[Full Story] Girlfriend has a SPREADSHEET of the GUYS SHE CHEATED ON ME WITH.
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@xpenzfan2 ай бұрын
Fellas, is it really that hard to only see one person at a time? Do you really need to collect bodies like infinity stones? She wasn't upset for what she did, she was upset she got caught. She might be truthful in her feelings, however, it still is a huge red flag. Is it truly that hard to just... only see one person at a time?
@steveARG2022
Ай бұрын
As a person she hasn’t lost her value, as a woman she did. Imagine telling this story to their kids if they ever reunite, imagine how many bodies she has in total. Imagine how deep that whole is, she lost her value because of her actions and Im pretty sure no man would ever wonna date a woman with such a background
@tigerchief0869
Ай бұрын
@@steveARG2022 if your going to make an incel comment please use the right word it hole
@Morality739
Ай бұрын
@@steveARG2022 The problem is not that she slept with a lot of people, the problem is that she was doing it while in a monogamous relationship.
@Mr-T-green
Ай бұрын
@@Morality739tf do you mean not sleeping with other guys😂
@ithian42
Ай бұрын
@@Morality739From the way this is written out it doesn't seem like their relationship was very well defined. She saw it one way and he saw it the other way, this is the problem with not clearly defining your relationship at the start. Honestly, she should have been truthful once asked, but I get that she was trying to protect the relationship. The two of them just need to sit down talk and clearly work through things, because this seems more like misunderstanding between the two than cheating.
@VsmbixxАй бұрын
the guy who slipped on the onion had me laughing so hard 😭
@fastey6
Ай бұрын
LMAO ME TOO I HAD TO REWIND LIKE 3 TIMES
@Tallyho3
Ай бұрын
I literally laughed for a minute straight😂
@switzerland_LOL
26 күн бұрын
5:17
@Little_goober_stuff
23 күн бұрын
Bro really went “man I’m dead”
@Decemberdaddywauceishere
14 күн бұрын
fr😭😭
@grandparedpill2695Ай бұрын
She brought a former lover into your house. That's grounds for dismissal.
@vspoke9150
Ай бұрын
The worse part is that we don't don't if she still slept with him. There is absolutely no need to get an ex to your house.
@nategin9009
Ай бұрын
Also lied about the coworker which he let slide basically
@xentiment6581
Ай бұрын
A chick pretending to be shocked by you trying to kiss her is ground for dimissal.
@mukithasan9684
23 күн бұрын
That is disgusting 🤮🤮🤮
@WonderboltsBIGGESTfan
15 күн бұрын
If you ended on good terms it shouldn’t matter
@killdashade3142 ай бұрын
He should’ve left from “she considered us a couple when we moved in together “ after they’d been together for 2 years by that point. Meanwhile she was getting railed strangers. She obviously doesn’t respect him.
@XenT_YT1
Ай бұрын
She stated she don’t respect her self other but how if you Dating the love of your life how do you not respect yourself lmao she is dumb
@reddlane2791
Ай бұрын
Yeah, when she had no problem sleeping with other guys when they were dating but only stopped when she decided she loved him and not when they officially started the relationship
@JazzIsPoppinOff
Ай бұрын
She's for the streets
@jackavalmasovnon
Ай бұрын
@@reddlane2791but they never “officially” started the relationship
@juliuscasar7202
29 күн бұрын
@@jackavalmasovnon they certainly didnt live in the Same House as best Friends Being oppososite sex
@mclovin1609Ай бұрын
She said “She didn’t want to mess it up with intimacy” 😂😂😂 what a joke.
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
This is weirdly how some women think. The "relationship guy", the one they're considering for the long-term, they don't take to bed early because they want the intimacy to mean something and have all the true "love making" emotional enhancements beyond "just sex". (And yes, early intimacy CAN derail that emotional bonding of a building relationship.) The guys they consider "just for fun", and have no interest in doing anything but sleeping with, those guys get the sex early and often--and often more wild and kinky than the "relationship guy" ever even knows is an option with her. And these women honestly have no concept of how insulting it is to the "relationship guy" to be treated that way until it's spelled out for them like OP had to do.
@oxtailsoup6493
18 күн бұрын
Honestly this type of attitude only really makes sense if the woman is being consistently chaste with everyone she’s dating.
@JB-bb4su
18 күн бұрын
@@oxtailsoup6493 woman....consistent.... Should manage expectations here....
@gafanhotogamer5993
18 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4su yeah, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want a good guy to date, you can't go on fooling around. To me it looks like she has BPD. And yeah, she will cheat again.
@christiansaenscheidt9056
16 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4su This makes zero sense.
@GumiMarcyАй бұрын
Bro had 0 experience in dating, so it was easy for him to mistaken what she wanted, but the fact that OP's GF definitely knew that and still slept with others while she was seeing OP was stupid as hell. They moved in together and when OP saw her spreadsheet with all the dudes she slept with (as the story said, DAILY, sometimes more than once a day) is even more disgusting. Then she tried to guilt trip him by crying and according to her "she loves him" but if she DID love him, she wouldnt have made him wait to even get a kiss when she was out getting railed by others. I can totally understand OP when he said he felt unattractive and undesirable, cause anyone would feel that way in a situation like this. She doesnt deserve a second chance, OP should just leave for his own sake, thst woman is just a pile of damaged goods who views a sexual relationship/hookup (or whatever else) as something more than a commited relationship.
@InitialDraal
Ай бұрын
Even if she didn't cheat just the fact she does it with everyone makes her not worth it.
@SyphinSki
Ай бұрын
5:17
@johnnyhounsell9449
16 күн бұрын
I mean in all fairness we didn’t experience the relationship and how each person grew along the way, so best option is for OP to decide if the rest of the relationship is worth working through what he’s learned. We can’t really judge
@ReaperChaxalАй бұрын
That just show the biggest problem in modern time, Communication. “she considered us a couple when we moved in together “ They both had different realities they lived in. This showed me that they never talked about important issues, which is why they never argued with each other. The most important thing in a relationship is clear communication, not vague assumptions.
@poppyfan2842
Ай бұрын
Facts^^^^ Like legit, this whole thing only happened due to lack of communication.
@jbkkkkk
Ай бұрын
This. I was waiting for this comment.
@silver924
24 күн бұрын
The thing is, if he would have pressured her at an earlier point, she would have gaslighted him by saying, that he is insecure/controlling
@ReaperChaxal
20 күн бұрын
@@silver924 Asking a question is not pressuring. If you can't handle the basics, what are your expectations for a relationship?
@edunx10.
20 күн бұрын
@@ReaperChaxali think after 2 entire years of dating, its very clear they are a couple. Shes clearly making up her own reality and trying to use it as an excuse.
@hoapham7389Ай бұрын
The calendar must've been to keep in check if she got pregnant or std
@AP0PT0SIS
Ай бұрын
That doesn’t make sense bc she has OP’s name on there for dates where they didn’t do anything.
@edunx10.
20 күн бұрын
Calendar probably was a time table on when she does the deed with strangers and when she meets OP or others.@@AP0PT0SIS
@Jvnior_20
18 күн бұрын
Nah it just seemed she had a roster, and op got stuck with her. Cus the coworker stopped cus he got a gf, he didn’t say she ended it etc.
@killdashade3142 ай бұрын
He should’ve left from “she considered us a couple when we moved in together “ after they’d been together for 2 years by that point. Meanwhile she was getting railed strangers. What else did he need to hear, she obviously doesn’t respect him.
