Facing up to Chemotherapy whilst living with stage four metastatic prostate cancer

Hi, gosh 139 weeks since my diagnosis of incurable stage four prostate cancer and things are now looking 👀 ncreasingly like chemotherapy is on the cards.
This video im talking about my thoughts with facing this.
Here is a link to my just giving page for a fundraising walk I’m doing to raise awareness about prostate cancer, I talk about it in the video so please have a losten and if you can spare some money to make a donation you can do so through this link.
www.justgiving.com/page/keith...
Thank you for watching this video, I’ve been making these videos as a vlog sharing my journey through Advanced Metastatic Prostate Cancer.
My world literally fell apart on Sept 15th 2021 when I was diagnosed with Advanced Prostate Cancer which according to my Oncologist is incurable (although ive never accepted that) Questions such as how long have I got left how bad is it , in fact, a whole host of frightening thoughts, where suddenly swarming around my mind and exploding at opportune moments when I felt most vulnerable.
If I were to be honest, I was lost and lonely to begin with. People don’t know how to deal with someone who has stage four cancer. It’s a taboo subject. I honestly didn’t know who to turn to for help. It can be a dark place and I only wish I could have found a channel such as this to help me through those early days.
I started writing a blog whilst I was in hospital and recovering at home after the initial treatment phase.
I then decided to make this vlog because it seemed a better way to get my story out there. I want to provide a channel where I would continue telling my story for as long as I can and invite comments from others that can also help and share their own experiences.
Cancer can be a lonely place, and I hope this channel will help someone else who may be a bit lost and feel alone whilst dealing with their own diagnosis and experience.
Nothing is ever as bad as you think it will be, and that seems to be the case so far with my experience with Prostate Cancer.
Thank you for watching the video. Please comment and subscribe if you feel like it, and please share the videos with anyone you think may find them helpful
Woody ❤️

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  • @StephenElrod-gh2um
    @StephenElrod-gh2umАй бұрын

    Hang in there… I get my scans June 6 and labs June 20 and suspect I ll start chemotherapy if it shows psa rise. Your vids really help me get my mind in a positive place. I’m just starting to feel the leg nerve stuff that you predicted and experienced. Good luck with your walk.,

  • @carledquist4039
    @carledquist4039Ай бұрын

    Good to see you Woody. Always look forward to your videos. Hope you enjoyed the fence painting with your daughters. If you feel the walk is too much part way through, just have someone meet you and take you to the end. I've learned that flexibility is the key. Some days are good, and some days not so good. No pressure is the key in everything, while dealing with this. I've learned.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Im determined to do the walk , but I won’t beat myself up too much if I can’t . I know what you mean about some days are good and others not so. I’m hoping June 1st will be a good day

  • @homestudiotutorials
    @homestudiotutorialsАй бұрын

    Hi Woody, i documented my journey in a video diary and i watched them back from 2022 the other day , so the first round and all 6 session in fact went the same way ,you go in , it takes about an hour and a half , then you feel a bit drunk at first ,then the next day you are on drugs for 3 days that kind of cancel out all the negative side effects like nausea and not even feeling tired , i was fine , then after 3 days I would come off the medication and the fatigue would kick in and some nausea , the fatigue was full on , i was taking naps quite a lot , then after 3 days that would pass and i felt more or less normal , went out and didstand up paddle boarding everyday, so honestly i wasn't too bad , you will have some nausea and you will be tired, I never once vomited !! so stay strong and if you have any questions don't hesitate to ask. PS I am still in full remission , tests next month ( which I still dread !! )

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for the advice it’s so appreciated and good luck I hope your results are good 🙏

  • @mikerose6835
    @mikerose6835Ай бұрын

    Woody I am sorry that your PSA is 2.6 and going on to chemotherapy. Keep strong and positive.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you Mike

  • @Ian-di9hn
    @Ian-di9hnАй бұрын

    Thanks again for the videos. Much appreciated. You are loved. Strength will come as you face the hurdle. Cheers.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you Ian

