it seemed like the girl who called others 'healthy' despite it being a trigger for herself hasn't fully recovered bc anorexia can be so competitive to the point where its nasty and I just dont understand why she would say that

@garfieldsgirlfrindvb

Жыл бұрын

Finally someone said it instead of attacking her

@sarah.phillipa854

Жыл бұрын

even if she said it just to judge if he had an ed or not its such a triggering thing to say

@cayseaxo

Жыл бұрын

she mentioned towards the end she has not fully recovered and has a long way to go. i wish her and everyone else the best in their journey to recovery!!

@letsparchmentitupyo7566

Жыл бұрын

best way its been put!

@daniela99986

Жыл бұрын

yea i also noticed that she's missing eyelashes... might just be alopecia but it's most likely trichotillomania :/ hope she gets the help she needs

Y’all.. she not only used the “bigger presence” card, but she also intentionally said someone looked healthy after admitting how those words made her feel so she could see if she could guess people correctly

@emilyk1109

9 ай бұрын

Cut should've triple-checked to ensure that no guesser has a history with (specifically restrictive) eating disorders themselves, for the sake of protecting the contestants. The thought patterns, externalised hate and projective behaviours don't go away just because you stop purging or develop healthier eating habits, and it was obvious that she was far from being actually significantly recovered by the time her introduction was done. Not trying to generalise everyone who has an ED, I'm affected myself and the majority of the "community" has enough empathy to not behave in such a way, especially those who are adults with years or decades of their own experience. I'm also not trying to shift the blame away from her over to the casting directors at all, she's a grown woman with two children and more than a decade of experience in regards to how hurtful and triggering certain phrases can be, there isn't any excuse. Nevertheless, many affected people do struggle with recognising their own toxicity, especially if they think of themselves as being recovered, so Cut should've been more careful to counterbalance this.

@unromantic-yl6tf

4 ай бұрын

@@emilyk1109yep

@unromantic-yl6tf

4 ай бұрын

rain is such a cool name her personality is too

@unromantic-yl6tf

4 ай бұрын

i didn’t like glasses girl’s comments and the way she used had/has based on the way people looked

@YouAreStarDust

Ай бұрын

@@unromantic-yl6tfexactly

bro how can you just outright say "you have a big presence" when you've struggled with anorexia yourself. can't wrap my head around that

@fey0217

Жыл бұрын

⁠@lilith hi i have an ED. she knows what she's saying is messed up and she knows she is talking to people who MIGHT have an eating disorder. idc what goes on in her head but many people in ED communities agree that you shouldn't say stuff like that people. projection is never okay. this isn't an issue of having a "lack of empathy" she just lacks manners and projects.

@sumessu

Жыл бұрын

@@lilith1497 as someone with an ed and body dysmorphia trust she knew exactly what she was doing.

@anonymousbo0318

Жыл бұрын

​@@lilith1497😂

@sumessu

Жыл бұрын

@@lilith1497 anyone with an ed would tell u the same. i know my friends who suffer think the exact same. she’s clearly still struggling and using it as a way to make people realise how small she is compared to him. she’s making people aware if they weren’t already thinking it. she’s doing it to make herself feel better and u can tell because she did it multiple times in this video

@greton5225

Жыл бұрын

@lilith really wish she 'had empathy' too, being fully aware that the people she is talking to might be struggling with the same shit she is - she's guessing whether they have an ED, not their shoe size or favourite rapper. i get that it's not malicious, but you have to take into context the situation she is in and that she might not be the only victim of a disorder on this show.

I don't know his name but the male guesser impressed me a lot, he was so considerate through this, kudos to him

@mahadewiiii

Жыл бұрын

Yes… he was so lovely 😊❤

@zixzizia1066

Жыл бұрын

I think his name’s Jesse. He’s been in plenty of cut videos.

@anotherpersonontheinternet4676

4 ай бұрын

The Dopamine Guy is sooo attractive!!! And Black Girl is adorable, would love to be friends with her.

@Alex-tc6gs

3 ай бұрын

​@@anotherpersonontheinternet4676 I was gonna say that lol everything about him was attractive

@Chelseahalsted

Ай бұрын

@@zixzizia1066 Yeah and there's one where his former partner came on and she's absolutely gorgeous and talks about what a great person he is and I feel like this was the best video I've seen where his sensitivity and empathetic soul really shone.

when the girl who says she hates being called healthy then calls someone else healthy looking....

@simonisenberg4516

Жыл бұрын

She knows that it is a good thing to be called "healthy" it just triggers differently for her. But she knows that it isn't like that for everybody else and I bet they talked about that too.

@kaitbunni

Жыл бұрын

@@simonisenberg4516 the problem is, people’s idea of healthy isn’t always the same

@anonymousbo0318

Жыл бұрын

​@kaitbunni Except that's bs. Healthy isn't an opinion that varies. It's a truth. As in factually people are healthier than others based on certain actions and genetics. That's it.

@keri2868

Жыл бұрын

@@anonymousbo0318 I think what Kaitbunni is stating is that people's personal relationship with the word healthy is not the same. And someone's own feelings about "healthy" are not factual. For many with EDs healthy has negative connotations of being 'plump' idk exactly how to phrase it. While calling someone healthy may sound like a complement, it could reinforce some people's body dysmorphia/triggers. Hence, appearance based compliments can often be unwise to give people who could potentially be suffering with EDs

@raversfantasy

Жыл бұрын

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@simonisenberg4516 actually, being called “healthy” is a trigger for alllll us ED ppl, mainly those of us that are restrictive. Most of us are on online forums that encourage our disorder and it’s very known to be an insult for us. It’s not just a her thing at all. She was being pretty rude, but it’s the disordered part of her brain that makes her want to act that way so that she can feel better about herself.

