How are you all doing, really?

@iforgotmynameagain9512

5 жыл бұрын

Kind of depressed

@trupekamu2126

5 жыл бұрын

horrible :(

@jona-marieliebe4295

5 жыл бұрын

i'm very stressed but happy

@sushmitasiwakoti6760

5 жыл бұрын

I am breathing what about you??

@eatpastarunfasta6113

5 жыл бұрын

Horrible.. this video helped me a lot. Love

The dude who said "It's kinda hard to choose which "you" you want to pursue" 😭

@Reakted

5 жыл бұрын

Orfeas Siozos Mr. Nobody whatch that movie

@rashadmuhammad1991

5 жыл бұрын

Me in a nut shell 😶😔

@anamariapintilie6432

5 жыл бұрын

My soul felt that

@scatters

5 жыл бұрын

i felt that

@lavans06

5 жыл бұрын

Was at a cross roads - choosing between Science me, Computer me, Business me...laid off in science, recently graduated from Computers lol ... I hope this me is good enough for the cosmos

Isnt it crazy that 90% of the people are not doing fine?!

@prismathefur7736

5 жыл бұрын

Not really most ppl struggle threw life such as myself and a lot of ppl try to hide there struggles and seem fine

@OuroborosInstitute

5 жыл бұрын

That’s why I love her content so much, I’m trying to make similar, but i feel the more we talk about stuff like this and normalize it, the happier of a world we will live in!

@saradeen3984

5 жыл бұрын

@@prismathefur7736 don't worry is life everything will end and get solved just take it easy.

@QueenCVlogs-ch6bj

5 жыл бұрын

It's actually not, tbh it's sad

@OuroborosInstitute

5 жыл бұрын

Queen C. Vlogs but that’s exactly why we need more of this content, because the more it gets talked about the more we can heal as a society!

''I like being alive but I am confused.'' -me everyday for the last 31 years

@st.michaelthearchangel7774

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that! Some words of encouragement, I hope: Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. He is objective truth, and once we have Him and learn about His church, life begins to make so much sense. :)

@kgopokgwedi

3 жыл бұрын

same...

@snarkasticsquid2435

3 жыл бұрын

Edit: last 58 years

@snarkasticsquid2435

3 жыл бұрын

@@st.michaelthearchangel7774 OMIFUCKINGJESUSHCHRIST I am SO fucking sick of these religious Jesus is the way comments. Jesus is a figment of someone’s imagination. Get that through your head & stop offering it up as the save all for everything. It’s a load of bullshit.

@bru2298

2 жыл бұрын

@@snarkasticsquid2435 They just said their beliefs chill tfo.

A lot of times its easier to talk to a stranger.......

@lalalalacanthearyou

3 жыл бұрын

Very true, I can't share my mental illness problems with my family but sometimes KZread comments and people on KZread give me hope to keep living and not take my own life.

@fabridee

3 жыл бұрын

yes you are so right

@st.michaelthearchangel7774

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. From my experience it’s because we probably won’t ever see the person again, so just unloading our heart to them with that in mind can be easier. It’s not like we will go home and see them again, and are around them every day, so momentarily telling them things doesn’t feel as much of a threat. Something like that.

@kencramer2232

3 жыл бұрын

I know for a fact it’s easier to talk to a stranger. providing they’re normal I’d suggest they’d be more objective about my story because they don’t know me & therefore more considerate than judgemental family

@0rchid71

3 жыл бұрын

i would tell ppl i’m close to about my anxiety, and how i just feel stressed all the time but i’m afraid they’d be mad i didn’t tell them before, and that’d just make me feel even more stressed. i know it probably wouldn’t happen but i can’t convince myself otherwise when i try to talk to ppl irl abt it

It's crazy how people talk about their sadness with a smile.

@ana-in1ws

5 жыл бұрын

Because the smile keeps you from crying

@entertainmentprime101

5 жыл бұрын

@@ana-in1ws exactly

@marliesvdlangemheen

5 жыл бұрын

It's a way of not having to feel the depth of your pain. We learn this through situations in which we are hurt and lost our trust. It also ain't usual to talk about your true feelings, people sometimes don't know how to even do this, laughing then makes us feel more comfortable.

@entertainmentprime101

5 жыл бұрын

@@marliesvdlangemheen exactly it is for comfort

@calicochronicler6922

5 жыл бұрын

Bc they're on camera

They’re smiling because they didn’t want to cry.

@dogwalk3

4 жыл бұрын

Its Noah_04 "if you're not laughing, you're crying," is something i've found myself telling myself & others more & more often these days.

@sleverlight

4 жыл бұрын

For me I smile becasuse I don't want people to feel sad

@mypandawilleatyou38

4 жыл бұрын

A smile isn’t always a mask

@LarrySernas

4 жыл бұрын

shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt

@sleverlight

4 жыл бұрын

@@mypandawilleatyou38 true if you're with the people you love

“ i told my dad how i was feeling and then he just said let’s go for a walk and then we just talked about it” this is so heartwarming, being a supportive parent it really costs nothing.

@forpurposes3168

3 жыл бұрын

@Caitilin Reitmeyer I wish I grow up with my parents either. They have their own family now... And they're happy...

@arlaxazure486

3 жыл бұрын

So... I understand where you're going with this point. But, like... Being supportive costs nothing. Being a *parent* is like one of the most expensive endeavors you can ever go through.

@daniellamcgee4251

3 жыл бұрын

@Caitilin Reitmeyer There are plenty of people who are happy to give support to others. Few people get the support they want and need from their parents. It only takes one supportive person who makes a difference. But throughout life you can find many along the way. Some are temporary, and some are for a lifetime. Reach out with openess and honesty to people with similar experiences to you. Particularly those who are further along a path you want to go on. It might not be obvious to others that you need or want support. What kinds of support would you like to have? It useful to know what you are looking for. You wrote this comment, and I responded, and I am just one! 💜

@daniellamcgee4251

3 жыл бұрын

@Caitilin Reitmeyer Yes! :) 💜

@shilparamanaryan3652

3 жыл бұрын

You're really lucky, really.. Many of us , me don't have that.. They just don't believe us ..

