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@Imieg288

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss like Madonna twins daughters she adopted like 5 years ago. I forgot where their from but their father are still trying to get them back and saying they were taken behind his back he was told their going to get a better education and will return.

@saviotti101

2 жыл бұрын

When you get the chance please hit me up. I was illegally adopted but in the 70s. I never really spoke about it.

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

@@saviotti101 HMU on ig @theemlle

@eliserenée6248

2 жыл бұрын

@@Imieg288 yes! that's what happens all the time...when the kids learn English they tell their adoptive parent they were taken from a loving home...I saw a story once where that happened and the lady, who was told the mother couldn't care for her, felt so bad and she helped reunite the family.

@ChroniclesofaZoe

Жыл бұрын

@@saviotti101 hey, I would love to interview you. Still haven’t got a message! Let me know my email: haitiangirltries@gmail.com IG THEEMLLE

I am sooooo glad my fiancé talked me out of adoption seeing this makes me want to cry

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so afraid to watch because it’s triggering

i think these yt ppl are kidnapping african children aswell. i knew this one teacher who would refer to her adoptive son who’s from burkina faso saying “when we got him” over and over and they never would mention his birth parents or anything and that would leave me curious wondering if they snatched him from his parents 😬 yikes. i feel like sometimes they trick/manipulate the parents into doing this. it’s weird.

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

Look at how the celebs go over there “ making schools “ where are them kids that so called graduated? Smfh I think they lying too

@operationlivefree4536

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that is weird af "when we got him" like the child is a pair of shoes or something.

@AlatOnDemand

2 жыл бұрын

@@operationlivefree4536 not a pair of shoes 😭😭😭😭😭

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Look into Oprah’s school in Africa. You’ll be shocked.

@TheYasmineFlower

2 жыл бұрын

"When we got him" is a bad way to phrase "when we adopted him", but lots of adoptive parents do it :/ There needs to be more awareness about the impact of such careless phrasing among them.

This is sensitive to me because I believe my father was kidnapped . This is sad to me . Very triggering

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Really why?

All facts. My mom has told me about this when the earthquake happened. My aunt has 1 child by birth and she's got 2 kids, they're siblings, as Rest and they were treated like my cousins nothing less. Love you girlie, keep em coming 💕.

7:08 YOO. This happened to my friend. They were not from Haiti, but from Togo. There were 3 of them, they lied and said they were triplets. This black man literally pretended to be their father. Turns out all ties were cut from their parents, they were getting beaten for not getting good grades, and they came to the U.S. with false passport information, he changed their last name. They lied about their age, and these kids were so much older than us, but were brought in as new students in the 5th grade. and by the 7th grade they disappeared. Someone who sat next to me in class was in tears but couldnt speak about it. It wasnt until what wouldve been our sophomore year in highschool together, when I heard their "fathers" name on the TV one day, on the news for kidnapping and stealing children from Africa. I cant believe it. Just looked up the article to read it for the first time as an adult and my jaw is on the floor. Reading this now, I see there was 4 of them, not just the 3 I know.

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Super depressing man…😪

@charlenefreeman2660

Жыл бұрын

Wake up people!! They take African children and force them to breedorr children to be CONTINUSLLY sold off. I think they do this because they love to hear black helpless fameles being tortured because they absolutely hate us

This what the whole pizza gate thing was about.

Ooh 2 videos in one day?!

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

premium access baby lols

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

Showing OUT! Love to see it.

I literally googled adoption process in Haiti a few days ago! Thank you

Bby , you a real one for making this video and saying it exactly like it is . You know imaa always support you it’s making me empathize with my father . This is so sad to hear

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry sis ♥️

We appreciate the consistency 🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️

The first thing I think of is organ harvesting.

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

What? No Im gone

@StoneyLover93

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Gooood observation

I’m so glad someone spoke on this 💯💯💯💯 thanks Queen 👸🏾

The Netherlands is also a big place for adoption. I'm adopted myself and besta believe me I would give the world to come back home...

