How I got HIV

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This week is National HIV Testing Week in the UK and I'm sharing the story of how I contracted HIV.
Getting tested is vital to slow and stop the spread of HIV.
We can stop HIV - It Starts With Me - www.startswithme.org.uk/
Order a free HIV postal test - www.freetesting.hiv
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  • @ryanblack2986
    @ryanblack29862 жыл бұрын

    My 1st bf at 19 intentionally kept it from me he was poz. It's awful to not be forthcoming with that information and to put ppl at risk. All the best! Xoxo 😄

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

  • @carreviewer6345

    @carreviewer6345

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah people who don't tell their partner about their sexual health are pricks

  • @ela536
    @ela5367 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for spreading awareness! You are an incredibly strong man ❤

  • @Luvforalll
    @Luvforalll2 жыл бұрын

    You’re helping a lot by telling your story. I love watching your vids. Thanks for helping others learn

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! That means a lot, thank you for watching

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u Жыл бұрын

    Hey buddy, just found you and subbed. From the USA and want to thank you for this video, it will save lives I am sure. Thanks for your time and effort in producing it............God bless.............Ray

  • @_letstartariot
    @_letstartariot4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your courage. It’s not easy to post a video talking about something so personal. But you did it to educate others. Its commendable. Cheers mate.

  • @rooweb
    @rooweb3 жыл бұрын

    Good video kid! Keep informing people and im sure it will help people with hiv and help stop people getting it. Well done for putting the message out and being open about it.

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks brother! Appreciate your comment 💙

  • @XxxX-wx3er
    @XxxX-wx3er2 жыл бұрын

    People have unprotected sex all the time. You did it just one time. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

  • @Henry.Wallace

    @Henry.Wallace

    4 ай бұрын

    Or so he says

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    4 ай бұрын

    But one time is higher risk for that demographics.

  • @tinacollins9213

    @tinacollins9213

    3 ай бұрын

    They have had 10,000 new cases in Pattaya people think it won’t happen to me , I’ve lost 3 friends to this , thankyou for talking about this

  • @MichelleisMarried123
    @MichelleisMarried1232 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Back in 2020 I was tested for HIV and I was HIV negative. I only got tested for the nasty migraines I was getting. Dr said Have you ever been tested for HIV? I said no why? Well she said your a married woman and have severe migraines, and migraines usually are a sign of HIV. I was scared as f•••! Took my blood sent it too the lab and in 2 weeks I got my results and thank god I was HIV negative🥰❤️ My husband told me babe if u ever had HIV I wouldn’t love you any less😭 we would always be together! 16 years of marriage and 2 boys later! Now that’s true love❤️ Thanks for sharing your story and I hope that your doing ok? God Bless and stay safe from Covid-19!

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you received a negative result and that your husband is supportive! All is well here, thank you. And hope you are too. Sending love 💙

  • @colleenstack210

    @colleenstack210

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very common chronic migraines in women for a doctor to do a work up for Multiple Sclerosis from the lesions on the brain. Just responding to the one lady that mentioned migraines. God Bless you Matt and stay strong!

  • @Naijella86

    @Naijella86

    2 жыл бұрын

    I took a negative HIV test and got the results in 20 minutes last year. Why did you have to wait for two weeks in 2020?

  • @MichelleisMarried123

    @MichelleisMarried123

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Naijella86 Hi, I guess my Dr’s office is slow😂

  • @MultiMcgurk

    @MultiMcgurk

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sinisitis maybe?

  • @doncrossfield7636
    @doncrossfield76363 жыл бұрын

    Love this. Honest and open and super informative as always. Keep up the awesome work Matt 🖤

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ahh, thank you! Means a lot. 💙

  • @markfox566

    @markfox566

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv Hope you are doing well. Thank You for this video. Know that many people respect you.