"I met somebody, who makes me feel like home" I hope some day i'll able to experience that feeling

@seemranhoro1572

3 жыл бұрын

You will

@bornwithoutconsentobviously

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine knowing you never will

@marciesalkowski8139

2 жыл бұрын

I felt it once 💓🙏🏼

@angelinalovescoco

2 жыл бұрын

Have you yet?

@user-vv4ni3me5u

2 жыл бұрын

@@angelinalovescoco my best friend:)

If someone ask me this, I would probably cry.

@AnimationBoss1

5 жыл бұрын

AJAX because tottenham?

@ajaxkun

5 жыл бұрын

@@AnimationBoss1 ahahahaha would be funny if it were the case 😂😂😂😂

@s.m6336

5 жыл бұрын

just smile and the sadness is gonna fade away and do what u love

@youssebulle9012

5 жыл бұрын

I love u

@AA-bk1jr

5 жыл бұрын

Same. My life sucks now

"I met someone who feels like home." "what does home feel like?" "safe" i had chills. everything i've ever dreamed of feeling. so happy for her.

@saradeen3984

5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful💯

@ivoryandgold88

5 жыл бұрын

She's right, it took me finding the right person to realize home is not a place, it has a heartbeat.

@Dankman9

5 жыл бұрын

I met someone and it felt like that, we were together for 3 and half years and then she cheated on me and tossed me away like trash, I haven't even seen her since I found out she cheated. It's been months and I still cry every day.

@maiiouma

5 жыл бұрын

My favorite answer. It brought tears to my eyes..

@marie8191

5 жыл бұрын

@@ivoryandgold88 I just literally quoted you! That is soooo true. You just made my day!

If people asked teenagers this question more often and listened to them instead of scolding them, teenage suicide rates would fall so much.

@theaudreyfam3274

3 жыл бұрын

true…

@dontgetnotifications5598

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t tell anyone anything lol

@shilparamanaryan3652

3 жыл бұрын

Yeahh .. All they have to do is just be there and talk...

@grace_ly

3 жыл бұрын

underrated comment

@Esmeralda-gt6uf

2 жыл бұрын

If only more people cared and really listened.

That little kid waking up feeling nice and good. Hit differently man.

@adamantium4797

2 жыл бұрын

Yea...

@rosek7114

Жыл бұрын

This is what struck me too. That childlike innocence and carelessness. It's sad how much we lose of that with time.

@elaine033

9 ай бұрын

All I want is to wake up feeling nice I miss the feeling of being a kid

I would tell a stranger how I am doing much more willingly than I would tell my family or my therapist

@NicKy-eh8uv

4 жыл бұрын

So how are you doing?

@GuilhermeSilva-qg1jr

4 жыл бұрын

Wow I feel the same....idk why but its so hard for me to open up to people that are close to me....I feel vulnerable and kinda bad too....but at the same time....I feel lonely for never sharing what is really going on

@alicemornie2303

4 жыл бұрын

@@GuilhermeSilva-qg1jr How are you doing, really?

@freyao.4836

4 жыл бұрын

Sameeeee

@kinewish4017

4 жыл бұрын

Why would you tell a stranger more willingly than your therapist? The question is not meant judgemental, I really want to understand better.

"I just want to go home, lay down on the floor and scream" That actually sounds good

@Filthy.Rat.bonezz

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve done that sometimes it works sometimes I still feel like shit

@gloriasainhas7739

4 жыл бұрын

I hope that in the days that doesn't work you can find a way to feel better ✨

@alextarot

3 жыл бұрын

All my neighbours know I did it numerous times.

@gloriasainhas7739

3 жыл бұрын

@@alextarot does it work?

@alextarot

3 жыл бұрын

@@gloriasainhas7739 no it doesn't.

I miss that feeling of just being a kid 3:11

@forgetit8852

3 жыл бұрын

We all have to return to this state of being a children for whom a good thing was just waking up after a good sleep

@NipapornP

3 жыл бұрын

@@forgetit8852 *a child Honestly, I always wake up after a good sleep. Otherwise I would be dead or in coma.

@zooo7581

3 жыл бұрын

Sad...but true😐

@RmX.

3 жыл бұрын

an innocent and carefree life

@knotsocialmusic

3 жыл бұрын

@@NipapornP A kid*

If it wasn’t for Thoraya filming people extremely up close like that, we wouldn’t know how beautiful humanity really is. ❤️

@leyakurian6475

3 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭YesssssYessssss

@angiecook4016

2 жыл бұрын

Love!

@1699ArunjeetSINGH

2 жыл бұрын

True

"We saw some baby ducks that are now grown, ya know like they're getting on with life so I guess I should be able to get on.'' Bless his heart😭

@simplechicful

5 жыл бұрын

Rosalie Barvik That part made me cry. No matter the complexities of life we all draw back to the simple things and that's beautiful

@jmacsss

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I wasn't the only one that was taken back by what he said. I couldn't figure out why but I teared up.

@confidence9516

5 жыл бұрын

@@jmacsss you're never the only one

@brebytheway

5 жыл бұрын

that was such a perfect moment

@alexandraibrahim9338

5 жыл бұрын

I love what he said, it should be a quote or something. He's so smart

The most simple question with the most difficult answer

@tawneeens436

5 жыл бұрын

N M haha right?

@marinaemi9029

5 жыл бұрын

True. It requires lots of self-knowledge. Which is hard, especially when you’re not used to spending time with yourself and really taking care of yourself.

@Emma-dl2ei

5 жыл бұрын

It’s like asking what’s your favorite [ ]

@eliasbhatti6340

5 жыл бұрын

N M for real tho

@ashh0496

5 жыл бұрын

Actually quite a complicated question, but we throw it around all the time like it's not. How am I doing?! When one feels and experiences so many different things at once it's hard to even answer that honestly for myself at any given moment.