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

Sending love your way 💜

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Hope you’re in a better place now ♥️

@beertjeslisser

2 жыл бұрын

@@ChroniclesofaZoe not yet but I'm planning to make a trip back home and then I will be. Thank you for speaking up for us ❤

@beertjeslisser

2 жыл бұрын

@@destinixshakur thank you ❤

Please keep dropping history on Haiti , you have great content on your culture .

Wow. So many emotions watching this. My family from the US adopted my younger brother from Haiti in 1988. He has since met with 4 of his 6 biological brothers. Some were adopted; others sent to live with family. We have learned that his father let the youngest 3 be adopted with the understanding that they would return at 18. Of course, that wasn’t the arrangement. We also learned that the orphanage lied to us about my brother’s circumstances. We are just learning of the shadiness from that end. However, my family and the two other white families that adopted the 3 little ones only had the best intentions for these children. My mom and stepdad were too old (at that time) to adopt a young child from the US. They were directed by their adoption agency to Haiti. My brother has had challenges fitting as he was raised in a primarily white community. It’s been helpful reuniting with some of his siblings particularly the ones that lived a similar life. But seeing how his life turned out compared to the siblings left behind, he has no regrets. It’s heartbreaking to know that his bio family cried for the little ones that did not return. I would feel the same way losing him as we are so close. I’m so happy for him that he has a happy ending and that his family has expanded. kzread.info/dash/bejne/nZ16o8xxdpPUh5c.htmlsi=Jo886UPN6utpQeZl

This is a grave tragedy, the Haitians based here in the United States of America must stop this now!!!!!!!

I’ve been binge watching ur videos all day! Keep it up💕

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks love

Yes, bring all the facts sister 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

I was just watching one of your videos about moving away, this is a very intersting video.

Like Angelina Jolie's daughter from Ethiopia.Chris Rock's experience wife took a baby from KwaZulu Natal here in South Africa.She said the mom gave the baby to her at six months.

It’s true , I remember during the tragic earthquake the news reporters were on national television saying had corneas for your 👁. I knew something was off and they might be 0rg@n harnessing “cough” ”cough” 🫥🧐

@moniqueloomis9772

2 жыл бұрын

😡

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Tbh I was like anyway 🫠

Oh my God thats horrific! So glad you are sharing this with the world. Is there any way to stop it? Other than obviously not adopt from these places.

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

Tbh not really 😩😩😩

@operationlivefree4536

2 жыл бұрын

@@ChroniclesofaZoe I'm sorry to hear that. Well if I hear anyone talking about adoption I'll pass this video along.

I've always wanted to adopt, the LEGAL way. I never thought I could have kids. I have a son of my own, and I definitely would go to the ends of the earth to get him back if he was to ever get kidnapped.... Its bad out here in South Louisiana... They had a story about someone trying to kidnap babies in Scott, Louisiana. I live in Lafayette, Louisiana..... That's literally 5 minutes from where I live... Its scary and sick.... Y'all please do y'all research!

I seen somewhere on social media I’m not sure where but anyways it was a yt couple that adopted a girl and there was a language barrier so they couldn’t really understand her eventually she learns English and she tell them she was taken from her mom n given to them they yt mom ended up finding the mom and contacted her and told her how she got her child the mom seen how happy the little girl was with them and she let them stay but she is still in contact with her mom it’s sad because the girl was trying to tell them for years and crying for years that she wasn’t put up for adoption but kidnapped from her mom and taken somewhere else I couldn’t imagine being with my mom one day n then the next living with people lighter than me and don’t speak the language I speak and no longer in my country like omg

@katrspaul

Ай бұрын

The resilience of our people. We're forced to accept unfathomable circumstances where it's almost normalized. 😢😢

I didn’t know it was called restavek but we’ve definitely had many kids stay with our family over the summer and they are treated like family the parents come visit every weekend. My mom was even sent to a home for school her mom would provide food supplies in exchange for a place to stay closer to the school.

Sad video. It's scary that this happens so often.

