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@lisettegarcia

Ай бұрын

It's gross that you are using AI voice-overs

@gracietarabochia3404

Ай бұрын

you forgot to blur the kids' faces at 5:57 in the second photo

@dragonlock12345

21 күн бұрын

you did not blur the children's faces at 5:59 in photo on the right

never be with a man who “jokes” about how he hates you, how annoying you are, how he doesn’t want you… those are not just cruel jokes on their own, they’re evidence of malicious intent.

@lucillekenney8311

Ай бұрын

It's narcissistic. It cuts to the core and chips away your self-esteem. No one is worth that.

@user-uu1hv8nv6i

Ай бұрын

I agree with you here my friend l fell şad for her l hope she rest in peçe

@britttanypaige

Ай бұрын

There is truth to EVERY joke. I live by this.

@tclanjtopsom4846

Ай бұрын

True that, if someone man or woman talks badly of you don't have anything to do with them.😢

@MathieuLLF

Ай бұрын

Same vice versa too

I looked it up he was sentenced to life in prison.

@jillruben8924

Ай бұрын

Much thanks.

@Thaddeus-ml8if

Ай бұрын

And if it was the other was around she’d get 10 years.

@yackum_3331

Ай бұрын

​@@Thaddeus-ml8if women get life sentences all the time for killing their spouses. Idk what you're trying to insinuate but you're wrong

@Thaddeus-ml8if

Ай бұрын

@@yackum_3331 All the time? You’re LYING.

@user-zi3ko4pr5n

Ай бұрын

@@Thaddeus-ml8if fax

Why can't people just get a divorce and move on? This guy took a life, took his children's mother from them, which will forever traumatize them and they'll likely always hate him for, and ruined his own life in the process. He could've just moved on and found someone else. I don't understand it. This wasn't love. It was obsession and possession.

@genomic_

Ай бұрын

His father should have known better.

@CTGDesigner

Ай бұрын

Psychopath and a massive control freak. Pure rage.

@godmagnus

Ай бұрын

He wanted the kids

@KennyboyGM

Ай бұрын

Child support

@ps123fan

Ай бұрын

because they feel the one being killed is a bad person?... i dunno

The look of disgust on Steve Harvey’s face was instant.I think he got a bad vibe. Whilst his friends or family were laughing!

@geminienergy

Ай бұрын

I caught that too. He usually sees the joke in ignorant answers but not this time.

@It-is-me...Melsie

Ай бұрын

You're seeing things. The answer was correct. It was on the board. Harvey is possibly aware of the answers prior to the show.

@Copeandseethe822

29 күн бұрын

He was acting. He does it all the time when people give "dark" or just bizarre answers.

@anthonybrown1862

22 күн бұрын

Discernment 🤷🏽

@harrybalzahk

20 күн бұрын

Steve Harvey does that face a lot of times lol you're trying too hard.

Neighbor- do you have any cameras. Me - no. Also me - installing cameras

@cynthiamarshall6706

3 күн бұрын

my 1st thought when he asked his neighbor too, if you're asking then most likely you'll wish you had installed one. So tired of stories where people plead for help and they are brushed off :(

People need to take people seriously, when they say their spouse is planning on killing them.

@hypsyzygy506

Ай бұрын

Except when they are planning on killing the 'abusive spouse' and claiming self defence?

@user-sn3ek4vj2j

Ай бұрын

​@@hypsyzygy506there's a catch 22 to everything, unfortunately. It makes it worse that these guys who do this crap are ones that are viewed so highly in their community yet they have nothing but a double life that's clearly twisted. My ex was like this. Was in the military and didn't want me but didn't want me to leave. Cut me off the bank account and everything telling me id have no way to leave him. And right before I did leave him he left videos on KZread about hanging women open on his computer. That was the last straw! Took my son and my dog and I was done. 💯

@grogsmashrock7240

26 күн бұрын

@@hypsyzygy506 usually victims of DV commit self defense murders in the 2nd degree

@artaxAF

12 күн бұрын

Lol, no they don't. Women lie about that stuff constantly, especially during divorce proceedings. Maybe she shouldn't have been trying to take half his money and prevent him from seeing his kids.

