"Don't care what anybody else thinks about you, because nobody thinks about you." -Casually Explained

@fakename151

3 жыл бұрын

I love casually explained

@rewe3536

3 жыл бұрын

D: :c

@dontrwooshmeimtrolling4003

3 жыл бұрын

Why do people think saying this helps ? i mean if u were really shy id get it but this is really fucking depressing

@rewe3536

3 жыл бұрын

@@dontrwooshmeimtrolling4003 Don't worry, that's not even true. Of course people think about you... when they want to criticize or make fun of you.

@generalfuzuki7777

3 жыл бұрын

@@dontrwooshmeimtrolling4003 I’m confused cos of the username but ... did it happen ?

“When you hit your 30’s and your looks start to fade” idk what your talking about, I’ve got the reverse going. Gonna be the sexiest grandpa alive when I’m in my 70s

@caleviwin

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I still get asked for ID and I'm almost 30 lol

@rachellius8921

3 жыл бұрын

This comment made me "cry in age 31"

@MrCmon113

3 жыл бұрын

No one's looks start to fade in their thirties. An attractive person will still be attractive well into their fifties.

@TITANia69420

3 жыл бұрын

Now this is confidence

@BitchChill

3 жыл бұрын

Mines faded at 11

I’ve always found it interesting that I can look at someone and think they’re drop-dead gorgeous and a friend can look at the same person and say “eww, no, really?” I used to sell makeup and skincare for a “prestige” brand. You have no idea how much money women spend trying to cover up flaws that absolutely no one even notices.

@JustMatt2137

2 жыл бұрын

the first one is probably just very opinion based and the second one is hella true

@Chebaby927

Жыл бұрын

@@JustMatt2137 That’s the point. Everybody finds different people beautiful

@MattSumGuy

Жыл бұрын

Most people who call aspects of someone else ugly are usually projecting past or current insecurities. Like literally why does it matter to them? kinda pathetic they are so insecure they feel the need to demean others.

@Chrishum

Жыл бұрын

Literally my girlfriend, she cares so much about covering every little minute flaw when I find her the most attractive when she has no makeup on at all.

@______________url

Жыл бұрын

@@JustMatt2137 they’re both opinion based what

Me after watching this video: “everyone is beautiful, in there own ways” My brain: “except you”

@restlessnye

Жыл бұрын

relatable

@jdubdoubleu

Жыл бұрын

Trick your mind by saying you are attractive each and every day. Eventually you'll see the real you and not what you think others see. The mind is an insanely powerful thing

@restlessnye

Жыл бұрын

@@jdubdoubleu i aint gotta lie to myself now

@fdjgkhfsdkghfskjghdf

Жыл бұрын

@@jdubdoubleu true, because sometimes when i think i look good, i look good. and when i think i look ugly, i look ugly.

Yeah... Honestly, kyle's red afro hair is not ugly, just "iconic hair"

@Scott-zi7xv

3 жыл бұрын

I mean ginger waves would be pretty cool

@regentwaynekerr

3 жыл бұрын

His Jewfro

@giftedcheese6421

3 жыл бұрын

My hair is dark but honestly I wish it were more straight. But I guess you just have to embrace what you have. And as a dude that's really all you can do besides work out lol

@LuisGarcia-sp8co

3 жыл бұрын

@@giftedcheese6421 you know what a perm is? Straight hair is also easier to maintain

@caleviwin

3 жыл бұрын

@@LuisGarcia-sp8co it's not as easy as you think. Once you get to a certain length...it's not fun anymore. It will get everywhere and get caught in everything.

You skimmed over a big part of the story. Clyde got voted best looking because his dad owned the shoe store. When the girls found out they fudged the poll results. That's actually another horrible lesson that shouldve been addressed was rating someone based on capital

@Storm-zp9zm

2 жыл бұрын

-ism

@K4inan

2 жыл бұрын

@@Storm-zp9zm Wrong, capital was correct there.

@spacebar9733

2 жыл бұрын

@@K4inan they were half joking.

@OfficialExplosionMusic

2 жыл бұрын

Kyle was also bummed out that Cartman was higher than him on the list, not so much being dead last.

@SerperiorChaos

2 жыл бұрын

he legit said he wanted to focus on Kyle's response to the list, he didn't say he'd make a full essay on the epsiode.

It’s so hard to not feel insecure when you take off your mask and somebody stares at you for like a minute and say “you look so different” in a disappointed tone

@melarie205

Жыл бұрын

this is why i don’t take my mask off at school:/

@miss_ito

Жыл бұрын

@@melarie205plsss you are gorgeous!

@melarie205

Жыл бұрын

@@miss_ito thank you so much🥺

@leeham6230

Жыл бұрын

Here's a tip to all girls coming from a guy: only wear makeup for special occasions. People get used to how you look, so if you adjust your face with makeup every day, people will get used to that. Then, when you don't wear it, people will think you look worse. If you get people used to seeing your natural beauty every day, then they will be impressed on the rare occasion when you do wear it. Trust me, it works. Would you rather hear "You look really good today", or "...You look different"? It's all about what people are used to seeing.

@Wow-hr1gl

Жыл бұрын

@@leeham6230 most girls dont have natural beauty this aint great advice

I get where you’re going, man. But it’s still a fact that all attractive people have an upper hand in life. If you could choose not to be ugly in life, everyone would do that because advantages of being good looking is not a perceive flaw but a scientific fact. Thanks for your nice words anyhow.

@lottabubbles1596

2 жыл бұрын

And as long as you maintain proper hygiene and a good sense of fashion, it's not your fault people think you're unattractive. I feel like there are some people who take stuff like "Beauty standards suck" and "Body positivity" and "Be yourself" in the wrong way, particularly the "Be yourself" . They think that it's okay to be lazy, rude, spiteful etc. because that's just their personality and they want to "be themselves" , when really the message truly means be the best version of yourself, the most talented, interesting, nicest version. Bottom line : Criticise people only for things they can improve upon, and the world would be a less toxic place.

@chochtopf8682

2 жыл бұрын

And there are people who are born in a rich family. And there are people who are born with high intelligence. Some people are given advantages over others, and sure that's "unfair", the dude in this video didn't claim anything to the contrary. The point is it doesn't matter, because there's quite literally nothing to be gained by giving it even a single thought. You can't change what you have been given, you can only choose what you want to do with it.

@jakd2962

Жыл бұрын

You can say that about anything, there are people with higher iqs than average that do better in life than most and are creative and start businesses and become rich. And then there are those who can’t even read because they don’t have the intellectual capacity to do it. There are people who are more talented, there are people who are born into wealth,there are people who are more athletic than most. Life isn’t fair, you have a hand you’ve been dealt. Are you going to sit here and feel sorry for yourself because you aren’t as attractive Brad Pitt or Scarlett Johansson.? Or are you going to make the best out of your situation.