She really said “bigger presence” and didn’t apologize after finding out he had an eating disorder! Poor guy I hope he didn’t take her comment to heart.

@ANDRENEVERDIE21

Жыл бұрын

doesn't seems that he took personally and he made sure that he owns himself now. He's actually cool as hell... Made me think about get some glasses hehe

@hannahwillis9838

Жыл бұрын

To be fair he does work out, so I suppose that could have been taken a few ways. I understand what you mean tho

@lolsfhss5414

Жыл бұрын

yall r so soft LMAO

@viannccaa

Жыл бұрын

@@lolsfhss5414 bro what? it’s just common decency to not comment on someone’s (who possibly has an eating disorder) body😭

@T_oasty

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I don’t care if she used to have an eating disorder. What she said is absolutely not okay to say to someone. It was extremely rude. I really hope she sees the comments and apologizes, because that definitely could have been a trigger for him. So his potential relapse is now on her shoulders.

Hi Folks! First Guy here! I wanted to let y’all know that I felt in no way harmed or offended by comments or observations made! It’s the name of the game! Blindly guessing and especially on such a normally difficult topic to navigate through, this in a way destigmatized a conversation that would be considered TABOO in our society. I have such a beautiful relationship with my self and food and am in a healthier more loving place in my life. You are not alone in your struggles. It’s not easy, and the thoughts linger, but it is possible to heal and grow and not be defined by your trauma. I love y’all.

@Vampgeek

Жыл бұрын

You’re perfect ❤ thank u

@ellasolenne4561

Жыл бұрын

congrats on your recovery! as someone about a year into recovery it's always so inspiring to hear the stories of others who are doing such terrific work around food and body. keep up the great work!

@kookykiddo

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story with us, I related very strongly. I’m so happy you’ve found recovery. ❤️

@lisalilsmartass

Жыл бұрын

Wishing you the best with your recovery, keep up the good work and thank you for sharing your story with us! I have to be honest, and I still have to admit I was completely disgusted by that comment. Whether you were offended or not, she had no way of knowing whether a comment like that could have triggered you. I think Cut have to be more conscious of the content they put out and someone who has suffered from disordered eating/ weight fluctuations myself, that comment would still send me into a spiral even though I consider myself to be well into/ completed my recovery journey.

@raversfantasy

Жыл бұрын

So glad you weren’t hurt by anything and that you’re at such a peaceful place w/ you and your body. Hoping to get there myself one day!🫶

I did not expect to feel so let down by Nicole. As a fellow anorexia sufferer I can not imagine saying most of the things she said. Especially for someone who has known the battle AND has been privileged enough to receive treatment & recover, she should know better.

@beans5972

6 ай бұрын

As an anorexic aswell I agree, I can’t ever imagine saying those things to someone

@babayaga3098

4 ай бұрын

Some anorexic people trigger themselves and others on purpose and I absolutely think that’s what she was doing

@w1ld.4t.h3art

3 ай бұрын

@@babayaga3098 But its still so fucking wrong. i am so glad that i think Marvin is his name didnt takeit to heart

@babayaga3098

3 ай бұрын

@@w1ld.4t.h3art oh yes I absolutely agree with you it is NOT cool of her to do that at all!!!! Don’t worry we’re on the same side lol

@emotivelyy_

2 ай бұрын

@@babayaga3098Yes I "trigger" myself on purpose because I want to become skinnier again

No one seems to be talking about how great the guy is. He seems so nice and like he really makes an effort to understand everyone he spoke to. :)

@quietcell

Жыл бұрын

Yeah he seems like a lovely guy

@iKamilEdits

Жыл бұрын

8:40 is my adhd mind when the thought is faster than i can speak it out xd

@sskylah

Жыл бұрын

For real! The way he quickly corrected himself by saying that he should be more sensitive towards people with peanut allergies and then asked the guy he was talking to more about it. You can tell he's a great person on top of being super respectful and polite :)

@robert7567

Жыл бұрын

Jesse is a sweetheart.

@beeepbooopp

Жыл бұрын

jesse is a long time fan-favorite! 😌

“I don’t wanna trigger anyone” calls the first person big …bruh

I hope the “bigger presence” comment didn’t trigger him 🥺. As someone who’s had an eating disorder, that would’ve been such a big one for me and could revert someone back to an unhealthy relationship with food

@toxicwqste1645

Жыл бұрын

didnt think she would make a comment like that right off the bat especially after saying ,hen she is referred to as healthy it is triggering. that part made me really mad

@laycebug3260

Жыл бұрын

@@toxicwqste1645 like i thought she would be mindful but nope lmaooo

@esc_uella

Жыл бұрын

she seemed like that stereotypical fatphobic anorexic lol

@karmellla

Жыл бұрын

How can you meet someone for the first time and that’s the first thing you say? Damn!

@Ad-Infinitum

Жыл бұрын

It's the first thing she noticed. She's very obsessed with weight, obviously. Kids pick up on that, too.

"I don't know what I look like." THAT hit because I have never heard anyone else say that they feel this way. It is so relatable and so hard to describe.

@nikaiahepi4909

Жыл бұрын

YES I WAS THINKING THE SAME !

