Fortunes of Failure | The Road Taken

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There were two events that happened 40 years apart, one in 1980 and the other two weeks ago that changed the course of my life. "The Road Taken" is the story of how two life failures (getting rejected from music school and losing a record deal) dramatically shaped my life's trajectory and brought me here today.
"Fortunes of Hard Work: Why You Should
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  • @yougoseo1580
    @yougoseo15803 жыл бұрын

    You probably don't remember me. . .but I remember U! I was skeptical at first. . .I came to your first seminar. . .(4 Summers ago in Decatur). thinking "Is this guy for real?" You're wife showed up in the middle of the seminar With your kids Dylan et al. . .and you began to cry (slightly) when they all showed up to support you. You asked them something about a pixar movie thing. . one of the children (maybe Dylan) was spot on with the correct response~I thought to myself. . .This is a good man. . .This is a good dad. . .This guys' the real deal!" Thanx Rick! I will always follow you! You are true!

  • @MrJumboblimpjumbo
    @MrJumboblimpjumbo3 жыл бұрын

    Nice to be sitting across the table from you Rick, it feels like we're having lunch at a cafe...with wicked amps

  • @JBrooksNYS

    @JBrooksNYS

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like to imagine I’m sitting at the table telling me this story while he’s playing footsies with me the whole time

  • @scottriddle5468

    @scottriddle5468

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness, hmmm

  • @manuele.itriagom.728

    @manuele.itriagom.728

    3 жыл бұрын

    He faces me with the wicked amps behind him while I face him with my amplitube 5 plugin. Good times

  • @pjhj3687

    @pjhj3687

    3 жыл бұрын

    God works all things together for good...

  • @lokiop345

    @lokiop345

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know check those Orange amp selection!!!

  • @jamesj7444
    @jamesj74443 жыл бұрын

    My favorite Rick Beato video is now a video that isn't as much about music as it is about life. Well done, sir.

  • @thebillykeith
    @thebillykeith3 жыл бұрын

    I have cystic fibrosis, diabetes, and I was born with that cleft palate and lip. But I'm grateful for all of those things. When I first heard AC/DC at the age of 9, I knew I had to do the guitar thing. Thanks to having cystic fibrosis, Gibson guitars gave me a Les Paul through the Make-A-Wish foundation. Marshall amps gave me a cool Valvestate 2×12 and that rig put me on my path. I've never given up on music. Being sick and spending well over a year in the hospital throughout my life, is the reason I met my girlfriend who was my nurse! We've been together for 15 years now. Don't get me wrong; being sick certainly sucks, But it allowed me to rock and find love in this life. Thank you Rick. And thank you to those reading my comment. Rock on.

  • @RevShifty

    @RevShifty

    3 жыл бұрын

    That sounds like a hell of a ride, and you still came out on top. That's awesome. More power to you, and I hope every day is better than the last for you.

  • @lisaeischens2352

    @lisaeischens2352

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your story! I hope you’re doing well.

  • @rickgruffman7132

    @rickgruffman7132

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, brother, rock on. Cool comments.

  • @1taylorgibson

    @1taylorgibson

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s fantastic. I have never questioned my limited guitar ability but only enjoyed being able to play what i play. It gets better and better as time goes on and i appreciate that ability now that i’m older.

  • @gerongrahamgg

    @gerongrahamgg

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah!

  • @RC32Smiths01
    @RC32Smiths013 жыл бұрын

    A musical career is quite a difficult one to commit to for a multitude of reasons in this day and age, but you are quite an inspiration to us all Rick. Thank you for all you do

  • @TheDirge69

    @TheDirge69

    3 жыл бұрын

    ditto, my thoughts as well..

  • @generalawareness101

    @generalawareness101

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree. He is slightly older than I am and inspired me to try to learn the electric guitar again.

  • @RC32Smiths01

    @RC32Smiths01

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheDirge69 yeah!

  • @RC32Smiths01

    @RC32Smiths01

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@generalawareness101 I wish you the best of luck on your journey! Guitar can definitely change a person for the better

  • @generalawareness101

    @generalawareness101

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RC32Smiths01 I tried it 16 years ago and put it in the gig bag and my amp. I took it out last month and I had to wait on some tools as it needed a fret job. Doing it myself and 20 frets to go. This guitar was made badly for the fret work so I am fixing what caused me to give up back then. I can do D-Chord now and A-Chord to some extent then moved to the E-Chord and the issues hit me again. 400 USD for fret work for a 259 guitar in 2005? Not in 2021 for me.

  • @Kashed
    @Kashed3 жыл бұрын

    “Don’t let schooling interfere with your education” - Mark Twain

  • @MatthewC137

    @MatthewC137

    3 жыл бұрын

    “Men are born ignorant, not stupid; they are made stupid by education.” --- Bertrand Russell

  • @drdre4397

    @drdre4397

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mark twain is just a fountain of great quotes.

  • @Heroball299

    @Heroball299

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@drdre4397 Yeah the has some catchy quotes. They sound clever but when you unpack them they don't add up to a whole lot.

  • @davidmes6267

    @davidmes6267

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not to mention that they don't apply at all here

  • @drdj2626

    @drdj2626

    3 жыл бұрын

    let's just not make that an invitation to anti intellectualism, anti science, Covid-19 denial etc.

  • @leeanderson9486
    @leeanderson9486 Жыл бұрын

    There’s something so engaging about how Rick tells his stories that I think I would buy a DVD box set of, “Rick explains how paint dries”. 👍

  • @w.sandfordwalsmanviolins5660

    @w.sandfordwalsmanviolins5660

    Ай бұрын

    I got a real laugh from this comment because it's 1000% true. Rick's authenticity, charisma whatever you want to call it is what attracts all of us. Spot on comment.

  • @ffggddss
    @ffggddss3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Rick, for telling this. Deliver it as a high-school graduation address, and you could change lives. It's all well and good to have aphorisms, like, 'when life hands you lemons, make lemonade,' but concrete stories like yours, are far more compelling. They are the "stuff" of which those aphorisms are mere condensations. Fred

  • @aidanquinlan7990
    @aidanquinlan79903 жыл бұрын

    I love all these stories Rick, I could listen to you talk for hours on the things that happened in your life

  • @von0410

    @von0410

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your god dam right

  • @kevie3

    @kevie3

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same Aidan

  • @robertchavez5483

    @robertchavez5483

    3 жыл бұрын

    For sure, me too

  • @p-Claud73

    @p-Claud73

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @sideshowlol

    @sideshowlol

    3 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed it the first time. Enjoyed it just as much this time around. Rich, your story is inspirational. My gut tells me that whichever way the cards had fallen in your life, good things were going to come your way eventually. The way things worked out has been great because so many of us have benefitted from all your years of determined and disciplined effort. I’m also grateful to your folks for bringing you up the way they did. Maybe they are the silent stars in all of this?

