Good Guy Gone Bad- Nick Ndeda
Nick Ndeda was a good boy who didn’t get into any trouble. He liked being a nice guy.
They say that good guys finish last and Nick didn’t like the idea of finishing last. That started the inner conflict between staying true to his authentic self and his bad boy media persona.
Bad boy wins. This story features of trail destructive patterns, love, betrayal, heartbreak and a slow but sure process of reclaiming all that he had discarded. You cannot outrun your true self. Or can you?
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When he said being in media you can't be nice but he's nice. I got a chance of working with Nick and he's so so down to earth, very kind humble, helpful oh and he kept mentioning his wife 😊
Here after the separation.
@linetnyaenya6839
3 жыл бұрын
Lol Kenyans make me happy
@bettynthembwa760
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂Savage
@cindyndeda532
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@rosewageni344
2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@misskarun2548
2 жыл бұрын
niatia urauga weee🤭🤭🤭🤭girl saaame
Nice. This answers the questions on my head. -Explains why Muthoni always trash men and sounds negative in her conversations. It's her heartbreak and mistrust spilling on her conversations. -Also explains why Nick went out of his way to make Muthoni happy and allow her express herself the way she wants. That must have been a toxic environment. Poleni sana!🙏
@shiruwangai8022
2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly.
@preciouskadzo8352
Жыл бұрын
Also here to reflect on and understand their past relationship
I relate alot to this it took me a while for me to accept my introvert and quiet nature, it has not only boosted my self esteem it has molded my personality.
This here is a Muthoni Gitau Tribute. Nick Sema ukweli. I relate. I am loved just as Muthoni loves you. I wonder everyday why he stayed! I didn't cheat on him per say but I pushed him away so many times. Him saying me hurt his ego so bad. But he stayed! Honestly I never envisioned myself with him we are so different. Polar opposites. But what is love?! Heh! Two babies in and a lifetime of bliss I swear I woulf die for this guy. He is my heart ♥. My soul. My personal person. God I love him!!!
@loisewanjiku3739
3 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful Gladys. To more years of love and abundance for your family.
@RadBunny2269
3 жыл бұрын
🔥
@josphinemacharia6045
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, to many more years. To be loved this way is a blessing
@BeeGees2012
3 жыл бұрын
@@josphinemacharia6045 🙏
@BeeGees2012
3 жыл бұрын
@@loisewanjiku3739 🙏
Story I can relate to. Staying on again and again, till it was enough! Thank you for being vulnerable and telling your story!!
For some reason, I am so glad I heard this part of your journey from Nick. #JustDoingLife
Thank you! Keep living your life & choosing her every day for rest of it. ♥
Well..Well..Well...It ended in premium tears!!
Nick you are a nice person and muthoni also but personally I don't give second chance to a person who cheat despite how nice you are.That me and my love for myself is 200% unapologetic.All the best in your new phase of life.
Your best outfit is always your authentic personality......amazing story Nick 👍🏼
OMG! This is a love story from a man (loving and accepting you and yours), Nick yani nilikuskiza XFM ulikuwa 22 wau! I'm Muthoni's fan sana these just made me love you guys more! I want ENGAGE ya Muthoni please guys?!
@preciouskadzo8352
Жыл бұрын
Iko wacha nikucopyie link
@preciouskadzo8352
Жыл бұрын
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I am at that point. I've always been nice. Still am. But men just like taking advantage when you're nice. It's made me lose faith completely in love, relationships and marriage because i don't wanna be someone I'm not just to keep or have a guy.
@kingdavidthegreatest6465
3 жыл бұрын
Be nice. Don't change. The Lord will very soon bless you with the one. Be who you are. You'll never regret it. Glory to God
@tabbiegracekenya
3 жыл бұрын
I feel you
Our goals are now different
Dang, MG. I’ve gained mew respect for you here 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.
She stayed to strategize how to leave...to leave when she's completely over you. That is what some women do ...
@ademaray3301
2 жыл бұрын
Tell them 😅😅
Love this true genuine honest we need more of this conversations
I always love Nick from when i knew him,,nice listening to your story
Wow Nick, great presentation!!!! Keep it up. Proud of you!
This is a beautiful real story
Watching after the breakup
I watched “Higher Learning”. Nick was my crush in high school.
Amazing talk, it’s really hard to find nice people in Nairobi, I wish they tell us who they are , I’m
Beautiful story
I needed to hear this thankyou❤
...now it all makes sense
African women and struggle love aiiiii.
@snm2222
3 жыл бұрын
@nduta kenya, yaani I don't gerrit! Why??!!!
@achiengcaroline5920
3 жыл бұрын
@ nduta we have to completely change our mindsets... The African man wants you to fight his battles.. While rides off in the sunset with another woman!
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
3 жыл бұрын
Aki ! Who got inspired by this story ??? "She kept staying" 😳🙄
@snm2222
3 жыл бұрын
@@BlackPanther-lt7wr Hata sielewi!! Why do colourful women allow this kind of treatment? Flip the characters and then ask, "would he have stayed?" I bet you a resounding 'hell hell no!'
@barbiechyqa9192
3 жыл бұрын
@@snm2222 she left!! Didn't know the background and thought he was a great guy but good on her for finally putting herself first!!
Nobody can be you but you, I miss that song.
Separation video got comments blocked so folks have moved their opinions here.
Acknowledging error is not only mature but the step in the right direction.
Great stuff !
#JDL fam where you at?!🙌♥
....."she would have left, but she didnt...." Well now she did, Nick!
