Get a Prenup Before Getting Married! | YouTube Short
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Getting married is more than just thinking about the wedding day. Marriage is a binding financial contract that can make or break couples, and before you take your vows it's important to lay out where your finances stand.
Before you get married, you MUST get a prenup!
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If your fiancé starts freaking out over a pre nup. She never cared about you
@tttyn2237
Жыл бұрын
What about she want you to stay home take care of the kids and she go work and keep all the money? Would you still sign a prenup?
@anthonys439
Жыл бұрын
What did your wife say when you proposed a prenup?
@RealEstateBaby
Жыл бұрын
@@tttyn2237 Why not? If the prenup is setup right the stay at home parent gets taken care of in case of divorce. They should get half of everything for putting their career on hold.
@tttyn2237
Жыл бұрын
@@RealEstateBaby ??? Are you confused? Sign prenup is you agreed to get nothing from your spouse when divorce.
@RonnieMyers777
Жыл бұрын
Hotgirl summer retirement plan
Gonna get a prenup on my 20K of debt 😎
@pranavjayaprakasanut
10 ай бұрын
😂
@WallieTheRed
9 ай бұрын
Fucking hero 🙌
@universalsorrow
8 ай бұрын
you never know if the other person has 200k of student debt that’s also going to be your liability after signing the dotted line. prenups apply to both assets and liabilities
@brandonbernstein4181
8 ай бұрын
@@universalsorrow yeah well my comment has more likes than yours 🤪
@Dhuxul9
8 ай бұрын
This comment made my day 😂 thanks
If your spouse says no, you know you dodged a bullet because you were most likely going to be taken for a ride.
@a.c.8083
Жыл бұрын
Tbf prenups are pretty easily to by pass I think in court. But seeing their reaction would definitely give it away.
@jas7869
Жыл бұрын
You are the worse kind of person to marry you think you can buy everybody off that no one is sincere and that anyone who does not go along with whatever you want must be out to get you plus you think that because of your money you must be better than those who do not have as much. Nah I am not with it bye then I am just committed and not preparing for a divorce you will get with a woman who is uncommitted just like you.
@anthonys439
Жыл бұрын
Yeh not true at all, but when you get your first girlfriend you'll understand why.
@freddiet8639
Жыл бұрын
Haha you're so lost if someone asked me for a signiture for a relationship I would know you wasnt the one and know I've dodged a bullet! Women marrying for money is way to common. I would leave everything to the mother of my children if we broke up we don't need to sign on a peice of paper...
@liyanqil
Жыл бұрын
@@a.c.8083 umm no lol. A proper prenup can't be throw away. Usually is because the prenup was not properly done.
100% I lost so much money through a marriage I will never get married again nobody educated me on the topic until I’ve got screwed
@Tiltproof
Жыл бұрын
Well as a woman its smart to get married its easy Money. For a man its not good yeah
@alexanderg9770
Жыл бұрын
@@Tiltproof I think the gender doesnt matter, it is the wealthier psrtner who loses and the poorer who wins. Can also be a wealthy wife and a poorer husband…
@jas7869
Жыл бұрын
@@Tiltproof Easy money? That is so stupid it is not easy to get a man especially in this day and age that trust a woman enough to even be committed to her as long term boyfriend and then when it comes to engagement and marriage that is extra hard. They have guys like this guy who come on sites like this and do not tell the whole story then I assume men like you who have sexism and want to paint every woman as wanting a man's money each and everytime more than our men which we do not. We can make our own money and surpass our men but we cannot make sweet passionate love to our money regularly or go on vacation and enjoy all the couples events with it that is where husbands come in handy.
@faris5972
Жыл бұрын
@@jas7869 tell me why does Marriage matter if you love each other it will not make a difference I don’t know why women are so Obsessed with wanting to marry as fast as Possible I had 4 girlfriends and every one of them wanted to marry less than a year in our relationship I don’t understand why would they want to get married when we don’t even want to have children until we reach around 32 years old and me personally I wouldn’t marry because there isn’t any logical reason to get married
@xiyax6241
Жыл бұрын
@@jas7869 oh trust me there are dudes out there that will marry a chick in a fcking year. Yes that’s fcking stupid
*Kevin:* “Marriage? More like temporary Financial agreement”
@lonelylama5222
7 ай бұрын
That’s basically what it is these days lol
@Scapone2001
6 ай бұрын
50% of marriages are
@private3146
6 ай бұрын
It's like the safety on a gun, you're not gonna shoot yourself, but why not have a safety?
