I never tortured my mother like this. Although she herself has taught me all the basic dining tables but sometimes she prefers to eat with hands especially rice i never ask her to stop. What makes her happy makes me happy too. ❤❤❤

aise bhi log hote hai? 😱 I am surprised . Excellent video. 🙏🙌 I fail to understand why people think "Modernisation" means "Westernisation". 😂 Rather in my opinion, in this case , Modernisation means "Civilised, Hygienic, self loving. "

@Poojaashok_vlogs

Жыл бұрын

Perfect

@Maddy-bl6hy

Жыл бұрын

Exactly… people have this wrong thinking that westernization is modernization ☹️

@noopurpurohit623

Жыл бұрын

Actually you are very correct ...

@tushar4820

8 ай бұрын

So why parents think children are their retirement fund bc

Very nice story. My best friend treats the same to his parents. One day he urged his parents to wear jeans and forced them to watch English movies rather than watching local movies. I have tried to change his way of thinking on this but he does whatever he feels like.

It is a good thing that we embrace our culture rather than hating it...........

Our Indian outfits of suits and sarees are so colourful that they will make anyone woman of any colour look stunningly gorgeous.

@suryalekhathungavaloo7993

Жыл бұрын

I agree absolutely 💯% with you. In South Africa 🇿🇦❤️👌🌷👏 we have a holiday called Cultural Day and all nationalities take 😀😉part. It's surprising 😮 how 🤔❓️many people of different cultures wear the Indian tradition dresses. It's beautiful 😍 and elegant.

@satishkona6374

Жыл бұрын

But sad Our Indian culture is on a downfall now

Saree is the most beautiful, elegant and graceful dress. I have been living in a western country for many years now, but I still wear saree to my office parties and to any formal event that I am invited including the cinema and opera house. I am proud of my culture.

@Amlan777

Жыл бұрын

Which country are you living in ? Does Indian men wear their traditional dress ( like dhoti kurta ) in any office parties or events, while staying abroad ?. One shouldn't become over traditional and wear according to the situation, and traditional dresses are only meant to wear in certain specific events, not all the time to show off their culture.

@vijithadsan8169

Жыл бұрын

@@Amlan777 You have either misconstrued me or on a collision course. I only stated my preferences. I wear saree, because it becomes me and I am comfortable in it. I have attended many public events in my saree, and received appreciation and compliments. I was in a shopping centre in Frankfurt, Germany and wss wearing a saree. The ladies who were there came over and admired my attire and I explained to them how it is worn. My friend though indian was in a dress, and after seeing the compliments I received she decided to wear saree. Likewise in Auckland my sister and I bought some sunglasses. The assistant told us that we have to go into the shop to collect our cases, my sister who was in jeans had to go and collect hers but for me the shop assistant said "you wait here ,I will get your case. After the 9/11 bombings, I was treated with deference at the airports and restaurants in San Francisco, and Los Angeles, because of my saree and bindi. The saree attracts respect. It is my choice.

@vijithadsan8169

Жыл бұрын

@@Amlan777 I must correct your grammar. It is not "does Indian men" it should be "Do Indian men "

@Ishak3369

11 ай бұрын

@@Amlan777 One can wear whatever they want. Although earlier times people used to wear traditional clothes everywhere.

@Amlan777

11 ай бұрын

@@Ishak3369 yes you are correct

But South Indian people are better in behavior. They are still respecting their culture

I usually wear western clothes, but I still don't force people to wear it like me.

Meanwhile....the mother looks classier than the daughter 😶

Breath of fresh air amidst repetitive content. Kudos

@saswatapaladhi4608

Жыл бұрын

No cap bro

Just telling hypothetically if I ever do that to my mum she would never talk to me in her whole life because for her self respect is Her first priority

In the west nobody cares what you wear.. Only in our country there is an obsession... Secondly I will eat with my hands, wear the clothes I like, I am not hurting anybody so if people don't like me cause of that I don't want such friends or relatives.

@saswatapaladhi4608

Жыл бұрын

Because our country people still have that inferiority complex to always get validation from west

@georgianikolopoulou2969

Жыл бұрын

Well , in Greece people care a LOT about what they wear, believe me. And we don’t eat with their hands!! BUT, when it comes to chicken, spare ribs and a few other food they use their hands . And we joke when we see someone eating chicken with their hands. We tell them that with girls and chicken they should “use” their hands!!! 😂😂 I repeat, it’s a joke . A little “dirty “ but we mean well. And Of course in Greek language it sounds funny Beautiful video. Loved it!! ❤❤

@TitanXx621

Жыл бұрын

@@georgianikolopoulou2969 I said the west and Greece is not considered the west.. The west includes USA, UK and all the European union countries.

