This is an example of “sometimes, love is not enough”

@michalka2766

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Still hurts to admit that love sometimes just isn‘t enough

@athelstan5794

3 жыл бұрын

it is. they just want things to be 💯 but guess what human relationships dont work like that.

@extremepsyche3135

3 жыл бұрын

love doesn't pay the bills

@cerde4392

3 жыл бұрын

and the road gets tough, I don't know why

@a.blackwater3076

3 жыл бұрын

I think their sexual chemistry is a big reason they held on too.

Make no mistake about it, he's DYING inside.

@palmerstubbs4067

3 жыл бұрын

my man is hurting hurting.

@palmerstubbs4067

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelasaurus5669 nah i commented 3 hours ago, catch up

@anarchist_parable

3 жыл бұрын

It's so evident

@gonzalezsax4129

3 жыл бұрын

I bet, having to end the relationship because she just didnt want to chase after success.

@hansbeamer5725

3 жыл бұрын

Man , you really got eyes

i find it so interesting how people can decide someone’s entire character, feelings, and future based off a 7 minute video.

@chenalindelossantos967

3 жыл бұрын

true. people come to conclude as fast as the videos end.

@7eddiii

3 жыл бұрын

Literally everyone is just making assumptions based on their own past relationships 😂😂😂

@Alex_Aramayo

3 жыл бұрын

They can be oblivious to it too

@sl1gh

3 жыл бұрын

When you've experienced life enough, had relationships enough AND you're EQ and IQ is high enough, you can have a fairly accurate grasp of a person's character, their feelings even if it was just for 7 mins. Armed with all that I've said previously, it's just a matter of observation and common sense.

@gaywaren

3 жыл бұрын

@@sl1gh i disagree. i know people like to pretend they know everything and are smarter than they actually are, but i will never believe you can truly understand someone’s character in a 7 minute Cut video. no matter how “experienced” in “life” you are.

this is an example of why you shouldn't get married when you still have problems in a relationship. marriage doesn't fix already existing problems.

@brebitzer2066

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is going to have their problems it’s how you navigate through them with each other

@Giloaodpjdjwlhjao

3 жыл бұрын

There will always be problems in a relationship

@theoverunderthinker

3 жыл бұрын

@@brebitzer2066 but HOW you navigate through them should be a sign to you whether you should be together or call it off. you will always have challenges in life , but do you work together or do you compete or place blame?

@squanchy..

2 жыл бұрын

Not having problems but voicing your problems early in a relationship. It's the key to making it work. Always br engaging even in the negative things you dont want to talk about. Blowing something off just because you love someone or think you will hurt them will just create massive pressure till eventually it boils over later on.

@samwise1790

Жыл бұрын

I feel like everyone is completely missing one of the biggest issues in the relationship that was stated at the start that they have by their own admission, irreconcilable political, lifestyle, career differences. Just shooting a shot in the dark based on what they said but he seems like someone ready to settle down, have a good career, a family, etc, and she wants to be like a political activist, doesnt mind being poor, doesnt have tine for kids and a house. Its pretty clear at least his dad is likely very conservative, so he is likely at best 'apathetic' to her political causes. He dodged a bullet tbh

"we're separated"...*wears almost matching outfits*

@savvy4272

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing about what they have on matches😂 it’s not even “almost matching”💀

@that1bandkid351

3 жыл бұрын

They live in a trailer and share the same bed so I wouldn’t put it behind them to do that

@tommoblue2296

3 жыл бұрын

@@savvy4272 not matching but they look like a couple from a catalog

@lyricc2702

3 жыл бұрын

@@savvy4272 they both have beanies, both wearing stripe shirts both wearing kachkis

@illestvillain1971

3 жыл бұрын

They slept with each other just over a week before filming, they sleep in the same bed and are incredibly similar at face value. They may as well be a couple, but they are planning a separation. Very strange set of circumstances.

They didn't even drink cause they were just too honest

@gladiusnite5957

3 жыл бұрын

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@Random12246

3 жыл бұрын

@ptube1 1 why would it be

@celesbianmegastar

3 жыл бұрын

They did drink to the “last time you had sex” question

@exoticsargent8066

3 жыл бұрын

@@Random12246 it’s a possibility

@ChillyChav

3 жыл бұрын

@@celesbianmegastar and they practically answered that one too

"We played World or Warcraft together..." bro my guy is never gonna recover

@debofaisbarika5510

2 жыл бұрын

I feel this in my fawking core.

@Stephanie-cl4fu

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@mannycalavera2335

Жыл бұрын

God damn, that is a tough one. Even if you don't want to be with her.

@mannyg1750

2 ай бұрын

Yes, he will recover. Time heals all wounds. There’s someone out there for all of us. Think positive about life.

@OneFiveYankee

2 ай бұрын

She’s a wow player? Dude dodged a giant bullet.

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

@Mia1827

Күн бұрын

It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

@Nancy2551-g6i

Күн бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

@Mia1827

Күн бұрын

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@Mia1827

Күн бұрын

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

@Nancy2551-g6i

Күн бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

Its a darn shame they're getting divorced they are gonna have decide who gets which clothes cause they dress almost the same

@hawradatoo6272

3 жыл бұрын

This is so funny omg I cant😭😭

@joeyscorr

3 жыл бұрын

Wow.☠

@norceenhamdi

3 жыл бұрын

YOOO 😭😭😭😭

@sandrabrainy9710

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@annabeldelfabbro3774

3 жыл бұрын

These are the real problems

Them: *Sleeps in the same bed* Producer: “Put a partition between them to prevent COVID-19 spread”

@hrg818

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't even notice that lmfaaooo!!!

