Heartbreak Over the Holidays

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  • @JessaSeewald
    @JessaSeewald Жыл бұрын

    Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.) Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life. There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.

  • @matsudafam2

    @matsudafam2

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said, we have 3 beautiful babies on earth with us and 3 beautiful babies in heaven that God took home before we met. 1 D&C and 2 natural passing, people assume the worst when I say I had a D&C they don’t understand a little life was gone before that procedure. God bless you and your journey to healing.

  • @alyssafrost4860

    @alyssafrost4860

    Жыл бұрын

    Fetuses are not living human beings. They cannot live outside of the womb until 24-ish weeks gestation. Very unfortunate you would use this type of language. And I am so very sorry you suffered a loss . Sending love.

  • @Plantedbythestream

    @Plantedbythestream

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bluesamg The fact that you could say such a thing says it all.

  • @TaraConway16

    @TaraConway16

    Жыл бұрын

    @@John-pt4xv Abortions and D&Cs are not the same thing. Abortion is when you choose to kill a baby. A D&C is when you remove a baby who already died.

  • @TaraConway16

    @TaraConway16

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bluesamg It's not the same thing! D&C is done when the baby is already dead. Abortion is when you choose to kill your baby because you don't feel like taking responsibility for your own actions.

  • @robinhood4670
    @robinhood4670 Жыл бұрын

    It is so refreshing to hear a child say thank you, with enthusiasm as well. You have beautiful children, inside and out.

  • @carolgoergens9275
    @carolgoergens92758 ай бұрын

    Those kids are just precious! What good parents

  • @robinhood4670
    @robinhood4670 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa, please continue with your videos. Don't let criticism of your brother, family or the procedure you had after the miscarriage stop you. Your family is unique and Charming. I know I look forward to your videos and thousands of others do too. Hope you are feeling better.

  • @DinaMi777

    @DinaMi777

    10 ай бұрын

    I do too I love the videos ❤

  • @connemaragal
    @connemaragal11 ай бұрын

    i love that you and Ben both have faith in God and can share that together.

  • @solideogloria6569
    @solideogloria6569 Жыл бұрын

    I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks as well and then a D&C. 💗. It is truly heartbreaking 😢. I am glad you are still able to say God is good. He's also close to the brokenhearted, Amen ✝️.

  • @mrsB0915
    @mrsB0915 Жыл бұрын

    “I didn’t get to hold you in my arms, but I know The One who does” ❤

  • @caryncarlson7180
    @caryncarlson7180 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Jessa. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby. My heart is with you and your family during this time.

  • @danid.1874
    @danid.1874 Жыл бұрын

    Ben and Jessa, My heart goes out to you for your loss. I’ll be praying for you. Thank you for your transparency. You just never know who you might be helping along the way. God bless you both, and your precious family. Keep shining for Jesus 🌟

  • @veryvanessa
    @veryvanessa Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been battling infertility for the last 5 years. I lost my first baby at 11 weeks last summer and it still hurts so bad. I’ve questioned whether I’d ever become a Mom but then I remember Gods promise. He promised I’d become a Mom & that’s what I’ve held on to. ❤

  • @Srenitystreez

    @Srenitystreez

    Жыл бұрын

    my brother had a friend that said she couldnt have kids because everytime she got pregnant she would lose the baby and i told her something that rose up in my spirit that God reminded me of is that my mom told me that when my sister and me get pregnant, since we have B negative blood, were gonna have to get a shot at i think 4 weeks. because if you dont get that shot, your body will fight off the baby and think its a virus. when i told her that i think she said i think i do have negative blood and said she needed to get checked by a doctor. i think two years after that she got pregnant and the baby stayed, shes a mom of two now . i dont talk to her anymore because my brother and her boy friend had a falling out

  • @blossombolton9829
    @blossombolton9829 Жыл бұрын

    I miss you, Jessa. I hope you won't give up on making videos because some people were mean to you. I imagine they're a small minority compared to those of us who admire you.

