hi friends i hope you enjoy this video 🎀🤍🎀 what was your fav fit?! love y’all sm!

@RachelBlack97

Жыл бұрын

I loved the cargo pants! So cute!

@thebean.15

Жыл бұрын

Definitely the outfit with the green cargoes! It’s so cute!

@fresh.prince7472

Жыл бұрын

Where was the bikini

@jordangaines2041

Жыл бұрын

The Levi's and black top are so cute!

@Lovelife10934

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video! More people need to talk about this topic more. I’m in high school and most people think it’s odd I dress modest but it’s what I feel comfortable with plus I say it’s what God calls us woman to do! I’m in a junior in high school, and this topic means a lot to me. This year the juniors are hosting prom which I’m so happy about it’s going to be at the aquarium! Me and my family for the past two days went prom shopping the first day I did not find anything and the 2nd day I did! ❤ which was good. It took me forever because I made it clear that I wanted to be modest. My mom wanted me to wear this one dresss I tried it on for her but I felt not feel comfortable and my feelings are saying I look good and yes, I may look good in some of the dresses, but I never want someone to say well then lucky plus I would like to be modest. That’s what I feel comfortable. That’s why I went every time we went to with Dress shop I said no no no so many times because I want to be modest and glorify God it is what I try to do every day. The last shop we went to was wonderful because we went to a great place and the owners where Christian so good nice to know that my opinion mattered. Which was nice! God calls of us to be different from this world! Nan’s I may be different than all of my friend and that’s okay becusse I believe it’s truly important! And God loves me and that matters! ❤❤ don’t listen to people make fun of you for being modest, I don’t who care have confidence! In your self!❤❤

Love this verse: "Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised." Proverbs 31:30

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

love love love 💖

@Clair-ds8fm

Жыл бұрын

Ikr I’ve seen this verse 3 times today 😁🙏

@koolsmoothfan

8 ай бұрын

@@ashleyhetherington_ very nice video fam, and your style of dress is modest and chic you look good. It's very refreshing to see a woman who is dressed modest and does not have her goods exposed for all to see. I tell my females friends that sexual attention from a male does not mean long term attention. Anyway, much respect to you sis, keep dressing for the LORD.

Ask yourself, "Would I wear this in front of Jesus?" I always do this

@minimalghost

Жыл бұрын

i need to remind myself of this..

@jesusiskingofmyheart

Жыл бұрын

OOOH, yes. so good!

@nananyanba

Жыл бұрын

Yes so true, I think this also

@infj_intovert_nerd

Жыл бұрын

I like this

@waytolife4668

Жыл бұрын

Yes

"just because you look good in it, doesn't mean you should wear it."👌🔥

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

ooooof. 💖

@withanjali4470

Жыл бұрын

Personally we should be comfortable in our own skin. But we need wise decision too.❤

@user-zm4fv3de5c

4 ай бұрын

Yes it does. Stop tearing that other woman and their confidence because you’re insecure, and you hide behind religion to give you a sense of purpose. Sweetheart.

Modesty as a believer is really important and although people think dressing modest is boring and “grandma style”, it’s not. Dressing modest is something we do because our bodies are temple BUT dressing modest isn’t boring or plain at all.

@onota1393

Жыл бұрын

Amen. You said it 💓

@elizeviktoria

Жыл бұрын

Yes completely agree🙌

I really needed to see this. Ive been struggling with my relationship with God for a while. And also just broke up with boyfriend of 3+ years. I fell into temptation of pursuing other men dressing immodestly and lusting. And relaized how bad it is. You’re like an older sister teaching me while also reminding me of who God is❣️

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

aww sis you are not alone. thank you for being here. 💖

@brendamontesinos5598

Жыл бұрын

You got this, God will hold your hand along the walk of faith!!

@alicee3739

Жыл бұрын

That’s amazing we’re here for you 😊

@priscillaametepe

Жыл бұрын

This is the same issue am struggling with everyday. I really need help in finding Jehovah again

@A100Aic

Жыл бұрын

Lmao

At the time Proverbs was written, the significance of purple was huge. It was a color that only royalty could wear. So the purple gown is a representation of dressing yourself as though you are royal. Taking care of your appearance because you know your worth.

@ariel482

7 ай бұрын

was looking for this context. thank you

@captainplatipus

5 ай бұрын

What a good point, thank you!