@georgianikolopoulou2969

Жыл бұрын

@@TitanXx621 well I live in Holland many many years now and because Greece is in Europe automatically Ithought (as I see the map) Greece is west for you. It,s ek. Too much on my mind!! In Hollland we have many people from other countries and believe me the also pay attention to the clothes. It is a status in the society for them Dutch people (some of them) make fun of their clothes ( people of India , Maroko and Africans in general.) They are poor immigrants for them Of course for me it is So. Not all all Kind regards 😍😍

It happened the same with me for my grandma, she act locally, but after seeing your video i changed a lot tq

My concept of fashion is carry oneself well no matter Indian/ Western and most importantly should be comfortable... I appreciate people fashion conscious well dressed and will love to turn back to look again....🤩 Be happy and comfortable... Loved the content with a eye opener msg... Thank you Mr Nijo...👍

I live in Auckland New Zealand but i always wear saris when going to church, parties.......This is my culture.

@ThejeshwiniRamesh

6 ай бұрын

👏👏

Powerful message for all new gen's who understand embracing west means development

Excellent message for new generation 👍👍👍 very good vedio 💝

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

thanks😊

It happens only in india. Jabardasti ka culture or show off.. Mujhe to hath se hi khana pasand h I live in bangalore but me salwar suit pasand karti hu ye meri pasand h. In video her mother is feeling uncomfortable in jeans nd top nd all things but daughter tourchuring her so bad

@user-tj8kf7nv9w

Жыл бұрын

Hagidre Kannada maatadu

@BengaliManfromWB

Жыл бұрын

Don't know about clothes but it is scientific to eat with spoon. My father eats with spoon but as I am a glutton I eat with hands.

@CookingWithExploring

Жыл бұрын

Hath se khana jyaada jaata hai aur jldi khana complete karleti hun And spoon se khana kam jata hai...

@vijithadsan8169

Жыл бұрын

@@BengaliManfromWB What do you mean by saying that it is scientific to eat using the spoon. Do you mean by that hygienic?

@BengaliManfromWB

Жыл бұрын

@@vijithadsan8169 yes I mean hygienic.

Rudraksh Yadav needs to stop forcing Western culture on people. Just because he gave up on that doesn't mean we should give up on that.

Why you ashamed for your own culture? Culture is not just a fashion, language but also have deep ethics, values and philosophy that we should proud of and will be the legacy for our children

We should proved to be own culture..... And don't froce to any person accept the western culture.

Excellent 👌❤️👏 video by your team and you Nijoji. Sometimes people get so stuck in copying 🙄😒🙃 a foreigner culture that the Indian culture 😤😪is being copied by foreigners now. Thanks 😊🙏 for your English subtitles Nijoji for foreigners who don't understand Hindi very well. God 🕉🌹🙏 bless 🙌🙏 everyone involved in making this video. Lots of love and respect from South Africa 🇿🇦❤️🙏

No one should ever force anyone for anything..If u want,just try if they continue it it's right..otherwise leave it..Never force

Your stories is so hurt touching .. i love it.. thanks ✨

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Bro कुछ लोग देशी मुर्गी और बिलाइती बोल की तरह होते है, सर्वे होते तो है .. वही से पर दिखावे का पहाड़ खड़ा करते है और आपने अपने इस कहानी से वैसे लोग को आईना दिखाया हैं इसलिए किस शब्दों से आभार प्रकट करु मस्तिष्क काम नही कर रहा है बस यही कहूंगा ,🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏💝💝💝

Should respect our Indian culture no matter what

@akshaymundkur

Жыл бұрын

I agree, but there are some norms in our culture we can do better without.

i don’t think that this usually happen in reality but even if it does, then its the fault of her parents who didn’t even bother to teach their childern manners i am not doubting their parenting.. i am just amazed that how the mother is letting her daughter behave like that in front of her like seriously?? how u even have the guts, i don’t even ask for a glass of water from my mother because i know she must be herself exhausted from the work so arguing with her like this is literally far fetched she would literally kick me out for a day which i may deserve😂 m not saying that just become a SAINT but speak up for ur self when you feel but atleast don’t cross ur limits for no reason

@cricedits1772

Жыл бұрын

Bhai real mai to mom 2 thapar na lagadein?💀

bahut hi superb content ap de rahe ho bhai honestly appealing video sach me ham link kar pa rahe hein apke videos se 🙌🙏 sach me bhai thanks for this ... ham sab bhulte ja rahe hein ye videos sach me jaruri tha aj ke youth ko dikhane ke liye k ham actual me kya hein

Khana apne hath se khane me jo swad Aata hai woh spoon aur fork se nahin aata yeh hain hamara culture

Do foreigners eat pizza with fork? Then why should we change how we eat indian dishes 🤨. "Be proud of your culture" Indian culture taught us to enjoy food with 5 senses, it make it easy for digestion

@ThejeshwiniRamesh

6 ай бұрын

Yeah

Sweet story. Loved the mom.

