No one transitions so seamlessly into an ad as Brett. You get me every time 😂

@cherrygal8498

Жыл бұрын

Fr every video

@shaelovesJesus

Жыл бұрын

I said the same thing.😂😂

@FakeVenatus

11 ай бұрын

I was shocked the first time

@sereahellis9931

11 ай бұрын

NO FR!

@neurotic3015

9 ай бұрын

That shit always catches me so off guard lmfao.

My dad was in a polyamorous relationship living with 2 women when I was around 12 years old and it was crazy. There was so much jealousy, it’s never going to feel equal for all parties involved. Definitely not something I’de ever do.

@khunglong38

Жыл бұрын

This is the comment I'm looking for, I've been going around telling people what is going to happen in this type of relationship because some of my friends are interested in it. There is absolutely no equality; if there is, it's one of the people pretending they are okay. Even parents have "favorite children", and in this type of relationship, you are either the "Favorite" or the "Lesser".

@candiceerorita9505

Жыл бұрын

Whoa!! 🤯

@alishaaaax

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry for you. That sounds like a living hell hole.

@marissarose1667

Жыл бұрын

@@khunglong38 Definitely, my father actually had a child with one of those women and often gave her preferential treatment, but she was pretty awful to him. While the other woman treated him way better (not to mention she was nicer to me as a child and helped take care of my brother and I more) but she was always clearly second best to him. It was really sad to watch unfold sometimes. My little brother and I thought it was wild that this was actually happening

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

@@marissarose1667 That's just a bastardization of it. BOTH must feel attraction to the same person, add them in, if she would like them both.

Im reminded of the story of Jacob, Leah and Rachel in scripture. Leah was the older sister and described as plain looking. Rachel was the younger sister and was described as beautiful. Jacob fell in love with Rachel and worked 7 years for the sisters' dad in order to marry Rachel. When Jacob finished up his 7 years of work, he was supposed to marry Rachel, but he was tricked into marrying Leah (because the oldest daughter had to be married of first) Jacob was enraged and demanded to have Rachel as he was promised. Jacob was given Rachel as his wife, and he was married to both sisters. But it was very clear that Jacob only loved Rachel. And it was a constant battle between the sisters for Jacob's affection. They kept trying to bear more children than the other-including having their handmaids bear children for them- to outshine the other and to gain Jacob's affection. When you're in a relationship with someone, you need to be commited to them alone. because adding more people into the mix only makes things difficult and heartbreaking

@mikaelsvartdahl

Жыл бұрын

King David was a man after God's heart (check you're Bible) and he had 13 wife's and a number of concubines...(check you're Bible) I am 100% sure this is not for everyone. But if we are to use the Bible as a resource to judge anyone God has no problem with it. It is when David cheated by lying and stealing Bathsheba from one of his soldiers he got in trouble. Judging by this the main issue is lying and hiding something. These people are not doing that.

@irishShanRock

Жыл бұрын

Some people say that, because this story is in the Bible, God must allow polyamorous relationships. I personally feel that He included it to show how much unhappiness it can cause. No one who married multiple people in the Bible ended up happy about it.

@emmavolpe5488

Жыл бұрын

@@irishShanRock my thoughts exactly.

@xDiananas

Жыл бұрын

@@irishShanRock exactly. People think what is written in the Bible, God approves it all. It’s absolutely wrong.

@SirHugsalot13th

Жыл бұрын

Also remember, he worked ANOTHER seven years in order to marry Rachel (after he completed Leah's week of consummation). The man spent over fourteen years of his life to get two wives, the first of which he initially didn't want. I'm... not really sure what that adds, but I do feel like that's an important element to it. The story of these three do get quite interesting, but that's neither here nor there.

I was married to someone who had no problem cheating. There were other even bigger issues and it did not work out. I’ve since remarried and I never have to worry about him cheating. And he still spoils me the best he can. Good men exist and you don’t have to settle with sharing. That’s not marriage. It’s barely a relationship if everyone is sleeping around with whoever. And it’s gross.

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

+95% of women would rather share a top percenter man who is highly valued than get an average or regular man all to themselves. The problem isn't a shortage of loyal men, the problem is a surplus of women who only want the best of the best UNTIL the clock AND the looks run out which apparently is the ONLY thing that humbles them enough to rethink their priorities, requirements & standards......

@moresquatsmoretwats6298

Жыл бұрын

@@asparrow9876indeed

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

Until then, women would rather chase and play the game of winning over said high value men. Go look at all the good men who earn a decent living, have good morals, good values, a bright future ahead, no vices, no criminal record, no kids, and still get looked over.....

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

.....either for men who are better than all those traits mentioned OR absolutely none of them but they look good and have a dark triad persona.

@BJT21

Жыл бұрын

​​@@asparrow9876 you are wrong but not completely its much more complex than that but to keep it simple no the overwhelming majority of woman want loyalty

My ex coworker was polyamorous. It was utterly nasty to me, as i am monogamous and i prefer only my boyfriend. The coworker would hit on me, even though i would tell him a. im not into him and b. i have a boyfriend. He still would flirt with me, which made me uncomfy. I feel like poly is jsut an excuse to cheat, in my opinion

@esosaedogun4643

Жыл бұрын

They really think if you’re in a polyamorous relationship, the man won’t look outside. If he can’t settle for 1 woman and needs two, it’s an obvious indicator he will still want more

@NikosM112

Жыл бұрын

Not opinion. It's a fact that it's just an excuse to cheat! Weather it's proven evident or not.

@angelalemos9811

Жыл бұрын

Yea it's degeneracy

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

He was using it as an excuse, imo. It should only be one man and two women. More is just a money drain and requires more and more people to be in agreement.

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

@@esosaedogun4643 Not in the least. The rules would be set in stone; Women only, ONLY give sexual attention to those inside, if both find the extra woman attractive, they can discuss adding her or not.

People don't understand that no one should be forced to be in an open relationship. You have to be 100 percent sure u want it

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Not taking THREE years for it...they have an open relationship, not a polyamorous. Just like polygamy and polyandry, open relationships are always doomed to fail.

