Donovan should’ve had a seat at the table considering the number of times his name was mentioned 😂

@anonymouskat6661

3 ай бұрын

yo homie was NOT fucking with Donovan at all lol

@TheMrCC21

2 ай бұрын

Jonathan had him in his back pocket and jumped into the next thing right away.

@emmeteel5394

2 ай бұрын

is donovan in the room with us

@kamax4700

Ай бұрын

He's the reason

@amiincontrol2924

Ай бұрын

He was salty haha

Damn I hope Hunter finds someone who loves him just as much.

@Psychedelic430

3 ай бұрын

She pretty much wasted a decade of his life .

@adanyajackson686

3 ай бұрын

@@Psychedelic430she didn’t know she was a lesbian and probably had heterosexual tendencies. Don’t be weird u don’t know their full situation. And to say she wasted his life when he never implied that is so entitled

@TCBBB22

3 ай бұрын

I've known him since middle school he's always been a good guy always got along with everyone. He deserves better than to be kept as a placeholder.

@worldofdaisy._

3 ай бұрын

@@RahinSomaliREACT again she didn't

@MaestraJager

3 ай бұрын

@@RahinSomaliREACT maybe she didnt know? also, with that thinking she wasted a decade too... dont be that one sided

blonde guy was done dirty af

@Vm.9424

3 ай бұрын

I feel bad for Hunter

@user-eu6wp6ws7c

3 ай бұрын

Hunter entered the chat

@svn5994

3 ай бұрын

@@user-eu6wp6ws7cDoesn't change blondie was done dirty.

@kaylajoyner8428

3 ай бұрын

​@DChris3 that's overkill, she wasn't a good girlfriend but to describe her as a beast is fucked up

@DChris3

3 ай бұрын

@@kaylajoyner8428 Oh, when I say "hideous beast" I don't just mean her quality as a girlfriend, I also mean her spiritual and physical presence...she is repulsive on both the metaphysical and physical planes. And that much is clear to any man imagining himself in the situation that poor dude was in: being intimately tied in a relationship with such a person 😂

Gonna let the comments marinate and come back

@Pandajo

3 ай бұрын

The takes are gonna be wild..

@kaylinchin3809

3 ай бұрын

LMAO REAL

@ximenaaxg

3 ай бұрын

LMFAO SAME

@alt269_

3 ай бұрын

YESS THATS EXACTLY WHAT IM DOING

@mesomeone8684

3 ай бұрын

This.

Hunter is such a top tier human being nothing but supportive of the person he loves despite things changing in all terrible ways for him. He is stronger than most of us could ever be and he deserves so much happiness

@Superbatmanbro

3 ай бұрын

Honestly 👍🏿 I respect him for that and I respect her for taking care of figuring out her sexuality

@jimmartin6803

3 ай бұрын

@@Superbatmanbro How can you have any respect for a person that lead another person without their consent for 12 years? What is your reasoning? Game is game?💀

@rodrigoandrade256

3 ай бұрын

​@@jimmartin6803 The information you have is that she told him right after she figured it out. Saying she led him is just you assuming something you have no way to know. Stop trying to infer things you don't know about people you don't know.

@Superbatmanbro

3 ай бұрын

@jimmartin6803 what I meant is that he's supportive of her,but It is also F up to string him along and wasted his time and mental health. I think the part that hurts a lot is finding out she didn't really love him for 12 years 💔

@jimmartin6803

3 ай бұрын

@@rodrigoandrade256 Okay so when you find a relationship you will understand that it does not take more that a year at most of romantic interactions in order to understand if you have no sexual attraction for the other person. So you can endlessly cope that she figured it out 12 years later and call what I said an assumption or you can engage sincerely with the argument and admit that she most likely led him on for a very long time without his knowledge and consent.

Blond and head band: most ill-matched couple in history.

@DD-qj8nw

3 ай бұрын

Was wondering if anyone else felt that way

@TarokMakto

3 ай бұрын

She’s not into him at all , she has other guys Checking In during their relationship. Bro dodged a bullet .

@fitzyman4552

3 ай бұрын

The guy looks like a Calvin Klein model, I'm surprised she dumped him.

@dm96177

3 ай бұрын

Seriously. He could do way better… I hope levels up 10x his next relationship.

