A lot of people didn't make it to 80 years old. What a blessing for Joy Behar to see 80 years old.

@surlespasdondine

11 ай бұрын

yes!

@lee4768

11 ай бұрын

I know many women who live to 96 and longer.

@incajansen1101

11 ай бұрын

Too bad she is a total Flake and a Narcissist

@JloveLamar

11 ай бұрын

​@lee4768 you're very fortunate, and so are they

@yourlittlebrotherGabrielReview

11 ай бұрын

She’s rich but still. She looks amazing and I would hope to be that active if I even make it to that age.

Joy truly excelled as moderator in this segment with her total honesty

@naylas3908

11 ай бұрын

She always does.

@MatthewsFav

11 ай бұрын

I don't always agree with Joy but I think she is a much better moderator than Whoppi.

@sheldoncole7276

11 ай бұрын

@@naylas3908 so does Whoopi

@avp6827

11 ай бұрын

I only watch the view to understand the other side. I don’t care for Joy , but she is a great moderator.

@waryaawariiri1812

11 ай бұрын

Whoopie just mumbles on and on and without making any coherent thoughts. Fridays, the topics run smoothly regardless the subjects when Joy moderates.

Joy looks amazing for 80. I thought she was in her 60s. Okay sis, you said use sunscreen…got it! Lol

@vincentbaca790

11 ай бұрын

Good lighting, makeup, and smoke and mirrors...

@breal7277

11 ай бұрын

Plastic surgery and botox do wonders! Yes, she looks amazing!

@mooks616

11 ай бұрын

@@breal7277She openly admits to using Botox regularly but she clearly hasn’t had surgery, her eyes, nose & lips are untouched.

@freedomofspeech6447

11 ай бұрын

@@vincentbaca790Haterrrrr 😅

@vincentbaca790

11 ай бұрын

@@freedomofspeech6447 no, just a realist....take an honest look for yourself...

Another point, sometimes really toxic parents who are together isn’t really any better than two divorced cordial parents

@awade7aw

11 ай бұрын

3:00

@BettyJoSpencer

11 ай бұрын

So true. My father always said children should come from a broken home,not live in one.

@Daisy-kf7zw

11 ай бұрын

I agree. My parents were toxic whenever they were together so I was glad they got divorced

@anonymousone9699

11 ай бұрын

You know what, yessss! Since I was a teenager, I experienced a horrible home life, not because of abuse, or deprivation of anything for me as a child, but because the dynamics in our home were off between my parents. They clearly disliked each other, and the longer they stayed together, the less respect and tolerance they had for each other. One would literally have to physically remove themselves from the same room if the other entered. They were reserved and respectful in front of us and the world, but man, they couldn’t fool us. As soon as the last kid went to college, literally like 2-3 months before my little brother left for college, they announced their divorce. My siblings and I were so relieved. It got to a bad point where I worried for physical harm if one finally broke or something. The tension was always terrible. That is to say, divorce is a freaking blessing I wish on no one, but hope for those who need it. Marriage isn’t just the paper, burn it down if the two parties no longer honour that contract. The sooner, the better in my opinion. My parents are a really good team separated than they were together. They could have had a much much happier life had they stopped worrying about the kids and just went their separate ways earlier. They could have a better relationship today had they not stayed too long and started hating each other. I’d go as far as to say, eff the kids, a marriage is between 2 people and 2 people only. If they no longer like each other, that’s all the consideration they need to take. Finances, kids, the community can be figured out if the divorcing parties separated amicably. They will be more loving in how they organize coparenting and children’s needs. I’m telling you, do not drag out a failed marriage for the sake of anyone else! As a child of a bad divorce, I’d rather have grown up with happily divorced parents than, stuck and bitter and exhausted parents. It was not a family anyway.

@blueblack3591

11 ай бұрын

Yeah

Joy looks very incredible and good at 80 years old

*Joy looks incredible for her age - and her faculties are still intact. She is an inspiration to many.* ❣️

@HH-gv8mx

11 ай бұрын

My 96 yr old grandmother hasn’t had all the Botox or any face lifts. So she looks like a regular 96-year-old but I think she looks good. And she still does all of the New York Times crossword puzzles even the hard one on Sundays and she watches Jeopardy and gets almost every question right! Her sharpness amazes me. .