@danielaramburo7648
5 ай бұрын
Marriage is a business contract. You both join talents skills and finances to better your life and have a stable home for your children. And all business contracts need to have clauses for a possible failure of the merger.
Experienced divorce lawyer here (PA & NJ). I agree 100% with the message in this video. Make sure you get a prenup properly drafted and executed following the statutes in your jurisdiction. Excellent video!
Men: she didn't want a prenuptial . I dodged a bullet Women: he wanted me to get a prenuptial. I dodged a bullet
@henrycooper4213
Жыл бұрын
Don’t get the first line. What are you trying to say there?
@themainpoetrychannel1640
Жыл бұрын
@@henrycooper4213 the woman not wanting the prenuptial resulted in them not getting married. The man dodged a bullet
@melmardiamond
Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story, don't get married. It's a scam
@melmardiamond
Жыл бұрын
@@themainpoetrychannel1640 Men are happier in marriage than women. So who really won?
@Bublik46
Жыл бұрын
Nah. For women its easy. If she afraid that will waste time on men because he cheated in the end you can get an agreement that in case of men cheating she is obligated to same rules as if no prenuptial existed. thats it. So in the end if women still dont agree then she plans to to cheat 🤷♂️
People always skip the prenup because it's like saying I trust you completely and you're the one. Might as well get the name tattood on your chest too
@chrissaa8116
Жыл бұрын
😂😂 it’s tru
@JeromeProductions
Жыл бұрын
Yup
@Slopy811
Жыл бұрын
You have to go prenup 100%
@boxfightking1631
Жыл бұрын
@@Slopy811 yep
@ajx2956
Жыл бұрын
Yea
A prenup removes the incentive for divorce
@Johnny-xj5qu
Жыл бұрын
Maybe for the one with less money. For the one with more, it empowers them to bolt whenever they feel like it
@RedSpicyFeast1010
Жыл бұрын
I hear even prenup is unreliable as the judge can consider it illegitimate at any time
@shivanshpandey8457
Жыл бұрын
@@Johnny-xj5qu but they don't gain anything from it
@aminezouagui238
10 ай бұрын
@@Johnny-xj5qu i disagree , because a prenup doesn't means you'll leave the less financialy stable without anything , it's juste a discussion on how to separate things juste in case Most of fair prenups that have a traditionnel système (man provides and women stats home) they agree that if anything happens , the man will support her with x amount they agree about it for x amount of years and it's fair A famous divorce attorney Said that most of the couples that are able to have this conversation easly are always the ones that stays married without needing it
@wesleywashington1251
9 ай бұрын
@@Johnny-xj5quIt's not the men who are initiating the divorces these days. It's the women with less. So there's no worrying about the person with more "bolting off" for some reason. Men usually won't. A prenup just takes away the built-in reward a woman gets for filing for divorce. Thankfully.
People don’t want prenups because they want to screw you over when times get hard
@eduardocod8924
Жыл бұрын
Usually the men is the one
@Slopy811
Жыл бұрын
@@eduardocod8924 In what?
@freddiet8639
Жыл бұрын
No people don't want prenups because they don't want to be scammed by a gold digging whore. If there is no trust then their is no real love, if I women needs a signature get rid of her! I'm an honest man I would leave everything to the mother of my children.
@Bublik46
Жыл бұрын
Yeah so screw them
@arsonenjoyer6971
Жыл бұрын
@@eduardocod8924 source: my dad who owns Microsoft told me
Somebody in my family got married, had the prenup- their partner “didn’t understand what it was”, they threatened to divorce him 1 and a half year(s) into the marriage, they got divorced (they were cheating on him with 2 other dudes) & was absolutely livid that she didn’t get nothing from it, even threatened him saying that she’d get people to jump him & rob & 🔫 him, but that just ended up with a restraining order on the 🐶🐕.
@Drumcomedy
Жыл бұрын
That's what you call literal human garbage.
@user-ym2tl5zf9k
Жыл бұрын
W
@craerae
Жыл бұрын
To the streets. 🐕
@escfxp
Жыл бұрын
That 🐕 got what was coming to her. 🐕.
@samconstantinou2335
Жыл бұрын
Lmao this made my day
"I'm dying" This man: That's a bad financial decision 😂 💀💀💀
@lonelylama5222
7 ай бұрын
It is though lol
Kevin: I want a royalty on each kid produced 👍
I remember when marriage was just an agreement to be together until death
@dehn6581
Жыл бұрын
It's been a legal contract with legal responsibilities, benefits, and risks since longer than anyone has been alive.