  • @marlenepearson3936

    @marlenepearson3936

    Жыл бұрын

    I came here to tell her the same thing. 😢

  • @thatcrazyjack

    @thatcrazyjack

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too ❤

  • @oliviab4412
    @oliviab4412 Жыл бұрын

    Ivy’s excitement over the dollhouse was precious!! How she keeps thanking Daddy🥹 SO sorry for y’all’s loss😢 praise Jesus we have the hope of eternity ❤

  • @TherealgoddessK

    @TherealgoddessK

    Жыл бұрын

    That was the picture of gratitude. She was so thankful

  • @miagoodas

    @miagoodas

    Жыл бұрын

    Right...so much gratitude!

  • @DeFausti

    @DeFausti

    Жыл бұрын

    Why did she get a medical intervention instead of letting it happen naturally as God intended??

  • @oliviab4412

    @oliviab4412

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DeFausti so is chemo for a cancer patient wrong since that’s medical intervention?

  • @dontworryaboutme6697

    @dontworryaboutme6697

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DeFausti because of her past hemorrhaging.

  • @LisaR2392
    @LisaR2392 Жыл бұрын

    I am SO sorry for your loss Jessa!😢. I am also so thankful for you sharing and proud of you for having the courage to do so! Love seeing a new side of you that we haven’t ever seen! Thank you for being so real, raw and vulnerable!! ❤️❤️

  • @melissaknauer5196
    @melissaknauer5196 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my, I paused the video and zoomed in to see Spurgeon's drawing and tears started flowing. That beautiful picture is one of the sweetest, heartwarming things I've ever seen. God bless him and your whole precious family. You are doing such a good job mamma.

  • @rissa3163
    @rissa3163 Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss and im glad you were able to get a procedure some women fight to have

  • @Shana0726
    @Shana0726 Жыл бұрын

    Your kids are adorable! So well mannered. I love how they share and are so grateful for their gifts. Love your family Jessa. ❤️

  • @savedbyjesus2145
    @savedbyjesus2145 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Jessa , I am so sorry to hear this!! This made me cry. My heart is hurting for you and your family!! Thank you for sharing your heart about this !! I am sure God will use this to help others in many ways!!! I am praying for all of you 🙏!! I lost my first baby, and like you said, I am so grateful to God and Jesus that we will get to meet and spend eternity getting to know our son one day!! It is so painful, but we have such hope in Christ !!!

  • @overcomer5574
    @overcomer5574 Жыл бұрын

    “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God” Praying for you all!

  • @karenrose656
    @karenrose65610 ай бұрын

    Thumbs up for the sweet video. 😢 For your loss. You have a beautiful family ❤

  • @dianefoster4517
    @dianefoster4517 Жыл бұрын

    The excitement and enthusiasm and gratefulness of your children was so amazing to watch! Great parenting right there !

  • @MissBe737
    @MissBe737 Жыл бұрын

    I am so very sorry Jessa. My 27.5 year old daughter went home to be with the Lord 12-24-21 after battling Metastatic breast cancer. Sending you all of my love and hugs and prayers ❤️

  • @oldnavyluver83

    @oldnavyluver83

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏

  • @TheGaredbug

    @TheGaredbug

    Жыл бұрын

    Im so sorry.

  • @judyp.6753

    @judyp.6753

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my mom to breast cancer. I can’t imagine losing a child to it. You are in my prayers.

  • @mmoore3743

    @mmoore3743

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. ❤

  • @btxtenxo7

    @btxtenxo7

    Жыл бұрын

    Prayers out to you 💜

  • @KoriLazarus
    @KoriLazarus Жыл бұрын

    Hey Jessa, I know you’ve been through a lot these past 3 months……But I want you to know you are greatly missed!! Please post a new video so we know how you’re doing! Worried about you & praying for you too! ❤

  • @melissasmith1727
    @melissasmith1727 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. More women need to be like you, it's hard to open and share the hurtful parts of life but sharing helps so many others. I know your video made me feel that I'm not alone in my experience! Bless you

  • @sherrymerrill7195
    @sherrymerrill7195 Жыл бұрын

    So VERY sorry for your loss... may God surround you with His LOVE, His PEACE, and healing. THANK YOU for sharing such a personal ordeal with us. Love you!!!