"a lot of days i just wanna go home, lay on the floor and scream :)" *i feel you.*

@JustAnotherUserx

2 жыл бұрын

shut up

@audreym3777

10 ай бұрын

As do I ❤

if someone smiles while talking about their stress, depression and sadness, watch out for them. Not when they look sad while talking about it.

@Maatbeuker

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@voxidity4679

3 жыл бұрын

underrated comment

@TataMataAkrobata

3 жыл бұрын

Watch out for them in what sense? Watch out for them as in be aware that they may be in a terrible place emotionally/mentally or as in watch out they don't smack.you with a hammer when you turn around?

@Maatbeuker

3 жыл бұрын

@@TataMataAkrobata Most people won't smack you

@voxidity4679

3 жыл бұрын

@@TataMataAkrobata watch out for them as, they are probably in a terrible place emotionally/mentally. Speaking from experience!

There was a particular comment "if i die who is going to look after my birds" I think that is a beautiful way to think. There is never an inadequate reason to be alive.

@kerplunk2100

5 жыл бұрын

I'm only living because my dog would miss me

@rainbowmoonstone7349

5 жыл бұрын

Same, I would change my mind about not living because I don't trust my family to take care of my fish.

@spacecat4364

5 жыл бұрын

😂 my reason to live is because my brother has horrible depression and is bipolar so I feel like that would be selfish of me to just make him worse 😂 that and my mom would probably be really sad

@sammmbammm7877

5 жыл бұрын

Suha Nasir I love you for saying this we need more people like you.

@rainbowmoonstone7349

5 жыл бұрын

@@sammmbammm7877 Thanks, my mom always just wants to put him (my fish) in a small bowl as decoration but I saved him from being a table centerpiece at a baby shower in the first place

Honestly "I'm fine" is the most common lie ever. How often have I asked my friends knowing there's more beneath the surface, only to be told that they're fine. Sometimes I wish I could heal people's deep wounds.

@bhaktichaudhary1797

5 жыл бұрын

Kamigon That is very beautiful that you wish you could help people heal. I am sure your friends are very blessed to have you.

@Benzyl_Penoxide

5 жыл бұрын

As an Aquarius I say that “I’m fine” a lot because of how emotionally reserved I am

@korina482

5 жыл бұрын

Kamigon, you're a wonderful creature. People around you are the luckiest. Lotsa love💖

@sefan1317

5 жыл бұрын

I feel this so much. I only want to help people but everybody is fake with their emotions because people always try to break them down.

@wiwi183

5 жыл бұрын

Tumblr 101

"I like to be alive" that made me tear up cause I want to really feel that again

@maellecrp

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@rebeccajodhiwilliams182

Жыл бұрын

I feel yoy

@j.lsaket140

Жыл бұрын

you will feel it someday. Just live your real life.

@winterblake3321

Жыл бұрын

I dont know if you'll read this, but please keep going. I was in that situation too, not so long ago. i almost had no hope, but i just.. kept going. i dont know why but i did. its all about the small little changes. try to make yourself feel better each day, dont rush it and dont take overwhelming big steps. maybe try to take a shower again, a short walk outside. if thats too much for first, its okay. then try opening the curtains just a bit more. try brushing your teeth. but just keep going. because i promise you i promise you, there is light in the end of the tunnel.

3:40 I wish she never loses her 'home'😊

“Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind, always.”

@nnatowers7574

5 жыл бұрын

Noora

@bugeye8749

5 жыл бұрын

Welcome to Life. I don’t have to be kind nor do I expect others to be. That’s not the real fkng world

@BJALGH

5 жыл бұрын

True

@emmagold8849

5 жыл бұрын

Skam ❤️

@DavidMunoz-pb9iu

5 жыл бұрын

Bug Eye nor do you have to completely neglect the idea. A little positive thinking is mutual both to the person thinking and to the person it is about

"I'm really happy, cus I met someone who feels like home." Damn

@mothomotswana7776

4 жыл бұрын

Ross Sandeman I wish to say that someday.. I have lost all hope and trust in people. I feel soo numb but i miss that feeling of fully trusting someone and making them a part of my life.. 😭

@virginianpeddler8911

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve had I think two people like that, but because I move so much and family issues on both sides, we just got out of touch. It’s the best feeling in the world.

@dwilson6125

4 жыл бұрын

How bout it ..

@ComradeDt

4 жыл бұрын

Ross Sandeman same

@yellowkaze

4 жыл бұрын

So envious

11:57 weird how she's the only one who asked the question back

@unknownhuman9766

3 жыл бұрын

True. Nice observation. People need to be more kind

@ChewFingers

3 жыл бұрын

You don't know that, though. It could be the only one that she kept in the video.

@yes7855

3 жыл бұрын

well, it's an interview, it makes sense that people wouldn't think they're supposed to ask

@kristinabliss

3 жыл бұрын

It was part of her difficulty answering.

“The world just feels so big right now... There’s so many ‘me’s that could be spread out at this point... and it’s kind of hard to choose which one i want to pursue.” YES, what a good articulation of how I feel so often, especially as I’m going into my last year of highschool...

@sean-mo9gf

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah me too I really need to decide where I wanna go and what I wanna do

"whos gonna take care of my birds and draw my drawings.. I have to do that"

@ProMrLecoq01

4 жыл бұрын

I felt so proud of her for saying all that and I hope she’s doing so much better these days!

@jessica16Lpurple

4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely loved her answer!!! And I loved that she had enough courage to reach out to her dad and be like you know what I’m not okay and the words and effort he poured into her by taking her on a walk mattered to her and stuck with her and to me that says volumes about how we need to speak up when we’re not okay and also stop whatever we are doing and pour into someone when they’re hurting. We have become so isolated it is causing a major decline in our mental health.