  • @SyntagmaStation
    @SyntagmaStation3 жыл бұрын

    Take note, friends. Lot of kismet in this perspective. He’s an existentialist at heart. With huge balls. Being 36 and trying to make it in the music biz. That’s harsh. Trying to be self-employed and find a way to make a living on your own at any age is brutal. I just love the idea the Rick is where he is. Lot of perseverance.

  • @ricopetrilli1084

    @ricopetrilli1084

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've been self employed most of my adult life (40 years). Made many mistakes. Even when it seems hopeless, in the back of your mind there is always one last chance. Somehow you point yourself into a direction of maybe unkown but if you put yourself out there, destiny seems to find you somehow, someway.

  • @gizmo5925

    @gizmo5925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, also having lots of talent doesn't hurt either.

  • @tripp8833

    @tripp8833

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gizmo5925 What talent? That’s insulting. It’s about hard work not talent.

  • @zeth7109

    @zeth7109

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tripp8833 i'd say both

  • @yallaaAIC

    @yallaaAIC

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gizmo5925 Dont mistake talent for hard work.

  • @andreivich1020
    @andreivich10202 жыл бұрын

    Rick, the more I learn about your story, the more inspired I am. I let disappointment, rejection & heartbreak keep me from pursuing my dream of being a professional musician for many years- but the gift of Covid, for me , was buying a piano & singing again after letting the joy of music leave my life for many years. I love your talent & thank you for never giving up.♥️

  • @johnnyfranklin8520
    @johnnyfranklin85203 жыл бұрын

    Moral of your story: participation trophies keep you from true participation. It's the failures, rejections, broken hearts, and humiliations in life that lead one on the road to success. True Grit.

  • @northeastqueenstptp5652

    @northeastqueenstptp5652

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly....it’s the personal hardships that build character 💙💙💙

  • @codysroom6303

    @codysroom6303

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @lokiop345

    @lokiop345

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said... ask the Beatles about that !

  • @craigfazekas3923
    @craigfazekas39233 жыл бұрын

    I had stage 3 colo-rectal cancer, was unemployed during that time & my ex-wife betrayed both me & my mother financially....I was mortified at the time. I am now clear of cancer & have the best job I've ever had, paying the most money I've ever earned.... I can totally relate, Rick. And I thank God every day ❣❣🚬😎

  • @RPMX4

    @RPMX4

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep the faith my good man. Congrats on your new life. You've earned it. God bless ya!

  • @craigfazekas3923

    @craigfazekas3923

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RPMX4 Thank you. Yes, it was a bad, bad time. I don't know what I did to deserve such a great outcome, but I'll take it. I also kicked an opioid addiction (pills), too- which I purposely did not mention, but just recanted on that.... This is all gravy now to me. I know full well that I could just as easily not be here. I do thank God everyday. Sometimes, I get a little twinge of what feels like survivor's guilt. As in, "why me" ? I was able to beat cancer when so many are not. God willing, I hopefully licked addiction, where others cant. Life is just so, so funny sometimes. Just how does one perceive such things ?....🚬😎

  • @creativesource3514

    @creativesource3514

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amazing story. You were so strong to make it from that hugely difficult situation.

  • @peacefuljeffrey

    @peacefuljeffrey

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rock on!

  • @ziggyvertov1829

    @ziggyvertov1829

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah Craig! Feel the power!

  • @peterhunt7680
    @peterhunt76803 жыл бұрын

    Let’s be fair. We all want the Beato Autobiography. Millions of stories to tell.

  • @xxxdougiefreshxxx

    @xxxdougiefreshxxx

    3 жыл бұрын

    *Beatobiography

  • @user__214

    @user__214

    3 жыл бұрын

    My vote's for Autobeatography

  • @denverrandy7143

    @denverrandy7143

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'd buy it for sure. Rick is the Anthony Bourdain of the music industry👍

  • @buckmurdock2500

    @buckmurdock2500

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'd settle for the Beato Book ! ! !

  • @williamperry1462

    @williamperry1462

    3 жыл бұрын

    That would be so awesome!!

  • @patrickwebb7388
    @patrickwebb73882 жыл бұрын

    So refreshing to see a creative, kind, compasionate, caring, giving, open and honest person on such an influential social platform...thank you!

  • @TheTerrypcurtin
    @TheTerrypcurtin3 жыл бұрын

    Funny how our worst days become our best. I was a severe alcoholic and the DUIs. I needed every drop and every ticket to be alive today. Got a major label deal. ( got fired from my own band) Went on the build a huge insurance agency. A pilot. Plus a bunch of great stories. I live my musical dreams through friends who wrote monster hits. Produced huge artists. Proud of them. Life is amazing. The phone call missed. Or picked up can change generations in your family. Crazy.

  • @pamwatson5905
    @pamwatson59053 жыл бұрын

    I love hearing Rick's stories. He is such a talented musician and he deserves wider recognition .

  • @jakerjohnson38

    @jakerjohnson38

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jiveturkey9993 those were top guys quite a while ago my man.

  • @NRG2

    @NRG2

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think people have noticed 🤘😆

  • @bombercountyblues

    @bombercountyblues

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seriously?? I mean, I agree with you about rick. But you think 2.2 million subscribers represents a lack of recognition??

  • @Hesohi

    @Hesohi

    3 жыл бұрын

    2.2 million subscribers and a signature Gibson guitar on the way. Well deserved for sure but certainly recognized.

  • @extradimension7356

    @extradimension7356

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great story / well told / super interesting.

  • @gordonmills2748
    @gordonmills27483 жыл бұрын

    You just never know. I was working as a struggling radio DJ in a small town when I got a call during my afternoon show. The guy was the program director at a #1 station in the big town. He said "what are you doing?" I said I'm doing my show. He said "wouldn't you rather be doing your show on my station?" Wait, what? He was in town and listening, and decided right then and there he wanted me to take over afternoons from him as he was moving to mornings. He wanted me to start right away. I said I need to think about it. He said "great, I'll call you back in an hour." I told my boss what happened, and he said "if you don't take that job I'll kick your ass!" I went from eating no brand mac n cheese and ramen noodles to being the #1 afternoon show on the highest rated hit music station (by audience share) in the country. Life is weird sometimes.

  • @MarcRice
    @MarcRice3 жыл бұрын

    Jamestown guy here... watched the other video you mentioned and I teared up. You're a warrior and I appreciate, beyond words, the lesson.

  • @rico387
    @rico3873 жыл бұрын

    No matter where you go, there you are.

  • @gprz843
    @gprz8433 жыл бұрын

    Mr Beato, your channel is so refreshing. I’m a musician myself (self taught). since I started playing guitar and playing in bands back in late 90’s my goal was to make a living as a musician. I’m almost 40, I haven’t “made it” yet, I almost did few years back, but didn’t. Sometimes I feel like giving up and have a normal life (no band life just work and family), but I can’t. I might never be in the top 40 by the looks of it but my love for music, writing it, playing it is too much. Today I was feeling down and watching your video and listening to you refreshed my heart. Thank you for your channel, thank you for time to us. This is paid content everywhere else. Thanks.