  • @le.7644
    @le.76443 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matt, all the best we got u

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    My pleasure! Thanks for watching 💙💙

  • @nicsinger18
    @nicsinger183 жыл бұрын

    Wow very brave for putting yourself out there! 💪🏼 young people need to be more educated on the subject of hiv and schools shouldn’t shy away from teaching it just because it’s a taboo subject. great video well done ❤️

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Totally agree that schools and the education system need to be doing more! 💙

  • @mollysteel142

    @mollysteel142

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv have you eaten any fecal matter or used poppers during XXX??

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

  • @skyisthelimit9897
    @skyisthelimit989728 күн бұрын

    God bless you that you live a full! Confessing your truth and educating us! God certainly has a purpose for you!! People with HIV are outliving people without it! Thanks so much for your courage and testimony! Love this.

  • @marquese1960
    @marquese19603 жыл бұрын

    Good luck very everything mate ! Stay well.

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. And you too!

  • @HIVPositiveDatingSitesApps
    @HIVPositiveDatingSitesApps2 жыл бұрын

    Loved It. Very informative

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! 💙

  • @susangodblessuratemo2485
    @susangodblessuratemo24853 жыл бұрын

    U are Strong guy and you are open

  • @maldives-joshuajoseph6032
    @maldives-joshuajoseph60323 жыл бұрын

    4.15 " I got HIV from having sex ". God bless you, live a full life !

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely. Being diagnosed with HIV has taught me we need to live our life to the fullest

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

  • @anilchopra4751

    @anilchopra4751

    10 ай бұрын

    HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN RAW FOOD THERAPY. You can try & SEE A MAGIC.

  • @KimPhilby203
    @KimPhilby2033 жыл бұрын

    Balls of Steel...sending love

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 💙💙💙

  • @lelemurray9453
    @lelemurray9453 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you Matt. Jesus loves you. May you give your life to him. ❤️

  • @growmance2191
    @growmance21913 жыл бұрын

    Man that the worst luck ever just doing it once unprotected and getting hiv. .

  • @Sadude13

    @Sadude13

    3 жыл бұрын

    right. Some people fuck for years unprotected and never get it. This poor guy fucks once raw and he gets it!!!

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

  • @julianaguirre5882

    @julianaguirre5882

    Жыл бұрын

    You know that is the worst? I hadnot sex, i touched a vagine with mi finger. That is bad luck :( .

  • @AMPFIELDVISION
    @AMPFIELDVISION7 ай бұрын

    For you to get it the very 1st time having unprotected sex with that one guy, he must've been VERY sick and had a super high viral load because it doesn't spread that easy

  • @marshalmallow7192

    @marshalmallow7192

    3 ай бұрын

    It depends on the sexual act. Receptive anal sex hiv transmission occurs approx. 1 out of 72 times. That could be the first, the 18th, or the 72nd. Or his partner could have been recently exposed. He told him he was “clean” and he may have believed he was. During stage one of the virus, HIV is rapidly replicating and thus, leading to more HIV in the body. The person may not even experience symptoms during this phase of transmission and if they do it may be a light headache or a cough. At this point, the person is highly contagious and more likely to spread the virus. Just because a person doesn’t appear sick does not mean they do not have HIV.

  • @kvngkhii6819
    @kvngkhii6819 Жыл бұрын

    Ive had unprotected sex twice .the first time was2 years ago and last time was march 15 this year. Ive had no issues symptom wise not flu like symptoms nothing. I hope im all good and ill never be reckless like that again. Its bad to be Young and naive

  • @mingakinsgibayuxds7542

    @mingakinsgibayuxds7542

    11 ай бұрын

    And many of the times, people live with the disease for decades without symptoms.

  • @user-tb7qz7id6t

    @user-tb7qz7id6t

    7 ай бұрын

    hiv symptoms take 2-7 years to show, after 7 years you will almost have aids.

  • @nikicarrie4071
    @nikicarrie40712 жыл бұрын

    This is informative thank you

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your comment!

