How I Learned French (with Resources & Advice)

Are you learning French or another foreign language?
I've spent years studying French just because I love the language and I love France, and now that I live here, I have the opportunity to speak every day. It's amazing, challenging, fun, sometimes embarrassing (like when I tried to order meat at the butcher shop once and basically got thrown out for saying something I didn't know was inappropriate ha!).
But I have so much support from my family here. They speak to me, joke with me, make fun of me and help me with every aspect of the language. They will even stop a TV show to explain "les refs" (the cultural references or jokes) to make sure I feel included. In this, I know I'm really lucky because I've heard from some of my American friends here that if you don't start speaking French together in your relationship from the earliest days, it can be really difficult to try to make that shift later. I didn't even know until our third date that my husband speaks perfect English, because he indulged me completely in my quest to only speak French.
In this video, I'm sharing my language journey with French in the hopes that it will encourage you. I've had (and continue to have) plenty of ups and downs. On the ups, I have my DALF C1 (advanced) diploma and I'm very proud of that accomplishment because it was really difficult to achieve. On the downs, the other night we went to see a one-woman show in Paris and I was completely dejected because about 50% of the really fast jokes went right over my head, while the rest of the (completely French) audience was just laughing away hysterically.
It really is a journey, and I hope you're staying true to your desire to really master a language. My number one piece of advice: start speaking NOW. Even if you don't know much about grammar. Just try to learn phrases you can say to help you connect with other people. This is so motivating and really helps you build confidence and enthusiasm for everything else that is more challenging.
If you have a fun story about your own foreign language journey, I hope you'll drop a note below in the comments.
Below I'll put some of my favorite online resources for learning French. They're not necessarily the ones you'd think, so check them out (and if you want more, let me know!)
1. Lawless French (www.lawlessfrench.com/)
I love the free newsletters and the paid subscription to their Kwiziq program, which maps your language brain, finds your weaknesses, and serves up personalized quizzes of 10 questions at a time to drill you on varying concepts. Each answer has links to articles explaining the concepts to help you understand where you've gone wrong or reinforce your skills. They also have dictées (dictations) and reading exercises, along with articles about idiomatic expressions like "être à l'ouest," which means "to be out of it".
2. @innerFrench
This is a KZread channel that is all in French and is best for intermediate students. He's a professional French teacher, but doesn't teach grammar on this channel. Instead he talks about varying subjects en français, but at a very clear and easy pace.
3. @francaisauthentique
Another KZread channel that is just awesome. His lessons vary, and he's more structured, but as an advanced speaker, I love the lists of 20 Expressions for example, because they help me to increase and vary my vocabulary.
4. La French Tribe ( lafrenchtri...)
This cool woman offers short lessons that are more on the beginner/intermediate level, but I love that she acts out scenarios of real life such as going to the hairdresser, buying clothes and asking for your size in a shop, how to pay for things, etc.
5. @thepurplepalace85
This is a mostly English-language channel created by a lovely young artist named Shayna Klee. She originally moved to Paris as an 'au pair', but transitioned to going to art school and actually getting her masters there, then making a very cool life for herself despite lots of challenges. She speaks French and will pepper her videos with bits and bobs along with vlogs of Paris and France and lots of motivating affirmations. It's great if you dream of moving to France to live your dream life!
My Language Schools:
In NYC L'Alliance Française (fiaf.org/)
In Lyon, Lyon Bleu (www.lyon-bleu.fr/en/)
In Paris, CCFS-Sorbonne (www.ccfs-sorbonne.fr/)
Also in Paris, a smaller school France Langue (sejour.fl-france.fr/paris/)
#LearnFrench #French #HowToLearnFrench
Instagram: / karenbussen
Facebook: / karenbussen
Website: www.karenbussen.com/

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  • @joellebral3612
    @joellebral36125 ай бұрын