@boiwatchoutboi4382

Жыл бұрын

I always also say that. Honestly others words hurt 100x times more when you have body dysmorphia

@johnginley6197

Жыл бұрын

fr. everyone thinks i’m crazy for saying that

@oftheHowl

Жыл бұрын

It's body dysmorphia, increasingly common now. None of us see our bodies correctly thanks to unrealistic standards in media, bullying, etc

@boiwatchoutboi4382

Жыл бұрын

@@oftheHowl this, also for including the bullying. It can fuck you up getting constantly made fun of your appearance as a child/teen, for a long time

okay but like what the fuck with Nicole saying you have a presence and pointing at his weight and saying he's too big.. she was so wrong for that

@plocus3592

Жыл бұрын

THIS

@lala0913

Жыл бұрын

That made me so sad for him 😢

@cristinaistrate7636

Жыл бұрын

People make mistakes

@fey0217

Жыл бұрын

it's insane to me bc she admitted to having an ED. she should know that it's triggering to say stuff like that! i'm sure she wouldn't like it if someone said that to her. why would she say it to someone else? with someone she knew MIGHT have an ED?

@simonisenberg4516

Жыл бұрын

I don't get why so many people here get it wrong. He came out with a big chest and wide arms, she mimicks it when she says that and he mirrors it back, understanding what she meant. Dude is wide and strong and owning it. She commented on that. That so many people seem to interpret it as something like "Wow, you're fat!" says more about your own body image problems.

The girl with the overalls was really inconsiderate of everyone. She said she gets bothered when people call her "healthy" but she proceeds to call these ppl who might have an ED healthy, fat, bigger, etc.

@megamind2875

Ай бұрын

Right, and not to excuse her behavior in any way but I think those comments come from her illness. Because that’s what anorexia is, a mental illness. And I think it’s clear by her comments that she hasn’t fully “cured” it, which isn’t to shame her or anything because mental illness is something you sort of always carry around with you, even if you spend years in therapy and make significant progress it’s almost always gonna be there in the back of your mind. That being said it’s not an excuse to project those thoughts onto others, especially in a setting like this where some of those people have already struggled themselves with those same thoughts.

7:50 She said hearing the word “healthy” is very triggering for her, and then called someone else “healthy.” Why would she do that?

@elladellio

Жыл бұрын

she’s projecting her insecurities onto him

@superstargall

Жыл бұрын

anorexics love triggering other people, it’s so funny because she thinks she better because she used to be anorexic

@edwin4ever

Жыл бұрын

She explained herself after, she wanted to see if that would trigger him. I didn’t like her but now ur just not saying facts

@SuperMustache555

Жыл бұрын

@@edwin4ever I understand that she wanted to notice if it would trigger him, but I still don’t think that’s a very good strategy since she’s actively trying to trigger someone

@xxxxxxxxx1652

Жыл бұрын

​@@edwin4ever how would she *notice* if it triggered him? it's not like he'll straight up fall down or flinch? at my worst i had people telling me i look healthy, i'd thank them and pretend i was sooo happy to hear but ended up hating myself even more months later after that comment. for someone with an ed, her comments were oddly specific and so fucked up

honestly I feel like we've watched Jesse grow up into a wonderful human being and now he's one of the Cut people I appreciate the absolute most

@mab757

Жыл бұрын

Came here to say this. He used to be kind of a bro-y jerk on occasion but now he's super insightful and really seems to listen

@THEGIRLDAS

Жыл бұрын

He actually applies what he learns from his environment. He definitely has grown a lot and is so insightful.

I love Rain's energy. We need more people like that everywhere

@shanzi9009

Жыл бұрын

Yea. I like when she asks, "Can I hug you?"

@fatcatontario

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Healer energy all the way.

@althn

Жыл бұрын

she’s amazing i wanna be her friend i love how she knows how to make jokes while still being respectful

@aurelijapastare8400

Жыл бұрын

I hope I'm not the one finding her bluntness quite off-putting at times...

@Moniethemom

Жыл бұрын

@@aurelijapastare8400 you’re not she’s annoying as hell

The girl that was commenting on people’s body made me so angry. I strongly disliked how she knows that healthy can be a trigger and she said it to him anyways?

As a skinny girl who’s always being assumed to have a ed but hasn’t, this is so interesting. Not all skinny ppl have an ed and not all ppl with an ed are skinny!!

@analir7075

Жыл бұрын

I can attest to this. People would think I’m on some kind of diet to maintain this “slim” image, when really I struggle gaining weight because of a fast metabolism and not eating enough. Working out helped me gain weight cause it would make me more hungry. But even then people would question why I work out, as if the gym is only a place for people who want to lose weight. Fat shaming is a thing but so is skinny shaming.

@Sofia-hl8zi

Жыл бұрын

i know right! like i just have a really fast metabolism but growing up i was always called a “stick” and told to “eat more” 👎

@ciaramorrison4175

Жыл бұрын

​@Anali R it's not the same tho fat shamming is sm worse cuz fat ppl are oppressed in society, skinny ppl are not but obviously ppl can still be nasty and we should all just mind our business on other ppls bodies fr

@BonShula

Жыл бұрын

Go to the gym and you will get an ED. Eating all the time disorder

@kaileywright9083

Жыл бұрын

I’ve always been super skinny and when I told my mom I thought I had an ed she was like are you sure it’s not bc that’s what you see in the media with people with your body. Turns out I do have an ed so it’s so case dependent which is interesting

The first girl is still so in her disorder. Constantly making it a competition as to what will trigger her. I was the exact same way in my disorder and having her judge if people have eating disorders is just wrong of cut to do.

okay so why would you call someone who might have an eating disorder "large" or "healthy" when you know both those words would trigger the hell out of you? nicole needs to be more careful fr

@chaerihwi5117

Жыл бұрын

fr

@saracastillo6659

Жыл бұрын

I think she feels better about herself because she is smaller than them.