@ihatehandles111

3 ай бұрын

Yeah he's dorky but beautiful. She is.... nevermind.@@fitzyman4552

Bandanna girl is not mature enough for an actual relationship. She’s just dragging people into an inevitable heartbreak for people who think they’re getting something beyond friends with benefits.

@janessakiara

3 ай бұрын

real

@yams.4308

3 ай бұрын

Exactly 7:51 what do you mean “you never held me accountable”. Hold yourself accountable!!!

@PurpleSanz

3 ай бұрын

She belongs to the streets!

@dianesserodriguez5886

3 ай бұрын

RIGHTTT !!!

@Redrumzeek

2 ай бұрын

Odd because imo he’s way outta her league (nh)

Donovan been in there PLOTTING 😂

@anellie924

3 ай бұрын

😂

@emmeteel5394

2 ай бұрын

in donovan in the room with us

"we were just drifting apart" is a boldddd statement from someone who surprised their partner with "surprise polyamory" fellas if all parties arent consenting to a poly relationship, then thats not a poly relationship, thats just cheating

@keelienne

3 ай бұрын

Didn’t he say it turned from an open relationship to a surprise poly? Sounds like catching feelings and not cheating to me..

@abeautifulmess163

2 ай бұрын

I think he just wanted to be private about it, but yeah, definitely more than that...

@earth2ellie

2 ай бұрын

!!!

@VONiiE8

Ай бұрын

@@keelienneif they agreed to an open relationship and it was something else, yes cheating. An open relationships means you can mess around, he started a new relationship with someone else. Yes, cheating.

@amiincontrol2924

Ай бұрын

Fellas?

“You never held me accountable” hold yourself accountable

@vladdmann

3 ай бұрын

''It's your fault, for letting me cheat on you without protesting''

@user-jp3bu6cx9q

3 ай бұрын

yeah wtf was that???? So immature of her 😕

@user-lb5yu5bd3e

2 ай бұрын

What a perfect storm of hot mess. She won't hold herself accountable and he has low self-esteem. I hope he can dig deep and work on himself to gain more confidence and leave her in the dust. for good!

@robotninjago

2 ай бұрын

Yeah like that’s the whole point of maturing?? What does she mean “you never held me accountable”

@It.is.I-tx6ri

Ай бұрын

This!! Hold yourself accountable is the thing!!!

Rile is blinded!!! Zana has guys who are “checking in” during the relationship. And to top it off she’s introducing him to them. Why would you wanna get back with her?

@joejunemusic1988

3 ай бұрын

Also shes hit... he can do much better. She built like Jabba the hutt.

@thai1101

3 ай бұрын

Duuuude this ! especially it pissed me off bc its very VISIBLE that he is KIND extremely understanding and very Attractive individual and she runs over him like that "checking in " sh*t she would NEVER get away wit that Ho* sh*t with a Man that would NEVER understand her doing that sh*t , not ok at all he deserves the best !

@alexknightking

3 ай бұрын

Introducing your partner to people you've slept with without them knowing deserves jail time. Argue with your mother. Everyone is at fault here, though. The guys "checking in," jail. Rile is a grown ass man and doesn't realize a girl telling you "you didn't hold me accountable" means she knew she was disrespecting you and continued to because you allowed it. Ding, ding, ding, Rile has won himself, JAIL!

@marleeeden250

3 ай бұрын

shes a shit gf

@Bizarria1007

3 ай бұрын

Also she looks a lot like bobby lee

To each they own but blonde dude can do better and deserves better , his ex is not ready for commitment period point blank she seems like a serial dater

@holostro

3 ай бұрын

his ex using love potions lmaoooo

@abeautifulmess163

2 ай бұрын

fr

What a gem of a man is Hunter. It takes a real man to deal with such situation with empathy and understanding. My man is a true catch

The girl with the headscarf has the most treacherous vibes. Her ex-mans needs to run while he can.

@user-qb9pp9bg4s

Ай бұрын

She looks like she suffers from low self esteem and keeps up with exes for validation.

@katarzynamariamuszynska2811

Ай бұрын

Why?

@aereid6

Ай бұрын

She seems like the type that's avoidant and insecure so she uses having so many "options" as a way to maintain distance. I feel so bad for the guy he deserves all the love!

