Dear sir, you have really helped remove one of the sharpest thorns in my flesh. May God reward you.

This is a very difficult topic and one which has led many Muslims to shy away from adopting which is ☹️.

I am the luckiest Muslim person in the world who just saw the discussion on such a difficult & critical issues as per Quran with it’s most logical explanation. Allah (SWT) knows the best of all. Zajakallahu-khairan

This lecture is definitely a game changer!! SubhanAllah thank you sooo much!! People talk so badly about adoption it made me doubt Islam for a while.

@MrWatchme1989

4 жыл бұрын

Do not judge Islam based on us ordinary Muslims who are misinformed and uneducated on the specific laws of Islam. Especially in an era where people with very little knowledge would speak up and give you information like they know everything. Islam is the most complete religion. A former Christian at work told me how amazing Islam is in terms of giving us guidance for literally everything in life, from how to enter your house, to which foot you wear your shoes on first. And that is what essentially Islam is. A way of life. So it's always good to do research.

I'm a proud adopted child Who knows about her linage ofcourse my foster mother told me about my true linage☺️ But doesn't have good relatives mostly jealous ones , only few of them are good 🤔

@meariba

4 жыл бұрын

What's written at the place of father ? Biological father's name or father ?

@creamp2

4 жыл бұрын

@@meariba no father name Single parent ke naam pe b government documents chal jaate hai

@ayaanb2908

4 жыл бұрын

Mashallah may allah bless you sister.

@corazoncubano5372

4 жыл бұрын

Allah blessed you with a good non- birth family. That is all that is important since only He knows best.

@0826qi

10 күн бұрын

Sister, may I ask you questions regarding halal way of “adopting/fostering” a child? InShaaAllah it is one of my plan if ever I grow older and remain unmarried and childless. I would like to ask about the documents and naming of the child, since we have to follow islamic rules regarding this topic. And did your foster mother become your “milk mother”? Or not? May Allah reward you and your foster mother with good and increase the love and care between you two ❤

This is so beneficial , Mashallah 🤲🏼

Subhanallah our religion is amazing

Very informative. It Clear my all confusion. ♥️♥️

Baraka Allahu fikum, I was looking for this for so many years

Thank u very much for this video

My husband was adopted by a muslim family at birth. His adopted parents never told him he was adopted until few months ago which he is 54 years old now. This was a shocking news for us and had emotional impacked on us and our teenager children. He doesn't know what race he is but base on his appearance he look like chines. His biological mother passed away 10 years ago and he had a chance to meet his biological mother but his adopted parents did tell him nothing about his mother and his real identity. What does Islam says about these kind of adopted parents and what is my husband's right as a child and now adult in Islam that had been decived by ppl like that?

@adamdamelio6629

3 жыл бұрын

It's forbidden in Islam to say to someone that they are their true parents when they're not even if they love him

Guys I have a question about the naming in the passport and Legal papers. Does the name of the adopted child go by his biological father then his foster father’s surname

Please Omar Suleyman answer that question it’s very important

@SafaRaghib

3 жыл бұрын

Sister if you are referring to your will, that you wish to donate all your possessions to charity after your death, in that scenario even if you don't have children you may have parents, siblings, cousins, a spouse etc who are legally mandated by Allah to have a share in your inheritance and you cannot deny them this. Consult with a scholar or muslim professional to see how your possessions will be divided. You may give upto one third of your wealth in charity but not more, if you have any relations mentioned as inheritors in the Quran. If what you meant was you wish to give your wealth in charity during your life, and you are not terminally ill, then you may give as much of your wealth as you like, even all of it, as long as it does not lead to you falling short of your responsibilities (like paying your bills or supporting your relatives). And Allah knows best

@hajirahussain1744

6 ай бұрын

​@@SafaRaghibvery sound advice

NOT ONLY IN RUSSIAN OR UKRAINE, ALSO IN TAJIKISTAN, UZBEKISTAN, KAZAKHSTAN, AZERBAIJAN OR KYRGYSTAN KEEP THEIR FATHER'S NAME SAME TIME.