@blinqe3592

Ай бұрын

and if shes not more "careful" is she going to die? is her family going to get put in a volcano? what are you even saying your larpcel

@LisaRowe-u6s

17 күн бұрын

@@blinqe3592 ur so goofy

@blinqe3592

17 күн бұрын

@@LisaRowe-u6s And you’re the picture of seriousness, aren’t you? Expound upon the methodology by which you arrived at said conclusion.

It makes me so sad seeing the girl with anorexia reacting to the other people. She seems to be struggling very much with herself and that mindset can be brutal towards everyone you interact with.

@Mirid-zj4yh

Ай бұрын

Exactly, I think she might've been aware however downplayed to herself the insensitivities in her interactions, as well as naturally not really knowing how to navigate this topic with sensitivity even if she knew sensitivity was due.

the woman with two kids: "being called healthy is the biggest trigger for me bc i perceive it as being called fat" her talking to someone who potentially has an eating disorder: "wow you have a presence, you're a bigger guy"

@jasongrundy1717

Жыл бұрын

Stupid people make better video subjects.

@leceaable

Жыл бұрын

Such a hypocrite

@Lex33567

Жыл бұрын

Some of them really tend to look at and judge other's bodies a lot. Ive encountered someone who im not that close and she commented "u seem like u lose some weight judging on ur arms" and im like beech i dont even know or care. I dont have a scale at home lol

@fakecelite

Жыл бұрын

and her purposely saying someone looks healthy

@caeflyys

Жыл бұрын

no deadass i would kms if someone said that to me

I liked the guy's technique of asking unrelated questions, different but seemed to work well

I think the girl in the overalls needs to get further in her recovery before she interacts with other people with eating disorders

Not Nicole calling him healthy after saying that she HATES it when people call her healthy

@mimilangelier4425

Жыл бұрын

I thought that too, but it's her way of sussing out who has an eating disorder. Most non-disordered people would be pleased to be called healthy.

You should have them guess who’s in recovery from drugs/alcohol .

@chanelr6975

Жыл бұрын

but then that exposes people who aren’t? lol or could trigger those who are

@clarrisab5363

Жыл бұрын

this episode exposes people with eating disorders and not and was also guessed by people WITH disorders and triggers of their own. people that participate in these are doing so willingly. the world doesn’t revolve around your triggers, and seems like CUT will make any video they want to. i, for one, think guessing those in recovery is a great idea bc it can highlight their journey in doing so for some who may be struggling.

@bambeano5703

Жыл бұрын

i think this is an amazing topic to cover in one of these videos. i’ve been, actively, in recovery for about 3 years now. Even when I was heavily using, the people around me seemed to not realize. They were shocked when I finally shared my struggles, apologetic that they never caught on. (100% not anyone else’s fault, tho. We can’t expect help if we don’t ask for it. I needed it and never knew how to ask) if you met me, by chance, you wouldn’t know what I, internally, struggle with on a daily basis. you don’t ever look at someone and think, “this dude is recovering.” you might just see me as a human, someone you want to connect with. the thought of recovery might not even pass through your mind. Topics like this are important, even necessary, to discuss and explore. It provides more visibility and compassion.

@sticks8489

Жыл бұрын

@@chanelr6975 it wouldn’t expose people who aren’t in recovery, that would be messed up lol. They would just send in random people who weren’t struggling with addictions, or perhaps with a different addiction.

@BonShula

Жыл бұрын

@@chanelr6975 By bringing them alcohol to sniff?

Pica is so unknown, stigmatized and it makes you feel so ashamed. It was brief, but I'm immensely thankful for the representation from such a lovely seeming person!! ❤

As someone who has anorexia I was shocked by Nicole’s lack of filter and lack of subtlety. It was incredibly disappointing to hear her be so focused on appearance and body. I can tell you from experience those are the worst people to be in treatment with. Anyone at any size can have any eating disorder, it’s not about how you look. Eating disorders do not discriminate by gender, age, race, religion, sexuality etc.

In terms of the second girl, ADHD is actually heavily correlated with eating disorders!

@renuschmaya

Жыл бұрын

@Turtle yes ur right! But I was just simplifying it

@jennadombroski1505

Жыл бұрын

​@Turtle comorbidity is synonymous for being correlated or connected to. No correction was needed, both phrasings address the notion lol

@maiag1855

Жыл бұрын

@Turtle dumb

@jennadombroski1505

Жыл бұрын

@Turtle and? I guess the 'and' would be "and I'm confused why you 'corrected' a phrase with a synonymous phrase." It just, doesn't make sense?

@jennadombroski1505

Жыл бұрын

@Turtle so like, genuine question, so we're on the same page. What was your intention when correcting* "correlated to" as *"comorbid"? /gen

I'm so glad they included somebody with ARFID! Love seeing more representation, not enough people know about our struggle!

