Watch the whole video 😅 pls?

@synanbg4665

2 жыл бұрын

I did

@gigachad2723

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Daddy 😉

@-Myth-

2 жыл бұрын

yes

@CJHaven

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely will my dude

@Airiheart1

2 жыл бұрын

Gotchu 🔥

“Are you diagnosed” “It’s none of your business” *proceeds to make public tik tok making it everyone’s business*

@ayva1106

2 жыл бұрын

True, they listed some fair points but they hella annoying and make no sense 💀

@peps1943

2 жыл бұрын

"it's none of your business" Then why are you posting about it publicly!?? 😅😭☠️

@jordanday6341

2 жыл бұрын

@@ayva1106 they go to my school 💀💀

@bigbirdmusic8199

2 жыл бұрын

@@ayva1106 "fair points" hahaha trans flag with rainbow emoji. You prob ate the "inadequate access to mental health care" bit

@dylangoodwin8071

Жыл бұрын

Bruh she said it dont matter. Bro me finding out that I was diagnosed with fucking autism caused me to go into a meltdown bro these people need help more than me. P.s I need a lot btw :)

Parent: tells child no Child: the mental trauma was just unbearable, I can't believe I live in such an evil place, in no part should I ever grow balls and deal with it

@luxx456

2 жыл бұрын

some tiktok kids really thought they got abused because their parents took theie phone from then

@seanlefleur1656

2 жыл бұрын

Thats how LGBT and dream Stan work

@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx888

2 жыл бұрын

@@seanlefleur1656 what

@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx888

2 жыл бұрын

@@seanlefleur1656 dream stans yes Lgbt community big no

@kirbyinthereallife4980

2 жыл бұрын

Verbal and psychological abuse and trauma, clearly

“Are you diagnosed?” Goes on a long rant about “education” and how rude it is to ask a simply question just to stop from saying “no I’m definitely faking”

@jinxcured

Жыл бұрын

@@pink_yoshi ong

@sarawilkinson6766

4 ай бұрын

It was the “it’s none of your business” when you post crap online, it’s up for debate, sorry.

@TransTherian

11 күн бұрын

As someone who has many conditions, it is in no way offensive to ask whether or not a person is diagnosed. The original question was simply asking. No one who really has the condition will get mad at you for asking that. It’s a yes or no question.

2:07 she’s saying “financial issues” led to her not being diagnosed, and I’m just starting at that high-quality kitchen behind her.

@cooperstolte9361

3 ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinkin

@beanreview5803

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, it’s funny too because if you go into a doctors office, asking some good questions and ask if they have any practicing nurses a guarantee they will do a free exam on you and tell you if you have ADHD if she actually bothered to try they would help her for free

@unluckyomens370

3 ай бұрын

⁠@@beanreview5803i had to pay like 400 or something dollars for my adhd diagnosis i dont think nurses can diagnose adhd or at least to the point where you could get medicated

@Meggimagine

3 ай бұрын

Oh my god yes! 😂😂

"Are you diagnosed?" *Proceeds to rant about a simple question on how it is disrespectful despite the fact that it can be simply answered by yes or no.*

@magicgiraffes8883

2 жыл бұрын

Not to mention that they singled out the question as if they were forced by a gun to answer it …they couldve easily chose to ignore it

@solitudeguard5688

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@Pindolene

2 жыл бұрын

Also, like. Self-diagnosis can be helpful in reaching a professional one, but the answer is still no 😅

@solitudeguard5688

2 жыл бұрын

@@Pindolene listen, self diagnosing doesn’t work. Just no. Personally, if the person makes an extremely educated guess, perhaps? But a self diagnosis isn’t an official diagnosis, period!

@trungkienuwu

2 жыл бұрын

like it may not be someone's business but by posting it on tiktok you kinda making it other ppl's business-

It sucks that these people think it’s “cool” to have disorders, when people with real disorders have to live with them every day and it makes their life harder.

@blubbermammoth8426

2 жыл бұрын

These are the same people that think they’re the next MLK when in reality they’re doing something that’s really insensitive to people that truly suffer from psychiatric disorders

@Bruh1

2 жыл бұрын

@@blubbermammoth8426 for real. Then people defend them smh

@skandaiyer1061

2 жыл бұрын

again, as someone with actual DID/OSDD, this pains me. it’s not cool.

@skandaiyer1061

2 жыл бұрын

i would gladly rip off all my diagnoses if i could, and these people be faking them.

@stephenferla

2 жыл бұрын

@@skandaiyer1061 ye i dont get why they'd want to have disorders anyway makes zero sense to me

An old friend of mine had DID (diagnosed, medicated and in treatment). It took them a long time to tell me, and when they realised I didn't judge they were open to talking about it with me because this disorder is interesting, but at the same time I knew why this disorder exists and wanted to support them. I witnessed a switch, and it was so subtle I didn't even know it happened until their mood changed and if they hadn't told me so much about their DID, I wouldn't have realised that was a switch. The best analogy they gave me was it's like being in a car. You're the one driving most of the time. The passenger seat can observe and sometimes impact the route. The back seat you can see and do less, and then sometimes you're in the trunk and can't do or see a damn thing. These positions in the car change, but with treatment it's easier to be the driver and merge alters. I'm not saying that's what it's like for everyone, all MH conditions affect people differently. This was how they explained their experience.

@reporterecho6000

Жыл бұрын

did aint real

@briannehawks613

5 ай бұрын

​@@reporterecho6000no they don't know if it's real or not. Too many professionals in that area are still arguing it's existence. No one knows for sure. Since most people that show DID also have other disorders impacting their life. Who's to say which one is in effect? Bipolar with BPD? Or DID? Btw- I studied psych for many years and am bipolar so I wouldn't respond if I wasn't informed at least to some extent.

@melodi996

5 ай бұрын

@@briannehawks613 imo what matters is that issue exists and as long as treatment helps, it's fine.

@jasonandersen5975

4 ай бұрын

DID is still very controversial. (The “multiple personality” aspect is extremely rare, if it exists at all.) It does not respond to medication. It is treated by therapy. Oh, if you are aware of your “alters” you DON’T have it.

@PanosSchmitAlmeira

3 ай бұрын

there is no evidence for DID at all, no one in my country has been every diagnosed with it - so it's more obvious to be a cultural phenomenon

As someone who’s clinically diagnosed with autism, every time I see these kinds of videos, I feel terrible, and kind of pity them. It really sucks that people are SO messed up in the head that they have to FAKE disorders, which clearly makes the fact that they have an actual disorder VERY CLEAR. Every time I see these videos, I feel like since more and more people are doing it, if I tell anybody, I’ll get told I’m faking as well. I can’t help but feel sorry for people who are this messed up.

@katiepriegue5780

5 ай бұрын

I recently got diagnosed with autism and I feel the same way. I find so many people want to be diagnosed with something so bad that they almost make it their personality. I had one person tell me that I was “lucky” to be diagnosed with autism because they wanted to be diagnosed so bad. I also had one girl tell me that a doctor (that doesn’t even have her medical records) said that this doctor told her she MAY be autistic or adhd so she tells people she’s “half-autistic”. Meanwhile I’ve told my close knit family I was diagnosed by my psychiatrist and they still don’t believe me because I don’t “look or act” autistic. It honestly just makes me upset. I truly don’t understand how these people will call u ableist for not believing them but what their doing is Ableism

@moepikd

3 ай бұрын

​@@katiepriegue5780 Well to be fair I do kind of understand the person saying you were lucky, because well before I was officially diagnosed I kind of knew I had autism (everyone in my family is autistic, I had shown signs so I was on the long waiting list, and also I related to certain aspects of my autistic family members) but I remember how tedious it was not being diagnosed because no one (apart from family because they knew) treated me like I was autistic which damaged me a lot. I now have a diagnosis and I now actually am getting support, and not everyone can get a diagnosis I mean it took me 12 years of my life to get one so in some regard we are lucky to have a diagnosis.

@ya-pizza-wachu-want

3 ай бұрын

Im just lucky that people get mad at me for being unable to put names, faces, and pronouns together, instead of "faking it" Like if i could i would! But it's a nuisance that makes my life harder and pisses people off because i accidentally misgender a lot of people.

@ilovespinosaurus

3 ай бұрын

I get so annoyed because it is making people who actually have a diagnoses not get taken seriously and given help they actually need. My teacher stopped following the accommodations on my learning plan because everyone was saying they have disorders too when they didn’t and kept trying to get away with stuff and I had diagnosed autism that I wasn’t getting help for and I ended up getting so behind and had to work with another teacher outside of class to catch up to everyone.

@oddkitsunya4603

2 ай бұрын

@@katiepriegue5780totally get it! It makes diagnosed people even harder to live in this world (what actually already was!) and feeling more distant / starting to doubt about the diagnosis and even yourself.

“Why does it matter if I’m diagnosed?!” Because lying about having a “mental illness” degrades those that do have mental illness. Touch grass, get some real problems in your life.

@notwerkinginthishouse8634

2 жыл бұрын

One b¡tch posted something for sales about free britney movement and i called her out to stop using mental illness to earn money and she was like "you are such a snowflake, everyone does this", hmm, i hate those and i curse them on daily bases, gosh, i saw people in mental hospitals just so those weirdos would profit off of it

@greenbeans9748

2 жыл бұрын

It can also be dangerous. If someone is getting stuff like medication for treatment when they really don't have the disorder, it can hurt them.

