How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money
Rachel, Kyle, Ashley and Yair are two married couples in a non-monogamous relationship. They share a house, car, dog, cat, partners and finances. They also have plans to have children together.
Obstacles they've faced having to do with rights and benefits as four partners have prompted them to meet with a lawyer to get divorced from one another and create a co-habitation agreement.
Watch this video to learn how they manage finances in their non-traditional relationship.
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How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money
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Are we at the point that you need 4 people with normal jobs to afford a house
@lynwilson9259
Жыл бұрын
The truth of this comment though..😆😆
@ebonydarknessdementiaraven204
4 ай бұрын
Yes
@CurvaLish
2 ай бұрын
Bruh! 😂
@FriesLIVE
2 ай бұрын
Yes.
@kbanghart
Ай бұрын
@@FriesLIVE good. More excuse to sleep around 😁
I would love to see a follow-up story 1-3 years from now.
@stoonookw
Жыл бұрын
I mean a lot of relationships don’t work 1-3 years later
@whiteyobanion1104
Жыл бұрын
They'll all be dying of STDs.
@hotshotx1598
Жыл бұрын
They'll still be together and you'll still be alone, most likely.
@lorrainea.285
Жыл бұрын
That will most likely be on “Snapped” or “Crime ID”🤨
@nazapadu02
Жыл бұрын
the beta guy leaves
Kyle looks like a hostage for 70% of this video
@gb5007
Жыл бұрын
Kyle is clearly submissive to the other man who does all the talking for him...
@shannongreen1520
Жыл бұрын
Evan Ward :In my Neal Brennan voice..My name is Kyle..I am ok...Tell my family that I love them....Send the ransom money...😆😆😆
@Finite8614
Жыл бұрын
"Hey I'm Kyle and this is my wife's boyfriend Yair"
@Talkwithtina808
Жыл бұрын
😩
@user-uq7qp2bx7y
7 күн бұрын
You’d have to be a hostage to agree with this nonsense… Looks like Stockholm Syndrome to me…
Whoever is paying down the mortgage without owning it is getting scammed 😂
@Tmoises58
Жыл бұрын
I laughed harder than I should have. This is why I live alone
@llcross04
Жыл бұрын
The non owners should pay cheap rent. A win win for everyone
@beatricerights
Жыл бұрын
It's called rent. They are tenants
@TheCreoleSon89
Жыл бұрын
Courts won’t help with this situation either lol
@PraisePelumi
Жыл бұрын
@@beatricerights they’re not just tenants 😂 imagine paying down your partners mortgage and your name isn’t even on the title
Rachel is clearly the main man and boss in this four-way relationship / household ...
@Dr.HouseMD
Жыл бұрын
Its pretty bananas that a person can go off her meds for just a few months and accomplish this much in two years.
@savvyw5891
Жыл бұрын
Yet she is wearing a collar. So . . . Is she?
@jnspincliffe2
Жыл бұрын
You don’t have to use ‘man’ to describe her taking the lead
@beatricerights
Жыл бұрын
@@savvyw5891 Lmao
@lineage13
Жыл бұрын
She's got two husbands and a wife and she owns the house which is in her name, while they pay her mortgage haha
Just register a company and consentually smash as co-workers. Get tax benefits, and discounts on insurance and good credit. It doesn't have to be this complicated. Unless...
@N0Xa880iUL
Жыл бұрын
Go on
@UserName-iq7uu
Жыл бұрын
Lmfao 🤣
@eligreg99
Жыл бұрын
Hey you might be on to something….
@beatricerights
Жыл бұрын
Lmao, genius. They should hire you.
@holdencawffle626
Жыл бұрын
Pls yes, go on
I can’t imagine how much more complicated life is having three partners . Having one partner is already complicated enough.
@kayleighshuler9758
Жыл бұрын
Try shifting your focus and imagine how much love and support you might have!