@tomcline5631

3 жыл бұрын

I really got that answer!! It ain't much but nobody else can do it!!!!! I loved hearing about her father helping out!!!!

3:12 i loved the childs answer.a childs innocence is such a beautiful thing. He woke up feeling nice. So precious

@evicaf4e

5 жыл бұрын

Right? I love that and then you grow up and the society show real face or you see it different and the child innocense is taken from us. But we have to stay positive and keep/hold on to inner child.

@KrissyMeow

5 жыл бұрын

It's crazy thinking and remembering a time when I just woke up without a care or worry in the world. Makes me super appreciate having a pretty good and normal childhood.

@officially.chronically.online

5 жыл бұрын

It’s good to see kids that are just...kids. And I have to agree, so pure. ♥️

@ellieboon7708

5 жыл бұрын

I know right..It made me smile to see a kid happy tbh ...so real and pure I loved it..

@LeopardGoddess

4 жыл бұрын

Wish i was still a kid

Reason for us to be more tolerant of other people: underneath the clothes and styles we portray we are all sad, scared, worried.

"I'm lonley but I have really great friends"

Lesson from this, get a reason to live, even if it's your birds

@jstdiki2886

5 жыл бұрын

I've got many reasons..."I speak for the trees"

@azeylacalaty3182

5 жыл бұрын

Okay, from this day on I will live for the chocolate bar across my room. What if I end up eating it, though?

@MedievalWaffle365

5 жыл бұрын

@@azeylacalaty3182 If you eat it, theres gonna have to be someone there to buy another one 👌

@azeylacalaty3182

5 жыл бұрын

@@MedievalWaffle365 Haha, that's actually smart but what if there's no one to buy you one?

@honeyspice4014

4 жыл бұрын

kamara ssakka mine is my dog

6:33 "I like being alive but I'm confused" Oh girl, this one hit me HARD. Great video, as always.

@OuroborosInstitute

5 жыл бұрын

Agnes yeah for sure, I’m in the same exact place right now

@Angel-fs6zl

5 жыл бұрын

SAME

@shekinamunyambu4637

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@iypie7968

5 жыл бұрын

Agnes, I’m your 1,000th like!

@hhhoneycomb

5 жыл бұрын

yes.

"how are you doing, really?" completely horrible.. I feel so numb, empty, heartbroken and all the worst things you could possibly think of. But I'll just say I'm fine...as always :)

@sadherring

3 жыл бұрын

Better days will come. Keep pushing forward even if it seems impossible. It'll be worth it.

@jenocidejoy9988

3 жыл бұрын

*internet hug* Don't worry :) Everyone's struggling right now, I'm struggling, but we'll get through it :) I hope you will get better soon

@KushQueen9

3 жыл бұрын

Feelings come and go and those feelings you describe will pass. I remind myself of this truth when I don't feel too good. Sending you love and light. ❤️

@broken_orbit7535

3 жыл бұрын

thanks guys💗

@prasiddhibadkelwar6286

3 жыл бұрын

@@broken_orbit7535 have faith We all are connected in either way dear You are loved You are beautiful You are complete

To admit pain. To admit you re feeling weak, lost or lonely is to admit you're human. We're not alone.

Can you do another “How are you doing, really?” Again? That should be a weekly or monthly video. People really need to be asked that more often

@Yumyum-yo6op

4 жыл бұрын

True 😂

@expertbyexperienceshared9903

4 жыл бұрын

You start asking

@churrymurray

4 жыл бұрын

yes, gives me comfort that I'm not the only one having a tough time much of the time. some real shit.

@Filthy.Rat.bonezz

4 жыл бұрын

Mood I want to be asked that

@hannahrodriguez9130

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

"I'm kinda feeling numb.. like I'm not getting better or getting worse" dang I feel that 😔❤

@prismathefur7736

5 жыл бұрын

Want to talk about it? :)

@JustJ-Me

5 жыл бұрын

That's where I've been for a while and like the girl said, it's not a good feeling at all.

@Dankman9

5 жыл бұрын

Ya it's weird, I've been in extreme emotional pain and distress for months and I feel like I'm becoming numb, although I still cry everyday. It seems like improvement in some ways but it sure doesn't feel like it feels better.

@mifp2498

5 жыл бұрын

Dankman9 why have u been in emotional Laib

@Dankman9

5 жыл бұрын

@@mifp2498 Long story short, my (ex)GF was cheating on me. Once I found out she just tossed me away like trash and never came home. Been struggling hard, I thought we were gonna spend our lives together, I had boughten her ring and everything. :(

Honestly, I'm depressed and stressed and scared. I'm afraid of being alone and I'm fighting my own battles. Physically life is great but I don't give myself enough credit, I over think everything, stress things I shouldn't and I try to make everyone BUT myself happy. I'm insecure about my body and face and its just hard...I'm trying though...

@miguelroberts-vallejo7819

20 күн бұрын

just keep trucking along, life is hard and we all face struggles. but you will overcome any obstacle as long as you push on. You got this, me and 40 others can relate since we liked your comment. your voice is heard! much love and hope the best for you. we are all in this together!

I wanna hug everyone in this video so bad.

@JustAnotherUserx

2 жыл бұрын

dont care

@wietsehellinx559

2 жыл бұрын

@@JustAnotherUserx What?

@JustAnotherUserx

2 жыл бұрын

u heard me

@wietsehellinx559

2 жыл бұрын

@@JustAnotherUserx But what do you mean

@JustAnotherUserx

2 жыл бұрын

what i just aaid

You can see this sadness and pain in some faces :\

@tsetsenbatbadamdorj3537

5 жыл бұрын

it's unfortunate that most people don't see it until it's brought to their attention.