As a Muslim girl, I love seeing other people dress modestly and devote their life to God, knowing that this life is very temporary and seeking heaven ✨️ ❤️

@jemimaadams8296

Жыл бұрын

LOVE THIS! Have a beautiful day xx

@drealempress

Жыл бұрын

i love the fact that not only christians watch her

@Lords.Beloved

Жыл бұрын

Hi.🤍 If you're reading this I just want you to know that the LORD, JESUS CHRIST loves you so much. He is the way the truth and the life, may GOD show you his truth and may you open your heart to recieve it in JESUS CHRIST'S name.

@kylieshaye6562

Жыл бұрын

​@@Lords.Beloved You didn't catch it, but this woman is Muslim 💕

@toneperkins2658

Жыл бұрын

If you're a part of a religion then God doesn't know God is not a religion or part of a God is Kings of kings and Lord of lords he is the creator only way that you can no God is that you have to be born again so if you're like a Muslim Buddhist or any other religion God doesn't know you I'm just telling you the truth

I love the message here. It’s so hard as a 13 year girl living in a society that says wear this and wear that, but knowing that wearing those things will only draw the wrong attention. It’s a great reminder for me that my confidence should be in Christ and Christ alone, and never the things of this world such as immodest clothing. Your such a positive influence and I appreciate your channel, keep it up🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

i am so so glad this video helped💖 you are so loved in this community!

@Ljhay777

11 ай бұрын

💯🥰Absolutely agree with you!

@kgirldoane6063

7 ай бұрын

I'm 13 also and I love this video!!!♥ thank you Ashley!

@Rebecca-ys7us

2 ай бұрын

Im 13 too and I agree with you

@michelalvarez637

Ай бұрын

Idk if any of you ladies will see this but I'm 29 and I've always struggled w my outward appearance and what I wear and I'll be completely honest have worn certain things to draw attention and I can say that if you keep being more modest at your age now you'll be glad you did once you're my age! You got this! Just keep your eyes on Jesus 🥰 much love to you, sisters♥️♥️

I love this video ❤ I have dress modesty my whole life and my current boyfriend my godly boyfriend told me that seeing me dress that way in school was one of the things he loved about me ♥️. He said that I shine differently than others, God is amazing

@elizeviktoria

Жыл бұрын

So cute❤️ sounds like a godly guy

@AutumnLeaf24

4 ай бұрын

That's amazing! 😊

For me personally, I feel comfortable wearing long crop tops with baggy pants, or tighter shorts with baggy shirts. It’s definitely all about balance for me. One tighter article of clothing with a loose one is my go to 💜💜

as a 37 year old woman… I wish I’d watched this at 16

@4Him7

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@tiffanyjetter7254

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@varshaanandani5826

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

@sepalikagunatillake2126

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ecrossdale

Жыл бұрын

Haha I’m 16 😂 trying to dress modest out here

As a Christian KZreadr myself... I just want to say that you are a VERY big inspiration to me too ✨️ I pray your videos will reach MANY more viewers 🙏🏼 thanks for your obedience in sharing God's word so faithfully on your channel. Such a faithful servant. You will be rewarded ✨️ So much love to you sista ❤️

Thank you for dropping this! I recently made the decision to pick myself up and part of that meant redoing my wardrobe. As a Christian girl who’s 13 and easily influenced, I want to dress more modestly, and I know it gets really hard especially during the summer when everyone is wearing short shorts and bikinis. I really needed this!

@fresh.prince7472

Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure why you have one life what's the point living like that

@simoneshallow9967

Жыл бұрын

@fresh.prince Hebrews 9:27. It is appointed for us to die once, but after death is judgment. And no one knows when it's their time to die. So, as a Christian girl, she's doing the right thing. Set an example for other Christian young people.

@fresh.prince7472

Жыл бұрын

@@simoneshallow9967 it must be true then if Hebrews said that Lol

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

i’m proud of you 💗

@hayjessay

Жыл бұрын

@@ashleyhetherington_ thank you! God bless! 💖✝️

Modesty also really just shows that you respect yourself well enough and do not have to look for validation from others.😊😊

@elizeviktoria

Жыл бұрын

So true:)

@AshtasticAcrobat

6 ай бұрын

YES!

@just_shaeee

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely! I also don’t want to make any man fall into temptation, although he is also responsible for his own salvation as well.

@jolizeoosthuizen

5 ай бұрын

@@just_shaeee so true!!

Crop tops are great for laying under things like jumpsuits or sweaters without being bulky or hot. They can actually help an immodest outfit be modest 😊

P.s. Ashley please lock your car doors when you're sitting in your car. I had more than one bad experience when I was younger from not doing that. Now I lock them immediately after getting in my car. This goes for everyone really. Stay safe y'all! 💗

@kn0tpl7t0

7 ай бұрын

I think everyone needs this reminder, tysm! 💗

@musicandgodsgracearelife

7 ай бұрын

@@kn0tpl7t0 you're welcome! 💚

@imaamericangirl1406

3 ай бұрын

My dad taught me to do this when I started driving. Super smart tip to go by. Thank you for sharing.