  • @brucemcgillis8682
    @brucemcgillis86823 жыл бұрын

    George Carlin taught life lessons through comedy. Rick Beato teaches life lessons through music. Well done.

  • @Andrew-ck1gg

    @Andrew-ck1gg

    3 жыл бұрын

    so corny

  • @psd993

    @psd993

    3 жыл бұрын

    I cringe every time someone takes george carlin too seriously. He was a comedian who heckled american society like dozens of others. Just because a 100 mouth breathers under every single george carlin video on youtube post the same exact comment saying he's a great philosopher doesn't mean it's true.

  • @michaelolson291

    @michaelolson291

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@psd993 Doesn't mean it's not true ... either. He pointed out MANY ludicrous aspects of day-to-day life WITH humor. Just because the delivery device was comedy and not lecture doesn't make it less accurate.

  • @scottdetter

    @scottdetter

    10 ай бұрын

    @@psd993 he is also a self avowed anti-American socialist, except when he was making millions from his albums and stand up shows.

  • @glynnsmith4560
    @glynnsmith45603 жыл бұрын

    In my 67th year I can honestly say no-one taught me as much about music theory as you have. I've earned my living as a bass player for a while - best income I ever earned (better than senior management) ..knew very little theory, I was all about shape copying, guessing and sounds right.

  • @timschall8643
    @timschall86433 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for telling this story. You didn't have the correct mentoring at 17 to help you handle the auditions. Shows us all that as artists, we internalize so much stuff that isn't about us. The fact that you almost quit is pretty profound. We've all been there as artists. Either through rejection, deep dissapointment or whatever it may have been. And that you didn't quit and your god given talents were eventually acknowldeged and developed - a big lesson for us all. We keep walking! THANK YOU.

  • @boblob2003
    @boblob20033 жыл бұрын

    I had a lesson with a "famous drummer" my first semester at Berklee. The guy was one of the reasons I went there. He was a no show my first lesson... no show my second lesson... totally destroyed me my third lesson. Just insulted me and didn't teach me anything. I was devastated and really wondered if I should rethink my career plans. He stopped showing up altogether and I was able to change teachers to a guy who played like Jack Dejohnette- totally inspired me, challenged me and took my playing to a new level. The next year someone I didn't know that well came up to me after a recital I played in and said, "wow, I liked your playing more than __famous drummer__". Never. Give. Up!

  • @wickedcoolname399

    @wickedcoolname399

    3 жыл бұрын

    Come on, you have to out the famous drummer!

  • @youngandrew66

    @youngandrew66

    3 жыл бұрын

    I taught a youngster for 3 yrs from scratch who took off like a rocket. When I could teach him no further I had a word with my ego and we agreed to free him to find a tutor on the 'next level'.. A while later I caught up with his father who said he'd gone briefly to a guy who'd been at a flash music college in London and was now sharing his knowledge. Aside from a 20 mile drive to Manchester the guy also charged £40 a lesson (and we're not talking a rich father here) . However from what I gathered he'd had no band or songwriting experience and was apparantly a nervous wreck due to the stress of competition in music school. My point? Experience is more important than any major 7th arpeggio. Get playing with people and start learning to play SONGS.

  • @duffbaker9554

    @duffbaker9554

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kenny Aronoff?

  • @lamper2

    @lamper2

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're not angry enough to name him? i would

  • @roomdog40

    @roomdog40

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude, gotta name him.

  • @johnrutherford8026
    @johnrutherford80263 жыл бұрын

    The content here is awesome. Over and above that, you are exactly what every young aspiring artist needs as an example. You are authentic, genuine and honest about the music. The music world seems overly populated with parrots and mechanics. Originality, creative effort and “feel” combined with technical competence are what makes great music. Thank you for sharing this insight into your experiences.

  • @paulrodgers8605

    @paulrodgers8605

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Rick Your message is strength to us Rick we love you

  • @georgewyatt2924
    @georgewyatt29243 жыл бұрын

    Someone asked me years ago, "If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be?" I thought for a moment and replied, "I like who I am today. Every experience, good and bad, has shaped who I am. Therefore, I would change nothing because I might be someone I don't like." I feel the same way today, despite all the shoulda, woulda, coulda moments. I try to work hard, learn and be kind ... and I sleep really well at night. Love your channel, Rick.

  • @notbraindead7298

    @notbraindead7298

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations, You Win!

  • @newfoundmoralclarity

    @newfoundmoralclarity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly how I try to live. There's nothing more useless than regret

  • @thomastimlin1724

    @thomastimlin1724

    3 жыл бұрын

    "If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be?" My answer is always "My underwear." Because you can't change the past and can only move forward.

  • @leetv6223

    @leetv6223

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yessir

  • @soulhealer20
    @soulhealer203 жыл бұрын

    Great story Rick. I applied for college when I was 43 years old. I'd never had any formal training even during all of my elementary and high school. But I self-taught myself extremely well. I initially auditioned for the jazz program at Capilano College (now a university.) I should have passed the audition but after waiting my turn for 8 hours in the hallways with all the other wannabes I ran out of energy and failed. But my name was passed onto the classical program because they had openings and two weeks later, i got a call to try out. So over a period of time that spring and summer, I learned to play Vivaldi's Largo in D. I learned it from Steve Howe's album "The Steve Howe Album: Concerto In D (Second Movement)" (Vivaldi; arranged by Steve Howe) - I was very well familiar with listening to it over the years. I played it at my audition with no transcript. I was asked for one by Laars Karrio who was the Classical program director and the conductor of 2 choirs at Cap. I admitted to learning it by ear and it went over well. I was quizzed on the harmonic qualities of piano chords that he played for me and moments later, he asked, "would you like to spend 2 years at college for music?" Yay!!! I made it and am so grateful. During the first semester, at my first classical guitar lesson with the great Stephen Boswell, I showed him a transcription from one of the currently popular guitar magazines. He sort of chuckled and told me to put the magazine away. He came back momentarily with the proper classical music notation for Fernando Sor's Theme and Variations on Mozart's Magic Flute. Now that was an eye and ear opener. I still play it today but need to really relearn it. LOL. Thanks for the great share. BTW I went to college to study Music Therapy which was also great for me.

  • @Bendit1974
    @Bendit19743 жыл бұрын

    This isn't a music story. This is a life lesson. Thank you.

  • @vincenzoerriquenz2356
    @vincenzoerriquenz23563 жыл бұрын

    "Life Is What Happens to You While You’re Busy Making Other Plans"( John Lennon)❤️

  • @PFA57
    @PFA573 жыл бұрын

    Can't remember off the top of my head who said it but there is an old saying that goes like this... "We don't learn from success, we learn from our failures."

  • @pohkeee
    @pohkeee3 жыл бұрын

    “...sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers...” 😉 wonderful wisdom,it has holds the framework for a great sermon!

  • @YummyPork
    @YummyPork3 жыл бұрын

    Being able to see failure as an opportunity is an important life skill.