@Luka_935

Жыл бұрын

@@lottabubbles1596 my iq literally increased after reading this, you should definitely be proud of yourself bruv

@cepahreinholt8710

Жыл бұрын

I would never choose to look like a model. I will always choose to look okay/ average.

When you're ugly and someone loves you, you know they love you for who you are. Beautiful people never know who to trust. *-Drax* *GOTG*

@mitchfletcher2386

3 жыл бұрын

Saw that movie this afternoon, and was gonna quote that here.

@geonite2072

3 жыл бұрын

@@mitchfletcher2386 Sorry.😅

@sunphoenix1231

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly kinda weird, you can understand it if all you think beauty is aesthetics, but true beauty is a combination of looks and personality. Not in the sense of a thin waist and stuff like that but as well as putting the time and dedication into yourself that is the part of it. It works good in the context of the movie, but it's not good life advice because it makes "beautiful" people either seem dumb or shallow.

@florianschroer1773

3 жыл бұрын

what if im ugly and nobody loves me

@sunphoenix1231

3 жыл бұрын

@@florianschroer1773 Then work on being somebody worthy of love, however that works for you, and put yourself out there to find someone who will love you.

I actually don't mind the new bald look you have, honestly.

@derpy9800

3 жыл бұрын

Obviously cause he doesn't even use camera

@Made2Express

3 жыл бұрын

I actually might bring back the camera soon!

@burnt9753

3 жыл бұрын

@@Made2Expressthe cut looks nice tbh you pull it off

@user-sd5ne9gf7b

3 жыл бұрын

@@Made2Express if you don't mind me saying, you look like saitama ha

@theangryhat7113

3 жыл бұрын

lol I want to cut bold too

“I dont mind being ugly, I’m just afraid no-one will choose me” -T.W.W.

@yaarshivam3986

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh

@hiruyabebaw7140

Жыл бұрын

Who?

@xviii5780

Жыл бұрын

@@hiruyabebaw7140 T.W.W.

@joseomegalul3378

Жыл бұрын

@@xviii5780 but what does T.W.W stands for

@majinnazir9983

Жыл бұрын

​@@yaarshivam3986tf u mean bruh nigga ?

Ill take your bet. In my entire life, not one female/male even remotely found me attractive. I was the chubby quite kid who got bullied. I grew up as an outsiders outsider. I didn't have many friends; even now all my RL friends moved away. And we dont talk very much anymore.

@angelphoenix7784

2 жыл бұрын

Also I carry a lot of anger and hatred. Not for anyone; save for one. Myself. I was driven to hate myself.

@caiuscosades6423

2 жыл бұрын

Some people found me attractive. Still didn't help my self esteem issues. If you feel chubby you should move to the south, you will actually look underweight

@salty_3k506

Жыл бұрын

how are you now? and have you worked on yourself and your life like meeting new people, working put, pursuing hobbies, etc?

@hugosnchz2542

6 ай бұрын

@@salty_3k506he probably dead

@Serizon_

Ай бұрын

hey mate. I feel sorry for you but hope you and I and everyone gets better. I have "good looks" (I think) but my body is so weak to the point that I think if I would get laid I guess... Some people say I look like a kid from 8th grade. I am gonna start working on my body. It's done. I got this , motivation creates work and work creates motivation. But I will workout not for the sake of getting validation from girls or maybe have a relationship... etc. , no its for me , myself. I don't not wanna look into myself and rate myself not a 10. I want to work for the sake of working out. I want to study for the sake of studying, Though I sometimes feel whats the point of it all when I am pretty sure some things are unpractical. I just also feel like I have to accept studying for the sake of studying even though you don't precisely like (not hate either) that thing. Just a man's frustration.

I’m so glad South Park is getting more recognition, it’s actually one of my favourite shows bc it deals with issues that society faces in such a comical but introspective way

@CarlJohnson-ff6yb

3 жыл бұрын

And its hilarious and sometimes dark which is good for edgy people like me i remember when cartman feed his parents to his half brother scott thats messed up and he ate all the kfc chicken skin man

@Darkloid21

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know. IT doesn't really deal with issues so much as it gives their opinion on it. This episode tried to say that looks don't matter, but they do. That what others say doesn't matter, but in reality it does.

@Angel-Otk

2 жыл бұрын

@@Darkloid21 keep living life like that then bro….

@Darkloid21

2 жыл бұрын

@@Angel-Otk You mean questioning things like this that don't address issues? I think I will.

@Angel-Otk

2 жыл бұрын

@@Darkloid21 no I don’t mean that, but you obviously need to believe that that’s what I meant for whatever reason so I’ll let it slide. You have more issues to worry about anyway

Am unattractive but I would rather not waste my time being insecure. It's not healthy anyways, thank god you got confidence now

@user-xt7vj2im7g

3 жыл бұрын

I'm*

@thrpotatoasfgfejfidieiidkr7071

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-xt7vj2im7g am*

@darknessinc.5360

3 жыл бұрын

I am considered good looking, but i still don't havr much self esteem, being secure or not, depends on how much you trust yourself, and then, eve if you are good looking, people of the other sec will want you for your face or as a trophy, and not for your hearth, beauty itself is just relative

@darknessinc.5360

3 жыл бұрын

Also, you deserve a veteran discount for that pfp and name

@doodlehobbo8697

3 жыл бұрын

@@darknessinc.5360 Thanks I don't want Doodle Jump to be forgotten

There's a huge double standard there. At first you say that ugly people grow up without validation for their looks, so that makes them stronger and more likely to succeed... But. That's not because of their looks. Not looking good gets you often treated like you don't exist, or even bullied, which has bad effects on your overal mindset and undermines your everyday life. Their success is related solely to their strong personalities, it's not because of their looks - it's DESPITE their looks. Then you say hot people get spoiled and undisciplined by the validation.. But that's just not true. I know many gorgeous people who are also hard-working, kind and don't look down on others, even though they could easily get away with it. Again, it's their personality. So if you're a strong personality, you're gonna be good at both situations, but lets be real - the first one is much worse and sucks. Are you telling me these people never cry or feel like shit because of their looks?