@teertha_n

Жыл бұрын

I know right!! It was a really pleasant surprise since it rarely comes up in eating disorder conversations

@EmmeSmith

Жыл бұрын

yessss me too

@StormTheParade

Жыл бұрын

Came to say the same! I have the texture sensitivity kind as well, i feel so seen lmao

@javeriamazhar9132

Жыл бұрын

So glad to see it being shown, I recently found about it myself and it's been eye opening on why I react to food the way I do. I do think they could've included more struggles people with ARFID have to face tho ;-;

@cheezit2690

Жыл бұрын

Sad they didn’t give me representation for EDNOS though

“Big presence” comment came out of her so fast

jesse is a sweetheart and you can tell he really tries to have some understanding and empathy for the people he was talking to. as someone who had also struggled with an ed in the past, i think the girl who struggled with an eating disorder was projecting a little and was slightly insensitive at times...

Love the ginger girl she’s so sweet and bubbly

@poejavelski148

Жыл бұрын

She has an F’d up view of her health. You only get one body.

@catarinarosario9867

Жыл бұрын

@@poejavelski148 what is f'd up about her view over her health? she realised she was way more body anxious when she was skinnier probably because she used to sit between skinny and fat, not quite one or the other.

@dmnspdn-lz9rg

Жыл бұрын

@@poejavelski148 you have a fucked up view of health. Even assuming that being fat is directly proportional to physical health (which it's not, there's many many factors), you also only get one brain, and it's incredibly fucked up to ask of people that they prioritize optimization of their physical health over having a base stable mental health.

@poejavelski148

Жыл бұрын

@@catarinarosario9867 Obesity is not healthy 🤦‍♂️

@CrajsWu

Жыл бұрын

That laugh tho 💀

As someone who has had anorexia for seven years, can confirm it makes you hilarious

@autumnfr3ya_

Жыл бұрын

100% agree 😭

@meganrivera7579

Жыл бұрын

I hope you're in a better place now ❤ we are all rooting for you!!

@angelinurhead

Жыл бұрын

doesnt apply on me

@almond5651

Жыл бұрын

really because it zapped my entire personality but also I'm not recovered either so

@priscillazeggiato7227

Жыл бұрын

lets not glamorize it tho, it also makes u miserable

Jesse’s character development from earlier CUT videos is so heartwarming to see❤️

Omg the girl in green just gave me the answer I’ve been searching for for YEARS!! I have the exact same symptoms, and no amount of google searching ever came up with ARFID. Thank you, girl in green!!!

i’ve seen the first guy in other videos, and he has an amazing vibe! his style is also so good. i really hope he’s ok now, he seems like such a gentle soul.

@anitaraggini7695

Жыл бұрын

totally

@thatssomavin

Жыл бұрын

❤️ much love! I’m doing way better these days. It took some time and the journey was rough but hey, I find myself worth it to fight for and I hope folks give themselves grace and fight for the right to love themselves too. AND APPRECIATE YOU NOTICING MY STYLE 🫡🫡🫡

@sakuraseranipoji

Жыл бұрын

@@thatssomavin glad your doing ok king ❤️

i like that they brought guys, eating disorders are so often classified as girls disorders and its comforting to see im not the only guy suffering like this

JESSE!! This guy seems so attentive, caring, intelligent... genuinely interested in what everyone was saying.

i HATE that the girl with glasses was guessing based off her own experience. she is not very open minded at all & only cares abt her type of ed.

I missed rayne, she’s so amazing every time she’s on

Suggestion: The most common eating disorders by far are binge and overeating disorders. It would be nice to see more representation of that. Society mainly focuses on anorexia and bulimia but sooooooo many people struggle with gaining weight due to food addiction or addiction to eating more than they need. Eating disorders aren't just about body image but also how you view food and if you overeat or undereat, and it can be hard to admit to onesself that they are overeating because it is so normalized. It is possible that multiple people in this video have overeating disorder but don't realize it due to how common it is.

@Luuuulili78

Жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment because i cant belive so many people dont know that OVER EATING is an eating disorder! Its great that people can be confortable with their own bodies but its not CARING FOR UR OWN HEALTH, its UR body u should take care of yourself and, not feed it junk in a daily basis at leastt 😆(drinking coke for example)

@lou007ish

Жыл бұрын

This!

@Bookib

Жыл бұрын

Omg thank you for saying this!!!

@AndSoWeLaughed

Жыл бұрын

There was only 1 double of the same type of eating disorder - anorexia and that was including the guesser. I think it was important to them to show as many kinds as they could in this video. Binge eating and over eating we’re mentioned. So who is this suggestion for?

@KristinNirvana

Жыл бұрын

@@AndSoWeLaughed They really weren't though. None of them openly admitted to currently having binge eating or over eating disorder. Representation is important. This suggestion is for Cut to be able to learn and grow, the hundreds of people who liked my comment, the majority of people with eating disorders, me since I have overeating and binge eating disorder due to being naturally skinny and society equating skinny with unhealthy, and the millions of other naturally skinny people who also have these disorders due to people acting like our naturally skinny bodies are bad and inherently unhealthy and we have to shove 50 cheeseburgers down our throats to get bigger.

watching this video, the woman that has the two kids mentioned that she struggled with an eating disorder and still struggles with comments such as being called "healthy". then proceeds to tell someone that could potentially have an eating disorder that they look healthy. or even when she told the man that he had a bigger presence. as a person that struggles with an eatings disorder this really aggravated me.