@musicandgodsgracearelife

3 ай бұрын

@imaamericangirl1406 It's a lesson I wish more women knew! So glad your dad taught you that. 💗 And you're welcome. 💛

I'm 13 and trying to be more modest and closer to God! You have helped me so much!!!

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

i am sooo glad you are here 💖

I switched to just dresses and skirts about 2 years ago. This is huge if you know me. I used to try to find the shortest shorts and the outfit that was the tightest and showed the most skin. Men (and woman) treat me with a lot more respect now. I would love to see you wearing more modest workout gear. You’re just too beautiful for those tight skimpy clothes. 😬 saying this with so much love.

@healthylivingislam06

Жыл бұрын

I agree 100% modest all the way

@Karin0031

Жыл бұрын

Me too! I have the same opinion sis. ❤

My husband and I met in high school. I wore a hoodie and jeans. Every single day. No matter the weather. I didn't do my hair, I usually pulled it back or put it out of my way. We've been married for three years this July. Have a beautiful baby boy and another on the way. Everyday I thank God for sending me him. His timing is truly best. What I was going through in my life is a long story, but I needed a man of God to help me through it. And He sent me just that. I still dress modestly, but I've gotten better at ditching jeans and hoodies. Thankful for that too 😂 *I didn't realize this video was older until I read the other comments*

This could not have come at a more perfect time, it’s like it was meant to be. The Lord has been working hard in my heart these last several weeks and has compelled me and made me realize that my wardrobe needs to change along with my heart. I ransacked my closet the other day to get rid of all of my immodest clothes and am now searching of new modest pieces to put in. I never understood modesty really until I followed the Lord more closely and I realized that it truly is about glorifying God and emphasizing what matters most about us: our hearts, minds, souls, and the light of God within us. Immodesty distracts from those things. Thanks for this video, it’s nice to hear another young woman talking about this and the importance behind it.

@sea__789

Жыл бұрын

Hi, God Bless You 🙏🏼💗 Glory to God! Being modest in both heart and clothes is really beautiful! May I ask, how did you get rid of your inmodest clothes?

@HiHi-sq5og

Жыл бұрын

@@sea__789 I went through my closet and looked at all of my clothes, then I asked myself “If Jesus was standing right next to me, would I feel comfortable in this outfit?” If the answer was no, I put it into a bag to be donated. ❤

@sea__789

Жыл бұрын

@@HiHi-sq5og Beautiful question! Thank you. 🙏🏼💕

I never comment but as a muslim struggling with who I am and dressing modestly this video was much needed and the way you explained things, was so insightful and you hit the nail right on the head. Thank you for promoting such a positive message and honestly in this day and age it can be hard but if we stick to what we believe in, god will make it easier. New follower here :).

Ashley, i love the new Holy Girl Diaries series! i love how God has planted this absolute ✨dedication✨ inside your heart💕. the best is yet to come. it was no accident that i found your channel last summer when i needed it the most. God has gifted me so so so much wisdom through your ministry. i look up to you as a fourteen-year-old and see something in you that not a lot of people have. you are seriously changing lives around you for the Kingdom of God. amen!! 🫶🏻💗

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

i am so so glad you are here in this community sydney! 💗

This is my favorite video of yours! It gives me a lot of hope that my son (26) will find the one. He really wants to find a girl, aka future wife who dresses modestly, but he also appreciates one who is stylish. His guy friends feel the same way. So I love that there’s such a great response to this video!

i’m only 5 mins into the video and i truly and so thankful i’ve stumbled across this. i’ve never thought about dressing modestly in that way before. Because as much as I do want attention at time I ultimately want and NEED the right kind of attention. I need to do what’s best for me. Thanks for making the video, i can’t wait to finish it and pls continue to make more videos like this :)

Ever since I gave my life over to the lord I realize how I used to dress was taking more from me, and ever since I started dressing modest I’ve gained a whole new self confidence that I never thought would’ve been possible. I feel more empowered than ever knowing that I’m following the good word from God! Thank you so much for this video ❤️

Super happy and inspired 💓 It makes me so happy to see Christian content creators talking about, valuing and practicing modesty. You go,girl 💓 God bless you, sis. You're a gem💓

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

i am so so glad you are here 💖💖

Very true! Don't short change your self. Short term satisfaction = long term pain.

love this you should do a modesty look book!!