If my ex husband never took care of his kids . Do we still need his permission for the girls to get married?

@heyhey-pd6ew

3 жыл бұрын

sister i am learning and taking lessons in the deen. I feel like i am at a point where i can start giving fiqh answers but i still advice people to do research(when i say research i mean go to the quran or bukari or muslim, not google). The sharia does state once you and your partner separate, the person who will take the role of the father would be the oldest son. I am 15 years old and my brother in law has a sister, he has a degree in islamic studies, and what they have done is that, since their father is gone, he takes the role since he is the oldest son. So insha Allah this is how i understood it.

Sheikh I have a question. I found a baby 1 day old left in a deserted place and adopted her i got the legal papers from the court and police. She is now 15 years old and i raised her like i raised my biological children which are 5. I love her like my own daughter. I do not know her parents. The police could not find.them. if i do not know her parents is it ok to give the same name as my other children?. I could not let her know before now, because I was protecting her feelings but I am planning to tell her this coming summer now that she is grown up and can handle the situation

@mohammedshafiqulislam7334

2 жыл бұрын

How did it go?

@nasrinmursal802

2 жыл бұрын

Your name should be fine as long as your not claiming lineage that’s what I heard hopefully it’s true

So surnames are allowed so if my name is Esha Khan and if i adopted a child and wanted to name him Muaz Khan, is that allowed in Islam?-- since i am not ascribing my fathers name to him?

@rabinmomin

3 жыл бұрын

As far as I understand you can use your surname but the name of the biological father must also be included in the name

I don’t know if I am going to get this question answered. But is there any other way I child can become a mahram, beside the breast milk, because women can’t produce breast milk unless the give birth to a child and that’s only for a little why.

@ekramababneh5805

3 жыл бұрын

It's breastfeeding but not through the wife, what I'm saying is, the sister of the husband can breastfeed the child so the child is mahram to the father because it's their niece/nephew. And the sister of the wife can breastfeed the child so it also becomes mahram to her. In this way the foster child will be mahram to all the family. I hope I gave a clear explanation.

@SamanthaJBoyle

3 жыл бұрын

You can see a lactation consultant and take medicine to produce breastmilk

@saeerseik7577

2 жыл бұрын

Psychologically speaking if someone is living with you and treating you as a father and you are treating him like a son, so the sexual attraction between the opposite gender became extinct.. So he is your mahram now

My second question is what if the kids where found in garbage or at street are they not going to bare your name?if yes then which name Will you call them with?

@gumnamaparichit1174

2 жыл бұрын

He should be informed about this story, this should not be hidden from him.

@designerscollection1

2 жыл бұрын

Bin or bint e Abdullah should be named not after any man

Where is the lecture from the sister mentioned from the Sheikh?

@jamilamarr9771

4 жыл бұрын

You can find all 4 parts on New Star Kafala's KZread page

@hawaa897

4 жыл бұрын

@@jamilamarr9771 ty for info

Thank you for this. My question is what happens when there’s no option of breastfeeding? For example the adopted parents don’t have other children and the woman doesn’t lactate. In situations where the child is abandoned or adopted from an orphanage from a very young age (within the first few weeks of his/her life. How does the mehram issue and the lineage issue be resolved?

@asharvai8804

3 жыл бұрын

In this modern era,You do can have some medication that helps grow the hormones need for lactation!

@heyhey-pd6ew

3 жыл бұрын

As ashar vai said, lactation can be caused with medications. The issue of lineage i think can be solved by going to the administration of the orphanage. Where i live in the united states, it is very possible to find their lineage, im not sure about other countries.

@naddastudio1

3 жыл бұрын

@@heyhey-pd6ew In many third world countries the orphanages that allow adoptions don’t have such records. Sometimes babies are left at their doorstep or abandoned due to poverty. Expecting to find lineage records is not realistic in most cases. The lactation issue is also something only Allah knows the answer to because I personally know a few couples who adopted babies and those kids are now almost 10 years old. No one ever advised them or guided them on this so the babies weren’t breastfed (with medication). To say that those kids will become non-mehram to their adoptive parents doesn’t make sense to me. All I know is Islam is very logical. Allah knows best.