@littleleah310
2 күн бұрын
Fr 🤢🤮
@bradleycurtis41872 ай бұрын
Anyone else feel guilt for the man as if it was your fault even though u know it wasnt. A guilt so bad it make u vomit and cry in pain
@firstkill5552
2 ай бұрын
Bro a couple parts had my chest in a knot, stomach swirling n shit feels revolting. That feeling is what keeps us faithful as a species. Never let it go
@shieldwolf65
Ай бұрын
Yeah, he's got a serious lot of BS to process. He's got to avoid being a simp, but wants to give her a chance BC of his feelings. He doesn't really have the experience to deal with this but as a good guy he wants to. This story churned me up too & I've seen plenty of life in 58yrs. It's not often I can't see right thru a story or situation. This one I just feel sorry for the guy, whatever he decides. He's taking on a high risk Rescue. Stupid or not part of me wants him to.
@alexbaribeault
Ай бұрын
@@shieldwolf65He needs to dump her ass. Plain and simple
@solo2873
22 күн бұрын
It’s definitely not an easy situation but I don’t think there’s many men who can comeback from that especially once he had admitted to himself that he can’t look at her the same way again. Long term you will probably be more at peace by just walking away.
@bigbrohybridАй бұрын
“i DiDnT mEaN tO hUrT yOu” = Shit. I did not PLAN on GETTING CAUGHT. I never intended on FACING basic consequences. I thought I was better at hiding things FROM you while also lying to benefit MYSELF. She basically only apologized for not being a better deceiver and does a terrible job at sugar-coating. You can’t sugarcoat a turd but you CAN use tears to melt the resolve of an easy mark
@JonRose420
15 күн бұрын
A little harsh but true
@isabellavelazquez97492 ай бұрын
If someone cheats on you even once they don’t care about you, if you believe them your just hurting yourself bro
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
Then it's a good thing she quite literally didn't cheat.
@AnonyMoose31
Ай бұрын
@@notthatguy.937No. she did, sleeping with people while you’re dating someone else is cheating
@Iheartreoo
Ай бұрын
@@notthatguy.937except she did..
@emuuriarte1433
Ай бұрын
@notthatguy.937 She can be truthful, but that doesn't make her correct. That whole she didn't cheat thing is all from her fucked up perspective of how their relationship worked. She has no concern for his boundaries. Also, if you consider the beginning of relationship to be when you move in together, then there is something seriously wrong with you.
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
@@emuuriarte1433 Dude she stayed exclusive when they first kissed. You can't expect anyone to respect boundaries you haven't set.
@bank6uptcyАй бұрын
She did cheat and he found out that after 1 year of dating the names on her calendar finally stopped showing up but when they started dating she was cheating on him
@FruitsnackbossАй бұрын
Don’t ignore her past cause it could ruin your future
@shieldwolf65
Ай бұрын
Fair point. This whole situation is a minefield.
@Tusoc9688Ай бұрын
SHES LYING, YOURE COOKED, she said she considered them a couple when they moved in together but later said she knew she loved him after that kiss and cut everything else out so what were they for those two years???💀
@Danail740
Ай бұрын
As most would call, as situationship
@ricoarmstrong74402 ай бұрын
Sounds disgusting. This modern dating culture is not good for anyone. Especially at 4:40 i can feel the pain. We should be more conservative with whom we sleep with and when.
@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
2 ай бұрын
There was a video about WHY women are not suppose to have multiple partners.
@ricoarmstrong7440
2 ай бұрын
@@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook Definetly.Its too easy for woman to have male sexual partners. So much so that they dont think about how potential partners would feel about that.
@Scout844Ай бұрын
Time to leave her she cheated on you regardless how can anyone live a life with that person again without resentment Keep going with this girl and it will never go anywhere and will further through your life into turmoil
@marvinsalmeron585Ай бұрын
Notice he said her sleeping around calendar slowed down but didn’t completely stop. Also if it didn’t matter to her, why even keep the calendar like a dumbass unless she hoped it hop back on it? Lastly this whole thing on Americans over extended “talking periods” is so stupid and leads to shit like this: I love how she also made it as if love was passive: she slowed down sleeping around when she finally felt butterflies for him. Love is active and if you’re going to entertain some for 2 years, obviously you’d be expected to soley be on them…
@lou7695Ай бұрын
you take her back and the dude she kept inviting over your house is still going to crush it. She’ll just be way more lowkey about it to not get caught again
@AboguabogaАй бұрын
The only thing I gotta say to this is WTF. I can’t even imagine the amount of pain this dude is in, I feel sick just listening to this
@terragamer09122 ай бұрын
5:18 not the dude in the background slipping on a onion 🧅😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 that got me bruh im wrong for laughing but bro 😭 then 11:25 owwwww
@blackout1482
Ай бұрын
Im glad im not the only one who laughed😂😂
@terragamer0912
Ай бұрын
@@blackout1482 oop 🤣🤣🤣
@Spider.Of.War-9000Ай бұрын
I can't believe there was literally a "but wait THERE'S MORE"😂😂😂
@Marlo_Doh_Waldo42Ай бұрын
This story has been out for a while. Is there an update to this post?
@tweetyguy7347Ай бұрын
Nahh bro are we just gonna ignore how the guy just tripped and fell 💀💀 5:18
@tumblingartist
Ай бұрын
Poor guy falling over that onion 😔😔
@PedroHawk18 күн бұрын
Sounds to me like she never thought really about what she wants for life. It's hard not to judge someone who keeps just doing hookups and even making notes about it, and then claims to have "fallen in love"? What kind of joke is this?
@raulmontr2 күн бұрын
This cheap MacDonald meal is trying to pose as a fine dinning experience. Disgusting 🤮
@NoxTheZombieАй бұрын
Run forest run!
@catmother03Ай бұрын
They never discussed about exclusivity?
@braoha123
Ай бұрын
When you had a different guy for every day of the week I don’t think that is the real problem..
@NKVD_Enjoyer
Ай бұрын
Crazy that you think you have to discuss something like that as if it isn't obvious
@Huehue-qf1ri
Ай бұрын
Its something that came with relationship
@mikeehrmantraut7274
19 күн бұрын
It’s implied 😒
@mothmanlol6263Ай бұрын
What makes him think it’s a document of people he’s been intimate with anyway? I have a calendar like that and I just write the names on it if people I’m hanging out with, sometimes it’s a date, sometimes it’s friends, sometimes it’s my brother or my dad and obviously not everyone I’ve been on a date with I’ve been intimate with so it just seems like a big leap to make that assumption about what the spreadsheet is for when all the information he has of it are dates and names Also he’s kinda weird for calling her his girlfriend before they were official like bro that’s not cheating you weren’t together if you want to be official talk about it don’t just assume you’re on the same page
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Yeah I slightly agree he was way too vague but that doesn't excuse the 600+ confirmed bodies she's racked up in 3 years, she belongs to the streets
@buddermonger2000
21 күн бұрын
Because she admitted that is what she did with the relevant portion of that. Realizing that his co-worker's name appeared on there, and that is what they did together, is what led him to suspect as such. After he confronted her and pushed, she gave in.
@edunx10.
20 күн бұрын
They were pretty official if they can talk hours on end weekly, heck maybe even daily at times. Also, saying your not a couple after wanting a relationship going into the romantic direction (that was said before they moved in) is crazy in my opinion.
@1bestfriend2u18Ай бұрын
Dude, I feel bad for you.I hope you don't miss your person for the rest of your life over this
@sharkhorse24-44Ай бұрын
me imagining myself in his pov, then imagining what he said about getting railed by other men, makes me feel like i would love her, but feel extremely hurt. and the fact she didn't realize that doing that would hurt him in a emotional way makes me feel like she isn't the smartest, or was impulsive. there are alot of things women do that they think men do. like when GIRLS OVERTHINK WHAT MEN SAY. when men say something, they mean that, but girls when they something theres usually a hidden meaning.