@anythinguseuse7697

3 жыл бұрын

haha ikr

@tomasteply1956

3 жыл бұрын

LoL 😂

@xinsanedefeatx

3 жыл бұрын

Doesn’t matter who they are, if they didn’t they could still potentially be fined. Not saying it makes sense, just how it be

@PowPowSkis

3 жыл бұрын

I believe they used this setup on more than one couple that day

He was definitely hurting, but he was very mature with his answers.

@hd-xc2lz

2 ай бұрын

He was unusually self-critical for a guy his age, but maybe to the extent of seeming a mush to his soon to be ex-wife, who I suspect could be more strident than we see here.

@anyfourwordphrase42

14 күн бұрын

I’m twice their age and couldn’t muster half their maturity in a similar situation

@greyworld13

3 күн бұрын

absolutely

Every time I hear "we are separated" and "we still live/sleep together", all orifices in my body contract into an asterisk.

@WildFlaccid

Күн бұрын

This is the best comment I've ever read

Why was this so healthy and so toxic at the same time

@philippkuhn2515

3 жыл бұрын

What about this was toxic?

@moodsofkiwi9285

3 жыл бұрын

Philipp Kühn, maybe Hannah is saying it’s toxic bc it’s a divorce, so there had to be some historical toxicity underlying their relationship. There’s also this new term called ‘toxic positivity’, where ppl only say positive things bc they feel the requirement to be positive or healthy even if it’s suppressing their real dark feelings about something, which is ok to feel

@MonikaLewismomo

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@ririx7990

3 жыл бұрын

@@philippkuhn2515 the breakup sex for me 😂

@ririx7990

3 жыл бұрын

right 😂😂

I feel like the producer was more invested in this than anyone ever and i love it.

@LOL_MANN

3 жыл бұрын

First Reply PogU

@britneyvillela1284

3 жыл бұрын

he was definitely thinking in his head “but they look so perfect”

@yesicachaparro9246

3 жыл бұрын

@vaibhav agarwal because someone held a gun to their head and forced them to show up lmao

@jamesrenard8347

3 жыл бұрын

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@MsCatwoman4

3 жыл бұрын

@vaibhav agarwal yea i agree

it’s so sad cause they like so compatible, the way they talk, their energy, THE WAY THEY DRESS, idk… guess u never know

@robertmoffit1135

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah my dad got divorced a long time ago and he can't stand his ex wife. This is not how I would think a soon to be divorced couple would act together

@hd-xc2lz

2 ай бұрын

I suspect they both may regret this divorce when they hit their thirties if still single. Seems a divorce born of idealism.

@benjaminleo7011

8 күн бұрын

Because this generation think both partners need to agree with each other on absolutely everything. Also he definitely needs someone who's more work and future driven.

They are still so sweet to each other. You can really see the love between them. I am sad that it didn’t work out. I really wish they both find happiness because they seem so incredibly sweet

This was probably one of the most mature and transparent conversations shown on Truth or Drink.

@shiprakumar5968

3 жыл бұрын

Also the one with the 2 bulgarian girls!

@gizmo8453

3 жыл бұрын

Especially at 5:30

@shemmy95

3 жыл бұрын

She is not mature at all. She separated because she doesn't want to be financially responsible and think about the future?

@mirrorball1

3 жыл бұрын

their communication is so good

@arock4thewin835

3 жыл бұрын

@@shemmy95 that’s not what it at all. When they brought up money she said he’s very money focused and I’m not. And that’s okay. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to help financially. That just means that one of his main goals is gaining money and that’s not the case for her. She would help it just wouldn’t be a main goal. And there were way more reasons they weren’t compatible than that. They were both very mature about it

They should bring them back in 6 months to a year to see how they’re doing. I’m invested.

@_serenity3298

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr I hope they do too

@krisshaped

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, this would be good to see. Even with some of the same questions that could still apply.

@SubliminalMessHunter

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@slamdunk406

3 жыл бұрын

I’d definitely watch. LOL 😂

@maysen77

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss

Everybody saying it looks healthy but guys... Living together, sleeping together while not being together is not healthy

@KH-nt7ej

20 күн бұрын

Yeah that is not healthy. Marriage over. These 2 don't know what the hell they are doing.

I recently think abt my past marriage and ex husband, then this popped up. It really hit somehow. When I got the divorce, I only see the pain and all the uncomfortable stuffs that made me want to quit. After a while of healing, I realized things were also sweet and warm sometimes. We tried, but it didn't work. But it was still something to remember in our lives and we'll have to live with it

This wasn't even truth or drink. This was a great therapy session with the couple and the producer.

@gladiusnite5957

3 жыл бұрын

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@AlexGarcia-xi8xy

3 жыл бұрын

Fr tho

@jadahopkins5730

3 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@peyton3217

3 жыл бұрын

FACTS !!!

Ladies and gentlemen this is what we call "Healthy breakup"

@stojo33

3 жыл бұрын

Healthy? How? Why do people think that a breakup can be healthy? There is no such a thing. Clearly they know it too... as they confessed having sex with each other still...but also talking to other people. Like how is it healthy that the guy who she is talking to online probably just found out that these guys still have sex with each other. Who the fuck is this healthy for?

@OzTheWizardOfPorn

3 жыл бұрын

Breakups CAN be "healthy". People change over time. If your interests, goals and views on life vastly change it might be best to communicate that. If it's not working out even though you've tried then it's fine to separate. No reason to be toxic about that because that's just part of being a human I guess.

@stojo33

3 жыл бұрын

@@OzTheWizardOfPorn Just because you are not toxic it does not mean its healthy...

@jamesrenard8347

3 жыл бұрын

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@aysa3160

3 жыл бұрын

@@stojo33 instead of staying together where it could have turned very toxic they decided to part ways which can be seen as healthy. we all have different opinions on certain matters.

when she talked about him almost cheating on her, it almost hit me how hard she mustve tried to keep it together cause i wouldve left such a relationship immediately, it shows she mustve loved him a lot to want to make things work out even though she would, after that moment have a constant thought of him cheating on her in the back of her head

I respect them both for coming out and being transparent about their relationship. It's been a helpful learning experience.

