It’s so unbelievable disrespectful that these people would film loved ones unconscious in hospital via TikTok or instagram. No one should humiliate themselves or others.

@Vishakha_B897

11 ай бұрын

That's just toxic and evil!

@lexie760

11 ай бұрын

its disgusting. my gen is so embarrassing

@chaneykane3828

11 ай бұрын

Exactly. It’s the reason why when people are badly injured in sports the make a circle around them. It’s so that people aren’t shown in a vulnerable state out of respect.

@vidfreak727

11 ай бұрын

Then later they complain about THEIR privacy being violated

@G360LIVE

11 ай бұрын

Not to mention, no one should film or take photos of a patient in an ER, because there are other patients in the ER who you could capture on film or in a photo, and that's a violation of their privacy as well.

I was a foster parent for roughly 16 years. I've seen a lot of meltdowns from anxiety and stress and I've seen a lot of tantrums. There is a huge difference between having a meltdown and throwing a tantrum. A meltdown is an involuntary response to sensory overload and a cortisol dump. It is not controllable. You just have to ride it out. You certainly do not have the capability to get your phone and record yourself. A tantum is voluntary. It is controllable and it is usually a manipulative behavior to get what the person wants. If you say to a person throwing a tantrum, "ok ok, if you stop, I'll let you have your toy or get you McDonald's," they will stop but a person having a meltdown literally does not have the capability to just stop. They are just too overwhelmed. It does eventually cease but while it is happening neurologically they are in chaos. To me, most of this is tantrum throwing. I didn't see anything that makes me think that they are actually having a meltdown.

@gamer1X12

11 ай бұрын

Exactly. An actual meltdown or psychological break comes from intense and prolonged stress and can have pretty dramatic symptoms... Not just pouting while putting on filters and playing TikTok audios. It's so bizarre to me how those videos get thousands of hundreds of thousands of likes... This kids really grew up on their devices and social media, because this behavior should be extremely unnatural to anyone with social skills (crying while lip syncing to memes, recording ever negative incident in your life, checking your reflection and face in the camera while a distressing incident happens in the background, etc.). Like it's honestly so dystopian.

@tosh.m.k

11 ай бұрын

I had that several times but one time iz was suddenly gone. The reason was incredible shock and bewilderment. I had a fight with my mom and it escalated. I was screaming and sobbing, completely out of control. Tried to lock myself into the bathroom but my mom unlocked the door. She then... And I kid you not, put some holy oil or water and made a cross on my forehead, telling me a demon must have possessed me - she's a very religious person. I was so shocked I was so dumbfounded I was just staring at her and stood there for what felt like hours.

@Channing077

11 ай бұрын

@@tosh.m.kwow that’s hilarious

@tosh.m.k

11 ай бұрын

@@Channing077 it really wasn't. I had a mental break down and my mom though I was possessed. It was abusive behaviour. My whole family is abusive. She destroyed my trust in people and demonized my father with him I had contact for the first time after over 15 years. Yes, I do love her but I also resent her. A lot.

@cantin8697

11 ай бұрын

As someone with autism, thank you so much for explaining this! I hate the confusion that surrounds it, because the distinction is important!

Even the language gen Z uses. ‘Coping’ ‘processing’ ‘triggering’. I tell you what. It’s never been a more lucrative time to be a psychiatrist.

@sixnigthmare3608

4 ай бұрын

Indeed I'm currently studying psychology and oh God I've never had more work to do😅

@Superfan303

3 ай бұрын

Gen z all had access to internet growing up where we all got to read up on narcissism and trauma and now everyone overuses these words where they dont apply and its destroyed there meaning

The quirkification of neurodivergency / mental health on TikTok is extremely annoying because most people who deal with these issues would never dream of broadcasting it to an audience. It’s embarrassing and soul crushing - not a cute main character thing. It takes a major validation-seeker to want to get likes and follows off of oversharing this pitiful shit, & I truly can’t relate!

@DarthLesbian

10 ай бұрын

Social media has only made it worse but even before that it was an issue. Kids liked to fake ADHD and bipolar and other things when I was in high school. They made it a joke to the point a lot of kids and their parents started questioning if ADHD was even real. All kids who had it were deemed to be attention seekers trying to get extra time for tests. Kids who actually had it were so ashamed they hid it. But at least the little narcissists got their attention before they moved on to the next thing 🙄

@zerotodona1495

9 ай бұрын

Seriously… these kids have no idea what depression is. They are spoiled.

@SDS-ee9js

9 ай бұрын

As someone who has ADHD, learning disabilities, and emotional problems, I find these videos absolutely disgusting. I’ve struggled all my life and wish I didn’t have these issues, and to see these idiots making actual disorders into “cute character traits” does so much damage and actually increases the stigmas associated with neurodivergence and mental health.

@johnton6488

6 ай бұрын

Please tell me that your post is satirical! Quirkification - really? Did Gen Z completed the same orwellian newspeak brainwash training conducted by Ministry of Truth? Because all of you sound just same and having exactly unified "doublethink" mindset.

@Boats_N_Hoez

6 ай бұрын

@@DarthLesbianadhd doesn’t exist. Some people can enjoy sitting and reading and others need to physically do activities to learn. School is not for people.

I have ALWAYS thought that they can't be having genuinely serious breakdowns or intimate problems if they're whipping out their cameras and filming themselves... Like who the hell has the time, energy or even the thought to film themselves when they're breaking down in tears?! It's so narcissistic

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

Yes! It _screams_ narcissism. I'd be _very_ embarrassed to have strangers see me if I were breaking down. It's sadly funny too, because some people literally post videos of themselves committing crimes. How foolish and shameless can one get?!

@dr.elvis.h.christ

11 ай бұрын

Antisocial media is highly toxic, and the most toxic people rise to the top.

@user-bi8ko7kc6h

11 ай бұрын

🤣🤣They even have time to set up the camera at the right angle.

@jabberwocky8021

11 ай бұрын

Whipping out their cameras? More like carefully setting up the phone/camera, turning it on then getting in front of it and freaking out! It's all an act for "likes."

@Apostate_ofmind

11 ай бұрын

its a tantrum

As an individual from gen z I feel ashamed to be part of most of my generation.

@reubenmanzo2054

11 ай бұрын

Chronologically, I'm a member of Gen Z, but based on my cultural knowledge, anyone could easily think I grew up in the 70s.