  • @scottsteele7109
    @scottsteele71093 жыл бұрын

    You notice that Rick telling his story he got to a point about 3/4 through where his eyes got wide, they were just looking through the screen and he was connecting with the KZread audience in a personal emotional way. That kind of defines the root of his success as a entertainer here, he is real and is convincing as a storyteller. Honesty works and an eye to eye connection always works. Enjoyed your tale of failures and successes.

  • @markmchenry4489

    @markmchenry4489

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. Great story and the story-telling was equally great. I'm glad I listened to this.

  • @dobieprime
    @dobieprime2 ай бұрын

    Rick, I just saw this. Although, I have performed all my life in one way or another, I never had the courage to believe what everyone else said about me. I was afraid to believe it. I felt I was being prideful, or "big headed", to think that I could do what God had given me the talent to do. I remember singing in church and thinking that I'm no better than anyone in this congregation and I don't deserve to be singing to them. And my whole body would begin to quiver inside when I thought about the words I was singing. When I was a kid, none of that would bother me. As I got older, it did. I'm still not sure how to separate all of that. But, in my writing, it comes pouring out and I think that's a good thing. I find that it is easier to write a song when you're down. When there is something wrong, rather then when everything is going right. Music has been in my life since birth. Before birth. My father being a bass singer in a gospel quartet. My mother's brothers playing bluegrass banjo and guitar. And me being told around the age of 9 that I was going to take piano lessons (which was one of the best things that has ever happened to me). The piano will always be my best friend. My story is long too. And too long for here. I'm 60 now. So, there has been so much. But, I appreciate you so much and I thank you for your story and the path that God gave you.

  • @shanesavoie8141
    @shanesavoie81413 жыл бұрын

    I've really enjoyed your willingness to expose your personal aspects to us, Rick. From the story about your aunt's recent passing, introducing us to your son, and the disclosure of your learning disability, you've become more like a genuine friend than just a personality on KZread! I rarely find myself actually caring about someone I've never met, but your character is as affable as it is admirable. I can never thank you enough for the knowledge you teach and the wisdom you share. This is my favorite channel on this dying platform.

  • @integral
    @integral3 жыл бұрын

    You are one hell of a story teller, Rick. I frequently listen to KZread videos while taking care of two or three other bits of business in my house or office, but after the first few minutes I dropped everything and sat down to listen. Thank you for all you do and for the heart you put into this channel. It makes a difference.

  • @Tetsujin-28
    @Tetsujin-283 жыл бұрын

    Rick Beato: This is the best channel on KZread. What a treat.

  • @recordman555
    @recordman5553 жыл бұрын

    "Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did." ~ Newt Gingrich

  • @TauAspire
    @TauAspire3 жыл бұрын

    as the lyric goes, "God bless the broken road, that brought me straight to you". Great experience to share, Rick, thx.

  • @jaumepp1975
    @jaumepp19753 жыл бұрын

    One of the very few channels where I press thumb up before it begins.

  • @SpanishLibertarian

    @SpanishLibertarian

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep!!

  • @tkat6442

    @tkat6442

    3 жыл бұрын

    What's confusing me is, who did those few thumbs down, and why!? WTF!

  • @Natas5050

    @Natas5050

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tkat6442 Haters that probably watch all his videos and give him thumbs down every time.

  • @mathijsbastiaansen5394

    @mathijsbastiaansen5394

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tkat6442 I think they are just bots

  • @heathercollins4432

    @heathercollins4432

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same...

  • @cucamongaduke3600
    @cucamongaduke36003 жыл бұрын

    My dad had a friend in college who studied in the art and architecture department (my dad was in the engineering school). His friend was a screw-off his first year there and got kicked out of school - the university mailed him a letter saying so. He *begged* to get back in and they let him. Many years later I started in the engineering program at the same school. My dad encouraged me to go talk to his friend. The same guy who had been kicked out of school... was now the Chair of the art and architecture department. And pinned to the back of his office door? That letter. Getting knocked down does not mean that you’re out. It just means you have more work to do.

  • @TuncerYldz

    @TuncerYldz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nice one :) it seems the guy who let him back, made a correct call. Failures are part of life too.

  • @Tmidiman

    @Tmidiman

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TuncerYldz a better word for “Failure” is “Lesson”. It’s all about if we learn from them or not.

  • @1bigrowdy

    @1bigrowdy

    3 жыл бұрын

    We never fail to fail it's the easiest thing to do. CS&N Southern Cross

  • @notbraindead7298

    @notbraindead7298

    3 жыл бұрын

    good story, thanks.

  • @user-wg4pg8eb1g
    @user-wg4pg8eb1g6 ай бұрын

    This was a wonderful story. I was a trumpet player in high school and realized that I probably could not make a living at it so I went to Rice and studied Chemical Engineering. I never lost my interest in music and listened constantly. I didn't play music for quite a while but fooled around with it from time to time. My wife of 48 years died and 9 years later I met a wonderful woman whose husband had died one month after my wife. She is a semi-professional singer here in Houston and she and the recordings of her bands and particularly her husband rekindled my interest in music. I found your videos and they had taught me a lot of the things I should have learned when I was playing. You have inspired me to try to take up music again at 79 years old. I cannot thank you enough.

  • @patrademacher1637
    @patrademacher16373 жыл бұрын

    Rick, you are so versatile and inspiring. Even though the takeaway here is such a commonly-mentioned universal theme, your story is so much more relatable and encouraging than a famous quote on a poster or hearing the same things over from friends and family. I recently was rejected by a company I wanted to work for so badly and it was devastating, but now I feel like I'm ready to go out and kick some ass and see what results instead. Thank you so much for this

  • @fogrecordsusa7169

    @fogrecordsusa7169

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go get 'em!

  • @zummo61
    @zummo613 жыл бұрын

    Being rejected can be freeing. After that, you owe nothing to anyone but yourself!

  • @f1jones544

    @f1jones544

    3 жыл бұрын

    As Janis said, freedom's just another word for having nothing left to lose.

  • @JohnSmith-tc2gu

    @JohnSmith-tc2gu

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@f1jones544 Kris . . .

  • @ruddwoodstudios3084
    @ruddwoodstudios30843 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this. Thanks Rick. After years of putting it off, I finally just started a KZread Metal Cover Channel (barely any subscribers so far, lol, but I'm putting all of my passion, hard work and being consistent as I can). It's personal stories like this that inspire and encourage people like me. Hopefully I will be able to do the same one day.

  • @dougthomson9052

    @dougthomson9052

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good luck!!!

  • @plandscapesoh9702

    @plandscapesoh9702

    3 жыл бұрын

    "subscribed"

  • @mgstever1564

    @mgstever1564

    3 жыл бұрын

    Subscribed.

  • @ashdelkins

    @ashdelkins

    3 жыл бұрын

    Subscribed. Cant wait to see all of the covers you put up :)

  • @AlDunbar

    @AlDunbar

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too, and I dont even like much metal. So go ahead and change my mind.

