Needed to see this tonight. An hour ago I had that conversation with my wife that it’s time to end this toxic relationship I have been suffering for 10 years, and after serious self exploration thanks to psychedelics I finally found clarity and bravery to act. What complicates things is I am also an adoptee. I am scared but also optimistic, I already integrate things you speak of just to exist, but now I am ready to find and hug the inner child, the real me. Thank you❤️ Edit: 25 year marriage, 10+ yrs of toxic hell

I was in an abusive marriage for 16 years and finally woke up one day and told myself I would rather be dead than to live like that. I had a 11 year old and a two year old. He fought me all the way through but in the end I was safe. It was the most difficult thing I had to go through in my life and still suffer from anxiety.

Thanks for this! Your right it’s not always easy to see abuse. Now a day with these twin flames and soul mate names we confuse it with toxic trauma bonds. I am changing my diet, yoga and trying to focus more on myself. I have been watching videos about detachment. I love how you said shift our minds to the present moment!

Thank you so much, Todd, for sharing this. I'm a survivor of such a relationship, and yes PTSD, in my case C - PTSD, is very real in the aftermath of an abusive relationship. Each day is a healing process and the further in the past this experience gets, you're so right in saying the perspective shifts. The true healing began when I began to forgive, and now I look at that experience as one of the greatest experiences my soul could have ever orchestrated for me on my path forward. Namaste ❤️ 🙏 and thank you.

I feel totally stuck. I've been through prolonged domestic violence. I'm over six years free after relocating, but after being assaulted literally countless times, even having to go to A&E on one occasion, after a particularly horrendous night, I'm still having flashbacks, breaking down in floods of tears on a regular. It's like the trauma is hardwired into my head now. I also have M.E and Fibromyalgia.

Todd, you're right. You don't have to be in war to have battle scars, visible or invisible to others. Unfortunately, by extension, you can be a family member of someone who is deployed, returns and mistreats you. Yes, there can be manipulation, dishonesty, and other toxic behaviors which can leave the military spouse or child confused and depressed. TY for recognizing that the real battle znd pain may be at home.

Thank You for this video. With 6 years of Toxic Abusive Relationship and Abuse to Forget.Healing since 3 months

Your a legend mate! I tell you why before I want he'd ur video blog I was very scared where my mind body and spirit I side my body I long and truely lived for after 4 years of trauma having to listen to you and hear from someone else no one ever told me when I was well before trauma if in life I was on track or no one never ever complimented as a women and single mother to 5 beautiful children when I worked for years no one complimented for it not once even tho I worked at a very young I knew then and now and how to heal was to think what was reality is telling me with your video guidence and listening to you. Not excepting PTSD or trauma is who you are as a person when knowing I felt to heal was my body is still adjusting by trauma back in 2021 incident letting exceptance and say I won't let that define me of what happened putting myself down like abuser say to me I had become what I hated in life that's is not I wanted to feel everyday and to stop thinking like abuser!

@Xodileen_bell1234

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Same. The hardest part was to not think the way abuser think. 😢 i normalized their way of thingking for some reason. And it's bad

I love your short videos they are full of practical and positive messages. Thank you.

I have ptsd. I was abused as a child from birth for all my life by a narc mother.

@ToddPerelmuter

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Much love and thank you for sharing

@katarzynalindner594

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Love Amber. Move as far as you can. YOU DESERVE a LIFE❤️

Love and Peace to you Todd, thank you. 🥰🙏And so it is.

Just in Time! Thanks my brother from Lima Perú ❤

Thank you Todd.❤

Very helpful . Thank you so much! ❤️

Thank you❤

Good vibes, Todd. ty

Thank you

Thank u!❤

Gratitude ❤

Thank u

Love ur videos.

I love you

@ToddPerelmuter

2 ай бұрын

I love you, too.

dear todd .. i am just wondering .. if you are an INFJ .. please reply .. tq