@genericcommentor1111

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!

@drakedefee5729

2 жыл бұрын

Facts that kid had me heated

@LizaTerraASMR

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

As someone that actually has ADHD, all those videos that say “if you breathe hard, you might have ADHD” genuinely concern me.

@wrathsin7066

2 жыл бұрын

"If your pinkie twitches when you shit you have ADHD" that's the level of dumbassary my generation has come to

@terigrade8099

2 жыл бұрын

@@wrathsin7066 😭

@tina-mj4ge

2 жыл бұрын

if you can’t focus on hw when you’re on your phone 24/7 means you could have ADHD 🤔🤔😭 this shi is so unreal

@paintingroxy1668

2 жыл бұрын

If you breathe you might have ADHD, Someone is going to say that won't they

@reapergames1125

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah ADHD is more than just getting distracted or not being able to focus, it's an emotional thing aswell, emotions can go from 0 to 100 real quick with people who truly have ADHD but even then ADHD is different for everyone that had it ong it affects everyone that has it differently it can even cause mental instability aswell, ADHD can have its pros but it also has its cons, when I find something I'm passionate in I will give MY ALL but in shortbursts that are extremely efficient, living with ADHD can be extremely difficult, but like I said sometimes it has its benefits, people with ADHD lack tonic dopamine in their brain and have more phasic dopamine I believe, phasic dopamine is stuff that makes you feel satisfied and good when small quick things happen like videogames for example or seeing nature like birds or just things that require you to invest little time for the reward at the end, so in turn ADHD can also cause MAJOR motivation issues with anything in day to day life.

I was diagnosed with a rather extreme case of bipolar disorder when I was 16. I'm 27 now and still deal with it, and it hasn't gotten better or worse since I finally settled into my medications at the age of 19. I'm on an antipsychotic, a mood stabilizer, an antidepressant, and anti-anxiety medication as needed. My husband was scared to tears the first time he saw me have a manic episode and considered calling 911 to get me an ambulance when he found me in the bathroom holding a knife. I thought someone was trying to get into my front door. And with my very own two eyes, I saw the door knob jiggling like crazy, but when my husband opened up the door, there was nobody there. And immediately the paranoid delusion that this person already got inside my apartment had manifested, hence hiding in the bathroom with a knife. When I'm manic, I'm up for 3+ days, and usually by day 3, I have full blown auditory and visual hallucinations. Following this is usually a good solid 6 or 7 days of overwhelming depression. This happens on average maybe 3 or 4 times a year.. and that's after I got all my medication right. I had to experiment with different medications to see which was right for me. It can be hell on Earth when I have a manic or depressive episode (the manic episodes are always great the first day and a half, but go on a downward spiral and quick). So, I usually try to hermit myself in my room until it passes. This is difficult when you have a husband, and have a career, and other priorities. Having shared all of this, it really upsets me when people act like they are suffering with some kind of disorder when they are not. I genuinely feel bad for the 1% who self-diagnose because they haven't been able to receive a diagnosis and proper psychiatric treatment for what they are dealing with due to financial restrictions. But again, that's 1% of these TikToks, probably less. What I deal with on a daily basis makes most of this just plain offensive to me. Very few people actually have these illnesses, and it is disgusting that people take advantage of what other people suffer with for clout. Very upsetting.

@pascalweber5071

Жыл бұрын

I hear you sis… Im really proud of you! Keep it up! Depression is hard to deal with. I’m glad I « only » have ADHD.

@iamgenius3784

Жыл бұрын

Dang. A whole essay. I hear you though. My mom's bipolar and mexican, which makes it worse.

@lastefou675

Жыл бұрын

@@iamgenius3784 Lol, when I smoke a good sativa.. I tend to ramble and ramble.

@lastefou675

Жыл бұрын

@@pascalweber5071 @iamgenious3784 I know I said husband, and yes I'm married. But I'm a man as well. So yes, I'm gay and my poor husband had to witness me at my worst sometimes.

@king.themis.1zt

Жыл бұрын

ive had a situation just like this. I also been diagnosed with bipolar and I take mood stab. and anti-d´s. Recently ive been saying "THERES A GUY AT THE DOOR WITH A GUN" and grabbing and throwing chairs and desk almost anything I can find.

Self diagnosis for DID, which has very specific criteria for diagnosis, makes me so frustrated. I studied DID in college and I've seen so many people just talk about unrelated things and tell others "you may have DID if you do this too." I've commented on many videos with these kind of claims to not self diagnose based on things like daydreaming a lot, making a lot of OCs, RP those OCs, and I get attacked or blocked. These kids act like it's this fun quirky thing, or it's cool, but it's not. It's caused by intense long term trauma, it's a defense mechanism to protect the victim. No one should think going through such significant trauma the brain blocks itself off to survive is cool. It's so disrespectful to people who have this disorder and have experienced something so horrible. It's disrespectful to the professionals who have studied it and are actively trying to assist victims with coping and integration of their alters. It's not funny or cute or cool to have DID.

@sarawilkinson6766

4 ай бұрын

It’s also a quite rare disorder.

You know, there's a reason jschlatt banned the dream stans from his chat

@elijahhilb6518

2 жыл бұрын

So he isn't apart of all that bs? Cuz I actually liked his videos

@username-km5vs

2 жыл бұрын

Mcyt is trash

@Rabavilas

2 жыл бұрын

@@username-km5vs dumb children killed Minecraft before and now they might do it again, Sadge

@idksom8928

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rabavilas you do realise Minecraft is a child's game right.

@Rabavilas

2 жыл бұрын

@@idksom8928 And you do realize cod and gta are also adult's games, right? Who ends up playing what game is a different story than who it's meant to be played by

This guy is single handedly saving this generation

@carthings6417

2 жыл бұрын

Their is no fixing this generation

@Patr1ck_Star

2 жыл бұрын

@@carthings6417 it's already gone to far we can't stop it

@gigachad2723

2 жыл бұрын

@@Patr1ck_Star I am adopted

@ANW1173

2 жыл бұрын

You can but many KZreadrs, company these days scared by cancel cultures

@randomguyonthenet5346

2 жыл бұрын

@@ANW1173 You are telling multi-millionaire and multi-billionaire companies ruled by some of the smartest and richest people in the world, are scared by a bunch of kids on social media(kids that are 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16.) that have no knowledge of anything?

The response to “are you diagnosed” killed me. The fact that you don’t want people asking that, while you make videos about how you’re neuro-divergent… it says a lot about you. People aren’t going to believe you if you’re tiptoeing your way around answering that simple question. Don’t make it harder for the people who really do struggle with mental illnesses. It’s already difficult enough. It’s not an “aesthetic” to have depression, or anxiety, or paranoia, or schizophrenia, or anything like that. It’s something that is severely isolating to those who experience these things. Just be a decent human being please? Sorry for that rant, but this is a subject I get passionate about, because I’ve been seeing a lot more people faking disorders and mental illness for petty views on TikTok. On a lighter note, I hope you guys are all doing well, thanks for reading!

Okay I do love the last guy’s content, he was part of the reason I sought my ADHD diagnosis. There are so many little quirks that aren’t talked ab that people struggle with every day and it felt nice to be heard and given the opportunity to get help for it

I feel bad for the people who actually have these disorders. These kids must be stopped, also Merry Christmas everyone!

@andreworbs

2 жыл бұрын

😘

@gracechin3212

2 жыл бұрын

@Idiotz420 😘

@HarshThakur-dj7ez

2 жыл бұрын

@@gracechin3212 😘

@stophacking4696

2 жыл бұрын

@@HarshThakur-dj7ez 😘

@Nolan842

2 жыл бұрын

@@stophacking4696 😘

People like this are the reason real sufferers don’t get the help they need. These guys make others feel they are faking smh

@gijs_de_radijs6994

2 жыл бұрын

it took me 2 months before getting help cause i thought i was just faking it. thats now 1.5 year ago so yeah you right. these people can make me mad af

@inexplicable1906

2 жыл бұрын

agreed, but why did your verification mark disappear? i like your comments tho

@Bruh1

2 жыл бұрын

Get help by posting "LOOK AT HOW DEPRESSED I AM" on the internet? Yeah sure. Get actual help and dont blame people for trolling on fakers. If anything these guys help people with real issues by taking out the fakers. Faking is just mocking those groups that actually suffer.

@skandaiyer1061

2 жыл бұрын

i hate my diagnoses, and these ppl hurt my brain

@suchalooser8784

2 жыл бұрын

yeah, I want to be an advocate for mental illness and shit and share my story, but I dont know if I can deal with the backlash that these fakers are creating

"due to finances" idk those cabinets look more expensive then my phone

5:49 that was suuuch an amazing break down of what DID really is and what it means. I've done some reading here and there out of curiosity. Roughly 4 years ago I dated a boy for about a week and found out he was pretty Obviously pretending to have DID. After breaking up with him I got pretty interested in the concept of it and why people _Really_ get it and also what can lead to someone _pretending_ to have it. But I never really found much of an easy cut and dry breakdown like that. That was awesome.

