poor ben needs help, he can't even have his own kids over

@teddylark2357

2 жыл бұрын

that was sad..Gonna to effect his future relationship with them for sure

@haskao77

2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering, is there treatment for OCD?

@Nancy-lc8jw

2 жыл бұрын

@@haskao77 yes cbt and exposure therapy

@haskao77

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nancy-lc8jw Thank you.

@ducklife5497

2 жыл бұрын

They need to try Faster EFT As well.I am nowhere near ocd but I also dont like mess and untidyness everywhere, and to be honest I have a 3 yr old and her constant mess depresses me, but I let her do it and clean when she sleeps. Then she goes to her dad on weekends and for 2 days I can live in peace and calm until she comes home and the mess starts again. And im not ocd everything is not on its place like a showroom. So I do feel for this guy. Its really not a good feeling

Omg Ben has a real issue. You have kids room and can't have the kids in it. You have a bed but is on the ground sleeping.

@anne-mariebiorci5453

2 жыл бұрын

Life is too short to loose your children over your situation.

@pivinne5536

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that’s what OCD is. It’s not just “haha I gotta organise.” It’s “if I don’t organise these cushions 14 times right now everyone I know and love will die in a fire”. That’s the compulsive part.

@bogifabian2811

2 жыл бұрын

This is why ocd is a mental illness hun

@pennypillow4445

2 жыл бұрын

i cant believe he spends all that time making the bed and he doesnt even sleep in it lol

@autobotdiva9268

2 жыл бұрын

his own kids.

The two brothers are not "boys", they're adults and should be well aware of the fact that living in such conditions is unacceptable. It lets you assume their personal hygiene is exactly on the same level. Yuck

@Katyus14

2 жыл бұрын

Can you imagine how many of these kind of people out there and we quite possibly travel with them on public transport etc. 😀 this bad examples makes you germophobe even if you were not one before 😀

@margasa7

2 жыл бұрын

Haha I read some of the comments and it seems to me it's possible that those who judge the filthy turn into OCDs, and those who recognize some OCD in themselves go towards "filthy". Funny.

@jadepriceholmes681

2 жыл бұрын

What would girls think if they were to go there?

@potocatepetl

2 жыл бұрын

@@margasa7 There are limits to everything. They are disgusting. Anyone living in an acceptable looking house will see that house as disgusting. Their "normal" mother was distraught and started crying, any normal person would react like that.

@BizarreAsmrRelaxation

2 жыл бұрын

Actually they are boys 🤣 in an adult body. Men don't disrespect their mother like that.

After watching quite a lot of these I have to say Ben is one of the most respectful of the cleaners

@melissahoneybee8493

2 жыл бұрын

Well yes, but he also didn’t have to deal with true squalor like many of the others.

@nunyabizniz1983

2 жыл бұрын

He still needs to deal with the issues he has around untidiness around hes own children tho I hope hes had help since so hes children and him can enjoy time together ❤ the fact hes children have a bedroom but can't stay made my heart break a little xx

@fufurabumbacka

Жыл бұрын

He is so sweet...

@acedostres

Жыл бұрын

And Jade, from the previous ep.

@elliejackson8706

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

Those two brothers are a lost cause. Throwing darts into the wall? The filthy bathroom? The piles of cigarettes? No respect for themselves or their mum or anyone who comes to visit. Disgusting.

@ChillTheChilli

10 ай бұрын

They dont even take care of the dog. Look at its nails, poor thing.

@francishandscomb8108

10 ай бұрын

Probably don’t have a girlfriend

@janhodgson1740

2 ай бұрын

They are devaluing that property those boys.. what on earth is that mother thinking of.. her property will be destroyed 😢

Lesley and Tuesday feed each other's obsession.

@michaellennon13

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Was about to mention this 🤣 In a way, I strongly feel Tuesday's mother encourage her to be more obsessive.

@itsacarolbthing5221

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaellennon13 co-dependency. This was about ten years ago. I wonder what they're like now?

@michaellennon13

2 жыл бұрын

@@itsacarolbthing5221 let's pray they're less stressed about everything, and that they didn't freak out with Covid

@itsacarolbthing5221

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaellennon13 absolutely!

@Draegn

2 жыл бұрын

@@itsacarolbthing5221 This show is ten years old?

I died when he say ‘hi I’m Ben’ and she said ‘hi I’m Jerry. Because it’s like the ice cream😂.

