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@justarthur1788

11 ай бұрын

If feminine love is consumptive, what is the best word to describe masculine love?

@azar1520

11 ай бұрын

​​@@justarthur1788Perhaps a providing love

@samuelbeatsminecraft2049

11 ай бұрын

@@justarthur1788 I'll stay in this comment section until a word has been found for masculine love.

@reliableandrew

11 ай бұрын

Feminine ‘love’ (generally speaking) is ‘consumptive’ as stated, self-serving, drawing all phenomena unto herself…only then can she feel free to ‘love’ in a limited way that suits her wants and needs only. Masculine love (generally speaking) is expansive, all-encompassing, looking outwards, idealistic (in a positive way) transforming, a love that reaches beyond just himself, towards the stars, a love that benefits ALL.

@reliableandrew

11 ай бұрын

@@samuelbeatsminecraft2049 Expansive. All-encompassing.

Disappointing women isn't a skill; it's literally effortless. No matter what you do, she will be disappointed. What requires skill is not caring what women want.

@ebubechiibegbula5968

11 ай бұрын

Well said ..... There are very few women you can please in this world ....

@stean90

11 ай бұрын

If you care too little and give too less, she is gone too.

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

A man should be genuine, and strive for what he needs and wants, in trustful and truthful interactions with other persons - he should be open, and see if his and her aims and values align in a relationship. Not use any faking tricks and games. Not assuming this or that. Be manly and dare to talk. Nobody will be as disppointed as the one who was cheated into believing that false was true. If a man wants a one night stand, he should say so. If his aim is a life-long marriage, he should not only show it in words but also in his every act and consideration - it is a demanding, but rewarding goal, but it doesn't come on wishful demand, it has to be a result of daily effort and responsibility. But it is very rewarding to achieve something difficult and valuable. A man can naturally negotiate for something in between, too - most importantly dare to be honest!

@sarcodonblue2876

11 ай бұрын

Just be a man..done

@sarcodonblue2876

11 ай бұрын

​@@DNA350ppmyes. Honesty and no games.

How to do make a woman miserable? Give her everything that she wants.

@Amlux1984

11 ай бұрын

To be fair, the same can be said of men

@elmotociclista9296

11 ай бұрын

​@@Amlux1984true, but I think that men are less likely to throw a temper tantrum at our significant other If we get a no for an answer.

@root1657

11 ай бұрын

Counterpoint: The fastest way to prove a woman has no idea what she wants is to give her what she asks for. (Note of caution, this can also be very expensive)

@JohnDoesItAll

11 ай бұрын

😂🤣😅😆

@fauxbro1983

11 ай бұрын

What you mean? All women are miserable, it's just they hide it well

From decades of experience playing the field, to quitting playing music and devoting my life and resources to a single woman's well-being, self-esteem and even her immediate family, I can regretfully say, that this is 100% true. I wish I had seen this video in 2012.

@AZ-sr2tb

5 күн бұрын

Man, I’m so sorry for your experience.

I was married for 28 years and ended it last September. I was in a constant state of capitulating to her. I was actually fearful of disappointing her. Well, I was miserable for the majority of the relationship but it had quickly become my normal state of being. I did not know any better. If I had known the truth of this episode, my reality would have been different. But, now it is and I am loving life and who I am. Thank you, Orion. Life changing. Young men, listen and believe this.

@jamesstrom6991

7 ай бұрын

Keep on keeping on, brother

@marguskiis7711

7 ай бұрын

I did not capitulate, I did my own things and she dumped me brutally after 20 years of marriage.

@ramsyrama

6 ай бұрын

That's an opportunity to live your life less with her making you miserable@@marguskiis7711

@joegaragozzo1640

5 ай бұрын

Yes! Young men Listen up very carefully. Do no ignore red flags that are waved right in your face. I did that for 20yrs....It got me nothing but heartaches, anxiety , sadness and an empty bank account. Eyes but especially EARS wide open

@ItsMeChillTyme

5 ай бұрын

Seeing comments like yours on this channel makes me feel better that I got out of mine in 9 years. It started off well, ups and downs but then was maintained by me capitulating to her ever taller demands of me and her not understanding that I need to sacrifice going out on dates for my career. Every time I'd not go out with her and prioritise work, she would start emotion dumping about how she's feeling alone and caged and this and that. I'd tell her that if she wants to keep going out late at nights with her friends drinking, then me and her aren't going to work out. So she would use that to manipulate me, whether she realised it or not, to at least have me go out with her. Like, relax woman. Going out only a couple times a month until I get my finances up was too much for her. "At least once a week". And I live in a small city with nothing to do but visit the same odd cafes, bars, theatres, I don't know what the hell she got out of it. I was fine watching netflix with her while screensharing. We couldn't live together cause she lived with her parents.

Married 21 years here. No matter what you do, you will disappoint her. Get used to it.

@cristobal.palmero4919

11 ай бұрын

True and it only gets worse, live with it

@fromgermany271

11 ай бұрын

I think his idea os more that you disappoint her under your control. That she will be more and more disappointed by everything you give her, is a given.

@edheldude

11 ай бұрын

She disappoints herself by setting her own expectations.

@latt.qcd9221

11 ай бұрын

That just makes me even less interested in marriage and relationships.

@cristobal.palmero4919

11 ай бұрын

@@latt.qcd9221 hormones, we all got them

"If you don't give a woman what she wants, She will be unhappy. If you give a woman what she wants she will be miserable".

@ShadyRonin

4 ай бұрын

Lmao

@Icanfigureitoutintime

2 ай бұрын

Exactly

@morpheus7422

2 ай бұрын

A lot of women were not taught how to receive love. So they don't want to feel vulnerable by you leveraging on your gifts

@oldmanjinkinsskyrim737

13 күн бұрын

​@@morpheus7422a lot of women also haven't been taught how to give love either 😂

A woman saying no to me doesn’t make me want her more.

@atomicvinylreviews3420

2 ай бұрын

Yeah.. I was gonna say, this too was the only part of his video I disagreed with.

@anshumannbele4373

2 ай бұрын

Idk your personality, but generally I've observed, the less your crush(works for both genders) is attracted to you, the more you're attracted to them. Finally if it's a person you never wanted, nothing will happen.

@Lamboolover

2 ай бұрын

This whole video is dumb

@hesinnocent

2 ай бұрын

@@anshumannbele4373 Maybe this is just a majority case? Like most ppl being like this. But im right with him, a no makes me want em less

@user-bn8wy6cc5v

2 ай бұрын

No = no. I can never want someone more if they say NO. To do so would be creepy and needy. If they say no, it's a no

I feel like a lot of women are told “you can do better” and a lot of men are told “if she’s for you then you won’t have to try” and I think people should leave all that behind and be themselves. Whoever fits well with you as you are and makes you happy is for you. You wont have to force, you won’t have to ask for more, you wont have to go out of your way more than you already do. Communicate and be respectful. Not so simple in practice but it should be.