As someone officially diagnosed with autism since the age of 4 (legit), gotta say, looking at these people who try to normalize self-diagnosis just makes me wince in agony.

@Dalatiidae

2 жыл бұрын

I mean I understand it to an extent - women are less likely to get diagnosed than men and some People can't afford it, but the way they just say "j have autism" its a bit wejrd

@iwillstareintoyoursoul9762

2 жыл бұрын

​@@Dalatiidae, it's not always bad to suspect either, and it definitely can't be blamed if therapy is too expensive. In the long run though, there are many symptoms and signs that all overlap, some may end up taking treatments or actions that leave them off even worse.

@CoolmanAJF

2 жыл бұрын

As a person who also was diagnosed with autism (legit by a doctor) around the age of 12 it astonishes me that people have the audacity to thank that it’s “cute” or “quirky” I’ve been labeled as a outcast all my life, I’ve been bullied I’ve been treated like shit, and these people don’t understand the full full impact of what it’s like, whenever I tell people I have autisim, they think of these vids, they think I’m some dumb kid who doesn’t know what he’s doing it’s not “fun” it’s not “quirky” it’s caused me so much mental health problems it’s unfunny, people are dicks, and the fact that THIS of all things is the first thing people see. It pisses me off

@iwillstareintoyoursoul9762

2 жыл бұрын

@@CoolmanAJF you hit the nail right on the head with that one. These pretenders have screwed us over so many times, actual neurodivergents (like you and me!) are automatically associated with them. The huge irony behind this as well is that in a world where neurodivergency is beginning to be "treasured," they're getting all the praise for something they don't have (and hello hello, that's exactly what they want and wished for!) and they don't have to live with the struggle of being swept aside like the rest of us and reap the benefits of acceptance. But hey, WE speak one word of it, and now WE'RE the common enemy? For shame. It's like they've turned the tables, but they actually didn't! They just happened to pile a second one on us. This ain't just only about the further dangers self-diagnosis poses to one's self and others, it's also about the spotlight that's being taken away from those who truly need it.

@agnes7404

2 жыл бұрын

@@iwillstareintoyoursoul9762 and they’re the same people who make fun of “weird” people. I’ve seen so many self diagnosed kids make fun of horse girls/weebs/furries/etc despite the fact that many people with obsessive interests are neurodivergent. As someone suspected by doctors to have autism, I can say with confidence that I’ve been shamed and labeled an outcast for my interests and I’m constantly questioning what I should say to people on a daily basis.

Asking if you’re diagnosed shouldn’t be disrespectful 😭😭

@sethcook7199

2 жыл бұрын

People ask me I'd I'm diagnosed with tourretts and I gladly respect there question with a joyful yes :)

@magicgiraffes8883

2 жыл бұрын

It’s clearly because they don’t have it and they’re not diagnosed …to be that triggered by a question it’s hilarious

@sethcook7199

2 жыл бұрын

@@magicgiraffes8883 yes I agree

@Rae-qo8lx

2 жыл бұрын

It's like another expression of telling them to go to therapy so that they can get the treatment they deserve..... And they took it offensively.... by saying "none of your business".... 👁️👄👁️???? And it scares me of how people saying nobody cares about them, they're an outcast, they're all alone... only because the attention they get is not specifically like what they've been craving.

@Nominaze

2 жыл бұрын

@@magicgiraffes8883 right 🤣🤣

I have DID and I can tell you, most of people are waaaayyy to stable ( along with their alters). It takes a long time to get in touch with everything going on. Plus in my case, not every alter / headmate will like each other at first or ever. And a good chunk won't want to come out, especially on camera. Some alters know most people won't get it, so it's better to not come out or blend if they do. Good on that one person for calling out the fakers & good on you, man :)

@MYSTERYBLACKROSE

3 ай бұрын

Said the faker. 😂😂😂 if you have DID, you would know that it's a personality, not an alter. It's literally a personality change for a bit. You also won't remember the personality change or activities during that changed time. You DON'T have it. Stop lying.

@bRoKensOul6331

3 ай бұрын

@@MYSTERYBLACKROSE Says the dude who did a quick search on the internet or Tiktok lol Nice try though on trying to making me upset or argue with you. I had a nice giggle from this lol😜

@orncbm

3 ай бұрын

​@@MYSTERYBLACKROSEyou know that actual diagnosed people use the word alter to refer to these personalities right?

@MYSTERYBLACKROSE

3 ай бұрын

@orncbm Yes. But the "alter" doesn't feel shy. It's not a head mate. It's not a friend. The head mates sound like schizophrenia not DID.

@bRoKensOul6331

3 ай бұрын

@@MYSTERYBLACKROSE 🤣 Dude stop lol I'm going die laughing at you. You are not make me upset or wanting to defend myself, so just stop lol It's embarrassing for you 😝

I applaud your patience and understanding, knowing that there are people who aren’t faking it. Even though there are plenty of people faking disorders, especially when it was a “trend”, you still understand that there are people who are not faking and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. You have more patience than I do, sir.

this man is amazing, that fact that he doesnt care if he gets cancelled. respect.

@apollocreed4727

2 жыл бұрын

he a real one

@randeum1863

2 жыл бұрын

@@apollocreed4727 fr

@hispanicboi1133

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@mattpassos5689

2 жыл бұрын

Can’t get canceled by being honest, at least not yet

@int27ok

2 жыл бұрын

bro how many are you gonna say this

OCD has ruined my life and ive struggled it since i was a child. seeing tiktoks where its a quirky cleaning habit is so irritating

@sparrow3100

2 жыл бұрын

That’s all ive understood from OCD. Would you mind telling me what it actually is and how it affects you in ur daily life?

@geko9214

2 жыл бұрын

@@sparrow3100 Its different for everyone. For me, it started small when I was super young with cracking my ankles an incredible amount of times until they bruised (while making that number even). Or going on a walk and panicking, coming back 5 times to see if the door was locked. It got into one common illogical obsession of "what if I am/grow up to be a pedofile." which i know sounds REALLY strange, but this thought is like your brain tricking you into worrying that you are what you hate the most. Keep in mind i was a child.. Theres a lot of other intrusive thoughts i dont like to mention because i feel like i found them so disturbing my brain blocked them out in a way. But basically, i don't remember a part of my childhood when i wasn't obsessed w a certain thought or action. In 7th grade it was really bad, i took 3-10 showers a day and sometimes single 5 hour showers. I had an obsession with counting calories, which eventually manifested into an eating disorder. Also was obsessed with eating healthy, which i associated with physical cleanliness so conversely, whenever i ate junk food i'd take those long showers. Now I'm in highschool, and the idea of feeling clean and now stained clothes bothers me a lot. I still take a lot of showers a day, but not as many at least. Because of ocd, i don't really remember a carefree period of my life, so that's why these videos bother me. It makes me feel like my compulsions are taboo, that if they aren't "productive" they aren't worth speaking about

@sparrow3100

2 жыл бұрын

@@geko9214 damn bro, seems terrible, sorry you have to live with that. I actually am a tinyyy bit similar when it comes to some things you said but nothing like how you are. Like with locking the doors, washing my hands every 3 minutes because I feel like they are dirty if I touch anything, getting extremely angry when I see a messy place. Hope it gets better for you bro.

@intruderzit

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it’s dumb! OCD isn’t about cleaning. At all. I have OCD and my room looks like the aftermath of a tornado.

@boo.hates.spiders

2 жыл бұрын

@@sparrow3100 Yo I have OCD too and have had it since I was a little kid. The following is not attacking you, or others who are curious. I am just trying to respond to your question because I see no harm in people genuinely asking what it's like when all they've ever seen is poor representation in media or jokes. I DO have the contamination obsession but mine is NOTHING like what you see represented. For example, I was never afraid of COVID. I took precautions and I consider it dangerous, but, it was never constantly bounding around in my head unless it was put in front of me. Throwing up, though... oh my god do I think about it constantly! I wash my hands until they bleed, burn my food, eat "safe" foods, and don't trust others to be near whatever I want to eat. I will sometimes be part way through eating and my brain will suddenly say "That's poisoned. You're going to vomit. Pitch it." And I'll try to struggle through eating it, becoming more and more upset until I eventually cave in. I currently weigh 95lbs at 5ft 4in and I am not in a good place. It is very difficult for me to eat. Today I subsided off of chips and cereal because that's the only thing I had courage to try to consume. My room is not tidy, there are dishes piled up in the sink, the trash is absolutely full, and I've been picking laundry out of laundry baskets for two weeks. Just because I have a contamination obsession does not mean I am clean and organized. (I also have ADHD so... that sort of explains my disorganization with everything else.) It means I am hyper focused on one specific thing, in this case avoiding food poisoning and throwing up. I will do anything my obsessions and compulsions tell me to do to avoid that out come. I do try to resist, but the nature of the disorder makes it incredibly difficult despite how self aware and frustrated I am. I have other obsessions as well. OCD is a wide range and it's super different for everyone. As a little girl I would get intrusive thoughts that my mom, who was a first responder, would be run over on the side of the highway or shot or stabbed or any number of scary things. These intrusive thoughts carried graphic images and I couldn't shake them. I would be at school or in my room and these thoughts would take over and I couldn't focus on anything else. Any time her pager sounded I would bound for the front door and wait for her to come running through in her gear. I would repeat over and over and over and over again that I loved her from the time she ran past me until I could no longer see her car on the street. If it was late at night I may stay awake and sit in bed waiting for her to return. Constantly in fear and saying prayers over and over again to try to protect her from dying. OCD is essentially an over active fear response. It is hard, in such a limited forum, to explain what daily life is like. This disorder has negatively impacted my life in multiple ways. It has an impact on work, social life, my health, and when I was in school it impacted my school work. I have a college degree and I can't use it because I'm struggling really hard. I have panic attacks and I devote a lot of time mentally and physically to my disorder. I do therapy and I am much better than I was as a kid, but this disorder waxes and wanes. You can beat certain aspects of it and have other things pop up all of a sudden. I used to be terrified of fires, being robbed, God smiting me, monsters, mirrors, telepaths, and a whole bunch of other dumb shit. I've gotten over most of it because I put in a lot of hard work. Imagine one day a big dog bites you for seemingly no reason. The brain naturally says "Dog scary!" And any time a big dog approaches you, you feel a little nervous/scared because it may bite. You learned that response. OCD takes it to an extreme. Whereas the 'normal' brain can overcome the fear or say "Well it was just that one dog," OCD will make you think it is all dogs of all sizes, that there are dogs lurking around your house or in corners of the basement waiting to bite you, that you can protect yourself from the dogs by putting bars on your windows and praying to God repeatedly for protection. This is kind of an extreme example, but I'm trying to illustrate the point. As a little girl I was scared of pictures of ghosts/monsters/skeletons and I couldn't say those kinds of words out loud because I thought I would evoke them and be cursed.