So we're not going to talk about the face that she uses the same vacuum to clean the toaster AND the outside?

@samanthahartles5701

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same 😂 that’s not really ocd to me. It’s a bit like using your kitchen mop to clean the toilet floor 🤮

@tumainitiger4655

2 жыл бұрын

@@samanthahartles5701 you have more than one mop? Ya know floor cleaner kills the germs right lol

@tricia4479

2 жыл бұрын

Gross ! I could never do that.

@cowsgomiaow

2 жыл бұрын

She might have switched attachments off-screen? I sure hope she has one that is for only outside cleaning.

@Leo9z

2 жыл бұрын

@@samanthahartles5701 Do you live in Tesco that you have 3 different coloured mops for different things? xD

The scene with Jerry and Ben fussing about the bedding creases was really wholesome. Jerry has no understanding whatsoever about Ben's ocd but still helped him in such a simple effective way, it was really cute

@peachblossom13

2 жыл бұрын

Gerri is her name

Ben is lovely. I hope he can get the help he needs to overcome his OCD.

The sons lack of respect for there mum and her property is discussing i would have told them to clean it or get out

@nfspbarrister5681

2 жыл бұрын

If those are my mum, she will gave good beating first, then kick me out if i were to let her house ruins.

@BizarreAsmrRelaxation

2 жыл бұрын

It's disgusting. Not discussing.

@krystallify

2 жыл бұрын

I stayed at my grandparents for a year. They told me if my bed wasn't made and the room weren't clean I couldn't stay. I respect them so much and love them to bits, it was easy for me - should be easy for them too.

@larrystylinson9128

2 жыл бұрын

@@krystallify it is easy but also don't say stuff like "if I can do it they can too" bc you never know what people are goug through. But in this case the boys are just...well not well behaved.

@mikasa1104

3 ай бұрын

That's what I was thinking.. I would be ashamed as a mother.. This also shows that she couldn't teach her 2 sons how to properly clean the house and (probably) their own personal hygiene too..

Andy and mikk stopped doing dishes as they *ran out of washing up liquid* Wtf can't they just buy more lmao 😂

@moneypleasebeup3324

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@werebilbyj4449

2 жыл бұрын

No. Because mum didn't buy it for them. *sigh*

@themamabearlife3339

2 жыл бұрын

They need man classes, lol! Time to grow up!

@SarahTheShrink

2 жыл бұрын

Buy more? Isn’t that effort?

@zoecummings8293

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder what happens when the toilet roll runs out 🤢🤮

Laziness is real with these two boys!

@10000bonus

2 жыл бұрын

probably by the sounds of it the amount of gear they have smoked

@Katyus14

2 жыл бұрын

They are so rude and disrespectful. I would give them a few strong words.... disgusting people. Poor mum did not do a very good job with this 2 useless piece of ......

@jetnight88

2 жыл бұрын

@@Katyus14 how are they disrespectful? They just like playing jokes

@jetnight88

2 жыл бұрын

@@Katyus14 and I don’t think they are disgusting people just need to talk to them about the dangers of it

@amandajennings6310

2 жыл бұрын

I’m from Coventry and most of the youth and some young adults have the same attitude to cleanliness. I’ve been in a lot of dirty cov houses in my day 🥲

There's something seriously wrong if you can't have your own kids overnight in case they disturb anything. Very sad.

@britt1805

2 жыл бұрын

Makes me worry if he would explode with anger and hurt the children. He seems aware and doesn't even want to risk it, sad

@laurensplants2224

2 жыл бұрын

@@britt1805 that’s a really low thing to assume about someone from a short video. He has severe anxiety about the creasing, not about his kids.

@laurahoogsteden6542

2 жыл бұрын

@@britt1805 it has nothing to do with anger love, it's about anxiety, stress and fear to a point of panic attacks. X

@larrystylinson9128

2 жыл бұрын

Yea ocd is a mental illness...that's what's "wrong" with him

@op3488

2 жыл бұрын

@@britt1805 Wow! You are very uneducated.

So sad he can't have his own children in his home.😢

@jb6712

2 жыл бұрын

You do realize this episode is from 2010 or 11, yes? I don't recall if he ever really was comfortable having his children sleep over, but now they're both young adults, or at least in their late teens, and likely don't want to sleep over, or at least not in the same room.