How did Hunter even agree to this 🥺

@billeh60

3 ай бұрын

Bro just missed her

@Hinksmn

3 ай бұрын

ong that girl was bsing about the lesb thing she just needed an extreme excuse cuz they were together 4 so long

@khadijahbegum3546

3 ай бұрын

​​@@Hinksmn how do you know? Are you in her head? NO

@avabackupaccount

3 ай бұрын

@@Hinksmn what are you even saying

@Hinksmn

3 ай бұрын

@@khadijahbegum3546 look at her mannerisms how can u be that checked out on a man that only loved you and didn’t cheat? She just didn’t want to be w him

I love how Hunter and Stephanie are in complete understanding of one another, it's beautiful to watch. There is no resentment or manipulation. Shows they really went through quite some stuff.

@Dontrolling

3 ай бұрын

That’s what unconditional love looks like. Whether together or apart there’s still love and happiness to be shared.

@theprousteffect9717

3 ай бұрын

1) They're on camera 2) You don't know what's going on internally. There could be loads of resentment, doesn't mean they need to hate each other.

@mariettamay

3 ай бұрын

yeah but the point is they genuinely care for one another and make each other feel heard. you can't fake having that open connection with someone. people can sense when you're suppressing emotions, and imo they clearly have a space where both of them can express themselves. but you're right, I don't know for sure. and I'm sure they are having their fair share of arguments and obstacles too.@@theprousteffect9717

@Ceerads

3 ай бұрын

We have no idea what they feel off-camera.

@lildel7698

2 ай бұрын

Or he’s just a really cool guy lol

7:52 What do you mean that he never held you accountable?! Each person in a relationship should keep themselves accountable to make a relationship last. Don't put it on the other person.

@TarokMakto

3 ай бұрын

How can you have past guys checking in while your in a relationship , and then introduced them to your man without tell him about them and then say you never held me accountable? Wild. She’s a crimson flag for me 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@DChris3

3 ай бұрын

She's so revolting physically and metaphysically it's kinda nuts that poor guy was simping that hard 😂

@friskylor8597

3 ай бұрын

I took it as her agreeing that he loved her more to a fault. I think she was saying he probably should’ve been less understanding for certain things. He might’ve been the type to let things slide a lot. I don’t know though, just offering my perspective. We aren’t in their relationship so who knows lol

@Kirbystare1992

3 ай бұрын

Here’s an example I yell at you for not locking the door at night and I berate you for it and say things I shouldn’t say. You don’t stand up for yourself and say anything back you don’t have backbone and just let me walk all over you. I should hold you accountable by telling I felt disrespected instead of fearing confrontation even though I was wrong.

I’m glad hunter and this ex are still young. 12 years is a lotttt but they’ll have many years to experiment and be happy

Hunter looks so broken. 12 years is a lot!

@vivminecl747

3 ай бұрын

12 years is insane

@js-de8vh

3 ай бұрын

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@arnaudpierre3984

3 ай бұрын

A cause d'elle qui n'assume pas sont homosexualité plus tôt elle lui a fait perdre 12 ans de sa vie. Il mérite pas ça.

@jillsarah7356

3 ай бұрын

Plenty of marriages end after 12 years for all kinds reasons. It can be sad but sometimes it’s amicable. The only constant in life is change.

@js-de8vh

3 ай бұрын

@@jillsarah7356 Stay at boyfriend and girlfriend . 12 years means nothing to saying that you vow to be there sickness and health ignant

I feel for Hunter. Being robbed for 12 years is a long time, but also considering the likely suffering and brainwashing Stephanie experienced, and finally coming ṭo terms with her sexuality, is a good thing. Im happy they can maintain a strong, supportive friendship. Wishing the best for both of them!

@liva8522

3 ай бұрын

dont think he feels robbed. he spent and experienced many years with a person he loved. Look at it in a positive way. being negative all he time will drain you. he loved her, she loved him. he prolly learned a lot

@jimmartin6803

3 ай бұрын

I think she figured out in the first year or so and then she was just not ready to act like an adult and not waste another 11 years of their lives, unfortunately...

@zionwassie2372

3 ай бұрын

wtf thats horrible @@jimmartin6803

@jimmartin6803

3 ай бұрын

@@liva8522 Yeah but that still doesn't change the fact that he could have fostered a real loving relationship with another person that truly loved him, because the fact that he probably had a good time doesn't erase the fact that she manipulated the f out of him for 12 years

@moritzbraun7754

3 ай бұрын

You are accusing her of a very cruel thing, based on a couple of clips...