This just sounds like all my Sims families back when I was a teenager.

I had a guy approach me to be in a poly relationship once. He was married, but contacted me on a dating site because he and his wife wanted as many kids as possible. He even told me that he would never care for me the way he did his wife and that I would only be in the relationship to help produce children and take care of them while he and wifey had date nights. Weirdest conversation I’ve ever had in my life.

@thedealmama3070

Жыл бұрын

he said the quiet part out loud, it’s never for the equal benefit of everyone in the relationship. Someone is second place and third and so on.

@marissarose1667

Жыл бұрын

It’s crazy people like this actually exist and are so blunt about it lol I wonder if he ever found a date

@IUsedToBeAnAdventurerLikeYou

Жыл бұрын

@@marissarose1667 I don’t know. I hope not. It’s even weirder that it happened on a Christian dating site and he even accused me of cherry picking the Bible when I defended monogamy lol

@jaylienwashington2382

Жыл бұрын

Whaaaaaat????? ....The heck do these people come from?

@c.n.gichohi8316

Жыл бұрын

Well those are Christians by name not by their actions smh

Lila Rose pointed out in her Whatever podcast appearance that the “70% of married men cheat” stat came from Kinsley’s “research” which he got from the prison population, and society just accepted it as normal and it’s probably of self-fulfilling prophecy.

@rainsofhealing

Жыл бұрын

Kinsey was absolutely wicked and evil. It’s predatory and sick how he was essentially “accepted” along with his “research.” He belonged behind bars.

@CrowandRaven

Жыл бұрын

@@rainsofhealingWhat was kinsey convicted of?

@CrowandRaven

Жыл бұрын

@elena5816 No one consented for you to share your unintelligent comments either, but here you’re still posting all over Brett’s videos and sharing your hate boner for her.

@DTreatz

Жыл бұрын

@@rainsofhealing bars is too good, more like 6 feet under.

@db9944

Жыл бұрын

​@Josh James Set convictions aside. His "research" included figuring out how long it would take children, some less than a year old to achieve an orgasm through manual and oral stimulation. Table 34 is enough evidence that he was a monster who doesn't deserve an iota of credibility. Is that really the kind of person you want to try to defend?

Regardless of who you are sexually interested in. Having more than two people in a relationship doesn't end well. There is a reason there is a saying "three is a crowd"

@waskowcreationsart9639

Жыл бұрын

The irony is most cultures did this for hundreds if not thousands of years given one was around the top of their hierarchy through whatever factors that were respected

@Uta_Chandra.H

Жыл бұрын

Especially if you get kids

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

@@waskowcreationsart9639 Exactly. These people are just bastardizing it. My way is more simple; a man is ALWAYS at the top, with one spot below him that is alternated between the women. It would release jealousy in a safe and monitored way.

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

If its two men, agreed. If its two women and one man, it could. With rules and a clear hierarchy, it will have a way to work.

@waskowcreationsart9639

Жыл бұрын

@@fireblade295 Ontop of all that in those older ages of time one would know all those children were his because of more modest times! Wasn’t need for no birth control and it’s side effects lol, women practiced self control and discipline that further supported being a better partner then

"Would you share your man if he gave you everything you want?" No. Because some of the top things I want from him are loyalty and exclusivity.

I know a throuple (two guys one girl) who all live together. I was interested in how it all worked because they always said it was super satisfying etc etc... Interested right up until the girl, who had the two guys plus a couple other boyfriends was talking to me about how she would be really satisfied if she ALSO found a guy with xyz qualities. Yeah, righto, so basically no matter what, you're still just as unsatisfied as any regular couple, only with endless drama and grossness. No thanks. Extra unstable to raise kids in too.

Ultimately, it will always backfire. One of the partners will feel less in value, which can cause anxiety, depression, all the works. It will just end badly.

@WWatson99

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez i never claimed it did. It also doesn't affect Brett. But we are allowed to talk about it, especially here considering it's a comment section and my comment is related to the video. My comment doesnt affect you so why do you feel the need to reply?

@db9944

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Just because something doesn't effect you doesn't mean you're not entitled to an opinion on it. It also doesn't prevent you from pointing out the facts on a given topic. People have opinions over things that don't effect them all the time. Not wanting other humans to be hurt is called compassion.

@danielm6871

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez ur all up in the replies, unable to find a loyal lover?

@bighomiestevethemetalhead8131

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, and the only correct response to being propositioned for an "open relationship" is to break up..."Open relationships" don't work, these "poly" people can claim they're happy with it all they want, I don't buy it. Jealousy is one of the most deeply ingrained human emotions, once you pair up with a partner, you feel a sense of "ownership".... .... (I don't mean that in a negative sense, that sense of "ownership" is why you feel betrayed when you get cheated on) over that partner and jealousy will inevitably rise to the surface no matter how much cognitive dissonance you use in attempt to "override" it. It's worse on men than it is for women, it's men's natural instincts to guard his wife/gf. Men are almost always miserable in "open relationships", it is nearly 100% guaranteed to end in disaster, it's just a matter of how long it takes.

@jzen1455

Жыл бұрын

@elena5816 What every person does affects society in some way. These poly arrangements (esp if kids are involved) cause issues that reverberate far and wide.

She said it. She was so into being g with him and him and him...and she compromised herself just to be with him. Codependency at its finest. Love yourself enough to not compromise.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j

Жыл бұрын

Love yourself and not someone else - this is exactly the idea that feminists are promoting who want to destroy the institution of the family. It's funny to see people who are against SJW values and pro-traditional family refuse to accept a truly traditional family model.

@Animeow08

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez Foh fool 🤡

@DTreatz

Жыл бұрын

choice =/= compromise.

@noskalborg723

Жыл бұрын

I think he trapped them with some kinda blackmail. Their polyamory is twisted and fake. And Brett needs to stop calling this stuff polygamy. It's NOT polygamy. They aren't married, and they aren't exclusive.