@hannahwalmer1124

11 ай бұрын

She gets Botox.

@BollywoodMediaOnline

11 ай бұрын

She could pass for being in her 50s/early 60s easily.

@user-mj1tb7py3j

11 ай бұрын

@@hannahwalmer1124 so it works

@carolwilliams894

11 ай бұрын

She is still delusional

Couldn't believe Joy is 80, had to google it.

My parents were miserable together. I wished my parents had divorced. Children of a miserable yet married couple are just as negatively impacted as children of divorced but happy parents, some more so because they don't see how being married can be fulfilling, so they choose to avoid those types of relationships altogether.

Joy is a Good 👍 Host .... just my opinion

@oadelano_007

11 ай бұрын

Love joy . Seems like type person chill with have fun 🍾🥂🍹

@Jerico195

11 ай бұрын

Way better than whoopi.

@sheldoncole7276

11 ай бұрын

So is Whoopi

@noluthando6757

11 ай бұрын

!00%. Whoopi is a bully

@moniqueengleman873

11 ай бұрын

And she is 80 years old. She is on top of it. Joe Biden is younger.

I love Joy so much honestly and I hope she’s around for a long time still

@lilaznkid4ever

11 ай бұрын

No, she's getting into her 80s. She got a great plastic surgeon and makeup artist though.

@HH-gv8mx

11 ай бұрын

@@lilaznkid4ever what are you talking about, “no”??? People are living well into their 100s. My grandmother is 96. Still sharp as a tack and still answers almost every question on jeopardy correctly.

@Dildobagginses

11 ай бұрын

Yeah man she's not even graying yet So real and honest

Sunny parents in law were married 50 years until they passed. That's true love people!!!!❤❤❤❤

@breal7277

11 ай бұрын

No. That's commitment. We don't know if they truly loved each other. What we know is that they stayed together through the ups and downs.

@asante291

10 ай бұрын

@@breal7277well said.

PS: The dynamic of these women is off the charts! It's the best group of co-hosts EVER!

Joy looks amazing and she's just as quick-witted as when she was in her 30s.

Joy might be the youngest and most vibrant 80 year old I've ever seen.

@incajansen1101

11 ай бұрын

Plastic surgery can't make you attractive

@lynxo5695

11 ай бұрын

IKR 😲

As a child of divorce, I was RELIEVED when the divorce finally came. Because the interparental conflict was horrific and very open. After the divorce, there was such peace. So, please be careful assuming the effects of divorce on children. The effects are highly varied.

@surlespasdondine

11 ай бұрын

yes!!!!

My sister-in-law hid the fact that her son got a divorce from her family for some months. It was something I could not understand. Divorce happens. It was better for her son because he and his ex were fighting a lot. The stigma of divorce shouldn't exist anymore.

@MatthewsFav

11 ай бұрын

I had a couple of my siblings get divorced. My mother never told her family across the sea because she was embarassed by it. WTH, what parent want's to see their child getting physically abused and is embarassed by the divorces.

@bec6384

11 ай бұрын

Then the sanctity of marriage shouldn’t exist either. It’s ridiculous to think that way. I understand there are serious reasons why people divorce, but nowadays people just want to divorce for getting bored or annoyed.

@TheBrownIsland

11 ай бұрын

​@@bec6384The Sanctity of Marriage is *no reason to stay in a miserable Marriage* that's been over for years. A verbal &/or physical Abusive Marriage getting your face Bashed in, OR with a dog who won't stop cheating, OR a miserable _"I wish I was Dead"_ marriage where the person does Not even love you anymore, living like Roomates in separate rooms and it's fighting & War everyday. That's not boredom, only Celebrities toss marriage like it's nothing. And not the Celebs that divorce after 20 Or 30years of marriage _(a lifetime)_ they stayed married for a long time, they did not play with it. It's for a good reason they're divorcing. *Who you are in your 20s is not who you are pushing 50yrs old.*

@TheBrownIsland

11 ай бұрын

​@@bec6384So many damage and traumatized kids from Bad & Toxic Marriages wish their parents had divorced.