My god, the last kiss killed me. How were these people in a relationship lmao

@sarahrupert5320

2 ай бұрын

Grossed me out 😆🙅‍♀️

@caitlynfelt

2 ай бұрын

No like I was looking for this comment the face I made from cringing lmfao it was so gross to watch

The girl with the scarf on her head is giving not into him frfr vibes

@youllneverguesswho2654

2 ай бұрын

She’s pretending nit to be so she can have all the power in the relationship

bro hates donovan 😂

@DK-dc8pu

3 ай бұрын

He should hate his ex

Headband lady and that guy.... Sir please don't waste your time and find a loving and devoted partner for yourself. There is a better match for you out there.

@Carlos_Quintero_

Ай бұрын

Felt so bad for him

@kain2000

Ай бұрын

And looking as good as him

@corawilson4035

Ай бұрын

FR does anyone have his @

Hunter deserves someone who can reciprocate the big amount of love he has in his heart, to him.

@gentlebabarian

Ай бұрын

guys like that. Get shit on! I'm talking from experience!

The intro with Stephanie pulling her hands back so quickly like she touched a hot stove 🤣

@nailahdawkins

3 ай бұрын

It's like she was like "Don't enter into my boundaries" with that move 💯. I'm like him and her were all up in it while they were married, but now it's different for her obviously 😅. But yeah, do yah thing Stephanie 🎉

That bandana girl gave me such bad vibes. Also, Donovan was definitely in that breakup equation.

Who tf is Donovan? Can we get an episode of that 😂😂

“surprise polyamory” jfc

@iscfia

3 ай бұрын

which couple said that?

@icedcashewmilklatte

3 ай бұрын

3:03

@FleshWizard69420

3 ай бұрын

I think that's called cheating 💀

@Jenn-mc5sw

3 ай бұрын

That’s EXACTLY what I said when I heard him say that. Bro was done DIRTY. So sad 😢

@UrtooslowSega

2 ай бұрын

Literally felt this HARD 🥲 my ex did this to me; so I said "✌️"

I wanna see what Donovan looks like now and hear his side

@emmeteel5394

2 ай бұрын

is donovan in the room with us

Hunter loves her so much and my heart just aches for him. His energy was so sore, as though he was about to burst into tears at any moment. Respect to both of them. Hunter, i hope you find someone who loves you just as much and i frikken love you bro.

I feel so bad for both Hunter and Stephanie. But especially my man Hunter. He was literally shaking and trying so hard to keep it together. Idk if I'd be able to keep it together as well as he did.

@ameliafeyparsons4816

2 ай бұрын

Did we watch the same video?

Hunter is one of my best friends irl and this video doesn't remotely scratch the surface of what a truly amazing human being he is.

@inthemossandsand

2 ай бұрын

Hard agree.

@danmoretti8898

2 ай бұрын

No, he's MY best friend! jk love you Char

@eattofuholmes

2 ай бұрын

@@inthemossandsand Hi Dani! Miss you and hope you’re doing good! Come to CT and hang soon!

@eattofuholmes

2 ай бұрын

@@danmoretti8898I love the lovefest that’s happening on this thread, miss both of you lovelies!

@inthemossandsand

2 ай бұрын

@@eattofuholmes Hey Char! I know we'll be out there once we're in a better spot with jobs. There's nothing like a northeastern autumn

Ryal ‘I hope I spelled it correctly’ seems to be the sweetest guy. Where can I get in line? I’d spoil the heck out of him.

@chloehawks6465

3 ай бұрын

Haha my thoughts exactly

@lindsayreigh

3 ай бұрын

omg fr he is way out of that girls league...

@gamersquadlifestyle

3 ай бұрын

Yea go get him Queens and show my boy how it feels to really be loved and treated like a King🏆🫶🏾

@mercygirl317

3 ай бұрын

he does seem like a good catch. im not interested but i do hope he finds happiness. maybe with one of you 👍

@mercygirl317

3 ай бұрын

what worries me is she seemed like she wanted him back. lets hope he didnt go back. let her go back to one of her check ins.

Blonde dude was taken for a ride and she’s manipulating him. Saw them on another video and you can tell he liked her more than she like him.

@TarokMakto

3 ай бұрын

Keeping someone’s toothbrush just in case other guys stop checking in , I don’t think she likes him at all

@MsMallygirl

3 ай бұрын

Do u remember which video?