@siriolsen7805

5 жыл бұрын

If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

@yarnoboskkkk

5 жыл бұрын

True, that really hurts

@cyndih8680

4 жыл бұрын

Mini mimi kindred vibes

It’s amazing how so many of these people all say “I’m good” until they’re really asked how they’re doing. *We’re all struggling.*

@Jobe-13

5 жыл бұрын

Oh Hi ikr

@yourgirlsarah1868

5 жыл бұрын

Oh Hi true and it’s honestly sad

@sven1780

5 жыл бұрын

That’s so true, we are all struggling.

@DVZM.

5 жыл бұрын

Not everyone is struggling.

@yourgirlsarah1868

5 жыл бұрын

DVSM yes , everyone is struggling , you would be lying is you say not so.

Me: living my life. Someone: asks how I'm doing Me: crying.

@MsAnchovey

3 жыл бұрын

Why? Are things better now?

@Esmeralda-gt6uf

2 жыл бұрын

First time I cried was in 2015 and I felt so very ashamed of myself for that. I also remembered at the same time how my abusive father would often say to me, "Stop feeling for yourself! You're selfish! Think about your poor sisters!" I have learned that there is nothing shameful about crying and that the reason we have tear ducts is so we can cry and release what hurts us.

If I was asked this question I know I wouldn’t be able to speak. This world June of 2020 is a horrible place to be

@GT-xp6bx

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you. We are thankful for being alive and deadly scared at the same time

@tomasenzl3545

3 жыл бұрын

dont worry girls!! it will be okay soon! I wish you good luck and keep smile on your face :) btw. at least - it will be July and not the June tommorow ;-)

@morynejelimo3574

3 жыл бұрын

Me too it's July feeling so low kind of don't know what to do....

@tomasenzl3545

3 жыл бұрын

is it better, girls? :)

@tomasenzl3545

3 жыл бұрын

how are you girls now? is it good? or at least better? tell me (us) it, I really want to know it, if you are good, trust me :)

I wanna help the first girl so bad...

@siriolsen7805

5 жыл бұрын

If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

@ronanroowyz2790

5 жыл бұрын

I wanna help her too.

@lastchance1101

5 жыл бұрын

siri olseon thank you

@emilywells7415

5 жыл бұрын

I couldn't tell if she had depression?

@catalinacarvajal5614

5 жыл бұрын

so heartbreaking

Older people: The new generation has it so easy!! This generation: Depressed,socially anxious,anorexic,anxious in general,empty,numb,fake smiles,etc. Edit: How the flippin' waffles did I get so many likes for something unoriginal?!?!?! (My way of saying thanks!) Edit 2: Okay,now I'm starting to think KZread is drunk.

@nasaspacerock3398

4 жыл бұрын

In all honesty, I haven't met many older people who say that. People from both generations have their own issues that they're dealing with.

@enzo8331

4 жыл бұрын

@@nasaspacerock3398 I agree but I posted it cuz I'm unoriginal.

@nasaspacerock3398

4 жыл бұрын

@@enzo8331 points for honesty lmao

@enzo8331

4 жыл бұрын

@@nasaspacerock3398 Thanks!lulz.

@sugarplum222

4 жыл бұрын

“it’s those damn pesky iphones isn’t it” debra for the love of fuck my phone is the only source of happiness for me

the fact that all these people are strangers proves that you should always be kind for you never know what the other person is going through

I understand how the young lady who feels numb perfectly. Not getting worse, but not getting better either. These videos are the first things I watch in the mornings and they do positively affect how the rest of my day goes. It's better to cry happy tears that painful tears. Love you all. Be kind. ❤🥰

@soniashahi6506

3 жыл бұрын

yeah ,me too it's a real awaking not from dream, but from life

I need this. I’m tiered of answering “good” when someone asks how am I.

@dragonfairy22

5 жыл бұрын

Move to Finland 😀 People here ask "how are you doing" only when they want the real answer, and when the question is asked, people give the real answer. Finns mean what they say, with other things too. I'm moving to the US to live with my boyfriend, and I hope some day I will get used to your culture of communicating. It makes me a lil nervous 😳

@crusaderofthelowlands3750

5 жыл бұрын

It's just small talk. They don't really care, so please don't start telling them your life story.

@dragonfairy22

5 жыл бұрын

@@crusaderofthelowlands3750 Surely people ask their friends at least how they are really doing? What is friendship without real sharing?

@davidparkinson6372

5 жыл бұрын

They don't ask how I am nobody does

@hobiisajellyfishcuzhegotno2783

5 жыл бұрын

@@crusaderofthelowlands3750 fuck off

“I met somebody that feels like home” I feel that. I know that feeling.

@Mzmissy215

5 жыл бұрын

Same, sucks when things don't work out w that person, like u feel lost again

@bugeye8749

5 жыл бұрын

Never lasts lol. Pathetic how desperate weak humans are 🤮

@MidnightSonnet

5 жыл бұрын

@@bugeye8749 I'm sorry you've been hurt so badly

@maneskinnnnn7190

5 жыл бұрын

@@MidnightSonnet never place your happiness in someone elses hands..because if you are happy only because of someone else that is not real happiness, and when they leave they will take your happiness with them.

@soIveii

5 жыл бұрын

I hope i'm gonna know that feeling too, one day

This video tells us why we have to be just nice to others, we really don’t know what they’re going through!

@soggysocks809

3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment. If i would tell the whole world one thing it would be this

I swear I'd cry if I was asked this. Not the usual "how r doing?" Where I don't really get to be honest because I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time. These videos inspire me and help me become a much better and kinder person. Thank you

"i just wanna go home, lay on my floor and scream. that is how i'm doing" that hit me so hard..

@DS-uo1zy

5 жыл бұрын

I don't wanna scream though. Im not angry at anything just tired and empty inside

@entertainmentprime101

5 жыл бұрын

Thats soo me

It's interesting how the kid in this video talks about how he feels on that day and time; shows how children live more in the moment.

@KayKayBayForever

4 жыл бұрын

Yo Lo Yes! Good point. Didn’t even realize that till I read your comment.