  • @richierichnumber1
    @richierichnumber17 ай бұрын

    Thank you Matt and your a beautiful man also glad you educated yourself about the disease HIV & Aids, yes we were all ignorant in the beginning, and after new medications out there gay men can live a longer, happy , productive life with these new medications. As an old timer now these days I lived negative existence from the disease for fear at first and after educating myself and with the help of an honest loving partners it hasn't stopped me from dating positive men who take care themselves. Honestly, if I'd feel I had met my soul mate it wouldn't have been a problem making our relationship long term. Peace.🥰

  • @Trumpvoter1
    @Trumpvoter18 ай бұрын

    I was tested for hiv when i had tiredness for no reason and poor sleep Turns out i have sleep apnea😢

  • @Tainted3840
    @Tainted38402 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing. Simple as that 👍

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aw, thank you so much! 💙

  • @Tainted3840

    @Tainted3840

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv Keep doing what you're doing, your response to this is tremendous, courageous and inspiring. This could happen to absolutely ANYONE irrespective of gender, race or sexuality, a virus doesn't discriminate whatsoever. You did NOTHING wrong and have since done everything right in your attitude since your diagnosis. You, of course, know all these things but I just wanted to reiterate and show my support. I think you're fantastic, how eloquently you speak and educate and I hope I haven't come across as patronising. My intention was to elevate what you already know - you're a warrior 👍. So happy you have the support system you have too 😀

  • @daviddinkins7009
    @daviddinkins7009Ай бұрын

    In 2020, there's no reason not to remain vigilant about your own health, so good luck.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan4 ай бұрын

    Sorry you had to learn such a hard lesson, but bless you for putting out this video. #BeWell

  • @DanielMathebula-kq9tb

    @DanielMathebula-kq9tb

    2 ай бұрын

    a very Hard lesson indeed

  • @imgurkirat
    @imgurkirat7 ай бұрын

    Did u got any symptoms or after that u go for test?

  • @adriandc9761
    @adriandc9761 Жыл бұрын

    Did you have any symptoms?

  • @onnislee1
    @onnislee16 ай бұрын

    How do they know how many people have it and don't know? Are you saying that the doctors or government know and not telling people? Otherwise how would they know over 6000 has it and not know? Make it make sense to me. And why do people comment that they are negative on everyone who does these types of videos?

  • @rachelgracedelariarte3027
    @rachelgracedelariarte30272 жыл бұрын

    HiV/AIDS is treatble now a days. 😊

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

  • @anilchopra4751

    @anilchopra4751

    10 ай бұрын

    NO....! ONLY IN RAW FOOD THERAPY.

  • @markfox566
    @markfox5662 жыл бұрын

    I am curious. Can you contract HIV if you are only a bottom, or can you contract HIV is you are bottom or top?

  • @ryanblack2986

    @ryanblack2986

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can get it either way

  • @markfox566

    @markfox566

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ryanblack2986 Good to know. Thanks.

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ryanblack2986 absolutely. Anyone is potentially at risk of HIV, no matter whether you're top, bottom, vers. Anyone can get HIV regardless of gender, sexuality or sexual preferences

  • @ryanblack2986

    @ryanblack2986

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@markfox566 👍

  • @ryanblack2986

    @ryanblack2986

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv 👍

  • @jaleosupply9145
    @jaleosupply91453 жыл бұрын

    Matt dont worried about anything ok??? Now is not a death sentence. you wont died from this but if with this, dont forguet you pill, sleep good, look after your diet and take care of your sexual life. I wishyou all the best,...Best wishes. FROM Valencia.............................................

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

  • @anilchopra4751

    @anilchopra4751

    10 ай бұрын

    HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN THE RAW FOOD THERAPY WITHOUT MEDS. & MONEY.

  • @xelefonte
    @xelefonte12 күн бұрын

    The only time negativity is a good thing is when it comes to std testing, you want to remain HIV negative.

