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@doodlethenoodle8635

2 жыл бұрын

bet

@gerwinona6639

2 жыл бұрын

Hiii

@AW.7475

2 жыл бұрын

bet

@stoner963

2 жыл бұрын

Yooo don

@pythrone6695

2 жыл бұрын

Bet bro

99.9% of these are basically: "I'm self aware of my disorder and I have complete control of it... but it's real"

@biggesthaterontheinternet

2 жыл бұрын

You forgot to add "Im undiagnosed"

@Qwerka

2 жыл бұрын

@@biggesthaterontheinternet lmfao

@ArisenMind

2 жыл бұрын

Bro these people dont have a disorder.... This is DEFINITELY a north american young adult thing.

@Qwerka

2 жыл бұрын

@@ArisenMind Bro that guy doesn't actually says that really... This is DEFINITELY a human joke.

@ArisenMind

2 жыл бұрын

@@Qwerka Ummmm...yeah, right on.

beans is a perfect example of what tourretes actually is, its not having a seizure every 2 seconds

@Gipwx

Жыл бұрын

No shit

@BlowOnMyMagicFlute

Жыл бұрын

First time ever simping for a woman online, wish me luck

@imsmashingurgrandma

Жыл бұрын

Maybe because she actually has tourettes??

@Carol-dv9ct

Жыл бұрын

@@imsmashingurgrandma no shit, I thought she was constipated but thanks for clearing that up.

@imsmashingurgrandma

Жыл бұрын

@@Carol-dv9ct Shut up Carol nobody asked for your opinion

As someone whose grown up around family with serious cases of genuine mental illnesses including schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and panic disorders, and even experiencing some of those myself, It hurts me to no end seeing people use mental conditions to look a certain way for the internet. It’s insane when something that has ruined your entire childhood and negatively influenced how you perceive thoughts and behave is treated like an aesthetic. Despicable.

@convue4112

Жыл бұрын

My mother has bipolar disorder. She has rapid mood swings, they are mostly negative. She is always tired, Lost interest in doing things She feels worthless She wants to kill herself, She also wakes up early, but i dont know if that has anything to do with it. Due to her mostly negative mood swings, she has made me depressed, anxious, and suicidal. But then again i dont think much about her fat shaming me, or saying I’m useless. Because she is my mother and i love her.

@WickedQueenKenz6

Жыл бұрын

Mental illnesses running in da fam Gang Gang. 😩✌🏼. Dab me up homie 🤜🏼🤛🏼🫱🏼🫲🏼🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 🫂. Panic Disorder that’s whats up!

@MBJK_baby

Жыл бұрын

me too. I have tons of mental issues but not a lot of psychologists take minors seriously when they do have disorders and so I've gotten to scared to bring up so much with them just because I don't want to be seen as someone who fakes disorders for attention. I'm glad I have anxiety and adhd diagnosis' but some days I question the severity especially because I'm scared to leave my house (possible agoraphobia) and other symptoms from other disorders as well and because of my generation playing around with mental illness like it's cool most people can't get the help we need because random hoes be acting a fool like they quirky and not like other girls smh

@sleepysundew9544

Жыл бұрын

Same here I got diagnosed by multiple therapist with chronic depression and a panic disorder 🤷‍♀️ makes me really frustrated when people pretend on tiktok. Had to delete it for my own well being because it is upsetting to see something that controls you so much be faked for attention. Makes you feel sick, stupid, and made fun of.

@MBJK_baby

Жыл бұрын

@@sleepysundew9544 amen

*At this point, Iʼm convinced that Gen Z TikTokers* have a clout disorder because theyʼre just doing too much.

@SaulTeeNutz

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think it should’ve taken you this long to be convinced lmao.

@Cosmicmorales

2 жыл бұрын

They’ve BEEN had that lol.

@ChalkyMonkey6

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the worst of all disorders

@Nasim.Dreams

2 жыл бұрын

This kinda reminds me of a disorder called Histrionic Personality Disorder.

@blqkereina

2 жыл бұрын

They actually do have a mental illness

What’s always funny to me with the DID ones is how they portray dissociating. I don’t have DID but I do dissociate due to trauma. It’s hard to describe. I get really numb, really apathetic, and kinda hear my own thoughts? Like I feel like I’m reading my thoughts and actions in a book. It’s really dangerous as you kinda lose a grip on reality. Nothing seems real so if you’re driving, that can be really confusing. Dissociation is not bulging eyes and collapsing on a desk.

@kingoverlorder2094

2 жыл бұрын

i dont know if this is offensive but that sucks and the kid who put his head down on the desk made me laugh because it seemed so unreal plus the commentary so srry bout our generation man

@raisonforbeing

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingoverlorder2094 It’s not offensive at all! I find it really funny myself. My generation is a mess

@rae2622

2 жыл бұрын

I don't have DID either but I do dissociate--my neurologist said it's common with people who have the same movement disorder I do as a way to detach themselves from the pain. And for real I'm glad someone pointed this out. I've had conversations with my partner or just lost half a day of work. Like there are real consequences to it and it's not like a few seconds of putting your head down on a table or making a stupid face. I don't know much about real DID though or how switches are supposed to look like, but whatever those kids are doing it's not disassociating. They just look dumb...

@VargXField

2 жыл бұрын

I think if they want to imitate DID better (which I don’t agree with don’t quote me on this) they should play Fallout New Vegas Dead Money. There’s a character with DID, a nightkin named God who has an alter named Dog and I think that character really does a good job at representing what people with DID actually go through. It isn’t fun like this people put it out as, it’s very difficult to deal with and many people with the disorder are seen as crazy for their disorder which is sad.

@Miss_Akashiya

2 жыл бұрын

yeah right ? If I dissociated and told someone because I am also feeling weird and feel like I look weird which I dont want obv. ... they would probably tell me I look normal. Maybe more quite than usual, But you just sit there and do nothing you just see everything for me its like watching my life as a movie im not in it not part of it just watching feels kinda like in a dream.. idk like trippin like being high without the fun high part. But not the shit these people are acting out

Dude, Beans is so down-to-earth and genuine. She seems like a great person that you’d be priveledged to be friends with irl. Also, massive respect to Don for not laughing at her compulsive vulgarities, knowing she cannot control it. It show's that he's very mature and respectful, and I really appreciated it.

@kemoldoinc9845

2 жыл бұрын

And she's funny as hell

@hungryasian8631

2 жыл бұрын

Beans

@channingtaintum

2 жыл бұрын

@@hungryasian8631 Beans

@joefamliyguy1551

2 жыл бұрын

I have tourettes and so does my brother, u kinda just get used to it once u know someone long enough

@maebeline2496

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wait I thought she was joking around with that lol

I have a friend who legit had DID but wasn't diagnosed until we got older. We just always wondered why there were days she wasn't herself, you know? And there were too many times when she had "memory gaps" and she couldn't remember what she did or who she met etc. We just thought it was from all the stress from school and her extracurriculars. We were already in college when she was diagnosed. I'm glad people were generally kind to her and were patient with her. Definitely these fakers are nothing like how my friend was. She didn't know about her "other personalities"...

@ladyrainicorn007

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! You dont make alters for yourself the brain does it for you because of trauma, and you wont know when it changes mos tof the time :/

@RosieBrownie

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being such an understanding friend!!😊👏🏼 I didn't know about my alters either, and I always go through periods of not thinking this whole thing is real. Like Im faking it.

@endziovods8966

Жыл бұрын

please use the term alters, as personalities is an outdated term!

@RosieBrownie

Жыл бұрын

@@endziovods8966 They wrote "other personalitites" with quotations

@LetUsNotForget1

Жыл бұрын

That's how read DID is, and sometimes it's scary AF because you think you're losing your mind with those memory gaps, and people tell you "Oh look who is finally back to themselves" m and you have no clue what they are tlaking about.

I do have brain damage, and when beans introduced herself I laughed so hard 🤣

@beansontoasti316

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry 😭

@remirusaiki

Жыл бұрын

@@beansontoasti316 BEANS THEMSELF!!!

