Houston-area woman suing Santa Fe after she says officer held her down while fire ants were attackin

Video released by Taylor Rogers' attorney shows her screaming that ants were biting her face as a Santa Fe police officer held her down to handcuff her.

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  • @user-mp9sk2oi4f
    @user-mp9sk2oi4fАй бұрын

    They tortured her.

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Have you ever been in a war I'm sure you haven't and you don't know what motherfuking torture is

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Have you ever been in a world war probably not huh then you have no idea what torture actually is

  • @joshr6966

    @joshr6966

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@MaryHartman-ei9pvIt's definitely a form of torture.

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    @@joshr6966 it's not she's on the grass because she drove across the f****** property can you wake up for like two motherfuking seconds Joshua

  • @scotthughes7440

    @scotthughes7440

    29 күн бұрын

    the ants did it genius. They were just stupid as hell..it's called being negligent. THEY did not torture her..

  • @incredibleadventures1027
    @incredibleadventures1027Ай бұрын

    Chief Espinoza: "She made a wrong turn so I had to hold her face in the fire ants"

  • @thedreamer6930

    @thedreamer6930

    Ай бұрын

    "We needed 20 officers on scene for this woman, because reasons, and needed to hold her down on a pile of ants, because... because... she was driving away from us really slowly."

  • @nelsonwestrick9241

    @nelsonwestrick9241

    Ай бұрын

    Pure evil displayed by these tyrants!!

  • @melid211

    @melid211

    Ай бұрын

    They pulled her out after she made the illegal turn? Or after being a reckless driver?

  • @elizabethgallaher4705

    @elizabethgallaher4705

    Ай бұрын

    Wth is Cheifs reasoning for her to receive that kind of treatment .......that was horrific and you and your officers deserve to be reprimanded.

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    You don't get to do what you want because you're a mom you have to follow the rules you're terrible examples to your children that you can't even drive in the right direction because you don't feel like it I'd be so embarrassed if that was my mother😂

  • @hotdude655
    @hotdude655Ай бұрын

    she was treated with respect and dignity.....as it shows tons of ant bites all over her face neck and back......

  • @Former_Pastor

    @Former_Pastor

    Ай бұрын

    Those are stings

  • @NotALizardPerson81
    @NotALizardPerson81Ай бұрын

    That many fire ant bites can be deadly.

  • @thedreamer6930

    @thedreamer6930

    Ай бұрын

    She's lucky she didn't go into shock.

  • @Former_Pastor

    @Former_Pastor

    Ай бұрын

    Those are stings

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    @thedreamer6930 you're not going into shock these are very rare

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Is very very rare that anybody dies from fire ants lol you guys should really get off the internet and try reading books to educate yourselves

  • @NotALizardPerson81

    @NotALizardPerson81

    Ай бұрын

    @@MaryHartman-ei9pv very rare because it's rare that people get held down in a pile of them for several minutes.

  • @davidkelly8274
    @davidkelly8274Ай бұрын

    Not sure. But I don’t know anyone who would put their own face in fire ants. I think maybe the cops aren’t telling the whole truth.

  • @aGumball

    @aGumball

    Ай бұрын

    they still haven't released the full video. they just give us this one short clip. I've been looking everywhere for the full thing. somebody say they saw it on tiktok. They're trying their damn hardest to keep it hidden it seems

  • @frankdank7439

    @frankdank7439

    Ай бұрын

    You think maybe she got an attitude resisted ended up on the ground where wait for it... fire ants make there homes? maaaaaybe just a little? C'mon man.

  • @fjb960

    @fjb960

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@frankdank7439 and they didn't move her to a safe area, knowing she was being bitten. Thank you for making excuses for the violent pigs.

  • @Former_Pastor

    @Former_Pastor

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@fjb960 No excuses for psychopath tarts who can't obey officers

  • @CrainialCommando
    @CrainialCommandoАй бұрын

    Why not just show the part of the video when they pick her up so we can SEE if she's covered in fire ants or not? Video doesn't lie......

