Have You Ever Felt Like a Failure? | Hope Works
When Richard went from a comfortable existence to living in a small apartment with his wife and young son, he realized he was a victim of his poor choices. He’s grateful for challenges that helped him grow and learn from the Lord.
It took a while. At first, Richard wanted to blame everyone else for his financial misfortune. When he realized that he was the problem and that he alone was responsible for the consequences of his poor decisions, he also realized that he was the answer.
He felt torturous anxiety for his plight and saw no way out. He prayed and prayed often. He knew he was loved by those around him, but he also felt imprisoned in a dark tunnel with no light at the end.
In time, he talked with others in similar situations to get their advice. One friend suggested that for 10 days he make a list of 50 things for which he was grateful. After the 10 days, he felt blessed and more confident, but he was still weighed down with burdensome darkness.
Another friend suggested he needed to learn to love himself and treat himself daily to something that made him happy, such as time spent with family and in nature.
All these things helped lift his spirits to take heart for his challenge. At times, he reflected on a placard from his childhood: “God don’t make no junk.” And he wasn’t junk.
He meditated on counsel from Church leaders to pray like all depended on heaven and to work like everything depended on him. “That’s what I did,” he said. He knew he couldn’t change the past, but he could go forward with humility.
As he cared for his wife and son and saw to their happiness, he noticed the darkness lifting and peace returning. He examined the Savior’s example in scripture, how He fasted for strength and direction. Richard began fasting one day a week for four years.
Now, more than seven years later, Richard feels he and family have emerged from their challenges. “It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done,” he said. “But I wouldn’t change a thing. It was during this time that I learned that no matter how high the mountains are or how great the obstacles, we can overcome.
“I’m so grateful I went through those challenges,” he says. “Instead of edging God out of my life and blaming everything on Him, I took advantage of those trials to become closer to Him, to become more of the person He wants me to be.”
Remember, he said, “God don’t make no junk.”
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"The worth of souls is great in the sight of God."
@travismarin2595
2 жыл бұрын
D&C 18:10
4:08. “You have to learn how to love yourself.” God, thank you. I needed that!
@jeffreymiller681
3 жыл бұрын
I needed that to
This is so good! My hub and I were just talking yesterday about how much we grew from the 2008 financial crisis as individuals, but also as a family. My husband was a full-time real estate investor in Utah when it hit... OUCH! We were literally saved by the grace of God to not go utterly bankrupt, but just barely! There were many tight years in the interim, tight years that built character and perspective and wisdom in us and in our children. We see the hardships we went through as nothing but a blessing, now. Our general philosophy with money has become this: be stingy with yourself, and be generous with others. There is so much abundance outside of material possessions! I have always loved President Monson's talk about living the "abundant life", because it is easily within most of our reaches. And for those that it isn't, we can help.
For a while, I have been letting pride get to me. I told myself that I could do things without the help of my savior. It's been such a struggle. I'm so glad that I have subscribed to this channel because even after getting a notification that seemed to fit my situation I still did not want to open it- that was until now of course. The title of this video had matched me so mysteriously well. I've been prideful but I'm slowly learning to humble myself unto the Lord and seek help. It takes a humble heart to put aside time to say your prayers and a diligent mind to be able to fall, get back up again and keep going. Thank you guys so much for these wonderful videos! They help so much
@Jaromdecker
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%. Every time these wonderful videos pop up I get the urge to skip them but as soon as I watch them I am instantly grateful that I did. Thank you for your testimony.
@rdancranston
3 жыл бұрын
I am certainly not trying at all to justify my passed actions but I know for me unfortunately I seem to learn lessons the hard way....I was never more appreciative for and to the Savior when I stepped away from His gospel and found my way back. Pride is a huge stumbling block for us as humans. Now when I pray I ask that I may remain humble in my life rather than being compelled to be humble🤗
Thank you. We are going through a dark time right now. But, we know we have a lesson to learn during this time. However, our faith will not waiver no matter the outcome.
“God don’t make no junk”. I like that!
@kennethgourdin3266
2 жыл бұрын
I heard something similar once: "I am a child of God, special, unique, and worthwhile: Special, because I am a child of God; unique, because no one else on earth is exactly like me; and worthwhile, because, as a creation of God, I know that God doesn't create any junk."
I Love Our Savior So Much ♥️💯🙏🏽 Thx for this message!
Great message, my favorite part....You can either be humble or be compelled to be humble! I also loved writing down 50 things you are grateful for every day for ten days and getting out and doing something that makes you happy every day for 30 days!❤️
I've been victimized by 2 men with mental disorders who by their actions made it clear that they didn't believe I was of worth or enough or deserved to be loved!! By doing theraphy technices I was able to rediscover my own worth and was told that the lord loved me more than I could imagine!! this has helped my friendships around me!