@CartoDarko

2 жыл бұрын

wtf just take the nice words and leave

@RANDOM-pf1ve

2 жыл бұрын

In case u still belive in ur theory kzread.info/dash/bejne/aHp3tZeQgaWTaZs.html

@dirb9266

2 жыл бұрын

@@CartoDarko "Your problem doesn't exist" are not kind words even if the person means well

@CartoDarko

2 жыл бұрын

@@dirb9266 literally just out of context from the whole video tho :/ also late much lmao

@antoinemayrand7348

2 жыл бұрын

@@CartoDarko, "You might think this isn't fair, but this obstacle actually help these people (the ugly ones) reach high level of sucess." No, no it doesn't. It brings them down and help little to nothing. Quote from the video. He does have a nice message, yes, but I think it's just unrealistic. Objective beauty does exist, and unfortunately, people judge people on that. Can't do much about it.

not gonna lie I actually almost started crying. I'm 19 almost 20 and I've been single my entire life. I've always thought it was because I was too ugly or because I lacked something. It really got to me to be honest and I didn't take care of myself as I should've. Honestly I need to stop giving an F about that kind of stuff because I know I'll be happier and this really helped with some clarity. Thank you so much. This has honestly really helped.

@kingdeespadas

Жыл бұрын

can’t get in a relationship so you switched teams 🤡

@Liz-vf6yx

Жыл бұрын

@@kingdeespadas Yeah. I didn’t want to date you. That’s why lmao 😂

@Wow-hr1gl

Жыл бұрын

not trying to be rude but you say you haven't taken care of yourself as you should of and your solution is to not give a f about what people think of you?

@Liz-vf6yx

Жыл бұрын

@@Wow-hr1gl this comment was made a year ago so needless to say a lot has actually changed. I finally learned to take care of myself and loved myself. I’ve seen great progress within myself since I made my original comment. Im starting to see all the things that make me beautiful again. It’s wonderful to feel confident again.

Until you've been ugly you couldn't understand how much it absolutely matters to not be ugly lmao

@dazziboi5726

2 жыл бұрын

Fucking true

@josueordonez4303

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@koohletit1453

2 жыл бұрын

Mega true I'm sick and tired of these average looking black youtubers realizing they aren't butt ugly because they holded themselves to higher standards so they think everyone is the same

@jayinderkaushik

2 жыл бұрын

@@koohletit1453 right? I'm not even kidding when I say that I have never seen a face that doesn't have a deformity that is uglier than mine.

@daevidpp445

2 жыл бұрын

@@koohletit1453 does it matter that they’re black???

"you are beautiful by default" this line basicly represents this channel. everyone needs to listen to it, because it's pure positivity :^D

@ovidiuvergil

3 жыл бұрын

Not just pure positivity, but true bro and more should know it

@revolversaucelot2100

3 жыл бұрын

No

@JAVIERCALDERON90

3 жыл бұрын

The way I burst I to tears when I heard that because my soul apparently needed it 🥺🥰 thank you sooo much

@TTInfiniteGaming

3 жыл бұрын

if we're talking about internal beauty then sure. if we're talking about external beauty, then in certain aspects, yes we are beautiful by default. like how all of our body parts and organs work perfectly together for us to function. almost as if we are hand crafted. but clear skin is more attractive than unclear skin. healthy physiques are more attractive than unhealthy physiques. full heads of hair are more attractive than balding heads. yes, there are definitely subjective differences between people. some people may be extremely attracted to bald fat people with blemishes all over their skin. human beings are wired to be attracted to attributes that are advantageous to survival and evolution.

@ovidiuvergil

3 жыл бұрын

@@TTInfiniteGaming Yeah my man, but beauty is not limited to attractiveness. Don't get me wrong I'm perfectly aware that there are plenty of people not too pretty and also many at which it's hard to look because of how far they are from a healthy look. What I do also believe though is that we are all living humans, who despite not being perfect are amazing living beings designed do well you could say our mere existence is a work of art. That would be one way to explain why I believe that while sure many people scored pretty low compared to others we are still all beautiful. Just imagine an alternate world where everything would be the same but everybody would have faces which in our world we would consider ugly, they wouldn't have that problem there. So again while I obviously agree that there are standards or scales to beauty I think it wouldn't be farfetch'd to try living while being more aware of the fact that we're all beautiful. (you could also apply this to intelligence, for sure there are people who don't use their intellectual potential to the fullest, or use it wrongly or that are not as gifted as others, but merely our capacity to be aware of ourselves and other things and the ability to think which is better developed than that of other living things is simply amazing, so once again, although there are standards if you actually think about it we are all intelligent) Maybe I dug a little too much or got overly optimistic or overly idealistic around the corners but I think this could be a very nice view so I hope people won't get to irritated at my huge comment:)

0:06 “WHERE IS MY SUPER SUIT”

A few days ago every guy in my gym class was rated by the girls, all of my friends got pretty high ratings but I wasn’t rated higher than 4/10 this really hurt my confidence, especially since I’d always been very self conscious about my looks because of how attractive everyone considers my older brother to be, and to make things worse, today the mask mandates were lifted at my school and I rarely took my off during class before, so today a lot of people saw my face for the first time and most of them called me weird looking and said that I looked better with the mask on. So thank you, this isn’t the first time I’ve watched your video but everytime I do I feel a lot better and remember that I probably shouldn’t base my looks around the opinion of high schoolers.

@FaustHaidee

Жыл бұрын

People are really relentless

@JoyofBooking

Жыл бұрын

Take care of yourself, men become more attractive as they mature best time is between 30 and 50 if you workout

@Langaslangas

Жыл бұрын

@@JoyofBooking wrong

@JoyofBooking

Жыл бұрын

@@Langaslangas why wrong? Are you between 30 and 50 years old?

All I want to know is how the hell Cartman is considered more attractive than Kyle

@switchedchannelscheckdesc8120

2 жыл бұрын

he skimmed over this but the list was rigged because clyde's dad owned a shoe store causing the list to change dramatically.

@flatearthnews7904

2 жыл бұрын

The girls changed the list because they wanted shoes

@regentwaynekerr

2 жыл бұрын

watch the episode

@theshadownator

2 жыл бұрын

@@switchedchannelscheckdesc8120 yeah but only the first place and second place would switch?

@hlksrz

2 жыл бұрын

@@theshadownator Yh but they probably moved others like token higher as well cuz they're rich and shit

I've been insecure my whole life. Most of my life has been lies and denial. I hate this.

@ortox409

3 жыл бұрын

You alright

@egyptttt_

3 жыл бұрын

same loll

@clinton4161

3 жыл бұрын

I've been there. You have to fully accept yourself. Also you'd be surprised how little people notice the things you're insecure about.

@fellipedasilva99

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong my friend, love who you are

@Postaldude__

3 жыл бұрын

I hear that

It’s easy to feel confident when you receive compliments. Get reminded that you’ll never be good enough daily and it’s easy to not have any self love

I cannot convey to you how badly I needed this very simple, but very important message. I've struggled my whole life with accepting appearance. As I reached my 20's I felt like I was finally getting comfortable in my own skin. My physicality and life changed forever with health issues, and I'm once again struggling with my self esteem. I hope this is helpful to others who need hear it.