@Ruby_Villain

11 ай бұрын

At least you can see it

@fineaswine5863

11 ай бұрын

Gen Z is like a basket full of apples, the only difference from other baskets is that red apples who paint itself green tries to convince the other apples it's a green apple and the most unique. Only this time alot of red apples are doing it, so the uniqueness is becoming the norm, and the norm are becoming the outcasts.

@mengl29

11 ай бұрын

@@Ruby_Villain Tbh, I just don't understand the pure neuroticism most seem to possess. It's scary how downhill people in the west as going.

@mengl29

11 ай бұрын

@@fineaswine5863 Ngl I love this analogy, it's very creative and fits so well

People aren’t attracted to you because of your problems, they are attracted to you based on how you overcame them

@5050TM

7 ай бұрын

Those who ARE attracted to your problems are there to abuse and manipulate you.

Also, "friends" and "partners" are screenshoting the private text conversations they had with their "friends" and "partners" and sharing them with others without their consent. Such a vile thing to do to someone who's trusting you but so many people today do it and think it's acceptable behavior. It's genuinely unsafe to open yourself up to anyone these days without the risk of having private information about you exposed.

@vanillapinkfluff3477

10 ай бұрын

Agreed. It’s strange when people post screenshots of goey romantic texts from their best friend or partner. I mean that’s for you and them to see. In real life you wouldn’t go showing that to your neighbours. The only reason someone would post that is to make others jealous or to get special attention. I’ve seen people making these big captions about how much they love their best friend and I’m like “why would anybody want strangers to see this? Why would strange people care about this?”

@iiCounted-op5jx

4 ай бұрын

brutal

The preoccupation with chasing likes and validation from strangers online is on of the major contributors to the decline of society. As always, great content Misha.

@dixztube

11 ай бұрын

its so insane , im 40 and cant believe where this has all gone

@DavidJ-ty5jm

11 ай бұрын

Pure narcissism coupled with fragile egos.

@vulcan6940

11 ай бұрын

@@DavidJ-ty5jm Very true! Which leads to the question: Where is all of this narcissism and fragility come from?

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

@@vulcan6940 I don't think it comes from anywhere. Rather, it is a default. Children are highly narcissistic, and normally they mature and grow out of it. Look at social media - it's a "like only" environment. Social media, parenting attitudes and cultural phenomenon are causing people to remain a child, in a bad way. (I'm not saying you can't have fun! :D)

@1shoukiii

11 ай бұрын

as an individual of genz, this is not healthy in the least. i just feel like if you can't reach out to your parents (which is concerning), then find yourself some living, breathing friends that you see and meet by yourself to make yourself feel better. this validation is momentary and helps no one in the long run.

There is nothing as valuable as privacy on this world. In one hand I feel bad for them because you can tell they haven't felt heard by either their parents or their friends, but at the same time I feel like this generation needs to be held accountable for their mistakes.

@Redrosewitch

11 ай бұрын

Yes. There's definitely crying out for attention going on here. But there's has to be a better way of making sure people can be heard, when they need to let something out, than be broadcasting it to complete strangers, who don't even know them personally.

@manictiger

10 ай бұрын

They will be, and it will be apocalyptic.

@sweetdreamscr

10 ай бұрын

I don't get their thirst for validation and attention

@AA-ed6ek

5 ай бұрын

There we go with the excuses.

I love the mom saying "your education is brainwashing" AMEN MAMA! probably can thank the internet and college for that.

Time blindness is a symptom of a condition, not a condition itself. She is clearly finding any excuse to be irresponsible, but If she actually struggled with ADHD/ADD or Autism, then... understandable. She needs to realize though, that even with a condition that makes it hard for you to focus or be aware of your surroundings, you need to be hyper vigilant. Set alarms. Set reminders. Write things down on a sticky note in front of you. I figured it out and made it work. I didn't make excuses and ask for accommodations.

@kimberlyzammit6722

10 ай бұрын

That is called strength, determination, courage, intelligence....a whole litany of things that the new generations seem to be lacking in spades. Good for you for taking control of your life and working to find ways to function and thrive.

@imgiratina4083

10 ай бұрын

Yes thank you!!! I'm not begging others to accommodate me, I try to tell others if absolutely necessary just to warn them of my mental issues but as for accommodations, I'm trying my hardest to do it myself, if you want something you must work for it, you can't just demand it from others like Gen Z is so used to

@maggiem6209

7 ай бұрын

As someone who came from an irresponsible, yet loving, home, it's genuinely really hard for me to tell whether I'm actually struggling with time blindness and toxic perfectionism. I've lost commissions and forgotten food and other necessities because of being overly focused on a task or hobby. All these really obnoxious videos make it hard to tell if I actually am just disorganized because I simply didn't learn skills to organize tasks and time or if I genuinely have problems with time perception. And almost every doctor will diagnose everything as ADHD, so I really don't want to go to a doctor, so... I'm stuck. 😂 I guess I'll stick to my lists and muddle through.

@JakeHambyZ80

21 күн бұрын

Exactly!

as someone who has constant meltdowns, i don't understand why you'd want someone that you don't trust, or someone you don't even know, to see you in such a vulnerable state. this is attention seeking.

@hajsnsbsbsjdjs

11 ай бұрын

I have meltdowns too only when I'm alone. When I'm around other people I suck it up and hold it in because that's how embarrassed I am of the thought of them seeing that side of me. It makes absolutely no sense to me why people want others to see that side of them including strangers. I'd be horrified if a video of one of my meltdowns was posted to the internet but they do it voluntarily.

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

IKR? They're utterly shameless.

@atatterson6992

11 ай бұрын

Have any of you thought about why you, "have constant mental breakdowns"? That is NOT normal nor is it healthy. Something is very, very wrong, however at least you recognize it. Now fix it, it will not just go away or fix itself. You may actually have to do some work rather than feeling sucessful if you were able to hide your most recent meltdown. None of this concerns you? Wow. Good luck finding a true relationship, job, reason to exist, etc., etc. Come on people, you don't need to live like this nor inflict your "meltdowns" on others. Q: What the F has happened to society? A: Internet & Smartphones.

@1shoukiii

11 ай бұрын

@@atatterson6992 i have had some self worth and burnout issues in the past and everytime my efforts in academics don't pay off as i expect, i break down. my parents have been very supportive regarding the issue and i've recently started seeing a therapist. i have been doing better. however, i do accept the fact that it is unhealthy and i need to find a means to end rather than to propagate it.

@1shoukiii

11 ай бұрын

@@hajsnsbsbsjdjs exactly. the fact that we hide it tells us enough that it is really personal and it is disgusting to see people posting this for reasons such as attention/clout.