  • @Sondan1988

    @Sondan1988

    Ай бұрын

    But...but...but law enforcement is open and transparent !! (I have some ocean front in Arizona to sell someone if they believe that.)

  • @andrewallen9993
    @andrewallen9993Ай бұрын

    Our police officers treat citizens with respect and dignity by holding our victims in fire ant nests till they are bitten hundreds of times?

  • @Elenagilmore07

    @Elenagilmore07

    10 күн бұрын

    😂😂

  • @Visiontech
    @VisiontechАй бұрын

    Calm down and then we will let you up??? The lady was in handcuffs and all of those other cops standing around. She was being eaten alive and they could have cared less in my opinion!

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Who cares you'll survive nobody has died in this country from getting bitten from ants try again grow up man follow the rules and you wouldn't be in that situation

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah we don't give a f*** we don't

  • @warmwomyn
    @warmwomynАй бұрын

    That's horrendous. They could have moved her. They chose not to even after she norified them.

  • @dustinhagadone1006
    @dustinhagadone1006Ай бұрын

    Truly disturbing.

  • @brucemcdaniels8755
    @brucemcdaniels8755Ай бұрын

    Never ever should a mom dropping off her child should ever be treated this way! So many alternative de-escalation alternatives. These cops decided to use the nuclear option. No wonder few people don’t trust the police…

  • @mfcobb1
    @mfcobb1Ай бұрын

    I bet they all went to school together. There is way more to this story.

  • @ProphetRay
    @ProphetRayАй бұрын

    He did that on purpose over a traffic ticket

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    No it wasn't just a simple traffic ticket it was reckless driving she drove across the f****** grass parking lot instead of driving on the street she thought she would avoid the police officers command you're going the wrong direction so she just decided to drive across the grass that's why she's down in the grass Prophet Ray you should really learn there's two sides to every story

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Oh he did that over reckless driving because she started to drive across the property that's why she's not going to get anything and you're a mother with your child in your car and you're acting against authority figures this is why your kids are giving everybody a problem what the f*** is wrong with you people

  • @elizaleroux9173
    @elizaleroux9173Ай бұрын

    Pay her from all the pension funds.. not the New public funds.

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah sorry Eliza but it doesn't work like that you fund her bill the taxpayers pay that bill not the police department go right ahead let her Sue whoever she wants you guys pay for it let me ask you this do you know anything about the law in this country what the f*** is wrong with you people you pay for her restitution it goes through the courts the taxpayers pay that and not the police department get that through your head

  • @judyjetson686
    @judyjetson686Ай бұрын

    “Multiple bug bites?” What the hell are you talking about?!

  • @thedreamer6930

    @thedreamer6930

    Ай бұрын

    The 400 bites from that picture wasn't clear enough for you?

  • @nido3238

    @nido3238

    Ай бұрын

    I get your comment. You are pointing out the reporters DEI vocabulary.

  • @nopenope9118

    @nopenope9118

    Ай бұрын

    @@nido3238DEI vocabulary? Not everything is “woke v unwoke”. Just because the words of the reporter were a little underwhelming doesn’t mean she’s trying to be equitable and inclusive of the fire ants. Calm down. You used to use the words “politically incorrect” but “DEI” and “woke” are the new buzzwords of the conservatives to get people riled up over nothing. You’re falling for it.

  • @OnyxRose92

    @OnyxRose92

    Ай бұрын

    What is DEI?

  • @blazerbobcat

    @blazerbobcat

    Ай бұрын

    @OnyxRose92 Diversity Equity Inclusion

  • @bluedoggum8373
    @bluedoggum8373Ай бұрын

    How to know if a cop is lying: his mouth is moving

  • @Takaride

    @Takaride

    Ай бұрын

    They are definitely pathological liars!!! I guess it goes with the nature of them unjustly forcing their will on you.

  • @bluedoggum8373

    @bluedoggum8373

    Ай бұрын

    @@Takaride I have personally never seen one instances of a cop screwing up, and just coming clean and owning it. They squirm out of it and lie everytime. And the reason they do this is because the scam “justice” system is designed to protect them.