@RB-sm3eu

2 жыл бұрын

Very sad for everyone 😿

@joyskiies9709

Жыл бұрын

@@jb6712 the show started in 2013 💀

I just loved Sarah! She did not mince her words, was honest about the mess, roped the brothers in to clean, sent the boy off to pee in the yard, said she would have thrown the boys out of the house if she was their mom (exactly my sentiment, tough love! Way to go, Sarah!

I love Jerri so much. She's so colorful, creative, and kind. Her messiness is not disgusting and lazy like the others. She wanted to give back to the world, and utlitize her creativity and kindness.

@johannas.l.brushane2518

2 жыл бұрын

She was kind of receptive when he pointed out the benefit of clearing up sho she could carry out her projects and finish them instead of hoarding up stuff. She was a bit emotional needing the walk because he was right, and kind about it.

@werebilbyj4449

2 жыл бұрын

I think her problem is like mine. You have all these awesome ideas for things just not enough space in your house for them to be completed. Especially in the UK where living space is so small.

@slothdance2020

2 жыл бұрын

It can be so hard being Environmentally conscious and creative. I have bins of fabric to upcycle. I totally get her. but I also keep it contained and I donate or recycle what I can.

@amie3229

2 жыл бұрын

@ Rikki- Jade Sixx I agree totally with you I hate people like this the laziness is unreal and I just want to scream at them

@angeldsouza777

2 жыл бұрын

@Rikki Sixx yep, nice, creative lady but come tf on - 'There's absolutely no joy in cleaning...' 🙄 Sounds like an 8 year old - is there 'joy' in paying bills? Going to the doctors? Wiping your a*se? No. *But some things just have to be done.* How can you get to your 50s & not get this?! 🤔

He can't sleep in his bed for not messing it, and hoarders sometimes have their beds full of stuff and cant sleep in their beds 😮

@tomspyro5795

2 жыл бұрын

And it might be that hoarders have an obsessive compulsion to keep their things

I know they have ocd and it’s a terrible affliction but I feel that the mother daughter duo is a very difficult combo - the mother often seems to make the daughter even more stressed and it’s hard to watch! I know for some it’s untreatable and it’s possibly being hammed up for the cameras but (in my opinion) the mother has a responsibility to utilise therapy or medication to help herself and as a result support her daughter? Regardless I love these shows 😂

@bigb853

2 жыл бұрын

They are extremely co dependent and the Mum wants to keep her by her side.

@sammihawe9836

2 жыл бұрын

@@bigb853 absolutely agree 👍

@marcellawison01

2 жыл бұрын

I can't stand the pair of them, they give me anxiety

@wellcricket2217

2 жыл бұрын

They do utilise therapy. Lesley said in another episode they have been to CBT therapy sessions, which had failed. They then said they were upset by the wait in between trying to see a therapist for more sessions. Lesley said she had to wait 32 weeks then another 42 weeks to see one. Lesley also admits that she feels responsible for Tuesday having OCD and felt really upset and blames herself. They are both seeking help to the best of their ability. Some people blame Lesley for Tuesdays illness, but Lesley fell ill herself and has tried everything to get rid of it

@michellefranklin3479

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely, I thought the same thing, the mother is definitely aggravating the whole situation no end. Perhaps even growing up in that environment could have had adverse effects on the daughter as well.

They’re obsessed with cleaning, I’m obsessed with these videos 😅

Andy and Mikk are just immature children. Mom should be pretty embarrassed that she perpetuates that behavior.

@myoldvhstapes

2 жыл бұрын

Their frat boy lifestyle was just gross.

@gillianbrookwell1678

2 жыл бұрын

They are disrespectful, rude, arrogant, and they live and act like slobs.

@larrystylinson9128

2 жыл бұрын

Yea I feel sorry for the mom...those sons are horrible...

Those 2 boys seem almost proud of the disgusting state of their house while they were showing her around 🤮

The mum of the frat boys only saw two options: Let them stay or make them homeless on the street. But I saw grown men who could work to support themselves. If they were kicked out of that house, they would quickly have to figure out a way to pay rent elsewhere.

@nicoleroth3127

2 жыл бұрын

She's supporting their lazyniess now and has likely done so all their lifes, so I'm not sure I feel sorry for her. Clearly they never had to take any responsibility for their actions or needed to help around the house or anything really. Not even respect for someone else's property has been internalised. I guess with so little respect, a complete lack of responsibility and so much lazyness between the two of them, chances are that the mother feared that if she doesen't let them live there, they'd become criminals in order to support themselves.