@terribletrey8925

4 күн бұрын

@@artaxAFkeep crying

It’s sick that she begged for help…and he still had access to murder her.

This is why so many people do not go to police about abuse, so many times they just ignore you and you put yourself in more danger.

Why can’t people just let go? She’s dead but your in jail kids loss both parents smh.

@darylnelson2410

Ай бұрын

That’s what I always say….Just walk away! SMH

@xxjlamariexx

Ай бұрын

That’s a narcissist for you.

@dialac1

Ай бұрын

It’s control. People expect other human beings to live their lives they way they dictate so when the other person doesn’t want to comply, they lose their minds. I remember in college when an ex cheated on me and I just left her without getting angry or arguing, my male friends were calling me a p*ssy for just letting go so easily. When people can’t let go and when they are controlling, it leads to situations like this video

@Limejuice305

Ай бұрын

You're 😤

@tjtruth4793

Ай бұрын

Money, control, jealousy, anger. There’s a lot of reasons but I’m guessing the top 2 would be money and anger. What’s the worst is when one parent projects their emotions onto children and rob children of one of their parents because it’s a way to hurt/control/retaliate against the former spouse.

If they have to stay 3 feet apart for her safety why the f do the courts think the kids would be safe?

@saltycat662

Ай бұрын

Exactly. It's amazing to me how the abusive partner still has custody rights to the children when they've been proven abusive against the other parent. The court system is trash.

@DogLover_365

Ай бұрын

THIS!!!💯💯💯 the system fails innocent children so often!! It’s disgusting!!

@lucillekenney8311

Ай бұрын

Exactly. But I believe the 3 feet mentioned was referred to they had to stay within 3 feet of their cars when they exchanged the children. Which meant he couldn't approach her and she could park as far away as felt safe. But yeah, why would they allow children near someone who posed such a threat? More has to be done to protect women and children. I'm getting sick of all these women gone missing and young ones losing their lives to someone's boyfriend or girlfriend or custody battle. It happens way too often and is incredibly heart-wrenching.

@MsMoniqueLynn

Ай бұрын

Men have way too many rights to children

@nemarchepas

Ай бұрын

My ex is also scary to me, but police and the courts don't care and I have to send them anyway. When I had an order of protection and had to go to court, the judge admonished me for being petty. Unless they attempt to murder you or murder you, the system does NOT care and treats it as a he said/she said.

She seems like a beautiful person, inside and out. I'm so sorry for her loss. Poor kiddo's. 😢

Yes, women should be taken more seriously when they ask for help. What a shame to lose this beautiful mama to a mentally unstable spouse. We need to better .

@godjesus2107

Ай бұрын

She was the problem.

1:05 Law & Crime: _'The killer would be closer than anyone imagined'_ Everyone: Umm it's always the spouse.

@billycake5830

21 күн бұрын

Also didn't she say if something were to happen to her to look at the husband first?

@PsychoSISPodcast

16 күн бұрын

That's exactly what I thought lol

@davids5006

16 күн бұрын

Not always but usually the first suspect

That's crazy, I remember watching that episode of family feud.

Some people have it all and they want more so they end up with nothing.

@mabhulo2263

27 күн бұрын

What is the more that you believe this family wanted? Enlighten me please! Thank you in advance.

@c.for0125

23 күн бұрын

​@@mabhulo2263 Control

@sedg03

3 күн бұрын

@@mabhulo2263 no child dupport. No loss of money. SOLE custody of kids. GF's? All you want, way opens.

The 48 hours episode included the full Family Feud clip, and 'said I do' was the 2nd answer! And the 1st answer had already been guessed, so he answered it with literally the best possible answer for the game. Yeah, it's reasonable to question whether there was something off when he gave that answer in hindsight, but he very well was just answering like many others surveyed did!