Was not expecting this one lol

@ih4rtkls

Жыл бұрын

My face when I saw it lmaoo had to double check

@MusaNkone

Жыл бұрын

I screamed at the notification😭

@HappyGirl-ko3tg

Жыл бұрын

same I read the title and was like alright these are getting out of hand 😭😂

@isabelm.6884

Жыл бұрын

@@HappyGirl-ko3tg my first thought

@exocital

Жыл бұрын

right

crazy ass video idea wtf 💀

Everyone who came on this episode is extremely brave💜 I’m sure their vulnerability and openness will help many!!

Wondering why we made this video? Read this note from our director: Unfortunately, society stigmatizes eating disorders. They are deemed shameful and we don’t talk about them widely, making it harder for people who suffer from eating disorders to get the help they need and harder for people to avoid getting one. We believe everyone has a role to play when it comes to destigmatization around mental health challenges, and challenges with food, eating, and body image. As this video shows, it is a fallacy that eating disorders present in one particular way. Many people do suffer without outwardly appearing as so. Creating safe spaces to have honest and open conversations, educating ourselves and others, and showing compassion and empathy for others, are just some things we can all do to help. We hope by making this video, we are encouraging people to have more productive and healing conversations around a topic that is affecting nearly 30 million people in America directly.

@mcre314

Жыл бұрын

guessing who has an eating disorder doesn’t help break the stigma surrounding them at all

@poejavelski148

Жыл бұрын

Aren’t 40% of Americans obese? That would mean EDs are affecting way more than 30M.

@soc4709

Жыл бұрын

​@@gwen3692 don't watch it then

@sushifox2058

Жыл бұрын

@@gwen3692 sorry but watch it then?

@popp1040

Жыл бұрын

This is wilddd

So happy to see representation of ARFID here !! I have ARFID too and it’s often not very known about in the ED community, so definitely wasn’t expecting it but pleasantly surprised to see it shown in this video

@manals1

Жыл бұрын

Me too ♥️♥️

@fishythefish7984

Жыл бұрын

fr!

@deeznuts2724

Жыл бұрын

I have ARFID too!! I was in the hospital not long a go getting treatment

When the first girl says “you’re a bigger dude” like WHYYY would you say that? I’d never say that to someone…

‘healthy’ is such a trigger for me too, and because of that i would NEVER call someone else healthy- what was that woman thinking?

the way nicole purposefully said the word healthy after saying it’s triggering?? and what she said to the first guy. effed up. she’s getting slammed in the comments… if she gets triggered by the criticism, she didn’t think about triggering others so digaf? no

As someone who has struggled with anorexia in the past, a lot of people dont understand that it's a MENTAL illness that can (but not always) be seen visibly. Only like 6% of eating disorder sufferers are visibly underweight, and anorexia is not the only (nor the most common) eating disorder. All are serious, all cause mental/emotional distress, and all are deserving of treatment. Even though I did fall into that 6%, I was unfortunately never able to get treatment beyond seeing my primary care physician and a few therapy sessions because of how inaccessible treatment is, but thankfully i sorta outgrew that stage of my life and the eating issues resolved as well since i was no longer in the environment that was making them thrive, but this isnt the case for other people. Eating disorders have the 2nd highest mortality rate of any mental illness, with someone dying every 52 or 62 (i forget which) minutes. Increasing peoples access to treatment is something that needs to be seriously addressed, especially with eating disorders becoming more and more prevalent. Thank you Cut for raising awareness.

The fat girl to fat girl “is that from torrid?” exchange is so relatable.

I'm worried about the anorexia girl's two kids. Her brother had anorexia too? What was subliminally handed down to them? And will it unintentionally be handed down again?

@alfie6441

Жыл бұрын

It likely will. She doesn’t seem to really have a handle on it herself so she likely will pass it down to her kids.

@danivieiraribeiro715

Жыл бұрын

None of us can know based on a 14 minute video what their family dynamic looks like or the specific conditions and factors that have led to them developing eating disorders. We are all capable of recovery and change and the steps their family members are taking towards recovery is very personal. A lot of people with eating disorders are understandably concerned about 'passing down' their conditions, but an important part of breaking these cycles is releasing shame about who we are. You can have an eating disorder and be an amazing parent. The fact that she's in this video talking so openly about her experience is already huge.

@yaeli_i_guess

Жыл бұрын

I mean all mental disorders have a genetic basis so it will statistically can be handed down, but the same is true to depression, bipolar, etc. Everything really.

@simonisenberg4516

Жыл бұрын

She's working through it and is aware. I bet it will be a topic and I have high hopes that they can break the cycle or at least start to deal with it at an early age.

@oliveranderson7264

Жыл бұрын

Can we please not make fatalist speculations on whether her children will or will not develop ed's ? We don't know anything about her life.

I just love love loveeeeeee how endearing Rayne is. Always been the sweetest!

“When somebody calls me healthy ir is a huge trigger” “You look healthy”

Rain is such a wonderful soul and so funny. You can tell how everyone just loves talking with her ❤

I love love love Rain! Idk her personally but she jus carries herself in such a way that ppl wanna meet her!!