I was diagnosed with all kinds of crap I just refused to let it stick. I didn't craft an identity around it to feel comfortable and special. Something is fundamentally wrong with these people 🤦🏾‍♀️

@chickenflavoredsoda

5 ай бұрын

Same here dude. And I would never speak about it unless it’s with a very close friend, but even that is almost a no for me. I just feel embarrassed, ashamed and defective because of it. And I would never ever admit out loud that I struggle with mental health either. It doesn’t define who we are or have anything to do with us as people. Those people are so odd and I’d gladly pass on my illness onto them so they can feel what its actually like themselves.

I like how humble you are about the stuff you don't know. Refreshing

Mate, I know 4 people who in the last year have decided they have ADHD and are looking to get diagnosed. One of them to be fair, has struggled to hold a conversation for years along with several other symptoms and it legitimately impacts his life. It’s taken him a while to get the courage to get the test and unsurprisingly was diagnosed with adult ADHD. He’s happy he had answers and is getting on with this life with more support than before. The other 3 are massive attention seekers and mental health chasers who are ‘super compulsive’ so must have ADHD. Unsurprisingly again, none were diagnosed. Why do these people think mental illness is trendy or quirky? Or that they need a label to explain every tiny facet of their person?????

@biji_honi

2 жыл бұрын

Woke culture 'minority' must be 'protected and special'

@liammadden7572

2 жыл бұрын

its very frustrating for someone actually diagnosed

@merlin.mp4

2 жыл бұрын

it's made out to be a special and cool club online so ppl who don't know that adhd sucks and has virtually no pros think it's a quirky trait

@xxkoibitoxx6977

2 жыл бұрын

Having ADHD or ADD or having both it’s not fucking fun dude it really isn’t. Just to have it as a “quirky” or “trendy” shit is fucking awful. Like ok spend one day in my body without suffering

@merlin.mp4

2 жыл бұрын

@@xxkoibitoxx6977 fr also side note add is an outdated diagnosed it's just adhd now

My sister “self diagnosed” herself with like 5 different things. And uses ALL of them as slaps in the face in arguments. (Edit) wow i didn’t realize how many likes that got, thank you all

@averageminecraftenjoyer9419

2 жыл бұрын

Tell ur mother about this and tell your sister she has absolutely no life

@Hoodirony445

2 жыл бұрын

Tell her Santa isn’t real that’ll shut her up if she is young

@wrathsin7066

2 жыл бұрын

One person I know had self diagnosed themself with DID and their friend egged them on and I couldn't help but be revolted, why would you encourage that

@captainobvious8037

2 жыл бұрын

I self diagnosed myself with D&D 🤓 Jk, what's DID?

@wrathsin7066

2 жыл бұрын

@@captainobvious8037 Uh Idk for sure but cause I'm not a professional but basically its similar to being Bipolar but on a bigger scale and not random changes but changes that happen in certain situations so the person who has the illness is able to handle it better

Genuinely thank you for posting this, you probably won’t see this but I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD and I’m currently waiting on my autism assessment. Seeing people on TikTok make these conditions look cute and quirky really throw me off and honestly make me quite ashamed of my other conditions (I don’t really wanna share my other conditions on the internet if you get me) and people making them look “fun” and “silly” honestly disgust me. It really is hard to be taken seriously now due to these people like it’s genuinely so hard and I hope more people either see this video or go outside and touch some grass.

i love u sm! u explain it SO well. it's so unfair omg..

As a person with ADHD/Autism and who had to go through therapy for around 2 years I love Don for bringing this to light!

@thefourdiamonds9705

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@kab5197

2 жыл бұрын

you are a warrior bro, merry christmas

@dthware

2 жыл бұрын

@@kab5197 Thanks bro! Merry Christmas.

@RiDeZonic

2 жыл бұрын

@@dthware cutie

@dthware

2 жыл бұрын

@@RiDeZonic You 2 c:

I hate it when these people on tiktok are like "I have ocd, severe chronic anxiety, chronic depression" and use it for clicks. It actually is a punch in the face to people like us who actually have it and have actually been diagnosed by a medical professional. People who actually suffer depression typically don't go out and brag about it to millions of people online.

@morbidlyxobsessed

2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly, I have all of those and some more. I was first diagnosed 14 years ago at the age of 13. These disorders make my life so much harder, and even made me want to end my life many times when I felt like I had no strength left. My anxiety disorder for example makes some things impossible for me like using public transport for example, sometimes I can do it but most times my anxiety gets so bad that I have severe physical symptoms. I have to be on medication nonstop to just be able to function in day to day life. When my depression is really bad I am not able to prepare myself food or get groceries etc.. I don’t know why people would want to have these disorders. Don’t get me wrong, this is not me whining, I love my life and I have an amazing support system, I learned to life my life as best as possible with my disorders and there are just as many bright times as there are dark times. But I don’t know a single person who is mentally I’ll who makes their whole personality about their illness. Why would you want that? I want the opposite, I don’t want people to only see me as my anxiety, depression, ocd and ptsd. And on top, my disorders remind me constantly about the worst trauma I experienced in my childhood that caused them. Believe me, if any mentally ill person could just choose between a healthy and an unhealthy mind, they would choose healthy any time.

@isabellaspangenberg6550

2 жыл бұрын

Felt the OCS one

@dreamingahopefuldream4439

2 жыл бұрын

I have severe anxiety and depression myself and most of the time I feel absolutely horrible. I have trouble admitting things about myself in fear of being seen as over dramatic or faking it when I have mental breakdowns or self harm. It's not funny or quirky, it's not something kids should go around pretending they have. It's a very serious thing, and people with other disorders suffer every day of their lives because of it.

@glam4663

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think they know what depression is.

The best part of these videos is how heavily they are edited because even they have trouble articulating the absolute madness they are attempting to convey.

People with the self diagnosed did always start getting mad when you ask if they are diagnosed/ have a diagnosis, easiest way to tell if they cappin

It pisses me off when people do this it’s disrespectful to people that ACTUALLY have the disorder. Thank you for talking about this and the other things you talk about you are the real one ☝️

@contractorbob2148

2 жыл бұрын

69 👍 nice

@peytonbristow1152

2 жыл бұрын

agreed and cool name bro

@polarblaze9188

2 жыл бұрын

Some of these people that are self diagnosed have these but i get it when i was 12 if i told my parents i had a mental issue they would tell me i was lying and not even let me try to get diagnosed xD but ik a lot of these kids faking it too.

@NightTimeDay

2 жыл бұрын

Whether DID is real is actually heavily debated in the psychology/neurosci/psychiatric community. There's not much evidence in support of it and a tiny number of psychiatrists/psychologists diagnose the vast majority of DID cases. When a handful of people are handling out diagnoses like candy while it's not even seen in other practices, it starts to look a bit fishy. People have forgotten the satanic panic era of psychology and how easy it is to manipulate some patients into having false memories and false mental illnesses. So to self-disgnose DID is even more offputting than self-diagnosing with something like, say, ADHD.

@polarblaze9188

2 жыл бұрын

@@NightTimeDay If you wan't to know the truth which you might already know a lot of therapists have no idea if DID is even real

As an up and coming Psychologist, this is one of the most disturbing fads I've ever seen... And the worst part is that these people always act in either of 2 ways: -Has ONE (1) characteristic for the disorder and rides that wave until the end saying that's why they have the issue at hand -Checked the DSM-5 and created scenarios explaining every single one of the criteria for a specific disorder just to be able to say they have it That said, if you DO think you might have a lot of symptoms that apply to a mental disorder, please, PLEASE, go see a professional about it as soon as you can to make sure you have that specific issue. Being the devil's advocate for the people in the video, maybe you don't have multiple personalities but you might have a different disorder (personality related or not) because I firmly believe that a person who does this kind of videos is trying to call attention to what's REALLY ailing them!