@ghastlycandle
Жыл бұрын
I feel like a relationship with multiple people works better with an even number of people compared to say 3 people (I'm not polyamorous so I could be wrong, but that's my guess). I think as long as there's everyone's communicating and everyone's on the same page and consenting I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know if I personally could do this, but it's not my place to judge others on their relationships if they're okay with it. I know some people will use the scenario of Person A and Person B leaving Person C for each other and to that I'd say that I think it depends on how they go about it (cause not every relationship lasts, sometimes people fall out of love and that's okay), if A and B explained to C the situation and why they feel what they feel, then that's better than just running away from C or keeping it a secret
@N0Xa880iUL
Жыл бұрын
@@ghastlycandle Ah yes, maths.
@hotshotx1598
Жыл бұрын
🌠 Unhealthy Relationship Quotes 🌠
@jk-gn2fu
Жыл бұрын
@@yukijames1321 You got bored because you smash the same partner everyday. If you have two partners and switch between those two, it feels new everyday!
Kyle, blink twice if you need rescuing. These people are running all over you !
@corinneblair8795
Жыл бұрын
Or subtly raise you hand 🙋♂️🤚!! We’re here for you Kyle!! Platonically, of course! 😉
@moxiejones7582
Жыл бұрын
😅
@naturalbeauty_abena1230
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@michaeljohnson6752
Жыл бұрын
Glad I ain’t the only one. He’s getting the short end of the stick 🥲
@Detroitmamma
Жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂
This all happened during the pandemic? So, in two and half years they met, moved in, joined finances, are getting divorces, and hired a lawyer to work out their relationship? Why the rush? I still haven't figured out how to make bread.
@brynnwalk4390
Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly 😂. I thought I heard the timeframe wrong.
@TheErmerm999
Жыл бұрын
I am here to check on your lockdown sour dough starter...
@henkaistudio
Жыл бұрын
@@TheErmerm999 Polygamous Foursome relationships are very rare because you see two women and two men in altogether in this relationship.
@carmagurl317
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
Did I miss it or do Kyle and Yair not interact much? It seems to be the Rachel show.
How to make your life way more complicated.
@carolinestanczuk
Жыл бұрын
How to be happy. It's makes them happy and our systems do t support anything else than man and woman relationship and that is sad. They care about each other and not hurting anyone in process so... Why are we care it's nothing to us to judge them! We may or may not agree with that way of life but should not disseminate :)
@pouroverfinance
Жыл бұрын
@@carolinestanczuk she simply stated a fact, this lifestyle choice is very complicated. The video did very little to highlight finances, it was literally a video about their complications as a foursome.
@N0Xa880iUL
Жыл бұрын
@@carolinestanczuk Average polyamory enjoyer
@stoonookw
Жыл бұрын
Yoooo why is there so much hate here? Y’all are robots LOL
@user-gb5ff7gj1m
Жыл бұрын
Not to be judgmental, but one partner already complicates life... two more partners... I can’t even imagine ... not even talking about kids later in their relationship
Let’s see…Rachel is the ring leader Yair often has the power struggle with her, but usually just falls as second in command Kyle is the silent yes man and just goes with whatever they all say Ashley is just happy to be included
@boba5559
Жыл бұрын
Spot on!!! You could be a forensic scientist 😂
@shinji1264
Жыл бұрын
Rachel is glad she gets to take advantage of this man and his wife at the same time 😂
@ThePeanutGiant
Жыл бұрын
Silent man is the simp and is bottom of bottom.
@mikehawk9810
Жыл бұрын
Yeh.... the two women are into each other and the betas follow along because they have no idea how to lead.
they're worried about not all of them getting credit card benefits but casually glance over the fact that the home is only in 2 of their names yet they split it equally! meaning the other 2 have no legal claim to the equity
@borderlinenocturnal6195
Жыл бұрын
Yea because the law is created to only accommodate monogamous relationships. Did you not hear them? They’re literally trying their hardest to get all four of them rights as a four-way-relationship.
@hollynonya6991
4 ай бұрын
@@borderlinenocturnal6195 that's because monogamy is the norm for human adults It's called pair bonding
@sd7785
26 күн бұрын
@@hollynonya6991For the zast majority of human history, polygamy was the norm. Monogamy is a very recent development
@hollynonya6991
26 күн бұрын
@@sd7785 men spending their seed? Yeah 😂 Not women however But we're talking about NOW Presentism, Google it
I wasn't expecting their financial situation to be as complicated as it is.