  • @TermiteUSA
    @TermiteUSA3 жыл бұрын

    "His world had gone from sailing ships, To raking mom's backyard, He never could adjust to land, Although he tried so hard. We both were growing older then, and wiser in our years. That's when I came to understand, The course his heart still steered..." Jimmy Buffet, The Captain and the Kid 1970 (for Captn. Marty, Grandpa)

  • @tedwood696
    @tedwood6963 жыл бұрын

    I'm older than you and the advice you give is great. All the more for these young budding artists etc.

  • @adamfurnish8481
    @adamfurnish84813 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Rick! I’m 16 and have every intention of doing music as my career. It really helps to see how much failure you can go through and it can ultimately lead to a greater success. You’re truly one of my hero’s😁

  • @davidselders1513
    @davidselders15133 жыл бұрын

    "LIFE IS WHAT HAPPENS, WHILE YOU'RE MAKING OTHER PLANS "

  • @ronviejo4994

    @ronviejo4994

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have always loved this one.

  • @jeffreyleonard7210

    @jeffreyleonard7210

    3 жыл бұрын

    "Now and forever"

  • @larsscholz3762

    @larsscholz3762

    3 жыл бұрын

    John Lennon, right?

  • @jeffreyleonard7210

    @jeffreyleonard7210

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! We all aim to be on that "One after 9:09", yet nobody told me there'd be days like this ... :-)

  • @cluelessbaj9563

    @cluelessbaj9563

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@larsscholz3762 yeah , beautiful boy to be exactly right

  • @mrartician5250
    @mrartician52503 жыл бұрын

    Reminds me of the story/inspiration behind "Journeys" biggest hit, "Don't Stop Believin"...it's SO true. What an amazing "journey" life is to begin with and can be, when we're open to trying different doors, paths and roads, whether by choice or fate.

  • @mobydick3895
    @mobydick38953 жыл бұрын

    Great personal story, Rick! It reminds me of when I happened to attend first grade when I was five in Knoxville Tennessee. Subsequently, we moved to Florida to a house only 100 yards from the city's Little League baseball complex, and when I came up to play Little League, I was seven while my classmates were eight. I was denied eligibility because I was not eight, and I cried and cried foul! Subsequently, I got so pissed off and ambitious to play, I practiced extra hard, so when I finally got to play, I had more skill than other players and I pitched the first game I ever played. After that first year I skipped the intermediate league and advanced to the main Little League that covered up through age 12. Due to this chain of events, I became a successful pitcher and pitched in the leagues for eight years. Even though it was just Little League, for me it was a Major League learning experience, and just chock full of life lessons that formulated my character.

  • @ksoman953
    @ksoman9533 жыл бұрын

    Moral of your story, and most stories, "The world belongs to people who can bounce back. Think not of failures, but lessons learned." Good stuff man. Keep at it.

  • @eldesgraciado6690

    @eldesgraciado6690

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are ALFAs super-unreliable?

  • @eldesgraciado6690

    @eldesgraciado6690

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ksoman953 FIATs are still junky. Maybe they pay more attention to ALFAs because of the increased pricing?

  • @ksoman953

    @ksoman953

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@eldesgraciado6690 okay. Let's talk about that on a car channel, not here.

  • @eldesgraciado6690

    @eldesgraciado6690

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ksoman953 They say Alfa fans and VW fans are very defensive.

  • @oldtimer1102
    @oldtimer11023 жыл бұрын

    As you can see from the number of views there are thousands of us that appreciate where you are in our lives. We did not know how you got here but are so glad you did. Thank you.

  • @Cardiacmoment
    @Cardiacmoment2 жыл бұрын

    “Office 13” would be a great title for tutorials and/or teachable moments. Either on here, YT, or wherever you wish. IMHO

  • @relevantinformation6655
    @relevantinformation66553 жыл бұрын

    We learn best from our mistakes or defeat. We learn to pick up ourselves from our boot straps, improve, grow and move onward and upward. Great post Rick 👍

  • @ToLiveistoDie
    @ToLiveistoDie3 жыл бұрын

    As a 39 year old musician, this really hit the spot today. You've helped more than you will likely ever know.

  • @socialbeats1
    @socialbeats13 жыл бұрын

    My first pianoteacher is my biggest influence on how I teach music today. He told me to stop making music I had no talent. 15 years later I became a music teacher on the same school. I didn’t give up. He showed me how not to teach a kid. He wasn’t the right teacher for me. I always try to be the best teacher for my students. And will never ever tell anyone to stop making music....

  • @PierreVeniot
    @PierreVeniot3 жыл бұрын

    Was rejected also from a music school, even though I was the best flute player of my class. Thanks to the Ste-Croix nuns. Still playing music and making a living out of it 50 years on.

  • @ganormand
    @ganormand2 жыл бұрын

    Rejection played a major role in my music experience, too. In 1976, a restaurant owner hired me to put together a band for opening night, and then be the house act. We practiced incessantly for it. The exciting night came, lots of people ready to party-I had all the equipment set up on stage, keys, bass, drums, and waited for our star male vocalist. He came up on stage, exchanged some pleasantries, then said he was going out to his car to get a stool. He disappeared, we've never seen or heard of him since. Restaurant guy said "start playing". Needless to say, without our power singer, we sounded lame and he Fired us that first night. I vowed to create a band that he would love to have...over the next couple years, I added female vocalist, sax guy, and all singing musicians. We've played well over 4,000 events in over 100 cities of 6 states. The restaurant guy, maybe 10 years later, came up to me at one of my gigs and asked if I would be interested in playing for him. After I firmly turned him down, I told him that he had been my catalyst to get things moving in a big way. We're still friends.

  • @roscoemuttley
    @roscoemuttley3 жыл бұрын

    My brother's band was signed by EMI in Australia, (he was going to school in Sydney and his part time, fun band picked up a following.) Alas, they were quickly dropped and my brother did not become a mediocre rock star. Instead, he is the curator of the Western Australia Museum of Herpetology. He is the second most cited scientist in his field. So yeah, fate has a way.

  • @marcanglin7127

    @marcanglin7127

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's a pity that your brother was not an archer, as well. Then he could have played with Rush on their "Snakes and Arrows" tour.

  • @TonyHammitt

    @TonyHammitt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, you know what they say: What doesn't kill you isn't on exhibit here

  • @BobV97

    @BobV97

    3 жыл бұрын

    What was the band?

  • @jasonthunders78

    @jasonthunders78

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm in Sydney, About 10 year ago,i played my demos to a bloke in the aussie music/telly industry... He heard my Chuck Berry and Hank Snow songs,in the style of The Rolling Stones... Was given the opportunity to record,but was suggested to use a drum machine, not a drummer! I declined.....all the while,i could've asked Paul Demarco from The Tatts to drum! I had a cassette 4 track....and when i sang,no one believed it was me....they thought i sounded like Iggy Pop!!!! Mate,my rendition of Hank Snow's ' I'm moving on'.... was awesome,with the reverb like a train tunnel....and me Chuck songs,like on Get ya yah yah's out,;......Mick Taylor had nothing on me😆😆

  • @shayneoneill1506

    @shayneoneill1506

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had a band that got picked up and dropped again the 1990s by EMI (Berko punk kinda thing). Wondering if it was the same guy who did that to us. Though in fairness we where reeeaeal high, all the time. We had a tendency to fuck things up lol

  • @LivingOnCash
    @LivingOnCash3 жыл бұрын

    "Don't confront me with my failures I had not forgotten them." Now at 64, I occasionally think back on things that might have been and wonder how different my life would be if I only had done this or that. Thank you for reminding me to appreciate what I have now and not worry about what might have been.