@churchofjesuschrist
3 жыл бұрын
We are so happy to hear that you were able to rediscover your own worth and the great love the Lord has for you. You are a beloved daughter of Heavenly Father who wants to bless you and help you find peace and joy in this life. Always remember that you can pray to him at any time when you need a listening ear. He will listen and bless you.
@travismarin2595
2 жыл бұрын
Instead of sharing this information to the public, hopefully you have reported these criminals to the proper authorities. Have you?
Thank you Richard for your words! I think it is inspiring how you endured 7 years with these trials and didn't give up and experienced gratefulness along the way. I wouldn't want to change who I have become today either but definitely continue to learn from my past mistakes :) All the best to you and your family!
Why is it that when you feel as though you have the answers, you sometimes push aside opportunities to be touched? I Don’t usually stop to view the Hope Works at Home videos...because I already “know” the information that will be shared, that I already have That Answer. I am so glad the promptings were strong enough today that I DID stop scrolling for recipes, and housekeeping tips, and WATCHED this video. It is definitely THE place I needed to be today; gave me new eyes to see today, and offered me blessings I am in need of TODAY.
@marycasto1570
3 жыл бұрын
Me too, I finally watched a Hope Works video (this one) again and it was so good to hear from not a therapist about doing things that you like and learning to love yourself.
@Tylstrup9382
3 жыл бұрын
It’s strange, but I think answers come to us when we humble ourselves, soften our hearts, and spiritually reach out to the Lord. I can’t quite explain it, but it happens every time I allow myself to do this. And the Lord just waits there to help pick us up, but we need to reach out.
@travismarin2595
2 жыл бұрын
Because the opportunities would feel meaningless.
Love that testimony. May God continue to bless you brother Richard 😄
Thank you for sharing this message of hope. Sometimes, life feels overwhelming and it's easy to forget who we are. Thank you for remembering us that we are children of God, that we matter, and there is no mountain that we cannot climb with the help of the Lord :)
Thank you for this beautiful message brother. Love the reminder about fasting regularly and doing something everyday to make yourself happy
Thank you 😊 Humble, , peace, hope and pray for light of Jesus Christ to deliver us from darkness into light. 😇💕👍💚
There was a time in my life a few years ago that I found myself alone. Depression set in and I considered suicide, but Jesus came into my life and He was all I had. Over a period of time, He lifted me out of the pit, and I realized He was all I needed. If not for God I would probably be dead, but things have gotten better lately, and I will never forsake The Savior! I realize now that I wasn't alone at all, He was there with me all the time. I just had to call on Him and trust Him to help me get through the hardest times of my life.
Love this story. I hope I can do what Richard did and find things to do each day to overcome failure and discover who I truly am.
I am grateful that I watched this video. This is what I need to hear and learn! I testify that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ lives and they love us. What a great message!😢❤
"I know I'm somebody, 'cause God don't make no junk!" I love that!
Thank you SO MUCH for this. Every single word was needed and together answered a prayer in my heart. I'm going to share this with my husband, who needs the comfort of an example of hope.
God makes warrior's and DIAMONDS to shine
I've heard Richard's story several times in another setting but am so grateful to hear it anew in a spiritual setting. ♥️ God WILL help us through our darkness.
7:03 I don’t blame God for what bad happened to me, when it’s another person’s doing. I even repent nightly of what mistakes I’ve made before I sleep.
I am in a never ending tunnel myself right now and have been in the last 6 months. Thank you for sharing this!
Praise the Lord Jesus amen
I have personally found there is a difference between my own trials and the trials that I share with God, if that makes sense. No matter what... life is going to try us all, but wouldn't I rather have purpose, direction, and more importantly hope while climbing out of pits and over mountains, instead of relying on my own strength? Thanks for sharing this, I needed it.
Yep, feel like that every day
Thank you! 💓
Thank you !!
Thanks Richard!
Thank you
You are really blessed having someone that loves you. 💖
Thank you for share with us !!!
Hallelujah Amen
This came up on the perfect time I was calling my self a failure and this pops up
@nana_tfz9142
3 жыл бұрын
Sameee
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you.
Really needed this today, I was happy when I saw the title. There are so many beautiful messages I will seriously reflect on, thank you for sharing ❤
I feel my Savior’s love every day...especially during my own personal struggles and heartache.
