He did nothing wrong at all, he gave her a choice SHE decided to get rid of the baby instead of raising it alone, she gets no sympathy from me if she had really loved her husband as much as she claims then she wouldn't of cheated on him

@caffelatte103

Ай бұрын

Actually.... it kinda sounds like manipulation. I know he has rights to feel betrayed, but I feel like he used her guilt because he knew that she wouldnt dare to have the child without his help.

@BobTheTrueCactus

Ай бұрын

​@@caffelatte103 How is it manipulation? He gave her a clear choice. You have your one night stand baby or me. You cannot have both. He stated how he felt about it and he is absolutely entitled to his position and emotions, which are reasonable and justified. You cannot raise a child that you resent. He didn't force her to do anything but her actions have consequences. (Edit: spelling)

@caffelatte103

Ай бұрын

@@BobTheTrueCactus Easy route: leave her. Done. Less drama and same result.

@demonvictim

Ай бұрын

​@caffelatte103 i legit dont get how this is in anyway manipulation. He gave the choice of have baby leave me or keep me and no to this baby. He also followed through and didnt leave her and forgave her. What if she destroyed her uterus in child birth and could no longer birth. Now shes a single mom or if the stress of him leaving caused a miscarriage since shes clearly unstable.

@theboIter

Ай бұрын

@@caffelatte103yea but it was HER CHOICE either she gets the termination OR he leaves. She can’t have the best of both worlds lmao, I’m a woman too, and if I did all that bs, I’d deserve it too. You can’t cheat, and get pregnant and then hope that your partner stays even after. It’s a decision, which she made. Can’t be sour about your own mistakes 🫶🏻

Wife perspective is unreal. She couldn't handle the fact that she had to give things up for him. She couldn't believe that she shouldn't keep a cheating baby. Then she says that it's all because she's a more independent woman. She says he's evil for restricting her freedom when she doesn't make any good choices when she's free to do anything.

@bitviper3430

27 күн бұрын

I’ve never seen someone so delusional. She thinks it’s “control” to not want you wife stay out of the house all night.

@Stop_The_Delusion

20 күн бұрын

Woman logic🤯😵‍💫

@Simply_Angel595

13 күн бұрын

@@Stop_The_Delusion shut up it’s not women it’s a individual person I bet you are a man and woman are amazing if your mom wasn’t born you wouldn’t be here 🙄

Once a cheater always a cheater

@godzilla368bestp4

Ай бұрын

Fr

@flashgamer-hu8ok

Ай бұрын

some change some don't

@user-yy5ih4jk8d

Ай бұрын

why does this not have more likes, but that is true.

@Indianarmy72652

Ай бұрын

​@@flashgamer-hu8ok 99% didn't change

@nightrofx

Ай бұрын

@@flashgamer-hu8ok even if they change the trust is gone

"This was my husbands baby" Hell no, this was the baby of another man and you, which you both consciously made. You also failed to communicate the problems so the husband had nothing to be responsible of.

@Ez.Modeletsgo

Ай бұрын

Ikr, how delusional this chick is

@wereguy18

Ай бұрын

amen brother, my recent ex tried to do this to me. however i now wish i wasnt as bitter as i was back then, to this day my bitterness has kept me.....i suppose the word cynical could be applied? i look at anyone who shows interest with suspicion, like they have some vile agenda. dont be vile in a breakup, be amicable. walk away with your self respect, enough self respect to allow yourself to completely move on.

@FrederikEngelmand

28 күн бұрын

women and accountabillity is like oil and water.

@Stop_The_Delusion

20 күн бұрын

woman logic🤯😵‍💫

"He gets to move on and have a family, while I don't" She cheated, not him. She should be sorry for wasting so much of his time. He forgave so much of her horrible behavior, but she finished it but sleeping with that man again. She is only one who to blame. Maybe he should divorce her the moment he knew it was not his.