@teodoralovin5797

4 жыл бұрын

I wish I could not have to worry about the next five years too :(

@raydaveed

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but they are kids, no jobs, no things to take care of or worry about. So...

@tahera1320

4 жыл бұрын

@@raydaveed it depends what age group you consider kids.

@raydaveed

4 жыл бұрын

@@tahera1320 Below 14 yo for me they are kids. After that teenagers etc...

“Sometimes you gotta give yourself credit for the things you have accomplished”. This is so spot on. She’s wise. We should all take that seriously. We can often focus on what we don’t have or what we haven’t accomplished, when we should take time to appreciate what we have and what we’ve already accomplished.

I am struggling with a meth addiction, getting ready to divorce my emotionally/mentally abusive husband of 35 years, 65 with crippling sciatica, working in a physically and mentally challenging low-paying job which hardly pays the bills, in a tenuous relationship with my family, have not been able to connect with people who I can trust, dealing with rape trauma, and wondering how the hell I got to this point in my life. I pray every day that God will give me a path out of this mess and bring me to a place of peace and joy. I teeter every day between slight hopefulness and despair. I blame no one but myself for my situation but I hope that despite any ways I may screw up, there’s something better coming for me. These videos have helped because I was finding it hard to believe in anything good existing without a nasty twist. I hope and pray that all the people in these interviews are finding what they need and want. We all deserve love and second chances.

@monagill6282

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong. I have you in my thoughts.

@jhanimalluvr5932

2 жыл бұрын

@@monagill6282 thanks!

"I'm scared that I have to work from 9 am to 5 pm for the rest of my life and not do anything I want... I want to figure out how to set myself long term to be happy" Damn... This is tough and might be (probably), the main root cause of depression nowadays.

@hibye-by3yb

4 жыл бұрын

this hits super hard for me, because seeing my parents and people these days it just seems like at my age (early 20s) noone really knows where they're going or what they should do to be happy. I'm graduating in a couple weeks and i'm terrified thinking about where to go and what to do.

@350zay2

4 жыл бұрын

@@hibye-by3yb it's okay not to know where you are going because it takes work experience and a time to self reflect to discover who you are. Be humble, talk to different people, get out of your comfort zone and when you are stressed out take a moment to find peace.

@hibye-by3yb

4 жыл бұрын

@@350zay2 that's very reassuring, my classmates from highschool all seem stuck. We're all not able to move on except for the few who have their life together which makes us super anxious. Guess we all need to take a step back and go at our own pace because this is our first life. Thanks older person, I was in a mood rn, but you made it better

@erikandersson1972

4 жыл бұрын

I had these feeling when in university and in my early career. I think something that people could benefit from realizing is that working 9 to 5 isn't going to stop you from living a purposeful life. For me it's almost the opposite. Having a stable work situation enabled me to do MUCH more with the time outside of my "9 to 5".

@jahmathes221

3 жыл бұрын

I work 8pm to 11am on a baitfish boat pulling nets lol dont be too sad

if i was asked that question in person, i would probably bawl my eyes out...

@jazspinnell97

5 жыл бұрын

Play piano 💜

@vikamat1335

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@Burek_so_sirenje

5 жыл бұрын

MiriamPlaysPiano me too and I would talk for 10 hours😂

@idkimtimea5680

5 жыл бұрын

Me too 😔

@carolinadelgado349

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

The way the world works in favor of the rich; leaving most people stressed and depressed. I mean, it’s sad really.

i’m surprised a lot of people actually shared how they’re really doing

WoW mental health needs to be taken so much more serious. Its a real big issue these days😢

@artofmghow6419

5 жыл бұрын

Very good comment.

@OuroborosInstitute

5 жыл бұрын

Not Bothered it’s been such a big issue forever, but I’m sooooo glad that creators like her are bringing to the forefront, it really makes me so happy. When we can bring it to light and talk about it, healing can begin. ☺️

@summerdawn6777

4 жыл бұрын

It's not a mental issue. It's lack of Light in the world

@lojfiojo4725

4 жыл бұрын

Ouroboros Institute i don’t think it’s ALWAYS been such a big issue , I think since Today we’re alreay so technologically advanced and we’re so DISCONNECTED from nature we lose a sense of purpose AND this leads to confusion and depression. Its a common problem nowadays especially in first world countries.

@joycenesselhauf1220

4 жыл бұрын

Not Bothered If people would get outside of their own little neurotic bubble and off of effn Snapchat and Facebook and Twitter and stop subjecting themselves to criticism and hatred, many would be a lot happier. Everyone is into instant gratification and everything is supposed to come to you without working for it. Blows my mind.

I know 99% of people won’t see this... But to the 1% have an amazing day! 👍

@sina9624

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks! You too :)

@markafram5286

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@lilleenelson7357

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Pratyushz

5 жыл бұрын

ty :) you too

@vijetharao98

5 жыл бұрын

Ty, u too :)

It‘s really sad to see that there is literally no one who can say 'I‘m happy‘ with everything that is going on. Everyone is suffering, in any kind of way. That is really sad to know. You go out there and you know that like everyone is suffering somehow. We should care about ourselves more.

The guy who ate something bad but still felt hungry and looked forward to sleeping is the realest person in the video

The "how are you doing, really?" should be a series - I can't get enough of hearing what everybody has to say to this question.

@artofmghow6419

5 жыл бұрын

I agree, Cassidy. This makes me feel more welcome in the human world.

@albertofiorentini6594

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@EridanP

5 жыл бұрын

There's a podcast with guests basically based on this question.

@albertofiorentini6594

5 жыл бұрын

@@EridanP drop the name sis

@EridanP

5 жыл бұрын

@@albertofiorentini6594 It's called Terrible Thanks For Asking (ttfa) There's even an episode called "How are you?"

"Good" "I am having a nice day and I woke up feeling nice." "Good." The way this precious child said those words. Awww, I wish I could shield her from every thing terrible the world has to offer until she is a mentally and emotional stable adult.