    I am a French lady, no more living in Paris but Britany, in love with American English language as you are for French language . I really congratulate you for for your perfect French accent as well as your beautiful accent in English not a NewYorker accent.! Glad to know you love my country. Long live to American and French friendship. For sure mastering a language is a lifetime work. Merry Christmas. Joëlle

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    5 ай бұрын

    Bonjour et merci merci pour votre commentaire. C'est vraiment gentil de votre part :-) Félicitations à vous aussi pour votre anglais parfait ! Et oui, Vive l'amitié franco-americaine ! bisous, Karen

  • @alguedemer
    @alguedemer16 күн бұрын

    Hi Karen, I've been teaching French for 27 years in London and now online (I'm a native French speaker from Boulogne) and will share your témoignage on my platforms, it's the kind of success and inspiring story I love to share to encourage other learners! Merci and bravo!!

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    16 күн бұрын

    Bonjour et merci ! Ça me fait tellement plaisir de lire ce commentaire :-) greetings from Paris and thank you for watching!

  • @joannebredin371
    @joannebredin3712 ай бұрын

    I love how authentic and warm you are, It is so encouraging to hear your story. Thank you

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    2 ай бұрын

    Bonjour ! Thanks so much for this lovely comment--you made my day, and if I can get fluent, anyone can! Bonne continuation :-)

  • @ricktackett8099
    @ricktackett80993 ай бұрын

    Karen, your video was both instructive and warm. Thank you.

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    3 ай бұрын

    Bonjour ! It makes me so happy to know that you found it helpful. Thank you for taking the time to comment :-)

  • @joyannesloan8384
    @joyannesloan8384Күн бұрын

    This is one of the best KZread videos I've seen on any subject because of your rare authenticity. I really felt like you're somebody I could be friends with even though we will probably never meet in this lifetime. Thank you for sharing your journey to fluency! ❤

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    11 сағат бұрын

    Awww, this is so kind of you. It's wonderful when we can discover and help one another. If you are studying French, I wish you bonne continuation--I just had a lesson today and got a whole list of the mistakes I made but you know what? Petit à petit ...:-)

  • @CJ-Photo
    @CJ-Photo5 ай бұрын

    Wow. I'm hoping to retire in France in about 6 years and have just started looking at learning the language. I took Spanish in high school (and from a horrible teacher so only 2 years). I do want to get a tutor a year or two before my move but now I'm wondering if I shouldn't just start paying for one now instead of using apps. Your journey is incredible....but also terrifying!

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    5 ай бұрын

    Bonjour ! How amazing that you want to retire in France. It is a really beautiful and rewarding place to live. If you have the resources, I would absolutely suggest getting a tutor. You might be able to find one online (I found my current amazing advanced teacher on Instagram!) or through a local French language school if you have access to one. Then I would suggest if you can, to spend more extended time in France before your move, and to make sure to include language learning in that time. For years I came to France twice a year and took weeks or months of classes in varying schools and it really did boost my confidence. Now that I live here, I realize what a gift it is to already have had that foundation when arriving. Because when you move to a new country, everything is new. You will feel a bit overwhelmed (in really wonderful ways!) but it's a good idea to be as prepared as you can in any ways that you have a chance to control before you get here. The French love and respect anyone who tries to speak the language. I have a completely different experience even as a foreigner by birth because I have spent so much time learning. They always comment on it and it opens doors everywhere. Plus it makes me feel a part of things in a way that I just couldn't if I didn't know what was going on. Bon courage !! You can do it!!