@galanoob722227 күн бұрын
So from stuff that happened to me and some psychological knowledge I have from my parents (both therapists), I would conclude: 1. I believe her when she says that she needed the validation from sleeping with others. Thats is common behavior among people, who didnt get that from their (in most cases) parents. 2. The reason she still slept with other guys, when they started dating (from OPs POV), so before they kissed, is probably thats all she d ever done in the relationship department, so she just kept going. It was probably normal for her, so she didn't think twice. 3. I also believe that she was scared at first, when he wanted to kiss her, because it was a new feeling, she d never had before. Obviously I believe those things, considering that OP believed what she said wasn't a lie, but from the psychological perspective it does male sense. BUT the real problems (imo) start where she lied to him (about the guy from work). Thats a big no go. Thats the point where the relationship would have ended for me already. The second problem is something no one is at fault for: her past and the actions (sleeping around) that come with it. I don't see her at fault, but personally I would no longer have a rs with her. The problem with such a situation is (I speak from experience) that maybe the first couple of years everything will be alright. You are the first that values her for who she is and not just her body. You help her value herself more, she gets confidence in her own worth, etc. And without you noticing this "help" will get, or is from the beginning, the basis of your rs. Now what happens when she gets "better"? Right, part of the reason (or even the whole reason) she loves you and finds you attractive vanishes. If you don't "start building" something else during this time or there are simply no other things that make you attractive in her eyes, that will lead to a relationship where both are unhappy, one or both are unfaithful or even a toxic one. Believe me you dont want that.
@ainzooalgone9858Ай бұрын
I normally wouldn't say this, but i personally think this is salvageable, i think he should give her one chance with a serious and long conversation and lay down some very hard ground rules, for instance that guy isnt allowed to come over anymore she isnt allowed to speak with him or see him anymore, and any other rupes he wishes to set, i believe what she did is horrible but its not completely unforgivable, although i would make it clear if she does anything suspicious from here on out the relationship is over she is getting blocked and nothing will continue between them and i would suggest sticking to it once said.
@Bitsen0910
Ай бұрын
Yes, from what OP is saying she sounds genuinely happy in their relationship I think maybe with some therapy they could get past this.
@spooncomment3359
Ай бұрын
I actually agree with you... Although I don't think she's been clear about whether or not she slept with him after. I admit that I'm friends with some of my ex's and their partners. Others have cut me off as their relationship evolved. Heck, I've even had female friends cut me off. It seems a really mixed bag.. But back to my main point... I hope that they can be happy and I hope whatever they come to works for them... But the fact she lied is not in her favour.
@hououhou1387
18 күн бұрын
You will never trust her, she brought an affair to there home and lied to his face. She knew what she did. Do you understand how disrespectful that is. She met other guys before there date, on the same day, fucked them and met him. He feels disgusted by her and how should he trust her again ? She is destroyed her relationship because she was nothing more than a dumb whore, that's why she is crying because she get caught. It's unforgivable and over
@jessicawillmore450813 күн бұрын
She thinks he should be okay with it because they weren’t “official”. But that is not how life works.
@kim-gs5my2 ай бұрын
it just seems like really poor communication sadly
@gearsie_
Ай бұрын
nah, it seems like she's just a cheater
@kim-gs5my
Ай бұрын
not really, no one made it official, i dont rlly think she cheated@@gearsie_
@Trey_GSF
Ай бұрын
Yeah.. you’re definitely female. I just gotta say, ladies.. toxic femininity seems a much more pervasive and harmful issue than its masculine counterpart has been in decades. What we don’t realize is that we’re hurting ourselves just as much as we are our men. Be better, bitches. (As a woman myself, I can say this. So don’t @ me. 🙄)
@josephmbimbiАй бұрын
i totally understand the willingness not to have intimacy ruin a potentially serious relationship, and OP should not feel insecure about it imho, but anything else is a pile of shit and deception
@buddermonger2000
21 күн бұрын
Bro she is getting railed during that same time. She pulls away from a kiss and fears intimacy having an issue, while at the very same time she is railed EARLIER THAT SAME DAY
@ThatNoamАй бұрын
did u notice the guy tripping on an onion tho?? at 5:16 😂
@SophieTheSnakeGirl-DinoTheBino15 күн бұрын
5:18 DYING AT THE VIDEO BAHAHAHA😂
@Aw3someOpZ21 күн бұрын
The classic, “ Mede him wait while Fabio and Brad got the ViP pass for free,” 😂situation.
@ha-kh7ef21 күн бұрын
Leave her bro. She wasn't your first. She literally chose you last. If she actually cared about you she would just focus on you.
@fplfieco22Ай бұрын
This is the biggest problem with high body counts and baggage entering a relationship
@jacobgodwin-jl5wvАй бұрын
5:17 bro sliped on garlic
@tenou213Ай бұрын
This guy is obviously very new to relationships and didn't bother or didn't know to establish intimacy boundaries - instead assuming that his partner has a similar attitude towards intimacy and sexual relations as him. People wanting to be more initially reserved with someone they see as particularly partner-worthy is INCREDIBLY common.
@adriagiroricart7096
Ай бұрын
You make wait the one you want to date but some random in less than a a few hours can enjoy everything.... If you think that's fair that's just fucked up.
@direwolf8703
Ай бұрын
Yes blame him for her being for the streets. If you're interested in someone for a relationship you need to respect the relationship. If you want an exclusive relationship with someone and you're still fucking other people you don't deserve a real relationship.
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
@@direwolf8703When did she demand that he be exclusive? She only slept with other people back when they were essentially just friends. It ended when they made their relationship semi-official with a kiss. Though it sounds like he never bothered to actually have that talk.
@InitialDraal
Ай бұрын
@@notthatguy.937 you don't have to demand to be exclusive. If you've started dating it's on you to disclose if you don't want anything normal.
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
@@InitialDraal but they hadn't started dating.
@JKCloud9Ай бұрын
As someone who fell for every thing that this man’s explained once, it doesn’t get better, it doesn’t get easier, and once a cheat is always a cheat. If you accept her, ask yourself “When is the next time this happens?” Or “will I be able to trust?” Crocodile tears and emotional excitement is easy ass shit, but trusting someone after they betrayed your trust first… that’s harder than you think.
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Ngl if u did fall for the stuff the OP did then you've gotta be stupid who the hell believes in those fake ahh tears and the fact she was acting normal the whole time and was probably never planning to tell him anything
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Some nerdy anime mc type shit
@JKCloud9
20 күн бұрын
@@SmiIeyman I mean, true haha I appreciate you being real with me. This was years ago and I learned my lesson since but I did fall for it, many people do, some unfortunately don’t ever get out of that trap while some do.
@errantry4Ай бұрын
Seems like she is being honest. And made a common mistake. You're right. You cant go back to the way things were before. It sounds like she's willing to do her part to build your guys's next chapters together. But her deception is very telling. If you hadnt found everything out yourself, would she have told you everything? You have to decide if you can start building them with her. You'll need to lay out a road map together. That being said, this is way too common of a thing these days, and just so indicative of the moral deficit in today's society. The fact that it didnt even cross her mind that this would make you feel like that and that she thought that taking things slow with the guys she really cared about while getting it from other guys, was the right thing to do, really shows how brainwashed a lot of todays women are. Doesnt mean shes a bad person, but she made a big mistake not being upfront with you about all of this at the beginning.