@Jenn-mc5sw

3 ай бұрын

Yeah! I wanna know too! Thought they looked familiar 🤔

@alpamaret5459

2 ай бұрын

I actually thought he is out of her league. He can do better than her

This might've been the first tough to watch cut video I've ever seen.

@Jonkoloog

3 ай бұрын

Oh believe me, there are a lot of hard watches between ex's and crushes.

@johannabonana5306

3 ай бұрын

You haven't watched many then.

@tahkaimartin8050

3 ай бұрын

@@johannabonana5306 usually I can watch them well enough but this one seemed different 😂

@SanskarWagley

2 ай бұрын

There was a similar video years ago

i feel so bad for rile. he is so attractive and deserves so much better

The REDDEST of flags. And you know exactly who I’m talking about.

"I freaking love you bro" lmao you were married for 12 years

@NessiiBear

3 ай бұрын

You can tell he is trying so hard to be supportive and lift her up by not weighing her down with his sadness and heartache. He’s such a good dude (from what we can see) prioritizing her happiness and comfort in her sexuality despite still being so in love with her. Poor guy was shaking like a leaf and trying so hard to keep it together, I wish the best for him honestly.

@animalbancho1726

8 күн бұрын

She’s fucking insane lmao

Hahaha, that intro gave me second-hand embarrassment...

My mom came out after 18 years with my dad. They're mature and my dad is very understanding that my mom was confused and scared. There is no bad blood. My mom has love for my dad always, they just weren't a romantic fit. These comments are INSANE. not everyone holds grudges and some people are understanding of others.

@tylerandhisleg6792

Ай бұрын

Bieng understanding of others is different from bieng upset/depressed.At the end of the day just like if you knew something was going to end your marriage but you weren't brave enough to tell its well within someone's rights to be upset/upset.The problem isn't her bieng a lesbian the problem wad the fact she couldn't be honest with herself and have to guts to tell hunter sooner.

@felisha209

Сағат бұрын

People will never have empathy for queer people

7:52 “I feel like you never held me accountable” girl….. IKYFL…is he your parent? Hold yourself accountable holy shit.

@Gr3ypool

3 ай бұрын

Right?! like wtf does she mean? lol

@danielladaumler9027

Ай бұрын

LITERALLY! I was going to say the same damn thing. Her actions are HER own choice. Ain't nothing anyone can do about it. When people like this do the blame game .. YAK

@ItsRaevie

29 күн бұрын

Nah i get it, she can hold herself accountable all she wants to, but even when trying to explain it to her partner and preparing for the rightful backlash, he seems like he doesnt have enough self esteem to feel comfortable getting angry or holding her accountable. So shes just kinda left in this limbo of guilt and confusion and never really figuring out whats going wrong bc he wont tell her what he needs

@danielladaumler9027

29 күн бұрын

​@@ItsRaevie I understand why you are trying to play devils advocate. She’s old enough to know that actions have consequences and affect people. So when people project their insecurities on to others, that is never right. But she knows what's going on. At this age. we don't have that excuse. All I’m saying is she needs to hold herself accountable for Her actions. No one else will. And that is not anyones job to tell a person how they should act.

i was gonna say "damn why did stephanie and hunter break up, they were together for 12 years and they seem to still be really chill and compatible" and then she said she was a lesbian and i was like "ah, yep, thats why" lmao, i rly hope hunter finds the perfect person for him all their answers to their questions are fucking hilarious "hunters been knee deep in pussy" "when did you know the relationship was doomed" "when you said 'i think im a lesbian'" has me dead

@summerlyric506

2 ай бұрын

My exact thoughts 😂😂😂

The guy with the yellow jacket is way out of her league, cant believe she broke up with him. Anyways for the best as she seems to be carrying a lot of baggage he will find someone better so easily

@reya717

3 ай бұрын

I thought I was the only one thinking that he’s super cute 😌

@111coolone

Ай бұрын

lol right she is not cute at all how is she even capable of breaking someone’s heart 😂

That kiss made me physically recoil and say “ew”. You know which kiss I’m talking about.

Hunter deserves the world

*“What can I do to improve in bed?”* *“You should vacuum more…”*

@akumayoxiruma

3 ай бұрын

The way he said it in such dry manner made me question if this was a sex joke or literally the case of: "Gurl, clean your nasty flat!"