@kathydelarosa1286
Жыл бұрын
It was never that way to begin with . It was also a contract for business
@off-roadingexplained8417
10 ай бұрын
Ya know...
@off-roadingexplained8417
10 ай бұрын
@@dehn6581you're being pedantic... thays not what they mean... they mean whem culture was different.
@omvilla7469
7 ай бұрын
I don't...🤔... I guess that's good.... for me... suddenly I don't feel that old...😂 But... how do you even get somebody to agree to a prenup without offending...?? This is a problem for this new generation...🙄😅
Ain't no way I'm ever getting married without a prenup.
@mukhtaarlandrum9453
7 ай бұрын
Why even get married especially as a Man U don’t GAIN anything
@romart03
7 ай бұрын
Maybe try getting married to someone who you actually love ? Prenup won’t even be a thought at that point, it’s marriage not a business deal
@hadesior7321
7 ай бұрын
You all treat marriage like a business 😮 wtf is wrong with you ? Why do you even bother getting Married if you don't trust your partner 10000% 🤔
@yuvi4270
7 ай бұрын
@@romart03but you are loving their present self maybe you wont love them after 15 years because you changed or they changed. Humans change and humans are complicated you can never know what is going to happen if there is human factor. So i believe it is beneficial to prenup
@JoaquinLucero22420
7 ай бұрын
@@romart03nah it’s not that simple. She may be the right one today and y’all may be in love NOW but anything can happen or change. Love changes and comes and goes faster than ANYTHING on earth so you can never be sure. Better safe than sorry
This is no joke. A guy working in deli in my neighborhood works almost 90 hrs 7 days a week just to pay childcare support for his ex wife. She took his house and now she’s asking more because she wants to send their kid to a private school. No wonder why he has to work that long hours everyday including all holidays. He still needs 6 more years to keep paying her until her daughter goes to college
@Iron_Duck
6 ай бұрын
That's sad and messed up. Almost defeats the purpose of marriage nowadays.
@tigerbojiteol
6 ай бұрын
@@Iron_Duck It's no joke brother. He now lives with his girlfriend and his step daughter but he said he will never ever sign those papers again.
Not getting a prenup is like not getting fire extinguisher for your home.
What I like about Kevin is that he's straight forward, even when it's painful to hear something, he still says it directly and clearly. I personally prefer such people over the sly and hypocrite ones. And now he is right again. People change. The strongest love can turn into the biggest hate. And then you'll want to have that prenup. Plus, if the partner really loves you, wants to be with you and is not just a gold digger, it will sign that immediately, and understand that everything is common just as long as the relationship exists. And that after that there should be no financial expectations; everyone leaves the relationship with what they had before.
A prenup is literally the only option a man has in modern times to prevent being financially finessed by a gold digger.
Don't get married. 15 years down the line the prenup will be dated and if she didn't agree to sign an updated postnup the court will invalidate the prenup and refuse it. Being in a world where a man is considered a second class citizen you bet it will always play against you
@phoenixrising441
Жыл бұрын
Amen brother. Prenups get thrown out of court every day
@melmardiamond
Жыл бұрын
Yeah women are happier without a spouse or children as well, so I see this as a win win situation 👍Marriage is a scam
@liyanqil
Жыл бұрын
Clearly you don't know what a prenup is.
@liyanqil
Жыл бұрын
@@phoenixrising441 crappy ones that didn't follow the law yes but a proper one is impossible to throw away.
@TakeHit0
Жыл бұрын
@@liyanqil clearly you havent seen legit prenups get thrown out like toilet paper
Words from. Sum1 who actually knws wat his talking about, I agree.. no kids? There is no point in getting married. 100%
Thanks for the laugh. My wife and I married at 17 and 20, 62 years ago. We’ve 4 children, 10 grandkids, 7 (to date) great-grands.
@newgal8474
Жыл бұрын
Praying for a relationship like this. Any advice?
@michael10613
8 ай бұрын
@@newgal8474 get into a timemachine and be born in 1950
@wotmate3719
6 ай бұрын
@@newgal8474As Hitchcock puts it: “The ideal husband understands every word his wife doesn't say.” 😉
@martinkim5831
6 ай бұрын
You are the exception, not the rule!