“We still sleep in the same bed” *plastic divider in between them*

@ZaneDalton

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao I thought the same thing

@soeradjchotkan4199

3 жыл бұрын

Correct word is condom

@A17CH-23

3 жыл бұрын

yeah that was on my mind too . its so stupid xd

@elizabethg2062

3 жыл бұрын

@@soeradjchotkan4199 😂😂

@ktmndz

3 жыл бұрын

@@soeradjchotkan4199 stopppp😭😭

By the time a woman breaks up with her partner, she has already gone through most if not all the stages of grief. He is just starting that process which is clear why he is struggling way more than her.

@shelocsher2396

3 жыл бұрын

True. Women typically leave emotionally and mentally long before we leave physically.

@Ellie-jl3vk

3 жыл бұрын

@@shelocsher2396 That's actually so true, I didn't realize that.

@thechurchofsolange58

3 жыл бұрын

You can see that happen in Marriage Story....

@ceciliaanthony3219

3 жыл бұрын

@@thechurchofsolange58 Thank you for commenting that! I now have a new movie to watch ☺️

@ceciliaanthony3219

3 жыл бұрын

This is 100% true!

You can just feel the pain in his heart.

This was very heartfelt. They really tried, they knew what their weak points were and they can admit them to each other. I'm happy they tried.

@SierraMixology

8 ай бұрын

This comment is somewhat poetic and I really appreciated it. Sometimes trying is all you can do if it’s not meant to mesh

It is so sad to think that most divorced people started out madly in love.

@kramer1372

3 жыл бұрын

.. yep, agree... i think about that a lot...

@bomboospaghetti4121

3 жыл бұрын

Divorced= once married. I hope they were in love.. dumbass.

@oftheHowl

3 жыл бұрын

@@bomboospaghetti4121 rude for no reason, you know how common arranged marriages still are? Also plenty of people get married because they accidentally had a kid. Some people get married for green cards, some get shotgun weddings bc they're young and stupid, etc. I would bet my life on the fact that most people in the world were not in love when they got married. LUST is very different

@Kevin-sg5xc

3 жыл бұрын

*madly in lust

@arpitabrahmachari7649

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly marriage isn't worth it anymore.

This hurts in the most healthy way ever

@ReginaPhelangee

3 жыл бұрын

The feeling is contentment I think. I’ve always hated it

@kenxd585

3 жыл бұрын

This this is what I was trying to think

@bawksi4778

3 жыл бұрын

@@kenxd585 yea me too and he said it perfectly

@Awesome-si5oz

3 жыл бұрын

Yep....😕

@mikeyaustin7526

2 жыл бұрын

This is not healthy lol

the biggest takeaway here is if you're already thinking of cheating on your partner even though nothing came of it you should probably hold off on marrying them.

Goes to show how important trust is. Dude killed this relationship in the early days.

I’m so glad they can just sit down and talk about this stuff. Really down to earth.

@lucaspoles3251

3 жыл бұрын

I disagree. I think they’re being pleasant, but I don’t think they’re being honest. They’re separated but they live in the same place? Seems like one of many red flags.

@lamiv1

3 жыл бұрын

Ț

@GabrieleMBest00

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucaspoles3251 houses arent cheap lol it's a red flag that they cant afford a second living space?

@lucaspoles3251

3 жыл бұрын

@@GabrieleMBest00 they couldn't have gone to either of their parents spaces? friends? how are they living together but separated? Doesn't seem healthy. Would you want to be in that situation?

@GabrieleMBest00

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucaspoles3251 sorry to see you cant be friends with the person you once lived, me n my ex are close friends. we hang out one on one all the time. so no, I wouldnt care. not every separation ends in a huge fight

Him admitting that (in his words), “scarred the relationship early on” was really mature. They both really healthy and mature and insightful about their relationship.

@elijahdurnal

3 жыл бұрын

True but everyone’s knows they went for another round of breakup sex after this 😂

@dirtrider88

3 жыл бұрын

im sorry for every pathetic man in your life that has caused to to think that was really mature.

@darkhorse381

3 жыл бұрын

@@dirtrider88 Taking responsibility for your mistakes is mature in any context what do you mean?

@dirtrider88

3 жыл бұрын

@@darkhorse381 i mean it shouldnt be anything above the norm that makes someone make a specific comment about it how really mature it was. im saying im sorry to the person who wrote that comment because apparently they dont have many half decent people in their life.

@ceciliaanthony3219

3 жыл бұрын

@@dirtrider88 Thank you for empathising with OP, I can already tell you’re really insightful and caring. You would be a great friend to have. Also to OP, when the guy said that line about his actions scarring the relationship thereafter was also something that stood out to me as well and was almost foreign to hear someone take accountability for their wrongdoings.

This is the definition of being civil after a breakup/divorce it doesn’t always have to be nasty and hateful (and yes every situation is different)

Married young and have been married for 11 years. This is so incredibly sad to watch, and it makes my stomach hurt witnessing him come to terms, and her just be so over him already. I did expect to have these feelings, and thought this vid would just be incredibly tacky.

“I think you two would be good together” I know that was fucking rough but props man.

@Forgivefull

3 жыл бұрын

That hurt me hearing him say that. Thats the most manliness of manly things

@brycerichardson3687

3 жыл бұрын

Bless his soul holy shit

@combatcarl

3 жыл бұрын

He didn't really mean but hes trying to be supportive, but you can sense his pain

@justinc.3385

3 жыл бұрын

One of those statements where in his head he was crying

@rawt3n315

3 жыл бұрын

@@combatcarl well obviously that was his wife , but the fact he told it is so good.

i feel like she’s been getting over the end for a while now, while he’s just realizing that it’s really over.