  • @robbienielsen9331
    @robbienielsen9331 Жыл бұрын

    I don't know how your vid popped up but I had to watch it till the end. It must be really lovely for you to live in France and to be able to speak the language that well. I'm fluent in English, but I'm still learning it even if I have been a teacher for 15 years or so. You can never stop learning a language when it is not your mother tongue, the lexicon is just so big. As for French, I spent 4 years learning it at grammar school, but I never really used it. I only remember bits, but still I tried following your French sentences. It was fast and sometimes I had to rewind to get the English translation. :) Anyway, thanks for the encouragement. My life is changing dramatically at the moment, so I may brush up my French knowledge to divert my thoughts and to boost my self-esteem. I don't know if you can recommend some apps or webpages where I can start French mainly from the basics. As a mom of four I can't go to school now or have private lessons but I would appreciate any help very much. Thanks from Hungary. :)

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi! Yes working on another language can be so fun and inspiring, especially when you’re in transition in life. Duolingo is a great app and I’ve heard good things about Lingoda too In the description I also put some other KZread channels and I also really like the Lawless French website - she has a free newsletter you can sign up for with lots of good stuff. Wishing you the best w your French and your new chapter in life Bon Courage😊💕💕💕

  • @carolynlarke1340
    @carolynlarke13406 ай бұрын

    Good for you. Like learning musical instruments and the formalities of written music a language is a vast undertaking. Nothing other than work will let you succeed. My French is also a work in progress due to long breaks since my initial studies. No matter. The challenge of becoming more literate and conversant are part of why I am moving to France next spring. Thank you for your videos.

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    6 ай бұрын

    Congrats on your upcoming move and you will be surprised once you're here how much you remember. Just really jump in and try to do as much as you can in French. I for example have a French accounting team who speak English, but I committed to doing everything in French, even when I am really struggling. It's the only way to really progress! Thanks a lot for watching and wishing you a bonne continuation !

  • @dianemevans
    @dianemevans4 ай бұрын

    I have really struggled with learning French. I give it a good try, get discouraged, then quit. Try again. Quit again. But your video gave me rejuvenated motivation to keep going. I would LOVE the diagram for pronunciation of un/on/en - I really struggle with that (as I'm guessing most of us do). I thought I could find it easily with a quick google search...mais non.

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    4 ай бұрын

    Bonjour, thank you for this thoughtful note. I feel you, and in fact my journey was similar. I dropped my studies for more than 10 years, basically forgot everything and started over. Then had to start over again to learn "real daily French" after I got my diploma ha! First off, follow @prononciation_avec_christophe on IG. He is a specialist in pronunciation and he's a delight. Next, I will see if I can find the diagram or I'll just make one haha and I'll try to post a video about it soon. I have been so shocked so many times in French to find out that just when I thought I was doing everything right, nope! But that's part of the journey. You can do it et il vaut la peine ! Bonne continuation :-)

  • @todrapayne
    @todrapayne3 ай бұрын

    I really love your videos. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    3 ай бұрын

    Merci ! I am so happy and thank you for leaving a comment :-)

  • @fionasteinbrecht60
    @fionasteinbrecht602 ай бұрын

    Oh Karen, life learning for sure, I learned german by reading and then I found a neighbour friend who helped me. Then I taught english and could explain in german and now I teach german to immigrants. It takes so long to get comfy but it does come together eventually. Nice to hear your journey with french 😊

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    2 ай бұрын

    thank you so much for this!! What a great story and yes, it is a whole journey isn't it? greetings from Paris

  • @spkaiser1
    @spkaiser1Ай бұрын

    Love this video and appreciate that you shared your journey. Stopped my study in French 35 years ago after a semester in Tours (which I loved). Now, after 18 months living in Portugal I’m preparing for my B1 Portuguese exam this summer. After that it’s time to resume my French journey and prepare for moving to France. Very inspiring. Merci Beaucoup!

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    Ай бұрын

    First off congrats on the Portuguese! Next, you'll be surprised at how much you still remember of your French once you get back to it. Bon courage et bonne continuation !!