@Indiana_Jesus

29 күн бұрын

If you get to the end she admits she was wrong about everything after a long talk with her therapist understanding his point of view instead of only thinking about herself Ironically a lot of women in the comments arguing from her old point of view that she doesn't even agree with anymore😂

“if he loved me-“ babe. if you loved him. you wouldn’t have cheated.

The audacity of calling the affair baby her "Husband's baby". Delusional.

And this folks ia why you shouldn't give cheaters a second chance because if they made that "mistake" once they'll do it twice

@unimpressedsquidward3059

Ай бұрын

Preach

@yourdad_..

Ай бұрын

They get blinded

@jadesterbaby

27 күн бұрын

When you see evil, you have to call it out immediately. Otherwise, it festers and becomes emboldened, growing to an audacious arrogance. Gotta check that sht right away, because people don’t really get that they’ve done something wrong when they don’t have any consequences.

I bet if the role was reversed she would not have been so forgiving. If he had an affair and got another pregnant

@docker_java

Ай бұрын

i agree

Damn, a therapist who actually helps you understand the other side of the argument, instead of continuously supporting you in yours? I thought real therapy went extinct.

@LOLLY.4U

Ай бұрын

W therapist

@ravenisnotmyname711

26 күн бұрын

She probably got told off on Reddit 😂😂

@liamwhite3522

Күн бұрын

There aren't a great many stories like these where we get both perspectives, or even many where the poster is the asshole. We're usually on the side of the author, so the therapist being on the author's side makes sense.

My man literally was gracious and gave her multiple chances and she screwed up, so she had it coming.

The fact that she thinks she needs to tell her side of the story when she the one who cheated and betrayed a loving husband as if it would change anything. Everything bad that happened was entirely her fault.

"He was not with me" No shit, it was NOT HIS CHILD, this lady is absolutely insane

"When I took my marrige vows.." Said woman who not only slept with some guy while married, but also got pregnant by him😂😂😂 She is last one who should reminding her husband about marrige vows. She clearly broke hers a while ago.

lol she talks about vows when she wants him to raise another persons kid but now when she couldn’t keep her legs closed repeatedly

why have i got addicted to these stories

@cardboardian_

Ай бұрын

Same

@ibukungolo4261

Ай бұрын

Please stop it'll make you bitter

@muhammadtalal7291

29 күн бұрын

Bro same

@ryanbarclay7939

28 күн бұрын

😂😂 same! It reminds me of Maury and Jerry Springer!

What were you thinking? The minute she cheated, she would be out of my life!! There's no way I would take her back because once a cheater always a cheater.

Lol the wife's trying to seek sympathy because she "can't be a mother" because he forced her to abort. She could've been a mother if she just agreed to raise her baby by herself but nah, she wanted to raise her affair baby with her husband. 😂

The wife did this all to herself and the audacity to say “he will be able to move on and have a family and I will never will” Is just karma she slept with the same man twice she got what was coming. She’s also like a 4 year old spoiled child who shouts “IT ISNT FAIR!” When something is out of stock (Hope you get what I mean by that)

He shouldnt have to raise a baby thst isnt his. Yeah some men do but he did say hed leave her if she cheated. She was seeking sympathy for a decision she made and acted like she was the victim. Plus she had a choice, and wasnt forced to terminate, so her blaming him for it baffles me

Her story didn't make me feel bad for her at all she was a bad person and bad stuff happened to her. Karma. Husband was a simp and a push over and he got what was clearly coming. Also that's why if your married you dont stay out all night being alone like that for no reason, that would clearly male or female eventually lead to some kind of bad decision. She sounds like she got married but still wanted to go out partying every night and he was a simp waiting at home for her and still waited when she didn't come home at night.

@theboIter

Ай бұрын

um no, hard disagree from your pov of “not staying out all night or being alone” statement since marriage, cheating is a CHOICE. It doesn’t just “happen”. No fucking reason ever takes you to cheating if you’re a genuinely good person. If you’re not, and you’re looking for excuses, then clearly you’re a bad partner, there’s never an excuse.

@Catherine.Dorian.