@rebeca2085

3 ай бұрын

Isn't vacuum a term for how you bj?

The divorced couple are so sweet! It's obvious how much they care about each other and are probably supportive friends. That situation could have been super messy and hurtful, but it seems like they both chose to be mature and kind.

The red head guy really has deep love for his ex you can tell. I hate getting into a situationship with someone who still has ex's and fwb around them tho...gives me anxiety

Stephanie and Hunter are both really amazing, brave, strong, kind people. I'm extremely proud of them and the way they've navigated their journeys

Leave the lesbian aloneeeeee. Stop hunting them!!!!

Stephanies voice makes me melt... its a good voice

I don't understand not telling the man he's biting your lip too hard the first, second or third time. Ma'am.

1:17 the comma between lesbian and hunter is working HARD

i think some of you need to realize that trauma can suppress things for a really long time! she seemed to have loved hunter as a friend and respect him as a person, so i dont think she had any ill intent on being with him for so long

@jimmartin6803

3 ай бұрын

12 years should be criminal, you cannot love another person and hide something like that for 12 years if you are not a psychopath or a master manipulator💀

@jillsarah7356

3 ай бұрын

There are tons of reasons marriages end, sometimes marriages that last even longer than 12 years end. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Sexuality is a spectrum and can be fluid and shift over time. The only constant in life is change!

@smile.9602

3 ай бұрын

you sound so closeminded, it's strange. Think past your forehead. @@jimmartin6803

@lancefisher8358

3 ай бұрын

Ill intent or not 12 Years and giggling about it on her end is mad disrespectful to the relationship. Them staying friends just serves as a reminder of what was... better man than me

@youngrichandblvck5496

3 ай бұрын

Continuing a marriage for over a decade without revealing struggles with one's orientation is profoundly selfish, regardless of intent. One makes a commitment to truthful intimacy through marriage vows. Breaking that commitment denies a partner the agency to make fully informed decisions about their own life .She just wasted his time.

Oh Hunter 🥺I think he’s in such a state of pain and is at a point where it just can’t get any worse. So just let it be. He’s not resentful or hateful, he’s just supportive and appears to be coasting. Trying to keep it together. I applaud him in trying and putting himself out there. Not an easy feat in the least. And not one ☝🏽1 person in their right mind would fault this man for being pissed off, but here he is just keeping calm and carrying on. Hope he’s blessed with a genuine, beautiful & passionate relationship in the future. They both deserve that.

Donovan needs to come to the stand

You guys are fucked up for doing this 😂

I feel terrible for the blonde guy. She didn't deserve him at all.

Sir that has the lesbian ex-wife, THANK YOU. You are an awesome dude, bro! I know it’s easy to say when it’s not our life, but not a lot of men reacts this way. I know people that completely blocked people from their life after and i think it is very sad

"I realised im a lesbian" 😂

Brian mentioning Donovan in all his answers is cracking me up lol

Not her practically pushing his head away after the kiss 💀💀💀

@theprousteffect9717

3 ай бұрын

Yeah what the fuck was that? Lol. Dude can do so much better than her in so many ways.

Kinda feel bad for my guy Hunter

Hunter is still in love with his ex. And blonde guy and scarf girl is confusing me

I would much rather be broken up with because someone finally came to terms with their genuine sexuality than for any other reason. Y’all realize that sometimes people get 9 years in and just decide they hate you, right? 😅 as it is, neither of them did anything wrong and they can stay friends

@alaskarose4478

10 күн бұрын

Why would anyone be friends with an ex?

@d.f.4830

10 күн бұрын

@@alaskarose4478 well, I’m friends with nearly all of mine. I thought they were cool people who I respected prior to dating them, and still feel that way after - the fact that the romantic relationship didn’t work out is no reason to lose the friendship. These relationships all ended amicably; we basically were friends, escalated to dating, then deescalated to being friends again 🤷🏻‍♂️

Hunter is a straight up babe, ijs. They both seem to have the most genuine friendship after the fact too and I'm glad for them.

if i were hunter i dont know how to ever get out of this like the shock that the person i always loved for my whole life actually never loved me.. and were just forced themselves to do that like.. i am happy for them they found out about it but like kind of like heartbroken they had to go through this and then heartbroken for myself bc like 7-8 years is just too long i cant get over it like easily at all like maybe more than 3 years

Man hunter is a good guy he deserves the best.