  • @Bree00000

    @Bree00000

    Ай бұрын

    Yes💯

  • @bluedoggum8373

    @bluedoggum8373

    Ай бұрын

    @@Takaride I’ve never once in my life seen a cop make a mistake and then just own it like a man. Not once! It’s actually a freak of nature it hasn’t happened just on accident on occasion.

  • @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    28 күн бұрын

    @@bluedoggum8373 Well who wants to even become a government employed streetgang member whose only job is snooping into strangers lifes? Bullys and bullyvictins

  • @VeeAmericanEagle
    @VeeAmericanEagleАй бұрын

    Omg poor thing! How long did he held her face down like that?! Smh

  • @elizabethgallaher4705

    @elizabethgallaher4705

    Ай бұрын

    Count the seconds that go by as she is held there....over 300 bites. On her eyelids ..ears..and in her hair. SO much wrong here

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    Who cares she's alive there's nothing wrong with her so what you got a few ant bites grow up America your behaviors are pathetic

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    @MaryHartman-ei9pv

    Ай бұрын

    If you women can't handle driving a car and you can't follow simple rules of the road then stay off the motherfuking road McCoy

  • @Positivityofficial777
    @Positivityofficial777Ай бұрын

    Wrongfully arrested

  • @markneely7286
    @markneely7286Ай бұрын

    They said calm down and we'll let you out of the fire ants.

  • @arthurfoyt6727

    @arthurfoyt6727

    Ай бұрын

    Calm down as in we had to wrestle you to the ground and handcuff you; stop fighting and we will let you up.

  • @Avarren

    @Avarren

    Ай бұрын

    YOU try not fighting when fire ants are actively biting you, you waste of oxygen.

  • @markneely7286

    @markneely7286

    Ай бұрын

    @@Avarren I couldn't agree more I think it's torture

  • @arthurfoyt6727

    @arthurfoyt6727

    Ай бұрын

    @@Avarren She was fought all the way to the ground and THEN cuffed. Kinda funny that endangering kids and resting arrest and fighting cops ended with her hitting an ant pile!

  • @Avarren

    @Avarren

    Ай бұрын

    @@arthurfoyt6727 only psychopaths find amusement in someone else’s pain. There was no reason to not move her a few feet away beyond sadism.

  • @pamelariley6694
    @pamelariley6694Ай бұрын

    Horrible !

  • @FranktheDachshund
    @FranktheDachshundАй бұрын

    We treated her with respect and dignity that day,....

  • @AB-gz5tu
    @AB-gz5tuАй бұрын

    Respect and dignity is going to cost them...

  • @worldwidesports5k
    @worldwidesports5kАй бұрын

    That was very evil 😈

  • @yvonnewood7757
    @yvonnewood7757Ай бұрын

    I can't imagine anyone who is being bitten by fire ants being able to calm down. That's crazy!

  • @Charmcity199
    @Charmcity199Ай бұрын

    Reuben Espinosa…hmmm…I know someone who kinda looks like the chief (or what he probably looked like 20 yrs ago) and has the same name but the guy I’m thinking of should not be anywhere near children let alone carrying a badge and a gun.

  • @katedaniels9623
    @katedaniels962329 күн бұрын

    Multiple “bug bites”? Wow, talk about down playing literal truth

  • @DontBDeceivedUsowUreap
    @DontBDeceivedUsowUreapАй бұрын

    There was no reason for officer to go to this length. I would hate to see their response if she really was guilty of a crime.

  • @BigTex45
    @BigTex4519 күн бұрын

    Typical, no police accountability, and no apology.

  • @davisrichard3440
    @davisrichard3440Ай бұрын

    Stupid cops will never stop this kinda act till another cop does something like this to one of there loved ones! N I'm afraid even that won't do it!? Smh

  • @nugmit1
    @nugmit1Ай бұрын

    I accidentally stood in a nest in Florida and 20 stings was terrible, i can't imagine what she went through. With people getting a huge bankroll for just getting their feelings hurt, they should have to back up an armored car to her door for this one.