@duanelinstrom4292
6 ай бұрын
@@newgal8474I’ve no magic formula. Praying is a good start, but one must give feet to their prayers. Being best friends with my spouse, while at the same not being Siamese twins works for my wife and me.
And depending on your state, you don't have to GO get married. It's something that can just happen. Common Law Marriage is a thing in much of the United States.
@pincer2885
10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Depending on the state, if you live with someone long enough, you’re just considered married
Me and my wife were dirt poor when we got married. We rented a small apartment and literally had no appliances except for a small stove and small fridge. Now we are doing well and bought a house but looking back, we laugh at the thought of us going through all the notion of getting a prenup. We had nothing to protect 😅
@zitimotleyxxjmxx
Жыл бұрын
@prajna thanks. We have been together for 13 years. Went through some of the most difficult challenges life had to offer along the way like losing a baby. Unfortunately, people especially the young ones, think trust is such an expensive commodity these days. There are still good men and women out there and if you put in the love, patience and respect, you’ll find the happiness and security in your relationship you are looking for.
@hahaseab
Жыл бұрын
@@zitimotleyxxjmxx no prenup necessary if you have the same wealth
@randomperson7009
Жыл бұрын
@@hahaseab still one can be greedy to 2x her wealth. So it is absolutely necessary no matter what. Even if you're brookie still get it done!
@LIKEPHILanthropy
Жыл бұрын
Real marriage real love
@inheritance1097
Жыл бұрын
It's a backup plan. You never go into any situation with the hope or even thought that your initial plan fails, but the possibility exists. The fact that you know a possibility exists is completely, COMPLETELY rational. Anyone who talks all this crap about, "oo if you're considering a prenup don't get married anyway", mostly no couple that end up divorced are marrying just for shits and giggles, they love each other, but they end up getting divorced because of circumstances. In that situation, it's better to have your own legal precedent than to go with what the government provided. The divorce rate is 0.0027%. That's 750,000 divorces just in 2021. Out of the 750k, maybe 250k weren't completely sure regarding their marriage, but statistically 500k people were most likely head over heels for each other, YET THEY STILL GOT DIVORCED. A backup plan is a LOGICAL AND RATIONAL escape, it gives u a peace of mind in case shit hits the fan. I'm more concerned with the people that find a prenup offensive. "I love you but if the marriage doesn't work, we have a legal precedent of our own and we don't have to rely on the government". If they love their partner back then, the fact that a prenup agreement exists shouldn't make a difference, if they truly love them then they should have utmost faith that their marriage will work, and it'll be like the prenup doesn't even exist.
Best advice on internet honestly the best decision I’ve made getting a prenup!
@chefsito2464
Жыл бұрын
@@freddiet8639 wanna come and find out if I’m a women
Pro tip: right when your wife starts talking about divorce, quit your job and take a minimum wage fast food job. That way she has to pay you ☺️
@bishopslaughterx
10 ай бұрын
BROOOOOOOOOOOO🏆
@BeverleyMiller_
10 ай бұрын
Absolute truth in CA...
@pincer2885
10 ай бұрын
Court sees your prior income and sees that as a possible amount of money you can make, they’ll screw your over either way
@tibbar1000
9 ай бұрын
@@pincer2885sounds like you have been there. My ex wife’s lawyer explained that one to me.
@kojire
8 ай бұрын
@@pincer2885 man this world is unfair for us men
I am 42 and want to quit working. My wife has no intention to quit. She did not flinch at what I am doing in 68 days.
Pre nups commonly get thrown out benefit the woman.
@michaelvay8610
Жыл бұрын
Is that true? Any stats or links?
@TGMacro
Жыл бұрын
@@michaelvay8610 look it tf up
@sneezygibz6403
Жыл бұрын
@@michaelvay8610 my gf works at a lawfirm and every case one of the lawyer gets involving a prenup gets thrown out. I guess you can say you signed it when you were in distress.
@paullevy4656
Жыл бұрын
I would question that. A proper pre-nup. Legal advice on both sides. Not rushed, meaning well before marriage date. It’s like a contract. It would not affect child support by the way)) Not contract for that.
@michaelvay8610
Жыл бұрын
@@TGMacro Who was even asking you?
If a person is an adult, and legally responsible to take care of themselves, BEFORE the wedding, then they can sure as shit take care of themselves AFTER the marriage!
@LauraPeregrine
Жыл бұрын
What if the person with the lower financial status becomes disabled during the marriage or is caring for a disabled child? All eventualities need to be considered and treated fairly in any prenup.