Amen 🙏🏾 I will start counting my blessings also 50 things to be grateful for a day I feel that’s a challenge for me but it can be done.
I used to but then after failing everyday forever and every situation with every relationship I know I'm a failure and I just consider myself a survivor and look forward to Heaven one day
@lindagoodman112
3 жыл бұрын
Ethan, can you find one thing you haven't failed at, just one? Like you haven't failed at being a survivor! Tomorrow find another! And then the next day another! You, my friend are not a failure!
@alittlepieceofearth
3 жыл бұрын
*hugs*
@aubreijorgensen3466
3 жыл бұрын
You are not a failure!! I understand you may feel this way, but just because you feel this way does not mean it is true. We all struggle sometimes, but God believes in you, and does not see you as a failure. He will lift you up. You’ve got this.
These are always great ❤️ I admire people sharing their stories. We all have something and can lift others by our experiences, how awesome is that? 🙂
God is good
so powerful. everyone needs to experience this change. Our Savior lives.
Thankyouu 💖
Such a sincere testimony thank you
Amen brother 🙏 So very well spoken. God bless you all brothers and sisters. The field is white, ready for harvest 🕊❤️
What a great teaching you shared! Thank you!!!!
Awesome brotha!
Father finds the ways to teach us that Faith and Obedience are the only true paths to Joy. This is an amazing example for all of our lives. You can change a few dates or specifics, but in the end the paths and the challenges are measured to fit each one of us individually.
Great Testimony, Heavenly Father knows our Hearts.
God loves you because he makes no junk!!
Thankyou for sharing inspiring message 💯❤
I can feel this.... Love from nepal Thank you ☺
Richard is a good dude! Love this.
I have been feeling that
Jesus said make thine eye single your body will fill with light! God is light! Xoxo 🧘♀️
God bless u
Beautiful Video💙
Watching right now 😍❤️
" I know, I'm somebody because God don't make no junk." What a strong & inspirational story. Grateful to hear this today.
Love the phrase, God don't make no junk ❤
Thats great
Thank you for this message it’s an inspiring.I felt failure to find my companion in life as well😔😔😔
Love this! ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, but even if we do all the right things, even if we make wise choices, we are still going to face trials. The lesson I receive from this video is: Given that we are going ti face trials as it is, dont add to that by being stupid.
Amen
Have I ever felt like failure? Only every single day.
i love you!
Thank you for all the messages. I was enlightened. I needed all the words that has been shared
Exactly what I needed to hear when I needed to hear it. Thank you, Brother.
I needed this today. Thank you.
God bless you brother, I needed this❤️❤️💯🙏
Awesome 😘😘😘
I sure do.
Yes I feel like that just now I’m drowning in debt after mum died Iv no one to turn to so thank you for this video
@alittlepieceofearth
3 жыл бұрын
*hugs*
Amazing message!
The ONLY thing we, as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, have control over AND are invited (under covenant) to do EVERY SINGLE WEEK is to "always have his Spirit to be with us". That, to me, is the ONLY proper measure of any success in this mortal probation. Every other 'good thing' falls under the category of righteous desires and (to me) are not measures of either my success or failures--in the least bit.
Definitely from the spirit to me! 😊☺
Failing doesn't make someone a failure, not succeeding is a step forward and not falling behind. As long as someone is still trying they have not failed, just things did not work out as expected so we need to try again.
Thank you, Richard. Thank you for helping humble me to see God's will for me💝
Yes, I am and always have been a failure... If you need to check it out just as my siblings!
Awesome Message, thank you!!
I love this...and I so often feel like I am invisible, or not worth it....but when you said God don't make no junk...I had to share on my social media account...because I think someone else needs to hear those words too.
Beautiful testimony and experience. ♥️ Thanks for them!
Thank you so much for this inspirational video and for such an amazing testimony, thank you😊🥰🙏
I love all of this especially the thoughts on gratitude!!! Thank you for sharing these videos on hope!!!
There is no other way, Jesus Christ is the way. He means hope to me.
Thank you Richard! This truly touched my heart. What a neat surprise to come across on KZread. God bless you.
Nice video
Our Savior will never give up on us, I have to constantly remind myself that in hard times - He ALSO went through hard times and loves us and will help us to get through.
Thank you for this, peeps. 🤜🏼🤛🏼
If we have a “Spirit of extravagance and speculation,” we will be humbled. Like Joseph in Egypt, we should live humbly and prepare for famine whenever we have times of plenty.
He lives. Believe
Thank you!! I needed this.💞💝☀️😍
Thank you!
Thanks for sharing what has helped you and can help other too. Very inspiring!
believe in god
7 and half year!
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