This made me tear up I've been considered by many girls to be unnatractive and someone to be laughed at just bc of my acne, hair, face, freckles, and my very slim body, I always accepted that I was ugly but cried so much bc of the almost non-extintent possibilities in my future with someone I'd love. This video really opened up my mind, I can feel than it's gonna be a significant change for the better, I'll actually start loving myself and working little by little through my passions Thanks for being so beautiful

@Xerolyst

2 жыл бұрын

Step 1 to being attractive skip the bs he just said your ugly now you may cry now but improve and you get to laugh later not everyone is beautiful by default

@Adama.1

2 жыл бұрын

You just have to accept that you are forever alone. My therapist basically told me the same. It's not what I wanted to hear but she said there are more people than you know that have been, are, and will be forever alone.

@Lean-fc7wd

2 жыл бұрын

We all gonna make it, hit the gym , see a dermatologist, do it for zyzz

@melodysafo5437

2 жыл бұрын

@@Adama.1 that is not true

@melodysafo5437

2 жыл бұрын

Whoever said you were ugly was wrong

I think that it also depends where u live also...in high school I was told I was ugly and nobody liked me but when I got to college it was a game changer..but then I realize I don’t need Validation from anyone...I learned how to love myself.....your videos are so helpful and helped me grow to a person I love to see in the mirror

@aronalaniz3685

3 жыл бұрын

It’s true, majority if not all, women in my town look at me like if I’m a creep and go out of there way to make they clear, however I was fortunate enough to live with some friends out of town for a year and man let me tell, you i was getting notice like crazy, it was a such high for me Out of the 18-19ish years of getting looked at ugly I was looked at in a positive way for once, but it also taught me that beauty does come form the inside

@MrCmon113

3 жыл бұрын

@@aronalaniz3685 The people, who knew you, thought you were ugly. And the people, you just met, found you attractive. Your conclusion: beauty comes from the inside. : |

This world is not fair. Most of the beautiful people i know is also very smart, hardworking and nice. Their family is amazing, they have a good job, they are rich. Their life is literally perfect.

@sprite8344

2 жыл бұрын

True Elon musk is the most beautiful man on Mars ever

@S.O.N.E

2 жыл бұрын

Someone has to lose in order for someome else to win

@Soundwave._

2 жыл бұрын

Man, I guarantee this is not true. Not tryna make this about me with this story, just tryna show how perceptions don't always line up. I was bullied and teased all through my early years until college, made to feel like I was worth absolutely nothing as a human being, and one day a girl said to me, "Why do you have to be so perfect? It's so annoying." I was stunned. I'd never thought someone could think I was worth anything, yet alone worth being jealous of. I couldn't even be upset about being called annoying. Thing is, yeah, I was getting top marks, well liked by teachers, never had drama with other students and had a couple of close friends. Seems pretty good. But I also have SEVEN bloody mental conditions, including learning disabilities (autism, ADHD and dyspraxia) and have to fight tooth and nail to keep up that image of doing well. Some days forming a coherent thought is agony, let alone writing a university standard paper. I've had one girlfriend in my entire life (she was very sweet, nothing wrong there) and I had to break it off because I got too overwhelmed to handle a relationship alongside functioning like a normal human being. There are days when I can barely feed myself. Thing is, that girl back in college isn't the only one who's accused me of seeming annoyingly perfect. It's gotten to the point where I don't like to mention my accomplishments in case I seem arrogant, but it's also kinda hard because being decent academically is basically the only thing that gives me any measurable sense of value as a human being. tl;dr: the people who *seem* "literally perfect" could be struggling with so many hidden difficulties/mental illnesses/disabilities/traumas that you wouldn't know about. I guess I don't totally fit your description because I'm not conventionally attractive/rich/don't have an amazing family, but my point stands. Are you *sure* their family is amazing? No one would know what mine's really like. Are you sure they enjoy their job and had a perfect life and never suffered anything traumatic? Most importantly, are you sure YOU aren't beautiful, nice and hardworking? Are you sure no-one's ever looked at YOU and thought 'Wow, they're so perfect, why can't I have it that easy?' You might be surprised.

@Luis-dk6eq

Жыл бұрын

​@@sprite8344 yes it's true in majority of time, it's like a snowball of sucess you know? the father and mother are attractive, they make sucess in social situations and professional field, get more opportunities and get accepted more! they get kid and 90% of the time they afe going to be pretty too, with money, family that are together and rich, opportunities even higher and way more time,w they are going to frequent better places and meet other kids like them, meet a attractive partner, and so on

@Iamwhatyoumademe

Жыл бұрын

@@Soundwave._ wow this is an amazing comment

As someone who has always suffered from body image struggles, the idea of not caring what other people think is a tough lesson, but I’m glad it’s out there

As a dark skin black woman, I can definitely relate to feeling unattractive and feeling insecure about my natural hair because of the stereotype that dark skin women are ugly and our natural hair is nappy. I remember being bullied when I was a kid for my skin color.

@caseym8315

3 жыл бұрын

Same girl I have been dragged through the dirt and back because of my dark skin and 4c hair, lucky as of lately quarantine has given me a lot of time to build up my confidence and now I can honestly say I don’t hate myself anymore.

@zirconium2014

3 жыл бұрын

Thats fucking disgusting. Ive grown up in my black family, been around and involved in black culture and its so beautiful. Im a white girl with a black mum and white dad. Never could I think or the people i grew up around could ever say or be such horrid creatures. Kids were more pc than me even. Sorry you guys suffered shit. School society is gross too.

@kanseidorifto2430

3 жыл бұрын

People are kinda shit, but don't let them get to you guys. I've been in that same spot too, and I have a hard time thinking I'm worth the time and effort to be around. But I am, and you are too; don't forget that.

@oicz

3 жыл бұрын

@@shen2404 lol it's possible to be white even if a parent is black

@carpet163

3 жыл бұрын

That's horrible. Myself being a loner in elementary school even picked on other kids but I never imagined picking on someone because of their race. Kids can be horrible people.

Man I love this channel, I'm currently losing my hair at age 19, so my already low self esteem got knocked down even further, (my hair was really the only part of me I ever liked), but these videos help a lot in my journey to learn to like myself. So thanks man for these videos, they really do help, I'm so glad I found this channel

@clinton4161

3 жыл бұрын

I felt the same way about my hair but it thinned out so much I was combing over. Now I just buzz it down to the shortest possible length. Best choice ever. Easy hair maintenance and I look more masculine so it didn't ruin my dating prospects either.

@catfunt3404

3 жыл бұрын

You’re not alone dude, I swear I see kids like me losing their hair left and right nowadays

@Ben-iz9ud

3 жыл бұрын

I'm losing my hair like crazy. Going through a custody battle and my hairs gonna run out before my money that's for sure. I'm about to start buzzing it off just haven't taken the leap.