Adoption and trying out other culture is ok ❤ but should not forget our and should not take for granted 🙏

@ThejeshwiniRamesh

7 ай бұрын

Well said 👏

Food should be eaten with hands.people keep criticizing Indian Culture without knowing scientific reason for that.Eating with hands actually promotes hand washing and infection free life.Namaste is the best way to greet we all realised during covid .Also eating with hands sentisizes our hand nerves

I think dressing the way that makes you comfortable is best and the way you eat it's you as well why change because of a certain way .nice video. ...

I love your story hats off u Mr Nijo Jonson Sir and ur team please 🙏 come live

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

thankyou😊

how does eating with hands make a difference , first there has been no coutnry to eat a food without hands (no spoons etc.) every coutrny would ahve used hand , like americans use hands for burger , pizza etc. and all that so why should we feel mbraced cauz we eat with our hands in our tradition rice is meant to be eaten like that were is the diference

Super 👌 story

Very nice 👌

There are two types of people who need to change their mindset. 1st one are the people like the girl in this video who was completely into modernizing her mom and bot allowing her to be free. And 2nd type are the ones who judge girls wearing jeans and western outfits and in some houses the people don't allow their daughters in law and daughters to wear jeans. In both cases, the person must have a choice of their own. Let them wear whatever they like, provided they are modest.

He was very understanging

Superb bro

Eye opener video.Carryvon with your good work

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

We are glad that you liked it!

Only happens in India … in American culture no one will judge you. Everyone welcome here.

Very good bro

Beautiful Lessonable Video.

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

thanks🙏

Western Culture ne sb kuch barbad kr diya hai. 😔😔😔😔😔😞😞😞😞💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭

Gajab content gajab acting gajab direction 🔥💫✨

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

thank you so much😊

That is SO disrespectful. We were born and brought up in the West and even we kept our indian roots. That's pathetic whatever she's doing to her mom. Have some respect. Let her be who she is.And what was wrong with the saree she was wearing? She looked beautiful. Infact we love indian clothes here.

I really support those who follow Indian culture not the western culture and why the hell do we need to follow the western culture if we have so much beautiful culture in India 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🕉️🔱🚩🛕

@satishkona6374

Жыл бұрын

Well said Even I supoort Indian culture I am not against western culture but just it I can’t supoort that culture I feel Proud of ppl Who still solllw Indian culture

@prajju8114

Жыл бұрын

But when you are in an IT job and you are having lunch or dinner with a foreign client then unfortunately you will have to follow table etiquettes.

Good job nijo Jonson 🌝🌝

It is very nice video it teaches about culture whether we came from village or we are leaving in the city and we have to respect our culture and not to embriss on others nice content nijo sir

He is good

I eat with my hands and the thing is my parents force me to eat from spoon

We should first respect our culture hath se khane k piche v science h which is been proven by accepting western culture we r forgetting our roots Nd origin which has so deep meaning in it We can find each n everything in our culture with meaning respect of being an Indian first western culture ko accept krna is good but disrespecting our own culture is a huge shame

I didn't need to watch this video aaj. Mera nakoda (no solid food, salt and sugar) upvaas hai aaj 😅. But a great video btw.

Nice video

Supet

Ek second me badal gayi😁

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ your content is incredible ❤️❤️🧿🧿no nazar

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

Hi sir I am from visakhapatnam AP

Why so much pressure on my mom to just meat a boy ???let her be happy the way she is

She (that girl) was actually looking more prettier in Saree 😅

One shouldn't become over traditional and wear according to the situation, and traditional dresses are only meant to wear in certain specific events, not all the time to show off their culture.

@preethi4764

Жыл бұрын

One should wear according to their comfort and confident levels.

@Amlan777

Жыл бұрын

@@preethi4764 yes , true

@factfish3949

Жыл бұрын

@@preethi4764 right

❤

This obsession for western culture is seen only in India. I have not seen this in the USA. Here everyone is respected as they are. You are not forced to change your ways. Looks like we are more western in India than the westerners in the West. Sad!!