@bec6384

11 ай бұрын

@@TheBrownIsland I 100% agree there are reasons to get divorced such as abuse or cheating. Changing from who you are in your 20’s is not a reason to get divorced. That sounds like you’ve lost the same interests as your partner. I’m sorry, but you work to find common interests and you stick it out.

As a Canadian, I'd like to make a slight correction . Justin hasn't divorced his wife, he's only legally separated from her. In Canada, these are two different things. Unlike a divorce, a legal separation doesn't break the bonds of marriage. If you are separated and want to get back together with your wife, you are not obliged to remarry her, whereas if you divorce your wife and want to get back with her, you must remarry her.

@shelleykeefer4966

11 ай бұрын

I really believe that all of the threats our PM has been getting has prompted both him and his wife to part for safety reasons above all especially for their three kids. I would do the same.

@camy3018

11 ай бұрын

​@@shelleykeefer4966wow I had no idea that was happening. That's so sad.

@Kaisforeignadventures

11 ай бұрын

It's the same in the U.S.

@shaunaireland7781

11 ай бұрын

Ya it's also venus retrograde. They'll probly get back together in a few months .

@richardc8795

11 ай бұрын

@@shelleykeefer4966 Alberta and Manitoba despise Trudeau.

I love that Joy is finally embracing her age. She used to be so triggered by someone even broaching the subject. ❤️

My Grandparents had their 70 years of marriage anniversary yesterday. They still love each other dearly. It's quite special.

Alyssa and Sunny agreeing and nodding heads together when they look at each other is unicorn moment I'm happy to see :)

Joy should takeover hosting

@timbredan3476

11 ай бұрын

I agree. Whoopi can do it once per week.

Love seeing the newly unfolding chemistry and good vibes happening between Sunny and Alyssa ✨

@TheBrownIsland

11 ай бұрын

*It all Depends on the topic of discussion, then they're at each other's throats. They talk a lot behind the scenes even if there is Tension on camera.

@jessicaatkins3173

11 ай бұрын

Right! I hate constantly seeing Sunny ripping into Alyssa or cutting her off

@tigger06

11 ай бұрын

Comes and goes

As a child of divorce, my parents divorcing was the best thing they could have done. Also, my husband's parents are divorced and we've been married for 20 years.

A generation or two ago, you didn't see much divorce because women stayed in crappy marriages for economic reasons while their husbands cheated.

Joy is an 80-year old rare, priceless gem!

During the pandemic, my husband and I grew closer. I never have stopped loving him. It hasn't always been easy, but worth the tears.

@MatthewsFav

11 ай бұрын

That is awesome that you two have a strong committment

@viniciuslima9430

11 ай бұрын

Right?!? I don’t get people blaming the pandemic.

I want to be like Joy when I grow up 😊

@vincentbaca790

11 ай бұрын

Joy doesn't...

@gladysttoscano6520

11 ай бұрын

@@vincentbaca790 What?

Joy is just fun...I love her. She looks great for 80

@vincentbaca790

11 ай бұрын

Why not.just say that she looks great?

I loved my husband being off work and home every day during Covid, I loved how our lives slowed down, we actually became closer as a family. 💜🇨🇦💜

@timbredan3476

11 ай бұрын

That's great! 😊

Judge Judy looks incredible and good for being 80 years old

Joy looks FANTASTIC ✨️ ❤ 80 where??????

I agree fully with Sunny and I said the exact same with my husband and we celebrated 27 years before his passing. Like Sunny, I was upfront from the beginning and told him to move on if he wasn’t willing to do the work. And yes, just like Mrs Obama we had our low times but we absolutely loved one another and was very protective of one another. The day of his death I was in shock, the day of his funeral I was in agony, but the burial felt like someone was ripping my chest out of me. I can’t see myself becoming emotionally invested in anyone like that ever again. I have two beautiful children and my husband was a wonderful provider. I am now investing in myself and giving myself to community work and I am happy and mentally stable.

Joy is just joyful!, 😅

They're marrying for the wrong reasons. Some of people are too similar in nature. Alot of marriages work because the other fills the need of something you don't have, lack or know nothing about.

