Growing Pains: Carol Grieving over Sandy

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Growing Pains Season 5 Episode 5 "Teach Me"

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  • @runforit420
    @runforit4208 ай бұрын

    The world lost another fantastic actor yesterday. R.I.P. Matthew Perry 😢

  • @timobrien8809

    @timobrien8809

    8 ай бұрын

    Still hard to believe he is gone.

  • @kenyattasimpson8468

    @kenyattasimpson8468

    6 ай бұрын

    I saw this episode last week and it's just....😢

  • @deannaroberson1451

    @deannaroberson1451

    3 ай бұрын

    @@kenyattasimpson8468 The episode that Sandy died entitled “Second Chance” would be hard for me to watch knowing that Matthew Perry is gone for real. I would be bawling my eyes out.

  • @ZipGB8
    @ZipGB84 жыл бұрын

    Tracey Gold was excellent when acting out emotional scenes on this show. Spot on with the emotions.

  • @officialgilmore22

    @officialgilmore22

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! I can't think of too many better actors in these kinds of hard scenes.

  • @jalenbrewster6777

    @jalenbrewster6777

    2 жыл бұрын

    She did a pretty good job for acting

  • @heatheringram6287

    @heatheringram6287

    Жыл бұрын

    She really was

  • @derekllewellyn6663

    @derekllewellyn6663

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@jalenbrewster6777years she was in TV show on doing live concert in person picture awards TCM hollywood movies on Amazon prime video on Netflix about biography book of the same

  • @isaiahangelo
    @isaiahangelo4 жыл бұрын

    This is what made Jason Seaver an ideal father. He validated the emotions of his children and let them go through whatever emotional stuff they needed to go through to get to the solution to their problem and if there wasn’t one he made himself available for comfort

  • @Aqweius
    @Aqweius Жыл бұрын

    The range of emotion Tracey displays on her face (non verbal cues) throughout this scene is acting "gold" in itself! Brava fine lady!

  • @i.am.king89

    @i.am.king89

    2 ай бұрын

    Very fitting

  • @Blackbohnstergaming
    @Blackbohnstergaming3 жыл бұрын

    Thats the thing with grieving... it never gets easier. You just learn how to live with your grief and live a normal life again.

  • @1992balto

    @1992balto

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ya......I know It hurts very much

  • @ebonyrushharrington2197

    @ebonyrushharrington2197

    Жыл бұрын

    Tracy Gold an talented actress, whom said that she was fat or what not are so wrong!!!!!, should apologize whom did , am glad nothing had happened to her/ she is not even big, look (s) good, has an average nice shape for her size

  • @Animals_Gone_wild

    @Animals_Gone_wild

    8 ай бұрын

    Yep been in hell nearly a year now. After finding my best freind of ,43 years decomposing body

  • @Animals_Gone_wild

    @Animals_Gone_wild

    7 ай бұрын

    @GHOSTPRO4 at this point I'm Leary of even thinking what else could happen. Since that day a year ago this Dec 2 my life has turned into one bad luck after another. Basically every thing I've accomplished or done with my life over the last 16 years has been lost stolen or taken

  • @meganbateman5634

    @meganbateman5634

    Ай бұрын

    I lost my mom to cancer 4 years ago and I hated her for it. Not day goes by that I never miss my amazing mom. The pain never goes away but you can't let it stop you, you had to find a way to pick up the pieces and keep going.

  • @robertborich4404
    @robertborich44044 жыл бұрын

    Like Michael J Fox,Tracey delivered exceptional acting abilities.

  • @goddessnoele
    @goddessnoele Жыл бұрын

    Alan Thicke was one of the best TV dads. RIP❤

  • @sharonjensen3016

    @sharonjensen3016

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm sure he'll be there to look after Matthew Perry, wherever they are now.

  • @meganbateman5634

    @meganbateman5634

    8 ай бұрын

    I agree Jason Seaver was indeed next to Phillip Banks, Carl Winslow, Danny Tanner, James Evans, Dan Connor, Mike Brady, John Walton Sr, Charles Ingles, Alan Matthews, George Lopez, Cliff Huxuble, Michael Kyle, Red Foreman, Al Bundy, and Tim Taylor. We need those dads back on TV right now.