@rachelnelson3765

2 жыл бұрын

hi uh this is so so fucking stupid but would you have any idea how to bring up this with my psychiatrist...? im already on antidepressants but ive recently been having more and more severe issues with memory, dissociation, thoughts that feel separate from mine, etc and im. SO fucking concerned i might genuinely have c-ptsd or something but the thing is ive found it super hard to talk to my therapist about all the trauma and hell, some of my memories of it are like... walled off if that makes any sense?????? aaaaa so idk if im allowed to just bring it up,,,, or if theyll think im faking, or if i need to be taken off my meds,,,,, or what aaaa im sorry this is stupid im sorry ! ! ! !

@ComfyestofBois

2 жыл бұрын

@@rachelnelson3765 hey! 1st off, not a stupid question! 2nd off, you should really try to get a psychological evaluation from a psychologist instead of a psychiatrist if you can. In my limited experience, psychiatrists are a bit like doctors as in they're trying to treat a symptom instead of dealing with the problem... 3rd off, you should check into some real psychotherapy if the therapist isn't working out. Therapists are good but they usually don't have the same qualifications as a psychologist and those are gonna be able to give you an easier way to talk and deal with your issues. Now onto something important: if you really have trouble dealing with those kinds of things you should talk about it to a psychologist or therapist because the psychiatrist might just change your pills and call it a day. It's important that you try to open up to your therapist/psychologist but that doesn't mean you have to open right when you feel things, it's always a slow process to get better and some days you might only get 0.5% better but going and trying is always gonna be better than hiding it! That said, professionally, psychologists won't (or shouldn't) straight up give you advice. Healing us inherently personal and while psychologists can guide you it's the individual that need to come to their own conclusions regarding their mental health and well being, so if not getting straight advice is bad for you, you should try to talk to your therapist/psychologist about a better way to handle that!

@rachelnelson3765

2 жыл бұрын

aa alright tysm!!

@ComfyestofBois

2 жыл бұрын

From what I can gather, you're asking what to do if you get different answers from psychologists (correct me if I'm wrong) In that case I would suggest: -Try to ask those psychologists why they diagnosed you with that disorder or issue, since they might've misinterpreted a behavior cue or misread a test result (let's not forget they're professionals but they're still human and humans will always make mistakes in a non-exact science!) -Ask for a 3rd evaluation and when you get the results compare the answer and try to verify the inconsistent one (as in: if you did 3 evaluations and have 2 "yes" and 1 "no", ask the psychologist that gave you the "no" for a new evaluation or an explanation for the "no"

@ComfyestofBois

2 жыл бұрын

@@crossrosewitch3742 I'll be assuming you mean "Post-traumatic Stress Disorder" and "Self Harm" (again, correct me if I'm wrong) In my experience there are usually programs for those specific issues in place at most practicing establishments so if you set up a Psychologist appointment and talk about it to your psychologist they'll most likely do their best to either direct you to the program or try to help you deal with your issues themselves! That said, here's a small, very simple and incomplete list of things to do/realize: -1st thing to do is make sure you want to get better, the psychologist isn't going to try to treat your symptom, they're going to help guide you to do that yourself and it's always hard... -2nd thing is to get a psychological evaluation and psychological therapy (or "psychotherapy") sessions, which will help you know your issues and how you might have ways of dealing with them -3rd thing is to follow what the psychologist tells you, no matter how useless or impractical it might seem, sometimes breaking the routine we are on or doing small tasks opens us up to be able to deal with more important issues! -4th and final thing is realizing it's going to take a while... While a psychiatrist might give you pills and call it a day, a psychologist's job takes a much longer time! It's very common for patients with long deep-seated issues to spend years in therapy, but that's perfectly normal, seeing as some people don't make self realization or self-actualize in a fast way! Hope I helped a little, it's quite hard to not just say "go to your psychologist" without knowing where you live, what you to or how much you earn a month but I hope I could point you in a little better direction and be more informed!

As someone that's been professionally diagnosed with adhd, these tiktok ppl faking it are concerning. i can't understand that some people WANT/wanted a disorder. i remember being devestated/angry that i even had a disorder, so these fakers really seem hella weird to me

This video makes a lot of good points and in this video this dude is pretty chill and respectful. Something that needs to be addressed however is that it is possible for alters to be based- BASED - on fictional characters (yes, anime, Dream SMP or otherwise). They’re introjects, (fictives, as opposed to factives, which are based on real people). It’s apart of the dissociative coping mechanism, the same way someone might use books or tv (fictional spaces) as an escape. However the alters will not be identical to the characters are based on. They may share names and/or appearances, but the personalities typically are different depending on the role of the alter. The second thing that needs to be said is that people who do not have mental disorders or professional experience should not make fakeclaiming videos or comments or otherwise. Saying things like “fakers cringe” or “gen z fakes everything” is also harmful and only promotes stigma. Because these people are faking, and uneducated people see videos like this, they may turn and attack people who are not. It also only gives fakers more attention. What these people are doing isn’t right, that’s true. Block these people, and move on. Commenting and resharing what they do only gives them the attention they want. Instead, promote videos such as the ones at 4:23 and 6:45 to help spread education and help others to filter out those seeking attention from their fyps.

i would install tiktok only to tell these people that they're delusional

@nipplecollector7818

2 жыл бұрын

i got a new phone and tiktok was automatically preinstalled on my phone when i got it. We are doomed

@averageminecraftenjoyer9419

2 жыл бұрын

@@nipplecollector7818 RIP

@wrathsin7066

2 жыл бұрын

I have tiktok to watch content creators that talk about animals and events that are happening in my area, as well as DND creators that are showing off their fun little things they do, while its not all bad a good majority is pretty trash

@chillycoldchomper9389

2 жыл бұрын

@@nipplecollector7818 oh dear

@MultiGamer64REAL

2 жыл бұрын

@@nipplecollector7818 oh no

Fun fact about DID is getting diagnosed is the only way altars would fully form. When you find out you have it your brain goes “oh no” and forms them fully into separate personalities. It also is so so so rare in people under 40.

@soydum8784

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr, you're not even supposed to actually know abt your DID, so they fully form AFTER you understand what's happening

@Bunny-ou4rf

2 жыл бұрын

@@soydum8784 yeah! It’s the whole point yet people are out there calling people ableist for pointing out facts.

@popsicIes

2 жыл бұрын

Wait, what do you mean they only form after the doctors diagnose? Were they just dissociating before?

@j.7705

2 жыл бұрын

@@popsicIes DID forms in childhood (from 3-6 or 3-9 years old - its not entirely clear when but 3-6 is more commonly accepted) so there will always have been at least two parts present (the "original" and one that split off of that one). The correct wording for the original comment would be that DID is rarely diagnosed in people under 40 years old. About forming: Alters can form at any age after a child's consciousness splits into at least two parts. However, it has to be when experiencing trauma or under extreme stress related to trauma. They don't just form randomly. The part of the comment about alters in most people with DID not being fully developed until after diagnosis is because, even though they've been there, they serve one purpose - to protect the body. Most parts (aside from the host or any co-hosts) will be one-dimensional as they only form to deal with trauma and won't have much if any time fronting that doesn't have to do with experiencing that trauma. This means they won't have the life experiences that shape those without DID and therefore can't develop a proper personality.

@Bunny-ou4rf

2 жыл бұрын

@@popsicIes it’s kinda like voices, hallucinations, personality changes the person just isn’t fully aware

I appreciate you putting in the educational bit too.

As someone with *diagnosed* adhd, I do find it really irritating and a little offensive when people claim to have it just to be quirky. Adhd is not a cute disorder. It throws me off, gives me anxiety, causes me to severely overthink, my brain never stops and I get so overstimulated its not even funny. Add in acute OCD and sensory processing disorder *also both diagnosed* and I'm often a mess of a person unless I have a STRICT routine and rules for myself. It's not cute. It's not funny. Not quirky. It doesn't make me a “unique individual” worth glorifying. It's stressful and annoying. I don't understand why people want to be victims or have disorders so bad. Not to mention that they will use these things to get out of doing things.

As someone that actually DOES have ACTUAL disabilities, those TikToks are such a slap in the face.

@Noclip.

2 жыл бұрын

TikTok is just retarded in general

@b2s8

2 жыл бұрын

even though i’m diagnosed with adhd i’m starting gaslight myself about having it while watching these kids flaunt def diagnoseses

@Anne-ot8gq

2 жыл бұрын

Its so disrespectful

@Kenaecollins

2 жыл бұрын

@@b2s8 same even though I’m diagnosed. I’m like worrying that I’m faking it even though I have An actual doctor I don’t know how to type “physciatrist” 😭 anywaysss like I even have medicine for ADHD, anxiety, and depression. And these people are ridiculous.

@kinggalindo4012

2 жыл бұрын

@@Noclip. dont say that infront of a disabled person

The girl on 5:00 definately knows what she's talking about, like i've never heard anyone online actually know so much about it. My father was a therapist and from what i know from my father she's spot on

@bzuku9554

2 жыл бұрын

but she said personality instead of identity

@jinxcured

Жыл бұрын

@@bzuku9554 so?