@gordo1163

3 жыл бұрын

thats usually how it goes

@TheKatarinaGiselle

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, almost always how it goes

@trailblazers9491

3 жыл бұрын

He is still grieving. She, like most women, had checked out months or a year before he ever knew there was a problem.

@mossking2815

3 жыл бұрын

@@trailblazers9491 Both said they knew it had been over for months before it happened and that there were both aware there were problems for a while. Did you even watch the video or did you just jump straight to blaming women for everything?

@trailblazers9491

3 жыл бұрын

@@mossking2815 Knowing it is over and being over the grieving is two different things. If YOU had watched the video, you would clearly see the woman is a lot farther along their journey than the man is.

This was the most mature conversation I think I’ve ever seen about a breakup/divorce

This looks like the heathiest divorce I have ever seen jesus christ

@moodsofkiwi9285

3 жыл бұрын

On the surface I’m sure. There’s always something lying underneath!

@SidV101

3 жыл бұрын

My parents divorced a decade ago and have lived together happily ever since. I was in high school when it happened and the only thing that changed after the divorce was that they stopped screaming at each other. I still don’t know why they divorced but I think it had to do with my dad being irresponsible with money.

@moodsofkiwi9285

3 жыл бұрын

Jo Beiafuq I’m not saying they should expose themselves. I’m saying there are always internal issues behind a divorce, as healthy as it could be on the surface

@yz4043

3 жыл бұрын

I can tell they're seething under it

@SidV101

3 жыл бұрын

@@basedbritannian9916 severed their finances. Also my dad has dated like a million women since then

I love how they can sit down and talk regardless of their situation. Very mature.

@Ciantrex

3 жыл бұрын

First I guess

@jamesrenard8347

3 жыл бұрын

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@MissBlushingFox

3 жыл бұрын

i mean they live together

@leila2718

3 жыл бұрын

@@MissBlushingFox that doesn't mean anything

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3 жыл бұрын

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This was such an interesting video, great communication and maturity make a huge difference in relationships.

Everybody’s saying how the guy is “dying inside” but I don’t really catch that vibe from him. He seems emotionally healthy and rational about the whole thing. The girl actually gives off more of a resentful vibe to me

Imagine making one of the most iconic piece of music and 200 years later it ends up in a CUT video.

@jesserobinson4967

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao

@moviesandmusicinsync7238

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaaaoooooooo

@bysscanna

3 жыл бұрын

lmaoo i never thought of this 😭

@MrUzt

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, but max fosh is also using this , so its ok

@wadrianalefe6490

3 жыл бұрын

It is actually everywhere, so that is actually nice. But for certain it is become boring. People make it so easy to saturate some pieces

it's gonna be awkward when they run into eachother at a seaside coffee brew vintage trailer that happens to sell quinoa in oregan

@Awjikis

3 жыл бұрын

Oregon*

@jesussonofgod2450

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao

@fudge7545

3 жыл бұрын

Ahahahaaaa the specificity loooool

@Forest__Dream

3 жыл бұрын

LmfaOOOOO omg yes! 😂

@LaBayZe

3 жыл бұрын

hahahahaahahahahahahahahahahaahahaha

This is so sad..it’s heartbreaking to know that these two were so invested into each other and were so happy together at one point

@AndrewDaniele87

8 ай бұрын

that one point could've been like the first month

They live in a trailer, she doesn’t want a career and money isn’t important to her. AKA she’s lazy, doesn’t want to sacrifice her laziness for the sake of her marriage, and she’s selfish. No wonder his dad doesn’t like her. He knows his son can do so much better. It’s actually kind of scary how much she doesn’t care that his dad doesn’t like her.

I wish my ex husband would sit down and talk to me like this. He was my best friend and now he treats me like a complete stranger.

@Neurodivergent_Nat

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way with my ex boyfriend...just dumped me and decided not to talk things out...

@ashleyb420

3 жыл бұрын

Is it just a guy thing? My husband jokes that if anything were to happen he knows we couldn’t be friends because I’m too nice and he’s a grudge holder.

@kreatorwithak4499

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashleyb420 it's a person thing.

@randohuy9446

3 жыл бұрын

How'd you wrong him?

@ilaria6984

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sure they will treat each other like strangers off camera

“we were that close to having ‘forever love’ which is sad” that got me. I don’t know why people are saying this is depressing, i loved this, two people being completely honest about their relationship and admitting they are not meant. not many are honest with themselves about this, let alone with each other.

@jelly2584

3 жыл бұрын

Its almost better than a love story because it’s so genuine.

@jamesrenard8347

3 жыл бұрын

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@selinablue7498

3 жыл бұрын

@Ashley there can be, but it should always be healthy. They weren’t healthy for each other anymore and that’s the point you split up😕

@michelleannor6944

3 жыл бұрын

@@redfishswimming Usually they do have an upgrade. But she seems really unambitious and not financially motivated. I think he actually will move on first.

@griffenerica

3 жыл бұрын

really funny how he said that considering how he almost cheated on her. the relationship was doomed after that. even if they didn’t have the incompatibility issues they talked about, the lack of trust on her part would have driven them apart.

I love how everyone suddenly becomes a psychologist after watching a cut video

*Bring them back we wanna see how their relationship changed*

@sabyayaas1318

Жыл бұрын

Give it another year.

I'm glad they realized a divorce was the option, rather than miserably being together for another 20 years just for the sake of it. Just to resent and hate that person over "time lost", like my parents do.

@gregor3757

3 жыл бұрын

This, exactly this! The quiet resentment that's in the air rather than openess about the past and leaving stuff behind

@tiaraanaffisaa

3 жыл бұрын

sunk cost fallacy isn't it

@rosedonna3946

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@k-savage2360

3 жыл бұрын

Shit like my grandparents

@moongodis777

3 жыл бұрын

exactly, eventually every little thing becomes an argument.