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Bro she cheated and most likely has nearly 1000 or 600 bodies in the span of three years, even if she didn't cheat she belongs to the dumpsters
@Distt3nceАй бұрын
5:17 The background video😭
@jotarokujo312
Ай бұрын
Damn I didn't notice until you pointed it out lol 😂😂
@Lava-6788Ай бұрын
11:22 I’m in pain just from this.
@MxkoTsunxmi13 күн бұрын
5:18 THE WAY HE SLID☠️☠️
@BBL_VortexАй бұрын
Honestly seems like she’s not serious enough about the early stages of relationships and he’s to serious about the early stages of relationships
@jeremybethea5747Ай бұрын
What’s fucked up is shit like this is commonplace nowadays
@lorisutherland7728Ай бұрын
You have to talk to her. Women used to do this to women. Now it’s everybody doing this and it doesn’t make it right.
@-ZeroTea-Ай бұрын
I feel like neither are at fault here. Op from the beginning just assumed they were dating because as he said he was new to relationships. To me it sounded mostly like hangouts as friends and like she said she didn’t consider them a couple till they moved in together. Clearly she isn’t the best with relationships either, and slept around to feel that validation sometimes that’s all you want from a person and clearly she didn’t want this with Op she took it slow with him and waited before she did anything and when she did consider them a couple she had stopped because she finally felt the love she desired. I see how this could be deal breaking to op but at the same time he never confirmed what they were and expected the same one and done treatment as these other guys both of them need to talk it out i hope they get through this
@jennymora3329
Ай бұрын
Confirmation?? He wasn't a hook up though, he was dating her, that's enough Confirmation not whore yourself around. I get it if you going on dates just to see you feel that spark with someone before going to second base
@-ZeroTea-
Ай бұрын
@@jennymora3329 No i meant like he said in the beginning it he thought it was a date but never asked and neither of them called it a date. There’s a difference between dating to find the spark and hanging out and finding it that way
@kk_you_do_you1468
Ай бұрын
@@-ZeroTea- but he did say that at one point he did ask her and she responded positively to the question but she continued to hook up with people and didn't stop till they were fully moved in together and you don't do that until you know a person well enough and trust them
@InitialDraal
Ай бұрын
Bro is really justifying her cheating because "they never said it wasn't ok to cheat" like it needs to be said. Does the guy also needs to specify that shee needs to wear clothes when going on a date with him ?
@rem9367
Ай бұрын
@@-ZeroTea-Never date anyone and stay in your house crawled up it's fucked out there enough
@karheipa6290Ай бұрын
talk her out of it.its two years youre throwing away
@almostcompletelyrandomcontentАй бұрын
5:17 man slipped on an onion
@LL949Ай бұрын
She’s not your person. Move on. She’s the type of woman that cheats and initiates a divorce after a couple of years because she claims she is not getting enough attention… now you lose everything, and still have to pay alimony and child support, even though you were warned at the beginning of the relationship
@KamatShivani20 күн бұрын
The last clip… bro sacrificed his manhood to make me laugh so hard 😂
@Blood.Re4perАй бұрын
she don't deserve love .. final word
@_An-available_Ай бұрын
11:24 this clip hurt my nonexistent balls😭😭
@lorisutherland7728Ай бұрын
That could be true about low self esteem.
@tubagaming1376Ай бұрын
I wont ever understand the logic of one night stands or fwbs yet taking it slow with your partner or not being interested in them sexually. Its such a dumb way of thinking and causes so many issues
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
This is weirdly how some women think. The "relationship guy", the one they're considering for the long-term, they don't take to bed early because they want the intimacy to mean something and have all the true "love making" emotional enhancements beyond "just sex". (And yes, early intimacy CAN derail that emotional bonding of a building relationship.) The guys they consider "just for fun", and have no interest in doing anything but sleeping with, those guys get the sex early and often--and often more wild and kinky than the "relationship guy" ever even knows is an option with her.
@thanatos5209Ай бұрын
5:16 man fell
@_PainCake_Ай бұрын
5:16 bro fell 💀
@davisaho24313 күн бұрын
Parts of this sound like there was never a conversation had about exclusivity or making things official
@Leumas112Ай бұрын
Yeah she could have more she could still be lying and they we’re definitely her F buddys
@dbmedlyКүн бұрын
11:22 OH MY GOD I FELT THAT THROUGH THE SCREEN 😭
@Rikuo_21Ай бұрын
Yo the chiken have drip
@lollollolool3330Ай бұрын
Break up bruh
@Galaxy19946Ай бұрын
Bro that guy that fell on the pole is going to be scared for a long time
@Obama_loves_drovens19 күн бұрын
you should try the strv m/24 dt for a vid it is very fun. (if I didn't spelled the name correctly)
@buntykin542520 күн бұрын
She for the streets my brother, no way around it
@realcnstudiosАй бұрын
Oh hell nahhhh. Run for your fucking life
@samblack946Ай бұрын
She belongs to the earth sir...
@kingmystery8425Күн бұрын
Ignoring the fact that she got rail during the relationship, always tell who you dating if you have past intimacy so at least they are aware of who you are and will try to open for who you are outside of intimacy and obviously dont get rail when you are on relationship
@mratay474721 күн бұрын
Boy if you don’t run 😂
@hellolittlenova14 күн бұрын
THE SECOND TO LAST CLIP 😭😭😭😭
@Rainer125Ай бұрын
The other guys were all Chads and got the Chad treatment aka beeing able to hit on the 1-3 dates. She just realised that Chads never commit to actual relationships lol. She would had happily been in a relationship with any of those Chads she slept with the boyfriend was always just plan B.
@chopmoosey17Ай бұрын
I think they should try to make it work
@Firegod7157
24 күн бұрын
💀
@vcmanАй бұрын
My man with the skates at the end was Fuckin brutal on the go nads even I felt it 11:20
@michaelperry685621 күн бұрын
Am I happy I ran,into this cause I'm dealing with girl who has slot of shared traits
@emuuriarte1433Ай бұрын
What's the original reddit post?
@valkyire3514 күн бұрын
Bro was a side piece for years and didn’t even know
@amban135213 күн бұрын
Did everyone just miss the chicken with the shoes
@blueyf22Ай бұрын
This is a tough one, I mean in a general stand point I’d say “yeah leave the bitch” but I mean if the dude’s co-worker confirmed that it was just a hookup nothing more then it kinda throws me off, bc again she did stop or atleast slow down after they slept together and for someone who fucks so often not fucking the one u truly love is logical as she may view it as something that’s transactional, so damn id say get back with her but be hella open or sum bull shit and make it clear the next this happens he leaves without even discussing.
@ashmitaroy466
Ай бұрын
Very nicely put
@jackavalmasovnon
Ай бұрын
Yeah I feel like a lot of people in these comments are being very bitter, focusing on the wrong aspects and jumping to some conclusions to strengthen their personal views
@ashmitaroy466
Ай бұрын
@jackavalmasovnon at the end of the day it's the man and his gf .. he knows how much she has done for him . Yes she might not have been sure and yes that doesn't mean that she should cheat while being with him and also yes his feelings are valid . But at present she's genuine about her feelings for him and she has stopped means that she'll never likely repeat that same mistake again . He hasn't been in a serious relationship before and similarly she has been considered as an object of pleasure in her previous relationships . Both have their own stories and until one has been in the girl's shoes they can't really comment how it feels to not feel valued and trying to validate oneself through sex .The man must talk about it with her and give her a last chance and see where it goes .. if during that time she again jumps off her boundaries or he feels that even after giving her a last chance he doesnt feel comfortable laying his trust on her then they can talk over it again and decide . And the all mighty righteous people here who are commenting on how he should break up over something in the past when she's really trying to be a genuine partner .. looks like they have done nothing wrong in their lives and never felt the desperate wish to be forgiven
@nicolasinapart40198 күн бұрын
Yeah she cheated on ya bro
@s7xdhrtАй бұрын
Ik it sounds orthodox but you should never forget how a person acted in their past it show their personality and most of them will behave like that again
@jjalexg82Ай бұрын
Is it really so hard to keep your damn legs closed when dating a guy?