@hassanalkhalaf1115

3 жыл бұрын

@@catfunt3404 I'm this kid

@catfunt3404

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ben-iz9ud hey man, I hope things are going a little better now for ya.

being born ugly is basically playing a game on singleplayer

Damn, thank you for that reality check man. I realize now i'd prefer being ugly with meaningfull relationships rather than beatiful with dull and superficial relationships.

Man.... I’m 23 and this made me cry. I’ve been stuck with this illusion that if I had validation, support or had a girlfriend I would be set. I would be happy. Chasing that only drained me and brought me to a depression. I’m finally starting to love myself for me and actually valuing everything I do instead of being my biggest hater. Much love towards everyone ❤️

@LadyDecember

Жыл бұрын

Bro, I'm 33 and went through the exact same thing, I'm with you there! I'm probably pathetic as they come, I've never had a boyfriend, my crushes have always been unrequited, I've only been casually asked out three times in my life (first time at 26, second at 28, third at 32). If I just had that one man who loved me, who constantly held me up and told me I was worth it, then I'd be unstoppable, I'd finally be confident and happy. About 4 years ago, though, I began to think that maybe those bad things were actually all for the best, because my self-esteem was at the bottom of the barrel. I realized with horror one day what a sad existence I would've put any man through. My happiness was completely dependent on him, and that's an incredible pressure to put on someone. A man can be my pillar of support to lean against when I need to just rest for a while, certainly, but in my mental state he would've only been relegated to my emotional wheelchair. Me constantly longing to hear validation would have become exhausting for him. So I've been undergoing a long transformation towards being the best representation of myself, letting go of the chains I always dragged around, and I've got to say that I've definitely noticed an improvement. I seem to be attracting just a little more male attention these days than I ever have. Last year a co-worker even admitted to having a crush on me and became the third person to ever ask me out (which blew my mind and nearly floored me, never had anybody confess a crush on me in my life). It's not a major shift, I didn't suddenly become Salma Hayek overnight or anything, but it's a marginally noticeable one. Hopefully things are still going well for you!

@GBSZ12

Жыл бұрын

@@LadyDecember Yes!!, I'm 23 and I've been through that too, the concept that you're only complete and fullfiled with someone by your side is wrong, you have to be a better version of yourself so then you can be with someone. Not trying too much to find a partner and working on myself has been a better path for higher self-esteem.

Self loving is hard in a society like this. Hard when you look around on TV, magazines and social media, and you see all the perfect bodies and perfect lives. I suffer from bigorexia. I've always hated my body, and did take controlled substances to become more muscular and good looking. Ended up hating my image in the mirror more, and being constantly depressed. I had success in dating other men (gay dude here), but i wasn't happy. I ended up going through some life changing situations, and realized how shallow i was and how beauty comes in many shapes and colors. I still do sports, i still do stupid things to look better, but I ended up judging others less, and giving myself a free pass to enjoy an ice cream and a chocolate every now and then 😁 Lesson for others: do what makes you happy, not what makes others happy. Love yourselves and know that confidence is attractive.

@keepyourshoesathedoor

2 жыл бұрын

I’m happy that you’re doing better and I only wish for better better days.

@purincore320

2 жыл бұрын

It honestly made my day to hear you're doing better. Keep on loving yourself, man. 💙

Episodes like this are a prime example of why I love South Park. It’s such a satirical and comical show, but also quite comforting at times.

I think another huge point this episode makes us that we’re all people. We all have the same features (hair, nose, eyes, etc). The South Park boys all look the same, but Kyle thought he was ugly because others told him he was, and Clyde thought he was attractive because others told him so. The thing is, it’s not always about just your looks. It’s also about what others say about you. We all believe criticism just because someone else said so.

Listen no matter what anyone tells you you’re helping people out there everyone is attractive in their own way you’re a tractive by your KZread videos in your voice of telling We love you either bald or no bald we love you express

@rabbitthief1835

3 жыл бұрын

This comment is underrated!

@ferrisbueller9991

3 жыл бұрын

The guy is objectively attractive, at least average.

There's an episode similar to this in Disney's "Recess". The Ashleys announce that they've made a rating system for all the kids on the playground and they give everyone a rating from 1 to 10. This divides everyone in the playground and people start hanging out exclusively with other people who have the same rating, regardless of their relationship with each other elsewhere (for example, the Diggers parting ways simply because they're only one number apart). As with many other episodes, TJ and his friends try to ignore the changes because they know it's wrong to label people like that, but eventually they begin spending less time with each other and even start to become hostile towards those who are rated lower than them. Everyone begins to treat their ratings as if they were fact. The breaking point comes when it's revealed that Gus got the only 0, basically telling him that he might as well not exist. When TJ tries to protest the rating system, the Ashleys just treat him like a worthless naysayer and also lower his rating to a negative. TJ's protests rally his friends back together, and they agree that regardless of their ratings, they're still friends and it shouldn't impact them. In order to end the ratings system, they come up with their own rating system and distribute that to the playground. With the second system in place, everyone is a 10, so everyone is welcome to be with who they want and do what they want at recess. I feel like that episode and the South Park episode convey very similar messages in different ways, and I'm glad that there are many shows, for kids and adults, that give those kinds of positive messages.

@danlightened

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like people have forgotten how good a show Recess was.

i had a crush on a girl once. i wrote her a letter hoping she would read it. she did, but also showed all of her friends, and before i knew it everyone knew. she laughed at me and called me gross, and people would tease me about it for ages. it really fucked up my confidence and since then ive been too afraid to ever confess to anyone. i have massive self image problems, but im working on it. im talking with a girl right now, she seems really sweet. even if nothing comes out of it, shes a great friend :)

I hate how I look. I look like an overly stressed out 14 year old at age 18. I have brown, curly hair, a freckled, acne covered face, and so on. But oh well. If you call me ugly, I don’t care. I try to look my best. I try to make sure my hair looks neat ( as neat as curly hair can look), try to manage my acne and make sure my face is clean. I am not over or under weight, so I just try to stay fit and active. I try to dress nice, and go out looking as presentable as I can. I feel like that is what makes someone attractive. Looking the best and healthiest they can.

@matthewirving4877

3 жыл бұрын

I love that thank you, I’ve always been really insecure about my appearance but I always try to look my best

@babyhoho6745

3 жыл бұрын

Work your glutes out heavy 4-5X weekly and 90% of guys will instantly be attracted to you, thank me later. DO NOT underestimate the power that the booty holds over us guys.

@Synday

3 жыл бұрын

stop worrying, you're already doing so much. no reason to worry about things you can't change.