Guess its too early for the relationship psychology majors to tune in, gonna check in a few hours Edit: This blew up? Cool.

@francoisunger6466

3 жыл бұрын

Was looking for that too ! Guess i'll do that too

@mercymunoz1408

3 жыл бұрын

LMFAOO

@sathighosh764

3 жыл бұрын

He is an avoident partner and she is the anxious one.just tell me if I am right

@chinenyeezema525

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@aamy3170

3 жыл бұрын

LOOOOOOOOOOOOL dead

One of the most mature things I have ever seen on KZread. Amazing these two. Ver very healthy vibes

As a man I do love the way he’s communicating it’s a strong 10/10,super great to see another man be open and properly communicating

they look like they’re in an ll bean catalogue

@annabeldelfabbro3774

3 жыл бұрын

So truuuuue

@pandalover1238

3 жыл бұрын

I love it hahaha it looks so comfy

@Kindapple

3 жыл бұрын

sry what does 'll bean catalogue' mean?

@bluegill5192

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kindapple LL Bean is like a outdoor clothing brand

@Kindapple

3 жыл бұрын

bluegill oh I had no idea thx

4:27: "Yeah, it was months later." She's clearly got that moment seared into her mind.

@xanderallen5687

3 жыл бұрын

...and it was probably a week...

@meg-vl3up

3 жыл бұрын

@@xanderallen5687 doubt it, she seemed very certain and you don't forget stuff like that, the man definitely felt guilty so he would have wanted to make what he did sound less bad

@zh2266

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao up until around that point I thought she was fine. Defo a tiny bit of crazy in her

@TheCasualObservers

3 жыл бұрын

@@zh2266 nah it's just painful.

@7eddiii

3 жыл бұрын

@@xanderallen5687 nah bro girls are scary accurate with that stuff while as a guy we most certainly are not😂😂😂 my gf would be like you remember when you called me annoying at 3:04 Sunday afternoon March 18, 2012

4:27 bruh don’t argue with a girl about things like that they will remember that forever, if you liked her and didn’t cheat on her ever since that one time you almost did. I would of kept it to myself bro somethings are best left unsaid

He would take her back in a heartbeat; his responses are saturated in hopeful prospect, while hers are tainted with strict disconnect. He’s probably lost her forever.

No lie this producer should be a marriage therapist

@lvl5charmander

3 жыл бұрын

bro he’s creepy

@bomboospaghetti4121

3 жыл бұрын

He’s a fucking creep. Next thing you know, he’s gonna be asking if they like to collect each other’s childhood teeth.

@whenallelsfails21

3 жыл бұрын

Wtf are u talking about his form of counciling will involve him hiding in a closet to observe "performance". Yeah im good.

@virginoverlord238

3 жыл бұрын

"Do you still see her butt"

@kareemdabo4716

3 жыл бұрын

I might change this comment so when people look at the replies it makes all of u look like some horny ppl

Why tf are so many people here at least somewhat against their brake up. They made a mature decision bc they knew it wouldn't work in the long run

@nayag.4190

3 жыл бұрын

cause they're immature and live in a fairytale?

@rosecoloredbby

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think any one here is *against* it so much as they’re lamenting the end of this relationship which seems like a pretty mature, aware and respectful one. I’m sure everyone here is aware that it is their decision and for the best. Sometimes it’s sad to see a good (or at least once-good) relationship ending, even if it’s for the best and even if it’s not yours.

@sneekz07

3 жыл бұрын

People think they know the entirety of this relationship from a 6 minute video.

@haleycarson4129

3 жыл бұрын

I didn’t see them in a car?

@jamesrenard8347

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/nYSX2ZKolbXcl6Q.html

Whether he cheated or almost cheated, the relationship after that just isn’t the same anymore. Everything changes. We can’t simply forget even if you were remorseful. So glad I didn’t give my ex another chance after he cheated on me. Because if I did I would’ve been living miserably thinking when he would cheat on me again.

@theeagle5850

3 жыл бұрын

ikr

@firstlast9916

2 жыл бұрын

Thinking about cheating is not cheating. If it where then every single person on planet earth has been cheated on.

@jlehm

10 ай бұрын

@@firstlast9916considering women cheat emotionally almost everyday with all of the attention seeking on social media…at least every man who has been in a relationship with a woman has been cheated on.

@firstlast9916

10 ай бұрын

@@jlehm cheating and jealousy are based on a premise of stealing resources and time away from a married woman by engaging in sex with her husband. The biggest time and resource waster would be when the mistress get pregnant. There is no chance of a mistress getting pregnant by thinking about the mistress. You have to have sex.

@treysalter821

8 ай бұрын

Nah I disagree.. It may take a little time to get that trust back going, but most women don't leave due to cheating or "possible cheating". She found someone that she deems stronger, and its obvious that she's getting more enjoyment from this while the guy is clearly in pain. So, whether a man cheats or not is mostly irrelevant when it cones to longterm. It isn't until a woman sees her man as weak that her feelings change..

I liked that they barely drinked and just answered everything. nice insight

She’s so angry you can tell. Especially with the cheating question.

@combatcarl

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly I find it silly how much she's holding onto that, like it didn't even happen for christ sakes. Literally getting mad over nothing

@nilanjasa007

3 жыл бұрын

@@combatcarl it's not nothing. He backed out at last moment but he planned it. It's normal to get hurt as he didn't even shared that instantly.

@kos2932

3 жыл бұрын

Really? She was laughing all the time. How can you tell? I didn't notice anything.

@bgwhitesauce6948

3 жыл бұрын

@@kos2932 the way she laughed was awkward and if you watch her eyes a lot of squinting and slightly cutting him off

@cunt5413

3 жыл бұрын

@@bgwhitesauce6948 holy shit I thought we were the only ones

"We play World of Warcraft together." Say no more.