@violetbussy-xd4ip

Жыл бұрын

Nobody cares loset

@Myjourneywmeadow

Жыл бұрын

@@violetbussy-xd4ip I’m a loser? At least make sure to spell it correct before trying to diss someone. You care enough to leave a comment. So thank you :)

@Myjourneywmeadow

Жыл бұрын

@@beansontoasti316 I just saw this! Ommgggg! Thank you for making me laugh during this!

Seeing Beans ticking when you guys are recording makes me kinda sad, she is just sitting there struggling while watching people are faking it for views/clout, I wish you the best Beans

@thestormkage

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah having both movement and vocal tics together is crazy bruh and seeing someone with it is crazy bc of how rare it is

@user-yi7td2sq9b

2 жыл бұрын

People with tourettes aren't struggling lmao

@thestormkage

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-yi7td2sq9b don’t say shit like that when you don’t have it clown

@user-yi7td2sq9b

2 жыл бұрын

@@thestormkage I do have it clown. And unlike you and every other 12 year old girl on the internet, I didn't self diagnose myself. And literally nobody with tourettes suffers. We barely even realize we have it. So sit down and be quiet kid

@isaacf1439

2 жыл бұрын

@ m damn 😳

I have disorder called nothing It's a disorder where I have no problems please send prayers It's gotten really hard to live with

@isaacf1439

2 жыл бұрын

Omg 🙏praying for you 🙏🙏

@watcherknight5938

2 жыл бұрын

@@isaacf1439 thanks man

@theowl5785

2 жыл бұрын

Keep courage man, you'll get through this🤝🙏

@user-bs3wg2kf2t

2 жыл бұрын

no idea how you're still alive... sending prayers your way! 🙏🙏

@epicfailzification

2 жыл бұрын

Thoughts and prayers

One thing that I always find annoying? "Oh my gosh! I am SOOOO OCD!" Specifically in the context of cleanliness. While being overly/obsessively tidy and clean can be a symptom of OCD, it is not the sole thing that makes you OCD. I am diagnosed with OCD because I have rituals (repetitive habits and routines) that must be done a certain way or I literally throw a tantrum. Another thing is intrusive thoughts that are not helped by my ADHD. It makes falling asleep hard. I don't like people messing with my space without permission. I find myself counting things for no reason at all. There is so much more to OCD than just "everything must be perfect!"

@SunV0lt09

Жыл бұрын

I agree with this because my cousin as ADHD and OCD and he is not like the stereotypes of OCD

@strawbweery

Жыл бұрын

same diagnosed ocd and adhd too and i’m super messy people don’t understand ocd has many different types like i have to repeat things over and over and check things over and over and it takes up like so much of my day it’s annoying

@user-id3my6cr1r

Жыл бұрын

I don't have OCD but when people say that I cringe.

@OncelerKidsAreCringe

Жыл бұрын

You preform rituals??!!!!😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

@delilahmaner4222

Жыл бұрын

i used to have a roommate (not diagnosed) who claimed she had OCD and that’s why she could never pick up after herself. the broom “makes her skin feel weird” and shoveling “hurts her arms too much”. but before the ocd she claimed she was autistic, and before that adhd(never diagnosed either). she freaked when i used her washcloth (accident) and yelled at me that her ocd is the reason she’s treating me like such. i’ve lived with people actually diagnosed with ocd, and none of them acted like that. but shows people like her really exist😭

It's so nice seeing younger people (such as Don and Beans) not falling into the trap of utter confusion about who they are. It's so good to see common sense isn't totally dead.

This man is single handedly trying to save the unsaveable generation and I’m all for it.

@Iamthelaw.

2 жыл бұрын

Ong

@MisfitRiots

2 жыл бұрын

oH mY GOd tHiS iS SoOoOO OfFEnSIVe! DELETE THIS OR MY 50 ALTERS WILL COME AFTER YOU

@zemzunina7089

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate his effort but this world is too far into sht for us to drag it out and clean it off

@Thomas-os6xn

2 жыл бұрын

Same -Gen Z

@Cosmicmorales

2 жыл бұрын

@ ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤae . This aged well...

As someone who was actually diagnosed with high functioning autism when I see people having a "breakdown" and filming themselves it makes me very very skeptical because personally when i have a breakdown and when other people I know have a breakdown its almost fully impossible to pull out ur phone set up the right angle and hit record. when ur having a breakdown u dont control what you want to do. you just phsyically break down.

@fawnsflowers

2 жыл бұрын

Omg exactly ! I get so panicked that I can barely breathe or think properly, the last thing on my mind is to record it ??

@parz2625

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@drock9009

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. I have seen it once. I know some people will record themselves to bring awareness to it but now you do not know.

@elizabethsmith7224

2 жыл бұрын

Same I'd never want anyone to see my panic attacks.

@LittleDeamon0358

2 жыл бұрын

Same! It disgusts me to even imagine someone seeing me break.

A while back ago I broke up with my ex, he had never ever said anything about having DID nor did he ever shown any signs of it either. Like maybe 2 weeks after our break up he suddenly told me he had DID and that one of his "alters" was in love with me. So yeah he definitely faked that one. I hate people who self diagnose or fake disorders/illnesses:/

As someone with Tourette’s (diagnosed since I was 4) these people have really ruined so many things for me, I’ve been accused of faking. It’s really fucked up that they want to take something that’s so hard to have.

All I'm saying is, it's absurd to see people faking having a disorder like they want to have it. Where as I'm out here praying I don't find out I have any 💀. 1.8k likes??? Still don't have any disorders (:

@nonameforprivacyreasons5158

2 жыл бұрын

right why do people wanna be afflicted with a condition..? they should be grateful they aint have one lmao 💀

@iatebambi

2 жыл бұрын

I got accused of faking 💀 like damn I didn’t ask for this

@nonameforprivacyreasons5158

2 жыл бұрын

@@iatebambi see this what im sayin 💀 these fakes messin it up for people who actually HAVE the disorders smh

@iatebambi

2 жыл бұрын

@@nonameforprivacyreasons5158 ong

@SixEn8

2 жыл бұрын

Depressed man reincarnated... now its a sad man

I'm glad Don and Beans are out here educatin' instead of hatin'.

@hampter8166

2 жыл бұрын

Hatin on these idiots is good

@doagii2649

2 жыл бұрын

@@hampter8166 educating is better tbh

@Bruh.151

2 жыл бұрын

@@hampter8166 I agree

@hampter8166

2 жыл бұрын

@@doagii2649 nope don is just being soft for this Video, you’re giving these people exactly what they want, sympathy and attention, they are ruining it for people who actually suffer and that’s terrible, honestly they could get eternal torture and I wouldn’t care at all

@3edka

2 жыл бұрын

@@hampter8166 its better to educate than hate on something really serious like this

10:50 Heartbreaking moment :(

As a 13 year old saying this, this generation is like this: A car is speeding, one tire comes off, because of one tire coming off the whole car can be in danger, one person can ruin everyone

10:24 "i'm actually a self diagnosed doctor" TOOK ME OUTTT 💀💀

@adyyyy

Жыл бұрын

💀💀

@markiyahouston7159

Жыл бұрын

when beans was like “i just noticed them i drew them on today”

@ThePersonWhoAsked69420

Жыл бұрын

“You have this disorder called ligma”

I think the problem with this class of zoomers is they don't realize it's fine to just be perfectly "normal" and still have challenges in life. You're already legitimate bb, and I see your grind. You don't need to have an excuse or explanation in order to have struggles. Struggles are part of life.

@zelda8031

2 жыл бұрын

this!!

@itsdefinitelyjess3447

2 жыл бұрын

What a way to word it omfg.

@epic7224

2 жыл бұрын

Nobody is telling them that being uncomfortable in your own body is normal too. It doesn't mean you're trans. Gender dysphoria is very real but it's more than just being uncomfy from puberty or lack of self confidence. But they see the positive validations ppl get when they change their pronouns so now it's a trend.