@denoosoo
Жыл бұрын
rocket power 😎
@narutofan4545
8 ай бұрын
@@denoosoohuh
@marisabeltran3084
8 ай бұрын
For you it’s complicated.
I'm more shocked at how they share finances than the type of relationship they are in (their choice). I have so many questions like, "does everyone put in the same amount and get to keep whatever is leftover in a personal account?" I've only ever seen dysfunctional polygamous relationships and money is kept separately.
@greyrock9747
Жыл бұрын
I'm poly and I'd say I've seen less dysfunctional than in monogamous relationships.
@vicconstruction9126
Жыл бұрын
@@greyrock9747 Lol. You have so much to learn. Good luck.
@greyrock9747
Жыл бұрын
@@vicconstruction9126 You have confused being overconfident and condescending with intellect. Easy mistake. I bet you never even been in a poly relationship and you are speaking from ignorance.
@richardprice5978
Жыл бұрын
one way is i make the $$ ( im okay with them working but me/primarily-income and kids come's 1st priority's so as a example 1 is full time and 1 is homemaker or both are 20hours at work the rest of the time is homemaking ect ) and the bi wife's allocate it like congress/parliamentary does aka one big happy account and something squirrelled a side for my car/racing hobbies that there ok with my spending aka like the uk king as yep he can do anything he'd like but parliament can stop him by not funding it
@kbanghart
Ай бұрын
@@vicconstruction9126 monogamy is successful?
I wish them well, they seem happy. Personally I would never want to share finances like that! It's difficult for two people to disentangle their finances when they separate, this seems even more complicated (potentially).
@AG-en5y
Жыл бұрын
Sharing finances is your main concern? Brah
@Jaime-eg4eb
Жыл бұрын
@@AG-en5y Yep, they seem happy and who am I to tell them that my life choices are better? If anything, in a nihilistic disconnected world they seem to have something special going on.
@shinji1264
Жыл бұрын
@@Jaime-eg4eb I'm a practice nihilism to some extent and what they got going on is doomed for failure.
@Jaime-eg4eb
Жыл бұрын
@@shinji1264 I think you are probably right, but if we only valued relationships that weren't doomed in some way we'd all be pretty lonely haha. I see some good in this one, for sure.
@ghastlycandle
Жыл бұрын
@@Jaime-eg4eb I agree, I think it's interesting how a lot of people who haven't been in this kind of relationship dynamic automatically assume that a poly relationship won't work out in the long run. Not every relationship lasts obviously, but how can we know when something will or won't work based on a 10-min clip that shows a brief segment of others' lives? I think most see polyamory with "infidelity" glasses, I don't think they see it as a relationship where people are happy being with each other but rather people who are "incapable of choosing" or "like to cheat" or "like to sleep around". Just like any other relationship, if everyone is communicating, consenting, all on the same page, then what's the issue? They're grown adults who are okay with this relationship dynamic, no one seems to be getting hurt, who are we to judge them?
They should’ve just kept their account separates and had 1 account for the bills. Transferring money over is less complicated!
@ariels2730
Жыл бұрын
I agree. That's how my polycule does it.
@ScottDDavisMusic
Жыл бұрын
That seems simpler to me as well.
This is Rachel's show, everyone else is just living in her fantasy. 🤡
@inko123
Жыл бұрын
💯
@letsgetjackdup9952
Жыл бұрын
Rachel and Yaier... you see that connection is strong there. The other two are just there
Graham is going to have fun with this one
@ManifestwithMary
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@donnyjay4269
Жыл бұрын
For sure..I’m looking forward to his take 😂
@Veerow2005
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Devinn504
Жыл бұрын
😂
@uiucchemistry2664
Жыл бұрын
Same, can’t wait to see his reaction video! This is so messed-up and will likely end up in flames lol
This just seems like a solution for Rachel to justify her affair with Yair...
@AJ-jw6yp
Жыл бұрын
That's what I thought too!! I don't see this ending well at all
@jessevilla9948
Жыл бұрын
Or perhaps it’s possible for people to happily live outside of social norms.
@MisterMellyC
Жыл бұрын
Right???
@lilbrova
Жыл бұрын
Looool thank you!!! 🤣🤣 All this long story.. it's so obvious
@lalakuma9
Жыл бұрын
and with Ashley?