@user-gd5kw5su2c10 күн бұрын
Make sure you don’t catch anything from her! Yuck
@studioLCTRL18 күн бұрын
As someone that is non monogamous, I don’t really care about the intimacy with other people but it seems like she deliberately tried lying about it which would break my trust.
@wpatrickw2012Ай бұрын
They have never fought because she is not passionate about him. She sees him as a Beta/provider not a lover. This is a good man’s number one fear.
@rikko2157Ай бұрын
That one clip with the red marker bruh
@damage411816 күн бұрын
It’s gonna be hard but the best thing to do is, just leave her
@thebestplaguemarine3130Ай бұрын
If I don’t sleep with anyone because ik I’m getting with someone but they do id instant leave them
@SyphinSkiАй бұрын
5:17
@monokuma14821 күн бұрын
apolageez is crazyyyy
@mrsoreadyАй бұрын
Man leave this girl
@bradleypeterson3126Ай бұрын
Leave that 304
@draco676522 күн бұрын
You could try therapy for couples but if that doesn’t work it will more than likely shader her which honestly it is a coin flip when it comes to on if u want to leave or not. Me personally I would try therapy then leave if she doesn’t attempt to change and at least do something to try and recover from all of that
@RaidenEdits29 күн бұрын
Stories like this makes me not to want date anymore :/
@zegdeg2 күн бұрын
1:05 1:06 1:10 the chicken😂
@dereckhernandezrivera3473Ай бұрын
He is her emotional partner and boyfriend, a guy she only keeps to pity and awe with how innocent he is as she just cheats on him. im guessing it's some sort of kink, but im hella dumb so
Пікірлер: 423
Fellas, is it really that hard to only see one person at a time? Do you really need to collect bodies like infinity stones? She wasn't upset for what she did, she was upset she got caught. She might be truthful in her feelings, however, it still is a huge red flag. Is it truly that hard to just... only see one person at a time?
@steveARG2022
Ай бұрын
As a person she hasn’t lost her value, as a woman she did. Imagine telling this story to their kids if they ever reunite, imagine how many bodies she has in total. Imagine how deep that whole is, she lost her value because of her actions and Im pretty sure no man would ever wonna date a woman with such a background
@tigerchief0869
Ай бұрын
@@steveARG2022 if your going to make an incel comment please use the right word it hole
@Morality739
Ай бұрын
@@steveARG2022 The problem is not that she slept with a lot of people, the problem is that she was doing it while in a monogamous relationship.
@Mr-T-green
Ай бұрын
@@Morality739tf do you mean not sleeping with other guys😂
@ithian42
Ай бұрын
@@Morality739From the way this is written out it doesn't seem like their relationship was very well defined. She saw it one way and he saw it the other way, this is the problem with not clearly defining your relationship at the start. Honestly, she should have been truthful once asked, but I get that she was trying to protect the relationship. The two of them just need to sit down talk and clearly work through things, because this seems more like misunderstanding between the two than cheating.
the guy who slipped on the onion had me laughing so hard 😭
@fastey6
Ай бұрын
LMAO ME TOO I HAD TO REWIND LIKE 3 TIMES
@Tallyho3
Ай бұрын
I literally laughed for a minute straight😂
@switzerland_LOL
26 күн бұрын
5:17
@Little_goober_stuff
23 күн бұрын
Bro really went “man I’m dead”
@Decemberdaddywauceishere
14 күн бұрын
fr😭😭
She brought a former lover into your house. That's grounds for dismissal.
@vspoke9150
Ай бұрын
The worse part is that we don't don't if she still slept with him. There is absolutely no need to get an ex to your house.
@nategin9009
Ай бұрын
Also lied about the coworker which he let slide basically
@xentiment6581
Ай бұрын
A chick pretending to be shocked by you trying to kiss her is ground for dimissal.
@mukithasan9684
23 күн бұрын
That is disgusting 🤮🤮🤮
@WonderboltsBIGGESTfan
15 күн бұрын
If you ended on good terms it shouldn’t matter
He should’ve left from “she considered us a couple when we moved in together “ after they’d been together for 2 years by that point. Meanwhile she was getting railed strangers. She obviously doesn’t respect him.
@XenT_YT1
Ай бұрын
She stated she don’t respect her self other but how if you Dating the love of your life how do you not respect yourself lmao she is dumb
@reddlane2791
Ай бұрын
Yeah, when she had no problem sleeping with other guys when they were dating but only stopped when she decided she loved him and not when they officially started the relationship
@JazzIsPoppinOff
Ай бұрын
She's for the streets
@jackavalmasovnon
Ай бұрын
@@reddlane2791but they never “officially” started the relationship
@juliuscasar7202
29 күн бұрын
@@jackavalmasovnon they certainly didnt live in the Same House as best Friends Being oppososite sex
She said “She didn’t want to mess it up with intimacy” 😂😂😂 what a joke.
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
This is weirdly how some women think. The "relationship guy", the one they're considering for the long-term, they don't take to bed early because they want the intimacy to mean something and have all the true "love making" emotional enhancements beyond "just sex". (And yes, early intimacy CAN derail that emotional bonding of a building relationship.) The guys they consider "just for fun", and have no interest in doing anything but sleeping with, those guys get the sex early and often--and often more wild and kinky than the "relationship guy" ever even knows is an option with her. And these women honestly have no concept of how insulting it is to the "relationship guy" to be treated that way until it's spelled out for them like OP had to do.
@oxtailsoup6493
18 күн бұрын
Honestly this type of attitude only really makes sense if the woman is being consistently chaste with everyone she’s dating.
@JB-bb4su
18 күн бұрын
@@oxtailsoup6493 woman....consistent.... Should manage expectations here....
@gafanhotogamer5993
18 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4su yeah, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want a good guy to date, you can't go on fooling around. To me it looks like she has BPD. And yeah, she will cheat again.
@christiansaenscheidt9056
16 күн бұрын
@@JB-bb4su This makes zero sense.
Bro had 0 experience in dating, so it was easy for him to mistaken what she wanted, but the fact that OP's GF definitely knew that and still slept with others while she was seeing OP was stupid as hell. They moved in together and when OP saw her spreadsheet with all the dudes she slept with (as the story said, DAILY, sometimes more than once a day) is even more disgusting. Then she tried to guilt trip him by crying and according to her "she loves him" but if she DID love him, she wouldnt have made him wait to even get a kiss when she was out getting railed by others. I can totally understand OP when he said he felt unattractive and undesirable, cause anyone would feel that way in a situation like this. She doesnt deserve a second chance, OP should just leave for his own sake, thst woman is just a pile of damaged goods who views a sexual relationship/hookup (or whatever else) as something more than a commited relationship.
@InitialDraal
Ай бұрын
Even if she didn't cheat just the fact she does it with everyone makes her not worth it.
@SyphinSki
Ай бұрын
5:17
@johnnyhounsell9449
16 күн бұрын
I mean in all fairness we didn’t experience the relationship and how each person grew along the way, so best option is for OP to decide if the rest of the relationship is worth working through what he’s learned. We can’t really judge
That just show the biggest problem in modern time, Communication. “she considered us a couple when we moved in together “ They both had different realities they lived in. This showed me that they never talked about important issues, which is why they never argued with each other. The most important thing in a relationship is clear communication, not vague assumptions.