  • @AlDunbar

    @AlDunbar

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I was in a band in high school in the late sixties. No real ambition to make a career so when our manager suggested i couldn't continue in the band and in university i chose university. Kind of ticked to see my old band opening for the Who soon after. I often thought, "what if i had stuck with music". I came to the conclusion that I'd never really know. But, realistically, one of the possible outcomes was a drug death. The other possibility would have involved me wondering what my life would have been like had i continued my education. Its a waste of time worrying about what if scenarios.

  • @andrewroby1130

    @andrewroby1130

    3 жыл бұрын

    Favorite line from what might be my favorite lyrics!

  • @philmaples2069

    @philmaples2069

    3 жыл бұрын

    We have to give that lyric credit: “These Days” by Jackson Browne. He wrote it when he was 15.

  • @LivingOnCash

    @LivingOnCash

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@philmaples2069 I didn't because I figured Rick would know. Such a great song and how he could have penned those words at such an early age.

  • @vladtepes97
    @vladtepes973 жыл бұрын

    sounds like the adage 'good luck is when preparation meets opportunity'.

  • @jeffarcher400
    @jeffarcher4003 жыл бұрын

    Always liked the saying that Life is what happens while you are making plans. When I got kicked out of my band, er downsized, it hurt. I felt like I was a ok musician. Somehow I ended up in the bell choir at church. Mesmerized by the clean pure bell tones. Imagine the poor aspiring rock guitarist with dreams of shredding leads humbled,knocked down and broken by trying to play three notes. Just three bells while some juggled many. My weaknesses were laid out. We had a director, discipline, 1e and a 2e and a, reading music, dynamics,,baton and no drums or bass to lean on. Long periods of nothing,just count,oh no I lost it. Listen for something familiar,watch the baton,breath,relax, I'm back on,I can do this. I found what was missing from my guitar. Why it never felt comfy. It's like the band was playing and I was playing along with them but we weren't one. I'm so grateful for being kicked out of the band. I wasn't really ever with them. Years later we're back together. Older and wiser and sounding better. I'm also thankful for the patient kindness of those in the bell choir ,the directors and the church. I met other great musicians and got to play along with them. I used to think that musicians had to look a certain way. Wow was I wrong. Normal looking housewives and bald old guys have tons of game. More music in their pinky than all the songs I memorized. Video tried killing the radio star but they hid in the church.

  • @YMESYDT
    @YMESYDT3 жыл бұрын

    I would love to see a series of failure videos with other KZreadrs, musicians you interview, producers, etc. It’s unbelievably inspiring

  • @PavelFomenkov
    @PavelFomenkov3 жыл бұрын

    Right now I’m kinda in a low-key depression because my KZread channel doesn’t work at all. Thanks to videos like this I try to think more positive about it all. Thank you Rick!

  • @Clairevoyante

    @Clairevoyante

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just checked your youtube channel and you're actually doing well! Your videos have thousands of views!! Plus, the music is awesome!!

  • @PavelFomenkov

    @PavelFomenkov

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Clairevoyante Thank you so much! The problem with my channel is, I already put like 5 years into making it and that you can see is all that I got through all these years. I know that maybe I ask for too much, but I’ve seen so many channels blow up and exceed my numbers in a matter of months or even less, and yet I don’t really grow anymore. And this is what upsets me.

  • @mykeadelic

    @mykeadelic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@PavelFomenkovThe algorithm is weird, there are little tricks to getting more views but the most important thing is consistency from what I’ve seen. Stick with it!!

  • @Clairevoyante

    @Clairevoyante

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@PavelFomenkov Yeah I can imagine, I can see you've put a lot of work in it. If you know google analytics, I suggest you look at the trends in search words for a week and try to make a video related to that. I know it's easy to say but the tags you put on a video actually bring a lot of visibility if it's ''trendy''. I'm no expert though! Good luck!

  • @gogox98

    @gogox98

    3 жыл бұрын

    For what it's worth, I absolutely love your channel and your song book project. I know it does not change much, as you hear this in the comments of every single video. You need to keep in mind that you are literally the ONLY good source for people to learn DR and MK songs (if they can't do that by ear). That being said, neither MK nor DR have been popular lately, so perhaps that's why you don't get recognition. Perhaps you could cover a wider range of artists, preferably more popular ones. I am sure there are simple popular songs you could make lessons for. You could also maybe do something similar to Rick's series. Or you could just stick to the songbook, which is the most amazing musical project I've seen in recent years :) Point is success on youtube is not a given. There's many variables. For me you will always be the best! :)

  • @creativebobbo
    @creativebobbo3 жыл бұрын

    So many successes follow failure of epic proportion. It's important to never give up on your dreams.

  • @RobHollanderMusic
    @RobHollanderMusic3 жыл бұрын

    More often than you realize when you're young, apparent bad luck turns out to be good fortune in the longer story.

  • @plushman3685
    @plushman36853 жыл бұрын

    Hey, I was forced into college by my controlling father and I was as history major. Now, not only do I have a BA in History, I'm also a failed punk rocker (bassist, vocals) and I'm a cook at a BBQ joint. I can't wait to see what failures I got coming. Can't get any better than this. Thanks for your story though.

  • @Mark-OutWest

    @Mark-OutWest

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish I got forced to go to college.

  • @davemiller6055

    @davemiller6055

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Mark-OutWest I wanted to go but couldn't.

  • @gordonmills2748

    @gordonmills2748

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was a history major, though I went to college by choice. My father died while I was in my senior year, which messed up a lot of things. I missed my chance to study abroad at Cambridge, and became a cook after I graduated. I was a part time radio DJ on the weekends, and after a few years I quit the restaurant to try and make it on the radio. Long story short, I wound up having a radio career that lasted almost 30 years. Met lots of famous people, did some amazing things. You just never know.

  • @tonyfondacaro1980

    @tonyfondacaro1980

    3 жыл бұрын

    I majored in English.... ended up in the Navy. At least I found music.

  • @boffo63

    @boffo63

    3 жыл бұрын

    Learning BBQ is the best thing.

  • @toddharrigan9901
    @toddharrigan99013 жыл бұрын

    Rick not only are you an ambassador to music. You are an inspiration to all! If more people on this planet were like you. I do believe this world would be so much better of a world. Thank you for being who you are. God Bless You and your family!!!

  • @kriso4447
    @kriso44473 жыл бұрын

    The great Joe Walsh once said, "life as you go through it seems like a random series of chaotic events, but when you look back years later, you see that it was actually a finely crafted novel".

