I'm so tired of bullies especially in pf that's why I joined a static once I got up to wormhole. I can't deal with so much salt from these folks.

I feel like no one defended blm until the clear 🙄. Instead, why didnt you guys just kick the mch and keep it pushing?

@coffeelink943

7 ай бұрын

Idk too, either they don’t have anyone else to fill in or prefer not to get more trapped in PF. TEA isn’t like savage where you can find new fillers that is familiar with the mechanic, experiences most of the phases, or have BiS for it. Anyways that’s how ultimates are, stressful and toxic depends on the situation of the team

I can understand the bullying since i always get bullied myself from others sometimes i just stay quiet especially when doing savage/ultimate but grats to the blm always prove others it's not your fault for anything especially when they're being on camera

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

True

Im glad you guys cleared. I'm a static leader myself, and yeah it definitely gets hard not to pick sides. We still haven't touched TEA, but Kek definitely proved them wrong and that was awesome to see. The MCH has a massive ego though from what I read

I’ve had some pretty toxic interactions lately in DSR reclear PFs ^^ Usually friends who stick together then ignore the mistakes they make and push the blame on other people. It’s just generally a very unpleasant experience because you can feel the ego ^^’

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

Very sorry that happened to you because I had a friend who did that to me aswell

people like this are the bane of pf i swear, it's still happening now. had a group of 3 in our pf complaining and bullying someone, kicked them from the party, witnessed it and didn't want to be around that vibe so I left. I joined another pf and that same one who was bullied was there and we cleared perfectly first time lmao. continued to farm over 5 runs as well until I was hungry. some people love to waffle on about this and that without taking a step back and thinking maybe that all people mess up under pressure, even professionals, 2 mistakes is not enough to start whining lmao. complaining = morale to go down = more mistakes. if someone's actually trolling your party wiping over and over and over then leave don't make a big fuss about it

Jamie jams also shunned out party jesus for being homophobic, several trans people from the FC specifically called TRANS for not "fitting the mold", like bruh give me a fucking break

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

DAMN ohh my god that’s really horrible I’m very sorry about that stay strong

i think the real takeaway from this video isn't to stop bullying ppl. its to stop encouraging and enabling bullies that you encounter. its frankly so weird to me that u posted this entire thing when u and other ppl in the party were so conflict averse that u didnt stand up for blm at all and even egged jamie on. why tell blm to be the bigger person when *you* couldve been the bigger person and stood up for someone being bullied in front of you. im just glad the blm got to grief their parse.

@critic_ism

9 ай бұрын

no one here had the social skills to just vote dismiss or stand up for either side. the flip flop at the end where everyone started dunking on the mch as well--if you condemn bullying then stand up and condemn it properly. also OP joining in and joking abt assault while blm got flamed was crazy, there was no thought process behind any of these interactions LMAO

@imalen3217

9 ай бұрын

The thing about the situation is that you are right but in Final Fantasy 14 there’s a lot of things you cannot say. For example, I told a black mage should be a bigger person and leave and I can’t say “report the machinist” because that’s against TOS I was gonna ask the Blackmage to report him after he leaves, but the thing is the machinist is still a bully till this day. I wouldn’t want to bash one person like that, but in this situation if the black mage didn’t told us that he from a different server, and he does TEA differently. I WOULD’VE UNDERSTAND AUTOMATICALLY. Certain bullies in FFXIV TRY THEIR BEST TO FIND LOOPHOLES. It’s not like stormblood or shadowbringers current content anymore. More rules have come out and there’s not a lot to say in the game anymore that I can be honest with.

@imalen3217

9 ай бұрын

I also wanted to add that the report system is complicated if it’s your 1st time reporting someone. When reporting someone they want the following Name Date Time Who was in it What was said And what instance this happened And sometimes it takes about 1-3 days to respond but other times they don’t respond and you sitting there wondering if they got your message.

I feel like i understand why people get frustrated, but they act like they're gracing the party with their presencr and just feel the need to be shit heads to someone because of some mistakes. People need to work in their patience more, especially if they arent in a perfect static.

Lmao I got the MCH but as a healer in C41

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

I deal with bullies but on FFXIV idk what to do in that situation but is interesting you’ve played with them before if you want you can let me know your experience with them.

@user-es8nm7rr2x

Жыл бұрын

@@imalen3217 i mean we disbanded after hitting enrage and wiping cuz i guess impatience but they were telling our WHM to glare more and shit im assuming they were using ACT to tell others what they were doing wrong like damage or so but i jsut ignored most of it cleared anyways after without them lol

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

Wow

@nobody-xh6ii

Жыл бұрын

​@Akuma this tbh annoys ne. The healers job is to usually make sure the party lives. They aren't a dps class. So there's no reason to just sit there and spam 1 skills when alot of the time there's no downtime for healing. If someone gets hit in these raids they lose like half hp, if not more. You can't spam dps AND healing at the same time unless it's swiftcast but if you used swiftcast for healing it's not ready for the emergency ressurrect.. AAAAHHHHH! sorry, people demanding I do something that goes against what I know as a healer main is annoying.

"I have a very extensive network of tea enthusiasts who know your name". What a pathetic line, this is what is wrong with ultimate PF, people get in those community discords to trash talk randoms because they spam a one trick fight 30 times per day and think they are good at this game while skill in FFXIV comes from progging new fights, not following a toolbox from old content. Oh and also Len, you started it, if you were joking you should apologize, because from here it seems you were ganging up on him.

i don’t get it you also asked the blm to leave

@cross6781

Жыл бұрын

Feels like op is instigating just to see what the BLM and the MCH were gonna do tbh, which is just as bad

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

I said be a bigger person and just go he stood his ground and I told him I don’t know what to do in this situation because what Jamie said doesn’t seems that much reportable so I told the blm imma shut up. I talked with the FC yesterday and what Jamie said doesn’t sound that much reportable. Otherwise the whole story would’ve flipped.

just bl and move on. not a big deal

Don't watch - waste of 15 minutes. Angsty teen drama.

@imalen3217

Жыл бұрын

Sorry you don’t like Angry teen drama

@nullme9846

11 ай бұрын

That's actually a very good reason to watch it tho-

Kekw Kristoff once again thinking enums are north and south and inting pf