@raynec1268

2 жыл бұрын

@@epic7224 I agree for the most part but I wouldn't specify to just changing pronouns. In general i think its the validation of putting a label on you explaining the reason you experience(d) certain things. And a way to be part of a community/gain support/etc. But in reality people are starting to forget that just because you're experiencing a symptom of something or experiencing a certain thought, doesn't mean you should desperately try to slap a label on it immeditely..like some of these people gotta just take a break from the internet or somethin. The overexposure of information is getting to be too much for some. Just my opinion

@epic7224

2 жыл бұрын

@@raynec1268 I also agree with that

due to people on social media, many people have the idea that dissociating = zoning out. it’s messed up and i’m honestly afraid of what the future will be like

@Monicaerikarita

5 ай бұрын

You don’t even have to have a disorder to have an episode of dissociation. A lot of people may be in a situation where they mentally remove themselves to get through it, without evening knowing it. I have, and it was a temporary, situational event.

i love beans, absolutely hilariously intelligent and beautiful. I love yalls videos together, the combo always has me laughing

disorder: exists gen z tiktoker: is this an ✨aesthetic✨?

@PrescottSF

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr 😞

@desk1185

2 жыл бұрын

They feel like they're not getting enough attention during their puberty, so all this disgusting crap are their attempts

@elizabethsmith7224

2 жыл бұрын

Can we go back to things like romantic academia, and cyberpunk??

@smsmsmsmsmsm

2 жыл бұрын

😭 literally… it makes me mad, it’s tragic

@lilywest9552

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think this just a gen z thing. These sort of things. Like romaticisation of mental illnesses have been happening since MySpace and before that

I have ADHD (I was diagnosed by a real doctor) and to see people faking it on tiktok makes me sick to my stomach. Thank you Don, for trying to save this horrid generation.

@GBlockbreaker

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh why would someone even pretend to have adhd, it doesn't even make you any different from others, I've got diagnosed with it during elementary school and growing up I've never noticed a difference between me and other people, by now i can recognize a handful but nothing that would impact day to day life or get picked up by others

@goodgaminggirl_2861

2 жыл бұрын

Dude same it sucks my life sucks cuz of it

@mackittymac7269

2 жыл бұрын

Having ADHD isn’t as crazy as people on tik tok make it to be. I have ADHD and it’s not as crazy as people make it out to be.

@mackittymac7269

2 жыл бұрын

@luna_was_found Yes I get what you mean. But I’m so tired of these 6 year old on tiktok acting like ADHD is the same thing as cancer and is going to be the death of them.

@lajbear7419

2 жыл бұрын

My friend has it but he is a vibe and don't make it his whole personality

If you look closely, you can see Beans making (most likely) involuntary movements when watching others mimic tics.

11:36 bro looks like young gru💀

i have adhd and one girl in my class tried to take my medication, which is in fact, ILLEGAL. i told her that and she responded calling me ableist and classist because she was too poor for meds. (she is an upper middle class spoiled girl btw.) 💀

@slyfoxsyndrome

2 жыл бұрын

I have ADHD, and I’m very sorry that this had happened to you. I would advised you to give the medication to your homeroom teacher and so that they can manage it for you.

@planesenjoyer-tk2rt

2 жыл бұрын

@@slyfoxsyndrome yeah, after that i gave it to my nurse so she could give it to me on my schedule.

@neroidius6915

2 жыл бұрын

@@planesenjoyer-tk2rt hope the other girl got punished by the school, cause clearly she isn’t getting punished by her parents

@Catlady29

2 жыл бұрын

Are they teaching kids to be racist now? Damn

@planesenjoyer-tk2rt

2 жыл бұрын

@@Catlady29 ???

Beans saying “brain damage” is meme worthy

@PrescottSF

2 жыл бұрын

True

@weluvzee

2 жыл бұрын

for those confused 4:57

@Soredli

2 жыл бұрын

Yea but if Beans accepts she might get mocked for it

@Somoutogomea

2 жыл бұрын

BWWWWWAIN DAMAGE

@MeXi20198

2 жыл бұрын

@@Soredli Who cares? She's awesome!

13:57 what the hell she ROLLED her eyes. that was it... I can't with 2022 and beyond, we are broken...

I’ve been professionally diagnosed with schizophrenia (starting out with bipolar disorder and psychosis) and it’s a really hard issue for me, lots of things I won’t bore you with, but to see people pretending to have it and feeding into stereotypes makes my life so much harder, I already have to deal with people thinking I’m an axe murder I don’t need people joking around to help

It's actually kinda surprising that the world it's slowly turning into a south park episode

@planesenjoyer-tk2rt

2 жыл бұрын

This comment is killing me 😂😂😭

@Miss_Akashiya

2 жыл бұрын

as someone with tourettes, the tourette episode is one of my favorites !

@my_artysytd9776

2 жыл бұрын

It looks like the Simpsons are finishing their predictions XD

@odessawales

2 жыл бұрын

Agree

you two have such a nice chill energy together. i absolutely lost it at “the hamster’s sexuality or the owner’s sexuality” lol

i went through a DID faze as a teen once. now that i look back at those moments of my life all i feel now is cringe and regret.

@lamegame9373

Жыл бұрын

That interesting, would you be comfortable talking about your thoughts while doing that? Like when you would pretend to switch how did that work in your case

@dirtyfox2289

Жыл бұрын

@@lamegame9373 it made everyone think I was insecure and rude

@lamegame9373

Жыл бұрын

@@dirtyfox2289 did you always know you were faking it? How did it work in your mind? I want to understand what people that do this are thinking while doing it

Hi! Just ran into your videos the other day and so far love them! The people faking DID really bug me. My mother has Disassociation Disorder and its scary for her. It takes quite awhile to be diagnosed and it comes from severe trauma. During trauma your brain is supposed to disassociate to protect you it becomes a disorder when your brain doesn't go back to normal...sorry for the rant but those ones really get to me. Thank you for the videos! You two are awesome!

Do you know how infuriating the amount classes I've failied because of ADHD is? I should've graduated 2 years ago. I'm doing playing my Harry Potter games, watching a show, messing with slime, and doing my homework with even realizing. Like I JUST WANNA GRADUATE but always end up doing something like that. I had a biting habit that fucked my teeth up, and my picking problem has covered me head-to-toe in scars. No, but go on and be ✨tehe trendy ADHD✨

@lopsidedlizzie

2 жыл бұрын

yeah I have ADHD as well (actually diagnosed by a doctor) been on meds basically since the beginning and not only is the actual adhd fucking hell but the meds are so bad as well. it has such a huge impact on genuinely everything its not some quirky thing.

@chloe-zx9io

Жыл бұрын

i was diagnosed with ADHD by a doctor when i was in the second grade. been on medication and i am now a senior in highschool. i cannot believe how many times my friends and other people have came up to me and said “i think i have ADHD because” and then say some stupid reason. it’s infuriating seeing people thinking it’s quirky and fun to have ADHD because ADHD is not fun to have and it’s something you DONT want to have

@Jhood05SCP

Жыл бұрын

Same, I should be in **HIGHSCHOOL** by now.

@12caratjules

Жыл бұрын

I should have graduated a year and a half ago but dropped out the second semester of my junior year. Still have no GED and barely have a job (I have already lost 4 within the span of 6 months). Lack of support for ADHD has a HUGE impact and it’s sickening people think it’s a fun quirk. I had medication but couldn’t afford to keep getting it (price of Gas and electric bills are getting to be too damn much!) and it sucks. ADHD sucks. Wouldn’t wish it upon my worst enemy and im shocked people ACTUALLY want this shit.

@EliTheShamanYt

6 ай бұрын

U have to keep urself inspired from school and learning

My psychiatrist and I had a discussion about people faking disorders on the internet. It was a really interesting discussion overall and kind of eye opening. I didn't expect him to be so tuned into the internet and platforms like twitch and tiktok since none of my psychiatrists growing up were really tuned into stuff that people my age and younger are (granted I'm 29 now so I'm not that young either lol) I have diagnosed ADHD...hence why I see a psychiatrist as well as a movement disorder and it's honestly strange to me how GenZ tries to glamorize these sorts of things. Like faking mental illnesses or being paralyzed or having some physical condition isn't cool. Like it's not trendy to have something that can be life ruining :/ Sometimes I wish I never stumbled on to this part of the internet. The knowledge that this crap exists pisses me off.