Ай бұрын

@@theboIternot sure why you seem to be disagreeing with the comment above cause you both seem to be saying the same thing. But you’re correct! And she has the history before him, her ex left her for kissing another woman. She’s a hoe

@stormjones725

Ай бұрын

@theboIter ya but what I'm saying is if your out partying and staying places without your partner witch I'd already argue is a bad idea it will clearly lead to temptation and opertunities and even good people make bad decisions

@theboIter

Ай бұрын

@@stormjones725 still hard no, just because you’re away from your partner doesn’t mean that you will lead to cheat, that’s simply your problem and you’re not loyal, it’s not anyone else’s fault, just yours. He was not wrong to trust her, she broke that. She’s allowed to be as late as she wants, it’s no reason to cheat. That’s the equivalent of cheating because it’s long distance, “oh my partner wasn’t around and I was lonely” NO. You are not ready for a relationship if this is your mindset. (Sorry if I come off as harsh, but hopefully you get a clean perspective that there is no excuse for cheating)

@humptydumpty9373

Ай бұрын

@@stormjones725 if u truly love someone those "temptations" wont drive u to do something insane.

As Mr. krabs once said "Boohoo, let me play a sad song on the worlds smallest violin". 🎻

@rohxndoesedits

2 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

Notice that for the baby, instead of asking ap to take care of the baby, she asked her ex-husband to take care of him. That's not love. that's just being stupid lol

Cheaters seem to also be delusional

The wife's response is effing wild. So she's bringing up all the times when ha hasn't been perfect, when he's been a little controlling, as if to justify her cheating. That's like saying "yeah I stabbed him in the throat, but he didn't remember my birthday!". She is seriously effing unhinged and absurdly ridiculous in her justifications. I'm glad in the final update, after a lot of therapy, she finally realized that she did all this by herself. She's the evil one. Not her ex husband.

@proudtobeanerd5340

Ай бұрын

That’s not being a little controlling - he made major decisions without her and wouldn’t let her keep her own last name. Plus, this was an emotional affair, not a sexual one, which to me is a sign she wasn’t as happy in that marriage as she claimed. She was confused: she didn’t consciously understand why she was doing this, felt obligated to her husband, and thought she could still make it work. The situation was more nuanced than how you’re portraying it.

wait so she cheated in previous relationship and 3 times in marriage and just says i regret it

*Why couldn't she keep the baby and then demand child support from Greg?*

@Eric.43

Ай бұрын

Then her husband will leave her

@mr.d8747

Ай бұрын

@@Eric.43 *Yeah, but it would have been **_a little bit_** easier to raise the kid if she actually recieved child support money from Greg. They **_could_** have even tried to raise the kid together. If Greg was really as great of a man as the wife said, he **_surely_** would have helped.*

She’s just a waste of time and money

@Black_Dragon_God_Emperor

Ай бұрын

She literally thought of the bastard as his and being a false fairy tale like the delusional fool she is

She was just being a HOOORRRIBLE person the husband didn’t do much wrong too and the wife cheated and she CHEATED.

Im glad she got help and realized it was all her fault.

“If it doesn’t fit in a short don’t put it in a short” -Sun Tzu

She’s saying she’s ruined her body when she ruined the husbands heart💔

The wives perspectives is such a wows is me

Of course he’d want her to be home at a decent time. She’s a cheater and he wants to make sure she isn’t sleeping with another dude again. She’s completely clueless.

Smh shame on the wife

@Black_Dragon_God_Emperor

Ай бұрын

Agreed just a fool who thinks she can do as she likes with no consequences. A foolish person who has no loyalty to her husband.

@rukiakuchiki6187

Ай бұрын

@@Black_Dragon_God_Emperor agreed

@lobsterlunchbox7581

Ай бұрын

@@rukiakuchiki6187 She is a total B cheating is never ok he should have immediately broken it off

@rukiakuchiki6187

Ай бұрын

@@lobsterlunchbox7581 agreed

Bro is pure simp He should Divorce her when she is pregnant

I feel so bad for this man. He didn't deserve it. I hate how his wife says she loves him more thena ything. That clearly isn't the case. If she loved him she would not look at being intimate with another man or even think about it. If she truly loved her husband he would be the only man she would have eyes for.