@Johnny-xj5qu
Жыл бұрын
What if they have 4 kids, they decide together the mom will stay home, the dad will make the income…. But then when they’re grown dad wants a divorce? That’s a couple decades of not having any workplace experience or skill, the sacrifice made to stay home. Now she’s F’d
@tipigi3570
Жыл бұрын
@@Johnny-xj5qu Like everything in life, you need to plan ahead. For those couple of decades she could take 1 or 2 online classes each term and have a degree. They don't necessarily have to plan ahead for a divorce, but how about plan ahead in case that dad dies or gets disabled and can't provide anymore.
@thetruthfornow6045
6 ай бұрын
What if she decides to quit her job, get pregnant without your approval. Then you will be poor and stressed while your wife hits the gym and nail salon during the day.
@tipigi3570
6 ай бұрын
@@thetruthfornow6045 Then she's obviously a shitty wife and needs to go.
Prenups are great when people are entering a marriage with a lot of assets. When most people get married they are broke.
@user-vg8ox3he1i
5 ай бұрын
This makes no sense? If elon Musk has to give away half his fortune he is still rich. If a working man gives half his fortune away he is homeless.
It can also keep your spouse safe from possible debt. It's good for both parties
If only my family recognized this before arranging mine.
@arneshpalanisamy6352
Жыл бұрын
Prenups are not valid in India unfortunately. I mentioned this because still majority of Indian marriages are arranged.
@noname-yb3nh
Жыл бұрын
@@arneshpalanisamy6352 they should bring prenups in India
@arneshpalanisamy6352
Жыл бұрын
@@noname-yb3nh It is a political no-go. All these issues are a problem for top 10% of the population who have lifestyle similar or better than an average western counterpart. Significant portion of Indian households are not yet in the mindset "allowing" women to work or develope their career independently. In such a scenario it is not technically feasible for the society to allow a man to say I keep what I earn.
@awrjkf
Жыл бұрын
@@arneshpalanisamy6352 Yeah, still not an excuse. I am not giving my hard earned money & assets to someone upon divorce. I don't care what she does to earn a living after divorce to survive: office job, become a maid, cook, or beg for all I care, but not getting anything from me.
@arneshpalanisamy6352
Жыл бұрын
@@awrjkf unfortunately, It is not for you to decide. It is the rule of the land, i.e. Indian penal code to decide which says otherwise.
My wife and I got married young and broke. No prenup, nothing to protect lol. Still happily married best decision I ever made
@POLSKAdoBOJU
5 ай бұрын
You had nothing to protect....
@HamLover17
5 ай бұрын
@@POLSKAdoBOJU right I said that
@POLSKAdoBOJU
5 ай бұрын
@@HamLover17 so what exactly would you have prenupped?
@HamLover17
5 ай бұрын
@@POLSKAdoBOJU dude what's your deal lol. I just shared my experience, and I said in the OP I had nothing to prenup
Spot f-ing on!!! Mr. Wonderful for the win!
Yeah id say this is the best way. Take away any financial risk and see if the love is still there😂
Bro looks like the guy from shark tank
reasons to get married: 1) To get a different countries passport/ID 2) Thats about it
@pratyakshyt
Жыл бұрын
Bro what
@HispanicInches
Жыл бұрын
@@pratyakshyt I guess hes right
@vanarqwq3660
Жыл бұрын
@@pratyakshyt in India the rules are turning against man after divorce your finances are destroyed and your stuck paying monthly money to your wife and half of your wealth including property and other shit goes to her and many other things
@pratyakshyt
Жыл бұрын
@@vanarqwq3660 same in USA
@barbaraseiler9750
Жыл бұрын
@@vanarqwq3660 yes of course, as the wife did not earn her own money, build her own career, in this time.
It is same in India as well A woman I knew who was married and had a 2 year old kid she divorce her husband and he was working really hard he used to travel Delhi to Pune constantly because of his job and after the divorce she got 65% of his money and a second bungalow as well and with monthly money from him.
I heard the u.s has the highest divorce rate in the entire world
ive always said ill get a pre nup, i usually casually mention a pre nup when im like a year or two into a relationship. just uncountable stories aboht the male losing everything, and i’m just gonna take that out of the equation. if the woman is more successful than i am, ill still be for the pre nup as i wouldnt want to take that away from her either.
@ajx2956
Жыл бұрын
Now that’s I’m talking about.