@devinsilva2102

Жыл бұрын

U sounds like a bitter single mother you mad because they happy with a man and u can’t get one 😂😂😂

I love how being a traditional wife is only smiled on if you're in a harem. I cook for my man and I'm brainwashed ok.

I could’ve gone my whole life without knowing what a “throuple” was 😭😂

I’ve had friends who were polyamorous. They can defend polyamory and are actually pretty articulate in making it sound like something that *could* work. BUT- These people’s personal lives were nonstop drama. One of my friends was divorced twice. In both cases, he had open marriages, and situations arose in which his ex-wife started preferring spending time with another guy instead of him, their husband. His second wife met a guy out of state and spent like half the time in a whole other state with the other guy. They got in a huge fight when she chose to spend Christmas, New Year’s, and her birthday with the other guy instead of her husband. He’s not poly anymore but I think it’s sad that it took so much for him to swear it off.

@robyndendy

Жыл бұрын

Yup! My sister is in a open marriage and tells everyone she is ok with it but has called me crying saying she doesn’t think she can handle it and how depressed she is. I don’t believe open marriages or polygamous relationships ever work out

@AnnSmajstrla

Жыл бұрын

@@robyndendy Sorry to hear about your sister. I hope ideally that she and her husband become monogamous again, or if worse comes to worse that she gets out. Living with that kind of stress is not good!

@WanRa28

Жыл бұрын

​​@@AnnSmajstrla you can't close a open relationship. Who opened the relationship would resent (even unconsciously) the one who closed it. The relationship end in the exact same moment when opening the relationship is proposed, regardless if the couple actually goes with it or refuse

@nickscarla-tl9xp

Жыл бұрын

Yup sounds a a 3 Pete I used to know. They have drama cuz one of the girls gets jealous of the other girl or vice versa cuz they feel like there not getting enough attention.

@nickscarla-tl9xp

Жыл бұрын

Also it’s funny u never hear about a poly marriage but with 2 guys n 1 girl. 😂 that shit would never fly lol

I was almost in a relationship like this.... The thing about it was he had convinced me (in a nice? way) that me by myself was not good enough for him. He NEEDED the other woman to make him completely happily. At a point, I had realized that I would rather be by myself than having to share. It was primarily from low self confidence.

@lanigirl01

Жыл бұрын

Same here and then they chose each other and started not incl me in other stuff. I left. We are all still friends and I wish them nothing but the best. I doubt I'll ever attempt it again.

@Littlemissdidi

11 ай бұрын

@@lanigirl01 Staying friends with people like that just teaches them it's okay and that there's no consequences. You deserve better friends.

@halfmoon2075

Ай бұрын

My abusive ex husband was trying to convince me to go along with another “wife” and wanted to move to the middle of nowhere, he invited this woman over that he told me was a friend and told me to try to make a move on her while we were watching a movie. It was tense and weird and I didn’t want to go along with his plan so he got angry with me after. Not too long after I found out he was cheating on me with her and had told her that we were broken up but just lived together for our kids. I left him at that point and am so thankful I did. Looking back I can’t believe all that craziness happened but my current partner is monogamous and treats me with respect.

@rhonda8231

Ай бұрын

​@@halfmoon2075 I am so glad that you found a great guy, you deserve it.

I thought I was poly for about a year. And it was the most dramatic and confusing year of my life. Then I met my now boyfriend who I’m going to marry one day and everything calmed down and our monogamous relationship is more fulfilling than any of my poly ones ever had a shot at being at. I’ve also become a Christian again and found God in a new way and looking back on those days shocks me that I ever thought I could be truly happy like that. Really what it is is broken people who just chase the dopamine hits you get when you have a new love interest… but they’re constantly getting their hearts broken and have very low self esteem. It’s really sad and I genuinely care for the people I met in that community and really hope they find healthy relationships themselves one day.

Something my pastor always says: “just because it’s in the Bible doesn’t mean it’s right!” I have yet to find a “poly” relationship in the Bible that was actually successful. There’s a reason monogamy has been popular for millennia….it works! 🤷‍♀️

@johnnycage3881

Жыл бұрын

Heterosexual monogamy at that.

@izabellavanryn3531

11 ай бұрын

I wish more people understood this about the Bible, especially those who have never read it, and criticize it for situations like this being in it. The Bible is more of a collection of historical records, and prophecy than it is a rule book. There are examples of all kinds of situations in it that God does not approve of for us to learn from. These situations mostly shows us that doing things our own way and not God's way doesn't work out well. A good example that a lot of people like to bring up is Lot and his daughters. They did not trust in God and decided to take things into their own hands to continue their lineage, which resulted in incest, the Moabites and the Ammonites descended from their children. Both of these groups worshipped idols, participated in ritual sacrifice and sexual immorality. Man is very bad at being in charge of itself.

@johnnycage3881

11 ай бұрын

@@izabellavanryn3531 It wasn't just incest that was done by Lot's daughters. They sexually assaulted him. But good point.

@lmao2351

11 ай бұрын

Stop using the bible as an argument lol.

@izabellavanryn3531

11 ай бұрын

Oh, for sure!

I used to know a woman who was in a polyamorous relationship with two men. It was obvious to me that it was problematic, but I didn't say anything to her about it. She eventually married one of the men, and it was a while after that that I lost touch with her. A long while later, I saw a social media post from her (through another friend's interaction with it) announcing that she had married the other man. I of course inferred from this that she had divorced the first one. I'm sad for the guy she apparently divorced, sad for her, and sad for the other guy she married. Just a sad situation all the way around.