Thank GOD she realized she was the problem

Never force a choice. The husband should have just divorced her. No forcing a termination. Just end the marriage.

@artgamer5604

29 күн бұрын

He gave a fucking Ultiamatun IT WAS HERE CHOICE TO CHEET TO HAVE THE TERMINATION tldr she is the a-hole

@Indiana_Jesus

29 күн бұрын

He didn't Force anything he gave her a choice she decided that was more important than getting divorced Even later on she said that it's not his fault and everything's her fault and it was her choice that she made Opinions like that are the reason why the words of women and accountability are rarely used together in a positive way...

@BelleDreamer7

29 күн бұрын

@@Indiana_Jesus bwahahaha “gave her a choice?” Yeah, “kill this baby you clearly want or I will divorce you” when he knows how desperate she is to stay married is not a choice. Then he never accepted the trauma a woman can go through with a termination of a wanted baby. Nope, he should have said “I am leaving you.” She lost her baby for him AND her ability to have children and he never acknowledged his role in the first part. I have little sympathy for cheaters but I also have little respect for emotional manipulators. They should have divorced because that was not a true choice and the fact you think it was speaks exceedingly poorly about your emotional maturity.

@mukymakazuki2218

28 күн бұрын

​@@BelleDreamer7 what was His options? Why doesnt she kept the Baby and raised it with the Baby Daddy? She started shit with the cheating.

@BelleDreamer7

28 күн бұрын

@@mukymakazuki2218 OP should have just divorced. It was clear he was never going to move pass this. So not only did he force her to terminate a baby she did not want to, his pressure for her to do that resulted in her losing her ability to ever have another.

instead of telling him how she felt she just bottled them up and cheated💀

@danielthecake8617

Ай бұрын

She can't cope with the fact that she can't get a "get-out-of-terrible-actions" free card from her husband. She acts like a teenager.

Once a cheater always a cheater 😂 👌 you need to leave street

I don't feel sorry for her one bit, all I'm hearing is that she is blaming everyone else except for herself for her poor life choices!! You ruined your own life and now you have to deal with it

She can just adopt as long she doesn’t cheat on her next partner.

"I couldn't have children, so i slept with a guy who wasnt my husband" damn that woman is helpless

i basically saw someone say this in another reddit video but "if someone shot at you and missed, would you allow them to shoot at you a second time?

She told a whole different story then him and she did it by her self her husband is in the right

The woman was a horrible person, but I am glad her therapist was understanding of the man, and made her realize that she was completely in the wrong.

Cheating again? Damn

She was the one who made had to make the choice between termination and divorce, in the end by cheating she ended getting both. If he was that awful she should have been the one to file for divorce.

OP is a doormat for taking back the cheater the second time when he saw her with the affair partner when she was crying. OP didn’t have the spine to not be gaslit into taking her back

Listening to the wife makes me like the husband more

Hahahahaa that woman is delusional. I'm glad he divorce her.

@anaamaya7536

29 күн бұрын

Ur delusional

aloha. the wife perspective is kinda confusing me

@sugarbeef

Ай бұрын

Reality gets unrecognizable when you try to twist it enough to make yourself look like the victim to excuse your cheating.

@0.coco_

Ай бұрын

@@sugarbeef true

"If he valued our vows-" the moment she cheated the vows went to shit.

I have literally *no* sympathy for this woman. If she wasn’t comfortable with the compromises he wanted, she shouldn’t have agreed to them and married him. Her attitude and thought process is so disturbing to me. That being said, I’m glad she started going to therapy. It can really help to have an unbiased, uninvolved, outside perspective. While I don’t have sympathy for her, I do feel sorry for her and I feel sad that she has to carry these traumas.

