Controlling
question my son is 13. is stepmom continues to text him on his cell phone and is controlling and also says manipulative things about me and also refers to me as my first name or his Lake mom. and she also refers to the rest of us as his lake people. she continues to bad mouth me to my son in ways that are very controlling and manipulative. I just feel like this is so hard on him. we have talked about the messages before and he's just very uncomfortable and doesn't know how to respond. and then when he does respond he is then told that I am pushing him around and bullying him. and that he needs to stand up and have a backbone with me. I personally have been told by us in multiple times that I have no say and what goes on in their house because I do not live there and at my son lives there full time. he is with me on visitation for summertime. so he is not with me as much as I would like and every time he is with me she blows his cell phone up every single day. I will say that his dad does not do this only the SMS doing this. I have brought this up to his dad multiple times and I am told that she is his mom just as much as I am. and she is doing nothing wrong. am I allowed to to say that he is not allowed to have a cell phone at my house and that if they need to get a hold of him they can call him on my phone? #stepmom #custody #summer #parenting #modernlaw #billietarascio #familylaw #arizonadivorceattorney
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I would print out all the messages and take them to family court.
Wow parental alienation. This is wild! I’m terrified to text or call my step kids when they’re at mom’s house, they’re NOT my kids, I didn’t give birth to them.
Kids do not have a right to have a phone. Parents can absolutely take the phones, or set limits with the phones.
It is weird that the child lives full time with the father. Something else is up here, and indeed, once you are divorced, she has no say about what happens in the other home.
honestly i can see both sides of the story, I'm under the impression that the biological mother isn't telling the whole truth. Is the justification for taking the phone away literally just communicating w\ stepmom? there are much better ways of handling this issue, and taking away a kids phone is taking away much more than just some texts. I can't help but wonder what the "bad mouthing" is, if there's any truth to it, and why the biological mother divorced, because i have definitely seen cases where the step parents are more loving than the biological parents.