@arteonyx

3 жыл бұрын

no more

@RazzlyCrunch

3 жыл бұрын

I... I don’t get it

@RazzlyCrunch

3 жыл бұрын

@@nateg.6187 damn

@zanedixson8932

3 жыл бұрын

There's raid night... Then there's "raid" night

@lr4569

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t believe you’ve done this

It’s a good thing that divider was there for people who live in an RV together and sleep in the same bed.

The look on her face when he said he cried about it a lot just killed me.

He's a real man for admitting that he cried because the relationship ended.

@redflower4315

3 жыл бұрын

hes not a real person for almost cheating on her and lying about it for months

@mihajlobrankovic7039

3 жыл бұрын

@@redflower4315 bitch he ain't cheat and he talked about it

@gladiusnite5957

3 жыл бұрын

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@InnerMedium

3 жыл бұрын

@@redflower4315 Almost cheating isnt cheating and stopping yourself from cheating is incredibly difficult when you are in the moment. His choice was to stay faithful to her and she gave him 0 credit just like you are doing.

@niyanta2000

3 жыл бұрын

@@InnerMedium hmm weird that you say she gave him zero credit? Almost cheating would give anybody trust issues.

Man you can see him crying on the inside when they talk about being separate, and her already moved on.

@Rascon5

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly man, he's so fuckn emotional it's pretty cringe 😬

@kuro3864

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rascon5 nothing wrong with being emotional. Weak people are the ones that don’t show emotion. Also it seems like she still wants to be together just doesn’t show it because of how he wanted it to end.

@ryansprinkle9922

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rascon5 tf is wrong with you?

@grunklestan5652

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rascon5 boy. . . U cringe

@evaaguilar2759

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rascon5 aww he isn’t cringe for crying. he’s a hooman hehe, it’s normal to cry when losing what he described as “almost forever love”

This is making me feel like i've just woke up to an empty house and everyone else are at the party that i said i didnt want to go to.

"We play World of Warcraft together...." Ok im gonna ask my healer to go out with me someday

If autumn was a couple

@LaBayZe

3 жыл бұрын

lmaoo

@canererenson4096

3 жыл бұрын

Oh indeed

@efreitorkjelberg1646

3 жыл бұрын

I don't understand this :)

@lidyasertse8159

3 жыл бұрын

@@efreitorkjelberg1646 they just look mad cozy and just chill in general idk

@dionysuskatopodis419

3 жыл бұрын

So underrated

I sense he probably took her for granted in the beginning. Later on she found herself and moved on emotionally and now it’s all hitting him but it too late

@harrysmith1046

3 жыл бұрын

You just described my only real relationship

@greighenning9091

3 жыл бұрын

Not at all. 2:40 he focused on his career - for both of their sakes, (and avoided getting involved in disputes he had no influence over) whilst she was disinterested in helping him with his career. She's as toxic as they get. Poor chap, deserves someone decent. She's likely to learn the life lesson the hard way, after taking a ride on the carousel.

@amkolar

3 жыл бұрын

I'd be surprised if that were the case, it sounds like he was career oriented and she wasn't so they're just not right for eachother. He even said he tried to change/they tried to change. Out of curiosity tho what gives you that vibe?

@greighenning9091

3 жыл бұрын

@@amkolar They're married, living in a trailer, he's working hard at securing their (financial) future like a typical male, and she doesn't want to help him out, bearing in mind this is probably a typical hypergamous relationship, that doesn't sound like she's a nice person. Like the saying goes: women don't care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners. (Marriage is team work, especially if you're not wealthy and can't afford to loaf and maintain a decent lifestyle) - she was so bitter about helping him out that she had to divorce him. He came clean about considering tag-n-releasing when they were dating prior to their marriage, but she has not forgiven him about it, and goes on about having high virtues. She forgets that the chap declined the fling because he felt horrible, meaning he passed the litmus test, but she still grinds him about it, as if he did mess around. She 'had it in her mind that he was going to cheat on him at some stage in their relationship' - well, he didn't, yet she held him in contempt for it just in case he did do it. He was guilty of cheating in her mind, she was just waiting for confirmation which never came. She loved him more in the beginning, when he tried to break up a few times... There is something wrong/incompatible in their relationship for him to want to break up - we don't know what it is, but must be significant, even his dad dislikes her. She comes across as chirpy and easy to laugh, but that would be judging a book by its cover - she grew up, believed she could be independent and went for divorce, yet sleeps with him occasionally. Something not right about the whole process there. He still speaks endearingly about her, so I think if they saw a pro about their problems, they would find a way to stay together, as most couple do. Divorce seems over the top from the short clip.

@kylepatrickmaducdoc1719

3 жыл бұрын

@@greighenning9091 Dude this os exactly how i would say it. Spot on!

They still love each other you can tell 🥺

They seem like strangers this was heartbreaking to watch. Wish them both well

I know that It's for the good... But I just feel sad about The End of people's story. Oh booy

@daisytheislandgirl7877

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's the beginning of something even better🙂

@lumusjessica

3 жыл бұрын

@@daisytheislandgirl7877 yes! For sure!

@annabeldelfabbro3774

3 жыл бұрын

@@daisytheislandgirl7877 awww that’s a good glass half full attitude

@dalac_93

3 жыл бұрын

Stories have an end

@barrelracing771

3 жыл бұрын

i feel the same about story's ends :(

After a women finds out their mans cheated or got close to it or thought abt it everything changes. It’s not normal again.

@trappart9209

3 жыл бұрын

Why woman and not "person"? It's same for man.

@furahamwamba8999

3 жыл бұрын

@@trappart9209 bc the dude cheated on her and men cheat on women more

@trappart9209

3 жыл бұрын

@@furahamwamba8999 she is talking about women in general, not this particular couple. So it's rather about people, because me as a man get affected the same way as a woman, we are all human

@GR-dw9nm

3 жыл бұрын

@@trappart9209 They were talking about women specifically. If you want to talk about men, make your own post instead of crying "what about men" under posts like that. Nobody says "what about women" under posts about men.