@amandawolfe4097

3 жыл бұрын

@@babyhoho6745 I actually took your advice and am much more toned. I still have insecurities, but I’m kinda proud of what I accomplished :)

@amandawolfe4097

3 жыл бұрын

@@Synday Aww, thanks! :)

//this is gonna be a long ass story. Throughout my life, I've been picked on for my weight and apperances by my dad and kids throughout school. It was where at the point I started feeling really insecure and remember one time wearing a waist trainer thing to make it look like I slimmed down. But it hurt throughout the day and I decided to stop wearing it. In middle school, I wore jackets during summer and fall because growin up, I was a chubby kid. Really chubby. I even did something I regret doing and know why I did it. I want to have the perfect body. Till highschool, my dad picked on my apperance and tells me things like "guys don't wanna date a big girl, they wanna be with a healthy skinny looking girl." "you need to stop eating too much because you're gonna be getting more fatter." "look at that girl, you wanna end up being like her?" "keep eating the way you eat and you'll end up like that lady" "a man eats more than a woman, so give me your plate." "I'm saying those words to motivate you to lose weight." mf I started having low self esteem, high insecuirty, and developed symptoms of anxiety from freshman to sophmore year. There's a lot of things that happened in my life throughout the year. But I'm trying my best to give myself some self love. I even went offline from social media to take care of my mental and physical health. I'm taking slow steps now.

@ihavenonamestilldonthaveon8970

3 жыл бұрын

Well im fat cause im a lazy piece of shit. Im not healthy. That's something that no one should be ok with. No one SHOULD like fat people unless there's circumstances making them unable to get fit. If they don't try, they shouldn't be liked. If you tried to better yourself or have a condition that makes you unable to lose your weight, don't listen to that piece of shit. If you can work out, then still don't listen to him. But it's good to better yourself and not be a slob like i am.

@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006

3 жыл бұрын

@@ihavenonamestilldonthaveon8970 Bruh... don't even talk like that even if it's yourself. As cheesy as this sounds, you need to love yourself first in order to honor your body and mind. That self-loathing ain't gonna do much. It might even deteriorate your mind if you look up what the power of words can do. Besides I don't think it's always a laziness thing. Have you checked into hypothyroidism? If you have an endomorphic body type or a slow metabolism, that usually an imbalance in the body's hormones. Either something is wrong with the hormones, the thyroid, or the pituitary gland. Maybe you're lacking iodine or selenium in your diet.... or something. Irregularities in the body usually have something to do with going out of the optimal balance.... or maybe you just need some good gut bacteria or a reallyyyy good fast. Exercise is good and all, but weight maintenance is much more complex than that. FR look up hypothyroidism symptoms. Not a doctor BTW ⚠️ I'm just being a meddling smartass right now just to tell you, it's not just "laziness". You might be looking at solutions for a different problem entirely...

@enzocarneiro6748

2 жыл бұрын

@@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 tbh hypothyroidism and slow metabolism are 90% of the time a cope, and yes self-loathing is necessary for change, if you accept everything you’ll never strive to be better, keep the self hate and use as motivation to never be that same person again, I only changed bc I hated my body and wanted to be better than that, 3 years at the gym latter I have a body worth of compliments and if I used that time to make excuses to myself instead of changing I would hate the way I looked to this day

@cotton3399

2 жыл бұрын

@@enzocarneiro6748 I agree with you, but you don't have to HATE yourself, just accept that you're not perfect but can still grow. be critical of yourself, don't hate yourself.

@melodysafo5437

2 жыл бұрын

Did you even have anyone that was nice to you or did everyone treat you horribly

I hate it when I feel horrible, not just ugly 🙄 It takes so much energy to feel balanced again. I wonder how our mind can become our worst enemy. I wish our inner voices become allies instead of wanting to destroy us. Love for South Park!

I've suffered from self-esteem issues my whole life and this video genuinely brought a few tears to my eyes lol, keep up the good work bro you've got a new sub

It's actually hilarious when they made a list in that episode when pretty much ALL OF THEM have the exact same type of facial design.

I almost cried watching this. I have ways had issues with self-esteem and this was just so nice to hear. Thank you

i can’t tell you how much this means to me i’ve struggled with my self confidence and looks at the ripe old age of 9, and have been ever since. this reassured me that i’m not ugly and i shouldn’t be so hard on myself. now, i can actually look in the mirror and think “huh, i’m not looking too bad today”

To be honest, this video helped me alot... I've been rejected yesterday + lost her friendship, to be honest, i think i just wanted her to be with me forever as a friend, and now lost that oportunity, ha...

I was really happy with how I looked. My whole family thought I looked stupid. I was really happy with my hair it was quite long. My family forced me to cut my hair really short. They all think it looks better but I don’t. I don’t care if a billion people told me it looks better so long as I think I look good I’m happy. Gonna take a few months for it to grow back and then I’ll defiantly be happy again. Thanks for this video I just can’t love myself right now

@noonebossesthegarnet2890

3 жыл бұрын

My god I hate it when your family forces you to change something about yourself just because THEY don’t like it. If you like it, you like it.

@CarlJohnson-ff6yb

3 жыл бұрын

We are same im trying to grow my hair they thought i look like a terrorist then i sarcastically reply "yes im gonna join them tommorow" its f in annoying like why do you care so much im doing this for myself not for you let me try new experiences

@lazsubbz

2 жыл бұрын

Your family reeks of jealousy 😷

@EmenussGOamazing

2 жыл бұрын

I have the same feeling but about my beard. My dad can't grow one so he started associating it with looking ugly.

@outis439-A

2 жыл бұрын

Very relatable quite recently for me as well. But they still say I look ugly but better than my before. Jerks.

A smile is the most attractive thing in the world. Learn to love yourself, and smile about it, and others will love you too.

@Jiggonomics

3 жыл бұрын

*goes out and smiles behind mask* "Why isn't it working"

@BigSavageG

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jiggonomics Because you have expectations that someone will like you because you smile and when it doesn't work then you are angry because you believed in someone's words that it will guaranteedly work but it didn't (just like this person that made this comment above you). So here is the thing - you can not control others. Someone might have a bad day, someone might just be a dick, someone maybe had a trauma in childhood and generally don't like strangers. It's not about you but about them, that means it is their response and their problem, so you can't be sad about that. Just go further in life and have fun. If someone likes you then cool, if someone dislikes you then also cool. Don't care about if someone likes you or not - it is weakness.

@ASCR

3 жыл бұрын

@@BigSavageG i think it was a joke about masks.... but yeah this is good too

@BigSavageG

3 жыл бұрын

@@ASCR Yeah actually it was joke haha didn't get it at first. Anyway what I wrote is true

@Jiggonomics

3 жыл бұрын

@@BigSavageG yeah it was just a joke, but everything you said is definitely true

That was a really beautiful video bro. I’m tearing up at that last speech. Thank you

Thanks for making this video, I really needed this.