  • @gram2twinz2
    @gram2twinz2 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry you & your had to go through this sad experience. So grateful to hear you still know that God is good even when we are going through the valleys. I know I could not do life without Jesus by my side. Prayers for much comfort, peace & strength for all of you. Also sending big hugs. Remember He turns our ashes into beauty, our graves into gardens. He is just oh so faithful. 🙏🙌💜

  • @natalieshuburte9484
    @natalieshuburte9484 Жыл бұрын

    Spurgeon is a wonderful big brother! He finds so much happiness in other people's joy 💖

  • @lillianwaldier3863
    @lillianwaldier3863 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry you had to go through all this. Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤

  • @DMRealJessaSeewaldonNicegram86

    @DMRealJessaSeewaldonNicegram86

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @chessyharris6200
    @chessyharris620010 ай бұрын

    Rewatching this video my heart breaks all over again for you and your family. I still can not believe people actually attacked you over the decision you and Ben made. Makes me so angry people would do that during your time of loss. ❤ and truly miss you all.

  • @wowzatrishiebunz
    @wowzatrishiebunz Жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry for your loss and I appreciate you sharing this to others that have lost a baby during pregnancy. I hope your soul can heal asap because it’s a pain that is indescribable.

  • @kristinballancemusic
    @kristinballancemusic Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing in a real way the thoughts and feelings that you're going through, and the Lord's comfort and peace. 💕

  • @KatieB-qv5jl
    @KatieB-qv5jl Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for yalls loss!🙏🏻 Y’all have a beautiful family!

  • @arianaforsman5713
    @arianaforsman5713 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss Jessa! I'm sending love and praying for you and your family.

  • @toyajc4712
    @toyajc4712 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss Ben and Jessa. I’m praying for your family during this time of grieving. Lean into God even more!

  • @tinaseidel3906
    @tinaseidel3906 Жыл бұрын

    A loss is never easy…..I’m so sorry you had to experience this especially over the holidays. Your openness and transparency was so heartfelt. I sat here and cried with you as I watched this. I have lost 4 babies and it’s not easy, but nothing you did caused it. Please don’t blame yourself. Heaven is going to be that much sweeter when we get to go hold our sweet babies we never got to me. Praying for you and your family during this time.

  • @Yannispawn
    @Yannispawn Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your deepest feelings. I’m sure this will help so many others. I’m sorry for your loss.

  • @jordanandjie9536
    @jordanandjie953610 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being so willing to share your life with the world. I’m sorry for your loss and I want you to know that your mom recited the same scripture when they lost Jubilee and hearing you recite it impacts me today as it did back then. God is good, please continue to share your story ❤️

  • @julesservantofjesus972

    @julesservantofjesus972

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes I remember when that happened. I too think of that scripture because my dear Mama went to heaven 2 yrs ago and my heart is shattered 💔 🙏🏻✝️🕯️

  • @sassymamabear7531
    @sassymamabear7531 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa, I lost a sweet boy to a stillbirth and another sweet boy to SIDS. I was given this poem when I lost my first one and it really helped me with the grieving process. I truly hope it brings you some peace as it did me. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers! LAND OF HEAVEN When God calls little children to dwell with him above We mortals always question the wisdom of his love. For no heartache compares with the death of one small child. Who does so much to make this world seem wonderful and mild. Perhaps God tires always calling the aged to his fold and so he picks a rosebud before it can grow old. God knows how much we need them and so he takes but few. To make the Land of Heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult, still somehow we must try. The saddest word that mankind knows will always be good-bye. And so when little ones depart, we who are left behind must realize how much God loves little children, for Angels are hard to find.

  • @kellyu765
    @kellyu765 Жыл бұрын

    YES! One day you will get to see and hold your sweet baby in your arms. That is one of the things that helped me so much many years ago when I had my miscarriage…. Was having the knowledge that one day I would be able to have this beautiful moment of meeting my precious little one and never be separated again. Lean into that knowledge and the comfort of our Heavenly Father for that peace that surpasses all understanding. Prayers for continued healing for you and your whole family as you walk through this season. 🙏 🕊 💔❤️‍🩹❤️

  • @theculturedkidlanguages
    @theculturedkidlanguages Жыл бұрын

    Oh i'm so very sorry to hear of your loss Jessa. Praying for you guys in this challenging season!