@sultanmatteen47
Жыл бұрын
Tf is a prenup bro
@gabelincoln3608
Жыл бұрын
@@sultanmatteen47 bruh wtf
@sultanmatteen47
Жыл бұрын
@@gabelincoln3608 genuine question
@gabelincoln3608
Жыл бұрын
@@sultanmatteen47 It means all your assets before marriage stay with you and don’t go in the divorce
Not all prenups are equal. Make sure the no fault divorce provisions aren't going to worsen the living situation of the other within reason.
This prove that I can marry after 2 hundred years 🤣😂
Japan,Italy,Korea following his advise Now there population declining😂😂😂
@arifbagusprakoso2308
7 ай бұрын
I believe the main reason for that is actually due to the law that prefere elder than younger. The younger people get less help to the point can no longer have kid (financially).
Do not sign any contract that you did not negotiate the terms of. Pre ups are for the protection of BOTH people.
Ok i will not bye. 👋 🤣🤣
I know a guy who got out of a marriage and he lived happily ever after!
😂😂😂love it as they say on shark tank I’m out 😂😂
Haha. I was 22 and had nothing. She was 22 and had nothing. Then we got married. What’s mine is hers and hers mine. We have one life together.
@ozymandias8523
Жыл бұрын
Yeah not every love story ends the same after some years, boy.
@hwatkinsgolf1462
Жыл бұрын
Same for me. Married at 19 with nothing. She’s my best friend!
@tiredman99
Жыл бұрын
Won't be saying that when she is absolutely raking you over the coals in divorce court for alimony, child support, half the house, etc
@CyclingMartialartswithMusic
Жыл бұрын
Your case must be one in a million, wish you the best. BUT things might change when Steve from accounting and Kevin from sales show up or her friends knows a Chad or Tyrone.
@newgal8474
Жыл бұрын
Where do I find a man’s like u 🥺🥺🥺
Best advice you’ve given
I always told myself that I will only marry with a prenup. Otherwise, never.
Kevin, If I listen to you, I’ll be single for rest of my life! 😂
Don’t get a divorce. Work your problems out. Problem solved 😉
@awrjkf
Жыл бұрын
80% of the divorces are initiated by women. And when a woman has mentally checked out, there is no stopping her. So you can't "work your problems out" with a woman. More often then not, she probably already started fucking someone else.
My 9 yr old daughter asked me what a prenuptial agreement was?? I told her it,s the divorce agreement before the wedding 😮!!!lol😅
I believe marriage should be a sacred institution between two reluctant teenagers.
Thanks, Kev. I'll keep that in mind.
It's actually a legit thing to do, because who you are when you're together, doesn't mean that's who you'll always be. People grow, & that usually means, they grow apart. OR if you marry a narcissist, the truth comes out AFTER the love bombing, so you have to pay attention. Like the person you thought you started with, isn't going to necessarily be the same person a year later; whether that has to do with ulterior motives, or just life changing us.
@christianlloyddimatulac2097
Жыл бұрын
This is western culture i dont really understand, why get married if you are thinking that youll get divorce in the future... Thats the mindset.. Well majority of people in western country will always ending up divorce bcoz they dont take marriage seriously...
@vanarqwq3660
Жыл бұрын
Of course it this is written by women
@ShittyMcPoopyBalls
10 ай бұрын
@@christianlloyddimatulac2097I didn’t realize people in Eastern cultures can predict the future 😂😂😂😂
@chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220
10 ай бұрын
So basically women get bored so we have to destroy society
bro got tunnel visioned💀
O’Leary 😂
Marriage is about giving yourself, not giving your stuff. The stuff is unnecessary.
@mo.sharif1
Жыл бұрын
Wtf that’s the realest shit I’ve ever heard
@TakeHit0
Жыл бұрын
Then sign the prenup 🤷🏻♂️
@dustinmalpass
Жыл бұрын
@@TakeHit0 yes
I've been married for almost 20 years no kids no prenup no worries.
@PWCDN
Жыл бұрын
no kids no problem.
@bigmike4133
Жыл бұрын
@@PWCDN yeah not having kids was the best decision the wifey and I ever made.
@tommcfadden5232
Жыл бұрын
Me too! Then 25th anniversary came. Hope yours turns out better or you’ll wish for the latter.
@bigmike4133
Жыл бұрын
@pointoftranquility fair enough
The percentage of men losing financial assests in a divorce is very high,I d say pre nup is a must.