As someone whose never had an eating disorder, I cannot imagine how difficult it is to overcome since food is part of our every day life and we need it to survive. I commend all of you who have worked through your EDs and sending love to those still struggling! Hoping you can all come to realize our bodies are just a vessel ... what's really important is what's on the inside!! ❤❤

@erinthevegan9629

9 ай бұрын

I love this comment so much. I have anorexia and it's so refreshing to have someone who hasn't had an ED understand what it's like. It's literally one of the hardest thing to go through. The hardest part about overcoming your ED is that unlike people who are addicted to alcohol or drugs, we cannot give up our drug, but need to learn how to live with it. We cannot survive without food but we tell ourselves that we are worthless and don't deserve it; EDs are our coping mechanism. They are a slow death and so hard to get out of when your perception of yourself and your body is so disordered. Eating disorders are also so normalized in society so you never feel like you're worthy of recovering. I wish everyone struggling the best in their recovery journeys ❤❤

anyone else noticed that people with anorexia often quote the whole “not everyone with an ED is underweight… BUT I AM/WAS”? also identifying as ‘anorexic’ as if it’s a part of their personality?

@maradoesnotexist

Жыл бұрын

anorexia literally takes over your entire life, unless you manage to recover it becomes pretty much your only personality trait. also why would it be weird to ‘identify’ as anorexic if that is what you are, like would you also be upset if a person with depression calls themselves depressed?

@ae9999

Жыл бұрын

Yeah because anorexia distorts your brain and makes you proud to be unhealthy and underweight. They often see it as a competition to be as thin and unhealthy as possible. This is why the concept of this video- look at someone and guess whether they have an ED- is so bad. For an anorexic, being told they ‘look’ like they have an ED validates their illness and is triggering. Being told they dont ‘look’ like they have an ED is also triggering because they feel like they are ‘failing’ somehow. Obviously these are generalisations, but those are very common anorexic thought patterns.

The way Jesse stares in to everyone’s eyes, it’s like he’s piercing in to their souls…I would struggle to stand in front of him and answer his questions 😂

the lady in the firework dress is a joy, I feel like everyone needs someone like her in their life

that girl judge w the glasses is the reason i generally don’t like ppl w eating disorders bc they project their own self hatred onto others and are rude af. just bc ur mentally doesn’t mean u get a free pass for being an awful person, it makes zero difference to me

@justsara1238

Жыл бұрын

Fr, literally she was the only one being rude abt ppls weight and appearances, Rain (rayne idk how to spell her name :( ) was also poking fun, but it didnt have to do with their weight or anytbing like that

@lomlcamila4127

Жыл бұрын

People with eating disorders are an extremely large and diverse group, would you say this about literally any other community of people?

@Veste7182

Жыл бұрын

Yeah maybe Ed twt is that way, but irl, most people in recovery you'll meet arent like this. I've met some of the sweetest people in ED treatment. I'd never, ever judge someone else the way I judge myself 🙃

@lomlcamila4127

Жыл бұрын

@@Veste7182 exactly, I’m not even in recovery but my ED has given me such a good perspective on body issues and has made me extremely mindful of people’s body image

@christinemcinerny3744

4 ай бұрын

@@lomlcamila4127👏👏👏👏👏

Eating disorders are so stigmatized and I feel like a lot of assumptions are made when it comes to EDs. Not everyone that has an ED is chubby and hates themselves-- and that's coming from someone who is chubby and had an ED. I feel like people assume that skinny people don't have EDs (unless they became skinny through the ED); however, there's a massive difference between having an ED as a skinny person and having an ED as a chubbier person. Also, not every ED makes you skinny. I'm trying to get my psych degree right now and we honestly don't cover EDs enough-- they're so complex and there's no one way to have an eating disorder. I hope everyone in this video either loves themselves, or reaches a place in which they do--- or, at least have body neutrality. Everyone deserves to live comfortably in their body without the stress and judgement society gives, we wouldn't have to struggle with this.

@basmentchild4879

Жыл бұрын

I've been skinny all my life due to my fast metabolism and I've had couple of people including my mother think that I have an ed and assume that I think I'm fat and starving myself just because I'm naturally skinny, so honestly most body types get some kind of criticism.

@cece1117

Жыл бұрын

​@basmentchild literally same its so annoying. And no matter what you say they don't listen to you.

@CandesamoTheGreat

Жыл бұрын

Huh, that's interesting. In my personal experience I've seen more people assume skinny= more likely to have an eating disorder. Fat= just lazy, lacks self discipline, "nO eXcUsEs", etc. Usually when a larger person has an eating disorder others are in disbelief because they solely associate EDs with anorexia and being extremely thin. Which is of course, incorrect and ignorant. Not disagreeing at all with your comment, it's just interesting to me.

@cottagegremmy

Жыл бұрын

@@basmentchild4879 I said that in my comment :) Every type of body is critiqued and shat on. So I agree.

@basmentchild4879

Жыл бұрын

@@cottagegremmy i know that, i was just adding on sorry if my comment had a different tone to it.

The guy with the Be Kind shirt not being queer was the most surprising part of this video… can’t judge a book by its cover.

who thought this would be a good idea

@peach8700

Ай бұрын

was wondering the same thing, this vid was a horrible idea on literally every level

@LisaRowe-u6s

17 күн бұрын

The people who have eating disorders that agreed to participate.

I love Rain more every time I see (her? Not sure what the correct pronouns are). She seems like an amazing human being. Thank you for sharing about your ED as well, Rain. This video means so much to me

@bun-e9361

Жыл бұрын

why the "her?"

@lindok

Жыл бұрын

​@@bun-e9361 I think they aren't sure of the appropriate pronouns to use

@tywinderbaum5283

Жыл бұрын

@@lindok yeah, exactly. Sorry, forgot to clarify. There. Thanks ♡

@wheatstonebridge

Жыл бұрын

There are no pronouns but she and he

@leuihy

Жыл бұрын

@@wheatstonebridgewhat about they? it? me? my? i?