@Akrazzyy

2 ай бұрын

What you saying is like- there should be thieves, people should be more sensible and you’re right but that isn’t the case We have to police the world Similarly, it’s always good to know who you’re dealing with to have better results. And some men do get played very miserably and those gfs and wives don’t even care at all.

@retrogang6326

2 ай бұрын

@@Akrazzyy we can always work towards sensibility, starting with ourselves. We’ll find people who resonate and we’ll know who we’re dealing with by spending time with them. Yes men and women are treated poorly by each other and some people have no remorse. It’s our job to be better at judging character and to be of good character ourselves.

@chio1877

2 ай бұрын

one of the few sensible comments on here, I feel like a lot of men use this advice to excuse their misfortunes on love when in reality it’s as simple as setting boundaries on a relationship.

@darklord220

2 ай бұрын

@chio1877 to be fair men setting boundaries is more maligned than the inverse. But you're right. We're all adults. We can say no.

Yup. Same goes for children. Giving them everything they want is disastrous and irresponsible.

@Pomoscorzo

11 ай бұрын

Exactly. What these videos are about are children with curvy bodies, not mature women.

@blastermaster7261

11 ай бұрын

​@@Pomoscorzoimagine believing that isn't the super-majority of women anyways.

@alexcarrara8140

11 ай бұрын

​@@PomoscorzoI'll believe you when I'll meet one.

@J23_

11 ай бұрын

Remember; Women should be treated like the child in the relationship.

@Pomoscorzo

11 ай бұрын

@@blastermaster7261 Immature women are more likely to offer their bodies to a man easily, that's why they date them. Grown-up women who can think for themselves and want an equal relationship, want to be friends first and protect their femaleness are uninteresting for guys whose first priority is how quickly and how often they can get laid. You want sex, you get nothing but sex. And you pay, with money, time and stress.

Disappointing women? Dude I was born for this.

@inconnu4961

11 ай бұрын

LOL Yes!

@elmotociclista9296

11 ай бұрын

😂😂

@animamagna3077

11 ай бұрын

Lmao

@akosegri4134

11 ай бұрын

😂😂

@frosty42255

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

I am very used to disappointing women. So many women are so, so disappointing.

In the beginning of our relationship I told him he was the Captain of the ship and I was 2nd in command. He has yet to disappoint me and we are starting year 14. I am not the typical woman because I want my man to spend time with his friends playing golf or just hanging out. He is not in my life to entertain me 24/7. We blended our lives together and I appreciate our time together. All I want from him is that whichbhe gives freely and I have only one expectation of him and that is he love and take care of himself, because you can't give what you don't have.

@evantonsingfan7433

6 ай бұрын

You are an exceptional woman!! Your husband is a lucky man. If only all women were like you!! God bless!

@willek1335

6 ай бұрын

Only three months in the relationship, and my girlfriend is like you in this regard.

@davidsf101

6 ай бұрын

You are wise woman. Many young ladies are self-absorbed and don't figure this out until it is too late for them.

@JoseDiaz-rd9fh

6 ай бұрын

The software inside her head is equal in importance as your attraction to her. Healthy boundaries and expectations is the key to any relationship. Unfortunately today many women don't take the time to consider what her future husband or boyfriend wants out of a relationship until she's too damaged or it's too late. Guys are conditioned by society to be doormats and women to be entitled this will always end badly

@frankG335

5 ай бұрын

This is how the women I know are. The women he describes - I don't recognize these women at all.

When someone breaks up with you, go full no contact. Never, ever break that rule.

@swim3530

11 ай бұрын

For a certain period yes. After that period you should reevaluate, once the the hurt heals a bit. If it was a good relationship, and you still want it, then start talking again.

@dampnickers

11 ай бұрын

@@swim3530 only, and I mean, ONLY if they initiate contact first. Otherwise they are dead. You can never contact them again. Otherwise, you're coming to the table with a weaker hand, and open yourself to be taken advantage of.

@Wize817

11 ай бұрын

disagree. I think either person can initiate contact esp. if it was a mutual breakup, grew apart. The problem is most fems get really bitter if you breakup with them, and rejected them. They cant get over it! Meanwhile guys get rejected all the time! Fragile egos for being so "strong and independent"!? 😆

@Tapuzi

10 ай бұрын

I think that limiting oneself from following the heart is itself a weakness, so there is just a choice between two lower status. However in my perspective both reaching out and not are not considered negative.

@sweetsmakemeshredded3672

10 ай бұрын

@@dampnickers Exactly, she broke up with me and i came back like a dog, never make that mistake

“You can never make a woman happy, it's impossible. I've never met a happy woman in my life. They're always complaining about something.” - Chris Rock

@PGHEngineer

2 ай бұрын

It's not like you get that with men. I mean, look at all the cheerful, satisfied men leaving comments under this video. Oh, wait, bad example.....

@CastleRaccon

2 ай бұрын

@PGHEngineer I read it more as venting from personal experience. I see that venting and never being satisfied as two completely different things

@PGHEngineer

2 ай бұрын

@@CastleRaccon I see it as complaining about life when they are with women, but subtly revealing how obsessed they are with getting with a woman just by being here and moaning incessantly about it.

@juliocorrea2552

2 ай бұрын

😭

@michelefreed

2 ай бұрын

He's not wrong.

This is ESPECIALLY harder in Single Mother homes because our relationship personality develops based on keeping a usually narcissistic mom happy....which transfers to girlfriends & wives.

@callme_t

3 ай бұрын

Don’t disrespect moms by generalizing that single moms are narcissists. Maybe yours was but don’t speak for other people. At the end of the day at least one person was there for a 2 person job.

@thaxtonwaters8561

3 ай бұрын

@@callme_t you could've easily kept it moving if this was not about you, but this statement was for those who AGREED, so you can move along and kick rocks✌🏾

@username-si7hw

3 ай бұрын

@@thaxtonwaters8561 i love this

@mark9294

2 ай бұрын

@@callme_tmine definitely was (and still very much is) narcissistic. The reason there was only “one person for a two-person job” was because she kicked my father out and thought life would be nicer if she just did everything herself.

@SOULSEEKERBEATS

27 күн бұрын

@@callme_t why is it disrespectful? It's just a clinical term

The more she likes you the more she'll want more from/of you - this is consumptive feminine love. Be the person that the women fell in love with. (lifestyle) The more you agree to her wants the more she'll feel powerful

This makes relationships seem like a waste of time and unnecessary head games just to keep one party interested. We are doomed 😂

@TheMonkeygrunt

9 ай бұрын

Mmm not really. I would argue that its generally typical human social behavior. In my opinion a healthy individual (male or female) will establish boundaries in all of their relationships, be personal, family, friendship or work related. Its just part of being in a community. Dealing with woman is no different in my opinion. And to be fair to women, men have a degree of that same attribute. It's just not as prominent I don't think.