This could get more complicated if Rachel decides she wants to bring another couple into the mix. She has to figure out a different sleep arrangement. GO RACHEL!!
@cabinfeverremedy5636
Жыл бұрын
🤣
I love how free and honest they are to live their truth. It might not be for everyone but they do what makes them happy.
The therapist runs this "relationship". Her entire mannerism says it all.
@saidzid3379
10 ай бұрын
Way to go! 👏
@RaiiiL
4 ай бұрын
Imagine having a Relationship Therapist in a Polyamorous Foursome xD Succes guaranteed
It's hard just to find one partner while these people managed to find more than one. Unbelievable
@chioma_u
Жыл бұрын
😭🤣😭🤣
@elisakrivas
Жыл бұрын
I don't understand this problem, really.
@hotshotx1598
Жыл бұрын
Cause they actually have a degrees of selflessness, unlike you and most other lonely people. ;)
@fi-train8961
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mikehawk9810
Жыл бұрын
No they didn't. The red head is into the brunett. The hubbys are tagging along because they have no choice or balls
Yeah, Graham Stephen is not reacting to this one.
@tonix8470
Жыл бұрын
lol
This is definitely not going to end horribly 😅
@shinji1264
Жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂🤪🤪
@hotshotx1598
Жыл бұрын
Can't end any worse than those monogamous relationships that end in murder due to infidelity....
@kelechiezealaji4202
Жыл бұрын
@@hotshotx1598 double the people, double the murder lol
@jellybellyfun3288
Жыл бұрын
Not??? 🤔
@gregsgrowth530
Жыл бұрын
@@kelechiezealaji4202 or triple ?
this should be a tv show.
8:30 - Just look at the awkward subtle infighting: Rachel: "I wouldn't mind if he got down on one knee" (points to Yair, the other man) *Yair smiles* *Ashley looks quickly to see her former husband's reaction* *Yair stops smiling and feigns panic* Totally stable! Definitely not Rachel just pursuing Yair while not wanting to breakup with Kyle.
@nothingc
5 ай бұрын
And Kyle did leave the foursome
@RaiiiL
4 ай бұрын
You know they said they switch every day right at the start? You guys are so unreasonable.
@jwonz2054
4 ай бұрын
@@RaiiiL The proof is in the pudding and their pudding spoiled.
They are very practical, the danger would be if anyone decide that they have had enough
Just because they study and have an extensive vocabulary that does not mean that they are not crazy.
@intheuniversekey
Жыл бұрын
Well ever met a doctor with a PH D that has misdiagnosed before? I have. So high vocab and education and knowledge does not equal wisdom and they lack the wisdom of where to apply the knowledge.
@kevingaymon2707
3 ай бұрын
No more crazy than the rest of us. Have you seen divorce rates and people still can’t get married fast enough.
These people are very disciplined and organized! Sitting down to budget all expenses. That’s discipline.
@RaiiiL
4 ай бұрын
Yes, they are the best role model to show this type of relationstip. Population doesn't work out well without intelect, a 4 man relationship is basically the same. it requires alot of intelect and discipline It doesn't work with goofy heads.
I feel like relationships like this could easily go wrong if each person does not love all the other people in the relationship equally. And then they also decided to add the complication of money, marriage, and power dynamics... yikes... I can't look.
@Strawberry143x
Жыл бұрын
VOLCANO WAITING TO ERUPTTTTT🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋
@normandy2501
9 ай бұрын
I don't think it's ever possible to love them all equally in an intimate context. Polygamy wouldn't really be a need otherwise based on my understanding. It at least makes it easier to regularly build on their relationships under one roof, otherwise I'd just call it glorified friends with benefits in order to avoid any hurt feelings.
Kinda troubling how you can tell the dynamic that exists within this group without explicitly being told just from a short video.
Imagine the litigation if they ever want to separate this arrangement. Wow.
This could really work for some people but they've only known each other for 2.5 years, and that's not nearly enough time
This would be one of those videos where the amount of dislikes would vastly out number the likes.
I wish them all the best......because this could be DISASTROUS if it doesn’t work.... like Dateline, 20/20 disastrous .