@PrescottSF

2 жыл бұрын

Faking mental health disorders, funnily enough, is a mental disorder

@nou780

2 жыл бұрын

They do it because they realized they could get special treatment by it... This generation is filled with attention seekers

@tangerinedream8987

2 жыл бұрын

Theyre probably going through tough times, and for the world and the people around them they just want an excuse for people to go easy on them and feel sorry for them, but think of it this way. When they grow up, (that is if they ever do), they will look back in the future when they are older and say, "wow, I was such a dummy for thinking I could get social media clout for faking a mental disorder, reaping the empathy of the people who believed me and bathe in all the attention I got."

@user-umcub

2 жыл бұрын

My family and I were having a discussion on my diagnosis at a young age that I was not told about until like a month ago and after going back on tiktok I started having so much confusing content about it. I don't know anything about it and I get obsessive over things so I decided not to want to learn more. Tiktok was not helping and now I got recommended this vedio honestly am tired of these apps listening to my conversation.

@rae2622

2 жыл бұрын

@@nou780 See I get that but I'm also surprised how these kids' classmates or parents aren't calling them out on their BS? Sometimes I do wonder where the parents are though...

10:40 I just drew them on well you got ligma😭 “how I’m I gonna get b****es!?😔”

Bro you need to do more videos with her. She made people genuinely smile while laying in bed or sitting on the toilet or on their lunch break genuinely dope. You guys have great chemistry.

Everyone wants to be a victim so everyone will feel sorry for them.

@diegol9838

2 жыл бұрын

And get the attention their parents didn't give

@cheesburgerr4992

2 жыл бұрын

Your comment makes me feel attacked

@itookthewooockkk5200

2 жыл бұрын

@@cheesburgerr4992 fatherless too huh?

@akcat11

2 жыл бұрын

@@itookthewooockkk5200 more like 2 fathers lmfao

@itookthewooockkk5200

2 жыл бұрын

@@akcat11 ah

As someone who's been diagnosed with ADHD since I was eight, it's so frustrating to see people romanticizing it and symptoms associated with it. It's not quirky or cute, and while it does have some benefits such as creativity, it's very disrupting to day to day life. When you are given a task you don't want to do, the part of the brain that would typically light up to make you do said task, will actually shut down. You literally have to fight your brain to do stuff and even then you get offtrack very easily and overall it takes a lot of energy to keep pushing through.

@SunV0lt09

Жыл бұрын

Same here bro

@jennydavis2766

Жыл бұрын

I’ve had ADHD since I was little and I would legit get introuble in school when I was younger for just getting up out of my seat and walking around because I legit could not sit still!! Or I would fall asleep In class and it was so hard for me to learn because I don’t learn like everyone else!! Having ADHD is not easy at all!!

@wjm2635

Жыл бұрын

@@jennydavis2766 it sucks so much, istg. for high school my parents have managed to send me to a private school that specializes in learning disorders and ADHD which has made it a lot easier.

@chriscintron3320

8 ай бұрын

ADHD has been watered down like crazy bro. everyone thinks its an easy disorder but they dont know what its like to have so much energy your want to scratch your skin off or crying at 4 am because you cant focus even though you started at 5 am

7:27 "there can be no one in da body??" *vine boom* 💀

Honestly the pull of wanting something wrong with you is so so strong, I feel it often as a burnout gifted kid. I’d rather just be funny and really good looking for attention

My therapist diagnosed me with DID a few years back, I literally replied 'thats not real'. That girl at 16:30 is so right. You dont have a dominant identity thats still lucid. Your alters dont have cute names from a Wattpad fanfic and full on biographies. You dont even have the awareness to point out the line between 'identities', you definitely dont sort them out into D&D classes with full awareness of how the different characters interact. What you will notice is constantly changing goals and desires. To the point you cant really commit to anything. Abandoning responsibilities and relationships because you simply forget about them. Changes in your voice and mannerisms (youll only notice when others point it out). Lost time, amnesia, and 'waking up' to dangerous situations you know you put yourself in. Unfortunately that doesnt make for good content. It does make for a great excuse though which is partially why I think people pretend to have it. Ive never spoke about this diagnosis to anyone or posted about it. Its just not taken seriously, people instantly think youre lying for clout. But at the same time I dont seek out treatment that I was told I need from a liscenced professional. While the trend is prevalent on tiktok, it didnt start there. Tumblr was really bad for this too. Anytime a 'multiple personalities' movie or TV show comes up, the internet is full of fakery. It was Fight Club, then United States of Tara, then Split. While USofT is the more accurate of the three, its important to recognize that changing names and costuming is meant to be shorthand to prevent audience confusion. When I see these shorthands being done on tiktok, its very clear that theyre recreating something that only exists in television.

@kai-im4fu

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. Take care.

@hotkfclover6169

Жыл бұрын

They think it's cool or helping while in reality changing your goal and feelings about someone or something create a mess. It's "other identity", not "other person", so you can't recognize it. Also you can't really name somebody and know their traits when you could think it's your own traits.

@TheLegend-ky2ut

Жыл бұрын

That’s really interesting, I was wondering how it actually affected people. Thank you for sharing with us, and I hope you are doing okay.

@jellyt4967

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing.

@kayperez7203

Жыл бұрын

As someone who also has it, I agree and disagree. Alot of tiktok DID systems do seem a little.....out there.....but who are we to say some of them don't have it yah know? The quick switches and everyone being so willing to be on camera is what gets me the most. But my partner knows names and personality traits (it's not like a dnd type thing lol) but can easily identify who is out and when. It's not a guessing game for them. And they tell me because they want me to know the full length of what I missed. Also it depends on how severe your DID is. You could have it super terribly bad while someone else has a "functioning " version.

Hey, i've got ACTUAL DIAGNOSED depersonalization, and half of this 'dissociate' stuff shown thru the videos is 100% BS. You can honestly not catch it on camera, because it is provoked by a lack of active conciousness. When you have a camera on, you're of course gonna be concious of yourself mentally and physically, ESPECIALLY for the next 30/60 seconds a tiktok takes. For most of us, dissociating happens most commonly in an area where we are not being engaged directly and have a chance to ponder in thought or solitude,, absolutely not in front of a camera. And your head does not just flop on the mofo table (7:23), you stay sitting up or whatever you were doing, it's a mostly mental sensation. There are HARDLY physical things affected by it. Your brain simply drifts, not hit the fuckin table

@hsanchezisidora

2 жыл бұрын

If my dissociation gets more physical, for sure it isnt like this videos. I just get clumsier and slower

@ballslickeramongus

2 жыл бұрын

@@hsanchezisidora yeah same here. But i've never faceplanted onto a table LMFAO

@Malevolent_Maya

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, dissociation is more of a "*oh*" and everything just kinda feels detached, you will not collapse cause of dissociation, otherwise, a lot more people with dissociative disorders would die from just kind of flopping

@dopeyclown1244

2 жыл бұрын

Dude literally thank you so much for saying it Genuinely you have no control over the switches and when they do happen you don't just pass out

@dopeyclown1244

2 жыл бұрын

@@hsanchezisidora or black out but I'm still moving and concious

As someone with DID, there can't be no one in the body and unless there's something else going on, you don't faint when you dissociate. You also dissociate 80% of the time and not only to switch. Also if you have tourettes everyone has it.

A few days ago I had what I like to call "one of my ADHD spikes", in which I get hyperactive and lose control over certain actions (none of them are dangerous, just embarrassing). Problem is, I'm aware that this is happening, but I can't stop it right away: it needs to run its course (usually from 1 to 2 days) and then I regain enough control to settle down. With time and therapy I've managed to collaborate with my ADHD to do stuff I wasn't able in the past (like using my hyperfocus in my job, so my mind doesn't get distracted). It's hard, and these lads and ladies don't understand that this is not a choice, but something you have since birth and for the rest of your life.