@oceanside88

15 күн бұрын

That's why it's ironic.

Y’all… they weren’t married/divorced/re-married. They got married in 2009. They’re referring to him as ex-husband because that’s what he is. No different than someone saying, “My ex-husband and I had gotten married in 2003.”

@BeingConformed

Ай бұрын

Thank you for clarifying that.

@antpaste

15 күн бұрын

Sooo divorced...

@robinhughes6892

14 күн бұрын

That WAS confusing the way it was worded. Thanks for clarifying it…

Sometimes I dnt know how defense attorneys agree to defend clients with so much overwhelming evidence

@Dondizle

Ай бұрын

Because everyone has the right to an attorney. If criminals didn't have a lawyer, it wouldn't be a fair trial. Also, it would mean the victims family would have wait so much longer for justice to be made.

@shondraclemons8358

Ай бұрын

Money

@jaysonwallerisacriminal3314

26 күн бұрын

$$$$

@palatialslumlord4938

11 күн бұрын

​@@DondizleThere is no fair trial, especially when it comes to the feds, it's just kabuki theater, a dog & pony show.

@sedg03

3 күн бұрын

Old saying: "there is no divorce w.out murder in the air."

May everyone on this channel be blessed with spouses that bring comfort to your eyes, warmth to your hearts and betterment to your lives, and may we uplift them in the same manner.

@DWQJVB

Ай бұрын

I need a hot female body next to me right now

@Anonymous-54545

Ай бұрын

thank you!! i found one! (not spouse but partner rn :))

@McKelT

13 күн бұрын

This is so beautiful I needed to hear this. Thank you ❤

@Pj287.

12 күн бұрын

Amen 🙏🏼 ❤

You'd think killers would figure out NOT to search suspicious subjects on Google using their own personal devices and internet connection. 🤦 Thankfully this was such a sloppy murder, thus being caught and convicted beyond a reasonable doubt by leaving a trail of evidence. It's too bad this wasn't prevented; and it could have been.

I’m guessing he googled how to open a door with a crow bar because he was hoping to make it appear like a home invasion?

14 times Wow So he was still hitting her That’s hate Disgusting

The fact the police refused to take the gun and return it 🤦🏽‍♀️

Poor children

It's always in their eyes. 😢

Seems like its every damn day now.

@travisa7025

Ай бұрын

Murder happens everyday, get over it.

@LadyAmalthea0615

Ай бұрын

Fr. Seems like every time I turn on the TV or go online there's another story of someone killing their spouse, their parent or people hurting their kids. Seems like it's everywhere, all the time now.

@ayamystic2

Ай бұрын

@@LadyAmalthea0615all the people us single childless women are told to want or look up to… tsk tsk

@southhour5241

28 күн бұрын

@@LadyAmalthea0615 Accelerationism is the many issue destroying all facets of society.

@jaysonwallerisacriminal3314

26 күн бұрын

Multiple times a day.

I get the need to create "attention-getting" video titles, but the joke didn't lead to this.

@MethodiousMind

Ай бұрын

You could say Tim was the joke

Shot 14 times??? 😮

@mabhulo2263

27 күн бұрын

Crime of passion with premeditation. 😢

I find it very rude the prowler would hack the husband's Google and search for incriminating things.

@shondraclemons8358

Ай бұрын

It's called a investigation 🙄🙄🙄

@caitlinmyriah7657

Ай бұрын

​@@shondraclemons8358Oh, dang... really?!?😮

@shondraclemons8358

Ай бұрын

@@caitlinmyriah7657 yeah 💯💯💯💯

@spykewyn8395

23 күн бұрын

And ride the same bicycle as him at times when he wasn't wearing his fitness band! That guy sure made Tim look bad!

@strfltcmnd.9925

15 күн бұрын

and steal his bike

I hear so often "Laying in a pool of their own blood". Does anyone ever lay in a pool of someone else's blood?....