@hayjessay

Жыл бұрын

Yessss! That would be really nice actually! She could fall/winter looks and then spring/summer looks! Great idea!

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

aww i LOVE this idea!

@paulapatino4834

Жыл бұрын

@Ashley Hetherington and for each season (Spring, Summer, etc) Thank you!

@TranquilDisturbance

Жыл бұрын

@@ashleyhetherington_ I love this idea! Please make one!

I dress in T-shirt and jeans a lot because I hate dressing inappropriately and I was insecure when I was a teenager about dressing immodesty. But, this inspires me because I want to shop more for modesty clothes. Thank you Ash❤

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

cmon sis! i am with you

The first outfit was my fav! I am so glad I can look up to you. I am 13 years old and a Christian and understand some of my outfits are not fully glorifying God. Thank you so much for helping me on my path to becoming a Proverbs 31 women.

I actually am falling in LOVE with your content! Lol. This was well laid out, reasonable, responsible, & simple to the point.

idk why but Ashley’s most recent vids have really helped me. She keeps talking about subjects I’ve been really struggling with and has been a big inspiration. I feel like God is using her to take me out of the dark place I’ve been in. Thanks so much Ashley ❤️

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

wow thank you so much. i’m so glad you are in this community. 💖

I’m muslim and this was recommended to me. I love it, modesty should be a trend. Periodt

@nemesis8222

Жыл бұрын

We welcome our Muslim brothers and sisters. May peace and God be with you ❤

@serenityb9879

Жыл бұрын

I’m just here to tell you that God loves, I love you, and Allah can’t do anything for you!!!!!!

@hannaxoxo12

Жыл бұрын

@@serenityb9879 if God does love me then he can do anything for me

Loved this video! Take us shopping more often haha ❤

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

aww i totally will 💖💖

Hey Ashley! Can you talk about modesty in swimwear and maybe where to find some? I’ve been struggling to find some cute but modest bathing suits for the summer. Btw, I love your advice it feels like God speaks through you to me! You have a beautiful gift 💗 God bless you and Toby :)

@laneylore

4 ай бұрын

She talks about it in the summer version

I needed this video thank you. I’m a single Christian Dad and my teenage daughter is really giving me resistance with her half naked clothing. I just had to take her phone again because of half naked clothes pics. Im planning on showing her this video. Thank you.

We’ve got so much in common! We both love God, we both like Pinterest and literally shop for what is on the Pinterest board and we both like cargo pants! (I also have a long black leather skirt)

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

ahhh so fun! i am so glad you are here in this community 💖

Woo! I felt the Holy Spirit when you talked about focusing on clothing ourselves with beauty from within. As soon as you mentioned honoring God - I felt Him. God is moving in the Kingdom. Go girl! God is using you. Hallelujah!

This is the first video I'm watching of yours and it made me reflect on myself and the behaviors I'm adopting (clearly for bad reasons). Thank you for this video. Thank you for spreading the Word of God. Thank you for everything you are doing for this community. God will surely reward you. Please continue doing this.

Going shopping during the summer especially is difficult especially on a budget🥲

Loved this video! Take us along shopping more often! I’m 38 mother of 4, trying to disciple my boys to look for godly women as they get older and my daughter to dress/act in a godly way. I love the Lord and I also love fashion ❤ Aritzia sure does have some great finds!

Ash I needed this. It's so easy to focus to much on our appearance instead of character and relationship with God. I've been tl dressing now modestly and the struggle is real sometimes to find beautiful, sustainable and affordable items which reflect my style. Thanks for the info! 🤗🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️

Love that you first started with scripture THEN shopping 👏🏻

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this video… this is so lovely and personal. I’m for it!

hi sister! loved this video. i got saved two years ago and my style has completely changed! for the better :") all i used to wear were crop tops and revealing clothing. i feel so much more confident and beautiful dressing modestly rather than showing off/exposing my body parts! i thank the Holy Spirit for convicting me and changing me from the inside, out! thank you lord 🤍✨

Ashley! I am so incredibly grateful that i found your channel! Could you please give some advice on what to wear to the gym/ exercise gear that also is glorifying to the Lord? Thank you so much!

I would love to see how you shop for the summer because I feel like as someone just starting covering in the winter is easy but in hot weather I am not too sure unless I wear long dresses but I don’t always want to wear a dress because I am a sporty girl.

