His Birthday Was Amazing...Until it Wasn't!

He loved opening his birthday presents. He blew out the candles and we all cheered. Just like that everything changed and it was another sleepless night.
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  • @kellystanley5892
    @kellystanley5892 Жыл бұрын

    I love it when he says hi daddy.It melts my ❤️ His talking has come so far.

  • @michhart4237
    @michhart4237 Жыл бұрын

    Nick James I'm so proud of you. You're a wonderful gift from god. Sending all my love from uk. X

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Mich!

  • @rachelender2905
    @rachelender2905 Жыл бұрын

    King Nicky! Happy birthday sweet boy 🎉❤

  • @kzngirl1
    @kzngirl1 Жыл бұрын

    You two have raised amazing boys. Always remember to take a moment and be proud of yourselves for a job well done. Jonny you are such an amazing brother.

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thats very nice of you to say.

  • @charlesjacobs2865
    @charlesjacobs2865 Жыл бұрын

    I live in an extremely remote area (La Sal, Utah) and have become basically house-bound. Needless to say, it can get lonely at times. However, your videos always make me feel better. Nicky and all of you are wonderful! I always look forward to seeing you all. Happy Saint Patrick’s Day (especially to Shannon)!

  • @rachelender2905
    @rachelender2905 Жыл бұрын

    He looks so cool in all his green get up so cute

  • @kristinacuster5571
    @kristinacuster5571 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Nicky

  • @saticon3
    @saticon3 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Nicky! Hope your day was amazing!

  • @juliaduffy7374
    @juliaduffy7374 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Nicky I hope you had the best day ever with all the treats

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Julia!

  • @winfredjaycooper3495
    @winfredjaycooper3495 Жыл бұрын

    Very awesome and nice nick

  • @jessdrewthis
    @jessdrewthis Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes birthdays feel like a lot for anyone, even neurotypicals. I usually enjoy my birthday but there have been a few years where I just felt sad and overwhelmed and cried for hours. I guess it’s hard when there’s so much other change and movement happening in my life. Maybe there are a lot of thoughts and feelings in Nick’s head that he can’t yet verbalize. I hope you all have a great weekend ✌🏾And I feel you on the weather, I’m also in the Mid-Atlantic and winter refuses to die in my home too. Can’t wait for spring!

  • @indroneswetrust1

    @indroneswetrust1

    Жыл бұрын

    That what I was gonna tell his family! This must be it, cuz he's feeling lots of changing in him. He might be going through publicly and hormones are changing inside him that he can't talk about it. He must be getting lots of changing in him. I'm thinking same thing, maybe, hmmm 🤔

  • @pandabear7073
    @pandabear7073 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday young man so proud of you you have come such a long way since I have been watching

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much!

  • @lindapeterson8717
    @lindapeterson8717 Жыл бұрын

    I just hate that Nicky was sad, it's so frustrating he can't tell you what's upsetting him. I love your boy's and always wish the very best for them. On another not.... John I to live for the summer. I can't wait to see your family at the beach Shannon on her board, Nicky in the water, you getting clams and of course Johnny with out a shirt. 😂😂😂❤❤❤ ☘HAPPY ST.PATRICKS DAY!

  • @rubysumlin3494
    @rubysumlin3494 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday 🖌💙

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Ruby.

  • @maryannkrejmas8054
    @maryannkrejmas8054 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday to you

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @irishgirl1753
    @irishgirl1753 Жыл бұрын

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY NICKY💚🍀❤️👏👍🎂🍾🎉

  • @Tenamf
    @Tenamf Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday 🎂🎈🎊🎉🎁 young man I’m so happy you had a great Day. I pray that you all have a awesome weekend.

  • @Denise-xw3bd
    @Denise-xw3bd Жыл бұрын

    ☘️❤️☘️❤️☘️

  • @laurawhite1679
    @laurawhite1679 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Nicky hope you had a good birthday 🎉

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Laura!