@Limejuice305

Ай бұрын

Hollywood elites?

@lorimiller4301

26 күн бұрын

I had the same reaction, what a pointless thing to say, totally for effect zero content.

@jaysonwallerisacriminal3314

26 күн бұрын

​@lorimiller4301 what are they supposed to write. She was found in a pool of blood?? Then ppl are gonna complain whose blood.

@tsmuff

26 күн бұрын

@@jaysonwallerisacriminal3314 Yah I figured they'd just say she was found laying in a pool of blood. She's alone in the house and deceased so it seems obvious who's blood it is.

@sherriebrown8318

23 күн бұрын

In mass murder scenarios or bloody crime scenes where there's a struggle and the assailant is also bleeding, yes. Sometimes it's possible to lie in a pool of someone else's blood.

Quincy is alot worse than you think i used to live there for like 5 or 7 years and hated it almost the whole time

Now the children have NO Parents ? 😢

@travisa7025

Ай бұрын

Millions and millions of kids have no parents, thats life.

Ironically, there was far more incriminating evidence in the OJ Simpson case

@sagetubing

Ай бұрын

the prosecution was inept in that case.

@lucillekenney8311

Ай бұрын

I didn't think the prosecution proved their case. Stuff came out afterward, a video of him talking about Charlie with crazy eyes which sounded like he was referencing himself and left me stunned. I don't know if that recording was made before or after the trial.

@starter47990

Ай бұрын

@@sagetubing the prosecution screwed up. But still, the evidence was overwhelming. Nobody else could have killed Nicole and Ron. It's such a shame.

@starter47990

Ай бұрын

@@lucillekenney8311 I don't understand that. Overwhelming evidence, motive, and opportunity trumps "reasonable doubt." And reasonable doubt based on what? Mark Furhman's circumstance? Not only did none of the defense arguments make any sense, they never proved the planting of any evidence. On top of that, the jurors admitted that they knew he was guilty. But they wanted retribution for the Rodney King thing.

@zanegravenall9522

Ай бұрын

OJ acquittal was a response to the acquittal of the cops who beat Rodney King imo

Question? The narrator said that the boyfriend decided to stay over, where did he go when she was shot. I'm not saying he had anything to do with it I just wondered how he went from staying over to disappearing. Ladies word of advice when you are getting divorced from a psychotic person do not drag another person into your life put your needs on hold until the divorce is over or you know that you are safe from this person because you hooking up with somebody else sometimes is the gasoline on the fire and causes people who aren't right in the head to do s*** like shoot you. I mean I don't think she would have been safe either way because of the feud over the kids. I felt so bad for the dad having to find his child like that. And how sinister it was for him to keep the kids at school so they don't walk in on their mom but then to call the dad and pretend he didn't know why the mom didn't pick the kids up. Knowing that he was going to go to the house and find her 😢

I pray that nobody ever finds my Google searches because I'd be eff'd.

@choose-kindness-2day

Ай бұрын

😂

@ktcooki276

23 күн бұрын

Samesies!!😂

@MoneyStrategiesSOULutions

20 күн бұрын

Hmm really...

@LuisCasstle

11 күн бұрын

Google has them, nice and safe in their servers, and willing and able to share them with the Feds.

@kissesdelight27

11 күн бұрын

😂

He wore a bow tie on Family Feud? Yeah. Psychopath.

A narcissistic man with his ego hurt wanted things to go his way. RIP, beautiful Becky.

Please tell me those kids didn't end up with their paternal grandparents!

I sincerely hope custody of the kids went to her family, not his. Sounds like the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.

@charliejb1747

10 күн бұрын

Many, many apples fall FAR from the tree and keep on rolling.

Yeah, in my State, cops just tell you to get a restraining order thats hard to get. The complaint has to contain certain words or its denied.

Bad Answer.

@davidtiessen7713

Ай бұрын

yup poor taste, insulting & in a public arena. Says so much about his character. Any partner might forgive 1 insult of this calibre as a bad mistake, but I wouldn't suggest to forgive another. Not a sign of anyone I'd want to be around and definately not for a lifetime.