I’m glad I’ve found you because I’ve really been trying make the right changes in my dressing and I realised how hard the other way is pushed and shoved in our faces constantly. As Christians we do have to do our best to upkeep the way God wants us to be and I’m relieved I’m finding more platforms speaking on Gods truth x

Needed this as I've noticed how I'm trying to dress up for the wrong kind of attention. Loved how you "research" for inspo on Pinterest before going out. It definitely helps in being responsible and staying focused while shopping. 😂 Will do this. Also the three questions at the end! ❤‍🔥 Thanks, Ash!

just the vid i need tbh. Christian, modest, classy, trendy.....what else could i ask for? xx

@ashleyhetherington_

5 ай бұрын

💕

firstlyyy fave outfits were definitely the hat fit and levi + black tee fit!! also wanted to say that i feel so so blessed and happy to have found your content, ashley!! you really have inspired me in so many ways and have been a great "modern, KZread, social media" outlet representing God during a time where i'm trying to build back my faith! having such encouragement from you and being fed with the Word is honestly everything!! really enjoy all of your videos girlie pop! have a blessed and amazing day and week!!

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

the levi’s were FIRE! i am so glad you are in this community dear one 💖

I think we don't truly realize what a grace this channel is for us and how NECESSARY it is. thanks so much ashley and thanks Jesuus!

I liked hearing about how the Proverbs 31 woman did dress well & within her means. I also really like the idea of going on Pinterest and finding the styles you like, then shopping ONLY for those. I’ve been a lot more disciplined in my shopping lately, and I have been making fashion Pinterest boards. But I usually go to target or old navy and that’s it…I like the idea of going to an actual mall to shop for specific items across different stores.

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

it really helps soooo much with being disciplined. pinterest boards UNITE

At first when we were first going to church ( 3-4 years ago ) I did not want to be “modest” I hated the idea of skirts and dresses. But legit today I feel more confident in them, I look and just think that I look way better in skirts than in pants. God opened my eyes to that and he helped my confidence grow. ❤️

🌸hey Ashley, thank you so much for putting so much effort and love into these videos!! I am a teenager in middle school, and your channel has helped me so much with my relationship with God. Also helped me with finding myself in God. Thank you so much🌸☀️✝️☀️🌸

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

i am so so glad to have you in this community Madi💖

Just want to share my experience. Years ago I was praying about modesty and God clearly asked me to not wear jeans nor pants. So, for the past 20 years I have been wearing skirts and dresses and it’s been a huge blessing. I always get compliments about how I dress.

I really liked this video, even though it's absolutely not my style - I love dresses and have a much more girly style. I'm also a bit older than you 😉 It's really encouraging to see God working in the heart of their children regarding modesty. One thing I've noticed over the years is that the perception of modesty also changes according to culture. As an example, I've just moved countries after 11 years of living abroad, and I quickly realized I had to change most of my beloved wardrobe, because people's perception of modesty here is different. And my current wardrobe just doesn't fit the bill. The Holy Spirit started making me feel uncomfortable with it. I'd like to leave a word of encouragement regarding this topic. I've loved clothes ever since I was a kid and have even considered going into fashion design - so clothes are a big thing for me in the sense that I express myself through them and they make me happy. So when I realized that I had to give up a big chunk of my beloved pieces I was sad. But - as with everything else - the Lord comforted me, changed my feelings towards those pieces I loved, and showed me pieces that I now love even more and fit the modesty bill that I wanted. Notice that there was nothing wrong with my other clothes until I moved countries. But it's important to live in a way that honors God where we currently are ❤

@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife

Жыл бұрын

What country are you currently living in if you don't mind me asking ?

@000SunFlower000

Жыл бұрын

@@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife Portugal (where I'm originally from). Moved from Norway. Portugal is more conservative in some areas. Not necessarily a bad thing either. In any case, it's just an example of how different cultures that share many of the same principles (both European countries, developed and with high level of education, for example) can have different takes on what is and isn't modest. You wouldn't notice it just by walking around, tho 🤔

@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife

Жыл бұрын

@@000SunFlower000 ohh that's interesting!! What would you say are some adjugments you've made? Btw, I also agree how you say that culture can influence modesty levels, because modesty is overtly subjective for time periods and countries.