@poppyfan2842
Ай бұрын
Facts^^^^ Like legit, this whole thing only happened due to lack of communication.
@jbkkkkk
Ай бұрын
This. I was waiting for this comment.
@silver924
24 күн бұрын
The thing is, if he would have pressured her at an earlier point, she would have gaslighted him by saying, that he is insecure/controlling
@ReaperChaxal
20 күн бұрын
@@silver924 Asking a question is not pressuring. If you can't handle the basics, what are your expectations for a relationship?
@edunx10.
20 күн бұрын
@@ReaperChaxali think after 2 entire years of dating, its very clear they are a couple. Shes clearly making up her own reality and trying to use it as an excuse.
The calendar must've been to keep in check if she got pregnant or std
@AP0PT0SIS
Ай бұрын
That doesn’t make sense bc she has OP’s name on there for dates where they didn’t do anything.
@edunx10.
20 күн бұрын
Calendar probably was a time table on when she does the deed with strangers and when she meets OP or others.@@AP0PT0SIS
@Jvnior_20
18 күн бұрын
Nah it just seemed she had a roster, and op got stuck with her. Cus the coworker stopped cus he got a gf, he didn’t say she ended it etc.
He should’ve left from “she considered us a couple when we moved in together “ after they’d been together for 2 years by that point. Meanwhile she was getting railed strangers. What else did he need to hear, she obviously doesn’t respect him.
@littleleah310
2 күн бұрын
Fr 🤢🤮
Anyone else feel guilt for the man as if it was your fault even though u know it wasnt. A guilt so bad it make u vomit and cry in pain
@firstkill5552
2 ай бұрын
Bro a couple parts had my chest in a knot, stomach swirling n shit feels revolting. That feeling is what keeps us faithful as a species. Never let it go
@shieldwolf65
Ай бұрын
Yeah, he's got a serious lot of BS to process. He's got to avoid being a simp, but wants to give her a chance BC of his feelings. He doesn't really have the experience to deal with this but as a good guy he wants to. This story churned me up too & I've seen plenty of life in 58yrs. It's not often I can't see right thru a story or situation. This one I just feel sorry for the guy, whatever he decides. He's taking on a high risk Rescue. Stupid or not part of me wants him to.
@alexbaribeault
Ай бұрын
@@shieldwolf65He needs to dump her ass. Plain and simple
@solo2873
22 күн бұрын
It’s definitely not an easy situation but I don’t think there’s many men who can comeback from that especially once he had admitted to himself that he can’t look at her the same way again. Long term you will probably be more at peace by just walking away.
“i DiDnT mEaN tO hUrT yOu” = Shit. I did not PLAN on GETTING CAUGHT. I never intended on FACING basic consequences. I thought I was better at hiding things FROM you while also lying to benefit MYSELF. She basically only apologized for not being a better deceiver and does a terrible job at sugar-coating. You can’t sugarcoat a turd but you CAN use tears to melt the resolve of an easy mark
@JonRose420
15 күн бұрын
A little harsh but true
If someone cheats on you even once they don’t care about you, if you believe them your just hurting yourself bro
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
Then it's a good thing she quite literally didn't cheat.
@AnonyMoose31
Ай бұрын
@@notthatguy.937No. she did, sleeping with people while you’re dating someone else is cheating
@Iheartreoo
Ай бұрын
@@notthatguy.937except she did..
@emuuriarte1433
Ай бұрын
@notthatguy.937 She can be truthful, but that doesn't make her correct. That whole she didn't cheat thing is all from her fucked up perspective of how their relationship worked. She has no concern for his boundaries. Also, if you consider the beginning of relationship to be when you move in together, then there is something seriously wrong with you.
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
@@emuuriarte1433 Dude she stayed exclusive when they first kissed. You can't expect anyone to respect boundaries you haven't set.
She did cheat and he found out that after 1 year of dating the names on her calendar finally stopped showing up but when they started dating she was cheating on him
Don’t ignore her past cause it could ruin your future
@shieldwolf65
Ай бұрын
Fair point. This whole situation is a minefield.
SHES LYING, YOURE COOKED, she said she considered them a couple when they moved in together but later said she knew she loved him after that kiss and cut everything else out so what were they for those two years???💀
@Danail740
Ай бұрын
As most would call, as situationship
Sounds disgusting. This modern dating culture is not good for anyone. Especially at 4:40 i can feel the pain. We should be more conservative with whom we sleep with and when.
@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
2 ай бұрын
There was a video about WHY women are not suppose to have multiple partners.
@ricoarmstrong7440
2 ай бұрын
@@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook Definetly.Its too easy for woman to have male sexual partners. So much so that they dont think about how potential partners would feel about that.
Time to leave her she cheated on you regardless how can anyone live a life with that person again without resentment Keep going with this girl and it will never go anywhere and will further through your life into turmoil
Notice he said her sleeping around calendar slowed down but didn’t completely stop. Also if it didn’t matter to her, why even keep the calendar like a dumbass unless she hoped it hop back on it? Lastly this whole thing on Americans over extended “talking periods” is so stupid and leads to shit like this: I love how she also made it as if love was passive: she slowed down sleeping around when she finally felt butterflies for him. Love is active and if you’re going to entertain some for 2 years, obviously you’d be expected to soley be on them…
you take her back and the dude she kept inviting over your house is still going to crush it. She’ll just be way more lowkey about it to not get caught again
The only thing I gotta say to this is WTF. I can’t even imagine the amount of pain this dude is in, I feel sick just listening to this
5:18 not the dude in the background slipping on a onion 🧅😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 that got me bruh im wrong for laughing but bro 😭 then 11:25 owwwww
@blackout1482
Ай бұрын
Im glad im not the only one who laughed😂😂
@terragamer0912
Ай бұрын
@@blackout1482 oop 🤣🤣🤣
I can't believe there was literally a "but wait THERE'S MORE"😂😂😂
This story has been out for a while. Is there an update to this post?
Nahh bro are we just gonna ignore how the guy just tripped and fell 💀💀 5:18
@tumblingartist
Ай бұрын
Poor guy falling over that onion 😔😔
Sounds to me like she never thought really about what she wants for life. It's hard not to judge someone who keeps just doing hookups and even making notes about it, and then claims to have "fallen in love"? What kind of joke is this?
This cheap MacDonald meal is trying to pose as a fine dinning experience. Disgusting 🤮
Run forest run!
They never discussed about exclusivity?
@braoha123
Ай бұрын
When you had a different guy for every day of the week I don’t think that is the real problem..
@NKVD_Enjoyer
Ай бұрын
Crazy that you think you have to discuss something like that as if it isn't obvious
@Huehue-qf1ri
Ай бұрын
Its something that came with relationship
@mikeehrmantraut7274
19 күн бұрын
It’s implied 😒
What makes him think it’s a document of people he’s been intimate with anyway? I have a calendar like that and I just write the names on it if people I’m hanging out with, sometimes it’s a date, sometimes it’s friends, sometimes it’s my brother or my dad and obviously not everyone I’ve been on a date with I’ve been intimate with so it just seems like a big leap to make that assumption about what the spreadsheet is for when all the information he has of it are dates and names Also he’s kinda weird for calling her his girlfriend before they were official like bro that’s not cheating you weren’t together if you want to be official talk about it don’t just assume you’re on the same page
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Yeah I slightly agree he was way too vague but that doesn't excuse the 600+ confirmed bodies she's racked up in 3 years, she belongs to the streets
@buddermonger2000
21 күн бұрын
Because she admitted that is what she did with the relevant portion of that. Realizing that his co-worker's name appeared on there, and that is what they did together, is what led him to suspect as such. After he confronted her and pushed, she gave in.