  • @bossefied
    @bossefied18 күн бұрын

    Just the level of power they feel they deserve is disgusting. This video is so incredibly disturbing. Every single one of these men watched this happen to this female and no-one came to her defense while it was happening, right after and now still claiming this did not happen. Not to mention her child freaking out watching from the vehicle. All from a school parole officer just needing to get his power trip for the year. I hope she gets the justice she deserves.

  • @JesusSavedMe-Alizabeth4truth
    @JesusSavedMe-Alizabeth4truthАй бұрын

    The woman is lucky she’s alive that many ants can literally kill you!

  • @akal8775
    @akal8775Ай бұрын

    Domestic terrorism

  • @downhomeinspections6422
    @downhomeinspections6422Ай бұрын

    Not a single good cop everyone talks about

  • @vintageradio58
    @vintageradio58Ай бұрын

    When I see stuff like this I don't feel sorry for police that get injured or killed on duty. Sorry to say

  • @rogerdoger1195
    @rogerdoger119519 күн бұрын

    She should have never been yanked out of her vehicle

  • @stevenlynch9594
    @stevenlynch959429 күн бұрын

    Where is the Body cam

  • @airstripone2419
    @airstripone2419Ай бұрын

    We investigated ourselves and guess what? Da!da! We didn't do nought wrong because we're wonderful angels. Who would have thought it? I'm shocked. I'm shocked I tell ya... oh, wait, I'm not.

  • @nugmit1
    @nugmit1Ай бұрын

    I accidentally stood in a fire ant nest in Florida and got about 20 stings - it was terrible. I can't imagine what she went through. With people getting a huge bankroll for just getting their feelings hurt, they should have to pay her a shit ton.

  • @tylerderdin7691
    @tylerderdin7691Ай бұрын

    If this lady did commit a traffic offense she was treated like a mass murderer so I don't want to hear their BS any longer, all they do is lie.

  • @kinghenrock3598
    @kinghenrock359812 күн бұрын

    People need to follow directions and not flee from police officers... that's a felony

  • @Bree00000
    @Bree00000Ай бұрын

    You know that cops lying they always lie when they realize they're in trouble

  • @roselily4387
    @roselily438727 күн бұрын

    I thought police to protect us🤔, she's screaming in agony, but they just stand and no reactions.

  • @franciscomartinez514
    @franciscomartinez514Ай бұрын

    Those cops need to lose their jobs no matter what she did that’s disgusting they could of let her up at least thats horrible

  • @bobnewhart4318
    @bobnewhart4318Ай бұрын

    Tyrants

  • @yvonnewood7757
    @yvonnewood7757Ай бұрын

    This is horrible! This is how the officer kneeled on George Floyd's neck and held his knee there until he broke it. Cruelty should not be a part of policing.

  • @danubeway
    @danubewayАй бұрын

    THAT THIN BLUE LINE IS COMING BACK TO HIS OWN HOME🙃

  • @eduardorodriguez6034
    @eduardorodriguez6034Ай бұрын

    😡😡😡🤦🏽 wow over going to wrong way wow and flee from office thats very extreme

  • @warmwomyn
    @warmwomynАй бұрын

    I'm sure there cctv tape available.

  • @GT-nh5zg
    @GT-nh5zg12 күн бұрын

    Would be great if at least one of the cops didn't use sunglasses. Are they nocturnal or what

  • @HolicChan
    @HolicChanАй бұрын

    Ok but why did they need to take her to the ground in the first place? She was probably resisting. Is it there job to make sure there’s no fire ants? Lmao

  • @BondJames-vz5wk

    @BondJames-vz5wk

    28 күн бұрын

    "probably" bs. it's their job not to get her face ruined by fire ants.

  • @HolicChan

    @HolicChan

    28 күн бұрын

    @@BondJames-vz5wk you genuinely believe they should check for fire ants before taking someone down for acting erratically and almost hitting a police officers car and trying to flee? Thats crazy how your mind works.