@kentjohnson2243

Жыл бұрын

Tf ? That ain't not polygamy relationship. She's just for the streets

@bighomiestevethemetalhead8131

Жыл бұрын

The only correct response to being propositioned for an "open relationship" is to break up..."Open relationships" don't work, these "poly" people can claim they're happy with it all they want, I don't buy it. Jealousy is one of the most deeply ingrained human emotions, once you pair up with a partner, you feel a sense of "ownership".... .... (I don't mean that in a negative sense, that sense of "ownership" is why you feel betrayed when you get cheated on) over that partner and jealousy will inevitably rise to the surface no matter how much cognitive dissonance you use in attempt to "override" it. It's worse on men than it is for women, it's men's natural instincts to guard his wife/gf. Men are almost always miserable in "open relationships", it is nearly 100% guaranteed to end in disaster, it's just a matter of how long it takes.

@thesobber

Жыл бұрын

​@@bighomiestevethemetalhead8131 I agree with you. I know a few people who are in polygamous relationships and they don't end well, though I'm a teen so I suppose it's much different

It’s really frustrating to sit and watch through this alone but Brett’s reaction makes it bearable.

@305Independent

Жыл бұрын

I'd say the opposite. I'm enjoying watching Mazayah out here living every man's dream and for once being actually irritated by Brett's wahmening.

@shawnrutherford8523

Жыл бұрын

@@305Independent Brett is hilarious and completely right. Nobody that actually cares about someone is going to put them through this craziness.....now if it's just for fun that's one thing but making a family out of this situation is going to screw those kids up.

@OlgaRykov

Жыл бұрын

​@@305Independent So you're saying that every man's dream is to have two insecure women who don't believe they deserve better stuck with him? You have a very low opinion of men in general and of yourself in particular.

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Don't cry sweety

@Gyrfalcon312

Жыл бұрын

Gotcha. 😬 If this dude can swing two women, why am I not going for at least one?

my mom and dad have been married for over 25 years. My mom has cared for 7 kids that she birthed, she homeschooled all of us, cooks, cleans, and still has time for us, emotionally, and fiscally, and she also has time for herself and her garden other women should aspire to be half my mom. I'm so grateful my mom and dad love each other, and that she raised me right

@ManateeTail123

Ай бұрын

Aww that’s so sweet! My parents are celebrating their 25th anniversary in a few months, five kids together.

This strongly reminds me of friends when I was younger trying to convince ME that they really did want the threesome their boyfriends talked them into. Like, girl, why are you justifying your actions to me if that is, in fact, what YOU wanted. It never was, even when they were pretending it was. It ALWAYS ENDED and ended badly. Sounds a lot like these women simply want to be with someone so bad they put up with being treated like complete crap. I agree, Brett. They deserve so much better. He, in the words of my mother, deserves a swift kick in the a**.

I obviously can't know for sure, but, I think that inside every open relationship is one person who doesn't want to be in it.

@NeoN-PeoN

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez Didn't say that it does.

@thesobber

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez what are you so mad about 💀

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez What? Are you going to cry?

@thenewageriseth

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Hit dogs holler lol

I'm tired of people acting as if having a standard of admission for letting people into your life is a bad thing. 😢

I feel bad for the kids being raised in this situation, knowing their mothers have no self-respect.

This whole thing was made bearable because of Brett's reactions and commentary.

No time for these jokes. Loving my wife (44 years married) takes all my energy. We work together in church. We see eachother all day long. She does go shopping and post office regularly. But we love being together. I love being on my own... But after one hour I want her back... Too much in love.

@mysta4478

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez why are you so angry?? 😂

@yankees4551

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez Welcome to our church. Jesus Christ is truth. The only truth. Make sure you leave brain washing churches who do not obey Jesus Christ. Shalom.

@RalphJones-wn7vk

Жыл бұрын

If you see this and have extra time, would you mind talking a bit about marriage? You seem happy and have been married for a long time, so I'd love to hear if / why you think marriage is good for someone or what makes a good relationship. Anything you have time for will be appreciated!

@guar67

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez sounds like someone can't find a good man.

@DTreatz

Жыл бұрын

sounds like desperation

I'm very happy in my heterosexual long term monogamous relationship 🎉

@CrownedLily

Жыл бұрын

Same. My husband and I will be married for 9 years in September, and 12 years together in December.

@somebody7070

Жыл бұрын

What is considered long term these days lol?

@bettycrispy397

Жыл бұрын

Same! Wouldn’t want anything different!

@meganmccully2262

Жыл бұрын

aka: a normal relationship

@pamm3776

Жыл бұрын

Same here. 37 years.

I’ve been in a polyamorous relationship before and its really not all sold out as it is. The whole “I don’t want to be cheated on so I’m going to be poly” is not polyamory. It’s just knowingly cheating. Polyamory is still committing to a relationship but with multiple people. However most people just are not capable of doing it because of jealousy and it just really doesn’t work. Cause at the end of the day people just use it as a way to avoid problems and doing it as “Well you can’t fulfill all my needs so im going to find another man who can” or “I can’t deal with you right now so im gonna be with my other man” like it just breeds instability

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. Polyandry is never a thing that will work, because men are hardwired to view another man as a threat to his relationship. A child between Man A and the woman will instill hate, loathe, and resentment in Man B. Its why Other Life was so horrible. While Woman A has a child with the man, Woman B would help raise it or fill in for Woman A until Woman A can resume duties. Adding in kink, it just makes it better.

There's no way throuples aren't a breeding ground for resentment and jealousy.

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

Calling it an incorrect term, I agree. A polyamorous with rules and structure, wouldn't. Especially if they are kinky.

There is no love in these "relationships" and you will not convince me otherwise. They are based purely on infatuation and lust. A woman I graduated high school with is in a "polyamorous relationship" with multiple men and women, she is raising her son around this dynamic after the father dumped her a year after she had the child. I can only imagine what type of confused adolescent this boy will grow up to be. Seeing his mother in and out of relationships with different people on a yearly basis. No stability. Because human beings are monogamous creatures by default. We feel jealousy for a reason. If you can watch the person you claim to love be involved romantically or sexually with another person, there is something wired wrong in your head.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j

Жыл бұрын

How does what you describe relate to what we saw on the screen? The dude didn't leave his kids.There are nine children about them, so it's not just lust. And these children will see their mothers in relationships with the same man every year.