@ES11777

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicoleroth3127 These boys in adult bodies are so pathetic. That mother failed as a mother.

17:55 "It's probably the worst toilet I've seen in my life" Clearly she's not subscribed to Filth..

@caterinadelgalles8783

2 жыл бұрын

ha ha!

@bell6012

Жыл бұрын

😂

@Emsev100

Жыл бұрын

True but I think she meant irl. 🤔

Just last week in the US a hoarder whose clutter infiltrated his entire home and surrounding yard caught fire and because of what he had in the home caused several explosions and resulted in his death and the destruction of almost an entire city block. It is so sad. As a footnote, I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to have as clean a home as some of these obsessive cleaners. lol

@pumpkinseeds768

2 жыл бұрын

OMG! 😱

@Sophia-he8uk

2 жыл бұрын

where was this?

@ES11777

2 жыл бұрын

Then get on with it! Your house isn’t gonna clean itself :)

I felt sick with her using the vacuum on the work surface and toaster. That is just nasty!

@talithat423

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! Funny how a lot of these people are ocd diagnosed and in wear their shoes in their houses, I’m not ocd diagnosed but people must remove their shoes in my house

@tanyagarner9015

2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering about that too she used the vacuum on the floor and the toaster then to the deck?

@angeldsouza777

2 жыл бұрын

This 🤢 If she had a little handheld especially for the counter, maybe. But the floor vacuum on the toaster??!

Can you imagine all these OCD people now during the pandemic . They were probably the ones who bought all the anti-bacterial stuff in the supermarkets and left the shelves empty 😂

The illogic is baffling. If you use your toilet you can't contaminate it with germ you don't already have. Instead you keep your toilet spotless and rather have your boyfriend use a public toilet from where he could bring home new germs.

@laurahoogsteden6542

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah its more about the obsessive thoughts rather than logical reasoning

@misszangz499

2 жыл бұрын

Nothing to do with logic. It’s a mental illness.

@fawnieee

Жыл бұрын

@@laurahoogsteden6542 exactly lol. These people are mentally ill, they're not behaving logically.

Ben is such a sweet and kind person, I hope he found some help and is enjoying his children now, he'd be such a lovely dad. Honestly I think the boys laughing was more embarrassment, deep down they were upset at themselves for upsetting their mum.

I understand if people haven't been able to keep their house clean after a loved one died, but just throwing darts a the wall? Absolutely l no reason for that what so ever, so disrespectful. If they were my kids I would give them a week to clean everything or else they can leave.

The level of disrespect those two boys have for their mothers house kinda shows how little respect they have for her....

Ben is such a sweetheart

19:08 the lads dont look after the dog properly too, look at its long nails its pretty much never been walked and honestly theyre in no shape to look after another living thing if they lived like that :/

@EllaBeth30

2 жыл бұрын

Dokladnie to samo pomyslalam patrzac na psa! Te pazury wskazuja na zaniedbanie zwierzecia. Powinno sie im odebrac tego pieska!

@japcarfan

2 жыл бұрын

The dog looked very depressed and bored 😴😐

@paola2144

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could report them for animal abuse

@ES11777

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. If they can’t even take care of themselves and their home - they shouldn’t own a dog who is another living being who needs care which he clearly doesn’t get from them. So sad.

i believe Lesley has ruined Tuesday's life, by putting the fear and obsession into her life.

@louisedavis6821

Жыл бұрын

I agree. They all have different things that they can't bear but that mother is giving Tuesday all of her fears too so she's ending up with double the amount of fears. She also points things out like ' Tuesday I can't believe you're touching that ' instantly making her doubt it when she was fine before mother said anything!

@maevedarcy

9 ай бұрын

ruined it from the start with that name

If they were my sons, and they left my house in that state - I’d be furious!!! I’d feel like I’d failed as a mother 😱

@GoGoNYELA

2 жыл бұрын

The way they are just trashing the house is a disgrace.

@GradKat

2 жыл бұрын

Sons or not, I’d kick them out. They need to grow up and take responsibility, and they’re never going to do that while they’re in their mum’s property.

@debbiemohekey1509

2 жыл бұрын

@@GradKat I'd walk straight out if I were that young women sent to those boys house. They don't want to learn. They just want someone to clean up their mess now mummy won't do it, and I'd give them a good whack on the way out.