It's crazy that they act this way, but Don, your reactions always get me cracking up 😂😂😂

11:30 forgot TW for ugly 💀

Okay, but the self diagnosising doctor skit killed me, that was just beautiful

Beans is a gift to the world who should be protected at all times. I love the vids man

don and beans are the duo we never knew we needed

@thestormkage

2 жыл бұрын

Fr

@6:13, it’s craaazy that you were able to hold in a “PTSD reaction” until you got to the school bathroom, started recording, and sat down. I have PTSD and the “reactions” (panic attacks) from trauma triggers are near instant and debilitating. Instant anger, instant fear, etc. It physically hurts when this happens, and most people who get them feel like they are going to die. During these panic attacks, it is hard to calm down. It feels like you are back where the trauma occurred, and it happens over and over again on loop. An all-too-convenient alter somehow stopping a tic attack AND a PTSD reaction? Naw son! It would have been more believable if you started chugging a bottle of rum and stared at the wall for ten minutes without blinking. /s It isn’t a trend and it doesn’t make you special. Have some self respect and stop chasing clout online. Mad respect to Don and Beans for calling this fatherless behaviour out. 👊

@galeforcegames7529

2 жыл бұрын

SAME! the other day in class there was a mention of a certain kind of death and i mean i couldn't stay there, i was getting depressed and dissociating i just got up and left class early, and there was no trigger warning NOTHING. I just went home and was pretty sad the rest of the day tbh and it happened again today but i didnt leave early this time i just tried my best to ignore and forget it was said. But honestly even a word can be triggering and its just so frustrating like the incident was YEARS AGO i dont WANT to have these reactions anymore and people are out here acting like its a new Thing to have them? Im sorry but why wasnt it cool when i had it :(

@hsanchezisidora

2 жыл бұрын

I remember school was very triggering to my CPTSD. That sucks, I hope you guys are having an adequate treatment with therapy and things

@eliotb.1219

2 жыл бұрын

i don’t have PTSD but before meds used to have awful anxiety/panic attacks, and sure there’s a short period of time you can kind of “hold it in” to get out of the public eye, but there’s literally no way you’d have enough time to also prop your phone up properly, be in the right position, and hit record

@Alien-ASMR

2 жыл бұрын

@@galeforcegames7529 I had that too but with stuff like the words mom and everything around it also teachers never asking about dad's always mom's while I lost mine. quite irritating, or where is ur mom we need a signature of 2people and then my dad needing to explain she Is dead. Still get triggered for it and I can't walk away that fast as my mouth starts shouting words 🤣 I'm glad i'm out of school but one time a teacher told a story about idk something and they talked about then u go to ur mom and stuff and then I got so mad bc they didn't mention just parents or some no explicitly mom's , so I got mad and I yelled at them but no way I could hold that untill the bathroom and record that 🤣 sometimes i can record but then it's already almost over.

@lyzziekelly

Жыл бұрын

I would never wish PTSD on my worst enemy. I just want things to STOP already. During the day I'm fine, but my nightmares keep the memories alive. I have extremely vivid dreams that feel so real that I'm convinced they happened. I'll wake up tired, stressed and confused. I'll wake up crying, I'll wake up screaming, I'll wake up with a jolt and it's fucking exhausting. Sometimes I can't wake up from the dreams so I have to endure it until my alarm wakes me up. Sometimes I remember what the dreams are about, but sometimes I am lucky enough to forget. But if I feel anxious upon waking I'll know I had a nightmare, and that makes me feel stressed knowing it's happening even if I don't remember the dream. They still affect me. If I see someone who looks like my dad I freeze for a few seconds while I evaluate who that person is. Freezing up is painful. It hurts my neck and my hands. I shiver when I freeze as almost like a physical PTSD. When my dad would yell at me I'd get cold from sweating and start to shiver, so now I still shiver when I freeze or when I'm in trouble (even if it's not serious trouble). It took me years to be able to look people in the eye during any type of disagreement or argument. I used to have to turn my head and look sideways because my dad would yell at me for looking him in the eye. So when I argued with boyfriends I wouldn't be able to make eye contact, it felt too exposing to look people in the eye. That also hurt my neck because my muscles would spasm and make moving my neck difficult and painful. Sometimes I space out and daydream about certain things over and over, memories replaying in my head. You can't control it and it's not pleasant. Sometimes my brain plays scenarios of what would happen if my dad mysteriously showed up where I am. If there's a group of people, I scan the crowd making sure he's not there. I can't NOT do it, I have to do it to know I'm safe. It only takes a few seconds, but I have to do it. I'm always on alert thinking he's somewhere near by. It ruined my relationships because I couldn't trust anyone. It's not glamorous like it is on social media or TV, and a good partner can't make it better. A good partner can help, but they can't make it magically disappear. Only time will heal it if you're lucky. I cannot physically go home to see my family. I've tried twice and it was torture. All my family lives close together so I risk seeing him if I go home to see everyone else. It usually takes a lot of planning and the drive up there is hell. I've just decided that it's better to wait until I find someone I can trust so I don't go home alone. Just the thought of needing to go home makes my skin turn to ice. But then I have to deal with the stress of knowing that my grandparents are getting older and I'm running out of time to visit. And that thought sends me into a panic attack triggered by guilt. There's no easy choice here.... I've been dealing with this since I was a teen and I'm 29 now. I have a majority of my symptoms under control through years of practice, but my sleep ruins me sometimes ...

This was so respectful towards the people that are faking the disorders, good job!

you two have such great vibes together - for lack of better word like your personalities sync so well and balance each other out it’s genuinely so nice go watch your interactions :)) love watching the ones w you two together, love ur friendship and love how it’s based more around education rather than straight up hating the people and the bit about münchhausen and that people could be struggling even if not with what they’re saying is bang on. currently binge watching these while i’m stuck in bed 😅❤

The thing about someone with an actual disorder aren't usually the ones crying about it online. Almost all of the people with disorders I know try to hide them because they are afraid of being judged for something they have no control over.

as someone who actually suffers from multiple disorders it absolutely kills me to see this sort of shit, I have been dealing with most of my disorders sense I was 9 and now people just think its "quirky" or something and they don't even know or care that sometimes it ruins our lives.

@AnxiousPyramid

2 жыл бұрын

btw the disorders i have are; depression anxiety (every kind lmao, people keep on asking what kind) ADHD and dyslexia

@thestormkage

2 жыл бұрын

@@AnxiousPyramid yo bro I’ve always wondered how is it having dyslexia? Seems annoying

@Carl-ld5jy

2 жыл бұрын

You're either self-diagnosed or faking it.

@thestormkage

2 жыл бұрын

@@Carl-ld5jy him? How?

@el_gabron

2 жыл бұрын

can anyone explain to me what anxiety is exactly

I'm pretty skeptical because it seems so implausible that they would perfectly capture these things, or even want to.

16:44 this lady has BARS she a legend

It's frustrating because I feel like these kids probably do have some symptoms of anxiety and things to address, and probably do need a therapist to discuss their issues, but instead they turn to validation from the internet after reading the symptoms for a disorder on Mayo Clinic. Self diagnosis should not be the end all be all. It can point you in the right direction, but it isn't the answer.

@Alien-ASMR

2 жыл бұрын

Even worse, actually psychiatrist are now even more aware before giving diagnosis bc many people search the criteria and try to act upon those to get an actual diagnosis wich leads to actual people having something getting a hard time or not being believed wich can also be harmful for some people ( glad they didn't do that to me cuz my dad still not believes me after I got diagnosed w bpd lmao)

@Malevolent_Maya

2 жыл бұрын

I understand your intention, but, diagnosis is a privilege, in the US atleast. It is very expensive and people will disregard the possibility of you having something for the smallest reasons. There are several stories and even some people I know that were told they weren't Autistic because they can make eye contact. These subjects are complex, hard to fully grasp, and that's why it's so hard to get anything and understand these things about yourself

@ashsummermakaio4756

2 жыл бұрын

@@Alien-ASMR I don’t think it’s that easy. I for example, went to the psychiatrist trying to get a diagnosis for Tourette’s, and I got out diagnosed with OCD and anxiety (the OCD gave the tics and the anxiety made me believe I had Tourette) and my tics were very similar to that of Tourette’s, so I think they can make some “tricky” questions to catch liars.