@KingOfCoolness

11 ай бұрын

That's not a good marriage philosophy at all. Makes one person way too dependent on another.

I just want to put this out there. Getting a divorce is not always extremely difficult on the children. It may have been that for Sunny and Alyssa, but not for me. And I want to say this because with them stating how traumatic it was for them as children, there are people out there that are considering a divorce that have children involved and may change their mind because of what these two ladies said. I myself am a product of divorce. My parents divorced when I was the age of 12. To be honest, I was actually pretty happy that they divorced. No matter how much they tried to hide it, having arguments sometimes, and in some cases there was some instances of physical altercations, it was not an environment that I felt comfortable living in. I did act out ridiculously during my teen years, but it wasn’t because my parents got divorced. It was because unbeknownst to me not only did my father divorce my mom, he also seemed to divorce being a father to me and my brother 😢. I was actually acting up to get his attention and see if he would show up and that ended up never being the case unfortunately. He didn’t care to also contribute anything towards the raising of my brother and I and just left my mom high and dry. Had my father been present and meet his financial responsibilities and co-parent with my mom, then divorce wouldn’t have been such an issue to deal with. I say all this to say, that by staying in an marriage for the sake of the children you’re showing your children how to stay in unhealthy relationships of any kind. As long as both parents can be on the same page about raising their children and being present in every way possible then, divorce is not such a traumatic experience. Going through something like that as child honestly can prepare you well for so much that life will throw at you. Sometimes you can definitely be better for it with going through that experience. Just my opinion 🤷🏾‍♀️.

@debbiedoodiedandi

11 ай бұрын

I wish my parents divorced. There was physical and emotional abuse involved, but she stayed because she wanted to keep the family together for "the kids". But their relationship was toxic and I never saw a loving moment between them. Every day was yelling, anxiety and drama.

@vienicestyles

11 ай бұрын

I agree. Children watching their parents fight everyday, and become physically violent is not a good environment for them to be in. The children can grow up thinking that dysfunctional relationships are normal.

@breal7277

11 ай бұрын

My best friend in college celebrated when her parents finally divorced. Theirs was un unhealthy marriage but they stayed together "for the kids". The kids were messed up anyway because of the verbal abuse they were subjected to witness growing up.

@ebbyc1817

11 ай бұрын

it's not that simple. your parents are always your parents psychologically, whatever choices they make. So for example, your father abandoning you and his responsibilities as a father, could lead you to see men who are non-committal or relative dismissive as a viable option for partnership, in a way that someone who had an available father would not, because your father is your first model, of a partner. The fact that they were divorced doesn't change anything, psychologically. You'll still be unconsciously attracted to men who are like your father. Consciously, you might make a different choice.

@shedskin01

11 ай бұрын

I agree too. Also child of divorce here, and the most traumatic experience about it was all the fights. In fact, one of the worst fights was on an attempt to get back together. Sure, as you said, both parents have to be committed to make things peaceful but it’s hard for them when they have hurt each other. And if one of them has existential problems of their own, then it’s even harder. But in the long run, it’s still better in that case for them to split. Or it could be worse.

If you gotta think about divorce, why get married then

Seems like it's more people getting divorced than people getting married

@vincentbaca790

11 ай бұрын

Seems?

I love when Joy is the moderator. She flourishes so Effortlessly! My Comedy Talk Show Queen!

People grow. It’s inevitable and part of being a human being. Unfortunately, you can’t predict whether your spouse will grow in the same direction as you or not. Marriage has always been, and will always be, a gamble. Best of luck.

Omg I can’t believe joy is 80! Girl not only you look amazing, you are amazing!

Man, I remember when Joy never told her age. I've always hoped that i grow old just so i can see how my children have grown up and how their kids will be. What a blessing to get old.

Terrible discussion. I got a feeling Sonny doesn’t like her husband.

I had absolutely no clue Joy was 80 y.o. Amazing!!! I want to be her when I grow up.