  • @Karrmar
    @Karrmar Жыл бұрын

    My heart breaks for you and your family... You are such a wonderful Mommy and Daddy... I'm happy that you told they little ones that way they had time to fall in love with their little sister and brother... I feel confident that you will lead them properly with their grief. Prayers and Love being sent your way!

  • @katez7412
    @katez7412 Жыл бұрын

    I am soooooo sorry for your loss. This video made me sob and reminded me of my d&c after my third child. It is such a difficult experience and I while I struggled, I was amazed at the strength that the Lord gave me. I’m so glad you found comfort in Job’s story and hope that you are blessed with a sweet rainbow soon! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!! 💜💜

  • @FrenchBulldog1
    @FrenchBulldog1 Жыл бұрын

    What a powerful video. So many of us can relate. Quite literally to every single word you said. Very brave of you to share. Thinking about you and Ben, the kids. Keeping you all I prayer.

  • @sherig7182
    @sherig7182 Жыл бұрын

    Oh honey I am so sorry. Heaven is going to be wonderful. My husband and I lost our 1st baby, a girl. We have since been blessed with 3 wonderful young men. Hug's and Prayer's

  • @christaalberg3702
    @christaalberg3702 Жыл бұрын

    Wow Jessa ..... you're so strong... Such an inspiration of faith... Love to you

  • @floridash
    @floridash Жыл бұрын

    Oh Jessa ❤️ You put this together soo beautifully 💕 I felt this while watching, as I've been there too. Your positive words are very inspiring. It's hard to see God's plan when we go through these things, but there's love and purpose in everything we go through ❤️ Hugs to you and your beautiful family 🤗 Thank you for sharing this 💕💗

  • @paulastrain6690
    @paulastrain6690 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who’s suffered from infertility for 20+ years, never able to have children, watching every single person around me receive blessing after blessing…. I have to say this is probably the most meaningful and moving sharing I’ve seen. My heart breaks for you and my prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your heart and showing how real and raw this is.

  • @suziephillips2320

    @suziephillips2320

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my baby in 1998. Never was able to conceive again. Recently diagnosed with Lupus & MS. I think both we're hiding in my body back in 1998! I know how you feel!

  • @loriannvaccola8264

    @loriannvaccola8264

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand and feel for you. I wanted children since i was a child and i never had them. Breaks my heart, so i follow many families here and on instagram. I am blessed with 5 siblings who allowed me to spend as much time as i wanted with all my nieces and nephews.

  • @loriannvaccola8264

    @loriannvaccola8264

    Жыл бұрын

    @@suziephillips2320 ❤️

  • @wearbear

    @wearbear

    Жыл бұрын

    God has a plan LMMFAO

  • @angelaschaefer5883

    @angelaschaefer5883

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so very sorry. 😢🙏💔

  • @Amethyst_Annie
    @Amethyst_Annie Жыл бұрын

    Jessa (and Ben), thank you so much for sharing such a private experience. I’ve had my own loss and it took quite some time to really heal from. My wish for you is that with each passing day, you feel more healed. I’m so sorry for your loss. With love from Michigan, Annie ✨

  • @sarahkelly2293
    @sarahkelly2293 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable Jessa. I really appreciate the knowledge sharing so that I'm not extra shocked if I ever go through it.

  • @iammellbell
    @iammellbell Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss, truly. Thank you so much for sharing this with us in a very raw and real way, it is such an honour to be able to hear what you had to say during this time. I hope you are okay and healing alright. Also, the part where Ben brought in the doll house and Ivy was like "thank you Daddy, thank you" was honestly just the sweetest!

  • @tamijoysisemore659
    @tamijoysisemore659 Жыл бұрын

    My heart breaks for you. That same verse I quoted over and over during the final days and hours of my 10 year old sons life. I’m so glad you have Jesus. Y’all are in my prayers.

  • @mmoore3743

    @mmoore3743

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so very sorry for the loss of your son! ❤

  • @tamijoysisemore659

    @tamijoysisemore659

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mmoore3743 thank you

  • @teresasides8820
    @teresasides8820 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a sad day in your life because know you have helped many🙏🙏

  • @christieeaves4232
    @christieeaves4232 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss ty for sharing with others so they may hav help in healing.