I don’t think he’s at fault,I mean he gave her a choice, and she chose her husband over her baby,that was HER choice.

Bro is she lying about the husband

Thank goodness she had the realization

I miss the days when men had spines. This is why you never take garbage back in.

one hour gang

@_-_-_-_---

Ай бұрын

here

Lmao!!! This woman, she really thinks she's the victim.

Wow, that’s probably the first story I see when a therapist does their job instead of comforting delusional AH

OP was a fool for taking her back. If your wife gets knocked by another man it's time to end the relationship.

She lean on the shoulder of the man she cheated with also doesn't want anything to do with her and his baby like how could she get support from him when things go wrong his the first to run like something wrong with your head?

You have to f-ing kidding me. The lack of accountability on display here is pathalogical. The amount of time she makes a definitive statement then immediately contradicts it is staggering.

That guilt card at the end 😂

Cheating is the most selfish thing a person can do to their marriage. Just leave.

“If he loved me, we could make it work”. How about no.

Once a cheater, always a cheater

As a woman I do feel it was a bit far to ask for a termination but again, she decided on the termination. She is overly entitled. So sad the baby had to pay for this lady's wide open legs.

They both just need to leave eachother alone. This seems like a very toxic relationship on both sides

At least she finally came to her senses

At the very least, she came to understand how it was 100% her decisions that ended up causing irreparable damage to her body and ultimately the divorce as well. Does she feel any remorse for what she put her ex husband through?

The only thing he did wrong was not dumping her the first time.

They shouldn’t have even made it down the aisle. Sometimes opposites does not attract

Wait , wait, wait, Wife's prospective

@mryuksiesta

5 күн бұрын

right???😳

I'm only 39 seconds into the story and I feel bad for both the husband and the wife. The wife should not have slept with another man but the husband should have encouraged his wife to still have the baby and put it for adoption instead of saying she could only have a second chance if she chose abortion.

That's sad, cheating on him what did he do to you its your fault worse part is he didn't seem like a bad guy

how can ppl be so crule

wtf wife pov, where this came from

Simp man is good for reddit stories, but you gotta think that Simp's man life is living nightmare.

Karma Hit Her Hard. She said the AP guy was nice and everything at the time of the first cheating also he was not married at that time. Also, said money was not the issue for her. Still she doesn't want to leave her husband after the first scandal and bantering about how overprotective and boring kind of person his husband was. She could have left her for AP if she thought he was nice and all but no. Why would a husband take care of someone else child? I don't understand these women.

These people should have never been married

Why was this dude even taking her back after she was being impregnated by another dude's seed? Everything what happened afterwards was due to your own choice but at least you finally threw that 304 out. Also, holy molly, the "wife's" pov screams huge delulu. Bish, you made the decision to abort your baby. You could raise the child on your own without your husband. The fact that she was expecting her betrayed husband to raise an affairs baby is beyond disgust. What a narcissist...

Im sorry but THE SHLAPS ARE SO FUNNY-

8:39 I dont believe for a second that nothing intimate happened. She is full of shit.

Shlapped😂

Could not be happier you got caught

they sound like they're both in the wrong

Top ten anime glow up’s Edit:why couldn’t the other man take care of HIS child

These stories just leave me speechless with peoples actions...i have a small circle of people i love and trust fully, so i dont ever interact with these type of people... thankfully. It still just baffles me that these type of people exist though. What a miserable existence.

Cheaters don't deserve to be parents

Yes you are right

He should have just end the relationship. He wanted her to terminate the pregnancy in retaliation, creating a toxic future. Just end it, so you can move on.

Weird there’s another pov

I'm not an "apron wife and love my freedom" but yet I want to be mom. I'm confused??

U ruined that by sleeping wit someone else multiple times

😮 she done goofed herself. She wanted to have her cake and it too, I like how she tries to blame all this on the husband. She should have woman up and say no. I don't love you. No more. I'm going to have the AP baby and divorce. So she killed her daughter sorry for telling like it is😬

08:39 I fully believe you!

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