@Alien-ASMR

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashsummermakaio4756 yeah i think too but some are actually doing it for attention wich brings other issues maybe above they havent had love as a child for example it's quite sad but at the same time it's very hard for people that have these diagnoses to be believed and when they ask trick questions some people can feel attacked by them but i get the point it's probbly needed for some so i agree with you

@vibechecked7522

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I am now diagnosed with Autism, but when I started to notice my issues, I first talked to my behavioral therapist, and she ran a few screeners she had, even though she couldn’t fully diagnose me, and said that because of my anxiety, depression, and ADHD I was diagnosed with at the time, she couldn’t determine exactly what it was, saying it was either OCD or Autism. Then, I had to be taken to a child specialist in the main town to be tested. Until then, I identified as Neurodivergent. I used to say I had ADHD, but until my diagnosis was done, I just said neurodivergent. Now I say I’m comorbid ADHD and ASD.

As one of the many people in Gen Z, I will just say.. This generation is fucked 🤩

@fermentfishing

2 жыл бұрын

Truer words have never been spoken

@Antenna17701...

2 жыл бұрын

@@fermentfishing AMEN to that

@gachanoob1012

Жыл бұрын

Yea

@danielatwell7754

Жыл бұрын

Who was the person who started this horrible trend shit

@n908qd7

Жыл бұрын

Yup

So glad that you are getting the word out there about this! I also have Tourette’s and really appreciate you both doing this video! Thank you!

“go to a doctor get it checked out” mom: “youre fine.”

"Beans" here is an example of someone that actually has Tourette's, instead of saying stupid attention seeker unfunny stuff and trying to pass it off as tics, they actually have visible uncontrollable twitches.

@McFwoupson

2 жыл бұрын

I've met many ppl with tourettes and only one of them had vocal tics. He would rarely ever actually say words, it was mostly grunting noises. It's usually really minor stuff that isn't very noticeable unless you pay attention.

As someone who has had D.I.D. for longer than most of these kids have been alive, it really disgusts me to see them acting like it's a cool thing. It freakin sucks. I don't remember key moments of my life because I got triggered and switched. Like I can't even remember most of my wedding day because the stress and anxiety from it caused me to switch before I even got to walk down the aisle. And these kids just think, oh I'm dissociating look at me! It's not cool. It's not a fad. It's just the worst thing ever. I can't even gather the courage to tell my family because I don't know if they would even believe me. I got kicked out of college multiple times. It has pretty much ruined my life. It's not a fad. Just please stop this shit.

@BeelzebubMontgomery

2 жыл бұрын

You don't have DID lmao. Most people with it, if it even exists which is highly debated on, don't even know they have it. So no, you don't have it. Let me guess, you also talk to them all the time? Know your alters names? Got kicked out of college because you did something stupid and decided to blame it on Jeremy the 13 year old you made up in your head?

@bunniesofdoom1745

2 жыл бұрын

@@BeelzebubMontgomery You're right. I didn't know I had it until I started to go to therapy for all my life issues and was told, hey so you got this thing. I went to college back in the early 2000's before split was a thing and before it EVER became a tictok trend. I got kicked out of college because I couldn't remember my classes or even get myself out of bed in the morning because DID comes with more than just I have alters. No, I do not hear them all the time. Yes I do know all my alters because I have gone to therapy for the past 10 years for it and have learned about them. No I do not have a huge system of like 300 people. We are a system of 9 people and have been that way for many, many years. We don't split because, oh my god this person was mean to me. I have PTSD, general anxiety disorder, MDD, Night terrors and anger issues because some sick twat back in my childhood years. And it's rarely debated now because I has been in the DSM's for a few issues now and though the name changed from Multiple Personality Disorder to Dissociative Identity Disorder doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I could give you peer reviewed articles to read if you need more information on it. Since you apparently don't know anything about the real condition.

@greenbeans9748

2 жыл бұрын

I really want to learn more about DID from people who actually have it. I do not have the diagnosis myself, but I want to understand it better. I also write a character with it and make her as accurate as possible (no, she's not the antagonist lol she'll be a major support). The problem is there is so much misinformation flying around about DID that I don't know which sources are reliable or not. Do you have any articles or videos to recommend so I can learn about it? Also, I can't imagine how frustrating it is seeing all these people turn something you have and loathe each day into a fad for their narcissistic desires. I'm really sorry people are like this.

honestly it's so nice to see somebody doing a video like this and being respectful of others instead of just hating the entire time

I got diagnosed with Tourette’s when I was 13 just after I started puberty because my English tecaher noticed it in class and brought me to the Nurse’s office to get it checked out, they recommended i go to the doctor so my dad picked me up and took me straight to the doctor where i was diagnosed on the spot after examining my behavior for a few minutes, they were able to diagnose me so quickly because I was already being medicated for ADHD/ADD and the two can present simultaneously, people used to tell me that I was faking because I wasn’t screaming out slurs and having a stroke in my fucking chair, my symptoms can present as rapid blinking, punching walls/desks/random objects, saying random phrases that have zero pretention to anything occuring at the moment, random squeaking noises using my lips, upon other things, after a little bit though people began to realize that I really wasn’t faking anything, it would be nearly impossible to record tic attacks because they present themselves at completely random times and when they do appear the last thing you’re thinking about is recording it, such is the case with many different disorders not just Tourette’s, these TikTok morons give all of us a bad name who really do have to deal with stuff like that on a daily basis and not just on a camera. Btw is it just me or does Beans look like Bree from Lab Rats lmao

If DiD did work the way they present it, damn boi i want one to go to work, one to study and then me for their free time.

Bro, Beans is such a homie

@sungdripwoo3312

2 жыл бұрын

Ong

@Crystix

2 жыл бұрын

@@sungdripwoo3312 why did it translate to “bee” 💀

@Unknown-vx6qm

2 жыл бұрын

@@Crystix it did the same for me too 😭😭😭 ig ong means bee now?? 🐝

@Crystix

2 жыл бұрын

@@Unknown-vx6qm lmaoo

@desk1185

2 жыл бұрын

@@Crystix Ông means "Bee" in Vietnamese, so the translator probably picked it up

Don and Beans is a goated duo I've never laughed harder in my life to y'all's commentary together

Just MO as an old woman. I feel sorry for young people growing up in todays world! It was hard back in the day, but now it's so crazy, that I doubt anyone can get through it without suffering some kind of mental illness. And you're right, if we don't know, we shouldn't call anyone out, incase they do have a condition or are hiding behind one because they're screwed up in some other way. My heart goes out to today's generation!

"It is not attention the child is seeking, but love" - Sigmund Freud

I'm sorry that Beans has to live with her tics but Don's little reactions to them is so funny I can't help but laugh 😭

@jimmey1989

2 жыл бұрын

Kirbyyy

@chowbelly

2 жыл бұрын

@@jimmey1989 Kirbyyy

yall make such good videos together, its been 2 years and i still enjoy them

Hypochondria is one of the illnesses where you take a normally normal bodily function and making it a disorder or thinking it it a disorder.