I'm 14 years old, and I am so embarrassed by my generation because of people like this. If you are struggling, GET OFF THE INTERNET! Don't share your entire life story online, talk to people in your life about it, do things that you enjoy to get your mind off of things, but don't share it to everyone on the internet PLEASE. I just un-installed tik tok and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made, I think these people would really benefit from un-installing all their social media and just talking to actual people in the real world, rather than through a screen.

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

I'm an early gen Z, and I totally agree. (I made a rhyme! Now time to post it on social media, right?) I used to be on social media more when I was younger, but it sucks you in. It's ego food. And it's not typically healthy, since people are naturally predisposed to focus on negative things. (It's a basic survival instinct. Pay attention to what will harm you.) Commenting here is one of the few interactions I do any more these days, and I'm way happier. (It helps that I got a job and all that, you know,... go into the real world. Overcome things with friends and coworkers.)

@marydidyouknow5826

11 ай бұрын

Gen X here. Thank God for people like you with common sense.

@Kureemy

11 ай бұрын

I agree. I deleted Twitter after a few weeks of using it and it was a great decision since I was never really using it that much anyway.

@andrewb8235

11 ай бұрын

I'm so happy to hear you've unplugged from social media. Congratulations. This may be the best choice you've ever made for yourself. This is the best thing I've read all day.

@Gh0stGaminginc

11 ай бұрын

Social media is societal cancer. It must be REMOVED.

If you have time and energy to film your mental breakdowns, then you're mentally fine.

@vanillapinkfluff3477

10 ай бұрын

Exactly. Nobody wants others to see them looking messy or unattractive.

To be brutally honest, I'm at the point where these folks come up with their emotional fragility and lack of self control, and I just roll my eyes and move on, hoping they'll eventually grow up. I reserve sympathy for those who actually need and deserve it, not for every stranger on the internet who demands attention.

@playmakersmusic

11 ай бұрын

Ironically the people that really deserve sympathy would not show it for others. They'll feel ashamed(even when they shouldn't), instead of proudly showing on the internet for others to see

@spirit7500

5 ай бұрын

I’m someone who sometimes struggles with mental health, but I don’t see how people talk about it as if it’s a trophy… I’d rather want to people to view me as “normal” rather than someone who is sick.

At no point in my whole life have I ever felt the need to record myself in emotionally vulnerable moments and share it online for the whole world to see. 🙈

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

Same. It's embarrassing. I have no clue why these people do such a thing.

@idontkn0ww

10 ай бұрын

i dont even want to cry in front of my mom lmao

@ernsttrekiew198

10 ай бұрын

People like that should be offered an ounce of fentanyl tablets and a fifth of vodka. Tell 'em to take it all within a 15-minute period and then take a nap. It solves EVERYONE'S problem.

@ariescheese

10 ай бұрын

same

@VanessaLol421

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I don't even know how people have the guts to do it. It's embarrassing

The thing that pisses me off to no end is the "time blindness". time blindness is something that autistic and adhd people struggle with alot, it can turn a 5 minute break into hours of not realizing how much time youre wasting. and we dont get to miss work for that. its so annoying that being neurodivergent is a trend.

@marydidyouknow5826

11 ай бұрын

Yes, it really makes it much harder for those of us who really have an issue like this, because people actually want to be mentally ill these days. Which just shows who isn't really mentally ill, because I can't imagine wanting this. ADHD and only now getting help at 47. There was no medication or assistance in my day.

@jonnyz5772

11 ай бұрын

like set a timer maybe ? ffs

@sarcodonblue2876

11 ай бұрын

I have ADHD and autism and have found many people in these "communities" call themselves "neurodivergent" and want to be special and I just say I am plain old disabled and then I am accused of being hateful. I wanted a group of people with similar issues who I could spend time with and we could help one another to improve our lives but these people are not interested in any form of self improvement and see it as a threat or some kind of disrespect. They even see eating a nutritious diet and eliminating processed foods as offensive 😢. Every single person on the planet can improve themselves.

@tomstevens1544

11 ай бұрын

Well said! Too many character defects are simply claimed or appropriated by otherwise healthy individuals who like to use the scientific jargon, in this case “time blindness”, in an effort to excuse some really poor behaviour. I know employers are more obsessed with how to attract, train, and ultimately retain Gen Z workers than they were with the millennium bug that was going to end the world as we knew it on 1/1/2000. I do hope that some of these kids don’t crumble when they finally enter the big wide world of work and step out of the bubbles that were created around them in HS and college.

@somebodyoncetoldme2664

10 ай бұрын

you dont get to miss work for that and shouldn't as well. There are things for you do to that you are responsible for to be included into society if you like it or not. Set alarms and learn skills to be more self aware. I'm sure you agree even tho it is a struggle.

I'm an adult, I'm going through a nervous breakdown right now due to family stuff, and I can barely check my phone without having a panic attack, let alone setting it up to film my nervous breakdown. These people are offensive to me. Thanks Misha, you are a ray of light.

@greenbeans9748

11 ай бұрын

I don't get how people can do that either. It's uncomfortable for some people to be vulnerable with close friends or family in person, so it boggles my mind when they do it with a bunch of strangers online. I hope you're doing okay. I know I'm a stranger myself and sorta going against the purpose of this video, but I don't see any harm in listening to someone who's at a temporary breaking point. It's okay to let all your thoughts out into a void anonymously. It prevents you from exploding if you do it the right way. I do the same thing. Hang in there.

@blackfishblues

11 ай бұрын

@@greenbeans9748 Thank you, all my best to you!

@LucasTsiorbas-jg5kj

3 ай бұрын

Hope you're doing alright

The less online presence you have, the happier you'll be. Seriously, people overshare so much on social media. It's nauseating. TikTok has only made it worse.

I am 50. I raised my children old school. They don't post personal stuff like this online. That being said, I do feel that many of my generation and many millennial parents have let this new generation down by not drilling into them the importance of self control and self accountability as well as appropriate public demeanor. Being an adult used to mean being in control of your emotions and reactions. It makes me sad and embarrassed for the youth today.

@hayley7090

10 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more. 👏

@kathyp1563

10 ай бұрын

I wonder what percentage of Gen Z actually post these type of things. I have 2 gen Z--high school & college age. I know that there are many gen Z who do not post stuff like this. I'd like to see research about who does & doesn't post their entire life on social media. There seems to be an either/or. Either girls post lots of pictures of themselves...Or they post only nature pictures.