@000SunFlower000

Жыл бұрын

@@Isaiah53_John3.16_ChangeUrLife mostly the length of dresses/skirts. While they weren't super short and I wore them with opaque tights, there's a huge difference in people's overall reaction to that here compared to Norway. In 11 years living there, I haven't been catcalled once. People mind their own business. Here, people love to mind other's business 🤦🏻‍♀️ ... the amount of times I had women in my family making remarks on how short a garment was, or how it would look great with leggings - while I was wearing 100% opaque, coloured tights... In the beginning I was like: seriously, so judgemental. This IS decent! I'm not showing anything wrong. And they would *reluctantly* agree and concede that they were not being reasonable. But at one point I just realised that it was the culture for (most) of the people above 30 in Portugal. So, being over that age 🤣, I've just been adapting and adopting a style that is *perceived* as being more modest. And I think that this is the key: perception. As children of God and His ambassadors, we have to be mindful of how we are perceived. I didn't start wearing a different style. Staying true to whom God made you is important. But I now opt for longer flowy dresses, which I love, and am thinking of ways to transform the other, shorter ones.

Can you do an affordable version of this? I’ve been working on dressing modestly but I can’t afford Aritzia. Love your videos! ✨🖤

@f4e882

Жыл бұрын

thrift shops!! target!! amazon!! brandy, etc. look on pinterest! simplistic outfits are good too. like a simple pair of jeans and a sweater are easy and modest.

@itsmolls16

Жыл бұрын

Winners/Marshall’s has cute shirts for under $15!

@cecilialoof9988

Жыл бұрын

I personally love shoping at thrift stores, it’s usually very affordable and exiting cause you can find fantastic pieces if you are patient og creative 😁

@laneelu

Жыл бұрын

i definitely recommend thrifting too! you can find a lot of great basics but it may take a few shopping trips to different ones

@keysofs_3108

Жыл бұрын

Go to a thrift store! 🥰 i love dressing with 80s-90s vibes and i always find really good quality clothes at really affordable prices 🤍

Hi Ashley, I've been watching your videos recently and seeing this video made me feel happy and blessed. Many Christian women really need to watch this because even if you're a Christian, it's still hard to dress modestly because of this worldly trend but we Christians should be reminded that we are living for the Lord and not for the world so whatever we do, whatever we say & wear, it should be glorifying to God. We are called to be salt & light. God bless you!

Thank you SOOO MUCH for this video. A couple weeks ago I was having meltdowns about what I'm supposed to wear because of 1 Peter and 1 Timothy. I really enjoy dressing up and getting pretty clothes. Thank you for this practical guide to what Christian women should wear. The joke about 'does this mean I just wear paper bags over my head everyday ect," was literally calling me out😂😭

Amen, this is such an important topic!! It is such a huge struggle sometimes, but I pray that the Holy Spirit helps us to keep the perspective that our beauty and value are not dependent on our appearance or the attention we may gain from others. All our value and identity is in Christ, and true beauty is in the good fruits that the Holy Spirit causes to flourish in us. Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭22‬-‭23‬ (‭NIV)‬‬: But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. God bless you and may He continue to shower you with grace so that you may grow closer and closer to Him each day. Huge hugs to you in Christ ❤️❤️

I rly enjoy all your content and always feel inspire to be the woman God wants me to be. Thank you. Ik God is using you to get to a lot of women. God bless you and your dreams

"if you have a purple gown go of sis" 😂😂😂 how are you this funny! 🤣

*Warning: Long Comment Ahead lol* This showed up on my recs and I was glad it did, it was lovely. I've dressing more modestly little by little by the convincing of the Holy Spirit since I reconciled, so this video wasn't really for me, but it's a necessary one to be sure. Women need to hear positive, personal messages like these. And feel that fellowship. Also, I was half way about to scream about our identity in Christ and then you said it! lol Yes, God is the only one that can give us true identity. Ladies, cling to that at first and eventually it'll be something that just "is" in your life. Because it is a reality whether you feel it or not and it is a beautiful gift. If I had something to add is that I was never super immodest, but I had my moments. Like most women there had been impure motives for my dressing at times, but a lot of clothes were also associated to relationships that caused me a lot of anguish and they just couldn't be redeemed. Funny thing is I clicked for the style recs, but they don't suit my body type. I did love the scripture centered message though ^_^ I would love to make a video like this for style recs in the future if I ever start a youtube channel. Shopping has been a challenge b/c I have a lot of limiting factors, but recently I went shopping & scored a ton of clothes. Praise the Lord! God bless you & keep you ladies!

Your honesty and faith is beautiful sister ❤ I have been saved since 2021 but I have struggled with finding my way to dress because of my old lifestyle I believed I neeeded to show as much as possible and now I have been working on my true style as a woman of God

I have started my faith journey and I also felt the pressure before being saved to dress in a half naked outfit and I realized when I went out I would not feel confident and I would feel like everyone is staring at me. I now have been on my modesty journey and I feel so beautiful! I love it and I honestly feel like it suits me more.

ash, you should genuinely be a motivational speaker. this brought me to tears.