  • @1royalpalm
    @1royalpalm9 күн бұрын

    I had my prostate and four lymph nodes removed robotically on 4-1-19. The surgeon said he found no cancer in the surgical area. By 7-30-19 my PSA was 0. However, by 11-7-19 my PSA had risen to 1.9, then 10.9 by 2-8-20, finally to 13.7. My urologist put me on bicalutamide and lupron. By 5-14-20 my PSA dropped to 0.2. I was then put on erleada in addition to lupron. My PSA dropped to undetectable as of 9-15-21. However, by 3-18-22 my PSA was 0.17. I had a PET scan and by 9-11-22 my PSA was 0.38. It was then my oncologist started me on taxore chemo. I had four cycles of taxotere, yet my PSA kept rising to 2.14. I lost all my head hair and most of my eyebrows. My oncologist then switched me to jevtana chemo. Lo and behold my head hair grew back, but my PSA still rose to 2.86. The bottom line is that chem wasn't working for me. Since I met the all the criteria, I was then switched to pluvicto (lutecium - 177), a nuclear form of chemo. I had six cycles of pluvicto 6 weeks apart. My PSA only dropped to 0.184 by 4-24-24. My PSA rose to 0.274 by 6-13-24. I don't know what other treatment can help me. While I'm still on lupron, my oncologist also put me on xtandi. With regard to chemo side effects, for me I didn't notice much until about 48 hours after my infusion. By then my red blood cell count must have dropped significantly. At that point I became very tired and fatigued, lasting about 5 days (over and above the fatigue I had from the lupron shot). Then, for the next two weeks I felt pretty much normal (ready for the next chemo infusion which was spaced three weeks apart). Also, my taste buds were greatly affected, and food I liked had little appeal to me. While I didn't like the negative side effects of chemo -- it would have been worth it had the chemo worked for me to bring my PSA down, but it didn't -- it went up. I've been told I have a more aggressive form of prostate cancer and standard treatments don't work as well on me. Hopefully, your form of prostate cancer is far less aggressive and you will have better success. Good luck.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Күн бұрын

    I am sorry to hear what you are going through and it sounds like a real rollercoaster ride with your PSA levels. I’ve been on xanti enzultamide for nearly three years it did bring my PSA down from 288 to 0.01 and stayed that way for a long while, just recently it’s started to rise all be it very slowly. My biopsy originally revealed I have a very aggressive type of PC I’m guessing so far I’ve been really lucky that it hasn’t acted aggressively. I hope they find the right treatment for you that gives you a better result 🙏

  • @1royalpalm

    @1royalpalm

    Күн бұрын

    @@Livingwith-prostatecancer My oncologist told me new prostate cancer medicines are being developed all the times. Hopefully, some will be developed to arrest our cancer until we die of some other cause.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    23 сағат бұрын

    That’s exactly what my oncologist said too, in fact when I was first diagnosed she said that if ever there was a good time to have prostate cancer then it’s now there is a lot of research going on right now.

  • @peterlewellyn2389
    @peterlewellyn2389Ай бұрын

    Woody I am only 77 weeks in, but I am heading for the same place you are going through now. Up to now it's been rather easy, but the inevitable rise of the PSA will dictate our future. Going 32 weeks without requiring Chemo was an achievement in itself Woody. You have the right attitude and I am sure you will handle this well. Best to you.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    137 weeks so far without chemo, hoping for a few more , will find out in a few weeks time

  • @steve-ov9wp
    @steve-ov9wpАй бұрын

    I'm with you woody. I too am in the same boat. Peace , keep it up brother

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you Steve, the same to you to

  • @enniscollado202
    @enniscollado202Ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear that chemo possibly is in your future. I would like to respond why people like me listen to your program. You give cancer humanity, having purpose in life allows a person to deal with cancer with strength and tenacity. Your sharing helps your listeners in that way. Follow your doctors advice Woody. Blessings.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much that’s such a kind thing to say and makes me feel very appreciated to do these videos

  • @dawnstarling1348
    @dawnstarling1348Ай бұрын

    You are an inspiration x

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you Dawn

  • @paulwoods84
    @paulwoods84Ай бұрын

    Keep going woody, you’re doing great😊😊

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you, I will Paul

  • @Rigge1988
    @Rigge1988Ай бұрын

    Im rooting for you Woody!