@justsomerandomperson6699

Жыл бұрын

Thank you I've been wondering what that word meant but this actually makes sense

As someone who was diagnosed with BPD, there is no such thing as “crazy eyes” bro. Some people with bpd will tell you that it’s like being bipolar but on steroids (which is kinda true, at least in some cases). We are stigmatized as being abusive and manipulative, when that’s not the case. It’s torture. It’s not cute. Having bpd doesn’t make you “special”, and I’m tired of seeing people act toxic and rude only to say “it’s the bpd” when in most cases they self diagnosed and are using it as a crutch to behave like shit. And even if you do have a disorder, using that disorder or illness as an excuse to be a terrible person only makes you even more terrible than the stereotype shows. Edit: So since people are getting offended over me calling bpd “bipolar on steroids”, let me rephrase that. The manic and depression phases in bpd happen spontaneously in some cases, and in some others there’s a trigger. Even then, the “switching” and mood swings in bpd happen sometimes within hours, minutes, or days, whereas with bipolar it’s usually in the span of months. That’s what I meant by “on steroids”. I wasn’t implying that bpd is worse or better, but was rather using the term to say that bpd and bipolar are similar in some ways and usually the frequency of the “swings” is one of the key factors to tell them apart. I’m speaking from my own experience and from what I’ve learned in therapy. People’s condition and how they cope with it (as well as the symptoms) aren’t one-size-fits all. Please consider the fact that there’s some people with bpd like myself who have experienced a lot of pain from this, and making as if I have no idea of what I’m talking about (i.e. “bipolar people have it worse”) is just shitty. I’m not bipolar but know a handful of people who are. Some of them have it way worse than I do, some of them are completely functional to the point where you wouldn’t even imagine they’re bipolar. Remember, the fact that there’s people out there who have it worse (there’s always going to be) doesn’t mean that your pain or my pain isn’t valid even in comparison. Edit 2: also saying that bpd is much more tame than bipolar really doesn’t make sense considering the fact that the severity of the symptoms and problems brought about varies from person to person, as well as their genetics and environment. ❤️ Also, I want y’all to Google what the most painful mental illness is and look at the result. Just my two cents. LAST EDIT: Damn bro I’m seeing the people with bpd say “it’s my experience, sorry of how I worded it offended you” and being overall nice and then you have other people here getting offended instead of actually engaging in constructive dialogue. If my comment and my experience offends you so much, then keep scrolling. I’ve thought about deleting this comment but nah, that would literally just be letting all the mean people win and silence my experience along with that of many others. If you think someone could have worded something differently, explain why rather than hurling insults and shit. We’re here to share our own experiences and frankly invalidating each someone’s experience and illness by saying other people have it worse/that we don’t know what we’re talking about (when in fact we do know bpd more than anyone else because we LIVE with it) makes you no better than the people who actually make speaking out about mental health a problem and so stigmatized. I encourage you all to look at all the comments particularly from the people with Bpd who have apologized and explained why a lot of us make the comparison with bipolar (like user Lizzie Sawyer) and how it’s been explained to us. I hope you all find the help you need and have a nice day! ❤️

@courtneykirkman1387

2 жыл бұрын

I have bpd as well and I hate when people purposefully trigger an episode and then say that I'm crazy. And I hear all the time that we are psycho and stalk people and try to ruin their lives... like really?

@Andi_Galupa

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to see more posts like this. I have a brother with it and he is very abusive but I don't blame his mental disorder for it. In a way it's scape goating. I'm glad some one said it.

@covertfro5774

2 жыл бұрын

​@Luke Griffin No. They aren't blaming others for their breakdowns?

@jvpt9882

2 жыл бұрын

@Luke Griffin nah when people know they triggering it

@durschfalltv7505

2 жыл бұрын

@@Andi_Galupa I think it's ok as long as he apologizes in the moments where he has control over his thoughts and "makes up for it"

As a member of Generation Z and all the people who have a good sense of logic, I hereby say that we are ashamed and horrified of all these people faking all these disorders.

i can relate with beans in a lot of ways, i was diagnosed with torrets in 2015 i think, and it started as explosive tics, but now there more subtle and unnoticeable.

ily 4 giving the lil warning 4 tics at the start /gen

It took over a year to discover my son has autism. 20 years ago. The hell we went through I would never wish on anyone. Real. Full blown autism. Screeching for hours as a baby. Non verbal until after age 5. Banging head on floor all the time as a toddler. Flapping and twirling. Checking out and just blank. Sleep walking and getting into dangerous situation while doing so. And hundreds of other instances that never stopped. I couldn't work for anyone because I was at therapies all day every day until he was almost 7 just so he didn't get put in a home or heavily medicated. It's more then just feeling uncomfortable. Everyone is uncomfortable when they are in a new situation. This is when when light sound even the wind blowing across your skin actually hurts. Textures of fabric would feel like broken glass on skin. He can't escape it. And it doesn't go away when someone is watching.

@user-yt9hu7pu4v

Жыл бұрын

THIS! My brother too, kanner syndrome / early child autism (in Germany we call it frühkindliches Autismus, I hope i translated it correctly) and especially before puberty and post puberty are the worst phases! I’m really scared that he will kill himself one day he does also bang and punch his head until he get bruises, it actually makes me always cry… he is 19, becoming 20 this year, non-verbal living in a home specially for people like him because my parents couldn’t stand it anymore during puberty, I mean, they also have to work. They love him of course really much and every second weekend he comes home for the weekend or in holidays, also it’s better for him to live there, there are specialists and more people like him. It makes me really mad and sad when I see those “autists” on tiktok complaining about the super cliché of an autist like they can’t look someone in the eyes or express feelings or something, which is just absolutely wrong. I also showed my mum such videos, she is not really familiar with social media, and she never got that mad about that topic. People really think autism is a cool diagnose while the real diagnosed one are being muted and hided in this society… I mean of course there are also autists who can live a normal life but those people will never complain being autistic or complain about others that they don’t see that their autistic. Also many doctors say that every person has autistic traits but that doesn’t make you an autism! I wish only the best to your son, he is very special and is loved ❤️ hopefully REAL autism comes to light in society soon and not that what every second teenager thought up themselves, and finally more help for family with autism and more therapies for autists to take part in society. I don’t know how it looks like in your country but in Germany, mentally disabled people generally, are submerged in this society :,(. And you, please stay strong, I never asked my mum how she ever felt, I was a little kid and she always plays so strong but I know she cries secretly in herself.

@vibechecked7522

Жыл бұрын

I have high functioning autism. I wasn’t diagnosed until 16. It pissed me off, because I was old enough to know I had it but nobody would listen until my behavioral therapist forced my mom to get me screened. Everyone else knew I was autistic too. My ex would bully me online and refer to me as a puzzle piece. Thank you for actually getting a diagnosis for your kid. I wish my mom would have done the same for me.

@Joseph-pz5bo

Жыл бұрын

I didn't speak till I was older as well but luckily when I started speaking it was in English and my traditional language and I hated jeans till I was older autism is a strange thing

As someone with two Masters degrees in Psychology, who is physically disabled, and has a psychosis due to my physical health, it annoys the hell out of me that people feel like it's "cute and quirky" to suffer from a mental disorder. If you can turn your "ticks/symptoms/etc" off and on like a switch then you do not have anything wrong with you. At least not what you're claiming to have. DID is incredibly rare, unless you're on TikTok, then apparently the app causes it in young people. People with DID isn't like playing telephone, where you can just summon whatever alter you want at will to record your video. It just annoys me that these people pretend to have these issues for attention, but if you'd ask someone who actually has those disorders they'd most likely say they'd wish they didn't have them to avoid the constant attention they get because of it.

@flowerfabuki4783

2 жыл бұрын

That’s one of the things that is so frustrating to try to communicate because my best friend was genuinely diagnosed by a doctor with DID, and the way these tik toks portray switching (however I know symptoms can vary) doesn’t seem accurate. Despite having known for years now and developing coping tactics, my friend still struggles to have control with “fusion” or (combining/interaction between identities) and she struggles with long spreads of amnesia because when another identity is present besides her she has no memory of the event, which can last hours, day, even weeks. She describes it as blinking or sleeping and waking up a week into the future not knowing if she went to class or if she went to work. After a switch her first priority is checking her phone and calling her support circle to find out what happened while she was out. And her switches are triggered by trauma, or engaging in situations that relate to a trauma, not just random. After years of doctor support it’s still very debilitating and she has just recently within the last couple years gotten her amount of switches down to a minimum, it happening once in a blue moon of something bad or unexpected happens. However trying to explain that within the internets “mental health” community gets me chewed out 😓

@gabriellegaubert7107

2 жыл бұрын

@@flowerfabuki4783 this is how most DID reacts. It is *very* uncommon for DID systems to be connected, unless you’ve been through extreme therapy to get it that way. When they’re unconnected, it triggers bouts of memory loss. That’s why it frustrates me how people portray DID. They portray it as some fantastic delusion instead of the debilitating and distressing disorder it actually is

@Lair_in_Limbo

2 жыл бұрын

People who have DID don't get much attention because the disorder doesn't manifest like what you see on tiktok. No one would even know I had it if I didn't tell them. The dissociating is the largest part of the disorder and other people can't really tell when someone is dissociating. When I hear someone claiming they have DID and they don't talk about what it's like to dissociate I almost immediately feel as though they might be lying. "Dissociative", it's the first word in the name for the disorder for a reason. According to professionals and the DSM5 you can even have DID with no "alters" instead you will experience an altered sense of self, which means you are experiencing emotions and feelings that don't match your current "mood" etc. Sorry for the rant I just wanted to piggy back off of your "but if you'd ask someone who actually has those disorders they'd most likely say they'd wish they didn't have them to avoid the constant attention they get because of it." because I agree with it and wanted to add that.