It's easier and faster to eat by hand actually, it's a bit dangerous to eat by those utensils, a fork especially.

Very nice..i hv seen women's scolding elderly women's in malls

Nyc

Tbh mere parents bhi haath se khaana khate hai ...but sirf apne ghar pe ... Bahar humesha spoon se khaana khate hai Kyunki ese agr kisi bahar wale ke samne khayenge to dusre ka man bhi kharab hota h

So she eats pizza with fork and knife 💀

I love your stories. 😍🙏🏽

@nijojonsons

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad!

Mak ek baar mere office staff ke sath ek client meeting me gaya thaa deal final hoo chuki thii uske baad ek 4 star resturant me boss lekar gaye aur mast biryani mangi bake sab anrej ke chamcha see khaa rahe thee aur mai mast hathoo see

Who does this with their parents yar, no way. This is the first time I'm seeing or hearing something like this. Never got a thought something like this exist. 😑🤦

@nikitaagarwal9169

Жыл бұрын

Bro many children do these kind of things to their middle class parents. Just to show their class . And some poor parents have no option left but to listen to their children.

Which world they r living in.

See there is nothing like adopting from western culture its all about comfortability and choice.

हमें अपनी जड़ों से हमेशा जुड़ा रहना चाहिए चाहें हम कहीं भी रहें मेरे घर में भी कुछ लोग हाथ से खाना खाते हैं और मुझे कोई प्राब्लम नही ये भारतीय संस्कृति है

बच्चे बड़े हो जाते है तो मां बाप को समझते ही नही है अपने हिसाब से चलाना चाहते है मां बाप को

Op

My daughter ever spoke me like that and she'll taste the back of my hand

Me: maa haath se kyu khana kha rahi ho ? My mom:issi haath se maaru ? Chup chap khana kha End of topic 😁

Mera dil auntie kay sath hai.

Haath se khaana khaane me hi maza hai or haath se khaana khana sunnat ka kaam hota hai🙂🙂

Honestly, I see nothing wrong in learning something from our children. My mother was very proud of the fact that I taught her how to filet a salmon after returning from France and she always tells me all it takes is an open mind to learn new things.

@noopurpurohit623

Жыл бұрын

But forcing our adults is wrong...

@ThejeshwiniRamesh

6 ай бұрын

What you said is right but forcing someone to do the things which we like is not good

4 th😬 i was never this quick

Mujhe toh hath se hi khana khana pasand h woh v mast wala niche baith k

In saree woman looks more gorgeous 😍 than western wear.

@suryalekhathungavaloo7993

Жыл бұрын

Agree 👌❤️👍

I just love India and Hinduism it is brilliant but I urge the Indians to abandon meat eating drinking alcohol smoking

Who eats pizza or garlic bread with fork or knife?

@7footballerz10

Жыл бұрын

😄

Itti jangli bete.

jo angrezz hamaare desh mai 200 saal tak raj karke gaye aaj hum unhi ka pura culture sab kuch apna rahe hai kitna ajeeb baat hai

I love eating with my hands

Bro mummy s ese baat mr jae tb bhi nhi krte h meri mummy to muje maar maar k bhrta bna d agr ese kre to 😂 unone hmee sikhaya h hum kon hote h ese une bolne vale❤️

Restaurants me b to saree pehente hain log

Cannot understand this, really this never happens

Had h betiya aisa kb se krne lg gyi Meri maa ko b hath se khane ki habit h or sas sasur ko b and yes m ok with it kyuk hm unk face per khushi dekhne k liye unhe bahar le jate hain na ki naye jamane k chonchle sikhane

All are back of status and ego ness at last our bharat culture is the best bindas whatever we want we must do no show off at last prayer adds to the children no english vinglish culture and mother tongue is important

🙏🏛️🙏😊

Who eats garlic bread, pizza, burger etc with knife? 😮 मतलब कुछ भी.

Bhaiya in didi ki mummy seedhi h bss vrna yaha UP me ek raepte me sb smjha deti ya bsss do din baat na krne pe ya khud bachhon pe cheezein chor k samjha deti h 🫠 i knw india mein aise log h but all these dumb people need to understand is they r ur freakin parents let them be 💞

ye shabd toh common ho chuka im really sorry ye toh angrezz ka banaaya khaas shabd hai lekin hindi mai nahi bolenge muje maaf kar dena aray kam se kam itna toh word bolo muje maaf kar do ya wahi im really sorry kya hai ye sab