@joungyalen25

9 ай бұрын

​@@TheMonkeygruntIt’s one thing to have boundaries, and it's another thing to have boundaries you have to constantly enforce. Women want as if they're entitled to your being simply from having the title of girlfriend whereas your friends behave completely differently. My friends can fuction if I don't see them for a month. My girl on the otherhand...that wpuld be an issue. He's right, the neediness makes you question if a relationship is even worth it. To be fair, family does have entitlement too but it doesn't threaten to strip your autonomy to the degree of a woman's love. A woman's love gradually just heads in the direction of codepedence: she wants you to be her best friend, she wants to move in with you, she wants to sleep in the same bed, she wants you to commit to her emotionally and physically, ahe wants you to marry her, she wants to watch shows together, she wants to hangout together on the weekends, she wants your last name, she wants to be a part of your family...friendships aren't like this at all. That's why I think friendships are the healthiest relationship, because it's completely voluntary at every step of the way ( you don't have to pledge your commitment to your friends), and there's no entitlement because of it. I don't know the shit is annoying. I literally work with my girlfriend and I feel like I have to explain to her every week why it's ok for me to want space from her, and my days off to myself, as if I didn't spend a majority of my work day interacting with her lol. With my friends I don't have to explain shit. I just say I'm bysy, but I'll chill with you later and the world keeps spinning. It does seem like more effort than it's worth at times.

@iggiryjoff

9 ай бұрын

@@joungyalen25 idiots cant see the difference between men and women and keep insisting on "it not just about women, its about humans"

@rm6857

9 ай бұрын

Thats why women were controlled in past

@Equals11

9 ай бұрын

the channel title says it upfront - he is a hack. he is not a real psychologist, it's like Elizabeth Holmes if psychology channels. But since youtube is popular among cluster B disordered people and occasionally codependents who need the cult leader, he get the views. Same with teal swan - she get millions of views despite misleading info. None of them are qualified or actually knowledgeable.

This advice is G O L D I cannot stress enough how important this is. Should be mandatory education for every teen/young man.

@commanderofkesariyaknights

11 ай бұрын

No guy should waste his time on drama with women, whatever kind it may be Simps deserve the worse scorn and punishment possible

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

If you know that this is GOLD-class advice, then its secret power makes me want to hear from your wife: what makes her so happy about being your partner in life - because I myself can't imagine how come - it sounds impossible. What makes her so happy about you that this advice functions?

@rejectionistmanifesto8836

11 ай бұрын

No the only advice for this generation is to ensure pregnancy and marriage doesnt occur which will avoid all the issues. For this guys should immediately take his girlfriend to get Tubal Ligation and still buy and give her daily birth control pills after taken in front of you and also Plan B pill after consulting with a doctor each time after intercourse.

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

@@rejectionistmanifesto8836 Better he gets himself a vasectomy, it is easier, safer and cheaper. A one time effort. 😀 But use condoms anyway, not to catch STD!!! (Mind you, condoms are totally within a man's control. In some countries you get them for free.)

@rejectionistmanifesto8836

11 ай бұрын

@@DNA350ppm yes he should also but it is just as crucial to also get his girlfriend to do it if she wants a relationship.

Rejection and disappointment are spices to people with low I.Q, low self esteem, and masochists. Normal person moves on to a partner that is interested. It's called having dignity.

@yareyaredaze9656

6 ай бұрын

bingo..this is the comment i was looking for

@ZygonesBzygones

6 ай бұрын

dude abides

@lolitsshizzle5953

5 ай бұрын

I'm so glad someone said this! The only women who are attracted to men that reject and dissapoint them are women who grew up with a father figure who rejected and dissapointed her. Mature women with healthy self esteem prefer partners who treat them with kindness and respect.

@sad_wrangler8515

2 ай бұрын

well, by the bell curve you could literally say 60% of the entire population is not really that specially, only 23% are lucky enough to have a little bit more IQ, than the average John Doe, while basically the upper 2.5% are not interessted in people, because high IQ indivduals are often isolated or alone.

@Candlelight787

2 ай бұрын

@@sad_wrangler8515 More like 15% are in a range between z +1 and z+2. And ignorance is a choice regarding one's placement on bell curve.

I used to fear rejection by conforming to the women in my life....they eventually left me. Now I understand. I will never conform again. I will be saying no and stand by it!

Saying NO to her will make her respect you. Saying too much YES all the time to her, will make her leave you.

@sad_wrangler8515

2 ай бұрын

Always saying no is the best. There are studies out there that narcissistic behavior on the side of the man had zero negative impact on average for a relationship, also the archtype with the highest numbers of women are Dark Triade, basically narcissistic, violent and manipulative men.

Brother just broke down the psychology of simping. 👍

@1Whipperin

3 ай бұрын

Same goes for disappointment of her kids.

@mauriciolopez1235

3 ай бұрын

Forget about simping, the fact that he said that disappointing is a spice of a relationship 😅 what ???????!!!!! 😂 This is pure nonsense. Is not even logical. I know that women are different psicologicaly speaking, but, the fact that a so called psicologist could encourage disappointment is a new one for me.

@tedtalour6414

3 ай бұрын

You got it backwards

@rhuiden4086

3 ай бұрын

​@@mauriciolopez1235 Most nice guys are people pleasers. When it comes to a woman they worship her and just cannot say no to anything she wants no matter how unreasonable.Try that and see how it works out.

@alchemysticgoldmind4164

2 ай бұрын

​@@mauriciolopez1235Women are like children....what happens when you give a kid everything....

You hit the nail on the dot. It's sad for me. I found this out after the age of 25. However, I learned not to give women everything they wanted, and somehow, I found more women being drawn to me. Maybe I just had to grow up and have more self-respect. I feel great now. It took me so long to figure all this out

I explained to my wife that I do not like to see her cry but I have to say No sometimes. Usually the following day she will tell me to not let her emotions influence my decisions. This shows women that they can trust you as you are not influenced by momentary feelings and will always make the best decision for the family.

@hesinnocent

2 ай бұрын

cryin bc of a no is barbaric😭maybe im missing some vital info or sum

A woman will never be satisfied, ever, no matter how much you try and give, never. The best approach? Have fun while you are with her, don't try too hard don't try too little, just the right amount, enjoy every minute you're with her because rest assured she'll leave, enjoy her while she's still here. That's the biggest red pill in my personal experience and opinion

@cazimim3375

11 ай бұрын

Wiser than average

@akosegri4134

11 ай бұрын

❤❤ Absolutely love it!!

@ProfessorThock

11 ай бұрын

Guys don’t say this is wise or that you love it. This is absolutely fucking wrong and an incredible tragedy that this man thinks that. Vicente, women are real people. People lose respect for you over time when you continually disrespect them by thinking of them as less than or that you have to play these weird games. It sounds like this is the real issue for most people in these comments.