@gillianbrookwell1678

2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't allow my sons to allow my house get into such a filthy state like this, yet these two don't seem ashamed at all and are laughing about it.

@nicoleroth3127

2 жыл бұрын

@@debbiemohekey1509 Amen to that! It's beyond me why so many parents think that making children help with chores appropriate for their age is taking away something of their childhood when, in fact, it can be very rewarding for them short and long-term. It's not as if children at coming off age suddenly know all these things; and on top of that, there's that sense of entitlement that develops which leads them to believe that everyone owes them while they don't need to lift a finger. 'Doing everything for your children' doesn't need and shouldn't be taken literally, they can and should do some things for themselves and for their family, f.e. setting/clearing the table, bring out the rubbish, wash the dishes, wipe the table and the like. It's those little things that make everyone's life easier and which also has children grow into responsible adults. - Unlike here...

When she said about the moth "oh it's actually quite beautiful, a piece of wildlife" that's cracked me up! 😂

Andy may be having a Lil Crush on Sarah, look at the Hug At the end, the way he Smiles at her, his Compliments😅I may be Wrong😅

@tricia4479

2 жыл бұрын

Ha, totally thought that, too.

How could you disrespect your Mum's home like that? I'm glad they've decided to clean it up now, but to let it get to that state is disgusting.

Ben is a legend; he can help so many overwhelmed families

When you live with somebody that doesn't care to clean it's nearly impossible to live a healthy life, I finally gave up and only clean my desk, computer, and the small area with my stuff lol.

@PeerKristijan

2 жыл бұрын

Move out

@Koselill

2 жыл бұрын

@@PeerKristijan Not everyone can move out

@miriambucholtz9315

2 жыл бұрын

@@Koselill I used to stay in my daughter's house. The only clean room and bathroom in the place belonged to me. It took me 18 months before I could find a rent-subsidized apartment and finally move out, so you're right.

@Kubulek17

2 жыл бұрын

You’re lucky that you can give up. I just can’t, if it’s not clean I’ll do it which makes the messy person even lazier

@ES11777

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kubulek17 Same. I can’t look at filth and not try to clean it. Even if it means I’m doing someone else’s job. Sometimes you have to be the better person and take initiative, because there are people who just won’t change. Sucks, but it’s true.

The way those women were acting in the restaurants with the germ indicator... I'd love to see them swab their own arms and see what number comes up, they'd probably faint lol

@kropka8259

2 жыл бұрын

Their numbers are probably very low. They use a lot of hand sanitisers.

@tumainitiger4655

2 жыл бұрын

@@kropka8259 thats why i said arms, heck lets go 1 further swab their mouths, these people don't realise we're covered in bacteria, it's what keeps us alive.

@GiraffesInTrousers

2 жыл бұрын

in one episode they swabbed the inside of their shoes and low and behold there were germs, incredible

@tumainitiger4655

2 жыл бұрын

@@GiraffesInTrousers *shocked pikachu face*

@kropka8259

2 жыл бұрын

@@nterix Alcohol based hand sanitizers are effective against most of the bacteria and viruses.Using hand sanitizer is the easiest way and handy way to keep your hands hygienic anywhere and everywhere. Obviously they should not replace hand washing.

I feel bad for Tuesday, she’s innocent but I hate it when mothers project their mental illness into children in this extreme manner…awe they gave her an Eukelele, people can’t be organized w out being taught organizational skills..

Every time a new video is uploaded I get genuinely so excited oh man You could say that I’m OBSESSED. As someone OCD diagnosed I actually watch these videos to help me relax and manage it Very therapeutic

@shanshan6653

2 жыл бұрын

I agree it's like temporary distraction from your own obsessive behaviour

@tammy6496

2 жыл бұрын

@@shanshan6653 Exactly - this and TikTok organising

@mjlvnv

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, although my OCD does seem to have gotten worse over the years

"Cushions moove on their own." LOL ❤❤❤

It shocked me that the person obsessed with cleaning touched the medicine dropper with his mouth and then right back in the bottle

@Unlovable

2 жыл бұрын

Same goes for the woman who vacuums the toaster after she did the floor and the deck with it.

