Despite what you are saying are facts, the way you word your responses can definitely be seen as attitude when read. Since tone plays a large part in how you can be perceived, and tone is non-existent in text your wording can be perceived as rude, and disrespectful even though that's not your intention whatsoever. Now you don't need to change anything about how you do things, but if you want to avoid random drama encounters. It's better to just simply clarify that you weren't trying to be rude, and apologize for the confusion instead of emphasizing yourself in the situation which can give off the feeling that you're double downing on their perception of you. A lot of drama can be avoided this way. (That's IF you want to avoid it lol)
@cmg.Ай бұрын
ya'll yapping like its oxygen.
@skrooz7864Ай бұрын
This is what happens when the socially inept get a platform to yap. Learn to work gracefully with others, and if that can't happen, leave gracefully.
@xReaghanАй бұрын
Why even worrying about this and putting this on KZread.. Ignore and move on it's just a game.
@madeofmarsАй бұрын
You WERE being a little messy… I’ve seen waaayyy worse tho. Not a big deal but I’ve learned to just never single anyone out. It immediately causes hurt feelings every time.
@rei.Ай бұрын
2:50 what is lil bro using holmgang on... from my expert diagnosis, the war's mit plan was 1. the mines 2. the autos+thunder after whirlwind and 3. double rocket punch all with the 25 second cooldown it has, and catching all 3 of them i only know this from seeing the buff flytext on him at 2:53 (more buffs displayed on party list always helps), but that's a fine mit rotation if you're using everything on the mines. neither healers cast any gcd heals in the time after lightning (which isn't bad on its own, ast/sge can heal fine with ogcds) but the war doesn't recieve *any* healing in the time between thunder and KO, just raw intuition healing and maybe a regen i'd say it's moreso the responsibility of the healer with thunder to heal the tank at that point, so in my expert opinion, it's the sge's fault, at least in that pull, for the war KOing to autos
@ichiharafoxАй бұрын
I mean, I don't disagree with you, and you're totally right, but sometimes for the sake of our sanity, it's just best to leave and find another group. Every time you are honest with someone, they are going to label you as toxic, that's how the FFXIV's anti-toxicity rule works. If they judge someone as toxic they will shame on them and blame them for everything just because of that, even though the person is not being toxic. They just expect you to say things like "We got this" "I know you'll do better next pull" etc. So every time I face a situation like that I just say "My dog is on fire gotta go" or "Sorry, grandma is climbing the tree again, gotta go". These comments are more than enough for them to understand why I left
@Allerz13
Ай бұрын
My personal favorite is "Sorry, gotta go walk my fish." But yeah this pretty much. Sometimes just isnt worth.
@guyverdemonАй бұрын
casting stones when you have a glass house
@laizelfalse7216Ай бұрын
Its always hard with text chat to guage tone so just a misunderstanding on them maybe? Wild they got that way over like 2 lines of text lmao.
@real_life_hobbit
Ай бұрын
Usually when I give criticism, I use tone tags mostly because I'm neurodivergent but I feel like it helps people understand my intentions a bit better.
@nikkoh15
Ай бұрын
honestly its crazy, like they shouldnt take things personally especially in pf IMO.
@silveracorn8539Ай бұрын
They tried to get that last word in by kicking you but love how you got that last word
@kiiturii
Ай бұрын
that was indeed very satisfying lol
@IzzinovaАй бұрын
Yeah, I was thinking to myself the whole time, "typical party finder". I don't think you said anything out of line, but that's just one more thing about PF. If it's just text chat, then it's easier for misunderstandings, and some people just love to get offended.
Just be mature and ignore / move on. Don't waste your time caring about basement losers acting arrogant behind a screen in a videogame lol. Makes you look weak-minded if you do.
@kiituriiАй бұрын
I mean you were 100% right, but could've gone down better if you clarified that you didn't mean anything bad by the comment, not as entertaining though lol I think a lot of people are used to people being overly nice in this game with tone indicators in the form of text emotes like "^^" for example, so they just think anyone typing in plain text is being rude lol
@GarnetDust24Ай бұрын
OOP
@kokopossumАй бұрын
Well, it is what it is. If I were you I would find a dedicated discord server for running Ultimates. Usually people in the Ultimates Discord are more chill than pf randos. Granted you'll still get those, but with Ultimate server communities you should have more tolerant and patient people.