@howellaboutno9500

Жыл бұрын

takes like 5 minutes to google that info lmfao

@Luna_shadow

Жыл бұрын

From what I’ve heard from someone who actually has DID So you have to have like the repeated trauma from before the age of nine because before the age of nine our brain hasn’t fully formed into one identity and the trauma kind of stops that forming into an identity from happening and that’s how the multiple personalities are created I don’t actually have DID though And don’t know much about it but that’s what I’ve heard

@justinhillecamp9083

Жыл бұрын

@@Luna_shadow that would be interesting, I didn't know that but you're probably right. Thank you for sharing!

this guy is funny and respectful at the same time, absolute legend in my humble opinion

i have a bachelors in psychology & before i got my actual diagnosis i looked at the criteria of the dsm v & took assessments online THEN talked to a professional and told them i scored high on these assessments & the symptoms i had & i got diagnosed w borderline personality disorder & bipolar 1 which i actually thought i only had bpd. you can get an idea of what mental disorders you may have due to criteria in the dsm v & by taking assessments however that is still not a diagnosis so you can’t really claim you have the disorder. BUT that is what a professional would do; give assessments & refer to criteria in dsm v.

Bruh, I have autism and ADHD and I do my best to be normal, I had learn to socialize, I couldn't get my medication for years, and it boils my blood to see this people pretending to have stuff that they dont have

@1mphulse

2 жыл бұрын

how are you doing now?

@crewman6141

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing well nowadays.

@umeloid

2 жыл бұрын

gwen gaming 😱

@lilliealicea8002

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. I feel like I'm only just now learning how to socialize normally with my peers as I'm on the brink of graduating college, whereas my peers have had a hang of it since middle school. I'm not ashamed about it but I don't go out of my way to tell people unless they ask or it will be beneficial to the situation. These videos are so odd to me.

@dez-m

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you. I also have Autism and it upsets me to see these people trying to present themselves as "flawed" for some empathy and fame points.

ADHD, OCD, social anxiety and Type 1 bipolar disorder here. If any of those kids want my disorders, they can gladly have them. They are not cool and not fun, they've cost me a good amount. I'm tired of mental illness being romanticized. Normalize, like body positivity (without the worship of obesity), but don't romanticize being unstable. It's stupid.

@trevthekidd

2 жыл бұрын

You've got a nice build, just put some points into charisma because the anxiety gives it a huge nerf, take a few points from perception and spec those into endurance, because with an OCD build, perception only allows you to take more damage. Bipolar characters are hard to counter if their playstyle is sporadic enough, just be sure you pump as many points into strength as possible, so when your rage meter charges up you can do optimal DPS.

@snakecreates1244

2 жыл бұрын

@Trev The Ripper Thanks for the tip, I was going for a social disorder build and this is definitely gonna help my gameplay.

@AfreshCow

2 жыл бұрын

@@trevthekidd pp0

@HomeOnTheM00n

2 жыл бұрын

@@trevthekidd Hi I know this is 2 month late. But I was having a bad day and read this comment and it made me laugh. So thanks

@trevthekidd

2 жыл бұрын

@@HomeOnTheM00n my man.

The last one I've had myself and it can get really annoying, I was a diagnosed when I was in highschool and I often didn't tell anyone because of the sudden switch in people when they here I have autism.

Thank you for respectfully telling these people off❤

I have been clicinally and legally diagnosed with four things. Bipolar unspecified, severe anxiety, BPD and DID. I completely agree with everything stated in 4:20, very respectful on their part, and everything made 100% sense. But I also have to say that, even if it's a disorder that is suppose to be hidden, doesn't mean everyone will hide it. I mean- If you go around introducing yourself as "Hi I'm blah blah and I have all these things" Then it's pretty sus. I only tell someone irl if I have if I really know them... Because, well, it's difficult to believe and I don't really WANT that kind of attention tbh

@luvjaybae7035

2 жыл бұрын

broo my mom and i are bipolar and it sucks. i’ll just never understand why people would want such a horrible disorder that i would do anything to get rid of. i just wish people would understand the impact these medical problems have on people’s everyday smh

@Thudnok

2 жыл бұрын

Your time stamp is funny number

@princess3786

2 жыл бұрын

i tell close friends or when i am making new friends that i think im going to get close to because i live in such a small town that nobody knows what things are. just because i dont want things to get complicated. i explain that i have ocpd and autism and ask them not to question abnormal things because it tends to make me uncomfy. when im in a relationship ive always explained that i have bod and im working on coping healthier but sometimes it might affect who i am or how i present myself. i dont list off all my diagnoses or flaunt them around but sometimes if i think it’s necessary ill explain it.

@k_t530

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah ok....BPD and Bipolar are damn near the exact same thing... the "altered states" are categorized differently and are not diagnosed together....and anxiety is literally a symptom of both those disorders so they won't give you a separate diagnosis of an anxiety disorder. Been in mental facilities 3 separate times in my life. They also wouldn't give a diagnosis of BPD and DID together, you would have one or the other. As BPD is not a complete break or separation of personality and DID is the distinct presence of different personalities, you literally can not have both. Not to mention there is no "legally" diagnosed, either a doctor diagnosed you or not. But ok.

@k_t530

2 жыл бұрын

@@luvjaybae7035 just throwing out there for some thought, as a person who was also diagnosed Bipolar. Theres new research suggesting it's due to a hormonal imbalance caused by nutritional deficiencies. That's is not a mental illness but a medical problem. There's a documentary (granted it's by the scientologists but it's still worth looking at for yourself) called the industry of death, which talks about bipolar. Plus there was a documentary on PBS about bipolar which kinda supports what the IOD documentary states. Which is that it's a made up disorder to group together a bunch of people with unspecified symptoms in order to treat long term.

That girl with the dreads had a great point, there’s a big difference between self diagnosis because you have a diagnosed genetic history of a disorder, have done extensive research on it and display a lot of, if not all the symptoms, that’s not unreasonable to self diagnose if you can’t afford to or can’t get access to a diagnosis, because as she said its hard to get diagnosed as autistic as an adult and a woman, and i myself am in that boat I can’t get access to a diagnosis and what i have done has sown unfair testing because it compares you to a medium-severe autistic school age boy, and as a presumed mild autistic adult woman with a job who learned to make eye contact, I don’t align with those symptoms. But diagnosing yourself because you have like one or two traits you found on TikTok is why self diagnosing has become so laughable. It had merit to it for those who couldn’t get access for whatever reason, and now its every 9-17 year old afab on TikTok

@TheActualJeffery

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I’m in the process of being diagnosed with autism, and autism has a history in my family. I’ve had therapists tell me i most likely have it, and I’m in touch with a psychiatrist currently to diagnose me and possibly help with my issues. I dont know if that still classifies as self diagnosis, but I haven’t been fully clinically diagnosed, and the process I’ve been through for that has been way different then those tiktokers that see one video and go, ‘Oh! I have that!!’ And then mimic it for publicity.

@myfriendcow

Жыл бұрын

I do not agree. The only self diagnosing I MAY see being okey is if it's genetic in your family, perhaps you have two diagnosed siblings and you display the exact same symptoms. But even then, don't go around and say you have it, just stick with "I think I have such and such" There is a very good reason to why it takes such a long time to become a psychiatrist/psychologist. You cannot just go on the internet and do "extensive research" yourself. You do not know the nuances, you cannot differentiate on a "normal behaviour" and a "abnormal behaviour" like an actual psychiatrist/psychologist are able to. And you cannot see if your symptoms could be explained by something else.

@youfellforthebait2555

Жыл бұрын

those are braids

@smolfrenchbean

Жыл бұрын

@@myfriendcow Exactly. For a moment I thought I might be on the autism spectrum. I did a lot of researches that matched with my "symptoms", saw a specialised therapist that said I might have it, and also related to a lot of tiktoks (especially as I'm a woman, the fact that they say it's harder to diagnose pushed me to think if everything didn't match it was because of that). I wanted to be sure tho and managed to get an appointment to get diagnosed (took 2 years, I can't imagine how people who really have it survive with the wait). Turns out I don't have autism at all but a hell lot of trauma and also chronic depression. Many symptoms I explained actually appeared as doing my researches, as if I tried to convince myself. That's called a confirmation bias, you only look at things that confirm your ideas and reject everything else. All of this blabla to say : do not self diagnose. Go seek medical help.

@ChillingDusselgurr

Жыл бұрын

@@myfriendcow This! Even a professional can misdiagnose you, so it's even more likely for someone who's, well, not a professional lol. Also I cannot speak for everyone of course, but knowing from myself and several friends, despite clearly having a certain condition you might not recognise it yourself, because a lot of mental disorders go hand in hand with screwed up perception (past or present) etc. It's a really complicated field with so much research still having to be done. Not to mention the point of a diagnosis is not to just throw a label on you and call it a day, but to help you in a way that's specifically helpful for that certain disorder. I think these kids don't only not know how tough having mental health issues can be, but also how tough it is to work on them to live a better life lol

I’ve also seen a lot of tik toks as well of people faking depression and anxiety trying to make thereself look cool, and as a person who was actually diagnosed with depression and anxiety, that’s shit makes my blood BOIL it pisses me off so much

congrats on 1M bro

It's awful. I've never seen people starving so much and being so desperate for attention. And then they just make excuses and try to pretend nothing happened in the first place.