First of all, Joy looks fantastic! They say :Black don't crack" well I guess that goes for Italian women as well.😘 I think the days of staying married for life are gone. People get married now without an expectation it will be forever. It's not like when I was younger the two taboos were to have a baby out of wedlock and get a divorce.

6:02 It's honestly so refreshing to see a hard right Republican sit at that table, and be genuinely nice to hard left liberal! Meghan always claimed that her and Sunny were besties getting margaritas together but she'd neverrrr display that friendship at the table. I was vehemently against Alyssa in the beginning because she had gotten so close to the devil incarnate, but she's won me over! I'd have drinks with her.

Joy is 80?!!!!! Howwww?

I'm very blessed that my parents are still together. When I was little, they were going through a rough patch. I almost thought they were getting a divorce. That would’ve broken my heart. I know divorce can be hard when there are kids involved, but if they're willing to co-parent and be civil, the children’s will being has to come first.

So true sometimes I want to punch my husband in the throat but I love him ❤and we still together

I just love Alyssa. She’s an absolute sweetheart of a woman

@tosmijocarlo1082

11 ай бұрын

I appreciate the entire panel.

I love the respect Alyssa and sara show towards each other. We need more people like this.

@vincentbaca790

11 ай бұрын

And.both.are.hotties...

@camara1194

11 ай бұрын

i know!!

@timbredan3476

11 ай бұрын

Indeed

Marriage is overrated!

No way Joy, you definitely don't look 80. I thought you were about 60.

Working women don’t stay in bad marriages. This is why divorce rates are so high.

What the F, Joy is 80??? She cannot get over it, what about us (we don't believe it)!!

Alyssa’s laugh is everything!!😃😁

What a joy, Joy is❤

@jimsager3297

11 ай бұрын

Yes, but I love Whoopi too.

Joy looks very good 😊

It’s also not a good look on being divorce. It’s best to take your time finding the right person. We are always pressured to get married and have kids before 30 but now it’s changing.

Joy needs to be full time moderator

No way Joy is 80!

@kallen868

11 ай бұрын

YES WAY!

At 14 I decided to date but stay single. I kept my word and still date but I'm still single and very happy with no court divorce debt.

Approximately 20-40% of divorces are caused by infidelity. There may be legitimate reasons for some divorces like the above but we need to tackle the causes instead of the symptoms. Society is now individualistic and not about compromise, sacrifice or community.

It doesn’t matter if the parents got divorced or stayed together. the kids know the parents are unhappy. Mine stayed together, but my brother and I said as adults that they should have gotten a divorce when we were kids.

I’m glad I’m divorced I’m married to young and I married a narcissist. It took me 14 years to figure out I should never be married

@ebbyc1817

11 ай бұрын

Why are the worst marriages always the longest ... people divorce when they are relatively ok but if they are utterly miserable they will stay and stay and stay

You can't predict the future Sunny

Divorce is hard! Kids suffer! BUT it’s the right thing to do sometimes.

I honestly find it insane that Joy is 80 🤯🤯🤯

Whoopi Goldberg is divorced and has been several times so I would of loved to hear what she had to say in this segment

@Ben2bwild

11 ай бұрын

She would say mind your business and do what works for you

@breal7277

11 ай бұрын

No. I can't stand her moderating because she rants on and on.

@lynntodd2845

11 ай бұрын

​@breal7277 Exactly..I love Fridays when she's not there😂

Thank you Sunny for pointing out that divorce severely affects the children that have zero say. The feuding spouses cheer and jeer at divorce, but the children pay for it psychologically. Stop glamorizing divorce people. It's nothing to be proud of.

@kaytee5031

11 ай бұрын

And parents staying together fighting and hating each other doesn’t impact children? Please be for real.

@linger4605

11 ай бұрын

@@kaytee5031 Have you ever tried to work things out? Seek counseling? Actually talking to each other like civilized people? My parents had MANY problems (including domestic violence) but they still managed to work it out by talking and correcting. They're still married 43 years later and get along now. I'm glad they did.

@linger4605

11 ай бұрын

@@kaytee5031 If you let your relationship get to the point of fighting and screaming, then take a long look at yourself. Take some accountability that you partook in that and you allowed it. Start with the person in the mirror.