@Strawberry143x
Жыл бұрын
Bloodbath central
Why can't they just add all of the non-card owners as authorized users? Most cards offer five slots. That way, they all would benefit from the cards and their history.
This is so complicated and probably will end the relationship. Why not split up just the basic bills: rent, light, water, etc.? Trying to share a credit card and tracking every expense among is the four is doing the most. Sounds like Rachel's plan and she is defiantly in control in this relationship.
@edb484
Жыл бұрын
for sure she is running things
@kayleighshuler9758
Жыл бұрын
I’m curious if you’ve been in this type of relationship and seen it fail due to finances firsthand?
@emem2863
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don't get the complications with the finances. They're purposely making things more complicated. I don't think Rachel is being defiant, though she seems to definitely have a more dominant personality, as does Yair. The other two seem to be more submissive, but given that they all decided to do this, they all are fine with being in this foursome.
@JaZmine147
Жыл бұрын
They could have 1 account that everyone has access to and they send a specific amount each month like a household account. They buy food from there and pay rent etc. And then everyone has their personal accounts.
@RaiiiL
4 ай бұрын
They are socializing and doing it very well. I mean we all do it. What's wrong about it?
Very interesting … I wonder does the guys also have a relationship with each other? Like are the guys bi? Or are the guys doing this because their ladies want it?
That’s what happens when you live in NYC lol… you need as many people in a relationship to divide expenses. The up side is that you can split the mortgage
It seem like Kyle is the only person who has been dragged into this type of relationship, he’s just there looking like confused person about this relationship..
At 0:30. The sleeping schedule already sounds like it would require a simple Excel spreadsheet since this would be permutations of four people on two beds. So...8 combinations, rotating each week? Right? LOL. Can't wait to get to the Gordian knot that is their finances! Get the pivot tables ready! :D
Rachel looks the most satisfied with this arrangement...the other not so much
@adeyosola414
Жыл бұрын
You read my mind.🙂🙂
@yoyoiven
Жыл бұрын
Poor Kyle lmao
@trishytrish5263
Жыл бұрын
I noticed that Kyle just seems like he’s going with the flow but isn’t too key on the situation. Notice how Rachel mentioned she wanted to have a baby with Ashley and the look Kyle gave was like he’s being left out of the decision
@shinji1264
Жыл бұрын
We live in a society.... They said, choose your partner's wisely ladies n gentlemen, if you're quiet and non combative it's probably best you get someone of similar attitude.
I think polyamory is great in terms of economy, fixed costs such as property tax can be divded by many people, 3~4 people can combine their money to buy a house. Currently, the rent is expensive, while house prices are constantly going up, earlier you get your own house, more money you earn. Everyone benefit from one Costco membership. Also many people can take turns to do house chores, doing many people's work at once takes less time than doing two people's work many times.
Did I just watch 4 white people talk about being discriminated against??? please!! also, this is Rachel's show and everyone else is obliging. the final statement in this entire video was from Rachel and she said "and frankly, it helps me." Coincidence? I think not.
@Tunechi65
Жыл бұрын
White people love finding a way to be the victim LMAO
@llcross04
Жыл бұрын
Right. 4 white, employees, attractive, able bodied straight people.
@JoyFay
Жыл бұрын
She is using them
@MrMlbfan6
Жыл бұрын
She looks like she had a affair with the chef and convince them to share
@tioswift3676
Жыл бұрын
Here’s your daily reminder that discrimination has zero bounds. The more you know
Yair and Ashley have cooked up something that'll go from Wright to completely Wrong
@danaibanga9297
Жыл бұрын
Underatedd comment
No chance that all four of them are happy. 😂Looks and sounds like an absolute NIGHTMARE.
Grab your popcorn for this one, boys and girls!
This is totally awesome! I would love to have a union like this. 2-4 couples all on the same page and filled with love 💗
@pauls4923
4 ай бұрын
immoral..give me a break
@nadafro3116
4 ай бұрын
you mean foursome?
Being a cuckold myself, I love this. I support this
It looks like Rachel is really the puppet master with Yair as her second in command here and it appears that she's convinced these ppl that some of the VERY unintelligent financial decisions being made are good ideas. There is literally no reason they couldn't have separate accounts and contribute to one joint for bills. I feel like something nefarious is afoot but hey, I hope I'm wrong and they live their best lives happily ever after.