@vicentemorales2533

11 ай бұрын

@@ProfessorThock I've had several women, I'm talking from experience and from friends and colleagues anecdotes. On top of that you find men online who can rely with what is being said. You just don't like it because it makes women look bad, well, too bad, they're human beings, and very flawed human beings at that. A man should never hate women, be he should never pedestalize them either

@Joseph-C

11 ай бұрын

@@ProfessorThock ? All he's saying is to enjoy the time you have with your woman and don't be a simp. It's sage advice. He didn't say anything about them being less than. He's simply accepted the fact that most relationships end and that the appropriate thing to do is enjoy your time with someone and don't get too attached nor neglect them. There's no logical reason to expect someone to be in your life forever so I don't see any issue with his comment.

This is pretty spot on…. My (now ex) girlfriend of almost a year came to me and said I’m not affectionate enough and that she wants me to use more words of affirmation, use more emotion when texting, use “I love you” instead of “love you”, etc. I made a serious effort to start doing those things after that conversation. She broke up with me 2 weeks later.

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

Too little, too late. I'm sorry for you!

@learncadadia7832

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 “broke up w me 2 weeks later.” Trolled you.

@freemindkev

11 ай бұрын

@@learncadadia7832 100% lol

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

@@learncadadia7832 There you go, decent women don't understand men's double speak! I can't believe you have much success with such parole.

@tancreddehauteville764

11 ай бұрын

You should have ignored her.

I find the idea of always stressing out and thinking of keeping someone very exhausting. Focus on yourself first.. know your limitations and boundaries so when you get involved with someone.. you get there from a place of joy and love.. not attachment and overthinking to keep the person.. you offer yourself for the buyers.. if the buyer is no longer interested.. it’s not personal.. you enjoyed their company already.. and that’s a win.. now you move on lightly and keep doing your thing which is focusing on being your authentic self under all circumstances.

Wow.. I found this vid right when was going through a tough relationship. We only lasted like 3 years and I was pleasing her in everything: Money, time and some other stuff.. The point is that no matter what / how much you give her, you'll always be the bad guy in the movie and she'll also find any excuse to victimize and blame you for any single sh!t. This vid has switched my mind 360 degrees. Thanks bro for opening men's eyes and makes understand how women's mentality work.

@astrovarius543

3 ай бұрын

treat em mean, keep em keen.

@anthonyle1838

Ай бұрын

Don't lose your chivalry but at the same time don't lose your dignity you have to keep both of them it's not that they see you as weaker it's that you lose your dignity to them

So on point when it comes to female nature. This should be dating 101 for every man. So many of us get our programming from Disney movies and it's not helpful at all.

@anshulguptain

11 ай бұрын

It's not about just women. It's about humans in general.

@kengaroo5170

11 ай бұрын

The man is a rich handsome prince and the woman has nothing like Cinderella.

@VaronPlateando

11 ай бұрын

and remember programming by (grnd.) mthr.s from earliest on. not necessarily deserving per-default-(!!)-halo, to be sincere. merely xx.s in any inherent aspect, too.

@sp3cialed1

11 ай бұрын

Facts, once you realize this you win at life

@WhiteWolfos

11 ай бұрын

You should probably get out there and look for modest personalities in other women. What the guy describes is like if they only have one type of woman out there lol.

“A woman in love wants to put you inside of her…” Yup, sounds about right.

@JJ-wi2uw

11 ай бұрын

or she wants to put herself inside of you. That way she can control you.

@sylism5086

11 ай бұрын

😂😂 💯

@HickoryDickory86

10 ай бұрын

"I'm talkin' 'bout baaaalls deep in loooove." - Cleveland Brown, Jr.

@coprilettodelnapoli5466

8 ай бұрын

​@@Dannyblazer1985with all my hand and my arm

I've just discovered this channel, now I'm binge watching. You describe all of the problems I have encountered. I have never had problems attracting women, but so often I have either pleased them to the point they lose respect, or I become resentful that all my efforts and time don't elicit the response I was expecting. It's all so clear now 🤦‍♂️

Thanks for timeless wisdom! The dance of life can be confusing if you dance in the dark! Thank you for turning some lights on!💡

Many of the most empty and miserable men I've ever met are "Yes dear" husbands.

The reason why men don't want to disappoint women is because they fear they cannot find another if she then rejects him. This is however the best thing that can happen because its acting like a quality filter to find a BETTER one.

@arrow2380

11 ай бұрын

Women ARE the matrix

@erko78

11 ай бұрын

That’s a great perspective 🤔!

@thunderlifestudios

10 ай бұрын

it also is because some men do legitimately value her, it's just it ends up making it unbalanced unintentionally. Some people you value a person not out of scarcity but out of familiarity, a sense of investment and because they legitimately like that person. I have loved a few woman a lot but have moved on easily. It's not just about scarcity.

@zendakk

10 ай бұрын

Which also leads to my point that this video's generalizing theory is just that. I raise all the doomsayers my relationship in its 3rd decade that's always been satisfyingly balanced in the give and take department. Ymmv

@erko78

9 ай бұрын

@@zendakk what point are you trying to make other than bragging your relationship is in its 3rd decade?

I'm taking notes as a woman. It's also refreshing to hear what we as women do in love and to understand and to accept on why we love the way we do. I think it's even beneficial for many more women as well to watch this video.

I mean, i dunno. When a woman told me no, i got less interested clearly. This whole "the harder to get the more you want it" menatlity is just fundamentally toxic and miserable in my experience...

I'm a 7th degree black belt in disappointing women. Curiously, I never even had to train to get this skill. Other men have tried to best me in this endeavor, but few have ever come close.

@midomarvin8793

4 ай бұрын

Yo!!!,😆😆😆😆😆😆

@cardboardbox2817

2 ай бұрын

Naw I got you beat 😩

@srujanpetumpuri2900

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@TheRealAceReeve

Ай бұрын

You're a G bruv! Respect! 🫡

@jasongravely7217

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

You need to disappoint a woman early on. If you, like me, are way too friendly and giving in to everything she says, she will slowly lose respect. As soon as she puts you in low value land, and you suddenly start to change behaviour, that’s very upsetting to women, and she might cut you off completely if she can’t receive any value from you anymore. That’s why I have to keep reminding myself to set boundaries EARLY in the progression of things and take control of my friendlyness. But it’s easier said than done, even though you are doing it with your best intentions to succeed with her, it doesn’t feel like that in the moment.

@mark9294

11 ай бұрын

I agree with this 100%.

@gregorylatta8159

11 ай бұрын

Just say no😂

@fredrikdippel3664

11 ай бұрын

Agree. But on the other hand it feels silly to reject about minuscule things just because I should reject something.

@Twoyutes74

11 ай бұрын

​@@fredrikdippel3664i see it as silly too, but they say in the Wire: "The Gane is the Game."