  • @taraponiewozik7066

    @taraponiewozik7066

    6 күн бұрын

    @@meganbateman5634Tim Taylor should be on that list as well. John Walton is my favorite though.

  • @user-le4pp9qb5h
    @user-le4pp9qb5h7 ай бұрын

    This hits pretty hard...I lost a really close friend right around Christmas time years ago to a horrible car accident and I remember spending that holiday with my family and I couldn't even think straight I was so overcome by grief...will never forget the way my family was there for me and just let me grieve in my personal way while making it known they were there if I needed them..

  • @ManMonkey600
    @ManMonkey6003 жыл бұрын

    I never even realized they had some continuity in regards to Sandy dying. A lot of these sitcoms they throw some shit out there like this and then it's never mentioned again.

  • @rikadojean-jacques3928

    @rikadojean-jacques3928

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's just like Cher can't get over Adam's death

  • @lilPopper
    @lilPopper8 ай бұрын

    Hits different after learning of Matthew Perry 😢 R.I.P.

  • @mztweety1374

    @mztweety1374

    8 ай бұрын

    I thought about this too. RIP MP

  • @NicoleHMorley7269
    @NicoleHMorley72696 ай бұрын

    The line that always makes me emotional is when Carol finds out Sandy died and she says "WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS SECOND CHANCE" 😭🤧

  • @ericbrett3095
    @ericbrett30954 жыл бұрын

    My first wife passed away almost 15 years ago. We were married for almost 16 years. I can tell you it doesn't get easier, there are good days, bad days, and there are days I feel just like it happened yesterday. At the time our children were 15, 13, and 10 and I know they feel the same pain as I do. What kept me going was them, I lived by the motto "failure is not an option" for years. Even today I still feel grief so I know what the character Carol is going through.

  • @seppukumouse8005

    @seppukumouse8005

    4 жыл бұрын

    It never gets easier, it's learning to cope with it. Mother day is sad day for me. I lost my mother to cancer. Everyone at speak their about mom and the thing they do. I just stand there thinking I can't do anything anything anymore with my mom. Time heal all wounds but some scars dig deep to our very souls. Rest In Peace to your wife, gone but never forgotten.

  • @1990sDialUpWeb

    @1990sDialUpWeb

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry

  • @susancnw59

    @susancnw59

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry. We lost our second son 28 months ago and his wife (they were married 8 months) just started dating again & it feels like we have lost him again. He told me after they had been friends/co-workers for a month & he told me he was going to marry her...I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @saraoliver4545

    @saraoliver4545

    4 жыл бұрын

    K ok 👍

  • @bigwillietheb

    @bigwillietheb

    4 жыл бұрын

    my friend I wish I could say I know what your going through but I can't , cause I have never been married , but all I can say is I am sorry for your loss

  • @ddjmfan
    @ddjmfan4 жыл бұрын

    I love this scene between Joanna, Alan and Tracey. The parent/child chemistry between them was palpable. Very real and believeable.

  • @briandecarlo1847
    @briandecarlo1847Ай бұрын

    My brother passed away. He was 42. It's been 10 years, and no, it doesn't get any easier. Every single day, he is always on my mind. Different shows he would have loved, watching his 2 daughters grow up, he would have been so happy. I know he is. Everyone still misses him. I find myself crying sometimes. To me, it felt like I dreamt I had a brother. It just doesn't seem real. It's only been 10 years but it feels like forever. But the pain never goes away. There will always be someone missing. It never gets any easier.

  • @erinjohnson4273
    @erinjohnson42732 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to Carol feeling like that. October 4th is always hard for me , because the man who was my best friend and really truly loved me passed away. I've healed, but I think of him and I'm still waiting for that love I found with him. RIP Ronald Pierre Wright. Always in my 💜

  • @zinozee8929

    @zinozee8929

    Жыл бұрын

    How nice to come in to a world, go out away from home and family and meet somebody and have such an impact that they cherish your name even after you’re gone with no blood ties loyalty just pure love ❤️ rip Ronald Pierre Wright

  • @erickbuckner4485

    @erickbuckner4485

    10 ай бұрын

    @@zinozee8929 He was a good man

  • @leastlikedcritic7529
    @leastlikedcritic7529 Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad they brought this up in this episode, and Carol finally found some closure.