  • @billcarroll5342
    @billcarroll53423 жыл бұрын

    A long time ago, I lost my "big label deal" over an argument over two percentage points between the label, management, and producer. It's been clawing away at me for decades. Given the option of what I have now and what I might have had if that deal had worked out, I;'d rather have what I have now. Thanks for helping me rethink it.

  • @mnmike130
    @mnmike1303 жыл бұрын

    There is a saying I heard a long time ago. "If you want to make God laugh, just make a plan". We never know what is around the next turn of this journey called life

  • @SyntagmaStation

    @SyntagmaStation

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think you captured the essence of what he was saying. Nice.

  • @stevegray2091
    @stevegray20913 жыл бұрын

    I was basically a rock and roll guitarist who had learned a little jazz. I hoped to become a studio musician and a singing entertainer. I went to community college first and absolutely aced the theory program, started to learn piano, learned to sight-sing (and solfege), did excellent in ear training, and used a jazz workshop to learn orchestration. I had not learned a classical technique for singing, but was used to having choir conductors pursue me constantly, because I had a good sense of pitch and a strong voice. At my initial audition at California State University Chico, I auditioned on piano and sang a song from "Man of La Mancha". It was a failed audition. I declared a pre-law major and continued my music studies, again singing in a choir and getting great encouragement for composition from my species counterpoint instructor, Simon Carfagno, who had been a composer of film scores in the early days of cinema. I started to teach myself classical guitar out of my brother's Carcassi Etudes book. I have always been a very good music reader, but I had no supervision to learn classical guitar technique. When I transferred to San Jose State University, the day before my audition, I played for my dear friend Kevin Coleman, who had already toured as a flamenco guitarist for Jose Greco for three tours. He said, "Steve, Why is your right hand like a bear claw?" I was totally nervous for the audition for the string department, but the guitar instructor, Fred Thrane, recognized my musicality and spoke up for me to gain entry into the program. At one time, I had 3 simultaneous classical guitar instructors, plus experienced fellow students, work with me to correct my technique. Of course, there was a problem in 1973, as there were no good fingernail maintenance products, and it was torture heading to juries each semester, wondering if my fingernails would be in shape. So I've been playing guitar, both electric and later classical since 1966. I also graduated to playing the flamenco music of Sabicas and Paco de Lucia. After all this time, it is my observation that Segovia scales are absolutely worthless and a total waste of time, except that the faculty members of the juries insist on hearing them. I have played a lot of repertoire, as have my friends. None of those pieces use the fingerings as presented in Segovia scales. In the "Concerto de Aranjuez", as well as countless pieces by Paco, Sabicas, Villa Lobos, Tansman, Granados, etc., the key to changing positions for multiple octaves is to key on an open string. I practice scales, but when I do, I use passages from classical and flamenco pieces. No guitarist in history ever played scales better than Paco de Lucia, and I promise you that he NEVER used the fingerings in Segovia scales. (I've been waiting to get this off my chest for a long time. Just junk Segovia scales. They are not realistic for playing in the repertoire.)

  • @frankkolton1780

    @frankkolton1780

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well they saved Ralph Macchio's soul, so there is that.

  • @mr5410

    @mr5410

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@frankkolton1780 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bluewater3783
    @bluewater37833 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being there, Rick.

  • @jonnyonthespa5153
    @jonnyonthespa51532 жыл бұрын

    i am going to fly to atlanta and take you for lunch and tell you the impact you have had on my life and also pay for your time as an advisor. this will happen i love you rick! you are wonderful

  • @ryanseeton6659
    @ryanseeton66593 жыл бұрын

    Being a senior in high school right now and not knowing where I’m going to go or what I’m going to do, you are my biggest inspiration Rick. I hope that I am able to make a career in music somehow! Thanks Rick for all you do!

  • @berniediveley625

    @berniediveley625

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t waste money on school. It’s a total scam. Just make your music and love it.

  • @ryanseeton6659

    @ryanseeton6659

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@matthewhorizon6050 Thanks for the reply! I will keep it all in mind! I’ve been playing guitar for about 5-6 years now and have been learning some theory alongside it. It’s been an integral part of my life ever since I started being a teenager. I was lucky enough to meet Rick at ATL last September, and that is something I’ll never forget lol. Thanks for the advice!

  • @DonVueltaMorales

    @DonVueltaMorales

    3 жыл бұрын

    Practice, practice, practice. Listen to all types of music, all styles and genres, even the ones that you think bore you. Find one that seems interesting and learn about it on KZread and through Wikipedia and the like. Intense music immersion will train your ear and your mind. You will think and hear differently and better.

  • @SeadartVSG

    @SeadartVSG

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good luck, make a plan and go for it. Don't take advice from people with three subscribers here .

  • @EddieVanAidan

    @EddieVanAidan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Also, realise that you don’t have to know what you wanna do with your life at 17/18. I’ve always thought It’s a ridiculous notion that we’re pushed to decide our futures at that age. You could be a total music devotee then in your mid 30s have a desire to become a geologist or electrician. Just go with whatever keeps you happy man and don’t doubt yourself!

  • @CornishMotorcycleDiaries
    @CornishMotorcycleDiaries3 жыл бұрын

    My personal motto: Never, Ever Give up. This is also a great example of the fact that you only really learn from your mistakes. Brilliant story. Motivating.

  • @ricksouthwick3463
    @ricksouthwick34632 жыл бұрын

    Rick, I travelled to London from Australia in 1989 to find a Master Jeweller to teach me Victorian jewellery making techniques, on a whim, and spent 3 years under the tutelage of one of England’s greatest Master Jewellers. At times i walked around London in tears of frustration at my inability to master these skills. My mentor (Graham) nurtured me in the old school ways and from this i became a Master Jeweller my self. Finding a true mentor has change my life and at his insistence I have passed the skills on. Mentors are a key to evolution in skill. Love your channel. Rick.

  • @jadanblue3927
    @jadanblue39273 жыл бұрын

    Resiliency and adaptation are the (often not discussed) key to most successful people. You either bend your career (path) to find success in life or bend your life (geography, marital status, etc) to find success in your career. Great story Rick! Thank you for sharing. Always enjoy hearing about your time in Upstate NY, which gave birth to your incredible career.

  • @johnw5584
    @johnw55843 жыл бұрын

    I'm 60 years old, I have an invention and started a business. I did not want to be 80 years old, and. Say.. " that was a good idea, I should have done it". Live. Life..

  • @vincentdenismusic
    @vincentdenismusic3 жыл бұрын

    New series: What Makes This Life Great. 😉 (I personally find this just as interesting as your WMTSG videos, and way more inspiring than your rants.)

  • @dlux703
    @dlux7033 жыл бұрын

    So true that anyone's journey from point A to B to C, etc. can not happen without the setbacks and disappointments that come along. It's always about turning the lemons into lemonade.