This video is for people with the American mentality. You will never see this with Muslims. We encourage getting married earlier to avoid unwanted pregnancies and unlawful sex. In Islam you can only have sex with your wife. Also some of you might think “OMG! Your religion is so violent and strict” but if you really ask yourself. The people will be given a warning first, but if they repeat, then this happens and the reason for that is so they won’t do it again. But if the people don’t get punished for the wrong actions, they will not feel guilty about what they did and they will keep going with that sin. Look at our society today without Islam, there’s chaos everywhere, except for those who are rightly guided.
Step 1. Have respect for marriage, learn about its great meaning and history. Step 2. Wait until you are mature. Until you know yourself and your partner well. Guarantee you are compatible. Also Give them unknowing test, within reason that will not be harmful, to reveal their character. Trust is most important. Step 3. Research every possible topic you can for-see needing discussion. Negotiate and come to agreements before marriage. Implement change into current relationship. Make sure you can grow together and learn how to be the best person for them at their best and worst. Step 4. Love your partner fully, nurture, listen to, support and respect them. Pick them up when they fall, build them up and never tear them down. Step 5. Get married and grow old together by always trying, always going the extra mile. If there’s a will there’s a way and remember it takes two to tango.
@JohnWickstyle
Жыл бұрын
Step 6.stay single and enjoy life
No chance that I will get married again
People who follow basically any religion: 👁️👄👁️
Traditional marriage is a religious custom for folks who have strong religious belief and livious a celibate life prior to marriage. Supposed to last till one of them dies, in health and sickness, wealthy and poverty, etc. The world has changed… everybody on Tinder doing hookups. They don’t even remember the names. I have heard some folks having 500-1,000 different hookups before 30 years. That is a lot of physical and mental mileage - wear and tear. Not able to keep commitment. Marriage has become a legal trap for a life of indentured servitude.
@houta2773
Жыл бұрын
It's fucked up man..
This man is the reason I am still single 😂
1000 she said, why a pre nup my mother won't go for that. Game over.
Don’t get married until you are over 30 and don’t have kids until you have ur own place or can easily afford rent
Sometimes love is more important than money; so choose your spouse and friends wisely.
@webber7300
Жыл бұрын
this statement has never been truth and it is just a complete bullshit from Disney. Want love? Get a dog.
@troletrain
Жыл бұрын
Love doesn't pay the bills.
@noriakikakyoin1423
Жыл бұрын
@@troletrain Money doesn't get you love and happiness
@980616
Жыл бұрын
Agreed but priorities matter. You pay your bills to maintain a home. I guess you can keep paying bills being alone. But happiness and contentment matters
@Scrub_Lord-en7cq
Жыл бұрын
I’d rather buy a gun if America is self advertising marriage as a money business type of thing
this had a very “better call saul!!🙂” vibe
Prenup isn't legal in India 💀💀💀💀
Can we talk about your marriage with FTX 😂
U can't trust these woman
What he says is 100% true, The only thing I agree with Kevin. To add to that never have a child with the wrong person. It’s a fucking liability. Even if u have 50% care you still pay child support. Two biggest mistakes took a huge hit in my growth and net worth 😢
“HALF” - in Eddie Murphy voice
I married without a prenup, no problems because I already knew neither one of us are that petty about money lol.
@6z0
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, until she is. Then youre left with nothing
@thomasbaker9703
Жыл бұрын
@@6z0 nope, neither one of us came in with money, neither one of us cares that much about money, and we just make enough to support our kids and live comfortably and be happy. Besides, we met as kids and fell for each other then and we dated for a long time so a prenup to us is just laughable
@6z0
Жыл бұрын
@@thomasbaker9703 You never know dude. Millions and millions of guys have stories exactly like yours except their woman ended up leaving after a long time and taking everything. Im just tellin you to be careful.
@thomasbaker9703
Жыл бұрын
@@6z0 a prenup is only good if you had assets prior to being married.
@6z0
Жыл бұрын
@@thomasbaker9703 which pretty much everyone has lol… it may not be a lot but then its literally all you got
Get married if you want to don’t let someone tell you how to love and spend your money learn from your mistakes marriage isn’t one
@user-up4zi1do6p
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a woman.
@phil1973
Жыл бұрын
@@user-up4zi1do6p and you sound like someone who can’t get a woman
Typical attorney, …ambulance and wedding chasers.
This is one of the best truth I heard today. Very good advice.