  • @ravishdhir972
    @ravishdhir9722 жыл бұрын

    Sir if men sex with other men but both are not infected with HIV does they get hiv

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    If both parties are negative for HIV, then it can't be transmitted. There is still a risk from other STI's and/or HIV as they can be asymptomatic

  • @sherrysimpson9536

    @sherrysimpson9536

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on KZread about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

  • @anilchopra4751

    @anilchopra4751

    10 ай бұрын

    HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN THE RAW FOOD THERAPY.

  • @FlavioMarceloSousa35
    @FlavioMarceloSousa355 ай бұрын

    Unprotected sex, in my case. I was taking PrEP but got careless and didn't take the pills everyday, as I should.

  • @marshalmallow7192

    @marshalmallow7192

    3 ай бұрын

    You were taking the appropriate steps! We are all human. I hope you don’t blame yourself. It sucks that this virus exists.

  • @fp5940
    @fp594010 күн бұрын

    Pls inform if you have suspicion at all whatever it maybe. You need to save lives and use condoms.

  • @ghalicobain8893
    @ghalicobain88936 ай бұрын

    How is 2.7 % unknown what do you mean ?????

  • @MeldrineOrtiz

    @MeldrineOrtiz

    3 ай бұрын

    2.7% of people with HIV do not know how they got it.

  • @marshalmallow7192

    @marshalmallow7192

    3 ай бұрын

    Some people may have engaged in multiple risk areas or do not wish to disclose how they contracted HIV.

  • @nuage9727
    @nuage97272 жыл бұрын

    Matt I hv a question

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey. What's your question? Feel free to ask anything.

  • @nuage9727

    @nuage9727

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv hey what are the odds of getting hiv through oral. It's been 6 weeks I've not experienced anything out of the ordinary. And he was negative then.

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    The chances are very low of contracting HIV through oral sex

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/sexual-health/improving-your-sexual-health/oral-sex

  • @chrisallen6362
    @chrisallen63623 жыл бұрын

    Matt I would love to know more if you were open to talking about your experiences

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Chris. Absolutely. I'd be more than happy share my experiences

  • @chrisallen6362

    @chrisallen6362

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv I'm not sure if you saw the link I left below in the comment section but if not, could you please fill out that quick survey and leave a form of contact and I will get back to you. Your feedback means a lot Matt. Thank you sir.

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry - I missed that! All done.

  • @kingslong5937

    @kingslong5937

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@meandhiv do u know what ur symptoms was if u don’t mind sharing sir?

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kingslong5937 of course. For me I had kind of flu-like symptoms; muscle aches, headache, nausea, night sweats, and fever. I also ended up with a rash down my arm

  • @gamestriker3705
    @gamestriker37052 жыл бұрын

    After exposure when you tested for HIV?

  • @meandhiv

    @meandhiv

    2 жыл бұрын

    For me it was roughly two to three months after exposure

  • @ashleychumney5268

    @ashleychumney5268

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@meandhiv but you had symptoms two-three weeks later. Wow took three months to find positive. Yet you probably had sex in between that time and transmitted it to others.

  • @Oula1994
    @Oula1994Ай бұрын

    I got HIV 💔

  • @ERICANDYJASMINE
    @ERICANDYJASMINE11 ай бұрын

    All lim activate

  • @stephenobudho4538
    @stephenobudho45388 ай бұрын

    Repent, the end is near. God save this world. John 3:16.

  • @upendarkumar22
    @upendarkumar223 жыл бұрын

    Dwarka sarve ka dikha do didi Badi Sundar Hogi Badi

  • @kittykat135
    @kittykat1353 жыл бұрын

    u take long to tell us

  • @user-tb7qz7id6t
    @user-tb7qz7id6t7 ай бұрын

    if you are going to go against god's command and do they unnatural you should be using protection.

  • @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn
    @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn6 ай бұрын

    Hello , like your vídeo .is it possible to chat with you in private?

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