  • @jessicap3263
    @jessicap32638 ай бұрын

    RIP Matthew Perry. 😢

  • @paulmendrina1449
    @paulmendrina14498 ай бұрын

    Watched this last week then he really died today...crazy

  • @byronbenguche
    @byronbenguche2 жыл бұрын

    Tracy Gold should have gotten a Emmy for this performance

  • @thomasnee270

    @thomasnee270

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely. Even though Tracey Gold's character reminded me of all of the snobby girls that I went to school with at the time, her acting in this scene is incredible. She displayed such a raw and powerful emotion here especially for a person of her age during this episode.

  • @erickbuckner4485

    @erickbuckner4485

    10 ай бұрын

    @@thomasnee270 You’re so right

  • @jamesm6862
    @jamesm6862 Жыл бұрын

    Growing Pains is the greatest sitcom and greatest show ever! It's funny and serious the acting is great the pacing is great with high energy it has fun storylines and it has a fourth wall episode called Meet the Seavers that's very creative and brilliant my favorite part in the episode is when the set guy carries Ben over his shoulder haha. It's serious the greatest show!

  • @rodneysexton1034
    @rodneysexton10344 жыл бұрын

    This was so sad for Carol missing Sandy.

  • @Toyotaboy497

    @Toyotaboy497

    4 жыл бұрын

    RODNEY SEXTON Sandy’s dead.

  • @thomasnee270

    @thomasnee270

    Жыл бұрын

    It surely was. This is why I believe that teenage/young love is the most purest, honest, and innocent form of connection. Everything is natural because most teenagers haven't been hardened yet by life's cruel experiences. At least that was the case for me.

  • @emmasumlin6487
    @emmasumlin64872 жыл бұрын

    What a spot on actress. She is simply heartbreaking

  • @SuperMarioBrosIII

    @SuperMarioBrosIII

    2 жыл бұрын

    Emma Sumlin so true Emma and by the way you resemble Ashley Johnson?🤔🤗📺👍

  • @moviescenesbinge5142

    @moviescenesbinge5142

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you I have never gotten that before but thank you. 😁

  • @moviescenesbinge5142

    @moviescenesbinge5142

    2 жыл бұрын

    (This is my other account haha) sorry confusing

  • @SuperMarioBrosIII

    @SuperMarioBrosIII

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@moviescenesbinge5142 You are very welcome, Take care!👼🕊💗🙏

  • @TKPRKIE

    @TKPRKIE

    9 ай бұрын

    no.. she overacts so much, it’s not believable at all. i don’t understand how y’all genuinely think it’s good acting..

  • @COWGIRLBABY19841
    @COWGIRLBABY198419 ай бұрын

    The thing about grief is that it doesn't get easier but day-by-day you find you do move on but you're never the same.

  • @emmanuelmontperous3537
    @emmanuelmontperous35373 жыл бұрын

    They don't write this good anymore 😪🙌🏽❤

  • @martykeaton182

    @martykeaton182

    2 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean?

  • @emmanuelmontperous3537

    @emmanuelmontperous3537

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@martykeaton182 name a recent sitcom that tackled a real issue like this with this tone..most television today is just bad with a handful of good shows to watch..

  • @martykeaton182

    @martykeaton182

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emmanuelmontperous3537 It’s been a while for me watching those kinds of shows except old ones. Plus out of curiosity, any chance of naming at least one bad show?

  • @emmanuelmontperous3537

    @emmanuelmontperous3537

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@martykeaton182 watchmen for starters,Dr who WAS good till the 13th doctor got there Batwoman is terrible and is being forced to be renewed it has less than half a million tuning in,Dear white people is another but that's getting canceled

  • @martykeaton182

    @martykeaton182

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emmanuelmontperous3537 Nobody needs to watch Batwoman if they don’t want though.