@rwuh89Ай бұрын
People bitching about tank dying to autos when the healers were busy using malefic or doing anything but healing. What a waste of 4 minutes and 20 secs of my life.
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Despite what you are saying are facts, the way you word your responses can definitely be seen as attitude when read. Since tone plays a large part in how you can be perceived, and tone is non-existent in text your wording can be perceived as rude, and disrespectful even though that's not your intention whatsoever. Now you don't need to change anything about how you do things, but if you want to avoid random drama encounters. It's better to just simply clarify that you weren't trying to be rude, and apologize for the confusion instead of emphasizing yourself in the situation which can give off the feeling that you're double downing on their perception of you. A lot of drama can be avoided this way. (That's IF you want to avoid it lol)
ya'll yapping like its oxygen.
This is what happens when the socially inept get a platform to yap. Learn to work gracefully with others, and if that can't happen, leave gracefully.
Why even worrying about this and putting this on KZread.. Ignore and move on it's just a game.
You WERE being a little messy… I’ve seen waaayyy worse tho. Not a big deal but I’ve learned to just never single anyone out. It immediately causes hurt feelings every time.
2:50 what is lil bro using holmgang on... from my expert diagnosis, the war's mit plan was 1. the mines 2. the autos+thunder after whirlwind and 3. double rocket punch all with the 25 second cooldown it has, and catching all 3 of them i only know this from seeing the buff flytext on him at 2:53 (more buffs displayed on party list always helps), but that's a fine mit rotation if you're using everything on the mines. neither healers cast any gcd heals in the time after lightning (which isn't bad on its own, ast/sge can heal fine with ogcds) but the war doesn't recieve *any* healing in the time between thunder and KO, just raw intuition healing and maybe a regen i'd say it's moreso the responsibility of the healer with thunder to heal the tank at that point, so in my expert opinion, it's the sge's fault, at least in that pull, for the war KOing to autos
I mean, I don't disagree with you, and you're totally right, but sometimes for the sake of our sanity, it's just best to leave and find another group. Every time you are honest with someone, they are going to label you as toxic, that's how the FFXIV's anti-toxicity rule works. If they judge someone as toxic they will shame on them and blame them for everything just because of that, even though the person is not being toxic. They just expect you to say things like "We got this" "I know you'll do better next pull" etc. So every time I face a situation like that I just say "My dog is on fire gotta go" or "Sorry, grandma is climbing the tree again, gotta go". These comments are more than enough for them to understand why I left
@Allerz13
Ай бұрын
My personal favorite is "Sorry, gotta go walk my fish." But yeah this pretty much. Sometimes just isnt worth.
casting stones when you have a glass house
Its always hard with text chat to guage tone so just a misunderstanding on them maybe? Wild they got that way over like 2 lines of text lmao.
@real_life_hobbit
Ай бұрын
Usually when I give criticism, I use tone tags mostly because I'm neurodivergent but I feel like it helps people understand my intentions a bit better.
@nikkoh15
Ай бұрын
honestly its crazy, like they shouldnt take things personally especially in pf IMO.
They tried to get that last word in by kicking you but love how you got that last word
@kiiturii
Ай бұрын
that was indeed very satisfying lol
Yeah, I was thinking to myself the whole time, "typical party finder". I don't think you said anything out of line, but that's just one more thing about PF. If it's just text chat, then it's easier for misunderstandings, and some people just love to get offended.
Which video is the comment on
@imalen3217
Ай бұрын
kzread.info/dash/bejne/omiiwdprg6SfnqQ.htmlsi=HwJIoMkQkmPxzzNK
Just be mature and ignore / move on. Don't waste your time caring about basement losers acting arrogant behind a screen in a videogame lol. Makes you look weak-minded if you do.
I mean you were 100% right, but could've gone down better if you clarified that you didn't mean anything bad by the comment, not as entertaining though lol I think a lot of people are used to people being overly nice in this game with tone indicators in the form of text emotes like "^^" for example, so they just think anyone typing in plain text is being rude lol
OOP
Well, it is what it is. If I were you I would find a dedicated discord server for running Ultimates. Usually people in the Ultimates Discord are more chill than pf randos. Granted you'll still get those, but with Ultimate server communities you should have more tolerant and patient people.
People bitching about tank dying to autos when the healers were busy using malefic or doing anything but healing. What a waste of 4 minutes and 20 secs of my life.
First mistake was playing savage~