@ahmedbenhariz8694

5 жыл бұрын

How the fuck dare you assume that child's gender you racist facist sexist bigot.

@rwinkler4321

5 жыл бұрын

Well I guess you can't be an emotionally stable adult without being exposed to the world though right? :)

@biexyz3928

5 жыл бұрын

Ahmed Benhariz calm down, it's not a big deal

@siriolsen7805

5 жыл бұрын

If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

@ezrawolicki6526

5 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure it was a boy...

Hey you scrolling through the comments...are you okay? Remember that I love you ❤

@lenia-jeannemila8487

3 жыл бұрын

I love you too😊❤️. I'm doing okay, just have a few things I need to work on.

@richiedebosspoptarts3583

3 жыл бұрын

Then she finds out a registered sex offender commented

@tesstefera6334

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

@pinxi

3 жыл бұрын

@@richiedebosspoptarts3583 HAHAHA

@joshna1817

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

The fact that people ask themselves how they are doing after you asked them, and don't know the answer, really hits me.

the guy talking about baby ducks is so pure. also, that happy kid saying they woke up feeling good is amazing to hear.

@ComedyGlor

8 ай бұрын

i really felt what he was saying. It's overwhelming tryna pick which "me" to be

*me:* watching memes and laughing *youtube:* i'm gonna have to stop you right there

@ghy9rc754

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ProMrLecoq01

4 жыл бұрын

I loled

@raydaveed

4 жыл бұрын

@@alyibrahim Nobody said otherwise though... Lol

@sidharthhpc3241

4 жыл бұрын

Relateable

@themyscirachstk

4 жыл бұрын

KZread: " Go ahead and log off for me"

7:48 "Who's gonna keep drawing my art? I have to do that" Haha I love it. No one is replaceable

@ifiwsaflowridbearose

3 жыл бұрын

That is the best mindset to have as an artist!

"Sometimes.. you don't give yourself enough credit for the things you have accomplished" Wow that hit hard..

Video hasn’t even started, but just reading the title made me cry

@machigiceb7788

4 жыл бұрын

same

@whyyousotriggered6050

4 жыл бұрын

I was ugly crying. I would never be able to be asked this type of question. Id have a whole breakdown in public

@kavitarawat7862

4 жыл бұрын

Feel you bruh...

@kavitarawat7862

4 жыл бұрын

Feel you bruh....

@tshimangadzomavhungu3563

4 жыл бұрын

That's me

if you ever interview me for this you better NOT zoom in on my face lol

@vanessam7159

5 жыл бұрын

Lol, same! It’s much too zoomed in

@Dani-tq5qf

5 жыл бұрын

Or just dont appear in the vid at all lol

@matt_spencer_photos4102

4 жыл бұрын

Zooming in on the face like that cuts out everything and let's you focus on the people talking and the raw emotion in their facial expressions.

@whatevercomewithit

4 жыл бұрын

lmaoooo

"im not getting better but im not getting worse" it is a very frustrating feeling

@ethanmichael17

3 жыл бұрын

Felt that. It's just kind of being in a limbo, or suspension where it's almost nothing.

'I'm not getting better but I'm not getting worse' I feel that with my whole heart 💜

When that girl said, "if I die who's gonna take care of my birds?" I lost it.

You should do a video called “answer the question you want me to ask”

@callmekrayy

5 жыл бұрын

That's good!

@makhloufbannoud644

5 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@curoseba5363

4 жыл бұрын

That's brilliant!

@matthewmurray2561

4 жыл бұрын

yes!! this!!

@rebelwarrior8444

4 жыл бұрын

I love that idea.

This makes me so sad that so many people are having a hard time but also comforts me in a way. Just to know that I’m not the only one struggling. I wish people would ask this more and also answer more honestlyx

I actually ask every single person i know “how are you really?” genuinely

«We saw some baby ducks that grew all up and if they’re gettin on with life I guess I should to»

@artofmghow6419

5 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@AP-jz1eh

5 жыл бұрын

that dude is deep lol

Am I the only one who has mastered a fake smile but when I get 'home' it goes away? 🙃

@cherrylane6751

4 жыл бұрын

Yep that's me. Xx

@casparbosch5615

4 жыл бұрын

I just put it on when I get "home"

@tsharlye2924

4 жыл бұрын

Same here... doing it every single day, stay strog tho' everything passes

@sarahismail6850

4 жыл бұрын

You're not alone.

@michaelhill56

4 жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. My life feels like the line in that old song, "The tears of a clown when there's no one around". I put on a happy face to show the world but I'm dieing inside and don't want to show the pain.

This video would be on a whole other level if it was made this year. I personally almost cried just by reading the title of the video.

@seemranhoro1572

3 жыл бұрын

❤

No one’s ever asked me how I’m doing really. No one’s ever asked me how I’m doing. But I’ll survive. We’ll survive

@hotmessmissy

4 жыл бұрын

How are you doing? I honestly hipe you have several reasons to smile each day

@significantinsignificance5348

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. And I’m doing okay. I’m a fortunate person with a fortunate life. Plenty would love to be in my shoes, however, for me happiness is based on more than just materials. I am somewhat happy, don’t get me wrong, But I’ve had to leave many people behind and many have left me. So I’m just trying to find someone who’ll love and care for me, as I do for them. But patience is key, and I’ll be alright. I’ll find that true happiness. Thank you again for asking. And how are you?

@njokipertet8696

4 жыл бұрын

@the burritø gone incognitø I am sending a whole lot of love and hugs your way .