@user-rc2ct7cs1g

10 ай бұрын

I am gen z but I was also raised old school. One thing I am very grateful for and I think made a huge difference was that my mother took the time and energy to learn about social media, taught me its dangers and how to protect myself and always reminded me that what I post might be seen by my future bosses and something embarassing could cost my dream job. There is so much potential and so many good things in social media. I wish more people of my generation were taught how to use it responsably

@sim771

10 ай бұрын

It’s mostly Gen X raising Gen Z, millennials are mostly alpha parents or really young Gen Z. The mess that’s Gen Z is primarily enabled by their parents

@aspenenglish4976

10 ай бұрын

Same here. My children are all now adults and they have enough sense to not post much of anything on social media. Parent’s give their children phones, social media and too much freedom to make adult choices while not being an adult. This will come to haunt them forever when they finally grow up and try to get a professional job. Employers DO check your social media. I am one that only uses YT and that was due to boredom during c v. The future is going to be very scary when these irrational, immature and scary people who identify as plural persons with green hair are in charge of the world. Jesus take the wheel!!! This is a lot of attention seeking. DO NOT REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR!

I'm a 31 year old millennial and I don't know any millennials who act like how these young people are acting. When I was teenager, I would have meltdowns but in private. After that, I end up making art (I'm an artist), read, and do some journaling. I would even go outside to jog or play basketball. Doing that stuff helped me out a lot. Something tells me these kids don't have any hobbies/don't want to have hobbies. They just spend hours and hours on social media, especially TikTok. My coworker's daughter is 16 and said she spends a lot of time on TikTok after school and during break. She has no hobbies or interests. Hobbies can really help these kids mental health. Seeking attention online is not the way to go.

@MrFlaten92

11 ай бұрын

This is so true! Kids need hobbies, not social media!

@ryans413

10 ай бұрын

I’m 32 and I agree too many people are too attached to their phones and social media to the point of making stupid cringe videos that are probably going to embarrass themselves later once their older. Get off your phone enjoy this world you only get one life don’t spend it making stupid cringe videos on the internet

@sim771

10 ай бұрын

Yeah I’m 27 and a millennial. I don’t know anyone who behaves like the people in the video and if they did they would have no friends and would be a social pariah. Gen X was the generation of MTV and TMZ, is it surprising their children are tiktok

@lotosney1714

10 ай бұрын

When you were teenager, there were no tiktoks nor smartphones, no instagram, no facebook. I recon that if we gave modern technology to lets say Ancient Egyptians, then we would have vids of their meltdowns.

@snipes503

10 ай бұрын

@@lotosney1714 huh? we had plenty of social media not as advanced but it was there. From what I remember most people were just following bands, video games, comics, or funny videos. As for emotional posts we kinda (at least me and my friends) made fun of privileged emo kids whining about first world problems on the internet. We had the opportunity to do it but back then the idea was to not embarrass yourself on the internet. The cringe stuff that got posted was because people were trying to be cool and it flopped lol. By 2010ish phones were plenty advanced enough to put something like this on the internet easily. We just didn't.

Oversharing is a sign of loneliness.

I've written it before, but it is still true: I'm a 52 yo and I have to watch your videos to keep faith in our youth. I tutor high schoolers in their maths and physics. It's utter madness what our schools are like these days. When I was their age, I travelled internationally, without internet or mobile phones. I booked my own travels and I paid for them from money I earned myself. A 16 yo today is more like a toddler. They need constant attention and supervision or they will hurt themselves.

@user-up8du3et9b

2 ай бұрын

That's because most of the younger generation are spoilt and have never heard the word "NO" in their lives

Describe Misha in one sentence: “Gen X trapped in a Gen Z body.” Huge respect for you, Girl.

@biblicalworldview1

11 ай бұрын

I am Gen-X, but the irony is that Gen Z is our children. I think it started with the millennials and cell phones / social media along with over-protection creating narcissists.

@itismiah

11 ай бұрын

@@biblicalworldview1 I will second that. As a millennial myself, actually we’re animated by experiencing these new technologies. And so this downfall of sincerity and sagacity started with us behaving so called “cool”. And Gen Z were inspired by us, and they took it even further, can’t explain the reason here in short. But yes, millennials are to be blamed for today’s disgrace society.

@biblicalworldview1

11 ай бұрын

@@itismiah that is interesting but I go back to the same point. The Millennials were raised by Boomers generally speaking. And so, yes, Millennials are adults and are responsible for their behavior, but I think they were too coddled and protected. I think Jonathan Haidt's book, The Coddling of the American Mind, is a great resource for this phenomenon.

@elgatofelix8917

11 ай бұрын

@@biblicalworldview1 are you forgetting about boomers? They are the hippy generation.

@adu1991

11 ай бұрын

I'm a millennial myself(born in 1991), and I won't downplay Gen Z. My parents did it to me, and it has changed my life as a whole...but I won't do it to the younger generation, because they ARE the future, and how you treat them can set the tone for the rest of their life. Yeah, many of them are immature and overshare, but there's good Gen Z people out there too. They don't post every so often on social media websites and actually have a good head on their shoulders in terms of career and life plans. I'll still respect them. Some Gen X and "Baby Boomers" have felt the same way about us millennials, and we could've either complain about it to our friends and family on social media, or actually get to the root of the problem do something about it in real life.

Time blindness is real but you have to learn to set 15~ alarms every 5-10 minutes (after being up) to keep yourself on track to leave on time. Time blindness also effects ability to know how long something takes even if you’ve done it before and timed it

@user-bi8ko7kc6h

11 ай бұрын

Others trying to figure out the best way to solve the issues caused by time blindness TikToker: not my problem, it’s your problem, you shall understand me.

@MrFlaten92

11 ай бұрын

But to use it as an excuse for not being at work on time is still not cool (like that girl in the video).

@sixnigthmare3608

4 ай бұрын

I have an AWFUL sense of time and I have a very simple thing I do I have a PHONE that I can look at when I don't know what time is it

I believe that the girl who had a friend on a ventilator due to over drinking probably deep down was excited and happy that she now had the opportunity to milk the hell out of this tragedy for likes and follows. I know I’m throwing shade prematurely but I really do believe these gen Z attention addicts think like this.

I started ignoring the "problems" Gen Z says they have after they dismissed my actual, real problems from deploying to Afghanistan. Can't tell you how many young, blue-haired people called me a Nazi just for being in the military 🙄

@Ruby_Villain

11 ай бұрын

And you are one of the only ones willing to protect their sorry asses. Thank you for your service. People like you are what makes this country great. 💛

@queueeeee9000

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service, mate

@hajsnsbsbsjdjs

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service. I'm sorry that my generation is so ungrateful towards the people who fight/ fought for us.