It's so weird to me that everyone talks about how Hunter had "12 years of his life wasted", while he was actually with a person he loved, but no one talks about Stephanie's wasted years. Like, as a lesbian myself, I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone I don't feel the spark for, you know? It's like magic, it's crazy stuff. But, like, imagine not feeling any of that for 12 years and thinking "Huh, so this is as good as it gets? This is what everyone in the world seems to go crazy about?" Like, I have male friends whom I love, who are good guys, and if I had to be in a relationship with any of them, I imagine it wouldn't be entirely terrible, because they're great people. But, like, for one party it would be a fulfilling relationship, while for the other it'd just be a domestic partnership with intimacy feeling like a chore (or even worse). And then that, for TWELVE YEARS. Also, about how someone could not have known... It's easier for women to ignore it, I think. Like, I've confused being in love with "being really good friends", and I've known and have accepted that I'm not straight since maybe eleven. You don't have a clear physical indication of sexual attraction, so it's much easier to dismiss or confuse it for something else. "Female friendships are just really close," you say. "Oh, that's how everyone feels about their friend". You don't discuss these things, either. So it's a lot.

@rachelmaposah3286

13 күн бұрын

But she wasted his time, it’s her own fault she was in a relationship for 12 years who she has no spark for

@gerbilfan456

10 күн бұрын

@@rachelmaposah3286 girl she literally said she was raised in a high control religion of course she was gonna suppress her sexuality and of course it would be hard to come to terms with....

@felisha209

Сағат бұрын

Stephanie absolutely has way more to grieve than he ever will. Look at how fast he was able to move on. Finding other lesbians to date is like finding a needle in a haystack. People are only centering him bc of patriarchy

Blonde guy is wayyyyyy too sweet and genuine for that kinda girl. He deserves so much better, if only he saw it in himself!

they don’t need to have anymore discussion or conversation . they should not get back together 😂😂

Hunter is definitely the type of dude a lesbian would date though.

"freakin love you bro" tf is that after all that time together especially married for that much time... Geez stay strong my brother Hunter, can feel the emotions even just looking at his leg always moving nervously and that forced shaky laugh this shit hits hard

@mishlake1

3 ай бұрын

They seem pretty well adjusted and like very good friends. Look at the way they support one another unconditionally and without judgment. That’s indicative of a deep love, mutual respect, and quiet content confidence. Stimming is not necessarily a sign of distress. Millions of people have ADHD.

@SoiBoySam

2 ай бұрын

​@@mishlake1look at his legs bruh, the only one truly anxious at that time is him. Not throwing shade at the lady, but people hide feelings. Hes hurt, and that's okay.

I loved seeing friendship and support between Stephanie and Hunter.

Headband was entertaining boundary crossing men and introducing them to their partner, WIIIILD. Rile deserves better. Surprise polyamory sounds a lot like......Cheating. And Hunter and Stephanie clearly had a lot of love and made the best of an unfortunate situation

Justice for Hunter 😢

Donavan really wrecked it

Brian, Hunter and Ryle seem like absolute sweethearts! Also Ryle is extremely handsome, what is he doing chasing that!?

Dappin Up Your Eskimo Brother Without Know Is Crazy!!

That’s insane to not come to terms with not being sexually attracted to men after being in a relationship with a man for 3 years then married for 9!! Glad she stopped denying her sexuality

@thedeepend6407

3 ай бұрын

And then the existential dread of wasting like 1/6th of both of your lives is absolutely awful for both of them. I hope they find happiness as time goes on because despite smiles there has to be so much to unpack with that for years.

@kkp4297

3 ай бұрын

Moral of the story…. Religion is fukt up and toxic

@zkart8038

3 ай бұрын

​@@thedeepend6407but she did it by choice. He was dragged into it. Sorting your sexuality is on you and you alone and take as much time as you need..but bringing others into this is awful. I know its difficult for her too but deceiving someone else for your hurt is just so selfish.

@willparkes3525

3 ай бұрын

@@zkart8038not a great take here… the role that trauma can play here is massive and can play a massive part in identifying your own sexuality, I doubt that he was dragged in ‘by her choice’. Calling her selfish is not the play. Not to speculate here but I doubt she realised her sexuality untill recently, and then decided to end the relationship, which I would say is pretty brave knowing that it would cause pain but is ultimately for the best. Obviously we don’t know what happened but I think branding this as selfish probably isn’t correct.