@talco881

11 ай бұрын

@@linger4605 Get real, you think your unique experience is how it will work out for others..hahaha...not even more often than not especially with domestic violence it doesn't work out, the two parties can't get over it. Well, you know because there is violence. Your family experience bucks the norm, you have to realize that.

@Paleteroboi

11 ай бұрын

@@linger4605 that requires both parties to be willing to seek outside help. Not everyone has a partner that’s even willing to entertain the idea of therapy. And then when you add mental health issues and personal trauma into the mix, it can get ugly. Divorce won’t scar a child anywhere nearly as bad as domestic violence, screaming matches, and an overall tense household.

Finding out Joy's in her 80s made all the other topics irrelevant to me. She looks & is phenomenal, just wow!!!!

"Punch you in the throat" LOL

Joy looks ah-mazing for 80

Is Joy wearing a Wig!? For Reals, like, Her Hair NEVER Changes IMO....

I also think Joy look terrific for 80 years old. Remember she gets Botox, fillers which help a lot.if I had the money I would also get these things done on my face and neck. She has a cute shape and a great sense of humor! You go girl!

why is everyone so shocked that Joy is 80? yes, she looks great. She's slimmed down -- has her hair and makeup done professionally - probably gets a few nips and tucks. She's rich. Look at Cher -- she's 77. Stay slim, take care of yourself, be wealthy - it's possible

thank god my parents got divorced, even though it couid have been sooner. Don't ever stay together "just for the kids" you are not doing them any favors.

I was child of divorce and I always say it was the best thing my parents ever did for me. I was only six but I was aware enough to know that they weren’t good together.

@ebbyc1817

11 ай бұрын

A kid can get used to anything at six, you were young enough to adjust to the new normal.

I beleieve you have to have a certain level of experience, self-awareness, age, and understanding to enter into a marriage with the mindset to enter without divorce as an option. I had been told since I was a kid that "If you are having sex, you need to be married." I was married TWICE by 20 with that thinking....to people who I didn't even know or even like. Ugh! It was awful. I don't count the first one really because it was like a few months. The second marriage at 20 though was a miserable 7 years. Let's just say my teenage years and 20's sucked. Only thing good about them were my 3 precious kids. Now, in my 30's I have completed grad school, work as a clinical mental health counselor, have my own peaceful home for my teenagers, and living the best, most peaceful life I could have ever imagined for myself. My kids are thriving and well. I have been in thr healthiest most loving relationship for the past 5 years. I'm truly grateful. ❤

@KingOfCoolness

11 ай бұрын

Marriage is overrated.

After Roe vs Wade - women no longer want the obligation of sex and chance of pregnancy.

The word on the street is trump wife is on her way to Canada because our prime minister is now single 😂

@sharonfarrar5316

11 ай бұрын

😂

Joy is giving Jane Fonda and I love that for her.

Sunny is so hard core Catholic. It's 2023, wake up.

Gorgeous joy. The kids will be fine. How about just try to be happy as much as you both can?

The sad thing is that Justin Trudeau's parenrs divorxed due to the stress of his Mother's undiagnosed mental Illness and that she had difficulty coping with being in the public eye. It's sad, especially for the children.

I like how joy just skipped from 1980 to 2017

Joy beautiful 💜😊 2:59

Everything that has a beginning has an ending.

"We know who THEY are" Lmao!

the table is more light and fun without whoopie

So Alyssa Sunny got married when she was "5" 😂😂😂😂

Joy looks amazing!

Did Kelvin Costher get a divorce FOR REAL ????

When they say people you have to understand they’re talking about “women” 😂

Something tells me sunny isn’t in fact happy

Regards from Montreal

*****JOY THERE IS NO WAY YOU ARE 80****

Joy walked in Gucci Hills at 80 years old

Oh, how I love Fridays! They are JOYfull days indeed! She is the best moderator for this show.

If men talked about punching their spouse in the throat… sigh double standard.

@larabraver

11 ай бұрын

I’m a woman and I don’t like it either. Violence either way is wrong.

It’s unfortunate that Joy Beher had to rush her way through the intro before the hens rambled about a topic for which they are 30 less years qualified to speak.