@Edmlady92

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service. Those people are ungrateful idiots.

@mrdavila4898

11 ай бұрын

I am Hispanic and I'll be shipping to basic training in August 14, seeing brave people like you who served the US makes me proud to have chosen the army as a path. God bless you and thank you for your service! 🤝🙏

As a late gen xer I sometimes feel like I’m in an alternate reality with both my boomer parents generation and the younger crowd way over sharing on social media. I’m just over here posting an occasional vacation scenery pic.

@Ruby_Villain

11 ай бұрын

As it should be

@RhinehartGirls

11 ай бұрын

Same & I struggle to not just lay it out for these idiots... I wish the generation who would yell at us & our parents was still around.

@GreatGreebo

11 ай бұрын

@@RhinehartGirls💯

@sarcodonblue2876

11 ай бұрын

I use it to promote my art but the algathrythum seems to promote sensationalism and selfies a lot more. People who post amazing nature photos they took themselves get fewer likes than people posting selfies. Picks of yourself makes sense if you are a performer of some kind but no one really cares about you and your dinner party.

@cantin8697

11 ай бұрын

Which is funny, because I relate as someone in gen z, and in my experience gen x do this sort of shit too!

The amount of information that people are willing to share with total strangers blows my mind.

I knew a couple of people with schizophrenia and they weren’t so open about having it. and when they spoke about it, they usually called it “an illness”, or by other generalized euphemisms, but never used the formal name, at least not with such an ease: maybe because of the stigma, maybe because it made everything too painfully obvious while the formal medical term also trivializes and depersonifies this deeply traumatic and extremely personal experience… or perhaps it’s because people with this diagnosis by their nature tend to be more on the introverted side… IDK, honestly. but they usually don’t talk about it so easily, don’t throw this name around in public, and are generally pretty shy about it. you must get close to them and gain a certain level of trust to be let into this part of their lives, unless something out of the ordinary happens that requires such frankness, leaving no room to dance around it: for example, if you witness psychosis or other obvious manifestations that require an explanation. and even then it's very unlikely to be discussed publicly, if there's any way to avoid exposing it to any unnecessary eyes and ears. this illness is just too personal and traumatic for sufferers, therefore, even knowing a couple of people with such a diagnosis and having some experience of hospitalizations myself (for other reasons), I have never seen it so shamelessly shouted in public, especially for such a minor cause, and especially while calling it by its official name… I bet this person doesn't have any schizophrenia. this is just another example of this psychiatric self-diagnostic trend. which, by the way, is in itself quite symptomatic, just indicates a completely different group of mental disorders :)

@dothedewinme

10 ай бұрын

Probably because they actually had it and hated they had it. The green hair is likely a self diagnosed tiktok mental illness people who just pretend they have it for attention and excuses for their behavior it can provide.

@lotosney1714

10 ай бұрын

People with schizophrenia dont admit to have it because of shame, fear. That people will start to avoid them. In my country up to recently, noone dared to admit to go to psychologist. Because mental health issues were so big taboo. I dislike how those vids are made, but those topics should be normalised. You have millions of people with some mental or behavioural issues. Undiagnosed. Thrown into depression, messing lifes of others. Because their issues seem to be normal to them, just they dont get reactions.

@jbird4478

9 ай бұрын

I have schizophrenia, and I'm pretty open about that. I know many people aren't, but I find it easier to just be open and straightforward. It's not like it's the first thing I tell people, but when I get to know people it invariably enters the conversation at some point, simply because it has been a major factor in my life. I mean, spread out I've spent several years of my life in psychiatric institutions. It's kind of hard to avoid that. Yes, some people choose to avoid you when they hear that. That's just the way it is.

I’m a proud gen Z that has never posted anything in their life (photos/videos)🤚. I have always found it ridiculous to post personal photos of your life for everyone to see and criticise. If I had ever posted something it would be a few harmless memes, but over sharing with strangers for validation? That’s looking for unhealthy attention. My friends have made fun of me calling me a boomer, but the only time I’ll show myself on camera is if I have something important and valid to share with the world that will have a positive impact for others or my career in the future.

@nickynicks_

11 ай бұрын

Same here. Though I do share a lot of memes and I post my artwork or cool photos I've taken of like landscapes. But my accounts have always remained private with only my family or friends (and not the online friend types). I've always tried to just use KZread or Instagram, as few apps as possible, but even then it's still quite unhealthy. I have to stop using my phone so much

@SimonTekConley

11 ай бұрын

This, right here is a social media. Your comments is sharing with us, the weirdos of the internet

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

Awesome! I'm always glad to see people of my generation who are like you. Take pride in being old school. Since I'm a guy it's more natural for me to not post photos of myself on social media. I cringe at the posts I do see... I dunno, so many of them just _scream_ narcissism!!! I used to go on rants on social media, but I don't do it much anymore. Growing up and maturing, I've realized SM is a black hole. I feel better when I stay off of SM, and I've recognized the same in others (or at least, I see them get caught up in SM, and witnessed the negative effects that follow). That sht drains you. Don't get me wrong, there are posts from SANE people who you CAN learn from. (For me, it's geology right now!) But yes, memes good. Memes always good. :D

@nickynicks_

11 ай бұрын

@@SimonTekConley He or she's not showing their face, not giving out their location, and not giving out extremely personal or intimate information. I agree that it's still a form of sharing, especially since it's a personal experience. But the point is that it's anonymous, and that we're having a discourse. It's not oversharing to exchange ideas, opinions, or experiences, because the end goal is to learn from one another and spread actual awareness (not that fake "awareness").

@mattbynumfilms

11 ай бұрын

The original idea of social media was having a place to share with friends and family. Now I am using text message groups to share with a very small number of people.

"Time blindness"... Now I've truly heard it all. Imagine if these spoiled children had real issues to overcome.

@nikolaipenev8349

11 ай бұрын

Seems like that is an actual mental issue for some people, based on my quick google research.. Certainly not an excuse to be late for work though considering we live in an age where you can put an alarm for literally everything you do throughout a day.

@Daniel-Q.-Phantom-esq.

10 ай бұрын

I go to a college chock full of people like this and from what ive seen they just use real trauma as an excuse to be a piece of shit I love your pfp

@narlowemcfarlowe2952

10 ай бұрын

​@@Daniel-Q.-Phantom-esq. For real, I genuinely hate how my generation views trauma as a badge of honor. A majority of them are claiming to be "traumatized" for the most minor nuisances they've gone through. Oh no! My job making coffee milkshakes is too triggering! Time for me to film my neckbeard ass crying on tiktok!