My father once sent me to a psychologist, because he wanted me to be more social and interact more with people. After a few appointments, I saw a letter on the kitchen counter from my psychologist. It said that I was diagnosed with a personal disorder. I looked the type of personal disorder that I had up, and found out, that trough experiencing a loss of someone special this disorder came. I’m just feeling uncomfortable talking to people, no matter if I don’t know them or know them pretty good. Sometimes, when I think about endless scenarios that could happen, I even begin to cry. But the point is, I know that I have this disorder, like I have a diagnosis for that. But these people don’t have that sometimes and it just upsets me, that they joke about like it’s nothing serious- :/

Tiktokers: I'm self diagnosed Also them: there isn't enough info online for you to know a lot about this disorder

I’ve actually met a few people with dissociative identity disorder and one common thing is they won’t admit it’s a disorder. They acknowledge something is wrong but not that it’s a metaphysical thing.

@xmr.ai-emixc2918

2 жыл бұрын

D.I.D is a 'disorder' in the sense that it makes it hard to function in everyday life, not a 'disoder' as in there's something wrong with your brain that needs fixing. And metaphysical is a interesting way to put it, but I would basically agree. For me it's just how I (we) survived, an extreme coping mechanism that was necessary to combat the extreme trauma we experienced and are still living through. Ultimately I wouldn't change it at all, because the way my brain has formed has pretty much saved my (our) lives from the bulk of the horrors of what we went through, and it continues to help me today (just not, fully functionally, yet).

@tasteslikesailor

2 жыл бұрын

@@xmr.ai-emixc2918 this, exactly. i've gotten more functional as the years have progressed since learning what i have and being able to work on it specifically with a lot of professional help, but it does still impact day-to-day life. even after working on it for nearly 10 years, it can be a pain at times, just like any other disorder.

@Ab-se1zj

Жыл бұрын

@@xmr.ai-emixc2918 keys without the e

I like how you say this stuff calmly, you indeed do not harass any of these people. Great content bro!

@Ryan-gq2ji

2 жыл бұрын

nahhh bro we need to harass and bully these kids

@FM010_

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ryan-gq2ji fr

@orgyinthemorgue

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ryan-gq2ji What purpose will that serve?

@copper6992

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ryan-gq2ji no, but we need to slap them with the truth. There gonna grow up believing lies

@-galaxy-5076

2 жыл бұрын

@@orgyinthemorgue it will teach them that this behavior isn’t okay. Obviously telling them that isn’t gonna do anything. These idiots need to learn the hard way.

I have really bad anxiety, during school it’s terrible but the summer time it goes down a lot and for people faking it just really really want attention from it

Soon at 1mil my guy❤️

Mad respect for this vid bro. As somebody with DIAGNOSED ADHD I can’t tell you how many times I’ve told people and they be like “Oh yeah I probably have it too I can’t focus some of the time.” Makes me so pissed every time.

@altounedited3

5 ай бұрын

My problem is I focus on too much at once

As someone who actually has aspergers, tourettes, adhd, and ocd, these people are disgusting

@quacker7581

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t relate to the Aspergers and Tourettes but I can relate to ocd and I hate when people say they have ocd when they just like every thing to be neat it’s much more than that and it’s hell to live with

@xenosarcadius1198

2 жыл бұрын

@@quacker7581 Yeah, OCD is especially hell when you have seasonal anxiety in the winter and start over obsessing over stuff that you likely don't have to worry about, which is what has been happening to me for about a week.

@nintendofocus4445

2 жыл бұрын

Oh god. Stay strong like you have been living with this bro. I couldn’t imagine what hell you have to live through. These people are disgusting and I hate it in every way. It’s just fucked up.

@xenosarcadius1198

2 жыл бұрын

@@nintendofocus4445 I am, in times like this I turn to God, the light of the mind alone can't burn away all darkness.

@dio_hoestar_4204

2 жыл бұрын

Holy shit man. I got adhd and aspergers and it's hell. Can't imagine ocd and tourettes on top of that. Ur strong af.

MY JAW DROPPED AT THE FIRST TIKTOK’S BACKGROUND MUSIC OMG-

@kqgqmii.

3 ай бұрын

SAME

@altrivv39

3 ай бұрын

@@kqgqmii.OMG INABAKUMORI + GHOST FAN?!?!??!?!?

@kqgqmii.

3 ай бұрын

@@altrivv39 HIIIII :3

As someone who used to self diagnose ( I ended up being diagnosed with Münchausen syndrome later down the track, which explains everything) it can be damaging for both sides. Those who are around u and yourself as a lot of these people (including me) will see one symptom. Read upon it and then fall down a rabbit hole of “I have this and this and this” and then will placebo affect their brain into thinking it’s real until there’s no going back. I hope these people get the professional help they need in the end.

I am diagnosed with what's called "level 1/high functioning" autism, or what used to be known as Aspergers Syndrome. Now, I don't like functioning labels, but I'm using them to provide context. I think that self diagnosing with autism can be legitimate. I did it myself, because I was diagnosed later in life. Things I did in childhood were brushed aside as "quirks" and "shyness" but when I wasn't able to just grow out of it, some of my behaviors became concerning. As such, I did my own research, and told my mom I thought I was autistic. That led to her scheduling an assessment which confirmed that I was indeed autistic. However, I think in that case, it's different because I used it as a tool to receive a professional diagnosis rather than actually attempting to diagnose myself. People do not understand how frustrating life on the spectrum can really be. It's not just special interests and stimming, it's having panic attacks when small changes happen. Being viewed as stupid or infantilized by my peers. Never knowing how others feel about me because I can't read tone or expression. Fits of anger that result in me punching or hitting myself unwillingly. Constantly analyzing past conversations to make sure I didn't break some unspoken social rule I'd never heard of. Forgetting to sleep, eat, or drink because I'm too busy getting lost in a special interest. Wanting to scream because my clothes are too itchy, my skin is too tight, I can hear the lights flickering, and the air is thick (sensory overload). I don't doubt many people do have undiagnosed autism, but being a little socially awkward and liking a KZreadr is not diagnostic criteria. Autism is so much more than that. BEING autistic is so much more than that. And frankly it's an insult to see people think they're autistic because they're A Little Quirky!

@thenugget3671

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, that must suck. Psychology interests me and may i ask, how is it when you cant recognize emotions, dont know if that question is reasonable, if its telling a blind person what color is. But thanks if you decide to do anything

@thenugget3671

2 жыл бұрын

@Julee nah dude its perfectly fine, thanks too

@theytookmyballs317

2 жыл бұрын

@Ryan I don’t feel offended by this at all! I didn’t mean to imply that what I have been through is the standard, I just feel like people neglect the intricacies of autism and its frequent comorbidities. For me, even if autism isn’t the “cause” of something, it’s still heavily tied in, such as with the anger and anxiety. And with things like forgetting to eat, not knowing how people feel- it’s not that I think only autistic people experience this, I just notice it being amplified by my autism. In my case especially, I live in a fairly uneducated area and face difficulties with school because of it. People make fun of autistic kids indirectly or not. As for the sensory stuff, I do struggle intensely with any stimuli that I deem “too much” which can include things like your examples of sunlight and animal noises. I typically spend most of my day wearing ear coverings and looking down to avoid as much input as possible without entirely removing my ability to hear or see. I think overall I might have generalized my comment a lot, but my main point was that autism is incredibly intricate and debilitating for me and many others, and seeing people view it as more of a quirky trait someone can choose is quite agitating. I apologize if my reply is scattered at all, I’ve just gotten home and I’m a little tired. Thank you for pointing out errors without invalidating me, I always appreciate discussion and learning new things

@theytookmyballs317

2 жыл бұрын

@Ryan I’ve definitely always struggled with sensory problems, it just got worse over time as I gained life experience and began to get pressure to do well in middle school, high school, etc. As a child I never played pretend or spoke with other people. If I played at all, which was very rare, it was by myself. I didn’t like other kids because they were too loud, not necessarily because I was scared, but because I found it annoying. I didn’t even like recess because I didn’t want to be in the sun or listen to the other kids play. My mom tells me she only saw me truly comfortable either alone or with only her, drawing by myself in a quiet, dark room. My memory of my childhood is limited, but my relatives always noted me as distant and “on my own wavelength” so to speak. I think that for me, my sensory issues nowadays are so difficult because my anxiety is significantly worse. When I’m calm overall, I’ll still get overstimulated easily by things others wouldn’t notice, but I can deal with it for a lot longer and tolerate it a lot better (for example, rather than yelling and getting angry, I’ll ask “may I please step out and calm down” or something similar). I think that the severity of my reactions to sensory stimuli is heavily influenced by my anxiety, but the distress it can cause is only moderately impacted. I get frustrated at simple things like the clock ticking because it’s too loud, but if otherwise I’m alright, I can typically contain my discomfort until I’m able to get away from the source of it.