  • @BondJames-vz5wk

    @BondJames-vz5wk

    28 күн бұрын

    @@HolicChan I genuinely believe they knew there were fire ants, and she didn't almost hit the cops car, he drove in front of her, and her offense should have gotten must a traffic ticket, not being pulled out of the car and tortured. I genuinely believe that only truly dedicated bootlickers can watch this video and support the cops here.

  • @ssemakulaharriet8231
    @ssemakulaharriet823127 күн бұрын

    I can't Breath ! same episode bad bad on

  • @scotthughes7440
    @scotthughes744029 күн бұрын

    she was wrong, they were wrong, but all of the local tax money from people not involved will end up paying for this mess

  • @user-zs4jn4yx3w
    @user-zs4jn4yx3wАй бұрын

    😮😮😮

  • @erichin888
    @erichin8888 күн бұрын

    US's human's right?lol

  • @joeorton1218
    @joeorton1218Ай бұрын

    I believe the officer

  • @BondJames-vz5wk

    @BondJames-vz5wk

    28 күн бұрын

    of course you do, instead of your lying eyes.

  • @joeorton1218

    @joeorton1218

    28 күн бұрын

    @BondJames-vz5wk the eyes can lie to the brain if you didn't know that

  • @TheGothicdolphin
    @TheGothicdolphinАй бұрын

    I'm speechless. If ever there was an 8th Amendment violation- 'cruel and unusual punishment', this is it. In primitive South America, army ants and bullet ants are used for TORTURE. I've had the experience of stepping in a fire ant mound barefoot. It burns like fire that can't be extinguished.

  • @bigfella9745
    @bigfella9745Ай бұрын

    See how this works you get out of line we punish you and get away with it when they have 100 reasons why this is justified.

  • @jimchoate6912
    @jimchoate6912Ай бұрын

    Hello

  • @logicalanswer3529
    @logicalanswer352929 күн бұрын

    She is a professional victim. If she took some self-accountability for her own behaviour, she would not have been arrested in the first place.

  • @BondJames-vz5wk

    @BondJames-vz5wk

    28 күн бұрын

    whut? you're a professional apologist for cop torture.

  • @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    28 күн бұрын

    Arrested? You mean tortured and now made rich as heck by gang members of the government aka jackboot goons. I mean glad for her, she now can live her best life because american coppers only get 3 months of training and prefer to employ sociopaths

  • @logicalanswer3529

    @logicalanswer3529

    28 күн бұрын

    @@BondJames-vz5wk It is not the cop's fault that she decided to resist arrest.

  • @bemiatto67

    @bemiatto67

    13 күн бұрын

    ​​@@logicalanswer3529 HER FACE WAS BEING BITTEN UP BY HUNDREDS OF FIRE ANTS

  • @logicalanswer3529

    @logicalanswer3529

    13 күн бұрын

    @@bemiatto67 Because she was resisting arrest and had to be forced onto the ground. Her own actions caused that.

  • @MaryHartman-ei9pv
    @MaryHartman-ei9pvАй бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉

  • @AFloridaSon
    @AFloridaSonАй бұрын

    She thought she was entitled to drive the wrong way to keep her kid from being late. She even admitted to being disorderly. Her own actions got her to the ground at that place. Had she just followed the rules, she wouldn't have been stopped.

  • @princesspiplaysbass

    @princesspiplaysbass

    Ай бұрын

    Bootlicker. Back the blue until it happens to you.

  • @C1AZ

    @C1AZ

    Ай бұрын

    Huh? So if someone commits a minor infraction, that means it is Ok for dirty cops to commit felony crimes. Don't be an idiot. It is illegal to hold a handcuffed person face down in a swarm of stinging insects. The dirty cop committed a crime and needs to be prosecuted and do the time like anyone else. P.S. - not that it is relevant to the law breaking thug cop's crimes, but she did not "admit" to being disorderly. Nor she "think she was entitled". She got mixed uo and entered the driveway the wrong way because the school changed the direction on the loop. Stop making up false facts.

  • @grimora-dg3vq

    @grimora-dg3vq

    Ай бұрын

    I guarantee if this were your wife, gf or mother you'd be singing a different tune!