@GeekExtremist

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lair_in_Limbo I think you "springboard" more than "piggy back", great info and very well said!

@GeekExtremist

2 жыл бұрын

@@flowerfabuki4783 I'm sorry I missed your comment, for some reason I never got a notification for it. I hate that your best friend has to go through that, but it's great that she has a great support system and has made progress. It's funny how it seems like all these TikTok DID people watched Split and took all their info from it, except they all forgot the part where the man fully regained his consciousness and had no idea what had been going on the entire time, or what day it was, how long it had been, etc. One thing most of these people have in common is they are all aware of their "alters" and everything the "alters say and do". They more or less consider their actual self as one of their alters. As Rapture commented above, they tend to forget (or more likely, don't know) what the first D in DID stands for as they never suffer from any dissociation. I really hope your friend continues to improve and I hate that there's people that ultimately make light of what she, and other people, actually go through.

This was the first time either of you came across my KZread recommended, but I'm so glad you did!! I'm so sick and tired of people faking illnesses just to get attention. As someone with numerous chronic illnesses who takes 28 pills, 2 liquid doses of medication and I have a permanent port in my chest because I get 2L of lactated ringers + meds by IV infusion *every single day.* I have a handicapped license plate on my van, that is specifically designed to carry my power wheelchair, and my handicapped eligibility never expires. Unlike people who get temporary hanging tags for the mirror with dates stamped on them, my doctors had to fill out a special form for the DMV stating that my illnesses have no cure and to give me the no expiration handicapped tags. And I can't even drive!!! But that's the only vehicle I can ride in because of my wheelchair. I'm just sickened by people who think these illnesses are a joke, or are fun. I tell ya what, I'll GLADLY trade all my illnesses to them so they can feel what it's REALLY like and I'll happily live in obscurity with their good health!! Being chronically I'll is not fun, it's painful, exhausting and it steals your life. The reality is that many friends slowly stop associating with you because they don't like that you have to cancel or reschedule plans due to your health. You can't just randomly pick up and go on vacation, places like amusement parks are no fun and it impacts every part of your life -- not just the silly symptoms that fakers show. Sorry, I got on my soapbox for a bit of a rant there, but I'm just done with this crap. 🤬🤬 And because there's someone that's usually just genuinely curious in every group, I'm 49 years and have been sick since I was in middle school. Here's my list of diagnoses: Narcolepsy with Sleep Paralysis Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS) Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS) Gastroparesis Hypoglycemia Chronic migraines Hashimoto's Thyroiditis Temporomandibular Joint Disorder (TMJD - from the EDS) Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease (GERD) Sensory Processing Disorder

@honeybeethehybrid9516

Жыл бұрын

You wrote the whole dictionary in that last paragraph also im so srry for u how r u alive- if i had 28 pills i would die. i have stuff like that but 28 pills how also u dropped this 👑 ur a legend

@thecringeslayer

Жыл бұрын

Sorry you gotta go thru that bro, these peopke are disgusting

@Katie_love_

5 ай бұрын

I have EDS too, and my brother has POTS. I have the bad type like my Aunty. They're trying to prevent from me having surgeries like my Aunty like wear my padding in my shoes, must drink movicol to help my bowel. And I must take a constant med to help my muscles all over. I've already had a knee reconstruction on my left knee because I was born with a smooth groove. Might have a chance with my right. I nearly dislocate my shoulders when I sleep. I roll my ankles all the time and I have the most tiniest veins/vessels so anything with needles is hard. And my vessels pop so easily. My anxiety attacks are bad because the spasms make you hit yourself or anything. And sometimes when you can't even get up. The most scariest spasms is when it makes my neck lock and I can't move my head at all. And I'm still waiting what more disease I will get because both sides of my family has a whole list of disorders 🥲

@kajiraangel166

5 ай бұрын

@Katie_love_ EDS is no joke!! There are 13 varieties, and each has their own "perks." 🙄🙄 I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with all of that, from personal experience, I know how challenging it is. Good luck!!

Imagine being DID and having that many people in your party and they're all just wasting turns like that

11:09 *Ok chill out this wasn't supposed to happen*

Beans handles her condition amazingly and doesn’t let it get in her way of having a good day she’s a idol for people that do have Tourette’s!

I loved Don's and Beans' banter. The way they both chatted casually over their shared opinions was really cool.

okay i didn’t think i was ever really gonna talk about this but i genuinely do have DID, i’ve done butt loads of research and i finally got diagnosed recently. i “found out” a long time ago and when i realized what was going on i was terrified. i cried for days and days thinking that i wasn’t alone in my own head. and people wanna have it for FUN? bro.

@bigmac92

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in your head. I’m one of you

@strawberryafternoon9000

2 жыл бұрын

@@bigmac92 LMAOOOO

There is 3 people that claim they have DID in my school they are all friends i talked to one of them and they said 1 of there alters is depressed another is happy another is angry another is sad ect i told him they were just his feelings he ignored me

@Jonatahn14

2 жыл бұрын

Bully them into being cured

@Slurp_Durp

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO thats funny, bitch Dont want to be hit with da facts

@biggesthaterontheinternet

2 жыл бұрын

LMFAOOO

@ryanscott658

2 жыл бұрын

DID : Rare Fewer than 200,000 US cases per year AGES AFFECTED Toddlers (3-5 years): very rare Children (6-13 years): very rare Teenagers (14-18 years): rare Young adults (19-40 years): rare Adults (41-60 years): rare Seniors (60+ years): rare (DID is on the short list of "rare" diseases / disorders... The chance of all 3 of them having DID at a young age is almost 0.)

“I am in fact a self-diagnosed doctor” That whole skit had me dead, you guys are too good 🤣 “Dicks under my eyes”

Dayum, educative vid, 2 very sympathetic youtubers AND ace attorney music? I love that video!

thank you! i wish more people will call out these fakers!!!

11:50 she talkin abt moving to the fridge

@xero1152

Жыл бұрын

This gotta be one of the best comments I’ve ever seen lmao

10:55 academy award winning material

Cool vid. Love the dynamic between you two. More please.

No because here I am as a 13 year old and I am SOOOO mad at my generation I can't believe how attention seeking these people are! I'm literally.... what the actual F....

I absolutely LOVE it when you and Beans collab!

@notlizzie7300

2 жыл бұрын

sameeee

@sneakysnek8194

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-lynn22 Me too!

I have a relatively rare genetic disorder diagnosed when I was a teen that I inherited from my mother, that I have heard of people being accused of faking (I can’t say for sure if they are, as I never really looked into it). People already don’t understand invisible disabilities which leads to a lot of judgment. For example when I was in high school my physical therapist told me not to participate in an activity in PE class, but my friends seemed to believe I was being dramatic. This makes me judge myself and worry a lot about what people think of me. People actually faking things like this are disgusting. It’s one thing to suspect you have something life-altering- it’s another thing to claim you do and seek out attention for it. People who actually have these conditions now can’t actually raise awareness without the risk of being called a faker. I hope these people face a he consequences of their actions.

@Drawble

2 жыл бұрын

**to claim you do when you don’t have a diagnosis

@donttellthefbiimhere9426

2 жыл бұрын

What is it? I probably inherited hEDS from my mother, and it’s fucking Hell. It’s terrible. Not to mention possible OCD. It’s not QuIrKy, it’s debilitating

@OncelerKidsAreCringe

Жыл бұрын

@@Drawble yeah what is it? If you won’t say people aren’t gonna believe you.

@Damianskull

Жыл бұрын

​@@OncelerKidsAreCringelet them be, they dont have to share it if they dont feel comfortable in doing so.

@OncelerKidsAreCringe

Жыл бұрын

@@Damianskull why

Beans seems like such a cool person omg, theyre so chill