just get a burst of excitement and see the beauty in exploring the world or creating. Ppl meet me with the happiness flowing through. It never has anything to do with others.

This was right on time. I'm a recovering perfectionist and its a constant growing edge. Its interesting bc when I put things out and they aren't perfect but they're deeply authentic - that's the real shit right there.

love this ❤ I realized that to detach you actually just have to follow your heart because you’re just doing what makes you happy bc you’re doing it not because u get anything from it

Thank you, Aaron, for being real, honest and thank you for so helpful videos! 🙏♥️

So helpful🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼 i"ve always been shy, pleapleasing and VERY attachted to people, things and places. Now the latest 2 years i've started to love myself, getting unattachted and exploring what I like/love to do. So liberating🙌🏼❤️ doing it for me and my kids❤

Thank you so much for sharing this Aaron and the experience you had with the human holding you, as your mum. It was beautiful.

God bless you Aaron 🙏🏽❤️‍🔥

Aaron , your delivery is just soooo good . Thank you 😊

Aaron this video is amazing, I can't get enough of this topic and your perspective. 🎉

Thank you Aaron, great reminder. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU ❤❤❤❤

Excellent video Aaron, great presentation really hit the spot. Thank you for explaining it so articulately.

So in time! Thank you so much!

Aaron thanks SO much for your perspective on this topic. Your perspective has been BEYOND helpful. It started last year with your frame technique meditation. Dancing with my devil & I have nearly danced off the cliff…

It's been so great to see you grow . . . detachment being the key ❤

I’m not gonna lie this is your best video. Wow thank you so much for doing all this work and sharing it ❤ sending you tons of love

Thank you Light Dementus !!! 🙌🏾

What a beautiful message Aaron, another message that was sent by God 🙏🏻

Hi Aaron, I have to say I felt called to watch one of your videos this week. I have now watched 4 of the videos you have posted in the last 2 weeks and they have been so syncornositic and on topic with my life and what I needed to hear. Thank you for all that you do sharing these insights and this wisdom.

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now, because I am contracting 😊 We are soo much alike 💚

Thank you! This video and every video you make is 💯 procent on point!!! Many Blessings 😊

The truth is that we all need to be attached as babies and internalise that constant inflow so our hearts are full. It has to happen at that early stage for healthy emotional security. Then there's healthy individuation where we detach. Sadly when we are deprived of attachment stage it's v difficult to detach as it presumes we were attached in the first place. So to ask someone to detach from whatever crumb of "love" they were holding onto can evoke huge abandonment and destabilizing. It is v v painful. Lots of love, compassion, support and God's wisdom and timing to each precious soul on this path. We were created to be loved and to love in that order. ❣

Marvelous to see the transformation you have made in the last 5-6 years The vibes are tremendous The frequencies are lucid Peace brotha

I'm so grateful KZread's algorithm is working. Your channel is what I've been missing. New subscriber 🤎

I love u so much for your honesty ❤

Thanks Aaron for these videos, as they remind us of the foundational truths that set us free from unhealthy ways of living & doing relationships.

I just wanted to thank you. Your podcasts and KZread videos have gotten me through a really tough time right now. I have a better understanding of myself, why I attract the same type of men because of my childhood wound. I feel stronger, that I can lean into tension.

Thank you for your amazing work!

As usual you post right when I need it. You’re absolutely right. It’s best to let go and not be attached to the wrong person or people. The popular guy analogy is very funny. Thank god I’ve always been attracted to brains over looks. 😅 I’ve gotten to a point in my journey where I have been able to break away and not seek anyone while I’m still not 💯. Being an introvert is beneficial. When I had a baby the first time I had to be away from them was harder on me then them. It took me over a year to leave them on an overnight trip and even then I couldn’t wait to get back to them. Kids are different though. Namaste 🙏

@17:34 Your willingness to be vulnerable is admirable. Thank you for your honesty. Much Love, Y'all 🙏🏻💕

This is so powerful king

I love the way your psyche works Aaron.