Hi Ashley, I love how you’re being thst example that you’re never too young to follow God. Thank you for being a light of the world, the salt of the earlth! God is going to bless you exceedingly abundantly with everything you could ask for, just keep serving him! love you! and ps pls lock your doors when you get into the car and check it(same for anyone reading this, its just a safety precaution!)

hey Ashley! i started following you on your pinterest, and ive found that i love you and your content! I llove your love for God and you inspire and motivate me

"Long skirts are in right now- So glory to God." 😂 The cargo pants are giving me Kim Possible vibes and I'm here for it and I'm so glad you bought them!!!! The pants in the first outfit, you can wear those pants with boots!

Sorry ladies for interrupting, I found this channel by chance. Im so glad to see that there are still respectable women of faith around. I sincerely hope many more women follow this girls advice. And I hope to find a Proverb 31 woman, if the world is still standing. Blessings.

@ashleyhetherington_

10 ай бұрын

so thankful that the Lord is using this to encourage you.

"Just because you look good in it, doesn't mean you should wear it" -Ashley Hetherington

Yes girl!!!!!! Modesty needs to be a thing people should follow!! Amen sister 🙌🏻🙌🏻😫 Also, LOVE LOVE LOVE how you’re a Christian living for our Holy Creator!!!!!!! 😊 I don’t even find a whole lot of Christians on KZread or other platforms but when I do find them, it makes me very happy! 😃

We need more KZreadrs like Ashley!! 💕💕

I want More of these videos! So helpful!!

@ashleyhetherington_

7 ай бұрын

thankful for this feedback.

@ashleyhetherington_

7 ай бұрын

grateful for you being here.

I work on the fabric team at Aritzia HQ and helped make the pants you got! Hope you enjoy them! And I love this video idea

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

no wayyyy 💗 these pants are so fire

“Would I feel comfortable wearing this outfit in front of my dad” haha that got me so true

@bin8776

Жыл бұрын

@@presleyyyyyy Sure. Would you be comfortable if your mother was to walk around your house wearing nothing but thongs (coz why not? just like you, she's also sick and tired of the patriarchy)? It's so fascinating to me that women like you complain as to how oppressive these standards are (coz it's set by men/ bible) but somehow wearing revealing clothing or even going bare naked is somewhat liberating when truth of the matter is... just like the bible women wearing little to none is also a product of the patriarchy. Hence the saying 's3x work is the oldest profession'. But for some reason, women like you think it's liberating (when in reality you're just simply being objectified) but the former is somewhat 'wrong' because it's women being exploited for their naivity when truthfully speaking women dressing modest and women dressed immodest is just simply 2 sides of the same coin. And I would argue women dressed modestly (just like most women's sentiments here) makes men focus on a woman's personality and mannerism instead of her body. But why is it that you think you're opinion is right but theirs is not when women here (just like yourself) made a conscious choice? Now before you make the argument: 'That's why we should teach boys/ men to not see womem as s3x objects'. Let me ask you this: If I as a man was to court a woman and showed her how lavish my lifestyle is and how much money I have and the things I can buy her, but then unfortunately decided to exploit me (buy her clothes, food, book tripa, etc..). Is it my fault or her? Should I have held myself accountable and have been more cautious as to how I presented myself or should we just simply teach girls/ women not to exploit men (just like how we should teach men to not objectify women who dress immodestly? Did I strawman you? I believe I did the opposite.

@abicooks

Жыл бұрын

@@presleyyyyyy the bible means everything to us :)

@strawberrymilk418

Жыл бұрын

@@presleyyyyyy Personally, wearing provocative clothing around anyone but my husband, makes me uncomfortable. Even if that person has no ill or perverse feelings towards me.

Here’s another question I ask when considering modesty (and I get complimented every where I go for how i dress): If the Holy Spirit lead me to minister to someone that day, would I feel like my outfit ruins my witness? That’s been helpful for me navigating modesty, while still being stylish.

I love this video and your channel so much! I'm the oldest of 4 girls in my family so there's a lot of talk about modesty in my house, PLUS you're like the older sister I wish I had! You've helped me so much in my faith journey so thank you! What would you say about modest swimwear and gym clothes too? Love you, keep it up!

The green cargos and Levis with the black top are sooo amazing 😭😭 U LOOK FABULOUS

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

awww THANK YOU 💗

Appreciate you dive into modesty. Recently started my journey into modesty. I'd be interested on your take for summer clothes. This is more of a challenge then winter clothes I am finding, especially since I just moved south. Any tips?!! I'm all ears!