  • @Longhorn.Rock_Roll61
    @Longhorn.Rock_Roll613 жыл бұрын

    Im 59 and i can think back about not really the same but similar things that you think are negative things but yet positive thats life

  • @bluzshadez
    @bluzshadez3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Rick! It's true what they say, "When a door shuts, a window opens."

  • @ScubaSteveCanada

    @ScubaSteveCanada

    3 жыл бұрын

    The key is to recognize that a window opened and not stand at the shut door.

  • @bluzshadez

    @bluzshadez

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ScubaSteveCanada I agree! If you can't get through the front door, go around and find another opening.

  • @Alfonso162008

    @Alfonso162008

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bluzshadez that's also a great advice if you wanna rob a house 😂

  • @dl4608

    @dl4608

    3 жыл бұрын

    When a door shuts, you open the door again. That’s how doors work.

  • @RUHDD4HVN
    @RUHDD4HVN3 жыл бұрын

    I'm the same age as you Rick. I was diagnosed as being tone deaf from my elementary schools medical staff tests during my 5th grade year. I didn't know or understand what being tone deaf meant by any means. All I knew was that I wanted to play music and had loved it from the first days of hearing it....... Either the experts were wrong as wrong could be or God did a miracle in my life to show the experts as wrong and that He is in charge and gave me a gift that I would cherish for a lifetime.

  • @berniediveley625

    @berniediveley625

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍✝️

  • @edmiller3786

    @edmiller3786

    3 жыл бұрын

    Huh?

  • @thecreature1281
    @thecreature12813 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rick. Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. Your stories are edifying to so many people - Thank you for taking the time to share from your experiences! Artists need encouragement and you are giving so much back to us all. Thank you for giving us hope. Seriously.

  • @robnowlin7285
    @robnowlin72853 жыл бұрын

    Rick, I am 53 years old and learning to play the guitar. This is a long story why it took me so long. I wanted to say thank you for sharing your story.

  • @CarrierSignals
    @CarrierSignals3 жыл бұрын

    As the Zen Buddhist story goes; "Maybe, maybe not. We'll see." What we initially see as misfortune can result in just the opposite. Thanks Rick.

  • @JanVanderKuylen
    @JanVanderKuylen3 жыл бұрын

    This is an incredibly honest testimony that brings up similar memories for me. I was often discouraged and did not receive support from my parents. But the passion for music remained. I taught myself guitar chords at the age of 13. In the circle of friends there were enough guitarists. Until I discovered the bass guitar. I relied on my good musical hearing and was quickly noticed by the local musicians. But as a musician in Belgium it is and was difficult to live from this. Now after my professional career as a federal detective, I have completely devoted myself to music. I am very lucky to play music in 5 music groups. All 5 in different styles. I was able to edit and improve the recordings of rehearsals and performances with the help of the information I received from your youtube channel, among others. Thank you for your clear theoretical and practical approach to this wonderful music world.

  • @drurigney8616
    @drurigney86162 жыл бұрын

    Rick, I've been watching your channel for a few months and really enjoy it. I can relate to your story. I played bass in bands (Hard Rock) back in the 1980's. We payed up on the Sunset Strip and opened for bands like Quiet Riot, Guns and Roses and Motley Crue. We came very close to getting a deal (like you) but in the end it didn't work out. I got disappointed, stopped playing for many years and got into another line of work. While watching this clip, I realized everything happens for a reason. I was married during the time we were playing in L.A. and partially blamed having to come back home to raise my family and having to work"a real job" on not getting my shot. Now much "older and wiser), I realize what I could have missed out on. Raising my kids and seeing the grow up (Now my grandkids). I also went to school to be a respiratory therapist. I know that had something else interfered with this, I would not have had the skill needed during the Covid crisis to deal with that 25 years has to offer. It's a career i have never regretted. Recently, the guitarist of the band Vesuvius I played with during this time contacted me and sent me a few "old pics" of when we played. One was a of a flyer from one of our shows at a club called the Woodstock in Orange County, Ca. The band Slayer (yes the Slayer), was the opening act. At the time I didn't know it but the bass player of Slayer was a Respiratory Therapist, Tom Araya. It's a very small world.

  • @michaelobrien8219
    @michaelobrien82193 жыл бұрын

    family is such a blessing - but we often don't see it until later

  • @timharrington4470
    @timharrington44703 жыл бұрын

    The way Rick talks about overcoming his failures in the road of life is just as important as the other subjects covered on his channel like music theory, engineering, producing, Etc... that kind of inspiration is extremely valuable for musicians to not only survive but to thrive! That is what makes Rick beato great! Way excellent communication skills

  • @Killstoff
    @Killstoff3 жыл бұрын

    Rick is an excellent storyteller. Everytime I see one of his video's I feel enriched, and not only as a musician.

  • @RespekfulFungus
    @RespekfulFungus2 жыл бұрын

    I love you even more now, Rick. My sophomore year I lost a scholarship from Arkansas State’s Music Ed program. WS a trumpet major, but my heart was in my J-bass, and had never touched an upright. I couldn’t make myself practice the horn like I needed to, and there was no Bass and barely a Jazz program aside from a couple of bands. Things took a turn, and I went without or just sparingly playing for 10 years. Now here I am retraining myself, and in the beginnings of my own luthier journey. It’s been hard, really hard, but watching my kids light up when I show them something new is worth it all.

  • @smith3126
    @smith31263 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for reminding me that there's always an up side to failure and rejection.

  • @GD-lu9zo
    @GD-lu9zo3 жыл бұрын

    In the 70s my two passions were graphic design and playing drums, and I was vacillating back and forth about which I wanted to make a living with. I wrangled an audition with a nationally known band who had recently lost their drummer. Same as you said, Rick, I was totally nervous and played like it. Well, they decided I was better suited as a graphic designer, and I didn’t get the gig. And I’m so thankful that happened because, like you said Rick, I would have never met my wife or had my kids. I’m now a few years away from retiring from my graphic design business, having made a lot more money than I could have as a drummer. Thanks for your post.

  • @benhoward7006
    @benhoward70063 жыл бұрын

    Rick, I only heard about you and your channel a few months ago, but I am so impressed with your intelligence and passion. I received 12 rejections to Medical School, but I also received one acceptance. I have been a Cardiac Anesthesiologist for 27 years and I am told that my skills have helped save many lives (who really knows). I am only what I am because it wasn't given to me. I, like you, had to Earn It! Thanks for telling the young people what you and I have learned. I really admire you. Thank you, your channel makes my life better.

  • @nbenning25

    @nbenning25

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your service!

  • @pete5668
    @pete56683 жыл бұрын

    I remember Steve Brown. I "played vibes" in his Jazz Ensemble. I put it in quotes because I didn't know what I was doing at all. "Intense" is an understatement. A great musician, for sure, but man, was I distracted. I remember standing next to the guitar player as he yelled at him. It was a crazy time, and I didn't know what else to do, so I stuck it out and graduated, but I haven't played in years because I didn't know what to do with it.

  • @JL-vv4ut
    @JL-vv4ut2 ай бұрын

    I really needed to hear this man...thankful sir...