  • @theyawningowlbear6758

    @theyawningowlbear6758

    Ай бұрын

    ​@grimora-dg3vq But they is strong and independent wahmens! Nah let these straggs fend for themselves.

  • @AFloridaSon

    @AFloridaSon

    Ай бұрын

    @@C1AZ Show where, it any state, that it's on the books that it is a felony for LE to hold someone's face in an ant hill. Yes, it should not happen, but you can see in the video that there was no ant colony visible.

  • @hippiegirl5167
    @hippiegirl5167Ай бұрын

    She is after money

  • @akal8775

    @akal8775

    Ай бұрын

    And rightfully so

  • @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    28 күн бұрын

    You sound jealous because the copgangs violent tendencies made her Rich

  • @carycoller3140
    @carycoller3140Ай бұрын

    You people in these comments who believe this woman was dragged out of a car and thrown to the ground simply for driving the wrong way in a driveway are as nuts as she is. You look for any reason to hate on police. I'm sure there's a lot more to why she was on the ground. I want to see the entire video, not just the 30 seconds they're showing of her screaming in the grass. Show ALL of the video.

  • @XXniccloXX

    @XXniccloXX

    Ай бұрын

    We don't need to look for reasons to hate the police, they give us plenty.

  • @bluedoggum8373

    @bluedoggum8373

    Ай бұрын

    When videos exonerate cops they are released immediately. Wake up. Bootlicker

  • @banedon8087

    @banedon8087

    Ай бұрын

    People react to what seems to be clear injustice with cutting some critical thinking. Same old, same old. If it goes to court or further video footage is released then we'll see.

  • @thedreamer6930

    @thedreamer6930

    Ай бұрын

    Stfu Cary No one cares what you think. Go suck off the police chief.

  • @C1AZ

    @C1AZ

    Ай бұрын

    Stop making excuses for law breaking. It is illegal to hold a handcuffed person face down in a swarm of stinging insects. Not only for a minor civil traffic infraction, but for anything. That officer committed multiple felony violations. The officers committed the crime and they need to do the time just like anybody else. The criminals need prison time.

  • @carycoller3140
    @carycoller3140Ай бұрын

    She bought the ticket, she got the ride she paid for.

  • @edwardmullins2716
    @edwardmullins2716Ай бұрын

    fire ants cant kill humans that lawyer aint got a clue what hes on about also disugsting that black people get shot it dont make the news yet ant bites for a karen really

  • @grimora-dg3vq

    @grimora-dg3vq

    Ай бұрын

    Ain't got a clue? You sound like a projecting Trumper! In about 5% of cases, fire ants can cause death due to a severe allergic reaction. Fire ant stings have caused at least 80 deaths. Fire ant stings can also cause a variety of health problems in humans, ranging from simple stings to anaphylaxis and death. -CDC

  • @ironhead900

    @ironhead900

    Ай бұрын

    I agree with that HOWEVER, what does trump have to do with this?

  • @sjshsnsjjs5531

    @sjshsnsjjs5531

    Ай бұрын

    You aren't obviously educated enough then. Google is free,let's use it and check before deciding to post a public comment.

  • @theyawningowlbear6758
    @theyawningowlbear6758Ай бұрын

    I hate cops, but the fact this happened to an entitled woman, I'll give it a pass. Strong and independent straggs could do with a dose of reality along with a face full of what men have to deal with on a regular basis.

  • @Avarren

    @Avarren

    Ай бұрын

    Ahh, found the incel!

  • @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    @AbuHajarAlBugatti

    28 күн бұрын

    Your poor mother. You hate her aswell? Poor baby got rejected by every woman ever 😂 take your irrational hatred back to 4chan

  • @Elenagilmore07

    @Elenagilmore07

    10 күн бұрын

    Aww you never had a woman in your life??? Or are you scared of independent strong woman?????? Strong decent men will support and hélp ladies....unauthorised gender like you shouldn't be here !!! Why do your mother carried you from 9 months without any reasons???? You really need to ask her!!!! Instead of being jealous of strong independent woman