@foamontheriver

Жыл бұрын

100% agree well said

@bighomiestevethemetalhead8131

Жыл бұрын

The only correct response to being propositioned for an "open relationship" is to break up..."Open relationships" don't work, these "poly" people can claim they're happy with it all they want, I don't buy it. Jealousy is one of the most deeply ingrained human emotions, once you pair up with a partner, you feel a sense of "ownership".... .... (I don't mean that in a negative sense, that sense of "ownership" is why you feel betrayed when you get cheated on) over that partner and jealousy will inevitably rise to the surface no matter how much cognitive dissonance you use in attempt to "override" it. It's worse on men than it is for women, it's men's natural instincts to guard his wife/gf. Men are almost always miserable in "open relationships", it is nearly 100% guaranteed to end in disaster, it's just a matter of how long it takes.

@poogissploogis

Жыл бұрын

@@user-ot5ub7ck8j It's still deviant behavior that will confuse the children. And the OP is just explaining their own experience with someone in a polyamorous situation, it doesn't have to be an exact parallel to the one in the video for it to be relevant enough to share.

@Kemachris

Жыл бұрын

I disagree with one point, humans are not monogamous by default, actually we are polyamourus by default, which is why we need things like jealousy to keep us in line.

These women deserve exactly what they have.

@Fatemaforlife

Жыл бұрын

and that's why you're single

@4clx

Жыл бұрын

@@Fatemaforlife 😶

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

@@Fatemaforlife We WANT to be single 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 We save our sanity, our energy, our time, our money, our attention, our security, our freedom. There is literally NOTHING to gain from dating modern women. So save it. 🤷‍♂🤷‍♂

@JeremiG2001

Жыл бұрын

@Kayleigh Bacon I think not but nice try. What's wrong? You don't support women deciding for themselves?

@Yiqs

Жыл бұрын

​@@FatemaforlifeHi Mrs. Potato head!

Damn, she finally got me. After watching Brett’s vids for a ver long time I always appreciated her transitions into the “Sponsor”. You are great, but the transition into Cozy Earth was so flawless, I thought the beginning was still a part of the content.

TBH _"throuple"_ sounds like something you get infected with on an exotic vacation

I once dated a married woman. She was in her 30's and he was 19 when they got married, and he wanted to commit to her, but also be able to sleep around because he felt like he 'missed out' on a lot of experiences by marrying young. I knew she was married when I started dating her, but she tried to make it sound like they had both agreed to have an open relationship. As I spent more time with her, it was clear that she did not like the situation her husband put her in, and she only liked me because she felt like I made her husband jealous. It even got to a point where she invited me to live with them, as they were moving into a new house soon. That weirded me out, and I broke up with her a few weeks later. 0/10, would not recommend polyamorous to anyone.

@williamstellmon7565

Жыл бұрын

So many red flags... Live and learn.

@J.Young808

Жыл бұрын

I was dated by a girl in college as a “get back at her boyfriend for cheating” relationship. That really messed with me as he would come down from her hometown on some weekends.

@johnnycage3881

Жыл бұрын

​@@williamstellmon7565 Not just from three way relationships but lesbianism too.

@zahir1014

Жыл бұрын

@@johnnycage3881What do you mean?

@johnnycage3881

Жыл бұрын

@@zahir1014 I was responding to William how it is not only polyamorous relationships that are disruptive but also lesbian ones. I was implying that the person he responded to didn't just go through what they went through because of the polyamorous relationship.

I feel bad for those kids being raised in home like that

@rainsofhealing

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! There’s also an undercurrent of hatred and animosity, the one girl was literally on the couch rolling her eyes at what the other woman was saying, and this was in front of the camera. Can you just imagine what goes on behind the scenes. Dysfunctional and very sad foe the kids to be subjected to this.

@MadisonEdits943

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez they’re being raised by their father, mother, and their mother and father’s girlfriend. Also thing seem tense between the two girls. That’s not a good environment to raise children in. A kid should be raised with one mother and one father

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez No they won't, honey

@jzen1455

Жыл бұрын

And imagine living in a world where poly life is nomralised. Once these kids become adults, poly life will be even more mainstream. Imagine to complex web of poly relationships there will be. Dating will be even more competitive and life will be filled with more anxiety and instability.

@nhzsk7236

Жыл бұрын

those kids SHOULD always have a "Mother" in the home. those kids Should have a 2 income house hold, with no nannys or mother in laws. this works, has worked through most of standard time.

I love videos like this, I can just listen to Brett and then eat my chips loudly while the tv show plays so I can eat and watch comfortably at the same time 😊

The genuine adorable confusion/bewilderment at 10:41 😂 im right there with you girl

Brett is always such an outfit inspo

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Stop being jealous 😂

When i was younger i got in a relationship with a poly guy (which i didn't know) later on almost a month into our relationship his "MAIN" girl (he apparently was doing 10 girls at once and i was his first guy) contacted me and Told me about their relationship and said that i should remember that she is his "main girl" and i will just be a secondary. It's sad because i had a breakdown and the guy didn't care. I felt played with. But holy shit if you're poly SAY IT BEFORE HAND.

I don’t understand it myself like if you think I’m lacking in the relationship then either talk to me like an adult about it or break up with me don’t try to bring another girl in. To me loyalty is awesome and should be just that loyalty between two people

@iambrettcooper, I love your reactions, which are 100% on point, as a man with morals and an old-fashioned sense of courtship, one woman is all one needs to pour everything into and learn and experience life with

Dear gosh, thank you God that I'm Christian. The Bible says marriage is between one man and one woman, and there's a reason for that lol

@Gonzora

Жыл бұрын

Even though I don't really support polygamists, what's the reason for that? I mean, apart from the rules created by sectarians to run countries full of peasants who had to be made to believe in paradise to relieve them of having a shitty life while the local monarchs exploited them (which does not hasn't changed a lot)?