I mean if a man can "change" into a woman, and a woman can "change" into a man and get married, then what's the big issue with polygamy being legal when all parties agree to it.
@elisakrivas
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@borderlinenocturnal6195
Жыл бұрын
Buddy that’s a really uncool way of describing trans people
@borderlinenocturnal6195
Жыл бұрын
Also polyamory is different to polygamy cmon
this is the world we live in
@borderlinenocturnal6195
Жыл бұрын
yes it is. look at everyone existing together and minding their own business.
@NewsSeriously
Жыл бұрын
It’s not your problem.it’s theirs. You can be in and relationship you want. If you can find someone
Fascinating. I dig it. But I hate splitting the bill at the end of a meal with 3 friends so I don't think I'd enjoy this much
The producers of CNBC Make It seems to have pivoted to another level of "make it with more than one"
This is the background music you use for a quick documentary on a cat that’s getting his GED…but he’s literally a guy living full time in a cat costume and won’t take it off.
Rachel is the mastermind behind this. Split up two marriages, Kyle is unhappy and Ashley is unhappy. I stay away from people like Rachel !
@sexytechreviews_
Жыл бұрын
Rachel is a very toxic Narcissist. I also stay away from people like her.
@Ovprksdnw
Жыл бұрын
What makes you state so confidently how unhappy Kyle and Ashley are? I've checked their social media and podcasts, and they're all extremely content with the arrangement, at least as of now
@bee1979
Жыл бұрын
@@Ovprksdnw what’s their social media?
So a monogamous non-monogamous quad?? Just wait until player 5 enters the game…
The women are more into each other than they are to their male partners. This whole situation is sick, distributing in the fact that they also want to big in kids to this mess and confusing and complicated. Life is already complicated on it’s own. Live simple and be happy. Someone is going to age badly and this will not go well as they will lose attraction to one or more partners because they have options within their relationships. Give us a 15 year update please!
@temeka4288
Жыл бұрын
There will be no 15 year update on this mess. They won't last that long.
@Tunechi65
Жыл бұрын
More like 1 year update
@edb484
Жыл бұрын
we need a reality show lol
@shinji1264
Жыл бұрын
15 years? Covid, Monkey pox, natural disasters? I give em 4 tops
@Chrisbit1
Жыл бұрын
I think that those 4 will be able to give a child or children a better life than most 2 ppl relationships. There's nothing "confusing" or "sick" about there relationship. I thin you are to quick to judge a situation where you don't have all the facts, do you know them ? have you seen them in public ? have you talk to them ? I'm guessing no. The excuse "life is complicated" is BS in my opinion, they are all adults and they will figure it out even if they have kids. There love is just as strong as the love you have for your partner, they love and show love in a different why and there's nothing wrong with that
They did one thing right and that was divorce. So, whenever they want to leave, they can just pack it up and go. No legal strings attached. Just finacial.lol
so CNBC is THE SHADE ROOM now? I have no issue with the way 4 adults want to live. that's cool. but I did not expect this story from CNBC ....I'm shocked and educated all in one 9 minute video. so I guess it worked.
@alp.9672
Жыл бұрын
look at the current state of the cost of living and economy, all by agenda.
She is a divorced marriage counselor still living with her ex husband while also sleeping with the ex husband of another woman who she is also sleeping with. WTF....?! Who on earth would want counseling from her? She is a walking contradiction.
@borderlinenocturnal6195
Жыл бұрын
She’s not just sleeping around. They got divorced so they could have more rights as a four-way-relationship. When people are in “lifestyles” or relationships you don’t understand, you could actually listen to them when they talk about it
When a Muslim marries two women, they say he is a barbarian lol. hypocritical society
America is wild 🤣 folks get bored and start inventing problems to over complicate their lives. My goodness. Is there a "phobia" for this yet if I don't follow along and support it?
@elisakrivas
Жыл бұрын
Well, it is an orientation. It's not a choice for everyone. The only complications are legal issues, honestly, and that's the government's fault, not people who fall in love or have an orientation.
I’ve always been a huge fan of just how well people are able to rationalize destructive, bizarre, and bad behaviors.