@trappart9209

3 жыл бұрын

@@GR-dw9nm read original comment once again, and I am not crying don't show me your disrespect

Based on my own past relationship I can relate to this a lot and see a lot of similarities. In the beginning of my relationship I was all about my boyfriend while he seemed to not care so much but towards the end I was already moving on while he was starting to become crazy about me. When we broke up I was already moved on while he was just then taking it in.

@RDMGAMER

2 жыл бұрын

Ever hear the saying who ever cares the least has the control in the relationship? Yea well even tho it’s not always the case it usually is.

"Is it weird to talk about it?" "A little bit..." No, it is totally weird, but still funny...😂😂😂🤙

As someone that has been divorced. That guy isn’t comfortable. He is extremely sad. This wasn’t his idea

@_serenity3298

3 жыл бұрын

I got that vibe too yet she said he would always try to break up.

@KingTaarabt

3 жыл бұрын

Bro almost cheated on her. If he is sad he is an idiot...

@r.t4729

3 жыл бұрын

@@KingTaarabt but she's already got a dude lined up and wasn't ever invested in "their" future

@btjacked

3 жыл бұрын

Between the World of Warcraft. And her not giving a shit about having a career, or the future. I say good riddance.

@Leobs1996

3 жыл бұрын

@@KingTaarabt almost isnt cheating...

Damn these two have a better relationship than 90% of the couples that are still together that come on the show. You can tell they really care for and understand each other, they just both envisioned a future that was different from the other. Nice to see.

@gladiusnite5957

3 жыл бұрын

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@musicgal9830

3 жыл бұрын

g Maturity would be talking about all this important topics at the start of the relationship 😂

@Peer_Review

3 жыл бұрын

@@musicgal9830 sure but they change over time and even if they were going in the same direction at the start of the relationship, it doesn’t mean that will always be the case. They definitely seem mature, and even if they weren’t mature at the start the fact that the relationship matured them is a good sign

This comment section made me laugh so hard everyone is siding with their gender and making assumptions about the relationship based on their previous experiences I love it 😂😂😂

@debofaisbarika5510

2 жыл бұрын

You again, I love it.

@MonochromaticBananaBread

2 жыл бұрын

I know right? I keep reading comments from guys saying that the guy is hurting but I don't see it? 😅 From what I saw in the video he was less invested in the relationship that the girl was but even here in this video I don't think he's all that sad, but I'm not a guy so I wouldn't know for sure.

@sinless4088

2 жыл бұрын

@@MonochromaticBananaBread Feel like the guy is only just starting to process the breakup and the girl has already moved on in a way, if that makes sense. Might be completely wrong though..

@von6413

2 жыл бұрын

@@MonochromaticBananaBread from a guy’s perspective we can easily tell the pain behind his body language and the way he speaks about their past. He’s hurt but it still hasn’t registered completely for him.

@joshbranson12457

2 жыл бұрын

@@MonochromaticBananaBread You're just proving his point.

It seems like he still wants to be with her, but she’s done. It’s sad to watch them interact. Maybe they’ll find a way to work it out.

the way he said “was it months later?” and she was like “yeah😃 yeah it was ☺️”

@Brianna0yo

3 жыл бұрын

I could feel the rage LOL

@auroratapia8856

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha seriously 🤣

@captainkielbasa5471

3 жыл бұрын

He didn't cheat though so whats the fucking big deal. People make mistakes

@winry1890

3 жыл бұрын

@@captainkielbasa5471 the big fucking deal is he was planning to, so close to doing so. whether or not he proceeded to do it, just thinking of cheating on someone you've fully committed to is wrong. people make mistakes, yeah, and those mistakes should be recognized and everyone should be held accountable for them. even he unhesitantly admitted he did wrong, so why are you angry? are you a cheater?

@aarspi

3 жыл бұрын

@@winry1890 yo... you sound more angry by the response

Why do y’all seem to think they fit each other ? They literally said they don’t

@adindathasal

3 жыл бұрын

the worse part they say they 'should' be together

@carolinab2018

3 жыл бұрын

Cause people like conspiracy theories and drama

@shadyzbabii420

3 жыл бұрын

I dont see it. At all.

@jamesrenard8347

3 жыл бұрын

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@Arcaryon

3 жыл бұрын

I don't even get why they married. They seem mature enough to end a relationship in this manner and yet, decided to move so fast while apparently not knowing each other well enough to forsee problems in a relationship that could not be solved. Probably not too mature after all. Then again, who is...

wow you guys are so mature and nice people!! have a beautiful life

Damn! That was the most mature, yet uncomfortable conversations I’ve ever witnessed

I sensed deep pain when she said he almost cheated, a woman should feel confident that her marriage is built on trust... and she didn't. She deserves to feel that.

@harrysmith1046

3 жыл бұрын

Hes clearly in a alot of pain... She seem to be enjoying it... Probably punishment for that time he ALMOST cheated

@Ioniam1

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t see how u almost cheat either way if the thought crosses your mind you cheated, if you really In love you don’t think of other people like that ( edited for the idiots in the comments)

@tinyelephant77

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, trust takes years upon years to rebuild once there's been a breach. Don't do it, don't come close if you care about your relationship and don't want to deal with the consequences of broken trust for years or even decades.