  • @DarleneYoung-yr5rp
    @DarleneYoung-yr5rp8 ай бұрын

    Older you get, it's harder to date in fear of losing, I am with you, Carol it's been 3 years!

  • @jamesmuntener8693
    @jamesmuntener86933 жыл бұрын

    I think Carol should have gotten involved in something that speaks out against drinking and driving.

  • @jamesmuntener8693
    @jamesmuntener86933 жыл бұрын

    I felt this same way when my friend Wendy who was my caregiver and travel companion who died from stage4 lung cancer.

  • @ShadowCammando24
    @ShadowCammando24Ай бұрын

    This is what great parenting looks like. ❤

  • @torquoisegeorges9439
    @torquoisegeorges94392 жыл бұрын

    Poor carol 😢

  • @jalenbrewster6777

    @jalenbrewster6777

    2 жыл бұрын

    True but she did amazing job for acting

  • @faithfoxx7951
    @faithfoxx79512 жыл бұрын

    Good show. 👍

  • @JF32304
    @JF323044 жыл бұрын

    Joanna is so wife/mom material its insane!

  • @ddjmfan

    @ddjmfan

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's a natural.

  • @ddjmfan

    @ddjmfan

    Жыл бұрын

    That's why she was chosen to play this role.

  • @jamesmuntener8693
    @jamesmuntener86933 жыл бұрын

    I feel this same way after my friend Wendy died of cancer.

  • @aph1976
    @aph19767 ай бұрын

    I liked that Growing Pains had Sandy die in one episode but had Carol continue to grieve for him in following episodes and didn't just forget about it.

  • @brandon074
    @brandon0748 ай бұрын

    Good advice in this episode for anyone who lost someone close.

  • @MyJustin316
    @MyJustin3163 жыл бұрын

    when i saw this on the disney channel as a rerun as a kid i felt sorry for carol no wonder why she had a crush on the man that was too old for her

  • @Lou-jl4ov
    @Lou-jl4ov18 күн бұрын

    these sitcomes are a laugh a minute!

  • @shannonstephens2425
    @shannonstephens24252 жыл бұрын

    I lost an ex to a car accident last year I understand this

  • @billslattery5415
    @billslattery54153 жыл бұрын

    drinking and driving there isn't any second chances

  • @Kobraki1
    @Kobraki12 жыл бұрын

    Sandy: could I be any more dead

  • @danielsteele4712
    @danielsteele47124 жыл бұрын

    You really cared about Sandy a lot, didn't you, Carol?

  • @Ally-lo2go

    @Ally-lo2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Sylvia isgod wait how do you know that

  • @Ally-lo2go

    @Ally-lo2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sylvia isgod i-

  • @rikadojean-jacques3928

    @rikadojean-jacques3928

    3 жыл бұрын

    I mean she know that she has to get on with her life but I don't know since Sandy died it just seems wrong to go with someone else

  • @ninademci1500
    @ninademci15007 ай бұрын

    The first time I saw the episodes about ‘Sandy’s’ dying, I was in my late teens and cried because he was around my age. Watching it as a Mom, I cried because it’s a loss no parent wants.

  • @abinashmishra329
    @abinashmishra3298 ай бұрын

    This scene is especially poignant right now because of Matt Perry’s untimely passing.

  • @IRONMANFAN2008
    @IRONMANFAN20082 жыл бұрын

    I was just going through that what see was going through. My mom ex died and we did a piece of crying but im better. It gets better over time.

  • @darcybrummett7004
    @darcybrummett70042 жыл бұрын

    You’re gonna make me cry again.

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent scene, and good acting. I wish though they went with the alternative sincerity was that Carol wasn't afraid to risk being happy with someone else, but actually decided that she didn't want to be with anyone else. Nothing wrong with remaining single.

  • @littleogeechee223

    @littleogeechee223

    7 ай бұрын

    She was so very young. You can’t make such huge and important decisions that young. I’m sure Sandy wouldn’t have wanted to know that she was down here grieving her life away over him, never having another love, never experiencing having a family of her own. That’s unrealistic and cruel to wish on her.

  • @Trip_Fontaine
    @Trip_Fontaine11 ай бұрын

    I know this is a weird video to say this on, but I had such a huge crush on Carol when I was a kid.