@tasneembashir2733

2 жыл бұрын

Just let's you think it is a sickness or a disorder where they're compelled to do illogical things

@ChristineSantos_Sucks

2 жыл бұрын

i mean thats the thing about ocd (or one of them) some things and methods seem to have an obvious why an obvious sequence of doing and some just dont sometimes but it still also shocks me when I see people touch literally poop sometimes and then touch their faces Im like dudeeeee you for realllllll

@talithat423

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t have ocd but people must remove their shoes when in my house. Whereas I’ve seen numerous of these videos with people actually diagnosed with ocd and wear their shoes in their houses 🤨

@Burning_Dwarf

2 жыл бұрын

Well it is his personal bottle OCD is a weird disease and logic is usualy tossed to make room for compulsions

It's interesting the psychological effect these people have on one another. In the end the OCD people tend to loosen up their standards a bit and the hoarders tend to feel invigorated to keep their home clean. It's a win-win for both parties. It seems the OCD people have taken a step back and realize how their cleaning is a bit too much, that you can still enjoy it being a little messy temporarily while doing things with the children and still be able to retain their standards afterwards. They realize that the family interaction is much more valuable in the end than a spotless germ free home and they begin to see that once they help out the hoarder. Sometimes psychiatric treatment in itself isn't enough to turn a person around. Sometimes it's the intervention that does the trick,

@laylabuckle6839

2 жыл бұрын

This isn’t ocd

@johannas.l.brushane2518

2 жыл бұрын

In cognitive behaviour therapy it's often successful to have controlled exposure tho what you may have a phobia or feeling uncomfortable about. The effects may be similar for these situations. Germohobe exposed to them som hours per day and hoarder getting to view their stuff trough a more critical evaluating frame. Often they seem to be obsessed over the issue of "my stuff" and come up with weird answers when asked what purpose or good it is to them.

I find it interesting that this show pairs the OCD folks with people who need to learn cleaning skills and incentive. I see it as sorta kind of therapy. I went through a bad germaphobe stage once, I realized the air I breath is full of germs and that realization helped me to, mostly, get past it.

Jeanette is an enabling her sons to never be able to live on their own.

I'm starting to think that ppl with OCD cleaning obsessions might be addicted to certain chemicals in their cleaning products. They are terrified of being harmed by germs yet not scared one bit about the harmful bleach fumes etc.

@mjlvnv

2 жыл бұрын

My OCD is like the opposite of the heavy bleach and chemical cleaning product users. Part of mine is finding all kinds of cleaning methods that use natural cleaning methods instead of chemical cleaning products

I like the obsessive cleaners' clean orderly homes.

Hey at least the OCD people are totally gonna stay safe during Covid

@laylabuckle6839

2 жыл бұрын

That’s not what ocd is lmao

@matreen427

2 жыл бұрын

OCD can also exhibit itself in hoarding

@jessiewhitman8688

2 жыл бұрын

@@laylabuckle6839 I think they meant these guys. With their compulsive cleaning.

@bookmouse2719

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessiewhitman8688 lol!

@michellelewis1090

2 жыл бұрын

On the contrary, their immune systems are weak due to never having to make anti-bodies against germs.. They would commit suicide if they knew that the body is more bacteria than human.

Ben is such kind soul, I'm sure with the right professionals he can go far and enjoy a happy life, and Jerri is a sunshine, the way she brought the iron for Ben to get rid of the wrinkles on the bed sheets so that he could feel better is a subtle 'thank you for doing this, I care for you'. She was not disgusting, she was just a hoarder of potencial art work. I hope both of them are doing great.

I get so excited waiting for these to come out, I was scrolling and trying to find what I wanted to watch my eyes zeroed in on this and clicked immediately without hesitation. 😂🤣😂🤣💚

I don't know if Mom was just trying to keep like a smile on her face for the camera. I feel like a part of her son's failures to keep her house clean is on her for clearly not teaching them how or raising them in just the way to respect other people's belongings. if you want to be lazy, if you want to be dirty it is one thing to do it to someone else's home or someone else's things versus doing it to a home you own. And her sons have no problem doing it to her.

The brothers.... Wow, imagine them meeting women and what a life the women would have. The mum is just as bad tbh. She's smiling at them throwing darts at the living room wall 🤦🏻‍♀️. They're not children, they're fully grown men.

As an Indian I can't relate with the mother and her sons.. If it Was me and my mom I would be in my grave or atleast homeless..