@edunx10.
20 күн бұрын
They were pretty official if they can talk hours on end weekly, heck maybe even daily at times. Also, saying your not a couple after wanting a relationship going into the romantic direction (that was said before they moved in) is crazy in my opinion.
Dude, I feel bad for you.I hope you don't miss your person for the rest of your life over this
me imagining myself in his pov, then imagining what he said about getting railed by other men, makes me feel like i would love her, but feel extremely hurt. and the fact she didn't realize that doing that would hurt him in a emotional way makes me feel like she isn't the smartest, or was impulsive. there are alot of things women do that they think men do. like when GIRLS OVERTHINK WHAT MEN SAY. when men say something, they mean that, but girls when they something theres usually a hidden meaning.
So from stuff that happened to me and some psychological knowledge I have from my parents (both therapists), I would conclude: 1. I believe her when she says that she needed the validation from sleeping with others. Thats is common behavior among people, who didnt get that from their (in most cases) parents. 2. The reason she still slept with other guys, when they started dating (from OPs POV), so before they kissed, is probably thats all she d ever done in the relationship department, so she just kept going. It was probably normal for her, so she didn't think twice. 3. I also believe that she was scared at first, when he wanted to kiss her, because it was a new feeling, she d never had before. Obviously I believe those things, considering that OP believed what she said wasn't a lie, but from the psychological perspective it does male sense. BUT the real problems (imo) start where she lied to him (about the guy from work). Thats a big no go. Thats the point where the relationship would have ended for me already. The second problem is something no one is at fault for: her past and the actions (sleeping around) that come with it. I don't see her at fault, but personally I would no longer have a rs with her. The problem with such a situation is (I speak from experience) that maybe the first couple of years everything will be alright. You are the first that values her for who she is and not just her body. You help her value herself more, she gets confidence in her own worth, etc. And without you noticing this "help" will get, or is from the beginning, the basis of your rs. Now what happens when she gets "better"? Right, part of the reason (or even the whole reason) she loves you and finds you attractive vanishes. If you don't "start building" something else during this time or there are simply no other things that make you attractive in her eyes, that will lead to a relationship where both are unhappy, one or both are unfaithful or even a toxic one. Believe me you dont want that.
I normally wouldn't say this, but i personally think this is salvageable, i think he should give her one chance with a serious and long conversation and lay down some very hard ground rules, for instance that guy isnt allowed to come over anymore she isnt allowed to speak with him or see him anymore, and any other rupes he wishes to set, i believe what she did is horrible but its not completely unforgivable, although i would make it clear if she does anything suspicious from here on out the relationship is over she is getting blocked and nothing will continue between them and i would suggest sticking to it once said.
@Bitsen0910
Ай бұрын
Yes, from what OP is saying she sounds genuinely happy in their relationship I think maybe with some therapy they could get past this.
@spooncomment3359
Ай бұрын
I actually agree with you... Although I don't think she's been clear about whether or not she slept with him after. I admit that I'm friends with some of my ex's and their partners. Others have cut me off as their relationship evolved. Heck, I've even had female friends cut me off. It seems a really mixed bag.. But back to my main point... I hope that they can be happy and I hope whatever they come to works for them... But the fact she lied is not in her favour.
@hououhou1387
18 күн бұрын
You will never trust her, she brought an affair to there home and lied to his face. She knew what she did. Do you understand how disrespectful that is. She met other guys before there date, on the same day, fucked them and met him. He feels disgusted by her and how should he trust her again ? She is destroyed her relationship because she was nothing more than a dumb whore, that's why she is crying because she get caught. It's unforgivable and over
She thinks he should be okay with it because they weren’t “official”. But that is not how life works.
it just seems like really poor communication sadly
@gearsie_
Ай бұрын
nah, it seems like she's just a cheater
@kim-gs5my
Ай бұрын
not really, no one made it official, i dont rlly think she cheated@@gearsie_
@Trey_GSF
Ай бұрын
Yeah.. you’re definitely female. I just gotta say, ladies.. toxic femininity seems a much more pervasive and harmful issue than its masculine counterpart has been in decades. What we don’t realize is that we’re hurting ourselves just as much as we are our men. Be better, bitches. (As a woman myself, I can say this. So don’t @ me. 🙄)
i totally understand the willingness not to have intimacy ruin a potentially serious relationship, and OP should not feel insecure about it imho, but anything else is a pile of shit and deception
@buddermonger2000
21 күн бұрын
Bro she is getting railed during that same time. She pulls away from a kiss and fears intimacy having an issue, while at the very same time she is railed EARLIER THAT SAME DAY
did u notice the guy tripping on an onion tho?? at 5:16 😂
5:18 DYING AT THE VIDEO BAHAHAHA😂
The classic, “ Mede him wait while Fabio and Brad got the ViP pass for free,” 😂situation.
Leave her bro. She wasn't your first. She literally chose you last. If she actually cared about you she would just focus on you.
This is the biggest problem with high body counts and baggage entering a relationship
5:17 bro sliped on garlic
This guy is obviously very new to relationships and didn't bother or didn't know to establish intimacy boundaries - instead assuming that his partner has a similar attitude towards intimacy and sexual relations as him. People wanting to be more initially reserved with someone they see as particularly partner-worthy is INCREDIBLY common.
@adriagiroricart7096
Ай бұрын
You make wait the one you want to date but some random in less than a a few hours can enjoy everything.... If you think that's fair that's just fucked up.
@direwolf8703
Ай бұрын
Yes blame him for her being for the streets. If you're interested in someone for a relationship you need to respect the relationship. If you want an exclusive relationship with someone and you're still fucking other people you don't deserve a real relationship.
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
@@direwolf8703When did she demand that he be exclusive? She only slept with other people back when they were essentially just friends. It ended when they made their relationship semi-official with a kiss. Though it sounds like he never bothered to actually have that talk.
@InitialDraal
Ай бұрын
@@notthatguy.937 you don't have to demand to be exclusive. If you've started dating it's on you to disclose if you don't want anything normal.
@notthatguy.937
Ай бұрын
@@InitialDraal but they hadn't started dating.
As someone who fell for every thing that this man’s explained once, it doesn’t get better, it doesn’t get easier, and once a cheat is always a cheat. If you accept her, ask yourself “When is the next time this happens?” Or “will I be able to trust?” Crocodile tears and emotional excitement is easy ass shit, but trusting someone after they betrayed your trust first… that’s harder than you think.
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Ngl if u did fall for the stuff the OP did then you've gotta be stupid who the hell believes in those fake ahh tears and the fact she was acting normal the whole time and was probably never planning to tell him anything
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Some nerdy anime mc type shit
@JKCloud9
20 күн бұрын
@@SmiIeyman I mean, true haha I appreciate you being real with me. This was years ago and I learned my lesson since but I did fall for it, many people do, some unfortunately don’t ever get out of that trap while some do.
Seems like she is being honest. And made a common mistake. You're right. You cant go back to the way things were before. It sounds like she's willing to do her part to build your guys's next chapters together. But her deception is very telling. If you hadnt found everything out yourself, would she have told you everything? You have to decide if you can start building them with her. You'll need to lay out a road map together. That being said, this is way too common of a thing these days, and just so indicative of the moral deficit in today's society. The fact that it didnt even cross her mind that this would make you feel like that and that she thought that taking things slow with the guys she really cared about while getting it from other guys, was the right thing to do, really shows how brainwashed a lot of todays women are. Doesnt mean shes a bad person, but she made a big mistake not being upfront with you about all of this at the beginning.