  • @rockstarslasher5140
    @rockstarslasher51404 ай бұрын

    Rest in Peace Matthew Perry!

  • @YouTubeGalPal
    @YouTubeGalPal8 ай бұрын

    This showing up on my algorithm hours after Matthew Perry's death hits me 😢

  • @gretchennelson7056
    @gretchennelson70566 ай бұрын

    Paul had to go through that hell twice..first with John, then with Linda.

  • @jeffreycone7504
    @jeffreycone750410 ай бұрын

    This is why Glen Close became obsessed with Michael Douglas in Fatal Attraction.

  • @montecarlo4294
    @montecarlo42948 ай бұрын

    Who is here after the death of Mathew Perry? 😢

  • @gretchennelson7056

    @gretchennelson7056

    6 ай бұрын

    Not me🙄

  • @Scorch1028
    @Scorch1028 Жыл бұрын

    Jason Seaver is a psychiatrist, so he knows exactly what's wrong with Carol. 😆

  • @shawnteeisme
    @shawnteeisme Жыл бұрын

    OMG Robin sounds just like his dad!

  • @torquoisegeorges9439
    @torquoisegeorges94392 жыл бұрын

    😢😭🥺

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv2 жыл бұрын

    Carol was a neurotic mess before and after Sandy died.

  • @evaflor817
    @evaflor8175 ай бұрын

    And why I'm crying again? 😖

  • @tonycherry5270
    @tonycherry52706 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 When does it get easier I’m not happy I’ve been mad at myself because of what been happening When does that easier? Day by day eventually I’ll be happy To me it work that way I’ll never be happy without true love

  • @navidpey194
    @navidpey1948 ай бұрын

    Rip Mathew Perry

  • @natalieschannel7675
    @natalieschannel76757 ай бұрын

    Could Carol BE in anymore denial?

  • @RockFan89
    @RockFan89 Жыл бұрын

    I always thought this scene was written strange. My parents never wouldve questioned why I wasnt dating during my teen years. .

  • @carmesundae2
    @carmesundae25 жыл бұрын

    waht is the Title of this Episode?

  • @IRONMANFAN2008

    @IRONMANFAN2008

    5 жыл бұрын

    Season 5 Episode 5:Teach Me

  • @davros123ify

    @davros123ify

    4 жыл бұрын

    Teach Me

  • @clairespareoomcheepicheep7092
    @clairespareoomcheepicheep70922 жыл бұрын

    Death should not be a part of life to begin with!

  • @richardvergara
    @richardvergara4 жыл бұрын

    Carol is so extra.

  • @richierich3541
    @richierich35418 ай бұрын

    This has aged well.

  • @edwardbright9434
    @edwardbright943411 ай бұрын

    show like ths an more shown compassion love also tough love ch 19 ch 10 ch25 show help make America great because these shows were real to everyone ok

  • @tonycherry5270
    @tonycherry52709 ай бұрын

    I wanted to get married every since I was 11 years old in middle and high and the last school I wanted to be in love They didn’t even care They didn’t even care about my family It took 37 years to be in love and here I am depressed and lonely Being in love is never for me first a lost of family and now it get harder and harder I agree with Carol in a different perspective I was in love I’m grieving about family I’m grieving about being in love why ? Why do we get hurt?

  • @brentoesterle3186
    @brentoesterle31863 жыл бұрын

    Empire freaking out their be their hands

  • @brentoesterle3186
    @brentoesterle31864 жыл бұрын

    They're saying things are aren't bad matter liked inirlicity

  • @purplegirl1010100
    @purplegirl10101003 жыл бұрын

    Poor Candace Cameron.

  • @harlankrissoff9966

    @harlankrissoff9966

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tracy Gold not Candace Cameron

  • @sexykitten0814

    @sexykitten0814

    3 жыл бұрын

    Actually, poor Carol Seaver.

  • @countryexplorerlady916

    @countryexplorerlady916

    3 жыл бұрын

    Candance Cameron wasn't from Growing Pains she was from Full House. This is Tracey Gold being Carol Seaver

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