@rajenderkarupakala
Жыл бұрын
Yes, modern day clowns everywhere. Some sense is not common these days
@brynnwalk4390
Жыл бұрын
? How is this destructive? It's what they all want, so what does it matter? Remember freedom of choice? It's no more bizarre than regular marriage, where you literally sign an expensive contract to love ONE person forever. Now that's stupid and destructive. I hate when people like you try to decide what is normal and what's not. Obviously your way isn't working out either, judging by the high divorce rate of traditional marriages.
@emem2863
Жыл бұрын
If this relationship works for all of them, then it's not destructive. It isn't for most people, but obviously, they're not most people.
@whiteyobanion1104
Жыл бұрын
@@brynnwalk4390 That's how the followers of the Branch Davidians, Heaven's Gate, and Jim Jones felt; we see how that worked out.
@hotshotx1598
Жыл бұрын
@@whiteyobanion1104 yeah but those people justified their beliefs through religious dogma, rather than humanitarian logic
I can even make a relationship work with 1 person much less 3 😫😫😫….. good for them
Why stop at 4?
@lbpee9962
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
" No more than $30 a month on video games. " Aight imma head out ...
@ariels2730
Жыл бұрын
Ikr, that doesn't even cover one game, unless it's crap.
Getting a divorce from each other would simplify this situation. Rachel can get married to Yair since she’s hinted while the other two can exit this relationship and live freely as they wish.
What’s the household income though ?? Don’t leave us in suspense like this !!
@sadiqraji5376
Жыл бұрын
Is this even CNBC anymore? More like BRAVO or TLC than CNBC tbh.
@llcross04
Жыл бұрын
I was sure waiting to hear it. I'm guessing $450k
@Ovprksdnw
Жыл бұрын
All 4 are gainfully employed professionals
Why does it seem like Rachel is the initiator of this and the others are not entirely happy and just accepting this situation...?
@llcross04
Жыл бұрын
A farmer and the sheep
@ariels2730
Жыл бұрын
Because you're a monogamous person who doesn't get it lmao
@RR-wc6xc
Жыл бұрын
Don't assume that the "quiet" ones are not the ones controlling the show. Rachel may be a chatterbox, but the introverts can control things like you wouldn't believe.
I am very curious and have a lot more questions. I need them to have thier own show. One question I definitely have is: if one of the women gets pregnant how will they know who the father is to sign the birth certificate? How would they know who the biological father is?
@usamahkhalid6333
Жыл бұрын
That's what I am thinking as well
@topgunnah9509
Жыл бұрын
DNA test
@missraeray
Жыл бұрын
Apparently they want a complete overhaul of the entire process to fit this lifestyle . So all four would sign
@elisakrivas
Жыл бұрын
They could do a DNA test, but chances are, the birth certificate won't have that information.
@TheErmerm999
Жыл бұрын
if you were one of the guys would you care. its either your child or your step child either way your there from day 1 so your dad or daddy. DNA doesn't really matter when your changing nappies.
Holy smokes, what an incredible experiment, I guess its the dynamics of modern day relationships
@elisakrivas
Жыл бұрын
This relationship type is actually older than monogamy
Why do i feel like Rachel’s doing all this just for yair 😂 She seems to be in love with him. And is making ( manipulating) everybody to follow her needs and wants
INTERESTING!! I like the 4 incomes though🙌🏾
Pretty exciting as long they communicate and love each other.
But are the men ever sharing a bed together 😏😏😏
@N0Xa880iUL
Жыл бұрын
😳
This is a rectangle love but if the two men are also in love with each other, then it is a square love.
The decision to divorce their original partners is so brave... That is so destabilizing to me. I can't even imagine.
As soon as you see their occupations it all makes sense....to each their own
9-minute long promotion video for the "family therapist" Rachel
This was very interesting to see thanks CNBC
0:20 A mixologist, a culinary director, and a private chef bro thats not a polycule thats a catering company 💀
In poly, you don't have a best friend and partner. You have people you sleep with.
@TomikaKelly
11 ай бұрын
There are people in poly relationships who are asexual though...
Exit strategy should be part of the plan as well that theyre crafting with their lawyer.