@carniarrow
3 жыл бұрын
.....And she will regret it many years to come........he is a gem.
@barbiechyqa9192
3 жыл бұрын
@@carniarrow how did you manage to make his bad behavior, that she's probably endured for 7 years, her fault?
@theafrinado
3 жыл бұрын
@@carniarrow Relationships end, normalise not punishing either person for amicably choosing what is best for them. May they both prosper.
@gracenyaboke8483
3 жыл бұрын
Some things a better left unsaid huh?
@bettynthembwa760
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂Be nice
Always been your fan....❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
punk rocker, noice!! 🙌
5 months later muthoni left hee Earth is Hard purely hard
if it is meant to be then you will be back together love conquers all
I'm a natural good nice person and unapologetic about it, been dumped numerous time for being "Nice Naïve" but I don't care I've always want to keep my real authentic me the sigma INFJ personality type. one thing I'm aware of is there's a slot for me in someone meanwhile I've purposed on my careers and investments
@simonkigo6569
2 жыл бұрын
sigma too buh so much on my staff ,time shall get us to our slots eventually
I never comment but this one here Nike is amazing your truly a an amazing person
@Divambi
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing amazing about a dead beat dad
@9:22 Deep 💯💯
no wonder muthoni is so prickly
This was so awkward....
Soo thrilled to find u Nick here..food for thought for mee from a different aspect ,....the part that killed me "y u soo extra around ppl😅"..my name is Muthoni and am a rocker too (for real. ..haha)
Really? You dated a woman big & strong enough to dangle you from your balcony? This story enthralled me from beginning to end.
@EngageTalk
3 жыл бұрын
Same thing was on our mind :)
@bellaolum9515
2 жыл бұрын
LOL
5 months later....
my idol at Xfm
Heart broken guy. Here after Lynn ngugi.
Why do I feel like he's talking about me I'm super nice😅
So if she left there would be no reason to be nice? I surely hope not. I love Muthoni btw. She is full of good energy.
@Divambi
3 жыл бұрын
Nope! She enables him to deny his child. She even insults an innocent child by calling her ugly who was conceived when she wasnt there. Btw the child is a replica of Nick!! Vile woman!
@christinenjogu
3 жыл бұрын
@@Divambi mmmhh...tell us more please
@naomiee5820
3 жыл бұрын
@@Divambi waaah si unajua yote...
@nita_9471
3 жыл бұрын
So Nick has a child?
@NellyMacharia
3 жыл бұрын
@@Divambi ati!!! Nick has a child???
Former XFM fans piga likes
Watching this again after your very awkward break up video. One, many media personalities need to create another persona, it's like acting. Two, you don't have to be one and three, it is very wrong for a partner to call out their spouses on stage character. It is for this reason it isn't easy being the partner of an actor or jn stage media personality. Having known you from uni and been cheated on too, I can tell you that you are still a great person. Two, cheating won't kill a person. You seem to take on a lot here and in the next video which don't make sense. Walk away from relationships but not yourself. Trying to play saviour, and questing everything will destroy you. I don't understand why you've done this, but I hope you, or anyone else struggling in relationships walks away and knows they are not their mistakes. You can't make up for another insecurities, even if you did contribute to it. P.s: I'm not saying cheating did it but I'm very sad to see how this has played out and how it almost seemed she was trying to take whatever it is out on you in the video. You are still An amazing person!
@Divambi
2 жыл бұрын
He is not an amazing person. Lies that he is childless but had a 7yr old daughter. His whole life is a performance.
Nice voice nick
You're lucky she stayed and you changed. But, more often than not stories like these don't end up well for other couples and should not be encouraged
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@barbiechyqa9192
3 жыл бұрын
Wueh. Predictions
@Hot_PlateVegetarianMeals
3 жыл бұрын
U saw it coming
eeeh, so this didn't age well...#ifyouknow
@wamaithagakere7222
3 жыл бұрын
Yap. That last video was my first of theirs to watch and I was like naah...there's more to this. His body language, her digs and tone... Then I come across this and it makes sense. Karma!
@murieladhiambo
3 жыл бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for 😂
@sarahnyambura1634
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 had to come back here too
@barbiechyqa9192
3 жыл бұрын
@@wamaithagakere7222 hata mimi I was like 😳😳😳 na vile people on sosho media are hating on Muthoni. But that video of theirs made me feel like she was wronged. Ubaya she put herself out to dry with the 'hoe phase' thing peiple are saying she's pressured Nick. I feel so bad for her but she's awesome
@cshixx
3 жыл бұрын
I came quick fast here. This was a serial cheater. In turn it made Muthoni too independent. Signs were there.
I don't know, I found this so bland. the point is to "Inform. Inspire. Influence" I didn't experience any any of that from this story. To me it was meh
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
3 жыл бұрын
Me too 🙄
@wairimu625
3 жыл бұрын
The comment I was exactly looking for...
@wanjikunjenga9061
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe try being your authentic self?
@jenipherachieng9837
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
Here after the birthday party
💔💔💔💔,
This guy is a foo
How can you bring back Xfm?
@cmadegwa
3 жыл бұрын
I'd put my money to have XFM back
@dennismwai4887
3 жыл бұрын
@@cmadegwa 💯
Sorry for getting you punished Nick. 😆
@Mainestify
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Jitokeze
nickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
Noise
Simping on a new high level, do the same for Betty
bruh! 🙄
🤣🤣 people actually believe this shit! Lols... anyways, when you own your own truth, you will be your authentic self.