  • @jenniferfitzgerald8970
    @jenniferfitzgerald8970 Жыл бұрын

    Also, I just want to add that your vulnerability is precious before the Lord and such a beautiful display of honesty! Additionally, Ivy's verbal expressions of gratitude to her Dad for her doll house touched my heart! Every inflection in her voice and every word of gratitude was precious!

  • @naomi8097

    @naomi8097

    Жыл бұрын

    I felt the same exact way. I rarely watch this channel but watching Jessa speak from her heart was precious ❤️ and God honoring.

  • @ryandrayton2223

    @ryandrayton2223

    Жыл бұрын

    @@naomi8097 its abortion what she did

  • @kathleenroman9379
    @kathleenroman9379 Жыл бұрын

    It’s difficult to see your pain, but your faith is very inspirational! My prayer is that you & your loved ones strengthen each other. Father God will bring you through. What courageous it took to tell this story. TYTY for sharing. ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️

  • @rhondamae
    @rhondamae Жыл бұрын

    Prayers for your family. What a beautiful Homecoming that miraculous gift had! Sorry for your loss.

  • @morganlouiseramsey
    @morganlouiseramsey Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss Jessa. Your faith is so strong, and I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.

  • @Kingsleykrewvlogs
    @Kingsleykrewvlogs Жыл бұрын

    I’m so so sorry Jessa 💔 I really think you’ve made an extremely healing video that will help others more than you’ll ever know. 💙

  • @kimberlybernal6480
    @kimberlybernal6480 Жыл бұрын

    I was going thru a tough week last month and Job’s story also strengthened my faith during that time. Thru everything always praise the Lord! 🙌🏼 Blessed be the name of the Lord. Praying for strength and peace in your spirit ❤️

  • @cristinasanchez2003
    @cristinasanchez2003 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family's loss!! I pray for you and your family to get through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing because I know it helped comfort someone in some way. Thank you for sharing all that you do. I enjoyed your videos and seeing you and your beautiful family . ❤️🙏🏼

  • @DMOfficialStephVlogsonNicegra

    @DMOfficialStephVlogsonNicegra

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @karenlyde2159
    @karenlyde2159 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry! Praying for you and your sweet family.

  • @heatherjuneau-td2cy
    @heatherjuneau-td2cy Жыл бұрын

    I lost my first right after the first trimester as well. It was so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for your willingness to share, and help other women in doing so. The Lord gave me five babies after that devastating loss. My oldest is also Named after Charles Spurgeon.. Riley Haddon. God bless you Jessa! You are in my prayers today.

  • @nicoleherrenbruck6558
    @nicoleherrenbruck6558 Жыл бұрын

    I just melted when Ivy was so excited to get her presents. It is so nice to see a child actually feel greatfullness for the things they receive.♥️

  • @irenelala

    @irenelala

    Жыл бұрын

    Ivy is so cute!! I cried, because she genuinely was thankful 🥺❤️👐

  • @tofly4wifi898

    @tofly4wifi898

    Жыл бұрын

    Could little Ivy be any cuter I think not beautiful children

  • @LuvMJ99

    @LuvMJ99

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, that was such a cute moment seeing the children so happy! ❤

  • @lindatippett-leary7896

    @lindatippett-leary7896

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry sweetheart. May God comfort you all and give you peace. Take time for yourselves- as much as you need. Thanks for sharing and being so brave 😢🙏🙏❤️

  • @ryandrayton2223

    @ryandrayton2223

    Жыл бұрын

    @@irenelala I cried because they aborted it

  • @vickiemccoy9300
    @vickiemccoy9300 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss. Praying God’s comfort and Love over you all.

  • @bigma8122
    @bigma8122 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa my heart breaks for you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love from Michigan ❤

  • @SavedBySweetGrace
    @SavedBySweetGrace Жыл бұрын

    Oh Jessa, thank you for reminding us all that no matter what, God is good. I'm praying for you sweet mama. Keep shining for Jesus.