Am I attractive?no Does that matter?no

@thedude8457

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m fine with that

@BitchChill

3 жыл бұрын

It does matter

@frane_29

2 жыл бұрын

@@thedude8457 me neither

I shaved all my hair off in an emotional riot and as soon as I cut my hair I became even more intensely insecure 😂 seeing quotes all the time about how girls with short hair have so much confidence only made me feel worse because I felt and still don’t feel pretty without long hair. As long as I don’t look in the mirror I’m usually alright but i still don’t feel 100%, but even when I had long hair and was super pretty and put on makeup, in the end I still feel dissatisfied. I don’t know where I’m going with this.

@wwalton

Жыл бұрын

I have no clue either but it was interesting to read plus it'll grow back

this was such a great video essay. i'm overweight and have a lot of issues with my mental health, but i have been eating better and exercising every day for the past 6 months. i'm really proud of the progress i've made but i still can't look at myself in the mirror. i think the issues with my self love are a bit deeper and linked to trauma i endured as a kid, but this essay still put a smile on my face. "everyone is beautiful by default" was wonderful to hear, thanks.

Thank you. I really needed this video. I hear from my friends all time to stop worrying about what other people think.....hearing it from a neutral source that it's normal to question yourself but it's important to love yourself regardless helps alot

His statements are always spot on...

This video is all I needed for today. It has been horrible being here in school just hearing other students in the hallway saying "Eww" and "Look at her". One boy with his friend even said "What the FUCK is wrong with her" It hurts. It still hurts..

@sushruttewari144

2 жыл бұрын

I am being honest. Fuck them. Seriously. This reacting to judgement has gone way out of control. I have a feeling that in future all of them will die to just be in your company. And here's the thing. Even if 99.99 % of the people flat out say that you're ugly, (which I don't think is true) that still means more than 7 million people think you're hot AF. It hurts, but with communities this hurt won't bring so much pain as we go through

@oreo_6206

2 жыл бұрын

that’s horrible.I’ve been asked out as a joke before so I know how it feels but that’s just downright malicious fuck those guys

@utigaraptorRARA

2 жыл бұрын

what the fudgeadoodles is wrong with your school? in my middle school there aint none of that stuff

@wwalton

Жыл бұрын

Listen from a guys perspective don't care about what others say about you, especially pricks who have the gall to say something out load for no other reason then to make themselves feel good or make you feel like shit unless it's something that really isn't healthy for you physically or mentally and believe me I'm not good in either of those categories but don't just hold that shit because that's what I do and it's not a good thing, talk to people, family, friends and if you don't have any make some because there is always someone out there for you or anyone to connect with

@TerryPlays

Жыл бұрын

@@wwalton simp

This video is so comforting. Really needed this type of mindset in my life.

0:46 I totally heard that wrong..

"Everyone is attractive" is a horrible message. Whatever the message is and with any intentions... once it's a lie it'll cause damage. If you are unnatractive you gotta face it and either understand and accept or fix it if you deem possible. Accepting yourself is different and that's useful and some actual healthy advice.

@hgzmatt

3 жыл бұрын

What damage does it actually cause though..? Plus.. yeah I do think everyone has something attractive about them. If you are surrounded by shallow, immature people you will of course think that way.

@user-zk1zq7bi5n

3 жыл бұрын

@@hgzmatt I guess it can be damaging because some people who aren’t that good looking can take it a little far and have an self entitlement problem and they would want people to accept them at their worst rather than fix their problems. However that’s only a minority but that’s why I think it can be dangerous.

@hgzmatt

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-zk1zq7bi5n You believe it causes entitlement. But I think people are so good at beating themselves up already.. that all they need is some encouragement. Usually that entitlement is just a mask to hide insecurity.. idk.. that's what I believe.

@hiddenflare6169

2 жыл бұрын

I understand both sides honestly, todays world does suffer from either hating themselves to a large extent or love themselves to a large extent. Like what they mention in the video, but also people who love themselves yet do not treat their body respectfully like being very overweight and not caring. Of course those who don’t love will put themselves down, again as mentioned by the video, and either blame themselves or others for who they are. They may posses low self-esteem which leads to a lot of issues in general, such as being willing to settle for whatever partner such as abusers because it’s what they deserve. I think everyone does have something that someone will find attractive, but it is a good idea to still try to improve your body and recognize your self-worth!

@e.l.2734

2 жыл бұрын

I used to believe that everyone was attractive to some extent. It only made me waste time which, at 30 years old, I now wish I'd already spent looksmaxxing rather than uselessly working on some self image that I could never really convince myself of because unattractive people are constantly made aware of their unattractiveness, and I'm not just talking about being put down explicitly. The halo effect makes it so that, in society, your looks are, to all intents and purposes, really your personality, and unattractive people don't have the luxury to ignore that reality. Therefore, believing this lie cost me. No such thing as a white lie, and that's why God told us to never tell one.

As a 14 year old boy who got rejected by my first crush a month ago I needed this thank you Edit: Alr I went to Colorado with a friend a she posted some stuff on Instagram and she said two of her friends thought I was cute so I think my self confidence issues are gone

@KahinAhmed72

3 жыл бұрын

At least you asked her out, good job!

@user-pv4rv9zy5c

3 жыл бұрын

Well that blows bro but she was probably a “slug” so it’s ok there is many fish in the sea 🤘

@caleb5392

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-pv4rv9zy5c no I don’t blame her she is pretty nice and she is one of the popular girls and I’m somewhat popular so I kinda knew she was going to reject me from the start

@user-pv4rv9zy5c

3 жыл бұрын

@@caleb5392 oh well that’s why you don’t ask girls like that out . But anyways watch u will find a girl that likes you . I’m also 14 and I know wat u mean bro but there is always someone

@user-pv4rv9zy5c

3 жыл бұрын

@@caleb5392 when I feel sad I watch brewstewfilms give him a check

This video made me cry. Thanks for your message.

That was so amazing, thank you so much for the great content

I am deeply offended by KZread algorithms by suggesting me this video😂😂😂

@MrJosh5060

3 жыл бұрын

Too good sir!!!!

I hv been struggling with self hate over my looks and body over many many years and getting to love myself back is an ongoing process. Being gay and y'all know the toxic culture of body shaming, plus surrounded by family members who constantly berate me and intrusive thoughts resulted in both situations, it is not easy. I practice in making sure i love myself but 70% of the time i fall short. Been feeling that for a couple of weeks recently. However, when the 30% kicks in i think I'm the most vibrant joyful person. I think this vid is kick starting my self love after falling short for awhile, so thank you for uploading this. Just remember to eat healthy, be active, do small things u love and give yourself a pat on the back whenever u need it. *The percentage is just a random scale. It varies from time to time

Wow, I needed this. Thank you

Thank you I needed this

6:20 I'm glad you didn't say "there are people uglier than you", and instead said something better.