I'm mostly impressed by how well organized they are. Especially financially. I cannot even track how much I spend on food. I wish I were so organized and educated about finances. I have zero understanding of how things really work beyond earning money and not wasting too much....
This is going to end amazingly!!!!
There is no way this kind of relationship can last longer than 10 years.
@Christiamorous
10 ай бұрын
Recently celebrated a polyamorous friend's 15th wedding anniversary. Just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it can't happen.
@00SuperHAN00
10 ай бұрын
@@Christiamorous I’m sure there can be some successful polyamorous relationships, but the ratio has to be much lower compared to monogamous relationships. Think about all the drama they would get involved in.
@Christiamorous
10 ай бұрын
@@00SuperHAN00 Compared to monogamous folks? That's silly. I can go to my female best friend's house and can sleep over without it being a problem for my fiancee. Think I could do that in a monogamous relationship? There are so many rules and lack of healthy communication in monogamous relationships - those are just a couple of the many reasons I don't do monogamy anymore. 70% of straight monogamous relationships end in their first year. 41% of marriages end in divorce. Would you blame monogamy for that? No? Why not, since you seem to be so sure polyamorous relationships are doomed to failure?
@ElizabethJBond
10 ай бұрын
It didn't. Kyle apparently walked out a few months ago.
@00SuperHAN00
10 ай бұрын
@@Christiamorous Lack of healthy communication is not the problem of a monogamous relationship but rather an individual problem. If one is experiencing consistent relationship issues, that individual needs to do introspective work rather than blame the structure of the relationship. You said you and your fiance have absolutely no problem with sleeping over at other partners’ houses, but in the long run, this can create serious trust issues and jealousy. Yes, a lot of monogamous relationships don’t last forever. But I am sure the success ratio is still way higher than polyamory.
How to get someone else’s husband and do it under both your husband and his wife’s noses……… How much longer before Rachel and Yair run off into the sunset 🤣
Red head is the running the house. She’s the king, queen, prince and princess of the house
Because of my religion, I wouldn’t live out this lifestyle but I personally enjoy how there seems like more support and more love and everyone looks happy. ❤️
@nothingc
5 ай бұрын
That maybe the facade. The reality is Rachel has confirmed that Kyle had left the foursome. Their lawyer made some money working for the foursome.
I found this very fascinating. Love hearing stories of people living unconventionally. Thanks for sharing your financial journey.
@VanillaEarth744
Жыл бұрын
That is sinful living
@Pyasa.shaitan
Жыл бұрын
@@VanillaEarth744 so is a person starving on street and government giving wallst trillions. Are you doing something against it?
@VanillaEarth744
Жыл бұрын
@@Pyasa.shaitan I've helped out ppl in the streets and other Charity's. Hbu?
@Pyasa.shaitan
Жыл бұрын
@@VanillaEarth744 you and me helping is not the same as government making healthcare education free with wages going up for mass of people. Instead of funneling trillions into military and wallst. Can you and me helping save the planet? I don’t think so. Government has to work for the working class people & not for the billionaires and multi trillion dollar corporations.
@borderlinenocturnal6195
Жыл бұрын
@@VanillaEarth744 wearing a shirt made of two different types of fabric is technically sinful living so like… shut up
Some of you are really panni PRESSED and super judgemental on something you've likely never been a part of or even taken the time to understand. Not only are they smart enough to have found what makes them happy and how to manage their finances, but are also brave enough to share it with all of you who are making fun and joking. Good grief.
All for polyamory if that's what works for all involved. Seems pretty obvious to me though that Kyle is emotionally overwhelmed. Interesting that his (former?) wife doesn't notice this as a therapist.
@nenmaster5218
Жыл бұрын
Yes, thats an incredibly simpleminded view on this. Amazing. How do you live with having such simple Ideas? What? EVERYTHING is ok when it makes them 'happy'? You do realize your silly defintion falls apart the second we apply it to In-est, huh?
Being single is like standing like Statue of Liberty in front of them.
I agree that I don’t see the point of any of them being married if they choose to live this way. Wow so everyone is basically married to Rachel?
So does Kyle and Yair hookup also?
Ashley and Kyle look like they're suffering in silence
This won’t last more than a couple years tops. Jealousy is real