@ZekromReshiramVolt

2 жыл бұрын

It's nothing to do with nationality

@Kubulek17

2 жыл бұрын

@@ZekromReshiramVolt it kinda does. A lot of nationalities are VERY houseproud. It’s the same with Eastern Europeans. Cleanliness is next to godliness

Can I just congratulate that fella who ate his food anyway even though the probe thing tested high. He pushed through his fear and so did the young lady. Good work people!

I just feel so bad for that dog! the puppers looks miserable in that home.

The sons are so disrespectful. :(

I really have problems with keeping my environment clean and tidy, so i started going Minimalist and it helps a lot not having unnecessary stuff

@alison2984

2 жыл бұрын

Same here decluttering is really the way to a tidy easy maintained home x

@ES11777

2 жыл бұрын

That’s a great tip for people who have the same issue!

Don't watch this at 2 am, it will make you get out of bed and start cleaning haha

the "I think I'll knock with me feet" lady at the beginning has me in stitches every time 😂

For me I feel like with Sarah is more of a anxiety thing

45:34 poor Ben looked so uncomfortable after she sat on the bed

Ben & Geri are lovely working together, you can see they both tried as hard as they could to show respect & tolerance, and honestly this episode clearly shows that the producers actually CARE and place people together that will help eachother, both with the mess and mentaly begining to heal... i am a tiny bit 'obsessed' with this show 🤣

I discovered this channel recently, can’t help but to watch it like a marathon but the most valuable lesson I take from it is that Balance is the most important thing in life! Nothing in excess… a clean environment is an open door to flow and greatness… don’t over do it, keep it clean and organized and make time to enjoy life and dinners and coffee outside! Life is unpredictable, just try!

That "color coded" book shelf is everything to me honestly.

I just hoovered my deck today. I thought it was a grand idea.

I love rearranging/organising my stationary, crafty things, art materials ect so I would have been genuinely excited to help Gerri out 😍 I haven't even finished the episode and I can imagine all different storage ways for her materials!

bruh ik they have ocd but u can't just make urself sleep on a thin mat while u have a king size bed

The real heroes here are the cleaners, they work, clean and help other people. What do the hoarders do for anybody else? NOTHING, not even cleaning for themselves. Laziness and lack of self respect shows when you do not clean or declutter your house.

@5ashll303

2 жыл бұрын

Well I don’t respect myself so that figures

Those cleaners are doing an amazing job! Helping each other is really a good idea also...

Lesley and Tuesday are like 2 "obsession mirrors" facing each other and reflecting their obsessions endlessly. Ben is not using rescue remedy correctly. Instead of dropping the rescue drops without putting the pipette in his mouth, he sucks the pipette and puts it back in the bottle ... Curious from an OCD ...

@ducklife5497

2 жыл бұрын

Omw I was thinking the same thing. I was like Im not even OCD but who does that. But the thing is I dont think OCD brains work on logic. There is a glitch somewhere in that system

@roseduste80

2 жыл бұрын

It's only his germs, and those flower essences are distilled in alcohol, so I can see why it wouldn't bother him.

@circomatic6124

2 жыл бұрын

@@roseduste80 it´s not even "flower essences". It´s 120gr Plant material cooked in 1 Liter of Water (basically herbal tea), and then diluted in 40% Alcohol 1:240. So we´re basically talking Wodka and tiny drop o´water. So, yeah, should be germwise ;)

@circomatic6124

2 жыл бұрын

don´t be fooled, the correctness of drinking shots differs a lot in cultures! ;) Some down it in one go, some bang the glass on the table , some delicately balance the shotglas to flow into their beerglas whilst drinking, and then there is the Jägerbomb. Placebo defies logic. So does OCD behaviour. :)

I hope Ben has been able to have his kids over now even just to visit. He seems like a nice guy and I liked that Gerri was able to help him with the bed making when he was getting stressed

Gerri is amazing i love her. She wants help and is willing to get it.She has lovely energy:))

I so love watching these shows, it really helps me get inspired and motivated

That poor dog needs it's claws clipped so I doubt them 2 brothers take that dog for a walk. There's cleaning and there's too much cleaning.

@Neesi392

2 жыл бұрын

The dog looks miserable poor thing

I really hope Ben gets proper treatment outside a reality tv show.

These videos really inspire me to clean up!

I think the mother who has passed on her OCD to her daughter should be ashamed of herself.

@garyn1780

2 жыл бұрын

No, she shouldnt be shamed for having a mental illness. What they need is help.