  • @caz6277
    @caz6277 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa thank you for showing us your vulnerability. You were so honest and real. We really saw your true heart and it truly spoke to me. You are usually very strong and put together in front of the camera. Today we shared in your grief and your humanity. it is painful but also a beautiful part of life. Something strangers can share and bond over knowing we are not alone as we all know that feeling one way or another. I don't know you but I wept for you. your tears touched my heart as I struggle with my own difficulties in having the family that I dream of . I know we will both see happier times again

  • @jacquelinesnowden8174
    @jacquelinesnowden8174 Жыл бұрын

    Bless your heart, I'm so sorry for your loss...Prayers for u and your family🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @name8220
    @name8220 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa! Ur daughter is so adorable and well mannered and grateful, so cute!

  • @lindai5280
    @lindai5280 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss, we’ve been there. Pastor Jack Hayford wrote a book, “I’ll Hold You in Heaven”. Helpful with this type of loss. Praying for you. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @amym1885
    @amym1885 Жыл бұрын

    Jesse,I can't even imagine the pain you're going through. I said a prayer for you and your family. Hugs.

  • @dawndonovan6980
    @dawndonovan6980 Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my love and strength to you all ❤️

  • @marebear09
    @marebear09 Жыл бұрын

    Ugh, this is so sad. I am sorry for your loss. That looks like a beautiful hymn, I will have to check it out. God bless you, Jessa and fam 🩷.

  • @hannahgreendyk354
    @hannahgreendyk354 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this and for being so vulnerable.❤️ I am so, so sorry for your loss. It is one of the most painful things you can ever experience. I appreciate you talking so openly about your spiritual experiences through this. I have always been encouraged by the verse in Scripture where David says (in regards to his first son with Bathseba) “he will not return to me but I will go to him.” I will be praying for you and your sweet family.

  • @SED79
    @SED79 Жыл бұрын

    17:40 minutes. “I felt His presence, I felt His peace”, powerful words dear Jessa. I am so sorry for your loss, this made me cry. I had my two daughters when you had yours (same year) March 2019 and July 2021. Fern is born on my husband’s birthday and just 5 days after our youngest. Maybe a bit silly but I have felt a bond with you over that.❤Struggled to have children. I am so glad you were not alone. You keep saying God is good. What a wonderful testimony, especially because this is hard! You are helping so many by sharing. I am glad you have help and take good care of yourself, no self blame. You are so loved by your Heavenly Father!❤

  • @zurzakne-etra7069

    @zurzakne-etra7069

    Жыл бұрын

    but it wasn't a loss. who knows what would've actually happened if she didn't abort her baby?

  • @hannahhasan2752

    @hannahhasan2752

    Жыл бұрын

    The baby had already passed away what are you talking about

  • @zurzakne-etra7069

    @zurzakne-etra7069

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hannahhasan2752 that's not true, the baby was non viable but not dead...

  • @brittanywillis2012
    @brittanywillis2012 Жыл бұрын

    Just popping in after having watched this video the day it was posted a while back… I want you to know I have been praying for you and your family. I really hope you continue videos! I loved seeing all your house plants and would love tips/tricks to care for them. ❤️

  • @laceyfisher1874
    @laceyfisher1874 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I'm praying for healing and peace in your family 💕

  • @cassipierce4632
    @cassipierce4632 Жыл бұрын

    We lost our third baby on Christmas day, it's an undiscribable loss, you imagine that new little human joining your family, telling your other little ones about a new blessing in the family (we were only about five weeks so hadn't told them yet) and suddenly the world shatters. It's so hard, but in a way it bought me closer to God and his light. He has blessed us with another pregnancy, which brings so much joy but also fear. I pray you find peace in the lords love for it is not an easy journey ❤❤

  • @Lilliebug01

    @Lilliebug01

    Жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to you and your family

  • @deborahhuckaby4623

    @deborahhuckaby4623

    Жыл бұрын

    Cassi, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you're going through. 🙏❤️

  • @Sarah.719

    @Sarah.719

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry

  • @carolynwilson5662

    @carolynwilson5662

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry, Cassi. Will pray for you for understanding and acceptance. 🙏🏻

  • @Maria-zc6jp

    @Maria-zc6jp

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so very sorry

  • @CarsynnXO
    @CarsynnXO Жыл бұрын

    Oh Jessa, I just cried with you. You showed your true self and feelings and I appreciate that. One thing that I always have to remind myself through struggles is that everything is God's timing, not ours. He needed another little angel.