@manictiger

10 ай бұрын

​@@narlowemcfarlowe2952 Older generations: 1960: Eh, he hit me, but it made me stronger. 1980: Eh, they threw me in a trash can and rolled me down a hill. Was a little bit funny, now that I look back on it. 2000: Eh, yeah, I grew up in a group home, but it made me wiser, taught me how to game the system and lead, things crucial to my business. 2020: They ran out of my favorite syrup at Starbucks and my life is ruined!!1

@kimberlyzammit6722

10 ай бұрын

Just when you think you've heard it all....a new trend arises called "bed rotting" and I gave up on humanity in that moment.

I recall when I worked at a pet store in high school/college and customers would open up out of nowhere about various personal issues with me, where I'd be nice to them and all, but it made me feel a bit uncomfortable and if a customer tried going off on non-pet related things it would also annoy other customers waiting for help.

As I’ve grown older I realized not to post personal or emotional things online because it opens you up to criticism. If something hurts me I don’t want to be laughed at or judged for it which is exactly what people will do if you make it public.

People my age desperately need help and need to stop rotting their brains on TikTok

This is what happens when social media removes the "dislike" button. Supposedly to combat bullying and hateful content... ...because surely the like button can't be abused as well, right? We're validating all these unsavory characters; we're validating peoples' dark sides. The saddest thing is, it becomes a sort of addiction, like drinking alcohol. You get a high from it, and in so much as validating you, it actually is your path to sitting down and dying in the corner.

The oversharing is wild af to me. A few years ago, I had a panic attack for the first time, it was actually a little scary, lost control of some functions, etc. Point is, I DID NOT have any thought at all to getting my phone and filming it. That's unhinged behavior.

I’m a gen z born in 1999 and I think it’s absolutely ridiculous about how people in my generation throw fits over tiktok and say dumb shit. What they really need is to do is to go to a mental hospital and get therapy and medications and to also learn better ways to cope with certain issues. I’ve had to do it a few times and seemed to get the hang of it

I feel really bad for the kids that parents do this to them.

@SierraAspenAutumn

10 ай бұрын

Thiiiiiissssss…

When i got deeper into my tiktok addiction 2 years ago, i also got into the habit of over sharing 😭. Tiktok really did make it look like it was normal

Thanks for speaking about this. We’re living in some truly dark times. It’s absolutely insane to me that people are comfortable posting their entire life on social media.

Specifically regarding the kids that get their photos of hard times posted online by their parents, i can't even imagine how damaging that must be for the parent-child relationship, because there was a time i hit my head really hard as a kid (i was like 7) and my family just started laughing and my mom started taking pictures (except my sister she actually comforted me and made sure i was okay, which i was just in pain). My trust that i would be able to talk to them about something that hurt me and them believing me is still damaged from that one incident and that picture wasn't posted online, so i cannot even imagine what it must be like to have that damaged trust with the added knowledge that complete strangers have seen you in a really vulnerable state

@imgiratina4083

10 ай бұрын

Im so sorry you experienced that. I felt the same seeing those clips in this video about the parents taking advantage of their children and taking all these photos of them. It breaks my fucking heart. My mother likes taking pictures constantly and likes posting them, but never ever has it been private shit, and she's always tried to make sure it's ok. But hearing that little boy in that one clip... "I'm actually crying, mom" broke my fucking heart. I dealt with neglect growing up , long story and I dont blame anyone at all, but i felt how much pain he was in and in that moment when that little boy needed his mommy, she was shoving a camera in his face and refusing to take him seriously. It angers me like nothing else how you can just willfully ignore the sweet boy like that.

I think the problem is that "virtual reality" has become reality for many people. In a cartoon I saw the scene is a wake at a funeral home. There are rows of chairs in front of a coffin but only one person is sitting there. The deceased's widow says, "I don't understand it Jeremy had a thousand Facebook friends

@AllShaaaallPerish

11 ай бұрын

Thats gonna be every gen z funeral haha or 90 percent of them

@r0zugorudo

11 ай бұрын

Holy shit, reading this gave me chills. That is so beyond dark. That cartoon perfectly described the world we live in. What is the cartoon? I’d like to look it up.

@ZFern9390

10 ай бұрын

That should be on billboards everywhere, because this culture has become a disease that is tearing families apart. When families are torn apart the bedrock of society is torn.

@owensclock

10 ай бұрын

@@r0zugorudo Someone posted it on FB a while back. I don't remember where they got it from.

Even as someone who's been through a really rough time recently I don't want to feel validated by about 100 different strangers on TikTok, I just don't get it why would you want to do that?

@adu1991

11 ай бұрын

A cheap dopamine rush, to get validation, likes, clicks, and ATTENTION, lol. Some do it really to boost themselves up, as if they want to be the center of attention...but nobody is the center of attention all the time.

@ernsttrekiew198

10 ай бұрын

@@adu1991 What says a lot about these basket cases is the fact that they take the time and effort to set up their cameras and carefully arrange their props before having their so-called "breakdowns". Not exactly "spontaneous" is it?

So about 6:25 , I understand that "time blindness", since I have ADHD myself. However, since I know that I have it, I've practiced to do everything in advance as much as possible so I'll never be late at a job or at an appointment, because time doesn't only revolve around me.

As a 19 year old who goes to church each weekend, doesn’t use Snapchat or instagram, against of, doesn’t agree with trans etc… I struggle making friends with people my age but honestly I’d rather be alone than to fake who I am to be accepted. I’m so embarrassed of our generation sometimes

Misha, you are a national treasure. Be safe

As a fellow member of gen Z I know our generation is screwed based off what I see in my college everyday💀

@dixztube

11 ай бұрын

what all goes on lol

@empireofnewjersey7117

11 ай бұрын

@@dixztube people dressing up and acting like animals. There’s literally a communist group/club at my school. Woke meltdowns happen almost everyday.

@Edmlady92

11 ай бұрын

​@@empireofnewjersey7117 Oh dear...

@fandyus4125

11 ай бұрын

@@empireofnewjersey7117 What country?

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

@@empireofnewjersey7117 Now, I don't promote people filming themselves for ego food, but woke meltdowns... that's something which _should_ be filmed. XD

We need to bring back shame.

TikTok/KZread is 99% fake for views. Love your video. Genuine intelligent and well spoken. Wise beyond your years 😊

Thanks for the view into your generations world Misha. It makes me so grateful for growing up in the 80s and 90s. 😆

@reaping-equally

11 ай бұрын

Same

@DavidJ-ty5jm

11 ай бұрын

Same here.. good lord this country is so f***ed.