@here.and.there.x

4 жыл бұрын

hey hey hey, I want to intervene and say that you are all loved and all will be well. maybe better than now. just .... be positive and you will attract positivity, be good and you will attract the good .. no one is alone in this world. absolutely no one. and surely for each of us, someone will appear and take our heart into their hands, and then ... then we will heal ourselves completely. then we will remember the things for which we ask today. you have patience, everything comes from itself. allow things to come exactly as they were written. I love you all and hope you have a better life as the day goes on !!!💕💕💕

@Arcaryon

4 жыл бұрын

And maybe one day, triumph. If we put in the work, we won't even have to believe in it.

i wouldve bursted into tears the second i was asked this question, oh my

@apple1777

5 жыл бұрын

Sameeee

@Dankman9

5 жыл бұрын

/hugs me 2

@meikeborst8259

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you

@purplepixi18

4 жыл бұрын

Omg same

@TehBluPanda

4 жыл бұрын

*sigh* same, friend

Stumbled on this page during a rough patch. It brought me so much hope, sadness, and joy. Thank you for all of these feelings and everyone who shared.

I always come back to this video when I’m stressed, knowing people deep down people are having struggles. I can relate so much to them. I hope life is better for all of them❤️. On a side note, I think with times we are going through right now, I think we need another one of these videos.

hello to the people reading this, i really hope you are doing great, you deserve it.

@lolasart3408

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks, you too

@kw6724

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much...I hope you’re doing amazing and continue to grow & live out your dreams! You, too, deserves it ❤️

@anamsoulwork

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💜 you too

@harley4841

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, same for you girl! ❤️❤️

@bi-lociraptor6044

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I needed this. I hope you are doing great too, you deserve it as well!

Everyone: talking about their problems This guy 10:21: doing a reflection about what he ate for lunch

@clarenceclarence9529

4 жыл бұрын

He’s like a lower pitched Griffin McElroy

@jengum2803

4 жыл бұрын

iTs dInNeR TiMe

@tabea9691

4 жыл бұрын

Such a mood

@IwasBlueb4

4 жыл бұрын

Hes not reflecting on what he ate, but rather sharing something that bothers him....It obviously concerns him....He may well have an stomach ulcer, or Esophogitis ...which would cause him digestive problems and also give him a gnawing sensation , in his stomach, as the acids build up ....When he eats , it will usually calm the pain and gnawing in his stomach.....but a few hours later, he will get indigestion .....So, poor guy.... He needs to take an alcaline remedy and Magnesium ...

@cassimauro1991

4 жыл бұрын

He may be in a dissociative state, or someone who has Alexithymia. He looked like he was really trying to describe emotions... but came up with the description of hunger. That's not really an answer to "how are you doing?" It is hard for some people to answer this question truthfully in general also.

Honestly I don’t remember what it is like to feel happy

This is the most human thing I have ever seen, on any platform. Thank you for putting this together.

„There are so many alternative me‘s that could spread out from this point“ dude that hit me🤯

With work and school stress I just wanna go home and lay on the floor and scream that is so relatable.

@kallenssumague4390

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@annekefaridabellydance6020

5 жыл бұрын

I am there too.. the exhaustion is real but I'm recovering.

@tinaleeth2707

5 жыл бұрын

I wonder if that was his child in the background.. crying as if on queue

@saltylemon8203

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you...

This episode really resonated with me. All too often when asked "how are you?" my quick response is always "im okay" in fear of people not really wanting to hear the long version. So far, no one has asked for an in depth response or questioned if i'm really "okay". It's easy for me to pretend & put a smile on like everything is great, but on the inside, my mind is at war fighting a battle i'm struggling to win sometimes. I strive to provide that space to so many, but I often feel that falls short for myself. This video inspires me to create a vlog on my page to bring to light what i'm truly feeling. I hope we can all bring to light the importance of mental health & how normal it is to be able to express our true emotions without judgement.

@ifiwsaflowridbearose

3 жыл бұрын

Thats actually kinda funny.. I used to be this same way. Untill I hit a certain point and I just started asking them "do you want to know how I actually feel or do you just want to hear that im fine?". At this point.. If they answer that they don't want to hear than I just generally stop talking to them, even co workers. I'll avoid them purposely. Somebody truly want to hear how you feel and some don't. That's just reality, sadly.

I love how beautiful all people are, especially when being true and honest!

@marvjamali343

3 жыл бұрын

yeah so real

10:21 This Man is so funny. How he talked about that his stomach doesn’t agree with what he was eating but starting to be hungry again and that feels weird. 😂😂

@musicmuse3401

5 жыл бұрын

Looking forward to sleeping, too! Yaasss😊😊❤

@siriolsen7805

5 жыл бұрын

If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

@Victoria-gv3qh

5 жыл бұрын

Actually I feel his pain because you can have chronic illnesses and not be diagnosed yet, so he might not know yet that he has a health issue - I know exactly what he's talking about and digestion problems and pains are so awful which isn't really that funny. Just saying

@jackimoon8284

5 жыл бұрын

I think he’s lactose intolerant and he doesn’t know it yet

@maddied1889

5 жыл бұрын

Heartmindandsoul_ FR I WAS DYINGGG

This was very eye-opening at how much everyone else is suffering too cuz sometimes it feels like you’re alone.

I just found your videos and you made my heart feel so much peace towards people as a society. On social media you find so many horrible things that a certain part of your mentality starts to change and you start to see double intentions in everyone even if there are none. This makes me feel close to the rest of the people in the world, everyone lives their own story and goes through their own afflictions, but we all live in our own bubbles and ignore that there is so much beyond ourselves that we can learn from each other.

I really appreciated this video. I was taught at a very early age to appreciate my personal situation in life and to count my blessings daily. Which has worked very well for me over the past 52 years. However, I have also learned that while that works for me and keeps me grounded in my own happy place. Others are not so fortunate and that it is my duty as a fellow human being to be acutely aware that those around me may not be as blessed. I strive to be a blessing to those around me through positivity and listening. Just treating those around me with respect and kindness is in itself something that each of us craves. If someone wants to share their struggle with you, listen. It does not necessarily mean you are part of the problem. But it could mean that you were the person who shared their burden in that moment of time. I could go on and on with words that support the philosophy of we should treat others as we wish to be treated. But I will stop here and leave you with this quote "I once cried because I had no shoes. But then met a man with no feet."