My son kidnapped over a year ago #ReturnJaguar Butler

@ChroniclesofaZoe

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry 😞

@ReturnJaguar

2 жыл бұрын

@@ChroniclesofaZoe urgency need of shares #ReturnJaguar #ReturnJaquar

Idk what we call it in Jamaica, but there are rest aveks on my Jamaican side of the family ^^ We don't treat them any different, they're kin

I want to adults a kids from Haiti... but I'm not old enough yet lol. But when I'm ready I might be a family/friend kids 🤔 I don't know for sure yet. You give a lot to think about... I'm Haitian I'm aware of all the horror... it just a lots but I love the video

There seems to be a strong sentiment against churches and their influence. Some individuals go as far as to suggest that certain people within these institutions would encourage inappropriate relationships with pedophiles during trips to developing countries. They also claim that these individuals would encourage young girls to get pregnant, assuring them that orphanages would take care of the child if they couldn't. However, it is important to note that Ayïti never needed any of these orphanages. Our constitution provided for everything necessary until Pope John Paul II visited Ayïti in 1983 and expressed the need for change. According to this perspective, it was around this time that Ayïti started facing difficulties. There is a belief that the Catholic Church played a role in indoctrinating Ayisyen parents, resulting in a pattern of similar behavior among Ayisyen kids despite growing up in different households. There’s a ayisyen woman who’s currently looking for her parents, she claim that the Catholic Church “kidnapped her”. Laura Silbsy was caught smuggling ayisyens kids from ayïti into DR and was bailed out by the Clinton’s allegedly 🥴

I think of Alan cave 😭❤️ -They need to add speaking fluent creole to that list. A mother that will help try to retinue too.

I know you get ALOT of comments but I said on one of your videos that my father was adopted and didn’t know his parents . I feel like we be connecting as a people because I mentioned this last night about how I felt my father was kidnapped from Haiti and bought here 😢😢😢 he doesn’t know his family

@Cocochantelle

2 жыл бұрын

There’s no way he doesn’t have family, it’s a small island…he has aunties, uncles or cousins at least…

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cocochantelle girl , didn’t I just say he’s adopted? That man is 50 years plus old . He has tried to find them. He has the family who got him but they abused him and treated him bad he survived in the streets . Theirs is a such thing as not having family . It may be hard for people to believe but it’s real

@moniqueloomis9772

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cocochantelle She didn't say he doesn't have family. She mentioned that he doesn't know them. It's not like the adopted parents found him in a cabbage patch. 😓

@moniqueloomis9772

2 жыл бұрын

He may not know them, but it's possible to investigate through records and DNA who his family members are. Expensive (time+money)? Yes, but the reconnecting will be precious and priceless.

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

@@moniqueloomis9772 he’s been working on this for his whole life . It’s harder for him being he’s locked up . He was doomed from the start unfortunately

I was a victim of illegal adoption in Haiti.

Can people help out the parentless children here or in their own country first? It's like First world countries always wanna forget about our problems and quickly jump on to someone else who never asked... Or maybe it's just a US thing...

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This world is so crazy 😢 Can’t wait for Jesus Christ to return! Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family.

@AntonioCunningham-jr2oj

4 ай бұрын

Naw big mistake Jesus is never coming back he is serapis Zeus if he never ending slavery at all what makes you think he is going to return

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White people need to adopt white people. Have we not learned from the Martin Luther king movement 😪

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

They do it on purpose girl they wrong for even doing that anyway smh

@teathrone3862

2 жыл бұрын

Please don’t used Dr.King to promote your ignorance.

That supreme handmaids tale judge has 2 of them, I wonder if theyre just richly dressed rest a veks

Ohhhh noooo … I take care of orphans in Haiti .. I’m White !! My husband is Haitian !! His whole family and I work together ! People BRING children to us .. we can’t even take any more … never one time did we take children from anyone .. go ahead and email me if you want info .

@ChroniclesofaZoe

Жыл бұрын

Omg yes. I wouldddd looooove to do an interview!

@ChroniclesofaZoe

Жыл бұрын

I don’t see an email for you so it would ne great if you email me at HaitianGirlTries@gmail.com or hmu on IG THEEMLLE