Why are the grandparents so special, how about we go ahead and let any and all to just be able to hang out with whoever's kids they want regardless of how bad that person is.

@katykrue8717

20 күн бұрын

Exactly. I dont think good people would really need to involve courts in the first place.

That’s what I guess I am a surrogate parent I don’t even know where to start with this

Well I want parenting time I’m in the same sex separation having been the only other coparent of prior to pregnancy during and after and only a short time in between up to now the present what are my rights how can she take our son away from me I’m willing to pay anything to keep him living the same standard at least but why should he have to suffer without even seeing me or talking to me

I was awarded sole custody of my two year old son. His mother got herself in legal trouble (violation of probation, dwi, assault 2nd) and is doing a county year in jail. Her mom the (grandparent) is seeking visitation/custody of my son. However she has shown racist and prejudice behavior as well as explicit language towards myself (the father). The judge was made aware of this at court by both myself and my sons mother. Nonetheless, the judge demanded that I hand my son over for grandparent visitation. I respectfully expressed that I was not in agreement with the decision and the judge threatened to hold me in contempt if I didn’t follow the order and that she would jail me and In doing so my rights would be forfeited and that the grandmother would be granted sole custody. Can someone please explain to me how this is possible and what can I do?

I'm devastated..ive been my 3 yr grandaughters home since my sons gf was pregnant they moved in.. girlfriend left back to cali when she was 1yrs old but she and my son shared custody non court involved.. but during my sons time he dropped her here.. so every other month I was her caretaker 50 percent of her life so every other monrh.month.. I paid for her food clothes toys bedding and cared for her all day all night.. my son would get her from airport and drop her home here and he was living elsewhere with roomates. He would come by a couple hrs once a week for a dinner and sometimes would take her for an outing but I was acting as her parent in fact just potty trained her a couple mos ago because it wasn't happening during her mom's time with her.... so I've been having her every other month for 2 years now. Then my son texted me saying she would not be coming here anymore that he decided to change everything and just visit her in cali once in awhile but that this no longer would be her home.. This was very much my grandaughters first home and her room and 2 if my other sons were having a rich relationship with her as well.. they played and when I eork for 2 hrs in evening her uncle.. my other son... watched her fed her and played with her. Many tines I'd beg her daddy my son to take her a couple hrs or show up for a meal and he'd many times no show no text and even when I was sick he refused to come get her to give me a break.. I asked him to pay for part of her food and many times he'd promise some and then not come through.. hes not a laconic or addict but he very much left her care 100 percent to me aside from the airport pickups. I have even many times paid for the plane tickets! Cali to Arizona is inexpensive most of the time.. but I cannot accept thus its definitely not in grandaughter best interest and at 3 1/2 yrs old it will be damaging for her to be cutoff from her regular time with her family here! I don't have alot of extra money but I'm looking into attorney.. Her mom is bipolar and when they lived with me the room was so bad you couldn't walk with 6 mos old food and moldy cups buried beneath mounds of clothes and she is living in her x step-dad home in the loft area when my grandaughter goes to her every other month.. if they wanted to change up this schedule ok but to just say no more?? Told me I still get updates???! I'm trying to let my son come to his senses maybe give a lil time... but what should I do??

@mymodernlaw

2 жыл бұрын

This is definitely a tricky situation, so sorry to hear that it's happening to you! You should at least be considered in the decisions concerning your granddaughter, perhaps a meeting together to discuss all the intricate details of the situation with your son, the child's mother, yourself, and the others who support her so that all sides can be laid out the table. If you need help in AZ, you can contact us at (480)-571-0346. We also have an upcoming Pro Bono Event, if you're in or around the Mesa area, feel free to join us for a free 30 minute consultation with our firm. You can find more details on that here: mymodernlaw.com/pro-bono-day-7/

@sarasilver9280

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t open that can of worms be patient and see if you can work something out with the parents I was litigated by a controlling grandparent who jumped immediately into a lawsuit. all it does is cost a ton of money stress and everybody ends up hating each other. I won by the way