@SmiIeyman
Ай бұрын
Bro she cheated and most likely has nearly 1000 or 600 bodies in the span of three years, even if she didn't cheat she belongs to the dumpsters
5:17 The background video😭
@jotarokujo312
Ай бұрын
Damn I didn't notice until you pointed it out lol 😂😂
11:22 I’m in pain just from this.
5:18 THE WAY HE SLID☠️☠️
Honestly seems like she’s not serious enough about the early stages of relationships and he’s to serious about the early stages of relationships
What’s fucked up is shit like this is commonplace nowadays
You have to talk to her. Women used to do this to women. Now it’s everybody doing this and it doesn’t make it right.
I feel like neither are at fault here. Op from the beginning just assumed they were dating because as he said he was new to relationships. To me it sounded mostly like hangouts as friends and like she said she didn’t consider them a couple till they moved in together. Clearly she isn’t the best with relationships either, and slept around to feel that validation sometimes that’s all you want from a person and clearly she didn’t want this with Op she took it slow with him and waited before she did anything and when she did consider them a couple she had stopped because she finally felt the love she desired. I see how this could be deal breaking to op but at the same time he never confirmed what they were and expected the same one and done treatment as these other guys both of them need to talk it out i hope they get through this
@jennymora3329
Ай бұрын
Confirmation?? He wasn't a hook up though, he was dating her, that's enough Confirmation not whore yourself around. I get it if you going on dates just to see you feel that spark with someone before going to second base
@-ZeroTea-
Ай бұрын
@@jennymora3329 No i meant like he said in the beginning it he thought it was a date but never asked and neither of them called it a date. There’s a difference between dating to find the spark and hanging out and finding it that way
@kk_you_do_you1468
Ай бұрын
@@-ZeroTea- but he did say that at one point he did ask her and she responded positively to the question but she continued to hook up with people and didn't stop till they were fully moved in together and you don't do that until you know a person well enough and trust them
@InitialDraal
Ай бұрын
Bro is really justifying her cheating because "they never said it wasn't ok to cheat" like it needs to be said. Does the guy also needs to specify that shee needs to wear clothes when going on a date with him ?
@rem9367
Ай бұрын
@@-ZeroTea-Never date anyone and stay in your house crawled up it's fucked out there enough
talk her out of it.its two years youre throwing away
5:17 man slipped on an onion
She’s not your person. Move on. She’s the type of woman that cheats and initiates a divorce after a couple of years because she claims she is not getting enough attention… now you lose everything, and still have to pay alimony and child support, even though you were warned at the beginning of the relationship
The last clip… bro sacrificed his manhood to make me laugh so hard 😂
she don't deserve love .. final word
11:24 this clip hurt my nonexistent balls😭😭
That could be true about low self esteem.
I wont ever understand the logic of one night stands or fwbs yet taking it slow with your partner or not being interested in them sexually. Its such a dumb way of thinking and causes so many issues
@JB-bb4su
Ай бұрын
This is weirdly how some women think. The "relationship guy", the one they're considering for the long-term, they don't take to bed early because they want the intimacy to mean something and have all the true "love making" emotional enhancements beyond "just sex". (And yes, early intimacy CAN derail that emotional bonding of a building relationship.) The guys they consider "just for fun", and have no interest in doing anything but sleeping with, those guys get the sex early and often--and often more wild and kinky than the "relationship guy" ever even knows is an option with her.
5:16 man fell
5:16 bro fell 💀
Parts of this sound like there was never a conversation had about exclusivity or making things official
Yeah she could have more she could still be lying and they we’re definitely her F buddys
11:22 OH MY GOD I FELT THAT THROUGH THE SCREEN 😭
Yo the chiken have drip
Break up bruh
Bro that guy that fell on the pole is going to be scared for a long time
you should try the strv m/24 dt for a vid it is very fun. (if I didn't spelled the name correctly)
She for the streets my brother, no way around it
Oh hell nahhhh. Run for your fucking life
She belongs to the earth sir...
Ignoring the fact that she got rail during the relationship, always tell who you dating if you have past intimacy so at least they are aware of who you are and will try to open for who you are outside of intimacy and obviously dont get rail when you are on relationship
Boy if you don’t run 😂
THE SECOND TO LAST CLIP 😭😭😭😭
The other guys were all Chads and got the Chad treatment aka beeing able to hit on the 1-3 dates. She just realised that Chads never commit to actual relationships lol. She would had happily been in a relationship with any of those Chads she slept with the boyfriend was always just plan B.
I think they should try to make it work
@Firegod7157
24 күн бұрын
💀
My man with the skates at the end was Fuckin brutal on the go nads even I felt it 11:20
Am I happy I ran,into this cause I'm dealing with girl who has slot of shared traits
What's the original reddit post?
Bro was a side piece for years and didn’t even know
Did everyone just miss the chicken with the shoes
This is a tough one, I mean in a general stand point I’d say “yeah leave the bitch” but I mean if the dude’s co-worker confirmed that it was just a hookup nothing more then it kinda throws me off, bc again she did stop or atleast slow down after they slept together and for someone who fucks so often not fucking the one u truly love is logical as she may view it as something that’s transactional, so damn id say get back with her but be hella open or sum bull shit and make it clear the next this happens he leaves without even discussing.
@ashmitaroy466
Ай бұрын
Very nicely put
@jackavalmasovnon
Ай бұрын
Yeah I feel like a lot of people in these comments are being very bitter, focusing on the wrong aspects and jumping to some conclusions to strengthen their personal views
@ashmitaroy466
Ай бұрын
@jackavalmasovnon at the end of the day it's the man and his gf .. he knows how much she has done for him . Yes she might not have been sure and yes that doesn't mean that she should cheat while being with him and also yes his feelings are valid . But at present she's genuine about her feelings for him and she has stopped means that she'll never likely repeat that same mistake again . He hasn't been in a serious relationship before and similarly she has been considered as an object of pleasure in her previous relationships . Both have their own stories and until one has been in the girl's shoes they can't really comment how it feels to not feel valued and trying to validate oneself through sex .The man must talk about it with her and give her a last chance and see where it goes .. if during that time she again jumps off her boundaries or he feels that even after giving her a last chance he doesnt feel comfortable laying his trust on her then they can talk over it again and decide . And the all mighty righteous people here who are commenting on how he should break up over something in the past when she's really trying to be a genuine partner .. looks like they have done nothing wrong in their lives and never felt the desperate wish to be forgiven
Yeah she cheated on ya bro
Ik it sounds orthodox but you should never forget how a person acted in their past it show their personality and most of them will behave like that again
Is it really so hard to keep your damn legs closed when dating a guy?
Make sure you don’t catch anything from her! Yuck
As someone that is non monogamous, I don’t really care about the intimacy with other people but it seems like she deliberately tried lying about it which would break my trust.
They have never fought because she is not passionate about him. She sees him as a Beta/provider not a lover. This is a good man’s number one fear.
That one clip with the red marker bruh
It’s gonna be hard but the best thing to do is, just leave her
If I don’t sleep with anyone because ik I’m getting with someone but they do id instant leave them
5:17
apolageez is crazyyyy
Man leave this girl
Leave that 304
You could try therapy for couples but if that doesn’t work it will more than likely shader her which honestly it is a coin flip when it comes to on if u want to leave or not. Me personally I would try therapy then leave if she doesn’t attempt to change and at least do something to try and recover from all of that
Stories like this makes me not to want date anymore :/
1:05 1:06 1:10 the chicken😂
He is her emotional partner and boyfriend, a guy she only keeps to pity and awe with how innocent he is as she just cheats on him. im guessing it's some sort of kink, but im hella dumb so