@explorewithgeoff

11 ай бұрын

Agreed. I grew up in the 70s and 80s and life was very different. I don't know how I'd have coped with how young people are "educated" these days. Maybe I'd have become one of them? What a thought!

@floridaman5654

11 ай бұрын

@@explorewithgeoff well in my high school these kids would've gotten their asses beat for the shit they do. Which is part of the problem. No discipline at all in their lives.

This reminds me of children. It's like when a child tells you they just pooped, but a young adult is telling you instead. It just looks like they never grew up.

@BenjaminEsposti

11 ай бұрын

LOL

@ZFern9390

10 ай бұрын

Yep!

I like how shes talking to them like shes their mom “honey we all feel sad but we should do that in private” 😂

I can’t imagine wanting to have my crying face forever immortalised on the internet 😂

The west is beyond help at this point

@Pikawarps

11 ай бұрын

Help at 6740 degrees Fahrenheit

@vivien4806

11 ай бұрын

Nothings ever beyond help. But the propoganda machine def wants everyone to think we are clearly

@NCrdwlf

11 ай бұрын

Yea, we’re done.

@normal___person

11 ай бұрын

The west will collapse eventually

@brittneycrawford2129

10 ай бұрын

It's true. I hate it here 😩

"Great video Misha, it really reminds me of this traumatic experience Ive had..." 😂

Misha, I am so happy to see a level headed young woman who is trying to educate our youth about these things. I am a gen X-ER from Eastern Europe and some of the things I see really make me wonder if I live in a twilight zone. I don’t have Tik Tok and never will.

@Monarchias

10 ай бұрын

It's actually Weimar democracy version 2.0. The time when all absurdity been enforced on people after the war. It has everything to do with fresh and strong trauma. Like a war, or rape. And then just repeat and repeat the things you want to enforce. Of course create an atmosphere where it can spread. Low wages, uncertain times and some infiltration to institutions. And the recipe is ready. But at that time a small mustache guy just had enough of that filth and brainwashing. The rest is history. As General Patton once said before his death, 'We killed the wrong enemy'! And the whole world suffers now.

These are some great examples of the regression and retreat to childish attention getting behavior that we have been in the midst of for some time. Basically, everyone wants to be a spoiled daddy's girl, and get away with it. Or like children crying uncontrollably in the store to force their mommy to but them their favorite toy. The epitome of patheticness writ large. Great content. Keep exposing this selfish insanity

@ZFern9390

10 ай бұрын

Grown adult men participating in this too , when they should be adulting being a father and a husband. 🤮

I am an older baby boomer. My generations version of this is people who post everything they eat on Facebook. One of my pet peeves. I have literally seen people post a photo of a half eaten plate of food that looks quite disgusting. Go figure...I have often thought alcohol might be involved in some of these poor decisions.

I was at a Wendy's a couple years ago, and I vividly remember the conversation with the cashier: "Hello, how are you?" "I am great, how are you?" "Honestly, I didn't sleep at all last night. I don't sleep anymore. I have PTSD from a car accident I had 6 months ago, and I can't close my eyes without reliving every moment." "Oh... can I get a home-style chicken sandwich?"

@gothica3605

11 ай бұрын

😂

@MSinistrari

11 ай бұрын

Some years back I was in the hospital for something serious and my fiance when he left after I got settled in went to Chik-fil-A to get something to eat because it had been a long day and when the cashier asked how he was, he did have a minor emotional burst since he'd been holding it all in so far. He ended up getting his order for free.

@user-xj5wr2kp4o

11 ай бұрын

😂😂

@Razor-gx2dq

10 ай бұрын

Damn

What a great video!!!!You are so on point. Some people have seemed to have lost all sense of self respect. Sharing such personal experiences with strangers is not healthy. Thanks for posting this video.

Misha is the best. She's like an ET from an advanced civilization who plonked down on Earth and is looking around trying to figure things out and going 'dafuq?' all the time.

I used to be friends with someone who took pictures of everyone around them. She would say eg she saw someone looking like a real mess and send a pic of a total stranger to me. I tried educating her that this is not okay and she can just describe it if she really feels the need to talk about it. She never changed her behaviour, it’s sad

The pursuit of money and need for validation has obliterated modern society.

This whole meltdown biz...I work grocery and I've had a lot of bad days where I have to go to the employee restroom and/or office to break down. I try to do it in somewhat private places because I get embarrassed when people see me cry. I had one such situation a week ago; had to have a co-worker step in while my manager dealt with a crazy customer (he literally yelled my manager over to my lane). I couldn't handle the humiliation, so I went away. Boss caught me having a panic attack, sent me home early. I didn't film it, I went straight home. Ended up crying all day, in the privacy of my own house. Public breakdowns are humiliating, shouldn't be glorified like they're doing.

Politicians are validating this behavior as well.

I loved this video! I struggle with over sharing ( not on social media but overall if I’m writing something or if someone mostly my friends/families ask me questions or even if they don’t), so I really appreciate this video. Thx! 😊

You are an awesome example of what happens when parents do their jobs!!! Love you so much! Please thank your parents for us!!!

I am so glad that my parents raised me without social media. I am now an adult and the only interaction I have with anyone online is KZread comments and group chats with people I know in person. It is so sad to see others chase validation from complete strangers. If you have people who are close to you there is no need for this. It is just plain unhealthy.

I feel the same way about family vlogs. Keep your family life private. We all have lives but we don't need to show everything. We all have bad days everyone doesn't need to know.

I used to think I was weird, but then there are these people spazzing out about a breakup

Being someone with the INFJ personality type, I tend to be very empathetic, and I actually don't mind when people start venting a little around me. But I do agree, people should not put their mental breakdowns on social media.

@keepitmia

11 ай бұрын

ayye INFJ gang 🤍🤍

@RWU3125

11 ай бұрын

I Never Feel Jaded?

@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501

11 ай бұрын

@@RWU3125 Introverted, intuitive (why that one is N I have no idea), feeling, and judging.

@keepitmia

11 ай бұрын

@@RWU3125 LMAO 😭😭 (it's a personality type)

@Meow-io3dh

11 ай бұрын

Believing in the “personality types” bs is infinitely more cringe than oversharing online

It worries me that people are treating TikTok as a substitute for therapy I understand people are unwell, but go the therapy. I’ve had people emotionally vomit on me, and they have reacted badly when I’ve said that they need to get professional help

@fandyus4125

11 ай бұрын

It's not even a substitute. That's like saying "wow, I ran out of salt, better put a bunch of whipped cream on my steak!"