Lmao imagine the fit if someone told the anorexic girl “she has a presence”💀💀💀lmao she also says “you look VERY HEALTHY” BEFORE AND AFTER talking about not liking that.

I feel bad for Nicole's kids. Everyone, heal yourself before you bring new life into this world. Do not pass on your traumas to your children. As someone who grew up with an almond mom let me tell you, your ED behaviours, comments, and tendecies SHOW and they are PASSED ON to your kids. I hope she continues to heal.

as someone struggling in recovery right now, can we please do more videos like these. i love hearing people’s story’s.

This was easily my favorite Lineup episode. Really related to everyone's story in even the smallest way and I just know this made so many people feel less alone in their own experiences. Thanks for this one, Cut

I love the group hug at the end. I would of definitely needed it if I was there 🥺❤️ I love how Rayne asked for hugs. Even though I have been recovered from my ED for 4 years now, I know how triggering the word “healthy” can be because that was also in my beginning stages of my recovery or even using words like “big/bigger”, “ch*bby.” I still struggle with that but I know my body image doesn’t define me. I know Nichole is struggling, and sometimes when individuals (some) who struggle with anorexia tend to compare bodies with each other or want to make themselves feel better of how they look by judging how others look. That is uncalled for and unnecessary that she said “bigger energy” while she could have said “bright energy” which could of been better/nicer.

That teeth comment was so unnecessary

Nicole having an eating disorder and then immediately shitting on everyone she saw is insane

I know this is off topic to the entirety of the video but the way the male guesser described perfectionism (if i make everything in my life perfect I will be worthy of love) hit me like a truck

Love seeing Rayne again! I feel like she always comes into these videos and just wants to love and learn about the people in the lineup

Totally wasn’t expecting this video this morning! This is a video I’ve been hoping for! I’ve been in outpatient care for my ED for 7 months now and this video is doing good work to weaken the stigma even within me to talk about it. Thank you for Cut! And thank you to the amazing people in the video!

that girl with glasses made me so angry, she said she would be empathetic then told the guy he had a "big presence" and also told the other he looked super healthy EVEN THOUGH SHE HATES BEING CALLED HEALTHY WTFGIRL??

That group hug was so sweet 🥹🤍

Rain is so nice, funny and intelligent, I love her !

Nicole is such a horrifying person to bring on a show like this. Having an eating disorder does not equal being a trustworthy person to do a judgement task like this, especially when it involves other vulnerable people. I hope someone is checking on her kids. I'm worried for them.

I like how everyone hates the girl in the overalls. Get her out of here.😒

Great episode! I’m very thin but I struggle with OCD and ADHD and it causes me to hyperfixate on certain meals and eat nothing but that type of food and become a picky eater and I found out that although I’m thin on the outside, I have dangerously high levels of cholesterol and sodium so just because you see a thinner built person doesn’t make them healthy. I’m vegetarian so I relied too much on cheese and eggs for protein and avoided a ton of healthy foods that I didn’t like the color or taste/ texture of. Got diagnosed with ARFID. Just because you see a heavier built person doesn’t make them unhealthy and that was super eye opening. Take care of yourselves everyone and don’t worry so much about others!

What is wrong with Nicole? Not only she used "bigger presence" as a way to this someone, she also used "healthy", a word that according to her was a trigger word. She definitely is not recovered enough, she is so competitive about something that ruins lives. She should know better.

i really wanna hug rain too she seems like the nicest angel and looks like she gives amazing hugs :(

i love the black womans energy shes so kind for giving people hugs and her guessing is good too

Eating disorders suck but we’ll get through

@itz_lilaa

Жыл бұрын

wishing u nothing but the best ❤️‍🩹

@belladona5109

11 ай бұрын

It has been 8 fucking years for me . When the fuck will it end?

The tape coment about the first guy is so heartbreaking

Can't say I've ever had a cut video bring out happy tears before, but this did. That is a really wonderful group of people there.

the past anorexia girl.. man she say so insensitive things. as someone suffering from a restricive ed i would NEVER. the self projection is crazy man

Everybody in this video was so open to discussion and questions, and all very respectful, great video and great message cut

We need more Rayne!! I’ve missed her on Cut. Great to see Jessie too.

I REALLY appreciate you including someone with ARFID. There is such a huge stigma around that one. There is stigma around every eating disorder, but it's a little different with that one IMO. I literally have a family member who had experience with anorexia, their mom totally gets it, but thinks I just wanna be special. Like yeah, sure, I love being the weirdo who has to eat nuggets at a wedding. She explained it so well too, when I eat something I don't like, it's like my whole throat just closes up, it's impossible to swallow food at that point. Thank you so much for this episode!

When she told him he looked healthy whilst knowing damn well this is a massive trigger even for her? So fucking inconsiderate. Honestly this episode shouldnt have even been made

The Girl with the glasses was just not it. She was talking without thinking which could be because she was uncomfortable, but she could’ve at least apologized to the first guy for her comment

Rain(e) is honestly the best out of every judge y'all had. very polite, well spoken, n' just so sweet person.

Jesse is just the alltime best returning guest of Cut altogether imo. Such a solid dude

I love the second girl's vibe soo much. And her dress has pockets!!

the last guy made me so happy. i’m going to be sent back to an ed inpatient residence and seeing how transparent and honest the last guy is makes me feel stronger. being open about having an ed as someone identifying as male is so stressful, but hearing how open he is, i just feel so much more confident and motivated moving forward 🖤