@jamesredman1263

11 ай бұрын

@@fredrikdippel3664 - he isn't saying refuse her EVERYTHING. He is saying use your own discretion and don't agree to what you don't honestly agree with. Not all Yes or all No. Don't be a pushover or she will lose any respect for you.

You are spitting nothin but facts my bro. I hope some people get this, i’ve been in a bunch of relationships and the ones where the woman was most attracted to me were the ones I was able to disappoint them. Make them feel like I didn’t care as much but it’s a give and take. I gave the most when she was good to me, and the second I smelt funny shit I switched real quick. thank you for the video !

I really hope that a lot of young men in their late teens, twenties and early thirties are tuning into this. When I was that age there was absolutely NOTHING in the way of relationships advice for younger men. If you were very lucky your father might tell you something, though likely it was 30 years out of date. Your mates you couldn't turn to: they were rivals and in any case they were as ignorant as you. Towards the end of that time I turned to women's magazines - they were written by and for young women but some of it was universal. Not exactly the good old days.

Note that getting used to *disappointing women* has two meanings: 1) The art of disappointing women 2) Acceptibg that women are deceiving in their nature

@chocolat3698

11 ай бұрын

3) Ending up alone 😂

@taranjitronaldinhify

11 ай бұрын

Initially I read it as get used to women just being disappointing 😂

@martinfiedler4317

11 ай бұрын

@@taranjitronaldinhify Same here. And I would fully subscribe to that notion. Basic life lesson!

@ms.altareb9935

11 ай бұрын

That’s some misogynistic thinking

@martinfiedler4317

11 ай бұрын

@@ms.altareb9935 Having high expectations of women's - emotional maturity and - ethical standards is "misogynistic"?😲 OK, mea culpa 😥

If you want to ruin your relationship, give them everything they want.

This is a great channel. This guy hits it correctly all the time.

I'm so glad I found this, I've been trying to help a homie out and I don't have a PhD in this stuff. We are saying is what I've been trying to say. Women literally don't know what they want. Just keep them guessing until they "know" you're irreplaceable.

Men shouldn't be afraid of disappointing women, including dumping them or feeling bad for not reciprocating their feelings, because life is a series of disappointments and in fact, they need to get to know this while they can still handle it. If it's not you, something else will disappoint them. You can't shield people from disappointments.

@johnmcevoy3598

9 ай бұрын

It's not easy to kiss the mouth that chews out your ass all day.

This video should be watched by every single man wanting to be in a relationship. This is an extremely important video. It should be watched 10 times by every guy!

@williampowell3378

11 ай бұрын

❤

@psychacks

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the support, Joe. I really appreciate it.

@Zer-gy8bh

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for supporting brother ,,, really appreciate ❤

@akosegri4134

11 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️ Life changing, if it used wisely!!!!

@georgevue8175

11 ай бұрын

I agree, had I been taught this type of content in high school my life would have been changed for the better. I am a good guy but I made huge Blue Pill mistakes like marrying @ age 19.

This kind of presentation is really great because it doesn’t seem to be polarized for or against men and women. These are just straight facts and they are useful.

Men work two fulltime jobs

The key is indifference. When you can disappoint them and not care about the out come.

@IkesPimpHand

10 ай бұрын

Precisely. So many men think indifference is the key to keeping a woman. No. Indifference is indifference. It's not caring whether she stays or leaves.

@e.a.t284

10 ай бұрын

@@IkesPimpHand Its not about not caring. We are humans, of course we care if our loved one leaves. What takes strength and character is standing on your principles and doing the right thing even if she might leave.

@BWater-yq3jx

9 ай бұрын

Maintaining some detachment with your attachments is a tricky thing.

@palaceofwisdom9448

9 ай бұрын

So true. I quit on women entirely a decade ago and it was like I flipped on a light switch and was suddenly visible to them. Same guy, same values, I just stopped thinking about my life relative to them and suddenly I was desirable even to strangers since I now give off a completely different vibe.

@JoelyPera

9 ай бұрын

If the key is indifference then why be in a relationship in the first place? What kind of relationship are you trying to build if you’re numb to how you disappoint them? Generally speaking, a person who lacks conviction for disappointing people are also less likely to hold themselves accountable.

My wife never is satisfied with any of my accomplishments but boy she love points out my flaws and tells me what I’m not doing and not pursuing her enough. I told her yesterday, would you pursue someone if they’re always bring up your flaws and belittling you? It’s like the lightbulb went off but then she went back to her expectations of me and how I’m not meeting them. 😂

@storm2945

10 ай бұрын

Hahaha you gotta say deuces ✌️

@jaybruke9697

9 ай бұрын

If I was you, I would begin putting all of your assets under your moms name and file for divorce before she divorce g*rapes you into oblivion(sui/cide).

@JohnSmith-ys3wc

9 ай бұрын

Yep, she has to go. She's only bringing down your mental health and unless she's putting out once a day and twice on Saturday she's not worth it. Scrape her off.

@odoylerules4503

9 ай бұрын

your life sounds like an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond

@drewg3087

9 ай бұрын

@@odoylerules4503 damn, cant bitch my way out of that one. 🤣

I really enjoyed this video. I pondered to a lot of things you said and I believe a lot of women want their men to be their actual daddy. Give me everything I want but put me in my place when need be. Happy New Year :)

Who has time to play their childish games ?

This is why we say "just be yourself". Continue doing what you were doing and what you genuinely want to keep doing. She won't magically stop liking you for it.

@elliottsmith7530

8 ай бұрын

big ol fax my friend

@jameslay1489

6 ай бұрын

I find it funny how women will say be yourself but then when you get into a relationship, they want you to be a totally different person.

@19batista96

6 ай бұрын

​@@jameslay1489and then when she successfully changed you, she will lose interest and leave you. Remember fellas, just be yourself.

@ishitrealbad3039

6 ай бұрын

"just be yourself" is the worst advice you can ever give to a person lol.

@OttarErOsom

6 ай бұрын

@@ishitrealbad3039 then be someone else idc

this is a great explanation for a problem my friend has: all his girlfriends end up liking him as a friend and they eventually break up without any passion or emotion or need for each other. it fizzles out completely. because he's extremely conflict avoidant and he boasts he never, ever fights with his girlfriends on anything, including very petty tiny arguments. But that's actually the problem. He becomes a butler that's rent-free.

@agentnukaz1715

6 ай бұрын

I think u need to have downs to remember the ups. Women are emotional beings, they Need to feel a range of emotion, not picture perfect love on a pedestal

@romaroalte2645

2 ай бұрын

@@agentnukaz1715 I will remember this to compose better music 👌

@rhuiden4086

2 ай бұрын

If she dont bring drama, bring the drama to her and play with her emotions.

@zowdeezowdee

Ай бұрын

But this man just spoke about how to not fight a woman.

This was excellent. Thank you. I've had thoughts like this but you voiced it so clearly, and I really experienced the 'giving too much' in my last relationship and we both ended up feeling drained.