Hi Ashley. I thank God for your life and for using you mightily through your social media ministry. Months ago I felt so lost and I've been wandering. But then one day I saw your reels on facebook and I started following all your socmed accounts. You have encourage me GREATLY in every area of my life- even in my relationship. Now we are pursuing Jesus together and just today we made our 2023 goals with God (using your video "2023 Goal setting" as a reference) We are so blessed and grateful to God that we have found your channel. Continue what you're doing. You are a blessing!!!!!! 💖🍯

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

aww angel! i am so glad to have y’all in this community and to know you are seeking after the Lord 💖💖

Thaaaaaankkkk youuuuu!! God bless you! I've been in this journey of being modest and this video reaaally helps me a lot! And gives me more strength to be patient looking for good clothes! (I also glorify God because long skirts are trendy!) The only thing I would add, is loose t-shirts and not too tight, that are basic and beautiful too

Can you please do a vid for modest summer clothes for us girlies in the south!!!

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

ooof this is such a good idea

I am a lot older than you but I love this video. The first one I watched from your channel. It popped up in YT feed bc my daughter pre-teen watch your channel. And just yesterday we were having a convo about how people dress and what is acceptable and not. She is very young, a lot of things she does not fully grasp. You are a blessing to this generation. I pray the Lord bless you richly. I am glad to see young women taking God's work seriously and want to bring glory to God and do that in every aspects of their lives. I see many young women on YT really genuine about their faith. I am so encouraged, inspired and refreshed. Blessings.

I love that you took us to the store with you.

@ashleyhetherington_

Жыл бұрын

we are in this together 🫶🏻🫶🏻

I recently started getting closer to god and I’m so happy god put your channel in my feed 😊 I love your commitment to god and your inner self! ❤

Hi, I hope you are doing well. I just wanna say that is important you take into consideration the brands that you shop at. Many of them explode their workers and are not sustainable for the environment.. Please remember you influence people by your behaviour.. May God always guide your desicions.. ❤

I just want to love this so many times! God has really been doing a work in my heart in my clothes. I don’t want to say I’m outwardly immodest in ways, but God is still refining me in terms of not wanting to look like the best in the room or attract attention to myself just based on looks- even if it’s not sexual in nature. I’m really looking lately way more into specifically modest clothing that are stylish (which, why is that so hard to find?!) rare gems. Hahah 8 years born again and so thankful for our Lord! Love this content !! ❤️

Could you do a modest summer shopping vid please

i would really be interested in a video for modest clothing but for summer !

Thank you for this video and I would love to see more on the topic! My personal story is when I first became a born-again believer who is on fire for the Lord and kind of made the decision to only wear long skirts and to wear a head covering because I thought that was the only way to be modest. Well my non-believing husband was not a fan and it kind of put a big rift in between us. So I learned to tone it down but it was still very old lady like clothing. Now I'm rediscovering modesty with fresh eyes and I'm trying to figure out how to be modest and still look cute in age-appropriate, I'm 39 years old by the way. The area I'm struggling with the most is athleisureware and work out clothing. I'm trying to find modest ways to where bicycle shorts and leggings. I would love to see you do a video on this as I value your opinion greatly! Blessings and love sister! 🤍🙌🏼

Hi guys! May the Lord bless you! ❤❤

Wow this was awesome to watch! Christian women are truly beautiful🫶🏼

Oh my gawsh You Are So PRETTY !

Thank you so much Ashley, I’m going to start back dressing modestly I was backsliding and lukewarm for years and I hate it, I’m slowly rededicating my life to Jesus!!!! My version of modesty is skirts and dresses which I’m going back to, I will only wear pants in the winter and in my house… My favorite places for modest clothing 1. Thrift Stores (Goodwill, Salvation Army) 2. Amazon I recently bought some super cute dresses that I love I find amazing pieces on there… 3. Shein You will have to type in Modest dresses and skirts even tops because they do have a lot of revealing pieces… 4. Arie 5. Old Navy

You’re amazing. Thank you. Sometimes I feel like I’m always questioning if I should do this and that and don’t really know scripture and don’t always know where to find the answers. Right now I’m reading the Bible form start to finish 🫶🏼

@Missjennyj

Жыл бұрын

@Anonymously, Me! I love that for you 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Hiii! I recently started to wear veils at home while praying. It is awesome. I felt like God called me to try.

I just found your videos a couple of days ago and I love you and your videos!!!❤️ I just turned 15 and I have been struggling with a lot, you have helped me to spend a lot more time with God. I love you!! And you are so beautiful😊