@Wallflower905

2 жыл бұрын

I am also autistic and this hit the nail on the head, 100% agree with you

I remember feeling SOOOO devastated when I was diagnosed with ADHD. Like I knew 0 people who had it and there was still stigma around mental disorders, so I felt like a “skewed” person for not being able to “exist right”. I can’t believe these kids are faking theirs 😭😭😭 for what reason?

@EDP_445.

Жыл бұрын

Yeah its messed up. All they want is attention

@erenjaeger6125

Жыл бұрын

I constantly get told that I'm just being overdramatic and "milking" my GAD and OCD. I get so much shit for it and it sucks 🗿

@w_h_y1112

5 ай бұрын

Literally. I was isolated and mistreated for so long (rly messed me up socially even more) bc my brain dont work like other peoples.

My guy rlly be spittin facts every second

Thank you for constantly reminding me of how grateful I am that I was never allowed on TikTok

People be studying for multiple years in psychology and out there, there is theses kids who self diagnosed themselves and think they are right. Like it’s so hard to become a psychologist, a therapist or a doctor and they are here to help theses peoples. It’s exhausting to see theses kids who normalized or romanticized disorders who can kill someone. We need more people like you who talk about this issue

@williammed8469

2 жыл бұрын

Nursing student here: Its hard to see people pretending to have disaccociative or schizoaffective disorders (as many do in Tiktok). In the former disorder's case, they are capitalizing on a condition often developed when people experience unthinkable traumas. In the later disorder's case, you may not only have unseen stimuli but also affective and mood alterations. For instance in the case of auditory hallucinations, it can be scary as often the voices say very derogatory/mean things about you or others. Furthermore, the medication regimens needed to achieve control are often nothing to scoff at and can lead to difficult life decisions. At the end of the day, people with mental illnesses are still people, faking disorders for attention does a disservice to reversing stigmatization towards them.

Bro I feel bad for people who actually have disorders and have to deal with this crap.

ngl as someone who actually has autism that last tiktok was pretty accurate (the “systematic ableism” thing was cringe) I stg people try and baby me as if i dont know how to do things myself

0:39 love this part of the song [Candel Queen]

Glad to see Don Stever doing the lords work by calling these people out.

@lnk3d6

2 жыл бұрын

he's no calling these peoples out, he reacting to them. The only person that is doing good work is the person that made the complations

@gamergrater6417

2 жыл бұрын

@@lnk3d6 so many grammar mistakes I think I’m gonna start having a seizure

8:06 HAHA I LOVE THAT RESPONSE “Thas cheating” could not have asked for a better response I chuckled irl

90% of kids on tiktok whining about “abuse” and “trauma” have genuinely never endured real abuse or trauma

Casual Don Stever W

Some of these people do it to say slurs, even worse than just wanting attention

@amon2498

2 жыл бұрын

Let’s make people with Tourettes say slurs

@sethcook7199

2 жыл бұрын

Tourretts person right here ✋🏻

@vertoholic

2 жыл бұрын

what slurs? touretta? touretter?

@hyperspeedcrab

2 жыл бұрын

@@vertoholic no, being able to say retard

@Zampirezz

2 жыл бұрын

Naw at this point just say the damn slur instead of making up these disorder

When I used to have tiktok I saw a video that was like “if you can blink to the beat of this song you have adhd” and so many of the comments where like “this explains a lot no wonder I have so much anxiety”. It actually annoyed me so much cuz I wish adhd was only anxiety. People be believing everything they see on the internet. Also ADHD is nothing compared to turrets and DID so I can’t imagine how bad and annoying for someone who actually has it.

@nipplecollector7818

2 жыл бұрын

i hate those videos of people just staring at their phone, why are you posting this what is the point, where is the entertainment

Because of these people I’m scared to tell people I self diagnose autism. There’s a difference between *those* people who watch 2 mildly relatable TikToks and people like me, who have done over a year of research, have autistic friends that agree that they’re autistic, are basically textbook autism, and are planning on getting professionally diagnosed in the future. Please for gods sake, I hope more people would recognize that difference.

i have a diagnosed tic disorder and im sick and tired of being accused of faking for attention when im literally crying in pain from literally jolting my head forward over and over again

I like how he just doesn't roast the hell out of them but instead just explains why they're stupid in a calm way

I like how don addresses issues but in a very respectful way

i have diagnosed ODD (anxiety and depression too) AND LET ME TELL YOU HOW GLAD I AM THAT NOBODY FAKES ODD

You make my day

7:19 that whump was *powerful*

@plushiestory

4 ай бұрын

STAHP IT

Dude the “us” guy or girl made me think she actually had friends for a second. Then I realize she is probably using us as a pronoun for herself or whatever

@nipplecollector7818

2 жыл бұрын

i thought it was talking about "us" as in "us mentally ill people"

@someguyontheinternet2544

2 жыл бұрын

I heard usually when you have DID you refer to yourself as “us” to include you and your other personalities or “alters”

@Megaman54327

2 жыл бұрын

@@someguyontheinternet2544 not true i watched mr robot dude

@barneycalhoun6007

2 жыл бұрын

you said guy first ur sexist

@Megaman54327

2 жыл бұрын

@@barneycalhoun6007I have nothing against sex, it’s great.

Are you diagnosed....Young Peter Griffiin gets upset😂

It’s like if you have all the symptoms for cancer, you don’t just go “I have cancer” and go around like that without talking to a doctor. It’s the same with mental conditions…

@Wetbread127

2 жыл бұрын

I HaVE A RuNNy nOsE sO I HaVe CAncEr

It honestly makes me sick to see how many fans (or Stans) of the dsmp are faking disorders. The community already gets a lot of shit for just enjoying the content the KZreadrs put out and then you have “fans” faking disorders that just makes everything a lot worse for the non-toxic part of the community.

@emiliz2071

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. Im somewhat a part of the fandom (mostly watch sbi and tubbo), though I dont claim majority of the people in it. Doing things like this isn't right. Ever. If you're attention deprived, there are other ways to get what you're lacking

@Burninafireplace

2 жыл бұрын

@@emiliz2071 Truth

@miss.l.1563

2 жыл бұрын

What is dsmps? I'm a mum in her 30's to 2 teens and want to keep up with what's going on these days. I've heard this before dream thing before but have no clue!! Lol.

@SwizzleDrizzl

2 жыл бұрын

@@miss.l.1563 Dream SMP or DSMP is 'Dream Survival Multiplayer' It is a server (multiplayer space) on a game called Minecraft that is story based, and run by a guy named Dream. It's pretty popular right now! Unfortunately a lot of the fans of it aren't great people lol. - a non-toxic fan of the dsmp

@katelaurence2250

2 жыл бұрын

For real, I said I was watching Quackity and got called a dream Stan and got told that they expected better from me 😒like bro I don’t go around saying that I have a fictive of dream or saying that I’ll never love anybody but dream 🤦‍♀️

As someone who is diagnosed with ocd by A DOCTOR it bugs me that the pillow on your chair is uneven 😅

@lopoluuy

2 жыл бұрын

🤡

@txtmomentofalwaysness

2 жыл бұрын

🤡

@Pwedictable

2 жыл бұрын

👁

@johnnybravosfeetfetish8319

2 жыл бұрын

Y'all is foul for those emojis

@meatloaf_gaming1016

2 жыл бұрын

@@johnnybravosfeetfetish8319 you foul just for your username is

As a man majoring in psychology this is honestly just the fact that these kids are lacking/wanting attention and therefore they lie and change themselves to where they can get attention on social media for said attention.

Seeing Don being serious is crazy

The part that infuriates me is when these people decide they have did without being diagnosed. There is a volatile difference between having personalities you use around friends, family, the internet, etc and actually having it. it has ruined parts of my life while at the same time helping. I was diagnosed. It is NOT something to flaunt. And yeah, sure, maybe youve gone through hell in life. The video at 4:20 was the most honest one i've seen, so, many thanks to that. But all these wads flaunting "oh *we* have blah blah blah" makes absolutely no sense. Why the HELL would that even happen? I'm upset by these tiktoks. Self diagnosis is NOT how this is done. Listen to your therapist. Dont listen to idiots in the comment section.

@sweetcinnamonpnchkin

2 жыл бұрын

How do you cope with the mental blanks you have? It’s so rare to have that I can’t find anyone to ask. (Not saying I have it-cause I don’t).

@TheLocalman2012

2 жыл бұрын

@@sweetcinnamonpnchkin I havent really found a way to cope with it with all I dont remember. It sucks because I've lost relationships because of it and there is nothing I can do to fix/change them. Hell I've even lost jobs. The best I can do is surround myself with people and live a life that doesnt cause where I dont feel threatened, hopeless, or lonely.

it brings major disrespect to people who actually have these disorders when they actually have to live with them while everyone on tiktok "has them" but doesn't have to feel the side effects 24/7

It’s funny how every single person who be faking DID lives in a nice suburban house yet still every single one doesn’t have access to a therapisy

As someone who actually has an autism diagnosis, I hate when people self diagnose them selves. I understand that you may struggle to get the diagnosis due to many reasons like financial issues and wait lists but don’t just diagnose yourself! I had to wait for like 5 years to get diagnosed but during that time period, I never once said I had it until I was diagnosed. If anyone asked I would just say I might be or I’m in the process of getting diagnosed. Cuz what if you’re not? You’ve then just lied and lived a lie.