@Huddy22009

3 ай бұрын

@@willparkes3525 And I feel like calling it a waste misses out on so much of what their relationship probably is (and I say probably because there's only so much speculation an internet-stranger can do). Even if they weren't sexually compatible, they had each other's companionship and care for 12 years. They look like good friends now, and that friendship developed over the course of their relationship, and they still have that relationship today.

Props to Hunter for getting after it👏🏽

Some of y’all are either A) too privileged about the environment you were raised in to realize or B) too young to realize that coming out was (and in some places still is) HARD and it’s almost demanded to repress those emotions to the point where you just kind of live in the illusion. She didn’t intentionally hurt him and that’s why they still support each other. The amount of shade being thrown at Stephanie is so sad. That situation wasn’t easy for either of them but they clearly weren’t unhappy. It just came to the point where she needed to do something else. They both deserve what will make them truly happy for the remainder of their lives. Also, in fairness, if it hurts Hunter too much to be friends with her then he’s causing himself that pain by not cutting the ties. My best to them both because the pain of love is terrible. While I’m at it, Ryle deserves better and Zanay can literally see herself out of the room and take several seats in whatever room she lands in. Who THE FUCK keeps “on and off” people in their life when they’re happily with someone? Being friends with an ex, where it’s CLEARLY over, is one thing. Being friends with someone you fuck every other hour, WHILE YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE, is shit. Bye. And don’t get me started on this Donovan situation. This video was a lot.

one dude can do way better then that girl with the du rag

HUNTER SWEET HUNTER.. there are no conversations to be had lol. She won't change, unless she wants to. But it seems in this period of her life leaving the door open is her forte. And the statement "I feel like you've never held me accountable" NO ONE needs to hold you accountable but your damn self. Heal before you hurt others

the weird al lookin guy is still hurting...he thought he found the one

1:19 SHE SAID IT. SHE SAID THOSE FAMOUS WORDS 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

The guy in the jacket has love in his eyes! I hope he heals. She clearly wasn’t ready for love

Being married for 9 years and then suddenly "realising" that you are a lesbian is wild. Hopefully both of them are doing well now that it's sorted out.

@cheesygordita

3 ай бұрын

yeah honestly i cant imagine the pain from her ex partner like i’m sure he’s doing okay now but that’s such a heartbreak

@CamilaSaurus

3 ай бұрын

It’s a fear of mine that a partner would say that to me after so long

@arnaudpierre3984

3 ай бұрын

What a wast of time and life

@Scorpiobw

3 ай бұрын

I know a woman (she's actually a close friend) who has been a lesbian since I've known her. One day summer of 2022 I got a text from her speaking of her current bf. I just rolled with it. Later that year she explained a lot of child abuse and trauma had left her confused for the majority of her life. 😢 I honestly believe this (& the opposite) happens to a lot of us. All we can do is just love and support them! 💜

@linksysKOW

3 ай бұрын

i don't think she suddenly realized it but that she always knew and was in denial.

my name is Hunter and my girl also just left me because she found out shes lesbian, literally unreal 💀💀💀

i hipe hunter is doing well i cant even imagine how he feels right now. the women who made him who he is, the women he dreams about. I send love for that soldier good luck to him

Cut just be bringing the most random people on here

@Noneofyourbusiness194

3 ай бұрын

But you're tuning in and commenting, not so random i guess

@Misa_Susaki

3 ай бұрын

I mean no, they are random. That doesn't make it bad content.

@d.f.4830

3 ай бұрын

My brother, sister, or nonbinary sibling in Christ - we are all just random people 😂

that blonde guy deserves soooo much better

I love how you can hear it as ''Im a lesbian, Hunter.'' or ''Im a lesbian hunter.'' xddd

4:25 “mind your business” ohh she was p1ssedd 😂😂😂😂

I want to be in a Cut video so bad and then I remember you need to be okay with being on camera 😃💀

I feel kinda bad for hunter though. I'm probably wrong but it seems like he's happy they're friends but it definitely fucked him up. I understand that he's happy for her, but if he could turn back time, I'm sure he would. I know I would.

Please have an episode of Donovan telling his side of the story. I just want to see this guy after hearing so much bout him

That conversations to be had response was a definite no from his exes facial expressions

Ryle, do not take her back. She is WRONG. A genuine person will not treat you this way.