Prenup ? Kevin not everything is about money
Good Kevin expose these gold diggers. 👌 I almost got married to one. The minute they can't live hoe they dream they will dump you. Kevin is right about prenups bringing out the truth from both parties.
And then the prenup gets tossed out during the divorce. Just don't get married folks
@brianjohnson1172
Жыл бұрын
not that simple;
@user-vg8ox3he1i
5 ай бұрын
Nope
My BitLife skills have taught me when to get a prenup.
Bros been through divorces😂😂
Bruh in the beginning it sounds like he wants you to marry someone else😂
If you want a prenup then you weren't fully committing
Kevin: no royalties?
Mr. Wonderful is giving you the most important advice, you guys!
I’m nowhere near getting married or even really plan to at any point but how would you really bring it up without it just sounding like you don’t trust them enough, just curious cuz I’ve actually been thinking about the part where you have to talk about that
@8Maduce50
Жыл бұрын
State it in the beginning of the relationship that if it gets that serious then you expect to work out a prenup. Plus you could say " I trust 100% that is why I'm will to grant you a say in it because we are in love now and want what's best for eachother..how would that be possible if it comes to a divorce?,"
@kathydelarosa1286
Жыл бұрын
It honestly depends on the relationship. If you’re at a point where you can casually ask a question without judgement, then ask. If you know your partner will judge you then that’s already your answer and you shouldn’t get married to that person
@Countcho
Жыл бұрын
If you want to marry a woman, then you should already be pretty comfortable speaking to her
I keep my Money and my nerves to myself until im biting in the Gras. Woman aint worth it.
@alibozar9634
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯💯💯
@MathiasMaximus
Жыл бұрын
That's a shitty way to live bro
@nextbigthing2917
Жыл бұрын
@@MathiasMaximusHe's probably living his best life rn with no chances of a partner finessing him so thats a W.
@MathiasMaximus
Жыл бұрын
@@nextbigthing2917 how can you live your best life without love?
@nextbigthing2917
Жыл бұрын
@@MathiasMaximus Theres love outside a relationship.
In my marriage contract, no one is allowed to leave until another dies
If you're married with kids you know he's right....
This is so based No kids? No marriage
Some rich people are so out of touch with reality it's actually sad
@mushroompeople1
Жыл бұрын
You are a bot account.
Why did I have a marriage video right before this one wtf 😂 2 in a row
Welcome to Palm Beach Florida ! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Half of the condo there is yours honey bun .. or she will never be the Mrs ......... At the beach club .. What goes around comes around 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Absolute TRUTH !
in my humble opinion if the thought of prenup comes to your mind before choosing your partner then that person is never meant to be your partner
@dom7015
Жыл бұрын
In my humble opinion if they have an issue with signing a prenup then you dodged a bullet with that person.
@anthonys439
Жыл бұрын
@@dom7015 in my humble opinion if you are even considering asking your partner to sign a prenup then you're clearly not secure in your relationship and need to move on.
@joshminick8428
Жыл бұрын
@@anthonys439 plenty of insecure relationships maybe try moving forward instead of back. I've been there and worked things out.
@anthonys439
Жыл бұрын
@@joshminick8428 that's awesome mate, so how did your wife take it when you asked her to sign the prenup?
@Daddyvader7
Жыл бұрын
@@anthonys439 Woah. You got it all wrong. It’s never the first thing that comes to mind for anyone perosn I consider dating or marrying. It’s simply just to secure both sides and avoid getting screwed over. I’m sorry but your comment is placed in a very arrogant and emotional narrative. Your basically saying let’s wing it, get married and if worse case scenario it doesn’t work out, that person now gets to screw you over, be wise with your time and money. An ignorant person would take your advice and run with it and end up destroyed afterward financially. It’s not out of not trusting them, of course I’m going to trust them. It’s not about trust. It’s about protection of wealth on Both sides. It’s better to be safe then sorry. One can be secure with themselves and a relationship and want a prenup, because the cautious and wise will always win when it comes to these sort of cases, the foolish will let love blind them, and things do go south, due to both sides messing up, you’ll be thankful you have a prenup. Cause you can say what you will, but people cheat, get divorces and etc. and it’s no fault of your own. People show their true colors no matter how you set it up. If you really feel you know them Great, don’t get a prenup, but it’s a good safety net either way, and why not use all the tools in your tool belt because you come first at the end of the day
In Germany you save taxes with a marriage 😅