Thank you for this, Misha.

Hi Misha Petrov! I really like your videos. So good to see a grounded, clear-thinking young person online. Greetings from Austria ❤

The common sense things that people have to actually be taught these days 🤨😒 Glad you’re there to teach them Misha.

The crying “can’t just tell me I have 2 weeks to find somewhere” type of person I know very intimately. They will procrastinate and ignore all of their responsibilities and then freak out when the deadlines arrive and start deflecting like a they’re Zorro on coke.

I don't use social media anymore. I'm Gen X and not one for sharing particularly so it was never the best idea for me. 😂I deleted the couple of accounts I had because I was horrified by the absolute narcissism, the poor behaviour and how absolute STRANGERS feel it's perfectly fine to verbally abuse you if they disagree with something you say. I genuinely believe the generations after mine cannot deal with their own emotions unless they have an audience, even then they aren't dealing with anything, just looking for validation. Whilst being immensely amusing, as seen by the examples here, it's really rather sad that these people have no coping mechanisms. How on earth they will get through life is anyone's guess. Social media is a cesspool and THE WORST thing about the internet generation.

@Gh0stGaminginc

11 ай бұрын

Richard Dawkins said it best: "Social media has just created a culture of rudeness" and it's true. All people see is a username and forget there's a person on the other end.

Your commentaries are spot on. Please keep it up. You’re a talented observer and commentator

Damn I've never been this early xD Edited: so about the topic - I don't have almost any social media, except for one to communicate with my friends (and yes, people are very surprised when they ask for my Instagram and I say I don't have it xD). But even there I feel like sometimes I'm oversharing. It is pretty addicting: to immediately post every good new photo you make, to show what is going on in your life almost daily (in my case I know that only one or two people are watching this, but it's still very addicting). Even for me it has become a challenge to stop doing that: there's nothing wrong in posting something, but not every goddamn day :D And I can only imagine how insanely hard it may be for the people with large audience. Constant sharing really has become an important part of people's lives. I read a very good quote somewhere: "Do not overshare. Privacy is power".

Literally noticed this. Breakdowns are like the new posting every meal thing. 💀

I have a legitimate circadian rhythm disorder. And that girl talking about "time blindness" really annoyed me. I have never used my condition as an excuse for being late. If anything, my condition makes me more stubborn about being on time! I would happily explain to her that clocks exist because humans are naturally bad at telling the time. It's a LEARNED SKILL. She doesn't want to learn that skill because feigning victimhood seems more profitable to her.

I cannot understand it. I've seen old friends of mine that overshare, cry and complain online publicly, I had to stop following them and lose them as friends because their behaviors were unbearable. Its just embarrassing to watch. Even in real life, hanging out with them, they were always complaining about their problems, sharing too much of their personal problems, and talking behind their other friends backs, even their sex life, and it makes me uncomfortable. I have a lot of problems too and have the occasional meltdowns, but I keep all of these either to myself or share it with my partner. I don't want anyone knowing what I've been through in the past and my personal issues I have. Looking like an utter mess is not my identity. Lol.

The oversharing tiktoks I hate the most are the ones posted by other females openly talking about their vaginal issues. Like miss thing, no one needs to know what color your discharge is 🤢 some things should just stay private

And gen z boys will post the beginning of their "Villain Arch" (They saw American Psycho for the first time)

If we were still primal creatures looking to just be able to survive, not a single one of these people would be having “breakdowns.” These are manufactured issues.

Another great video again! Thanks again!

that poor excuse of a mother forcing her child to pose on camera while crying made me sick to my stomach…🤮 it’s so traumatizing for the kid. it would be traumatizing even for someone who’s older, but when it’s such a young kid, it’s insane. I call it child abuse. she messes with her child’s psyche in a moment of such vulnerability… it gives away a sort of psychopathic vibe. what a creepy, callous woman… I’m shocked…

I think recording someone in the hospital is in the same vein as the photographers who recorded people jumping from the twin towers on 9/11, or the journalists that photograph children starving to death in Africa, or blown to bits in the middle east. Yes, awful things that happen to us should be documented and remembered, but sometimes it's just horrific to look at.

Young lady you are very WISE!! Thank you!

Always on point(Military reference) and one of your best yet. Thank you!

As someone who has Panic Attacks and Autistic Meltdowns, I feel uncomfortable when people show their breakdowns because it just doesn’t feel right. It makes me feel if IM going to have a meltdown and it reminds me of how bad they can get. I don’t like revisiting panic attacks or meltdowns unless its explaining them. Also, I have ADHD as well which causes Timeblindness but I still get to work on time? I have had meltdowns during work, but I still enjoy doing my job, and I don’t want people seeing me in a vulnerable position, and it’s embarrassing. But other than that, I still love my job (I work courtesy in grocery, and I’m 18 paying part of the rent), and I only complain about how outdated most of the store is, but never about the job itself. People who are like that chick, are literally lazy in my opinion, because even with what I go through, I’ve never had any problems and I never asked for accommodations. Maybe for a five minute break when it becomes too much, but then I take it out of my break.

In most cases, the reason they expose so much online is that they never had something genuinely terrible happening to them. Life's hard, for nearly everyone at some point. And the more you grow up, the more you realize how valuable being able to process things on your own time, without 29182 strangers judging you online, is. You'd seriously struggle to find people that ENJOY fame. Do they enjoy the benefits (e.g. being rich)? Sure. But the fame itself? Very, very rare.

@vanillapinkfluff3477

10 ай бұрын

Mhmmm. I don’t think celebrities enjoy the public attention either.

I've had two legit emotional breakdowns in my entire life. It never ever even began to cross my mind to film myself. Ridiculous.

Good on you for calling them out.

I also have been guilty of oversharing too in the past but that's due to not having anyone to speak to IRL, rip

@jonnyz5772

11 ай бұрын

so what did you now get out of it besides everyone and anyone knowing about the things you posted

When someone *acts* like insane people in movies that are older than 1970 just because of a breakup, you know it has become trendy to have "mental health issues". I'm sorry for people who actually deal with problems.

I really appreciate that you were giving real alternative solutions or options instead of judging people, like ur critiques were really grounded so thank you for that! Too many sensationalist style reaction vids out there

Misha, you are extremely well-spoken. You hit the nail on the head with this one. There’s an appropriate time and place to share your story. The oversharing is definitely cringey