@gumnamaparichit1174

2 жыл бұрын

@@naddastudio1 There are pills available for lactation or they can be milk fed by any other blood relative of adopting parents. if child has grown older then they can be milk fed by through other various ways.

@naddastudio1

2 жыл бұрын

@@gumnamaparichit1174 explain the other ways please. The child turned 7 last month. Allah knows best about their intentions

Question when it comes to mahram. As a single woman that hasn't lactated what should I do if I choose to adopt? I figured I should adopt girls, no mahram issue. But then I thought; if I ever get married my husband wouldn't be mahram for them so they'd always have to be fully dressed in the house. So I thought I should adopt boys because then if I get married, I'd be the only one uncomfortable fully dressed in the house versus I'm comfortable but all my daughters can't be. Or do I just stay single, solidify my finances so I can adopt orphan girls and call it a day?

@MUZLIM1234

3 жыл бұрын

This is my question too I’m sort of sad 😞

@sta._rina

3 жыл бұрын

I heard around from these vids that if theres a woman in your family that can breast feed the child they'll become mahram.

@WolfeatsCheeseburger

3 жыл бұрын

Ideally there should be a father figure but even though you will be blessed by Allah SWT.

@gumnamaparichit1174

2 жыл бұрын

You can use pill for lactation or if you have any blood relative who is lactating can feed that child.

@TC-xx1sv

Жыл бұрын

There are medicines which allow for lactation to be induced. Do some research, there are several lactation centers in the Middle East that can assist you.

My question regarding breastfeeding: in this day and age freezing breast milk is a very good option for mothers who store thier supply. Is it possible for an adopted child to consume the frozen (defrosted) milk to initiate the act or is it required that this be from the breast itself? Thank you

@saundramonette4137

Жыл бұрын

He already answered that with the case of Salim. The mother had the milk put in a vessel and then gave it to her child because they were too old.

So there's the question of faith,are we allowed to make him/her follow his/her parents religion n islam so that he or she may grow up learning about two of them n choose whichever he/she likes??

@tp4821

3 жыл бұрын

I am also needing help where this is concern. I am a Muslim but the child in need care is a non Muslim. What do we do about the child's faith?

@saeerseik7577

2 жыл бұрын

@@tp4821 I think you should keep the child on his father's religion, but also teach him/her Islam, and after when he became mature in all these religious stuffs and in mentality, give him the choice to choose his religion.. And it will be better for him also

@saundramonette4137

Жыл бұрын

@@tp4821 If you are adopting a child, I believe it should be for the sake of giving them shelter in this world and the next. Why would you raise that child with a different religion? So, that you can pour all your love into him/her only to watch them go to hell? This doesn't make any sense. A bigger rahma on this child than providing them shelter and honour is giving them Islam. You secure their afterlife that way too.

I want to adopt but I feel like family look down upon it

@0826qi

10 күн бұрын

Assalamualaikum sister, did you continue considering adopting? I understand your worries about family looking down on adoption (the permissible way of adopting or fostering an orphan), but taking care of an orphan is an honorable deed. We should not fear the judgement from other people if we are doing good, but we should highly value the judgement that is from Allah 🤍

I have a question. Even after the child becomes a mahram (through breastfeeding), still the rules of maintaining the child's lineage still apply, right?

@sadiauddin8701

4 жыл бұрын

I would believe so, because lineage is important and emphasised, but Allah swt knows best.

@heyhey-pd6ew

3 жыл бұрын

yes it it

20:00

Please correct the website address in the video description. It has a typo error.

So if i don't have any other children i can give to the adopted one

Wait I’m confused what if you adapt a child but you don’t have any kids to produce breast milk how will you make them your mahram?