@MethodiousMind

Ай бұрын

Jeffs4883🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I’m not convinced the game show comment had anything to do with the murder. 😮

Most definitely. Her texts alone were red flags.

@charliejb1747

10 күн бұрын

Yet there were none from him ... Where was her boyfriend, he was there that night.

So a joke on Family Feud didn't lead to a murder. Nor did an Illinois Woman get accused of murder. Great title guys. Not misleading at all.

Geezus, Google should have arrested him.

Didn’t Family Feud removed the segment on their KZread channel?

Omg 😦 I remember that family feuds 😮and also thought why that’s not a joke this man actually was speaking from his sick mind!!!

Illinois inmate search show him as sentenced to life in prison.

He took family feud to another level

Does he know how much he hurt his kids by doing something like this?? Terrible 😢

@shondraclemons8358

Ай бұрын

He does not care which tells you what you dealing with here

He looked crazy in the Family Feud clip...

It unfortunate that this young Mother lost her life to this psycho, be HE is to blame. Not society. RIP

Steve stopped smiling on that.

I remember this episode!! I was floored

Wait, so her husband went "Postal"?

Family Feud had nothing to do with it.

Absolutely heartbreaking!!!!!! 💔

Survey says... the usual suspect

I honestly believe that this crime could have been prevented!! Those kids will grow up without a mama!!!!!! The right people should have protected and gotten involved in this lady's problems!!!!!!! Too many women are ignored when they try to make accusations against their partners......we have to become better observers and get the proper people involved!!!!!!!!!!

The title for this vid is misleading.

The law wouldn't take the firearm back HE even requested them to do so smh

5:58 forgot to blue the kids here, kind of weird when they're blurred all except one time. Might wanna fix that, unless you're just using whatever photos are found as is. In that case, carry on.

@Suhzi

Ай бұрын

In that case, they should do their due diligence and blur the kids’ faces themselves.

@audralynn7454

Ай бұрын

@@Suhzi exactly. I would think it's part of someone's job to actually edit the photos they use.

@Suhzi

Ай бұрын

@@audralynn7454 I expected more integrity from a news network like this. Seems sloppy at best and downright irresponsible at worst.

@skibee421

Ай бұрын

@@Suhzi this is law & crime network not news - guess u never make a mistake,drama queen !

@Suhzi

Ай бұрын

@@skibee421 You’re whining about semantics when the real problem is that these people are failing to protect children’s privacy. It’s not a mistake when there are countless cases where Law & Crime did not blur the faces of minors.

It was trouble in that marriage when he answered that question

@hamlet557

13 күн бұрын

I hope you are joking.

Survey Says... Don't have kids!

...Did this guy even TRY to get away with it?? Don't get me wrong, I'm glad he didn't, but man...this is one of the sloppiest crimes I've ever seen.

@lifeinpodunkville543

27 күн бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. It was like he did everything possible to get himself caught.

Yes it could’ve been prevented. The gun could’ve been taken from him being it wasn’t legally his and she was afraid of him.

I watched the trial, it was so obviously Tim who murdered Becky and it should have been prevented. Her sons and family are forever broken from her death, totally heartbreaking 💔

not speaking on this case specifically but i mean, on family feud, you're trying to guess what other people answered, you're not necessarily giving your own personal answer. If the question is what do people like eating for breakfast, a vegan might answer bacon and eggs...doesn't mean that's what they feel personally

@hamlet557

13 күн бұрын

the fact that you had to explain this to adults, what does it mean for the average IQ?

It’s so odd to me that you would notice your neighbors door open and think “that’s odd” but not call the police- so the father had to find her 🤔🤔🤣

How is it I live in central ILLINOIS not far from this area and im just now hearing about this on KZread and never seen or heard it on any of our news channels or radio ?!?! Smh..