@bari7218

Жыл бұрын

god also says that everyone acts according to his will and that no one is free to do what he wants otherwise follow this logic everything people do they do it because god wants them to do it

@PardonMyFrench16

Жыл бұрын

totally agree, but there was polyamory in the bible, and look how that turned out, not well

@robyndendy

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@TomStruth-tf4nm

Жыл бұрын

Don’t need to believe in god to have sense

Thank you for the shout out, Brett. I got myself a man, a house, 4 kids, and I homeschool. He's all mine. Our 13th wedding anniversary is coming up in a couple months

@Ali-kb8gr

Жыл бұрын

Congrats on your upcoming anniversary! ❤

@sallymckee5264

Жыл бұрын

We just celebrated 25 years but we lived in sin for seven years before we got married

@sallymckee5264

Жыл бұрын

My stepson and his wife let everyone in on their polyamorous situation last year. They have an eight year old son 😢

@sallymckee5264

Жыл бұрын

Did anyone else get weird vibes when he kissed his daughter!?

@DTreatz

Жыл бұрын

make sure you do your job, and don't divorce him in 7 years 😏

OMG your ad transitions have me HOWLING!!!!

Honestly, making a relationship with one person work is challenging. I can’t begin to imagine adding other people to that. That is all I can think about when I see polyamorous relationships.

It's not about love, it's about sex. And that scares the crap out of me for those children.

@giannazeringue6837

11 ай бұрын

U said it💯

"I know this series is called love don't judge, but I judge." 10/10

@ladyc3544

Жыл бұрын

Im definitely judging

I love Brett for how she always thinks of the children ❤

Her rapidity of speech and brain acuity are awesome!

Both women are extremely codependent. They're body language says they do not like each other. Rosa has pretty much convinced herself she actually is happy even though she does not like the other one. Who's name escapes me because I was laughing at her the whole time. She HATES it but for some reason she really doesn't believe she deserves better. He must have done a number on her mind. The ONLY she stays is because her mother is okay with it. But I can also tell her mother knows SHE F'd up raising her so she feels like she has to accept it. There's something dark in her past. I'm willing to bet past sexual abuse at young age. He treated her better than she thought she deserved... then she found out he was f'ing lying pos... and I think it was the blow that broke her. She needs serious therapy. Rosa too but Rosa seems like most young girls her age... planned parenthood and 3rd wave feminism told her this way to be a woman and since she was young... she was too ignorant to know to push back. Its crazy but Millennials were sold on orgies and throuples in school so a lot of them see nothing wrong with it. And yes it is VERY SAD because they will NEVER learn true value. They will NEVER feel the support of a dedicated relationship. But that's what i noticed in body language, word choices and cadence. I'm also trained in psychology so I thought it would come handy to be able to read body language. You should look into it. Interpersonal communications. You'd love it and you're a natural. Great natural instincts makes it easier and more fun. I love being human lie detector, that part came in super handy with my son and his friends. Lol 😁 I'm not perfect but its an imperfect art. There's always an exception but your instincts are strong so you will excel. And you'll be glad when you have kids. Lol 😁

@jzen1455

Жыл бұрын

And as his harem gets larger, each women will get less attention. He's going to cycle women in and out of his life.

@b.calvinsaul1909

Жыл бұрын

Men don't need to manipulate like a woman. He didn't "do a number on her mind" because that is a strategy that females, of all ages, apply.

@nhzsk7236

Жыл бұрын

Did a number on her mind? She Left..... Sh came back, he had a women, he invited her in..... thats it. SHE and HER decisions put her into a position to be like..... "Well this is the best imma get".... Her Decisions

@kokomo74149

Жыл бұрын

@@b.calvinsaul1909 lmfao. Mfer please. Men are the most manipulative which hard because women excel at it too. Try that bs somewhere else. A human is a human and manipulating is a learned skilled all humans can and do use DAILY. Men don't need to manipulate? Keep that male feminist bs. Lmfao 😂 😂 😂

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

@@nhzsk7236 It took THREE years, tho...

I feel like 10 years from now, this will be pushed to be the new norm

@clipexotica

Жыл бұрын

eh, 10 years? i give it a year or two. its already already spreaded too much.

@jzen1455

Жыл бұрын

I live in the woke capital world, and I'd say ~20% of adults are poly here.

@balung

Жыл бұрын

Yeap, TV show The Expanse, Holden's family.

*“Just because you CAN….* *… Doesn’t mean SHOULD!”* More people need to use this term, to think about what they’re doing in their lives….

@wn8022

Жыл бұрын

Dr. Malcolm approved. 👍

And once again, patriarchy wins! The amount of irony... is just hilarious.

@jzen1455

Жыл бұрын

Poly = Harem for top men.

@ladyc3544

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being the one to say it!

@vivek27789

Жыл бұрын

W Patriarchy 😂

I would never share my husband, and if he wants another woman he’s not the man I thought he was and I can live without him 🤷🏻‍♀️

@robyndendy

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@catherine8262

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez bitter much?

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Like your comment

Brett your face reaction to this story is priceless made my day 😂

I grew up in a Midwest town where a whole subset of the community were polygamist. Each man had at least 2 "wives", with the average being 3-4. And I say "wives", because in the US, you cannot legally have more than one wife. So the man would legally marry the first wife, and the rest were just glorified mistresses. One thing that I hated about the community is that even if there wasn't obvious jealousy amoung the wives, the men almost always picked a favorite wife, and she got the nicest house, the most money, and the most time with him. And all the other wives usually had to get a part time job just to afford groceries. It was also weird because nearly everyone in this community was related to everyone, either by blood or by marriage. There were two kids(who were the same age) that my brother played baseball with that on their father's side they were uncle and nephew, and on their mothers side they were cousins. So weird!

That is disgusting! I know my husband don't cheat we always together we work together live together never leave each other side & we couldn't be happier. We have 7 kids & been together 21 years married for 10.. we completely LOVE OUR FAMILY & LIFE! WE ARE FULLY COMMITTED TO EACHOTHER.

I will now. "In the end of days people will be lovers of self and money". Then you and Ben posted that video on self-partnering. My mind was blown. Halleluja Brett.