@yinsomniac4128

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ioniam1 "You thought of murdering someone so you murdered"

@nottedeliziosaa

3 жыл бұрын

Yep and also he deserves to be forgiven for something he didnt do but confessed 🤷🏾‍♀️ also she talks to the worldcraft guy in front of him knowing it hurts him 🤧

i don't want them to separate. but at the same time don't want forced reln to ruin what they really have

@moonlight4780

3 жыл бұрын

Just because they seem easy-going with each other doesn't mean they're happy and compatible. We know NOTHING about their relationship

@terra5857

3 жыл бұрын

@@BubbaMaraj7241 darwin in your pfp 😭

@mihirmishra4481

3 жыл бұрын

@@moonlight4780 yes. That. Is. True

@mihirmishra4481

3 жыл бұрын

@@moonlight4780 but. A. Guy. Ca. Dream

@anthonypaul1220

3 жыл бұрын

@@mihirmishra4481 a guy can dream? seems a bit weird to me bc you literally don’t know these people one bit

I watch the cut videos because the comments under these are pure gold

Props to both of them for being so mature and clear headed about everything.

She looks so happy and joyful and he seems depressed

@goatofdeparture

3 жыл бұрын

it’s probably the case

@brandonbrisson4455

3 жыл бұрын

@Jo Beiafuq no he didn’t, we watching the same video dawg

@yz4043

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah because she dodged a bullet

@tt5167

3 жыл бұрын

He seems he is chasing money and selfish ambitions and she wants to rally for the underdogs in a way. I'm sure there is more to it than that but I do think too much self focus leads to depression. You feel better helping others, even if it's tiny. It's better to thinking helping someone a little bit is better than a nihilistic approach of "it will never matter."

@bat1096

3 жыл бұрын

@@tt5167 nah, money matters if he feels like money is a priority she should make time to get that

3:13 - Damn, that's hella heartbreaking.

@AntoineBandele

3 жыл бұрын

Also this guy (and gal) are crazy mature.

@mechinese1987

3 жыл бұрын

Antoine the goat, love and appreciate all the work you did for JK. You a real one fam

@jonathanfoster4202

3 жыл бұрын

YO ANTOINE i love your videos😩😩

@lesherbivores3732

3 жыл бұрын

I had to pause because it made me so sad for a good minute.

@tvtitlechampion3238

3 жыл бұрын

To see it, and...

When she said world of warcraft I got a smile on my face so stretched out it almost reached the back of my head.

He thought about cheating on her when they were dating. He didn't say he had another girl, he said he got close to finding one but didn't because he felt bad about it? How many of y'all have looked at another person and thought about it? WHY would he EVER tell her about that?

Very different circumstances but the feel of this conversation hit close to home. My ex and I got along famously but I was always the one more invested in our relationship, doing what was needed to make it work. 8 years in, married, he hit rock bottom in his struggle with depression and things got real honest. He told me straight up that I loved him more than he loved me, but that he needed me more than I needed him. I really did love him though and we got past it. 12 years in, doing a lot better with his mental health, he told me that he'd fallen in love with a friend of his. That it was a done deal and they were going to start a relationship... but he still wanted me to stay anyways. Say what? I asked for a few days to think it over, but finally decided that although I wished him well I couldn't stay. Too many lies, too many secrets, too many years of trying that ultimately counted for nothing. So I let him go. Four months later things fell through with his new love and he wanted me back. He missed me. His life was empty now. But although I still wished him well I just had nothing left to give anymore. My love was exhausted. Four years later and I'm doing alright with my own life now, but I don't think he's ever really moved on. And it's sad. Tldr - value what you have (and who you have) when you have it. I don't regret my marriage, and I don't regret my choice to leave it when he no longer valued me the way I valued myself. But still, having loved and lost is a bittersweet thing. Update, 2023: Been 6 years now since my marriage ended and I remembered this post. Thanks to anyone who replied or showed interest in how I was doing. So here it is - left to my own devices for the first time in my adult life, I stayed single for several years and chased dreams that I had always had. I grew a beautiful garden, I traveled internationally, I finally learned how to ride a motorcycle... and loved it so much that I sold my car in favor of riding full time, lol. Eventually I dated a little but finally decided to just live my best life and meet someone naturally. And I did. One day I happened to meet an incredibly lovely, caring, smart man, and we've been together now for over a year, and it's been really real and special. Life is good, and I'm just appreciating every minute.

@snehashajan969

3 жыл бұрын

❤

@Laura-jx7il

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing, it makes me sad to hear that but I’m glad you made the right decision for your and chose yourself first. Not many can do that

@dingidingibang1720

2 жыл бұрын

damn never thought i will stumbled upon a movie caliber true story in youtube comment, hats off to you. any updates on your life ?

@adrenaltiara0557

2 жыл бұрын

@@dingidingibang1720 exactly what I thought. Like I would read that book while crying and smiling all at the same time!

@eagillum

2 жыл бұрын

He sounds like an enneagram type 4.

Shakes his legs when they talk about what it would take to get back together. Probably something he wants to do but can't make himself say it out aloud.

@rickroma

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah he probably still loves her and does want to get back together, but their priorities and life goals are so different that separating is probably for the better

@Forgivefull

3 жыл бұрын

Give up the idea of being wealthy and live on fairytale and dreams

@dom.rockchalkjayhawk.8990

3 жыл бұрын

Cause that would involve not living the life hes been working so hard to live

"We're that close of having forever love" Geez :(

I am somehow happy and sad for them at the same time. Hope they find the right ones

this is proof of "exes can be friends"

@BizarreAvenir

3 жыл бұрын

Exes with benefits

@b2dr901

3 жыл бұрын

Never

@Mel7eds

3 жыл бұрын

@@halifaxdarkrecords1548 depends on the situation tbh. If they were toxic or still have extreme feelings I wouldn’t want anything to do with them

@halifaxdarkrecords1548

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mel7eds I can understand that, but in general I feel most people break up for such small reasons, if they say back down and chatted about it, they could be civil again. Idk, I definitely get what you’re saying though.

@michalka2766

3 жыл бұрын

@@halifaxdarkrecords1548 for me it‘s not about being hurt but still loving that person even though they have moved on. Thats why i can‘t be friends although i‘d want to, but it just wouldn‘t be healthy. Maybe someday in the future...