Thank You Aaron 😊

Thanks for sharing this is my favorite so far. We did what we did to survive without a nurturing mother. It sucks we are even on this level of love for all and want to soread what we did not have. Real man this is legit 💯 spot on.tysm for truth teaching 👏

Once I lose my center and focus I just come here to listen to your videos and get back on a track ❤️ Thank you so much for putting so much work and effort into making these videos! ❤️They do keep reminding me about self-care and non-attachment ❤️

High Vib Tribe! 🙌 Very good info and insites. Thank you for all your knowledge and inspiration. Namaste🙏💫✨️💞

Damn, you’ve been preaching this for years and it still hasn’t become my normal yet!

Beautiful analogies. It's this simple.

Only 7 minutes in but laughing so hard as it is so relatable. I literally coach people in seeking internal validation over external validation, but still feel like I myself need that external validation to feel worthy as my parents did not validate me

This video came to me at the right divine time. Thank you 😇 ✨️

Great inspiration and to see that you are focusing on to being on a better path which is always not easy but keep up the great work.

This is good advice!!

Amazing place! Listening to you and taking a walk would be perfect now. Our energy is a gift, we must take care of it... so giving more of ourselves to other people drain us too. I am the Fontain of my own joy, and if I share with the world would be from my passions, multiplying this energy not giving, giving, giving... (for control of ego)

This is exactly what i needed!

Real inner Knowing knowledge !you killing it bro 💯💯

so true aaron. you've done many videos on this but this is very clear. one thing, as ive let go of my career desires, they start to come.... but because i care less, the success doesnt feel as good (but still feels right)...

@jamest3336

Ай бұрын

nonchalant as you say..

Aaron, you had a big impact on me back in 2021 & 2022. I’m noticing your videos seem a bit darker recently? It’s hard to explain it but it feels like the light is a little dimmed. I’m speaking metaphorically. Just noticing 🙏🏼 I am still forever grateful for your work

The cool boy with a toothpick is an avoidant!

It was very interesting to listen to you. Thank you.

What a Magical And moving Being. this was so Good. Speaking to my Soul❤ Thank you brother

People can be attached to things for the wrong reasons. People can be attached to things for good reasons. People can be detached from things for good reasons. People can be detached from things for bad reasons. Our future prospects rely on our reason for what we are responsible to. I would say these are attachments, and those things can be good or bad. What we are attached to will be magnetic to the people who correspond to those attachments. Which can be good or bad depending on the situation. It is reason; not whether we are attached that dictates the nature of our relationships to ideas, people and things.

Thank you this video has helped I’m detaching atm it works everything u have said 🙏❤️

Thanks for the message ❤

Awesome video, thank you so much🙏🎯💯🪐💫🙏💜.... quite timely, divinely timed...... I also did a constellation pretty much mirror what you just explained🙏

Great video Aaron! Love the vulnerability :)

Aaron is like some modern day Jesus, mostly by the way he looks but also wise beyond his years! Thank you Aaron for being a Wayshower!♥️🙏

Nah my man Aaron always on point with the timingggg !!!!😂

Thank you for sharing! You've done a lot of work around attachment Aaron. You said we cannot have attachment and be happy. But isn't attachment a natural part of the human psychie. We just need not overdo it. Balance between self and other.

Very helpful subject. I'm going through a twin flame journey. Just learned I'm not my mind or ego. I have to learn to observe my mind and detach. This video reminds me of my current progress. It feels peaceful to be in this frame and present in life. I love your content it has changed my life. Thank you for sharing this message and yourself. I love the new style of your video's looks modern and different camera angles is interesting feels like we're live with you.

You speach is powerful, your montage is excellent and the subtitles of the highlighted quotes make it easier to soak the info❤

bro you're the deal, thanks from Italy.

I needed this