Thank you. This is logic! A lot of what you discussed I never took into context until you said it. Too funny. I'm gonna watch again to internalize this new perspective. Thx again

What a weird world we live in for relationships to operate this way…

@chocolat3698

11 ай бұрын

The toxicity of this mindset is unbelievable ! not at all applicable for real life outside their screens 😂

@user-qe7bt9dz1l

10 ай бұрын

@@chocolat3698 What are you talking about?

@tonym1712

10 ай бұрын

That's because of feminism and social media. It was very different 20 years ago

@salj.5459

9 ай бұрын

Doesn't apply to all countries

@Ratclan

6 ай бұрын

Relationships have always operated this way…… The king has harems of woman pining after him….. biology dictates survival mechanisms for the entire species… our DNA is encoded to procreate and Protect our bloodlines…. For men this means sexual reproduction with as many females as possible in a short time. For females this means finding a Suitable Partner to protect offspring, and than another if the suitable partner becomes unable to protect offspring. We are just as bacteria or the smallest organisms, our innate genetics will dictate our macro behaviors as humans. Male and female. Opposites and One

Absolutely true. If I had known this 10 years ago I would have saved so much time, energy, and resources.

@coolo73

11 ай бұрын

@@eladbari Meaning either navigating the relationship better, getting out sooner, or avoiding it altogether.

@ronnydelacruzYT

11 ай бұрын

Same

@EmeraldaKasim

9 ай бұрын

One of the reasons im glad i was born in this time and can learn these things at 20 y/o

@jestertheslacker

9 ай бұрын

Man, I know right?

Mate bang on thank you for putting this together so accurately. I just came out of a relationship wherein this is a jewel of learning for me

I can not thank u enough. Now everything makes sense in my life. I have applied ur wisdom and 100% assure that ur words are correct.

This actually makes alot of sense. I broke up with my ex because it seemed the harder I tried to please her, the more she found fault in everyrhing I did. I was sort of left in a constant "damned if I do, damned if I dont" state of mind with it all. Once the depressive emotions started surfacing I pulled the plug. Im too old to be trying to live up to anyones standards (and approval) but my own and my childrens.

@BookshelfQBattler

Ай бұрын

Glorious Disappointing Master of the Shaolin Temple For Disappointing-Women-Fu here. I'm an expert trainer of disappointers of women because I have disappointed so many of them. They key is, my son, you must really lean into the disappointment. Go out of your way to disappoint her in strange and inventive ways. If she asks for a drink of water, throw a banana cream pie in her face. If she asks you to take her out to dinner, put on a chicken costume and dance a mambo. If she asks you to meet her family, dress up like a pirate and speak only as a pirate for the next 7 weeks. Women love disappointment and she will be putty in your hands. OR not. Most likely not. But the key is, you were never going to make her happy anyway so at least you had fun with your disappointments. Glad I didn't help at all.

I just got out of a relationship where I kept folding to her demands and it was never enough, i was always critcized and told I could do better. 8 months of this push anr pull relationship, i was miserable, but it was a trauma bond. I finally ended it this week. Im ready to get back to who I was and this advice is gold, set your boundaries early and if its enough to let them walk, then let them. This video came at a perfect time for me... God bless you all and hope you prosper!

@kickhisassseabass318

11 ай бұрын

Wow🙏 God bless you 💚

@animamagna3077

11 ай бұрын

Good luck with your recovery, dude.

@newempire158

9 ай бұрын

That trauma bond 100% comes from dealing with a jezebel spirit, it’s like for some reason you find it soo hard to leave this crazy bih despite seeing 🚩like Chinese parade

@BWater-yq3jx

9 ай бұрын

Respect. Respect yourself enough to make sure she respects you. Often all you have to do with a demanding woman... is nothing. Don't be swayed in any way.

@ProJMFPWT14

9 ай бұрын

I've just experienced the exact same situation. Though my dumbass stayed in it for over 3 years. Kudos to you for knowing when to pull the plug. Staying any longer would have been detrimental to your mental health.

Once I came to realize this fully, I learned to take joy in disappointing her, because it is just a reminder for her who actually runs the show. To put it another way, women have actually evolved to feed on negative emotions as much as positive ones. So long as she FEELS something, she isn't bored. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference

It’s not love. It’s control. Love = Freedom.

Nailed it, this is why my marriage ended, I tried to give her everything she wanted within reason and gave everything I could give, when I realized it was never going to be enough and started reigning things in after 11 years, she became more vicious and manipulative than I had ever realized she was capable of. I told her no and stood my ground often, which kept he interested, and fueled my irritation at her lack of satisfaction with my efforts. Lesson, set the boundaries early, don't give more than is reasonable, it won't get you more love or respect, just misery and resentment.

@generallytso1077

11 ай бұрын

@@yezkex you’re obviously a woman. It would be the stupidest thing possible to sit down and have a conversation about how you “both” (meaning her) want to be loved. That’s literally sitting down to hear her list of demands. The whole point of the video is that you have to disappoint her - you’re willing to provide what you are willing to provide not whatever she wants. and she can deal with it if she wants to be with you.

@cazimim3375

11 ай бұрын

​@@yezkexLove is an attribute only I have

@rdg760jr2

10 ай бұрын

What if I set boundaries for her and she complains about them and I actually respect her boundaries, what should I do if get into an argument?

@cazimim3375

10 ай бұрын

@@rdg760jr2 No.. You leave.... Her... Forever... Hypocrisy like this is common and irredeemable

@cazimim3375

10 ай бұрын

@@rdg760jr2 No explanations needed ... don't be a weakling

I don't care what they want. I say No every 5 minutes. I've been with my wife for 9 years.

@DuncanL7979

11 ай бұрын

This. They will love your Daddy energy when you can see their best interests better than they can, and rationally yet firmly tell them no.

@climbinghenge6382

2 ай бұрын

Yeah right

@f1beg

Ай бұрын

@DuncanL7979 this 100%

This man is saving my life.

OMG! I've learnt so much from you - thanks. Keep up the good work.

Believe it or not this message makes me (and probably other men) less likely to pursue a relationship. Too many unpredictable, frivolous moving parts just to continue qualifying. F**k their wants, desires, & expectations.

@ironmind258

11 ай бұрын

see for me this changes everything, this is pretty much the key to the last relationship I had which was extremely painful for the reasons stated in the vid. Get back on the horse, just when they go to walk away, just don't follow them.

@Trax_travels

11 ай бұрын

Relationships are not worth it. I was a diehard, romantic, and a monogamist. Never again. I’ve learned too many hard lessons. Modern women have no role, they have no direction, and no boundaries slap that on top of being endlessly selfish and you have a recipe for disaster every time, they never take accountability and they don’t believe in self sacrifice. I just have fun with them now they’re basically just accessories at this point. And again this is coming from someone who was searching for the love of his life ever since he was old enough to know what that meant.