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @johnhanley4442
    @johnhanley4442Ай бұрын

    Woody. From the moment your backside hits the big chair, you will, without doubt, become almost warrior like. As men, our factory setting is to find strength when you need it. You will. One bit of advice buddy, start to get your hair trimmed gradually, so both you and your loved ones don’t get that sudden shock of hair loss, which can make us look unwell. If I had my time again, I’d get a No. 2 then a No. 1 and people won’t be as shocked, most of all you. You’re a strong man. We’re all with you.

  • @dusanjez2011

    @dusanjez2011

    Ай бұрын

    When I had this same chemo, most of my hair REMAINED on my head!

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you John, great advice about the hair I will start reducing the cuts, I hope I can become a warrior 🙏

  • @dusanjez2011

    @dusanjez2011

    Ай бұрын

    I did not loose my hair under chemotherapy for mpc.

  • @keitholner7987
    @keitholner7987Ай бұрын

    Hey you may lose your hair and your taste buds. I had Docetaxel chemo. Not a pleasant experience. But it worked. I hope it works for you. Keep a positive mind.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks Keith , I’m going into this with a very positive attitude as I know that can change everything

  • @patriciawarne
    @patriciawarneАй бұрын

    Hi woody you can do this my husband has just had is third chemo prostate cancer why don’t you cut your hours of work plenty fluids day before and after chemo keep positive love to you and your family ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Hi Patricia, I love my job but I won’t go overboard with it , I’m lucky I’ve got an amazing boss who is very supportive

  • @andrewharms2460
    @andrewharms2460Ай бұрын

    Woody look into having a psma pet scan to locate the recurrence ca and then consider stereotactic radiation. As well as chemotherapy.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    I don’t this type of treatment is available on the NHS to treat prostate cancer

  • @andrewharms2460

    @andrewharms2460

    Ай бұрын

    Hi Woody , I’m stage four in remission for past 12 months. The psma scan is widely available in Adelaide. The cost is about $ 900 aus privately but because I’m stage 4 I only pay 300$ . I’m also on daraludamide tertiary pills costing $30 per month . They are subsidised by Medicare $48,000 per year . My hormone blocker injections are $ 30 for 6 month single shot . They have told me if I need it they can do it in the Royal Adelaide Hospital for no cost . Check out nhs and pester them I bit . These new approaches may be available in major teaching hospitals in the uk . I hope this helps you .

  • @dusanjez2011

    @dusanjez2011

    Ай бұрын

    In my country psma test it is also not available. So ct scans or mr are done, which also show hot spots.

  • @Alice-qh2dm
    @Alice-qh2dmАй бұрын

    Hi Woody I’ve come in late to your story but I feel so privileged to hear you. Was there no chance of surgery?

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Hi Alice I was never offered any chance of surgery I think it was because the cancer had spread to many parts of my body , although most of it has gone now.

  • @dusanjez2011
    @dusanjez2011Ай бұрын

    Listen carefully: my top Slovene oncologist gave me prior to chemo something else: Apalutamid tablets daily, it stopped cancer for almost two years, with small side effects. Only later I had chemo which had many side effects and fatigue. So I was happy and strong under Apalutamid. Could work and all...

  • @dusanjez2011

    @dusanjez2011

    Ай бұрын

    Apalutamid is but not a cheap drug. My insurance covered it.

  • @dusanjez2011

    @dusanjez2011

    Ай бұрын

    Apalutamid is a wonderfull drug with so little side effects. Two years of normal life, my psa went from 700 to under 1 !!!!!!

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    That’s sounds good Dusan

  • @dusanjez2011
    @dusanjez2011Ай бұрын

    It is also enzalutamid, abirateron, darulutamid. And chemo. Maybe chemo first is stronger, better decision, really hard to tell. I had chemo later, it helped also, of course.

  • @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    @Livingwith-prostatecancer

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, I’m on enzultamide now for two and a half years , I think it’s coming to the end of its effectiveness

  • @dusanjez2011

    @dusanjez2011

    Ай бұрын

    @@Livingwith-prostatecancer ah so, yes, I agree. Apalutamide was good for me two years then no more unfortunately, and then comes chemo no doubt.