  • @wendyhanzel8364
    @wendyhanzel8364 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel and you’re so brave to share your story. You’re a beautiful person.

  • @lovalin4139
    @lovalin4139 Жыл бұрын

    Hugs, prayers and love to you Jesse and the whole family 🙏😢🌸🌼🌺

  • @TheLifeofaHomemaker
    @TheLifeofaHomemaker Жыл бұрын

    “For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from You, When I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth; Your eyes have seen my unformed substance; And in Your book were all written The days that were ordained for me, When as yet there was not one of them.” ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭139‬:‭13‬-‭16‬ ‭ He is sovereign over life and death and He numbers our days before He knit us together in our mother’s womb. YOU did not fail, these were the days that were numbered. ❤

  • @Ativabrand

    @Ativabrand

    Жыл бұрын

    What a comforting and thought provoking statement. I’m a great grandmother, long past the childbearing age, but I hope Jessa reads and is blessed by your words.

  • @70sladyalways25

    @70sladyalways25

    Жыл бұрын

    What a tender, caring and comforting reminder❤

  • @loriruello6307

    @loriruello6307

    Жыл бұрын

  • @RSMR7.

    @RSMR7.

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, very humbling comment. ❤️ 💙

  • @captbunzo

    @captbunzo

    Жыл бұрын

    Your comment here is very thoughtful. However, what do you have to say about the fact that what she had here was an abortion?

  • @tjk200081
    @tjk200081 Жыл бұрын

    Deeply sorry for your loss Jessa & Ben! My husband & I struggle with infertility. So it's been hard, but like you said God is still good. We get to be an adopted aunt & uncle to a special little boy. So we get to have kid time with him (he is our best friends' little boy). I pray God will continue to give you peace & comfort during your grief. 🙏

  • @Sunnydreamer1470
    @Sunnydreamer1470 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa I pray you are healing from this . Thank you for being so vulnerable. My heart goes out to you. 😢

  • @michelletoler1528
    @michelletoler1528 Жыл бұрын

    Soooo sorry sweetheart!! Love you guys and hate all the stuff you’ve been going through!!!

  • @sarahkelly8281
    @sarahkelly8281 Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss Jessa and Ben, praying for you all! You are a lovely little family

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    @DMRealJessaSeewaldonNicegram86

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @teresaortiz9902
    @teresaortiz9902 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.🙏🏼❤️ My son and his wife are pregnant with their first child and are going through a rough time with the pregnancy. This video and your news is extremely heart breaking but your faith is strong and shines through even through this difficult time. It’s a reminder to me to be faithful and have trust in God even during uncertain times. Thanks for that reminder Jess.❤️❤️❤️

  • @brittanyyoung8467
    @brittanyyoung8467 Жыл бұрын

    My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Ben and your beautiful family.

  • @janacampbell5531
    @janacampbell5531 Жыл бұрын

    So glad that you could get the care you needed without complication or delay. May your baby's memory always be for blessing.

  • @joanneschwartz3753
    @joanneschwartz3753 Жыл бұрын

    Jessa, I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm asking God to comfort you and give you strength in the days ahead. ❤️🙏

  • @Bravebeauty22
    @Bravebeauty22 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost our first baby back in 2020 and the pain is still very real and present. I’m praying for y’all’s peace.

  • @laurieeaves5815
    @laurieeaves5815 Жыл бұрын

    You are sweet as can be. I hope things work out well. You make your family so happy. It takes a special lady to do that. ❤

  • @amystotts6960
    @amystotts6960 Жыл бұрын

    You are an amazing mother thank you so much for sharing your story with us much love to you

  • @lindalouise5766
    @lindalouise5766 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. 39 years ago I lost what would have been the only set of twins in my and my husband's family. Time takes the edge off of the pain, but you never forget your little angels. I woke up crying after my D&C and the nurse was so kind. She had had several miscarriages and understood what I was going through. She said" you're young, healthy, in time, you can try again. Things happen for reasons we don't always understand ". 18 months later I had my daughter. My son was 10 months when I lost the twins, 9 months later when they would have been born, I got pregnant with my daughter. There's 28 months in between them. My precious rainbow baby is now my best friend and I might not have had her if I'd had the twins. All babies are a blessing from God, the ones here and in heaven. Prayers for you all.