@pacha777

11 ай бұрын

@@Trax_travels same here. I was really a great man and really want to treat good my woman. But now I know they are basically never ever satisfy why should I lose my time, energy, money on someone who will never be satisfy…?

@CoreyB478

2 ай бұрын

Agreed

@nathanvaladares1079

2 ай бұрын

this attitude won't help you buddy. as humans, we've got the need to make relationships and to satisfy our romantic wants. you should just face the reality of human behavior as it is and live your life based on it

It's also through disappointment and conflict where you reveal a person's true colors and character.. You're not really learning anything about your partner when everything is sunshine and rainbows. One of the worst things you could do is marry a woman without walking through some fires with her.

Holy HELL. HOW HAVE I NOT STUMBLED ACROSS YOUR CHANNEL EARLIER?!

Pay attention to this Especially the young guys and the SIMPS!!! Very well put man You’ve earned a subscriber 👍🏻

Women want what they can't get, Women want what other women have

@fromgermany271

11 ай бұрын

A good plan if you like to be unhappy.

@macrick

11 ай бұрын

That's the same for everybody

@edheldude

11 ай бұрын

​@@macrickNo it isn't. Men overall aren't group thinkers even if there's comformists. Women want what other women want (especially men) since it secures the success of their offspring.

@anshulguptain

11 ай бұрын

​@@edheldudeMen are group thinkers too. Why do you think revolutions happen on a large scale ? The only thing is men can survive being a lonewolf while women can't.

@bushy9780

11 ай бұрын

@@anshulguptain yeah i think it's probably on a spectrum which is dependent on multiple factors. But generally speaking, it's safe to say women are more collectivist and conformist than men.

The only time my wife was 100% into me was when we were dating and she knew I had side pieces.

@andremotivation6561

11 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯 "the best type of relationship is when the woman is just a little insecure"- Patrice O'Neal. She knew she had to be on her pees and cues.

@KanyeKetchup

11 ай бұрын

Ooooo😮

@erko78

11 ай бұрын

Bro I swear to god I think all women are like this. Same thing thing with my wife, she was OBSESSED with me when I had 9s and 10s chasing me around. I was the better looking partner and she was more like a 7/8 on the looks scale. But I ended up choosing her instead of the 9s and 10s because I figured hey the less prettier one will be the least likely to be tempted to cheat. Well turns out she cheated anyway with an absolute loser coworker. It didn’t last for more than 1 month before she couldn’t stand him. Now she wants me back LOL! Women truly are atrocious decision makers. Yes some women are intelligent and not like this but the vast majority are.

@bigtreecombatacademy2927

10 ай бұрын

@@erko78 that’s my story and I may have been cheated on with some beta I blocked her man do the same

@BWater-yq3jx

9 ай бұрын

​@@erko78 You probably know by now that less attractive women are actually MORE likely to cheat, due to lower self-esteem and greater insecurity.

I genuinely enjoyed watching this.

Icame to the same conclusion when I started dating again after my divorce. It was the cause of my divorce and saw the same thing again and again in the women I was dating.

You're a genius. This is EXACTLY the mistake I made, and she acted/reacted EXACTLY like you describe. PS: This is the first time I've ever left a comment on KZread.

@alkebulanawah4242

11 ай бұрын

Wow

Really great advice! And beware of women that will simply not accept to be disappointed. They will hold onto it, and scowl at you for weeks, months, years, holding onto that thing so that they make sure you feel punished and never repeat that "offense" ever again. Run away from such women.

@gregmosier16

11 ай бұрын

Too late. But you’re absolutely right.

@CalinGilea

11 ай бұрын

This is women emotional aggression what you’re talking about.

@rejectwokeness1314

11 ай бұрын

That's like every woman. Yes all my exes, mum, and crazy female colleagues (which is almost every one who I've interacted enough) are like that

@davidjackson3592

11 ай бұрын

Or just treat them like a toddler.

@Q12FundMDesign

11 ай бұрын

How do I successfully detach from such a women especially if I see her at work every day

This is my favorite video of yours. I wish every single man could see this video before they start dating

Such a great way to level expectations AND having a balance in the giving and receiving!!

Damn, I knew this so well before I got married. 35 years later and I have all but forgotten about this truth. End result is, after loosing myself she is now gone, too. Smh.

@pacha777

11 ай бұрын

wow even after 35 long years..

@WingedOcean

7 ай бұрын

@@pacha777 It's really sad isn't it, the length really DOES NOT matter when it comes to Women. On the other hand, you have the Sunken Cost Fallacy. The thing is, you only get one life with a limited amount of time in it.

@isaiahj3968

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. 😞

Man you just described how my long time relationship ended, I was doing everything and changing who I was to become something that would bring her and closer, and the worst part when it all ended I couldn’t recognize myself anymore, thanks for sharing you knowledge. Greetings from Brazil.

@akosegri4134

11 ай бұрын

❤😢

@stsmile4901

11 ай бұрын

Hey bro just know you‘re not alone, been in the exact same boat as you. Still regret how i couldn‘t hold my own ground. greetings from Germany

@elijahaitaok8624

11 ай бұрын

Women ☕

@Vrunge90

11 ай бұрын

espero q as coisas ja tenham melhorado cara, tmj nessa

@joaomoreira7251

11 ай бұрын

@@Vrunge90 obrigado amigo, em momentos como esse aprendemos que somos mais fortes do que pensavamos, e saímos deles mais resilientes. Tamo junto!

Man this episode hits the nail right on the head. So true

Until I watched this video, I used to feel bad about constantly disappointing women. Now I know it's a feature, not a bug. Thanks so much!

There is a limit. When I get rejected too much my attraction declines.

@WofWca

11 ай бұрын

Well, that's what he meant by the spices analogy.

@WhiteWolfos

11 ай бұрын

Love yourself first. Work on yourself, build a body, have a nice car (maintain it). Learn new skills/hobbies. Women get attracted to men who are happy and stable.

@dasfx2895

9 ай бұрын

​@@WhiteWolfos happy and stable... Word 🤔😎

@Nukerunin

9 ай бұрын

It sounds like that's your perception of your attraction after repeated failings. Just remind yourself that's not how the world outside of your mind is viewing you. The world has no idea. But if you keep thinking that about yourself, you'll naturally give off that negative energy, and carry your body in a way that might tell them. Then they'll treat you accordingly (which is not a good thing). Take it all in stride, and keep trying. That's what I do. Success comes when you least expect it. Just maintain positive energy. Save the sulking and licking your wounds for when you're alone in private or hanging with your most trusted boys.

Disappointing a woman or standing up to her, letting her know what your boundaries are and enforcing them is a brilliant way of getting that woman out of your life for good so she can go and jump on a simp who'll never do any of that.