Only way her death could have been prevented if she moved out of town a changed names

@MethodiousMind

Ай бұрын

If she bought another gun, she might still be here

@leannepaxton5012

Ай бұрын

Or if the cops agreed to act as intermediaries between the former couple, when the husband asked them if they would be willing to return the gun to her. I’m not saying that the cops have any fault in the murder, that lies with the ex-husband 100%. But if they agreed to let him leave his ex-wife’s gun with them, he never would have had it to murder her with. She might still be alive today.

5:57 so you blur out the kid’s faces in one picture but not the other. What tha eff?

Not even divorced…. And already shacking up….

Why would anyone say on national tv that the worst thing they ever had said is I DO? Are so many 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩s

@hamlet557

13 күн бұрын

It's a GUESSING GAME about OTHER PEOPLE'S ANSWERS. How many braincells do you have?

So sad. Women and children always seem to be done wrong.

🤬 sending her own dad. Sick individual

Oh boy! It's that infamous Judge 😮

14 times! Overkill?

During divorce the parents should get equal time

Sad

Never trust anybody that smiles this much. Also the police department is an absolute joke. To me they have a part in her murder. Ridiculous.

@christiner8616

21 күн бұрын

Yeah smiley people give me the creeps

She even had a restraining order against the man’s DAD. What does that telll us ? Poor woman rest easy 💔

Timestamp 6:45 -- ummm, my SISTER is Melissa Young and that is NOT a picture of her. Not even close…. Wow @law&crime network

At the 15:50 mark, I fully expect the video to go into a sponsored read for Incogni. I think certain channels are having an effect on me.

Don't introduce the man as "she married her exhusband Tim Bleifnick in 2009" because that sounds as though they were married and divorced before. You are establishing a timeline. Just remove the word "ex husband" because you are going to get to that part anyway. At the time they got married, they were not exes, so you don't say that.

Are real channels pumping out this AI crap now?

@peskypaws_

Ай бұрын

just noticed it. Not sure what that's all about.

Crazy to think that this happened in my home town dude.

So sad

Look up the serial killer from New York that was a contestant on the dating game.

Monster!!!

Not blaming the victim, but when he wouldn't give her back her pistol why didn't she buy another one? The security system giving her advanced warning she could have hid and waited till she had a clear shot, and ended that POS. Illinois has some messed up gun laws that only hurt those that need then the most, license to purchase, foid cards, and mandatory waiting periods need to go away. That mom could/ should still be alive.

Psychopaths don't know how to joke. Just listen to their humor and they will tell you everything they've done and what type of person they are.

@hamlet557

10 күн бұрын

Next time you feel like diagnozing anyone go to MEDICINE school. You can't just pretend you are a psychiatrist when you have barely finished highschool and you can't score more than 80 in IQ tests.

You cant tell me there were no giant red flags early on in that relationship, yet she CHOSE to spit out 3 kids with that psycho . 🙄

I watched the 48 Hours show that this case was featured in. They made his guilt look less convincing than this vid.

He obviously despised her.

He literally went "postal" on her, sad!

Come on now, i know titles are how viewers are baited 2want to watch. How did the FF jokes lead to murder? They obviously had issues/conflicts, the show didn't create, they were already there. Keep the sensationalism to a minimum maybe?

@hamlet557

13 күн бұрын

@jahgirl8647 He didn't "admit" anything. It's a GUESSING GAME, about what 100 random men replied.

One has to wonder if Tim's desire to have custody of their children may have been driven by a need to inflict emotional and psychological abuse and to exert control of Becky. Also, the alleged harassment towards Becky from her in-laws was tantamount to "gang stalking" a tactic often used whereby people who exhibit Narcissistic behaviors employ family member, sometimes unwittingly, to victimize the intended target. And, the glib facial expression of Tim on Family Feud was telling and ominous. To those who have, unfortunately, had prolonged exposure to people exhibiting PD traits, Tim's behavior and the tragic outcome will come as no surprise.

HEARTBREAKING