  • @annegreenwood3624
    @annegreenwood3624 Жыл бұрын

    johnny is such a great brother loved y’all singing happy bday 🎉a lot of nice gifts another fun video happy st patrick’s day☘️

  • @el_thorpe_music
    @el_thorpe_music Жыл бұрын

    Happy brithday nicky hope you have amzing 🎉❤❤❤

  • @jessicajimenez4696
    @jessicajimenez4696 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Nicky. 🎂🎉😊

  • @alexthesaintbernardlover5938
    @alexthesaintbernardlover5938 Жыл бұрын

    Hope you had a great St patty day

  • @xcarolynx2002
    @xcarolynx2002 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Nick James!!

  • @swatgirl8082
    @swatgirl8082 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Nicky!!

  • @flamingodiego
    @flamingodiego Жыл бұрын

    Maybe he was sad that it was over. Like that feeling after Christmas.

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a great point. I didn't think of that.

  • @sarahmccarthy4462
    @sarahmccarthy4462 Жыл бұрын

    I think it's because you tell Nicky you are so proud of him that that's what made him say it

  • @karenfrizzo4251
    @karenfrizzo4251 Жыл бұрын

    Hi John, I hear what your saying about Nicky having a little party and opening presents perhaps being what upset Nicky, my granddaughter who also has autisum gets disregulated and can get quite upset about change in her routine, even if others would consider it a happy change. As Sam suggested storyboards do go a long way in helping prepare her for something coming up, the event or change still idoesnt always go down well, but the reaction doesnt seem as great because she is more prepared for it , knows its coming.

  • @tinamarie7777
    @tinamarie7777 Жыл бұрын

    When I was a child I used to cry myself to sleep after holidays with gifts. It was definitely not because of it being over, it was total anxiety over so many new things at once. I couldn’t sleep that night. I don’t know if that helps but I thought I would share. 🥰☀️

  • @sarahjones8527
    @sarahjones8527 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday nick

  • @rhondapaquette2814
    @rhondapaquette2814 Жыл бұрын

    Hey nicky happy birthday and I hope u enjoy your day and your cake and with family and stay warm or whatever your weather is down there and my birthday is in the summer in August 17th and u are welcome to write back when u can okay happy birthday 🎂 🥳.

  • @jillchrzanowski7977
    @jillchrzanowski7977 Жыл бұрын

    I have a thought… Maybe when Nick opened his presents He didn’t have time to process Everything at once And got very overwhelmed When everyone was cheering he might not have known why you were cheering and got upset because he wasn’t cheering He seems like he wants to do what everyone else is doing Emotions wise But doesn’t know how. Next time when he opens presents let him process the gift like he did with Sam and his gift He carried it around for awhile And was super happy Happy Birthday Nicky 🥳

  • @tammyadkins3537
    @tammyadkins3537 Жыл бұрын

    Have you ever used story board I've found they help we use actual pics of what was going to happen

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Great suggestion!

  • @marierutherford1594
    @marierutherford1594 Жыл бұрын

    It’s the letdown this happens at Christmas for us

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    That could be it.

  • @cntrygrl6985
    @cntrygrl6985 Жыл бұрын

    Could it be the sugar or chocolate in the cookie keeping him awake? A little choc can keep me up all night.

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Mabey. I think it was more of an emotional/anxiety thing.

  • @mjcompas
    @mjcompas Жыл бұрын

    That's good comucation Nicky

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    It's really coming along.

  • @GhostPepperMeg
    @GhostPepperMeg Жыл бұрын

    Now that Nicky is learning how to identify different emotions , I wonder if when Nick is upset/mad you can make something as almost a routine. When Nicky gets mad or upset … he FaceTimes Sam, or talks to Johnny etc. when my Matthew and Zachary ( 16 and 17 YO) are mad , I’m the last person they want to talk to. Zachary generally calls his cousin who is his BFF and Mathew a friend!

  • @jackielowrey3032
    @jackielowrey3032 Жыл бұрын

    Did Johnny not go through with the marines?

  • @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    @NickyTVFamilyVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Jackie, he's in the UNSM reserves now.

  • @sgary2008
    @sgary2008 Жыл бұрын

    I love the way Johnny loves on Nicky ❤❤❤

  • @kimaugust9920
    @kimaugust9920 Жыл бұрын

    Have you tried to do a turkey burger instead, it is healthier. I know you guys tried to change it once before but I don't remember if you did chicken sandwich or did turkey