@Jadaks

10 ай бұрын

In my experience its the exact opposite. They never last with simps, only with men who respect themselves

@EE12CSVT

10 ай бұрын

@@Jadaks I've heard the same from other men, and I don't doubt your experience. It's that I've only once witnessed what you describe, in a marriage where he took several years to train her to behave properly. I used to know a married woman who admitted to me that it took her husband some time to also train her to behave properly. In the vast majority of the other marriages I've seen, it's clear she doesn't respect her husband, and I guess is only with him for utility, despite him breaking his back for her.

@Powerhaus88

9 ай бұрын

@@Jadaks They don't last with men who respect themselves either, they quickly realize that he won't bend, so they quickly monkey branch.

@TheMonkeygrunt

9 ай бұрын

​@Tom-A062 I would disagree with you there. Some woman won't last with men that respect themselves, but im those situations its best that it doesn't last because, to me, that means she isn't looking for a partner, she's looking for someone she can take advantage of. Every GOOD woman I've ever known greatly respects a man that respects himself and is confident in himself.

@EE12CSVT

9 ай бұрын

@@TheMonkeygrunt That's how single women used to behave. They don't any more. What I mainly see around me is women using men, and men seemingly happy to be her servant. I also see men who treat their women like sh1t, and that's also how to keep her around. Respect yourself and be confident in yourself is repulsive to women.

this is gold, thank you man!

This is spot on , say yes seldom and for reasonable things but , don’t make promises you can’t keep, just say No especially in outrageous demands with bad timing

I'm 50 years old, never married but have had my share of women in my lifetime. I've made this mistake before. I sure do wish this golden knowledge were around back in my day. No men ever dropped wisdom like this to me or anyone I know. Young men, take note of these videos! Learn from the mistakes of others. The worst mistake you can make is to believe that women think like men and that just because you would or wouldn't do something that they would or wouldn't. Every man I know has been cheated on and none of them saw it coming.

@404NotFoundIDontCare

11 ай бұрын

i’m 23, ty for your comment. i’m taking notes

@deadhouse3889

9 ай бұрын

I've been watching videos like this for a few years now and it occurred to me awhile back that women are screwed. You can't put this information back in the bottle. Men from every corner of the globe young and old have come together to crack the code. The internet isn't going away. Just think about what it's going to be like in one hundred years when every guy is well educated in female bullshit by the time they are 20. I honestly think we are watching the dynamics between men and women change forever in real time.

@melenico4512

7 ай бұрын

That is true I am 51 and men believe women are all sugar and spice. They ain't. Sure still good women out there but Vet them. Many are selfish because they have it too easy and dont work for it. They just rock up here I am 😆

@TheKCaryer

5 ай бұрын

Mid 50’s married one and divorced…wished I had this knowledge in my 20’s

@rgn87654

5 ай бұрын

We had this knowledge, but we ignored it. We wanted to hold onto that woman. I've done it. We all have. It's part of life. Oddly, I don't regret it. I had some good and bad memories.

As Coach Greg says, “They are not to be pleased!”

Really needed to hear this.

I’m ahead of my time, I’ve been disappointing all my life.

You should never Give anyone your all wether you’re male or female...also never ever let anyone try and change you

Nice guys who give her everything normally finish last. While some women will keep going back to the bad boys because they are addicted to the emotional rollercoaster of the highs and lows (i.e. disappointment). Do not be boring as this will not excite her and leave her feeling dead inside. Feminine love is consumptive so keep feeding her that spice.

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

Stop thinking in "nice" and "bad" - that's the first mistake. Be more nuanced. Think of what would make you compatible with the woman you desire and admire. Think of a few hundred positive aspects of a person and his habits which you can offer, and who would appreciate them? Don't give them for free to just anyone, but somebody deserving. It can be simple things, like; you can dance, give a creative compliment, and be polite around her grandma, but also deeper things, like your faith and values, your capacity achieve long term goals, keep promises, and learn new difficult things - or in between; you can handle a household, you can handle a Sunday afternoon, you can support your spouse when she is upset about work-trouble, you can handle a garden or house upgrade? Can you share a budget? Can you prioritize, both your, and her, and your common needs, for the long haul? Can you keep your spirit up and preserve good cheer in everyday and crises? Our do you risk to be the man that goes for a football match with buddies, when she risks to go into labor or a collapse under sleepless nights with a colicky baby?

@braneenie

11 ай бұрын

@@DNA350ppm This one sounds worried that men are waking up. Sure, a man can and should be helpful and fatherly in a family ... but he STILL must be be able to handle female nature.

@DNA350ppm

11 ай бұрын

@@braneenie Oh no, I love men waking up, men are so covertly oppressed! But not by women in the first place, but by the demands on men, that as a corollary has that men have a distorted view on women and what women are, want, and need. When men use women as part of the arsenal by which they impress on other men, then everything gets scewed in relationships.

@fightington

9 ай бұрын

@@DNA350ppm dude, not being rude, just blunt. this red pill masculine whatever you're into - you sound as a crazy as a crazy feminist. for real, (again, not being rude, believe or not) check in with yourself what is dogma from these yt ppl etc and what ideas, in your gut, and feel right. To you. now i've been burned more by women than anything so i know the feels but this is looking like you let it mess you up vs show you the pain that was there before you even knew what a girlfriend is, (IFS is the only therapy that works so try that first. all the modalities that you know suck, do actually suck, i've done it all, IFS is something special)

@Lamboolover

2 ай бұрын

I like good, that doesn't apply to everyone

This is the one of the best channel.

Wow. Love this. It's mostly all things I've heard and embraced along the way -- but NO ONE ever built the whole house the way Dr. Taraban laid it out here.

Long-term relationship ended because of giving too much love. 11 years. Learnt a hard lesson and now after 4 years it turns out this is a generic psychology. Weirdly accurate.

@marguskiis7711

7 ай бұрын

Lost 20 years of marriage because I refused to give up my dreams. She dumped me brutally and humiliating way.

@edbradley6815

6 ай бұрын

Same here, 15 yrs

@Ratclan

6 ай бұрын

Billions of humans on earth, patterns are nature. Therefore it is good sense to study the psychology of Human relations before entering into them seriously. As humans we are just as plants or animals, natural, instinctual, and human… running off emotions and Survival mechanisms ingrained for thousands of years.

@b.c.34

5 ай бұрын

​@@marguskiis7711if your dream is humane, then your ex is devil's incarnate...

“Women like to test how much they can get away with.” JUST LIKE CHILDREN.

@tyronevonchadley

11 ай бұрын

If you are a man, women will test you, children will test you, your dog will test you, even other men will test you.

@EE12CSVT

11 ай бұрын

That's because that's what they are

@andersnielsen6044

11 ай бұрын

And just like men..

@rogerm3708

11 ай бұрын

"I Want It Now! Veruca Salt 'Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory'

@MrBitterestTexas

11 ай бұрын

They mature to the point of 16 years of age.

Man. I needed this. Thanks.