  • @yogisurfrunner1925
    @yogisurfrunner19255 ай бұрын

    Thank You for sharing your story ~ it runs so similar to mine…C’était mon rêve a douze ans as well…several solo trips to Paris, shocked that my conversational skills were so deficient when my grammar skills were ~B1 after 6+ yrs of study. I’ve been a writer as my base profession for 30+ yrs in corp America and have been really wrestling with the idea of how to become ‘as conversant’ in French as I feel in English as we make the move to an area of France where fewer folks ‘naturally’ switch to English than they do in Paris (It’s taken me this long to realize they weren’t doing that bc my french was dreadful but bc they wanted to practice their English!). The L’Alliance Francaise, Lyon course, DELF Exam, & Sorbonne course you recommend are all new info to me. The encouragement to get a tutor - and the reminder that many French people adore our American accent…Thank You!! Thank You!! Thank You!!

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    5 ай бұрын

    Salut ! How exciting that you are following your dream. I can tell you after all my studies, and a DALF C1 diploma (the DALF is a bit different from the DELF), plus private tutoring, the thing that helped me most was to shove myself into as many really difficult situations and force myself to speak "Franglish" -- meaning my every sentence has a French intention with basic verbs and as much of my vocab as possible, and then just to insert an English word (with a French intonation if possible) wherever needed. That works a whole lot of the time, and it really builds confidence. Also, I suggest once you arrive you ask at your Mairie (Town Hall) for a list of "associations" which are local groups for culture, charitable works, even sports that you can join to dive right in to French culture. I promised myself to speak to my French accountant only in French and I had my French teacher send me a list of that vocab and I just plow through it, with no regard to whether I am making mistakes. They understand me and correct me when needed. But it takes a lot of energy to do this. In the beginning when you move, you have to be gentle but firm with yourself. If you fall into all expat relationships and just watching English language TV series on your screen, you won't move as fast as you'd like. As for the accent, yes! I consider it my secret weapon. But it is important to really learn the rhythm of the language and which syllables to accent--that changed my whole life in French and it's something no one ever taught me in all my years of learning before living here and finding a pronunciation tutor. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. I am wishing you every good thing for your move--bon courage et bonne continuation !!

  • @vjmh7090
    @vjmh70902 ай бұрын

    Very nice Karen, I moved to Quebec just to learn french. Maybe I should look for a French speaking Girl.

  • @amourfout
    @amourfout Жыл бұрын

    That was an interesting story, thanks for sharing! Come to think about it, French shares so many words with English that one would think learning this language would be a walk in the park! I wish! :) Btw, maybe your French teacher was brilliant, but making you lose heart was really mean, I think.

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes there are a lot of similar words and also some « faux amis » or words that sound and sometimes are spelled alike but don’t mean the same thing at all 😂…and yes as for my teacher, I’m sure she just meant to motivate me but it did stress me out❣️😃

  • @LetsChillPage
    @LetsChillPage21 күн бұрын

    Hello Karen, Au départ, je voulais écrire ce commentaire en anglais. Cependant, je me suis ravisé en songeant qu'il serait peut-être plus agréable pour vous de mesurer votre apprentissage du français écrit (?). J'ai trouvé tellement de points communs entre nos deux expériences dans la difficulté d'apprendre une langue. Sauf que pour moi qui suis français, c'est avec l'anglais que j'ai ce problème. Je précise que j'ai 56 ans. Je n'ai pas poursuivi de longues études. Ma connaissance de l'anglais s'arrête donc à la 4ᵉ collège (8th grade). Pourtant, grâce à internet, à force de regarder des vidéos comme la vôtre, j'ai réussi à faire beaucoup de progrès en anglais. Mais, comme vous, avec le français, à une certaine époque de votre apprentissage, dès qu'il s'agit de suivre une conversation ou un film en anglais, là, ça se complique. Avec certaines personnes qui naturellement parlent lentement et articulent bien, ça va, j'arrive à peu près à suivre, car mon vocabulaire a grandement évolué. J'attrape quelques mots dans la phrase et j'arrive à comprendre le sens de celle-ci. Même si souvent, je dois mentalement remettre les mots dans le bon ordre (ce qui a dû être l'inverse pour vous avec le français, lol). Mais, avec d'autres personnes, c'est « la croix et la bannière. » C'est comme s'ils parlaient une autre langue ! 😅 Et, comme vous, lorsque vous avez croisé ce Français dans le bar, dans ces moments-là, je me sens frustré. J'ai l'impression que j'ai fait tout ce travail d'apprentissage pour rien. En réalité, j'ai compris qu'il faut de très longues années de pratique pour maîtriser une langue. Ce n'est jamais « un long fleuve tranquille ». Ainsi, je découvre votre chaîne et vais m'y abonner, car je vous trouve très sympathique et très courageuse d'avoir suivi le parcours qui a été le vôtre. Bonne continuation,