They only think having OCD is bad but "manageable" because they don't have OCD and clinical depression at the same time, otherwise they would know how it feels like to live in chaos but being tormented by a mind that demands perfection and yet doesn't have the strengh to act on it. THAT is living hell!

Normally I feel a bit bad when the cleaners come in and can be a bit abrupt (especially if the messy person has a disability or mental health condition). However, the reaction the boys got was completely justified.

Even ten years after seeing this episode in its television format, I find those two young males to be utterly repulsive, and that's even before their vile lack of effort to take care of their mother's apartment.

This has nothing to do w the video but the first pair ben and jerry reminded me of icecream and it made me happy lol

"You got some things....haven't you?" lol

Sarah was the perfect match for these lazy boys. Strong willed, vocal and gorgeous, they would have done anything for her! It's true!

This such a great series. I like watching things like this to help motivate me to clean more. Most of the OCD people have helped people to feel better about cleaning more. But that mother with the spiky hair is not great for the daughter. The daughter seems to want to live a semi normal life but her mother is so dominant that I don't think that she would.

What person throws darts at the wall, disrespectful. If that were my children they would be out on the street. Unacceptable

this happens when mummy does everything for and after her precious boys, they learn nothing

The brothers should be ashamed!! Shouldn't there be some difference between their dog and them with regard to the conditions they chose to live? I don't even want to imagine the state of their personal hygiene.

This is such a brilliant pairing of OCD disorders. Both extremes have much to learn from one another. And hopefully they will find their way back to the grey. I love how quick the germaphobes can let go of things (and throw things away) and at the same time, how fearless and comfortable the hoarders can be around filth and disorder. I hope all of these folks find their way back to (psychologically) healthier and more fulfilling behavior patterns.

Ben is the sweetest sweetheart 💜

Ben is such a sweetheart in this episode I love his positivity

Did they really have to throw out the microwave? That seems extreme, you can clean them lol

Very Good episode. Ben is lovely, hope he'll get help he needs. Sarah rules.

There's no "breaking the cycle" it's a mental illness, my sister suggers the exact same form of OCD as Sarah, same name too, she'll start as early as 6am & not stop till gone 12/1am doing washing. Even if it's only 1 or 2 items she missed cus her fella or son didn't put them in the wash basket or her son didn't tell her till late on he had P.E the next day & his kit was in his school bag that he forgot to take out. She'll clean & hoover last thing at night sleep for a few hours then clean & hoover again even though no ones been up to make a mess. And that's cus she thinks germs have grown overnight, especially now they've got a cat that wasn't her choice. She's had it 13 years now, since she got pregnant, & her fella still after 13 years doesn't understand it & says to her You don't have to do it, just leave it, get over it etc. And it actually angers me too but I know it's just cus he doesn't fully understand it. There's only me she'll talk to about it & tell if she's got a new ritual cus no one else understands, they roll their eyes & say oh god not another, why do you do it, can't you just stop. I spoke to her 1 day & said that it sounds to me like there's 2 voices in her head, her voice then OCD's voice. Her voice says you don't have to do it it's not dirty, not been used, leave it till later cus you'll only be doin it again. Then the OCD tells her But you've got to do it cus of germs, do it now or it'll get worse, what if someone comes & sees you've not washed your coffee cup. She said OMG yes that's exactly what it's like I do hear 2 voices & OCD always wins cus if I don't do it I don't get no peace & my anxiety ramps up. Apologies for the long comment but it's close to my heart & I truly feel for anyone suffering with it. To OCD sufferers I hope & pray 1 day you'll get the help or find the things that helps you & gives you the peace of mind you so desperately want need & deserve.

@alison2984

Жыл бұрын

It's horrible to live with, I hope she finds someone who is caring and will help her vs criticise her x

meanwhile me eating an ice cream watching this and accidently licking my cats head...he's judging me now

I'm happy to see updates of both groups of people at the end of the video. They are both extremes...the updates help with recognizing neither one is better than the other.

A dishwasher is what the boys need. The most hygienic and efficient method to clean dishes.

I don't understand how someone can be a germophobe but wear shoes inside their house !! I'm a germophobe and I could never let anyone wear shoes in my house.

@myoldvhstapes

2 жыл бұрын

They probably have "in the house only" shoes.

@Kubulek17

2 жыл бұрын

They’re not germaphobes. They have OCD it’s not the same