Some push back. Love your channel by the way. I've always practiced the nature of a woman being her vanity. What she very much needs to believe she possess that she very much needs to believe has value. She''ll whore for survival but die for her vanity. Let's not run pass this... Her vanity is ONLY what she doesn't actually possess or has value, wishes she/it did, has a hard time getting, and may be deluding herself into thinking she does. Focus on exactly THAT! In casual conversation...when you're tired...when you're mad at her...when she's bored...etc... You then have the choice. You can be a "good man" and work to make it a reality. You can put pimpry on it by charging her something of great value for selling her own dream back to her. Wisely, you can simply entertain it in various ways to learn who and what is she really. Let me help. What are her various expectations in life, how far does she feel from them (happiness), what does she expect from herself (where success is most likely), and what are the resulting insecurities (passions, the focal points of intimacy). Now take that all the way down the yellow brick road to how she ultimately chooses, when there is a choice, to handle the disappointment. Apart from the best picture of her character it easily reveals her vanity.