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    21 күн бұрын

    Bonjour ! Merci pour ce magnifique commentaire que j'ai vraiment apprécié et dont j'ai beaucoup appris :-) Oui, nous on a tous vécu ces moments "dans le bar" mais il ne faut pas désespérer. En fait, pour moi, c'est ce type de situation qui nous aide tellement, parce que (après la déception ha!) ça nous motive ! OK I will write a little bit in English, too, since you so kindly wrote me in French. I read your beautifully written comment and I hope someday to write as fluently as that, with humor and insight. Just remember to treat yourself well and to focus on 1) your achievements so far and the effort you're making and 2) putting yourself into increasingly difficult situations (that challenge your current level a bit) to stretch your ear and your speaking. As we'd say, "it's no walk in the park," but it's worth it in the end. I'm wishing you all the very best and I thank you sincerely for taking the time to write such a lovely and thoughtful response. It means a lot to me. Keep up the practice, one step at a time!

  • @LetsChillPage

    @LetsChillPage

    21 күн бұрын

    @@karenbussen Thank you, Karen, for your kind and encouraging words. Like I said, I don't need a translator to read your English answer thanks to the internet, which has taught me so much. It's a fabulous way to expand our knowledge and communicate with people from worldwide. I hope you have a pleasant evening.

  • @synkaan2167
    @synkaan216712 күн бұрын

    Vous avez un super accent, on voit que vous avez bossé dur pour apprendre le français ^^

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    11 күн бұрын

    C'est gentil, merci :-)

  • @paulvanier429
    @paulvanier42926 күн бұрын

    In order to learn French, one of the first thing you have to do is: do not try to remember what is feminin and masculin; it does not matter if you have all the gender mixed up, people will understand you even you say "Un fille" instead of "une fille".

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    26 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this truly helpful comment! Lots of us French learners get very nervous about not knowing the gender of nouns, but it's true--people will understand and as you practice, you add more and more words that you do know :-)

  • @lindylee1139
    @lindylee11396 ай бұрын

    Tres interesant!

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    6 ай бұрын

    Merci !

  • @karenclement743
    @karenclement7432 ай бұрын

    I was TERRIBLE at french in school. I think that is why I have no confidence to try and learn. Thank you for your blog

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    2 ай бұрын

    Hi! I'm so happy you commented. It's easy to struggle with French in school. The more I learn, the more I think they should completely change the way we study. If you do want to pick it up again, I might suggest starting with very simple phrases you'd use in a market or café, or in practicing a little script for how you'd introduce yourself to someone new (where you're from, what you do for work, your interests, etc). But definitely let go of the belief that you're not "good at" it. It just takes time and effort. Yesterday I spent a half hour transcribing a 2-minute movie trailer for my French teacher and it was a challenge, but every little bit helps!!! Bonne continuation xoxo

  • @paolofiorillo7415
    @paolofiorillo741511 ай бұрын

    Hi, I wanted to ask you how should I do to learn English through movies, TV series and songs, what methods should I apply, how should I approach these tools and how can I put them into practice? Ditto for books/audiobooks/podcasts and videos on youtube, where should I start if I'm at zero?? Nb: I'm a 20-year-old boy and I haven't decided which path to take yet but at the moment I'm more oriented towards languages and I would also like to go and live in England!!!!!