  • @lindalouise5766

    @lindalouise5766

    Жыл бұрын

    In my case, I started spotting and went to my Dr and he couldn't find a heartbeat. 2 weeks and an ultrasound later, still no heartbeat and I had the D&C. Didn't know it would have been twins until after the D&C. 2 perfectly formed sacs but no babies. I agree with you 100% that abortion is murder. This is a totally different situation in that there is no innocent child being removed.

  • @tammyboren7377
    @tammyboren737711 ай бұрын

    Jessa, you are such a blessing and inspiration to so so many. My heart breaks for you in this time of loss. I am also so sorry that there are such cruel and hurtful people in the world. I am still praying for you and your family. I am hoping for and looking forward to future videos of you and your beautiful family.

  • @rosescheidle6715
    @rosescheidle6715 Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss. There are no words. GOD BLESS you and your family.

  • @ourytacc1
    @ourytacc1 Жыл бұрын

    Sending prayers to you and your family at this time ♥♥ My heart breaks for you and your loss.

  • @shelbytaylor7084
    @shelbytaylor7084 Жыл бұрын

    Oh this pain is too familiar to me. I’ve had three starting in 2021. One at 6 weeks, 20 weeks, and 16 weeks. My heart aches with you. Those same questions we asked God too. For anyone going through this- we are not alone. So many of us go through this. Sending all the prayers for you and your family. ❤️

  • @thebibleisright100

    @thebibleisright100

    Жыл бұрын

    this woman murdered her own child. She has blood on her hands and on her way to hell for being assassin lady. Not a mom anymore at that point

  • @Aunruh557

    @Aunruh557

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thebibleisright100I rebuke you in the name of Jesus.

  • @ally7deto192

    @ally7deto192

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thebibleisright100 You are evil! You know good and well Jessa had a miscarriage! You are only coming in the comments to purposely lie and try and hurt her, but you are wasting your time. Her faith is so strong, stronger then your wickedness that comes from the devil. The only one going to hell at the moment is you! Repent of your wicked heart! Jesus is coming soon. Give your heart to HIM bf it’s too late.

  • @torimts

    @torimts

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@thebibleisright100 the child was dead already. Idiot.

  • @lindseycampbell4271

    @lindseycampbell4271

    Жыл бұрын

    ​End times fisherman She went in for a doctor's appointment to check to see if her baby was okay and it was not breathing or anything that is not murder

  • @steffy20lea7
    @steffy20lea7 Жыл бұрын

    Prayers for you and your family Jessa! Losing a baby is extremely heartbreaking.. I lost my first baby at 9 weeks and it was also a missed miscarriage. I agree with what you said about how a missed miscarriage could feel worse. I was caught off guard because I had absolutely no symptoms and I actually went in for an early ultrasound a week and a half before and baby girls heartbeat was strong... And then I went in for my actual doctor's appointment and it had stopped. We found out she was a girl the day we found out she passed. After 3 long weeks my doctor ended up having to do a D&C as well. I can relate to every feeling you described. God is good though as you said and hopefully if you guys choose to you'll have your rainbow baby one day. So sorry you had to post an explanation for the D&C... People need to educate themselves on this because abortion and a D&C are not the same at all. In some cases it is medically needed just like you described for you. I'm grateful I was able to have the option because I had a miserable long 3 weeks and it was truly awful.. we named our baby and made a memory box for her which helped me through my recovery.

  • @stayathomemarine

    @stayathomemarine

    Жыл бұрын

    How did she get an abortion when the baby had already passed away? You must be trolling or just uneducated on the topic..

  • @Blacklilly17
    @Blacklilly17 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm praying for you and your family ❤

  • @pattipaddle6124
    @pattipaddle6124 Жыл бұрын

    Aww praying for you and your sweet family!