@JC4LYFE777

Жыл бұрын

2 Timothy 3 Verses 1-9 English Standard Version But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of Godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of truth. Just as Jannes and Jambres approached Moses, so these men also oppose truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. But they will not get far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men... WAKE UP PEOPLE, SEEK THE LORD, WE ARE IN THE LAST DAYS... THIS IS THE GENERATION THAT GOD SAID THAT SHALL NOT PASS...

@foamontheriver

Жыл бұрын

@@JC4LYFE777 ​​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠ I’m Muslim and I approve

Love you Brett! You’re an inspiration to me as a teen in today’s crazy world

@co0lbeans_

Жыл бұрын

@Elaina Mendez Humanity is doomed if you agree with the stupidity of the left ❤️

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​​@Elaina Mendez Just like you lol

Man looks happy, not going to lie.

Why does Brett always have the smoothest ad transitions holy shit

One of the most important fears to confront while you’re young is the fear of being alone. The moment you can appreciate solitude, be comfortable with just yourself on a Saturday night; you will greatly diminish that NEED to have someone. It’s not incel behavior. It’s respecting & valuing yourself; building within yourself that when you date…you won’t do what these young ladies have done to themselves. He’s only doing what they have allowed him to get away with. He’s going to want a third one day. Ughhhhh I just saw the cross on his arm. Ughhh now I’m even more irritated with him. Way to represent dude ughhh!

@user-ot5ub7ck8j

Жыл бұрын

This is not incel behavior. This is the behavior of a strong independent feminist. They convince themselves that they do not need anyone and they are happy on their own. But by the mid-thirties, reality catches up with them. And they record teary TieToks about how unhappy they really are when they're alone and how they need a man. But it's' too late.

I guess if other people are into it, go for it, but for me, it's a big hell no. I hate the argument a lot of them make that it's selfish to be in a monogamous relationship because you're forcing someone to only be with you. Who says it's forced? Maybe not everyone wants to sleep with people other than their partner. I genuinely do not become sexually attracted to anyone once I'm committed.

@robyndendy

Жыл бұрын

Yup!

@OlgaRykov

Жыл бұрын

Same with me and my hubby.

@imaniroyal

Жыл бұрын

Where this thread is wrong, is real polygamy is not about who you’re sleeping with. It’s about responsibility particularly on the man side. Do some research. Not here in America because it’s illegal but try the eastern side of the world where it’s very common.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j

Жыл бұрын

Yeees,, they don't want to sleep with anyone other than their partner, just more than one partner.

@Animeow08

Жыл бұрын

@@imaniroyal no it’s not very common in the Muslim community either you clown🤡🤡🤡🤡 men who actually care and respect their wife’s feelings don’t do that. And no woman intentionally will ever agree to it

“Idk, the lady kisses, they do not look, idk? Gay?” That made me laugh so much

It's always been around. Throuple is a new word for it.

I can not for the life of me imagine the teacher's reaction when 3 parents pull up to a parent-teacher meeting

@wolpertinger.

Жыл бұрын

Have you not seen the teachers of today? They'd sit there and seal clap

@jayharv285

Жыл бұрын

​@@wolpertinger. no that's a small minority of them. Most of them would not find this right

@aqueous2.063

Жыл бұрын

Shocked Pikachu face 😂

@MJAYZ007

Жыл бұрын

What's the big deal it's the same thing when a step parent walks in with their spouse or whatever

@jayharv285

Жыл бұрын

@@MJAYZ007 there's a difference and that's two people walking in. Not 3

These women need drama in their lives. I have a friend who is constantly attracted to danger, dysfunction, and drama. She cannot date solid men because they’re “boring”. Needless to say, she is extremely unhappy, but there we are.

@malumachado4561

Жыл бұрын

Your friend might be borderline (I think it used to be called histrionic I might be wrong) if I had to guess. They tend to be very "amorous" and seek drama. They are often attracted to psychopaths.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j

Жыл бұрын

The only difference is that you and Brett invented the drama in the women's lives in the video.

@amyawashington2849

Жыл бұрын

​@@user-ot5ub7ck8j Because they're rightly calling out how wrong their relationship is?

Ooof new add! Fun when they switch it up!

One wife is enough to care for. I love giving all of me to my wife and connecting with her emotionally. No way I’d have enough to give that same level to another woman. Nor would I want to

Throuples always seem to crash and burn eventually.

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Like your parents?

Anything outside of the traditional relationship structure that has worked for centuries tends to lead to brokenness and disaster.

“Let’s all come together” Brett!!! 😆

6:17 I don't think I've ever heard Brett call someone this name before 😂

12:10 did the audio and video not blend for anyone else here too? Edit: They fixed it

"Throuple: When your relationship status goes from 'It's complicated' to 'It's a circus'."

@KokoWinter

Жыл бұрын

This is so funny cause it's true😂

@tor547

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez Got yo a$$ whooped cause it's true

@challotmolf

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez what u mean so what😂r u in one of these groups too?😂

this man literally can make a baseball team with the amount of kids he has

My husbands childhood friend is a habitual cheater. His wife has caught him several times and has been broken by it. He introduced the wife to a group of swingers…fast forward a few years and he’s ready to give up the swinging life and she’s fully into it because these other men make her feel how her husband should. So sad and they have 3 teenage kids.

I will admit as a man I think a ton of red pill content is actually indeed correct. Harsh yes. Offends people yes. But also mainly correct. That being said….. the one thing I don’t understand is the dudes in that space who genuinely want to share a ton of women in an actual serious relationship. As a guy, peace and comfort is what I’m looking for and that seems like quite possibly the biggest headache on the planet.

@nikoraasu6929

Жыл бұрын

red pill is generally good but the "be a man and fuck as many women as you want" is a really shitty thing

@khendrycolon5815

Жыл бұрын

Thank God someone said it.