@heyhey-pd6ew

3 жыл бұрын

I dont have a degree in human anatomy like my sister, but i believe that kids are not the only way of producing milk. Like there are certain supplications that can cause milk to be produce. I could be wrong but this is my thinking especially after taking bio and health science.

@gumnamaparichit1174

2 жыл бұрын

There are pills available for lactation or any blood relative can feed the child.

why if you are no longer lactating how can you make your adopted child a mahram?

@hafsahsulaiman2602

4 жыл бұрын

There are medication you can take to induce nursing hormones. Ask your doctor or pharmacist.

@SafaRaghib

3 жыл бұрын

It's as Hafsah says. Inducing lactation is a very simple matter these days, even if you aren't married or have never had children.

Salam salikum brother .i have 1 question my name is khalid farid i live in dubai and i am married from ten year and i don't have any kid so now there 1 abundant baby in pakistan so i want to bring that baby into my family so my question is can i give my name as father in paper work .please help me i am really worried and confused about name . Thanks regards Khalid farid

@sameersalman2582

4 жыл бұрын

Aslm brother,M not a scholar so take it with a grain of salt,as to my understanding if u do not know the fathers name u can write it on the papers but as far as I can see there's the issue of property,so that u r not unjust to ur wife and own children see to it that u have a will for it,the adopted son/daughter might not be willing to fight as u have given them everything u cld(if u do so),thier spouse or children might not be reluctant to fight for it

I don't even have the same surname as my biological dad nor my mum or grandma or any of our family...

@madonnaoftheplasticlove6291

7 күн бұрын

I don’t even know who my biological family is - All I have ever known is my adoptive parents and learning about all of this has been absolutely devastating to me. It’s like; what am I actually meant to do? Am I just doomed to jahannam no matter what?

Someone should please answer my question I lost my father when i was 3 years and my brother and his wife took me because my mom is getting married to another man,my brother change my fathers name with his name all my birth certificate and in school i bare my brothers name now I'm grown up you mean Allah is gonna punish me for using my brothers name?😭

@fathimahanna8479

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think Allah is gonna punish you. He is the most merciful. It was your brother who changed the names maybe for easiness of record works and all. And you already know your true lineage that who your real mother and father are. As long as your brother doesn't claim you as his own real son no problem I guess. I'm not very sure about inheritance ruling by the way.

@designerscollection1

2 жыл бұрын

You should ask a mufti

What if the child was breast fed by her sister in law?

I know a person who is a love child and was abandoned by the lady obviously due to known reasons. Later on one of the family members adopted the child and has given his name as father. Although the person knows about biological parents but every legal docs and educational documents have this father's name who adopted this child. What is a ruling in such case. Plz guide

@madonnaoftheplasticlove6291

7 күн бұрын

This is **very** similar to my case and I need to know this as well - I just genuinely don’t want to end up in the hellfire for something I had no hand in

I don't have any children so I would like to give my property to charity, sadqa etc.

@asharvai8804

3 жыл бұрын

I would suggest you to help build a mosque or help the organization supporting Orphans!

Can cps place your children in a non Muslim home??/ CPS TOOK 3 OF MT CHILDREN 2 DAYS AFTER MY SO CALLED MUSLIM EX-HUSBAND CALLED THEM AFTER HE TOOK OUR 6 YEAR OLD JUST TO SEE ME SUFFER FOR DEVOICE HIM

what if its a 10 year old child? what if the child refuses to drink the breast milk? the childs social worker will never allow this in the west.

@baller3026

6 жыл бұрын

Mohammed Hanif 10 year old doesn't drink breast milk... No breast milk after 2 years old..

@irinah6174

5 жыл бұрын

You can pump the milk and give it in a cup. don't have to breastfeed him

@corazoncubano5372

4 жыл бұрын

@@irinah6174 Not to a 10 year old you cannot.

@mohammedshafiqulislam7334

2 жыл бұрын

Thats super creepy and bizarre! I think you can only feed him if he was less than 2 year old. Or if you try to feed him at 10,thats absolutely vulgar sexual abuse.

@mohammedshafiqulislam7334

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously? 🤮🤢