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    10 ай бұрын

    I don't believe you're at zero, your written English is good! With podcasts, I suggest choosing a short one or a "slow news" podcast where they read the news at a slower pace. For movies, use the subtitles in English so you can see and hear the words. I think the key is to find things you're interested in in life and watch videos/read books about those things because your interest will keep you going. Wishing you the very best, and thanks for commenting! I hope you make your dreams come true :-)

  • @user-sorleyboy
    @user-sorleyboy5 ай бұрын

    Merci Karen, pour parteger votre expérience.... J'aime aussi Hugo de InnerFrench. Il est facile a apprendre... Est-ce que vous aimez "Learn French with Vincent"? Sa voix et trés calme(?)..

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    5 ай бұрын

    Merci merci à vous ! Je vais jeter un coup d'oeil sur le compte de Vincent ! Bonne continuation !

  • @danielcreveuil
    @danielcreveuil2 ай бұрын

    A Lady ! Merci Madame !

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    2 ай бұрын

    Je vous en prie :-)

  • @taylorsmith8276
    @taylorsmith8276 Жыл бұрын

    I’m studying at CCFS right now! I’m in B1. Wish me luck

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    Жыл бұрын

    Oooh I’m jealous, I really loved it there and I heard they’re in a new building now. Wishing you all the best and bonne continuation ❣️❣️❣️

  • @fernandomarquez365
    @fernandomarquez3655 ай бұрын

    Bonjour Karen. Toutes ces choses que vous mentionnez me sont arrivées lorsque j'étudiais aux États-Unis et ce fut l'expérience la plus horrible de ma vie. Je vivais à Chicago et j'étudiais mon doctorat et mon conseiller m'a forcé à donner des cours de chimie en anglais (je suis mexicain) et je suis parti en pleurant parce que mon anglais était horrible et tous mes étudiants riaient. Cela s'est produit parce que lorsque j'ai passé mon examen TOEFL, qui est l'examen qu'ils exigent de nous au Mexique, j'ai obtenu un C1 et j'ai promis de ne plus JAMAIS me soucier d'un diplôme ou d'une certification. Heureusement, j'étudie le français avec un natif et j'apprends à parler français et ma motivation est que je regarde des films et que j'ai des conversations (nous utilisons beaucoup de liaison) et bientôt je visiterai Paris et je veux parler français. Une certification n’est pas quelque chose à retenir, mais dans la vraie vie, il faut parler la langue et utiliser des expressions idiomatiques. salutations

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    5 ай бұрын

    Bonjour ! Merci pour votre commentaire. C'est vrai qu'à l'école on n'apprend pas forcement ce dont on a besoin pour bien communiquer...mais votre français est super--du coup, je pense que vous avez trouvé la bonne solution avec votre prof natif. Pour moi, savoir parler, c'est la chose la plus importante. Bonne continuation et bienvenue en France pour votre visite :-)

  • @christianpauls8732
    @christianpauls8732Ай бұрын

    The nasal vowels are a problem for the southern too.

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    Ай бұрын

    un/ on/ an/ en !!! :-)

  • @brezhoneg9159
    @brezhoneg915916 күн бұрын

    13:49 *On s'casse!*

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    16 күн бұрын

    :-)

  • @Joan-mc8gm
    @Joan-mc8gm5 ай бұрын

    How would find a teacher in Massachusetts?

  • @karenbussen

    @karenbussen

    5 ай бұрын

    Hello! If you want an in-person class or teacher, I would search "French lessons YOURTOWN" or "French Teacher YOURTOWN" If you want an online teacher (I have had a lot of success with this over the years, as you don't have to travel to your classes and the cost is generally less), you can search on Instagram or online in general, or use sites like Superprof.com -- I think you have to pay for a subscription to Superprof, but it gives you profiles and ratings for a bunch of teachers so you can find the right person. If you live near a big city, you might find a French language school nearby and they can guide you as well. Hope this is helpful and bon courage !!

  • @Joan-mc8gm

    @Joan-mc8gm

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your great ideas Karen. They have been very helpful.