"You are beautiful as you are, courage; with all your imperfection, you can do anything"

Dang, I really needed this video. Thank you!

Thank you. I needed to hear that

A few weeks back I felt really insecure about my looks just because one of my friends called me ugly, and then I went in the mirror then I thought I was for a period of time, then I realized because I'm caring so much about my looks that I lost the happiness I once had. Once I said to myself my looks didn't matter what matters were the heart I had. Then started seeing myself as more confident and attractive. Also, my friend is fat and has a weird spot on the back of his hair so I don't know why I was taking what he said to heart if he was basically cartman xD

“You are beautiful by default” This quote made my hearth burn

This was so beautiful, thank you for this video

Wow, on a feel good binge of these analyzations of cartoons. Thank you for speaking out word for word how I felt watching these episodes.

Imma be real with you. You look like the perfect person to play Frozone for a live action movie.

@blondebimbowannabe

2 жыл бұрын

Yees

@exudeku

2 жыл бұрын

@@blondebimbowannabe his voice also fits for Frozone

@grungyasscinema

2 жыл бұрын

Where is my super suit?

Your videos are one of the reasons that keeps me going, I’m going through a lot and your pretty helpful! Keep it up

Thanks for being so relatable!

This video is crazy man I needed this so bad thank you so much...

I think it absolutely "matters" what people think about you. Unquestionably. People disregard influences by glossing over the effects between social expectations and your life with mottos and one liners, to me people should know it obviously does and will affect your life, despite if you choose to ignore it. Just make the best of it, make choices with awareness, know its not always fair. In my opinion, if you are currently in a stable mental state with capacity for negativity, you should chose if you buy in or reject, but don't ignore.

@Wavyso

2 жыл бұрын

yeah this is the thing with body postivity that people seem to forget, it doesnt really matter what YOU think of it because people will still judge you regardless. you can delude yourself all you want but it wont change reality

@parkeralan19

Жыл бұрын

I'm gonna have to 100 percent disagree. For one a deep concern of what others think of your looks will not only make you miserable but it's also extremely unattractive to females. Now you don't have to act like your gods gift but being comfortable in your own skin really does make a difference. Second I'm no pretty boy but I see alot of guys that think that they don't have a chance cause they think they are ugly that are also over weight, bad social skills cause they are afraid to try ect. Last I honestly do not believe being naturally good looking is actually an advantage at all. I find alot of naturally good looking women out there to be unattractive to me cause so many of them are brain dead and fucking boring. Because they never had to work on themselves to be happy with themselves they actually lack in alot of areas. Women especially have to deal with the fact of does this dude actually like me or does he wanna bang me cause he thinks I'm hot? Essentially if you haven't done everything you can to be comfortable in your own skin then you don't have the right to complain. And there's always something you can improve about youself.

I love your content, it makes me feel less lonely knowing other people experience the same thing, and i love that you express these things openly.

Thanks bro i really needed to hear this

Ty sm for this video. It honestly helped me realize more that they way other ppl see me don’t matter as much as how I see myself

The ending of this video was so beautiful and when all those people showed up they were all beautiful I feel changed

I was literally just watching this episode

@marinaflorio95

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!

Listened to this while I clean up my room and self after months of stress and depression. Definitely needed to hear it. Thank you.

this made me tear up, thank you.

Love your vids bro keep going

Yep. just do whatever you want and makes you happy bro. whether your hair is short and bald or whatever it doesn’t matter. i like that mentality. people will always have opinions. nice video bro. stay doing you king 🤞❤️ much love from South Africa.

Man this made my day thanks!

To be honest, hot people still.have an easier time finding better-paying jobs and partners.

@BitchChill

3 жыл бұрын

That is absolutely true

@josueordonez4303

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Fuck this video

@bigyoshi2893

2 жыл бұрын

​@@josueordonez4303 Jeez man this video isn't saying there isn't advantages to being conventionally attractive, its just saying you should love yourself regardless

@josueordonez4303

2 жыл бұрын

@@bigyoshi2893 why love yourself if that doesnt get you a partner

@bigyoshi2893

2 жыл бұрын

@@josueordonez4303 Because theres a lot more to life than getting a partner mate. And even if you cant have the pick of any girl you want it doesnt mean there arent girls who find you attractive

God, I was waiting for you to make an video on this. The List was such a good episode

@HYSTERIA555

3 жыл бұрын

I found you!

@James-yj3rq

3 жыл бұрын

@@HYSTERIA555 omg I was least expecting to see you here!

@HYSTERIA555

3 жыл бұрын

@@James-yj3rq I know right! Turns out we watch the same channel😭

@James-yj3rq

3 жыл бұрын

@@HYSTERIA555 we both have good taste it seems

@James-yj3rq

3 жыл бұрын

@@HYSTERIA555 are you working on manifesting the lifa app by any chance?

yassss ty for this i needed it

Thank you for making this, I needed to hear this from somoene :)

This really boosts my self confidence, ivr removed all social media bc of what i see on it, we can all confirm that whats a trend now on whats attractive is unhealthy and/or just not achievable without surgery or photoshop. Those pics and just society made me have BD and an eating disorder (more and more younger ppl nowadays) and its hard to see yourself as sexy or attractive if u just dont fit the image of what makes u good looking in this society even though u hear or get compliments about the way u look. Its all indeed about self love and then u will accept someone giving u a compliment instead of getting grumpy or sad or be in disbelieve. Looks will fade away just like trends, u gotta focus on your future and what u wanna achieve instead of worrying about likes,followers and glares of ppl who wanna do u. Its just hard to accept how u look like.

Remember when Wendy said: "People should be okay with the way they look!"

@thedude8457

3 жыл бұрын

She wasn’t talking about boys

@roxassora2706

2 жыл бұрын

@@thedude8457 Still applies

@alexs5744

2 жыл бұрын

She’s a self-righteous hypocrite.

Bro.. you made me shed tears at 2:15am

I used to be very ugly when I was younger. It went to the point where people told me I should be lucky if a woman even ever talks to me in the first place. I got lucky during puberty and see the other side of the spectrum. Trust me, you don't miss out. You are just getting attention from people that have no personality and care about nothing else than your and their looks. Focus on yourself and find someone meaningful. It will benefit you way more in the long-run than being good-looking.

This video was genuinely wholesome :)

Thank you for this video. I always see beautiful women in social media and my self esteem does through the window. I have gotten to the point to look for plastic surgeons and that's pretty sad for me to do. I look average, but social media and my family makes me feel like I don't deserve anything because I'm not "attractive". I needed this video. Thanks. 😊