@andrewyoung2796

Жыл бұрын

Pink pill

@akshsehgal998

Жыл бұрын

Nah, it's the same as feminism but for the other side

@respectdawildo_danjones508

Жыл бұрын

99% of men don’t think that way, there’s a difference between a bitter truth and… wtvr the F this is. I’ll just say “good job f3minists”… men win again, it’s only the top 5% that win but still they win nonetheless

Call me possessive, needy, dependent or whatever everyone has a preference. I just happen to prefer to be in a committed monogamous relationship and I’ve already communicated with my bf what I want in the relationship and the boundaries too. I do experience anxiety about getting cheated on sometimes but I always remind myself that it’s probably my anxiety and I just need to trust him. If he does cheat on me I’ll find out eventually and I’ll move on just like I did with the last one.

@dian277

Жыл бұрын

tearing their partners down for not submitting to their desires is narcissistic, can't take them seriously.

@jzen1455

Жыл бұрын

I'm not a fan being in a relationship who has one foot out the door as they await a shiner better sex object.

Polygamy is unsustainable, unhealthy, unnatural, and just plain wrong. I’ve been asked to be apart of someone’s throuple and it was the most uncomfortable I’ve ever felt.

Yet another smooooooth transition into an ad Brett Cooper superstar

Thank you Brett for everything you do. You help the world become a better place.

@thefunkyfinn

Жыл бұрын

Ikr, she's awesome. Looks like she needs new pants tho, these have a big hole in the knee 😳🤓

@jamesplymire5342

Жыл бұрын

​@Elaina Mendez People like you do!!!

@jamesplymire5342

Жыл бұрын

​@@thefunkyfinn 😂

@jamesplymire5342

Жыл бұрын

Brett is awesome and spits straight facts. ❤

The world needs more people like you Brett. Thanks for everything you've shared in your videos.❤❤❤

😂 oh my God, the biggest laugh is watching you transition to the commercial!

Bro is living the dream

It's just a throwback to communes. No strings, no holds.

As a Mormon, I guarantee you that if you told any of these people that you were Mormon, they would say who polygamy. But it’s OK for them to say oh we’re a Throuple when they literally make the same exact arguments that traditional polygamist couples make about child rearing it’s just like the height of hypocrisy.

@crazychase98

Жыл бұрын

I literally don't care polygamy is a thing but bring kids into any sexual anything you need 9m to the back of the head. This to me is a nothing topic things are so much worse then women all sleeping with the same guy most women now a days sleep with the same guy while single as is

@samuelphillian1286

Жыл бұрын

@@crazychase98 my point is how ridiculous and stupid these people are claiming to be unique and special by doing the same old behaviors that have been around since biblical times.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j

Жыл бұрын

@@samuelphillian1286 But I haven't heard people in the video call themselves special. Maybe I missed it, please provide the timecode. It's Brett who unreasonably accuses them of wanting to be seen as special.

"let's all come together" - I see what you did there Brett

nobody that is happy being single would endure this nonsense in my opinion. they'd rather be someone's afterthought than alone with their own thoughts

I had a friend that had a “live in girlfriend”…….. Needless to say it didn’t work out well when her husband started taking the “girlfriend” weekend dates and lying to his wife about it. Sad thing was that their daughter was only 3 at the time and was exposed to everything 😢

@Bubblereeds

Жыл бұрын

Nooo, my heart to the child

I know what a throuple is. But honestly, poly couples will never make sense to me. How can they all love each other but not be jealous?

@MJAYZ007

Жыл бұрын

Savages was pretty cool

there is an episode of boston legal that has this day in court. 2 women 1 guy.. one woman wanted kids the other did not. One wanted to focus on her career and just have a stable thing at home the other wanted to be the stay at home mom. they live in separate homes. and explained it, more or less, when the stay at home just put the kids to bed, wanted to draw a nice hot bath and didn't want homeboy to jump in the career woman would be more than happy to take him... needless to say he had to divorce one of them but they were still able to live that lifestyle just not through marriage. Now I suggest everyone to go watch this show cause it brings up a LOT of things we are going through today.. anyway keep up the great vids cheers.

This throuple stuff sounds like fodder for future episodes on Investigation Discovery

Brett should talk about the Tennessee homeowner who returned fire after a couple of armed thugs shot at him during an attempt to steal his vehicle outside his driveway which resulted in the homeowner being investigated instead.

@thing1thing2themediamaniac43

Жыл бұрын

IT'S GODDAMN TIME WE OVERTHROW OUR GOVERNMENT IF OUR RULERS AND CRIMINALS SOME OF WHOM AREN'T EVEN CITIZENS AREN'T GOING TO OBEY THE RULE WTF SHOULD WE LET'S JUST STOP PAYING TAXES

@J.Young808

Жыл бұрын

Must have been Nashville

@DatNygma

Жыл бұрын

Of course thats some bullshit thats happenin! 🤦🏽‍♂️

@db9944

Жыл бұрын

​@Justin Young Close. Memphis. But Fred is leaving out vital details. The man was shooting recklessly and wilfully put himself in that situation by exiting his own house to confront them. He admitted that he couldn't even see where he was shooting because the burglars were hiding behind his car and admitted that he had his eyes closed. He hit a neighboring house. Knowing what is behind what you are shooting is Gun Safety 101. Shooting at them was not the right course of action. While he did not shoot first, he did create the situation. That all said, the police still should be putting more effort into finding the burglars since they obviously shouldn't be on the streets. But it is Memphis, so they'll be out by lunch and a leftist DA will get their weapons charges dropped because apparently that's the best way to combat gun violence.

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

Thugs must that protected group.

In my opinion most polygamous/ Polyamorous relationships are onsided or are filled with mostly lust instead of love to accommodate one person's desires (just like in this vid) and its kinda sad. But as long as they want to live like that, then they can.

@fireblade295

Жыл бұрын

That is your opinion, but to me, it RELIES on love. Lust is just an open relationship, which is what they have, if not polygamy.

To each their own. If theyre not bothering anyone they can live as they feel is best.

This reminds me of that episode of King of Queens when Holly moves in.